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Not sure where you're getting that from, the general consensus from the replies here seem to be clear that we're willing to help those who want to help themselves. If you're one of those people, then you're more than welcome. What we don't want is people who want to just complain and be content with a lifestyle that doesn't strive to improve itself.
/r/seduction08/04/12 11:02 PM
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Agreed. And I think most of us agree that this: posters coming from other subreddits specifically self pitying areas like forever alone. Is a big problem with a potential to become a bigger one.
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:38 PM
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I think I saw that too, tbh. But I just downvoted and didn't finish reading---wasn't the type of seduction I'm interested in. But I highly doubt he used the highly inappropriate and hilarious word "fingerblasting".
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:07 AM
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Again, got nothing against the man. Just happened to use his post as an example.
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:11 AM
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Proof! I was going to ask him for the same thing, but I've given up hope I'd ever get such examples. A few weeks ago on the okcupid subreddit I called someone out and asked for a single example of what he was claiming we talk about here: Link And I got 100% downvotes, no replies. Their hypocrisy...feels good man
/r/seduction08/04/12 05:10 AM
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How many people can you fit on a rescue ship before the entire thing sinks and everyone on it dies?
/r/seduction08/04/12 03:23 AM
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As I mentioned elsewhere, see my replies to, and subsequent discussion following, that post.
/r/seduction08/04/12 03:06 AM
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welcome, and glad to hear you decided to make that change. But I still think we should pull back and not advertise, because for every genuinely interested, open-minded person like yourself, we are attracting way too much crap posters who clog up and diminish the quality of discussion here at the home base; then go off and spread more misinformation about what we're about. Sorry, but I don't think it's worth that trade-off.
/r/seduction07/04/12 11:34 PM
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Nice. It's true, I definitely feel like I lose part of my soul every time.
/r/seduction07/04/12 11:05 PM
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I'm curious; what do they say?
/r/seduction07/04/12 10:57 PM
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Wow, your humility impresses and humbles me. Very refreshing after a long day of fighting on the internet. Thank you.
/r/seduction07/04/12 07:01 PM
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regarding that post's "reasonableness", see: my responses to and subsequent discussion following the post you linked. Thank you for providing another example of why we don't want to advertise excessively to the rest of reddit.
/r/seduction07/04/12 06:27 PM
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Oh yes, let me clarify that I don't want to "condemn" him for it either; it's a very noble effort and good on him for trying. I'm just worrying about the larger effects which serve to undermine the value of this subreddit and its discussions.
/r/seduction07/04/12 05:52 PM
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Why cant people just have a good time without a secondary objective? Who's saying he didn't have fun too? If you don't have the cognitive capacity to also know that there ARE complex psychosocial dynamics underlying all sorts of interactions like these, then damnit, just close your eyes to it like everyone else and move on. The rest of us choose to understand these things and that's why we're here. I can still have fun while noticing what's going on.
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:28 PM
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People should only learn to be better at something if they are already good at it? Um....no
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:56 PM
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Body language is important in seduction.
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:18 PM
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Happy for you and your boyfriend. But relationships out of friendships are still much, much less likely to happen than they are, and it's not helpful to give guys who get friendzoned a lot false hope. It's like telling poor people, "keep buying lottery tickets, because sometimes people win!"
/r/seduction08/03/12 03:48 AM
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Three claims need to be separated: Do I agree the survey uses arbitrary data? No. Do I agree the survey is helpful? No, I think that the data is helpful if you understand what it is. Do I agree the survey is flawed? No, it doesn't claim to be any more than it is, which is a map of how many singles there are of each gender relative to the other.
/r/seduction06/03/12 11:06 PM
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You're terrible at science. You should look up what "anecdotal" evidence is and why it's generally not accepted. Because that's what you've provided here.
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:04 PM
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It seems reasonable to suppose that a city with much more single women than men would mean that a random woman you run into is more likely to have less options available to her, and therefore be more open to meeting you.
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:06 AM
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How so? The fact that California and the East Coast are polar opposites here but mostly Democrat makes any correlation between party affiliation and what this picture measures seem unlikely.
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:04 AM
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How is it arbitrary? imagine the average girl in El Paso and the average girl in SF or Oakland... Now that is arbitrary.
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:02 AM
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She told me she gya irritated by my sms. She doent pick up my call until 3rd attempt. Are you trolling?
/r/seduction01/03/12 08:34 AM
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Sorry to hear that man. At least now you got that experience under your belt, and it should be easier next time to keep that right attitude. You've now been reminded of what life's like when you let it go! Brush that shit off and get back to work son
/r/seduction01/03/12 05:46 AM
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Sociopaths are often very charming in person.
/r/seduction07/02/12 10:31 PM
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I think abundance mentality was a huge part of what allowed me to hook up with her anyways. I really believe that's true. So just be careful not to lose that mentality no matter what happens with this girl!
/r/seduction30/01/12 06:50 PM
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Fuck status quo you CAN alter it. I think that's true but there's a reason this sort of advice is harmful to newbies---it encourages them to spend time with their one-itises that have friend zoned them years ago rather than develop a mentality that there are tons of other girls out there. Developing a healthy fear of slipping in to the friend zone tends to make them more likely to break out of that nice guy persona, I think.
/r/seduction30/01/12 03:43 PM
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I actually feel better when I see people badmouthing seddit, it means there will be less AFCs here and more people who take the time to study the material and apply it, and share their experiences.
/r/seduction30/01/12 03:25 PM
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Good stuff, thanks for posting. Always nice to see a fellow asian with an optimistic view about all of this. Just curious, how did it turn out with the dancer girl?
/r/seduction01/01/12 01:50 AM
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but it doesn't mean he shouldn't drive a honda until then.
/r/seduction26/12/11 03:10 AM
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Thanks. Also, a few other questions come to mind. I'm just trying to get a mental picture of what it looks like, which is hard to transmit through the internet. What does your mouth look like? Are you usually with your mouth completely shut? Slightly smirking? As for your eyes themselves, are they kind of half-squinted in that "bedroom eyes" position? Or are they attentively wide open? Seems to me like getting these fine details wrong could make it real easy to accidentally give a "creepy stare.…
/r/seduction04/12/11 08:51 PM
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OP, how long do you find is best to focus on each "point" of the triangle?
/r/seduction04/12/11 04:56 PM
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We've all been in that similar position. You've painted yourself into a corner and everytime someone offers you a way out you make an excuse, man. For example: Done that many times but it is really difficult to put on that fake smile and confidence and usually people see right through it. Who gives a crap? Fake it until you get better at faking it. I do initiate contact with people every time but it just goes nowhere. Then work on it more! If it were easy everyone would have unlimited friends. H…
/r/seduction03/12/11 09:34 PM
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So what the hell do you want from us then?
/r/seduction03/12/11 08:56 PM
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Want to know why you're walking around alone with a hint of despair in your eyes? Because you're walking around alone WITH A HINT OF DESPAIR IN YOUR EYES. Seriously there's no magic potion someone will throw on you. You have to decide, RIGHT NOW, you're done acting like this man! Start by reading the stuff to the right >>>>>
/r/seduction03/12/11 08:12 AM
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It's saying stop convincing yourself you're going to fail before you even try. Too often, thoughts prevent us from talking to girls, things like "well I'm not good enough," "she's too hot," whatever. Dump that shit and just do it.
/r/seduction26/10/11 04:53 AM
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I like this. He's a fellow pua, and as long as he doesn't try to steal her from you after he realizes she's with you, why try to destroy his approach anxiety with negative reinforcement? Wish him luck (implicitly of course) and encourage him to try again.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:59 AM
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I searched through the capital district area meetup.com groups, I was pretty disappointed. Mostly women-only groups or new age / super christian stuff. Fibromyalgia it is!
/r/seduction14/09/11 12:13 AM
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rpi student?
/r/seduction13/09/11 11:45 PM
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well that is some of the stupidest stuff I've ever seen. AFCs trying to better themselves just can't catch a break.
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:21 AM
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I read most of what gets posted here, and I might be missing what you guys are talking about. What kinds of things do they say? I'm not clear on what exactly "PUA Hate" is.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:56 AM
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Lol nice. I've been considering deleting a bunch of false starts from my phone. What do you say when they do text you again?
/r/seduction14/08/11 09:44 PM
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nicely done. Were these European girls or tourists?
/r/seduction01/08/11 03:16 PM
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Very interesting. I wonder if this conflicts with the neoteny theory of human evolution though (described in "The Red Queen") which says that we evolved to find youthful features more attractive.
/r/seduction30/07/11 05:15 PM
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keep in mind that the population for that data is skewed somewhat, the guys who go on okcupid are presumably less able to get dates in real life, and when girls go there they get hundreds of messages with minimal effort. My feeling is that in real life, asian guys (myself included) behave differently, like other posts here have suggested.
/r/seduction19/07/11 02:39 PM
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The data was given in terms of percentage responded based on messages sent out. That's not so much dependent on absolute numbers. That being said, the rate of reply when asian males message white girls was 21%, while for white males messaging white girls it was 29%. That's certainly statistically significant but not by enough to totally dishearten asian guys. It just means you have to talk to one more girl.
/r/seduction19/07/11 10:20 AM
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well maybe 'shadow network' was a bit dramatic, but I imagined this as a five minute thing: talk about it, form a quick group, done. And then maybe once a month or so when someone needs that boost, 30 seconds of comment writing.
/r/seduction06/07/11 06:09 AM
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It's pretty clear nobody can or should rely on this type of thing completely, and that self improvement (body, mind, "soul") in and of itself should be the primary focus of anyone studying seduction theory. That being said I don't think there's any problem in using things like this to further things along, give that extra little push when needed. Are you against using wingmen to hype your value, and helping them out in return? Talking to girls you're not attracted to, just to develop your own co…
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:33 PM
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Let's iron out details here
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:17 PM
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Let's iron out details here
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:17 PM
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Let's iron out details here
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:15 PM
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Let's iron out details here
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:14 PM
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Let's iron out details here
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:14 PM
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Let's iron out details here
/r/seduction05/07/11 09:13 PM
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Gives me a great idea. PUAs in training friend each other. When in need of fake social value, they send out messages to the others, and the people on the list will comment on their page, status, etc to make them look good. Online wingmen type of thing. Who's down?!
/r/seduction05/07/11 05:51 AM
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Wait, so HB7 was successfully opened and talked to by ALPHA, but you got the hug and text at the end of the night? Also: I never would've thought ALPHA would've been so goddamn money tonight. [...] he's Indian. lol
/r/seduction02/07/11 01:35 PM
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Hooooooly crap that was long. Let me copy and paste from another post I wrote. I think as a general rule of thumb, if you find yourself racking your brain trying to figure out what she's thinking, then you've got oneitis and you need to go for someone else. Abundance mentality would require that you don't spend too much energy on "how can I fix this situation", instead spend it on "how can I do the next one better". Don't know what abundance mentality is? Then you haven't read the sidebar and sh…
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:07 AM
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I think it's hard to make it interesting when you start with peanut butter, already it's something not very interesting. Maybe go "okay so check this out, the reason I need peanut butter is, and let me get your opinion on this...(insert interesting funny story / DHV here, with opinion question at the end)". And re-reading your description of the second girl, I'm getting the picture that she's one of those chicks that's moderately attractive who hangs out with nerds because they shower her with a…
/r/seduction03/05/11 06:39 AM
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Were you having trouble keeping the first girl interested? What were you talking about before you said that line where you mentioned she was cute? (Or was it all about peanut butter?) And the second part sounds like classic shit test. But I'm going to leave this for someone more experienced because I'm curious to see what others would do in that situation as well.
/r/seduction03/05/11 05:38 AM
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Probably getting downvoted by the forever aloners who want to see posts about "how do I get this girl I'm in love with without having to shower?" Nice job, man. Are you indian? I'm always rooting for fellow non-typical caucasian looking guys to demonstrate effective PUAing.
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:26 PM
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A taller black dude came up to us and asked point blank why a bunch of good looking girls was with a guy like me. What happened after that? How did this one end up?
/r/seduction28/03/11 01:25 PM
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yeah, at least a profile description and maybe a description of his main profile pic and other pics shouldn't be too hard though.
/r/seduction24/03/11 06:00 PM
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Speaking of logistics, do you have any sample profile pics / your profile you can show us? Edit: For research purposes, of course. It'll help us get some context on this story.
/r/seduction24/03/11 02:45 PM
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Gah I thought this would be about being a PUA while being asian yourself.
/r/seduction01/03/11 10:08 PM
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I couldn't find one after a quick google search, you might have better luck. Just search for Keys to the VIP, Season 1, episode 7 : Eryk the great vs. Pretty boy ford.
/r/seduction26/02/11 07:11 PM
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PUA sources that I've read say that they absolutely do. I only half believed it myself until I saw this, though. Just...still in shock. But that's the reason for my post, I wonder if she lied to him initially, or she does have a boyfriend and is now willing to cheat?
/r/seduction26/02/11 08:16 AM
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So what is a good response to something like "Is that your pickup line?" Would it be something like just changing the subject, not responding to what she says? On a side note--wouldn't it be awesome if there were a kinect game or something that analyzed your body language and helped you project it more assertively?
/r/seduction21/02/11 04:32 PM
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NYC has all the fun damnit. I'm in the Albany area.
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:04 AM
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oh god no a downvote?! I'm mellltiinnngg
/r/seduction09/01/11 11:43 PM
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Why don't you go be authentic somewhere else? Douche. Oh did you get a little mini erection when OP validated your little "I'm special and mom says girls will like me for being me" mentality there? Good for you.
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:41 PM
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Sounds like a good night. I get the vibe that the lawyer chick was in to you pretty much the whole time though, like she was out looking for some anonymous sex. I'm curious about her mentality, could you tell us how old she looked, how she dressed / presented herself?
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:29 PM
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Sounds like she's been burned before. But no matter. What works works, attraction isn't a choice. Just gotta work harder to stand out and make your game look "natural" to her. You gonna try with her? Let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:39 AM
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honestly the biggest deterrent for this urge is experience. When you realize how much it kills your chances with her you build up a negative association with that sort of behavior and mentality in general.
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:34 AM
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lol I'm gonna try this. Just curious, what time do you usually go? I notice there's a different crowd and type of girl/probability of her being there with her boyfriend around the store depending on the time of day.
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:32 AM
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ahh lol that makes more sense then
/r/seduction25/12/10 08:24 PM
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points to the side bar >>>>
/r/seduction23/12/10 03:22 AM
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you could take that entire post and use it as an opinion opener (with some slight modifications). "Hey ladies, quick question. A couple of months ago blablabla women men lblabla empathy compassion. But I thought that was total BS! Do women really feel that way?"
/r/seduction22/12/10 10:42 AM
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Someone else mentioned this in another recent post, too lazy to look it up. But they said a funny thing to do would be: after she says "Jack and coke!" you look at the bartender and say "yeah, a jack and coke!" and talk to the girl while waiting. Then when the drink comes you grab it, chug it down right in front of her and walk away! (Or say something like, "oh you didn't think this was for you, did you?")
/r/seduction22/12/10 10:39 AM
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Dude fix yourself first. Why do YOU want a relationship with this girl? All of this just sounds like you pining over some girl that probably isn't worth it in the first place. One-itis kills developing relationships, you need to start talking to other girls. Either she'll see it, get jealous, and stop fucking using you, or you'll find someone better and not care either way.
/r/seduction22/12/10 10:36 AM
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because what's best for you in the long run doesn't always make you happy right away. I would say more often than not you hate life lessons as they are occurring, but you end up being better people because of them.
/r/seduction22/12/10 10:30 AM
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I disqualify myself by saying I don't like black chicks Holy crap, that seems like the sort of neg that could backfire quickly (especially if overheard by the wrong people...political correctness and all). Did you say it exactly like that, or how did you word it?
/r/seduction21/12/10 09:06 PM
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I take this to heart, because what I tend to do is treat them inversely according to their rating. 1's through 4's I'm typically cordial, 5's to 7's I treat them just like a regular guy, and HB8+ I am usually borderline rude to them unless they prove to me they're more than pretty faces. The amount this has changed my game is phenomenal.
/r/seduction02/12/10 10:02 AM
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The last girl I was with, this worked on two occasions. The first time was before we started dating, she was studying with a mutual friend. When I came by I was super nice to the mutual friend (I was very close with her whereas I barely knew the future girlfriend) and hugged her and all that friendly stuff but didn't give any of that to the other girl. That ended up showing her how cool it would be to be "accepted" into my social circle, as long as it's EARNED (important part). The second time w…
/r/seduction02/12/10 09:57 AM
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