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reyawaworht/r/seduction01/11/11 03:36 PM
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I think I saw this elsewhere, but an awesome one to do if you're both standing is to play that wrestling game where you can't move your feet. Basically just stand, face her, and get her to put your palms on her palms. The object is to get the other person to move their feet. Last time I did it, the girl headbutted me playfully, we ended up making out like 2 minutes later. Obviously it's harder to do sitting down or in some circumstances.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:54 PM
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Just do this. Lapse in conversation? Give her your hand, then start the thumbwars chant thing (1,2,3,4 I declare a thumb war) and she'll catch on.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:50 PM
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There should be a giant disclaimer after all these that says "If you haven't been friendzoned." I mean, pretty much anytime a girl you've JUST met hints that she wants to spend time with you one-on-one, or gives you a golden opportunity to suggest that, it's on. A lot of the things above could happen between friends, though and not be interpreted as a sign of attraction, definitely keep that in mind. For instance, my female friends constantly ask me about whether i'm dating someone
/r/seduction03/12/11 03:52 PM
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Bold and direct, it will work well if you are at least decently good looking and have good body language and can deliver that line well. That is a huge challenge, but if you can do it, more power to you. Obviously be prepared for rejection, but that's the case anywhere. Ultimately it shows that you're bold and just go for what you want, which is a huge fucking plus and ultimately the right attitude to have. Your odds of success might go up if you work in a joke or you have more of a conversation…
/r/seduction29/11/11 10:50 PM
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It just emphasizes how important it is to ALWAYS create as much of a connection and attraction as possible in the first meeting, and always escalate as far as you can while maintaining the push/pull. Never settle for the number just because you're tired or whatever, always push the interaction as far as you can. Also emphasizes that it's important to figure out when the stuff you're reading was written...some of the older game literature has advice about texting/calling that is straight awful no…
/r/seduction29/11/11 10:42 PM
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I'll play the game: 1) "Hovering" around someone else's social interaction is a major no-no. I don't even know if it looks that bad but it FEELS soul-crushing. 2) No drink buying for girls you don't know, worst opener ever 3) Don't get hammered to get "in state" 4) Should have just jumped in with your wing and started approaching 5) Don't just "brush it off" when people start talking to you 6) Gotta get in state before dancing becomes fun, but otherwise I can relate, sometimes you just aren't fe…
/r/seduction26/11/11 01:04 AM
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Not really, though I have a bad habit of discussing dating too much with girls I date and revealing that I used some of the same stuff on other women. Not like lines or anything, but stuff like thumb wars and marry, kill, fuck. I use very little canned material, though, except for a few classics. Unfortunately I run a lot of social circle game, so I can't reuse too much (Also, small town).
/r/seduction26/11/11 12:56 AM
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Do you take much time to step back from your nights and really examine your behavior and try to figure out what it is you're doing wrong?
/r/seduction26/11/11 12:45 AM
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There's a key distinction in that you DO care about getting women, but you don't care about getting an individual woman. Seduction is all about improving yourself so you can get women. But where people get into trouble is with things like oneitis, and outcome dependance, etc. where they are unable to see the "big picture" and only care about getting laid THAT exact night or with THAT exact woman. I REALLY care about getting women, because women are awesome and I want to understand and connect wi…
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:26 AM
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Noticed you got downvoted, but I think you have a valid point. Seduction by itself is just a set of tools. It's not inherently evil or good. Where the search for nobility and respectability comes in is through the fact that many men ARE, on the whole, respectable and good (or at least want to appear respectable and good, but I won't get into THAT debate). They search for a way to apply the seduction techniques in a way that is congruent with that. And since congruence is a big part of seduction,…
/r/seduction22/11/11 12:21 AM
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Shit like this will happen, don't beat yourself too much about it. But don't let your mind play tricks on you, there have been many times I THOUGHT I said the wrong thing but didn't. Just wait and see, don't apologize because it may not have been a mistake you actually made. The other day I was an hour away from my house, on a trip, and I could have SWORN I didn't lock my door. Came really close to turning around and coming back, and it bugged me all day. Of course I came home a few days later t…
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:37 PM
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I think it's a major sticking point with people. I know I simply hate being dishonest and I don't feel good when I feel like i've "Manipulated" someone. Lowers their value in my mind and then I don't feel like hanging out with them as much. It's really like this - I feel much better about the type of girls I date when i'm bringing GENUINE value to the table. As opposed to focusing on lowering HER value so she'll date me. I just feel better about the connection I form with someone under positive …
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:03 PM
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Totally agree. I really didn't hear ANYTHING about this philosophy until I started listening to "Pickup Podcast" (AJ and Jordan), which also introduced me to a much more positive side of pickup/seduction. Anyways, I can definitely relate. A year after college I would hold a lot of parties with the sole intention of hitting on the girls that came over. I didn't spend any time on making sure people were actually having fun. As a result, not many girls actually would come to my parties and they gen…
/r/seduction21/11/11 06:56 PM
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Awesome, glad it worked for you! Hope you get the day2.
/r/seduction18/11/11 09:34 PM
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I think the message here isn't that all girls don't have standards, it's that there are girls who will sleep with you quite easily if you just approach them. Not every girl everywhere, but if you approach enough and talk to enough of them, you'll find that some of them are just horny as fuck and will give you SO much leeway that it's really hard to fuck it up.
/r/seduction18/11/11 07:51 PM
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Absolutely. Some things often work pretty long term, ESPECIALLY if you're in a smaller town. You run into someone once but it fizzles, but then the next time you run into her you're much comfortable around each other so it can go further. NEVER be a dick, often times there really are logistical reasons why she can't/won't hang out with you (e.g. she's actually super busy or is kind of seeing someone else).
/r/seduction17/11/11 10:15 PM
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Yup, same here. My easiest dates ever are the ones where I show up and the girl will just go on and on about herself, reduces the pressure on me SO much to come up with new conversational topics. Unfortunately they're rarer.
/r/seduction16/11/11 08:58 PM
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The philosophy is out there, maybe not for that exact situation. And obviously it requires some calibration, you don't want to lose your target completely by 100% blowing her off after kissing her. It's just the normal push-pull mentality, get her chasing you and wanting more. This is kind of the stage of my game i'm at now, I can get makeouts pretty frequently but i'm getting frustrated that the makeouts generally aren't leading to more.
/r/seduction16/11/11 08:30 PM
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Same principle works well for same night lays. If she lets you kiss her (in the club), kiss her once deeply then back away (before she does) and go back to the party. Then come back to her later on in the night, kiss her again, and then back away. Eventually she'll start chasing you and wondering why you aren't like all the other guys who can't stop clawing after her after they kiss. Basically if she knows she can get sex with you right away, she's not going to want it. It's REALLY difficult whe…
/r/seduction15/11/11 06:39 PM
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Those are the most frustrating nights. The nights where you know it's on, where you can feel it, but then some fucking logistics get in the way that you had no way of planning for.
/r/seduction15/11/11 06:26 PM
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Yep. You can be an asshole and not have anything together and get women. Will you be happy, though? Probably not. Who wants to be with a girl who likes being treated like shit? Happy relationships are all about being positive.
/r/seduction07/11/11 06:49 PM
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Depends on the type and qualify of women you want to attract. I disagree if you don't care about quality, I think you can always have women knocking down your door with solid game unless you're completely fucked in all the other ways (e.g. homeless). I've known guys (not friends or anything) who have hot girlfriends who basically support them entirely while they play video games all day. The girls complain but never do much about it. Of course, these girls aren't the highest quality girls of the…
/r/seduction07/11/11 06:43 PM
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I really want to do this now, i've heard amazing things about it.
/r/seduction07/11/11 05:00 PM
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Yeah, think of all the things you can't use over text that help in person. Body language, tone of voice, eye contact...all impossible to convey over text. I hate texting as a way of creating attraction.
/r/seduction04/11/11 05:20 PM
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Not really. First time I had sex and had a girlfriend I didn't have another for over a year. Right afterward I was all confident and felt like I could pick up any girl, but after a year I was pretty much back where I started in terms of confidence (low). You need it to be repeatable success for life to really be different.
/r/seduction04/11/11 05:12 PM
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I don't have enough data to back this up, but thinking about it and my past experiences, I would recommend just going for some light kino. Like if she's sitting at the bar waiting for you, you come up, put your hand on her shoulder to grab her attention, then slide it somewhere else on her body more convenient as you sit down. I wouldn't actually go for a hug/kiss greeting, maybe it's me or my area's culture, but I never see guys go for a kiss on the cheek. When I go for a kiss I only go for a r…
/r/seduction04/11/11 05:05 PM
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Mostly agree, but to play devil's advocate, I think there are some situations where it could come up naturally and be a turn on. Like if you're discussing sex, shes really open about it, and you're like, "well, lets see how the pros do it" or something. Could grease the wheels a bit. Just saying "I dare you to watch porn with me" out of the blue really won't work with a girl who isn't going to sleep with you anyways though. Could definitely backfire if you also don't know shes open about sex. Th…
/r/seduction04/11/11 04:58 PM
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The way to have abundance mentality is to have an abundance. That's really the only way to have it for real. It's "fake it until you make it". You, right now, are mentally acknowledging that you have oneitis for this girl. You know this is bad. So you do not ACT like you have oneitis for this girl. Then, eventually, by not acting like a person who often gets oneitis, you get more women and eventually become this person. Same goes for pretty much all of the inner game stuff, like confidence. You …
/r/seduction04/11/11 04:48 PM
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For the last part, I definitely can relate. Relationships are a lot about perception. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't vibe with me and doesn't agree with me that i'm awesome. Not saying that she has to worship me or that i'm on some sort of ego-trip, but good relationships are based around positive feelings. I think it's good to be understood as awesome for the SAME reasons that YOU think you're awesome. I've dated girls who thought I was awesome because they thought I was good looki…
/r/seduction03/11/11 05:29 PM
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This does sound like you've got some serious social anxiety and that therapy may help a LOT. Talk to a family member if you have trouble setting something like that up, it might be tough but ultimately it's going to be better for you if you address your problems. Of course, one way to force yourself into it would be to pay for a PUA bootcamp where they take you all out to bars and do a lot of positive reinforcement to encourage you to approach. Here's my general approach anxiety advice, though p…
/r/seduction03/11/11 05:12 PM
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It's all about tone and delivery, but i've met so many girls who HATE being told to "smile". I guess the whole "Who the hell are you?" kind of thing might lighten it up, but I think the start would put up so many shields. Kneel down sounds great though for someone you've just met. I really love using Roosh V's "Breakup" routine, where he will tell a girl he just met that because she doesn't like him some way that he's breaking up with her. Great segue into banter.
/r/seduction03/11/11 04:49 PM
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My personal advice: Don't think about it. Walk up to a girl, just say SOMETHING. Say "Hey, i'm XXX, nice to meet you". Or just "Hi". Damn openers don't matter barely at all to someone just starting out. Point is to engage a lot of people.
/r/seduction03/11/11 03:06 AM
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When I first started I loved texting because I could think of a good response to stuff without worrying about all the other stuff I was bad at (body language, tone of voice, eye contact, etc.). Now I hate it because i'm much better at all those things, and it's frustrating not to be able to use them. At the point where I may just start calling girls unless we've established enough rapport that she can "imagine" my tone of voice
/r/seduction02/11/11 07:03 PM
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Doesn't really apply...since i don't want to get married right now. Am mostly looking to just improve my skills with women, in particular hot women. Also if I WERE looking to get married I think i'd want someone who was both the "hot girl" and the "sure girl".
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:53 PM
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Both caffeine and alcohol can help you get into state, but they can also work against you if you are not being healthy in other ways. If I don't get sleep well, caffeine will really hurt me when talking to people because i'll feel unnaturally energetic and kind of "stretched thin". Similarly, if i'm tired and drink alcohol i'll only get more tired. Obviously getting dependant on either is bad as well. But I have observed the same thing with low energy and depression. I get depressed once in a wh…
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:48 PM
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Think it's just ADHD culture. We're used to constant entertainment. I honestly have to force myself NOT to do this, otherwise i'll spend lunch buried in my phone when I could be having a conversation with a waitress.
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:35 PM
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I think your "good points" are all pretty obvious, of course i'm not gonna be friends with a dude who steals shit all the time. Finding good friends is a little bit deeper than that. Here's my list for someone who I'd want as a good friend: Nearly always positive. People who are excessively negative will make YOU negative. Does not excessively talk shit about people behind their backs. A little jab here and there is one thing, but doing it excessively is two-faced Adds value to the group as a wh…
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:26 PM
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Point taken. Will add this or something like it to my process.
/r/seduction01/11/11 05:54 PM
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I have trouble with this too. ANYONE who meets a lot of people will have trouble with this, you SHOULD have trouble with this. Honestly, the best thing to do is to not worry about it. Think about this - when you go to a bar, and someone comes up to YOU that you knew and forgets your name, what do you think? Do you think "What an asshat, I can't believe he/she forgot me?" or do you think "Well, he/she might just be a busy person who meets a lot of people?". Probably the latter. Even if you had a …
/r/seduction01/11/11 05:19 PM
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Hard to say what you're missing really - it sounds like you've got the pieces in place. Maybe you're being too intense? I don't find passion or conviction to be giant attraction builders for me, just being "high energy" is what I usually go for. I would just DHV, DHV, DHV - work on your stories and make sure you can deliver them and that they're saying the things about you that you WANT them to say. Tell stories that involve friends, other girls, physical activities you're involved in, etc. Also…
/r/seduction01/11/11 05:06 PM
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Hmm I like the concept - have you used this before a lot? I see upsides and downsides to it, it seems most of the advice I read is that girls don't want to make up their mind in advance about whether they want to sleep with you?
/r/seduction01/11/11 04:50 PM
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