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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | How to become self-motivated? | rhcprocks | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 01:04 AM |
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| 2 | Philly SedditorsI'm down for this. I don't know the bar scene other than manayunk (i live in the burbs) and since I'm only here for the summer I have no problem making a fool out of myself in front of strangers. Lets do it. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Friend zone level: 99STOP THINKING!!! Seriously, you were at a rave! Why weren't you having a fucking awesome time dancing and grooving to the music? Were you at the rave because you actually enjoy raves and dance music or were you there because you just wanted to hook up with this girl? What it sounds like to me is that this other guy you went with was having fun and you weren't. Girls don't want to be with a guy who doesn't know how to have a good time. Standing around looking insecure is incredibly unattractive. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How to become self-motivated?I feel you. I know that this is a numbers game, and that there's not much I can do to control that. I need to focus on my successes, and just see the failures as opportunities to learn. I think I'm going to try to go out alone this week. I have in the past, but fuck it's tough not having a group to fall back on. What happens is either I end up standing around for a bit, sipping my drink and losing state (bad) or I end up walking around the venue looking like a shark (even worse). I need to get m… | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to become self-motivated?I don't ever let them know when I get a number anymore. I don't think they would care either way. I actually don't really see getting digits as a big deal, unless I had a really great conversation. Sounds like I need to find new people to go out with. | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How to become self-motivated?Hey, thanks for the response! I think you misunderstood some things I said though, or maybe I just came across as a whiny bitch (was in a much worse mood earlier when I wrote this). When I said "blowout" really what I meant is that the interaction simply didn't go anywhere. I'm not doing or saying anything that's causing me social suicide, but most of the girls I talk to I'm not sensing any attraction from, and the conversation just ends with me saying something along the lines of "it was nice t… | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 03:16 AM |
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