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I understand what you're saying and I agree that largely speaking there is an ideal physiology that is seemingly best equipped for reproduction, but that is a very mechanical way to see things and really is driven by an image set by an industry that has the power to influence society as a whole. But what percentage of men are tall and fit and what percentage of women are young, fertile, and not overweight? Definitely not enough to be able to make any unanimous decisions. Biology is mechanical by…
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:13 PM
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Social media has really done a number to men's self-esteem... Trust me when I say this, you're fine. There are so many worse things that other people have that you don't and they still get laid. I'm an overweight, bald wheelchair user with an amputation below my right knee and my arms and legs are short and crooked due to my condition. I still get laid. Let me tell you how... I never, ever, ever let insecurities about things I have no control over occupy space or time in my head, especially when…
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:18 AM
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Are you saying being comfortable in your own skin is a manipulation tactic?
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:48 AM
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Being short or any other less-than-ideal attribute is only a problem if you believe that it is indeed a problem. Frame is important when you have a perceived flaw dictated by society. The vast majority agree that while preference is preference, immediate rejection based on height is quite shallow and being shallow is ultimately a less wanted quality than short height could ever be. Maintaining the frame that being judged for your height reveals their shallow nature helps you maintain your dignit…
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:11 AM
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It sounds like you don't take yourself seriously actually. If you don't, no one else will. Keep in mind that there are tons of different people in the world and different people like different things. In today's world where everyone has access to each other, it can seem like there is an ideal set of qualities that a human male can possess that gives them the absolute best chances of finding a mate and that may be true to an extent, but you don't have to have the absolute best characteristics to …
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:04 PM
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If you feel weird doing it, stop doing it. It's not working that way. Get out of the streets. Also, real life adventures are nothing like movies or games. A good bit may be tedious and tiring. Why are you setting your own starting point for the adventures that you want? That adventure starts the moment you step out that door. Honestly it started a long time ago. You've been roaming the road just outside The Shire looking for your Samwise but he's been getting drunk and restless at the Prancing P…
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:30 AM
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Nah, we've already gone down that road. If I were to do it without a heads up, she would just get upset and question if the friendship is worth the unwanted advances. She's also married and we both agreed it would be best to keep it platonic although it was on the table at first. She's attractive so I think she will have a high standard for quality flirting but she will only be giving feedback and not reciprocating them back.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:04 AM
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Did you enjoy it at some point before you got like this? Dating is supposed to be a fun adventure, not some job to collect sexual resources. If you are literally walking the streets sifting through the women, they pick up on your need and desperation. They don't want to be a utility bill as your ball drainer, they want to be a luxury expense that is valued in currencies other than cock strokes. They want to be paid for those strokes in emotional, attentional, temporal, and financial currencies. …
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:12 AM
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Thank you, it's my pride and joy. I really like what you said about being at an advantage due to the uniqueness of my situation and I think that effect is maximized in social gatherings, but from my experience it tends to work against me in public spaces. When approaching in public, I almost have to sneak up on them and distract them with an innocent request or a question before they have time to speculate about my intentions. I've seen the "oh shit, he's going to hit on me" look on their face e…
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:29 PM
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That pimp😆. I fooled around with a female friend one night shortly after we first met but she later rejected me when I tried again a couple months later. She made the mistake of introducing me to her sister 🤣.
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:19 AM
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For some, I can see them not being able to understand if they have never been exposed to friends or family who have experienced trauma or trauma themselves, but just consider that weeding out wastes of time. Past these women, you'll have women who have had bad experiences with men with trauma and will automatically categorize you with them, but again, that's just more weeding. Your control and ability to influence your success starts after these two types with understanding women who have not ha…
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:10 AM
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That's actually a very interesting mindset and may be the answer to my problem. Instead of wondering if the person I'm interested in is interested in me and living within that uncertainty, I should just pretend or assume they are interested and I can totally see that not only maintaining my base level of confidence but depending on how effective I am at convincing myself to assume their attraction, that will take it to a whole new level. I never had trouble seducing my wife but that's just becau…
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:31 AM
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Thank you for sharing these. Georg Fraberger has been a long time hero of mine and the fact that he exemplifies what is possible in a similar condition is probably what keeps me from choosing the victim's path and let's me easily brush off rejection knowing the right person will come along. This was my first time seeing David Aguilar and I was really impressed by that Lego arm that he made for himself. We are birds of a feather in a way as I also created a device to help me become more independe…
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:21 AM
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I've been on dates and I have been in a few relationships. I was even married for almost 5 years until I was widowed over a year ago. My wife was disabled as well so it was a little easier as far as wooing her, although we did run into more challenges in other areas. I'm very confident in and aware of what I bring to the table and I don't care at all if someone ultimately can't handle my disability, but I don't like that brief moment between not knowing if they're interested and knowing whether …
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:54 AM
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You basically just said you have what women want but there are thousands of guys on Tinder who have more. You come off as confident in what you bring to the table and I'm sure you do bring substantial value to a relationship, but you seem to be threatened by other men's value. I guess you could say you know you have enough but you perceive other men as having more than enough. That perception you have is 95% your imagination. Women don't have a standard list of value requirements and there is no…
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:51 AM
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So you are interested in the full experience of a relationship? What else is there past intimacy and sex? Commitment I guess, but you did say a long term. I'm assuming by intimacy, you are including friendship and sharing goals and not just cuddles, kisses and eye contact? I can't see anyone judging you for wanting all that. You would be judged more for wanting the stuff that you said don't want. This is kind of like asking, "All I'm interested in is doing the best that I can. Is this a bad mind…
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:06 AM
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True there is nothing much that you can do about the sound and pitch of your voice, but there are ways to increase the effectiveness of your spoken word via your tone, conviction in what you're saying, and the confidence you get from knowing what you say to be true or honest. It helps to find a role model to emulate as well as adopting or curating a vernacular that you resonate with. For instance, I'm white and from southern Georgia, but I grew up having many black friends so as a result, I kind…
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:56 AM
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Flirting. I can be quite charismatic and confident in normal conversation, but when it comes to throwing a flirt out there, I get really anxious. I feel like because flirting is an obvious implication that I am interested in them sexually, I'm basically saying, "Hey, wanna fuck?" I don't know why that makes me nervous, but it makes my flirting attempt come off kind of awkward and it's rarely received well or reciprocated. I have a physical disability and use a wheelchair so I'm basically unfucka…
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:29 AM
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All is fair in love and war. There are no written rules that a man or woman should politely decline the advances of another. Men who refuse to ghost in the rare occasion where they have the opportunity to are the same men who get upset when they are ghosted. Politely declining a female's friendship advances is petty and presumptuous if you ask me.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:30 AM
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For one, she's never even asked him out. Women don't really even do that. How does he know that she isn't just trying to be friendly? It's a little presumptuous that he thinks she has a thing for him and to "reject" her is entirely unnecessary. If you ask me, rejecting her friendship is low in itself and says that he only wanted one thing. A subtle ghosting is appropriate in this situation and it has nothing to do with principles.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:26 AM
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Why assume that I don't like being ghosted? Am I so insecure that I need to protect my fragile ego and expect that she respond to my advances with respect by addressing me regardless of a negative or positive response? No answer is an answer. It's okay to move on from that. So yeah, if they can do it, so will I. I don't owe them anything and they don't owe me anything.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:56 AM
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This is the common sense answer. If you want to be a gentleman and take the high road, sure let her down easy and let her know you just want a friendship. But if the roles were reversed, she would ghost you, I'm 98.3% sure. You don't owe her any decency or consideration. Ghost her and move on.
/r/seduction18/03/22 08:12 AM
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Approaching at a bus stop is totally fine. It's only weird if you take advantage of the fact that she has to be there and ignore any hints of disinterest. I've met a ton of people, male and female, on the bus.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:09 PM
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For sure, that is what I have gathered as well from this discussion. It's all very situational but it's generally viewed as a bad idea all around to not ask a "fish how to fish." Like you said, there could be biases but also quite an unrelatable point of view that is based off of what they would like to be done or do themselves, which itself is up for debate on whether those wants are consciously or subconsciously present. In other words, women are fucking amazing creatures and man's greatest my…
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:40 PM
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It's cheaper to creeper.
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:20 PM
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No, I've had this suspicion multiple times but this example was the one I thought of first. With no way to verify actual deceit, I thought it would be interesting to hear the input of this community and dispell the idea there would be any malicious intent.
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:06 PM
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A better understanding of the intentions and motivations behind the advice given. It's odd to not feel like I can't talk to my female friends about a certain subject just because they share the same genitalia as the subject matter. On the flipside though a better understanding could give deeper insight on the thought process of a friend who you want to seduce or who you suspect wants to seduce you. The question came about because I consider my female friends close and it wasn't a considerable co…
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:55 PM
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Right! Doesn't hurt to try.
/r/seduction20/02/22 07:04 PM
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Exactly what I said is I value their friendship as a person. For what reason would I drop our amazing friendship after sexual rejection if I value it so much? It just simply wouldn't happen, so if it were to hypothetically happen, the only logical reason that it would is because I actually only valued them for their vagina and played the part of a friend. Why does my reason have to be motivated by proving that it's not a hypothetical reason?
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:13 PM
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As a fellow disabled person, the one thing that I have learned is play to your weakness. You don't seem like the kind of person that views your disability as an excuse to give up since you are obviously seeking advice and being realistic about it. Sure, it can definitely be a roadblock, but with the right adaptation, it can be a shortcut. There is a certain charm if a difference from the norm is utilized in an interesting and often humorous way. For instance, I'm a wheelchair user with deformiti…
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:47 PM
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No offense taken. You're definitely right, it probably just had something to do with her and her situation. I'm completely okay being ghosted by her and my friend and I "talked shit" about her but not in a serious or malicious way, just playfully joking about it. My situation with my friend could definitely warrant a strategic response from her when it comes to any advice about other women or even herself. Even though there has been rejection, there is still some tension and flirty behavior betw…
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:00 PM
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Aww shucks 😏 I only get that compliment from other guys with beards, so thanks... Made my day.☺️
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:52 PM
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In the past, I was very vulnerable and open about my feelings, but not subtly I suppose. Never came out and told any woman I wanted to f her brains out, but I might have told her I've been simping for her but I'm going to be cutting it back... Lol. I don't know what the fuck was wrong with me. It just seems like women want vulnerability and honesty from you, but you don't get that in return from them and they use it against you. Obviously not all women, but I think there needs to be some level o…
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:48 PM
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This exact thing happened to me lol. I have another female friend that rejected me and like with my other female friends that have rejected me, I'm okay with it. Just because they rejected me doesn't mean that I am rejected all the time. My female friends just happened to be people who were more present in my life such as a neighbor or coworker and that could probably be one of the reasons I was rejected by them. I'm cool with it. Anyway, I asked this female friend to put a good word in for me f…
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:11 PM
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I don't resent my friend for reassuring me that my idea was a good idea. I take for responsibility for going through with it and accept the failure that it produced. I'm just saying that it made me aware of the fact that due to the nature of our relationship as a male and female, there are possibly conflicts of interest and her opinion regarding anything that has to do with anything that could possibly affect that relationship run through the filter of that interest.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:03 PM
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Yes! I was getting pretty frustrated and I totally regret even asking past the first time. Like the guy above said, I should have taken a hint but it just seemed like she wasn't sure. When I told her I wrote her a letter, her mood boosted and she was suddenly giddy as if she was excited about it. Then when she read it, she was off put by it. I thought we were close enough friends that we could have an adult conversation and she could tell me anything, but her continued to vagueness just made me …
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:59 PM
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I love women. I was married but widowed a year ago. It was true love and I doubt I'll ever find that again. I hope I do, but we will see. I would like to have the assumption that everyone has the best intentions to communicate their true feelings, but that would be foolish and naive. The fact that I just now realized that I probably can't trust a woman's advice on how to get her or how to get her competition probably has a lot to do with my late wife. She always stayed true and was the best comm…
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:04 AM
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Yes, I am accountable for all of my decisions, even the decision to accept a friend's reassurance. I didn't make my... chick friend (sounds way more misogynistic)... feel bad for supporting my poor decision. Also, she was the one who whipped her phone out first. You've never hung out with a friend doing your thing while they do their thing? Are you constantly engaged? That sounds exhausting. You should try this little thing called "chilling," it's pretty great. And c'mon... you know what I mean …
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:36 AM
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Them being flirty before I make a risque comment that they withdraw from and don't respond positively to tells me they either have interest or are doing it for fun. Flirting post my risque comment falling flat only tells me that it's for "fun", but why play along in those games when the possibility for confusion is too great. It's because they want that confusion. They want to be wanted, but they don't want you to know that. If she don't want me, I don't want her. It's that simple.
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:19 AM
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Again, let me respectfully clear up some assumptions that you are making. You are very close, I'm an INFP; however, your "lol" at the end of that statement implied that my "longish rant" is somehow negative and predictable. That's very off-putting and throws up another red flag in relation to my previous statements. Ironically, you also make "longish rants." Another assumption that you made is that I ended these friendships after I was rejected. That is simply not true nor was it suggested by an…
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:01 AM
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Because we started out as friends. I never had the intention of dating any of them, but sex between two mature adults who have discussed expectations can be fun. If my advances are turned down and I end my friendship with them, that only says that I value them for their vagina and not their friendship as a person.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:37 AM
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Respectfully, I think you are assuming that I just came right out and told them I was romantically interested. With each one, I treated them with a friendly manner and slowly began teasing playfully and engaging banter. But with each one, once I had the opportunity to say something risque, they kind of froze with a laugh as if they didn't know how to respond, so I interpreted that as a lack of interest. Continued our relationship as friends from then on and I'm good with it. With all but one, I …
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:28 AM
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You know, this reminds me of this one time I asked a female friend if she was interested in a FWB and she replied with, "I don't know, I haven't thought about it." I just said I thought it would be fun since we're both dealing with some sexual frustrations but got another I don't know so I gave her some time and brought it up again at a later time. She likes to communicate via letters when she has something important she wants to talk about, so I thought it would be a good idea to write her a le…
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:53 AM
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You're welcome, my brother. Keep practicing and fail your way to success. It's basketball, missing hoops doesn't make you less of a person. Rejection of a woman doesn't mean your ball is shaped funny, it just means her hoop is. It's all relative though so it don't matter. Just have fun.
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:11 PM
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I understand what you're looking for when you say you want concrete examples. I used to want concrete examples of exactly what to say to escalate things as if they were some sort of magic words or correct input that guarantees success and makes a woman say the things you want to hear. Trust me when I say this, you don't want concrete examples. You want to take the things that people are saying in this thread, things like escalating, banter, complimenting, playful teasing, etc... as frameworks or…
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:45 PM
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You got two? Dang, I only got one.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:09 AM
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Who is being screened in your eyes, you or them? I mean are you screening them to see if they vibe with you or are you screening yourself to see if you can vibe with them?
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:01 AM
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Exactly lmao 😆
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:41 PM
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I think as long as you internalize that validation as simply proof of something that you knew all along, that you are desirable, and use the memory of the experiences that you have had thus far as a way to combat any future feelings of being insecure about your desirability, that can count as a source of self-validation. Honestly though, it sounds like you enjoy it more so because you are so bored at home. Do y'all have kids? What do you do for a living? What do you do with your free time? How m…
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:41 PM
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I agree to some level, never do something outright undignifying that makes you feel pathetic for the possibility of scoring, but I don't think there's anything wrong with giving away a little power. Females don't really want guys they can push around but they also don't want guys that won't budge either.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:47 AM
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Tell me everything you did and I'll do the opposite.
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:41 AM
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This girl is a big girl so I know exactly what you mean. Her sister started working there at one point... I got with her on the regular for about 2 months and we did not hide it lmao. You think that has something to do with it? 🤣😂😆
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:59 PM
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My man...
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:54 PM
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To be honest... You probably the only one that's given sage advice in this whole comment section. Yeah I'm not going to make any more moves but I will keep playing her little game just for the pure fact that it makes this job somewhat interesting. I'll just keep playing it until she throws it on me, but if she doesn't I'll be okay with it. I don't need to fuck her, barely want to. Thrill of the chase I guess.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:52 PM
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Your innocence gives me hope... but also more suspicion.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:10 PM
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Nah, that's a non-issue as well. It's literally just her and I alone 8 hours a day most days. On days that it isn't, we don't say shit to each other. And like 95% of the time, we're just goofing off and being friends, there's just this tension held at bay by history.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:46 PM
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Power is at play at all times. Even opting out is a play. The world isn't as black and white as you think it is.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I get what you're saying and I 100% agree, but I never said I wanted to be with her... I just want to fuck her lmao. She don't want to be with me, I already know that. But she might fuck me. There are no feelings here to play with. It's all power. After reading all the comments and seeing what everyone had to say, it's clear that I do not make another attempt. I'm not going to play games with someone that I genuinely like, but I think it'll be fun to play this game with her since I'm force…
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:30 PM
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I thought she might want a more serious relationship at first, but I think we both know we would not be good for each other in the long run like that so I don't really think so but I'm not exactly 100% sure. She is the type to like the chase and want the attention and validation because she doesn't get that at all from anyone else. Thanks for this comment, you just laid out all possible scenarios and it's made me realize that the last thing I want to do is make another attempt. But since we're t…
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:22 PM
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Yeah I have been moving on for the last couple months. There are times when I get really distant and she gets extra chatty and tries to cut up. I had a date a couple weeks ago and was really vague about it. She acted sarcastically happy for me and talked a little shit in a playful way. My only issue is I can't tell if she is leading me on so that she can reject me again or if she is showing genuine interest. If I do decide to make a move, I'm just going to straight up catch her in a moment and g…
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:14 PM
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Lmao, that is a complete non-issue... trust me. Not trying to be disrespectful to you because that is a legit concern for the average situation, but just trust me when I say nobody's worried about being reported lol.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:03 PM
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I typically have dignity and respect for myself if it was someone I respected as a potential life partner. I would take the hint at most less than enthusiastic maybes, but with this chick and the whole situation, I wouldn't exactly say there is much self-respect or dignity on either side lmao.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:00 PM
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I don't necessarily mean verbatim like that. If she said maybe another time, I would definitely take that as a hint for no. Then again if she did say verbatim, "If you ask me another way" I would take that as stop asking me and start kissing me. Where is the line between being persistent in your pursuit and not taking a hint? She's told me stories about rejecting a guy just to see how much he wants it.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:52 PM
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They were more like, not right now but ask me another time or another way. I didn't get an actual no until the 4th attempt.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:36 PM
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Yeah man it seems like even when they want to be friends, they still want to know that you secretly want them. If I'm distant, she gets extra friendly and chatty. I alluded to meeting someone and going on a date and she acted sarcastically happy and talked a little shit. But then if I do something nice for her or I'm a little too talkative that day, she becomes a little aloof and extra focused on her work. It's really hard to tell the difference between genuine interest and an egotistical need t…
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:31 PM
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What are some ink stains dried on some line anyway? Dude literally has three kids within their marriage with three other women... It baffles me they are still together, but that's none of my business. If she's fucking other dudes too, I might as well be one of them.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:19 PM
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Especially in online dating. I don't know, they're just too cliche. It's lazy. It's something thirsty guys say. Whichever one you choose, she's got 50 other guys with pet names in her inbox, and yours is no different. The quality of your message is based upon the uniqueness of it's contents. She wants to respond to something that made her think, but not have to think too much.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:09 PM
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I understand exactly how you feel, and I'm sorry you've had to go through that. The first time my wife and I started going through a rocky period in our marriage, she would say things like, "This is why I don't think we should even be together. Maybe I should just get my stuff and go to my mom's." It would break my heart because I felt like we were just having a problem that needed working out and it wasn't nearly cause for me to want to get a divorce, but really I later understood that I was pl…
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:51 PM
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In my opinion, pet names are just as bad as saying hey beautiful. It's presumptuous and reveals your intentions. A good thoughtful question or a smart ass comment has always been pretty solid for me. When you're being a smart-ass, try to make it something that she can easily respond to. Set yourself up to get a smart ass reply from them. Either way, just make it easy for them to reply. Women don't want to have to work at being charming on the first interaction when her inbox is full of other guy…
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:58 PM
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Have a goal in mind with every interaction and have a move that you can practice. Like get a good understanding of what your goal is with each setting you're in and figure out what your "move" is and then just execute. For instance, my goal is usually to build a rapport and get their number. My move is be to be nonchalant and suddenly but casually look in their direction as if I'm just looking around and after a second or two look at them. I hoping my sudden head turn to their direction gets the…
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:41 PM
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Early 20's. She was 50+, somebody's crazy auntie. I was hammered at a party. Gave me a bj behind a bush. Then we went in and did a bunch of other dirty things for hours.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:30 AM
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Intercourse has always been difficult for me. It's possible with only a couple positions but I've always been more focused on oral and toys. That's always been one of the biggest issues in relationships for me. A full sexual experience is not going to be available for anyone in a relationship with me. That's not always the easiest thing to accept. I'm pretty sure it's part of why my last ex from a few months ago left me. I knew she was going back to her ex and even confronted her on our last day…
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:24 AM
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Thank you for that, from my heart. Do little shit like that every now and then and she'll always know you love her. And if she don't love you, she will soon.
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:28 AM
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Looks matter in seduction as much as athleticism matters in basketball. Do you think the worst player in the NBA holds any anger because he doesn't have six championship rings? Maybe a little. I'm sure LeBron holds a little anger too. Have you ever heard them complain? I would love to have 10 times the success that I've had, but I'm not good looking enough. Just the reality of the situation. I do hold a little anger about that, but not enough to throw in the towel or complain. What can I do abou…
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:15 AM
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I can totally relate to feeling hopeless about it and not wanting to even look for someone. If you are truly interested in finding a partner again, my advice would be to stop looking. With a visual disability, looking online just isn't going to work unless that person has a visual disability as well. It is way too easy to reject someone and they don't get to experience the full you, just a glimpse of you frozen in time. I would suggest going out more unless you already are an outgoing person, bu…
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:33 AM
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You are so right, there is way more to sex than it's mechanical nature. The brain is the most important sex organ. I don't care if you If you are tall, dark, and handsome with an 8-in dong, if you can't make that mental connection and get deep into that "sex mode", an uggo with a 3-in peter who can will be a better lay any day. Speaking of 3-in peters, mine is small too. I used to pre-warn girls and apologize for it but I realized that only makes it worse. Now I just make the joke, it might be s…
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:04 AM
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What did your wife say when you hugged her?
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:42 AM
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Who hurt you?
/r/seduction12/02/22 08:07 AM
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Yeah, I should have put seducing women while having a disability. I guess I did technically seduce a disabled woman as well so it's not entirely misleading.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:59 AM
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Fifth grade lol? I didn't really date much growing up and had only been sexually active with one other female before I met my wife. Small towns be like that.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:57 AM
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Thank you for your sentiments, I'm grateful you were able to gain something from my experience. I'm glad we met too, she was just the most amazing soul. One time I was joking with her when I got out of the shower and I was like, "I'll go outside butt ass naked right now, say I won't." She rolls her eyes and says, "I know you won't, you're a pussy." My intentions were to just open the door and start heading out to see her reaction, but I was going to stop before I crossed the threshold. Something…
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:50 AM
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Man I felt like I was just watching a movie of myself when I started talking shit. Normally, I would consider these chicks out of my reach, especially since they're working, but I guess what she said to me made me feel like fuck it. I'm at a crosswalk and she walks up in this dominatrix outfit and goes, "Hey there, would you like to take a picture Hot Wheels?" By then, that was like the 4th time one of those... entrepreneurs if you will... called me Hot Wheels, so I responded, "No thanks hot tit…
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:19 AM
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Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad you were able to find some comfort from my experience. I can tell you have a compassionate and empathetic soul. Inner qualities beat outer qualities in the long run. One thing I'd like to say about your comment on life... Yes, it is sad that I lost my wife, thank you for acknowledging that, but it was in no way cruel. She suffered quite a bit the last couple years and although it was sad, it was just sad for myself and the other people who loved her that r…
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:36 PM
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