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Red Pill Theoryrich02468/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 01:16 PM
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1

Completely agreed. They're so concerned with being sex positive and inclusive and chanting the magic word "consent" that they destroy any eroticism by putting safety nets under a sexual experience that should be dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:41 PM
2

Or anti-conception social planner busybodies.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 12:43 PM
6

Spinning many plates at once. Like the circus act. Read the sidebar and welcome to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:35 PM
1

I personally like to say he's an asshole. Cue stunned silence.
/r/seduction28/06/14 04:33 PM
6

Read books. Develop opinions about them. Books about other countries and cultures will help you pre digest experiences so to speak. Edward Said, Graham Greene, Mario Vargas Llosa, Julia Alvarez- these are all great starts.
/r/seduction28/06/14 04:08 PM
1

Psychology is more akin to voodoo than real science.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:52 PM
-1

Brain scans? Crack addicts are going to have different brain scans, guaranteed. No ones arguing they were born that way. Acting a certain way for years is going to change your brain.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:33 PM
1

Count of Monte Cristo status
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:58 PM
2

Want to make a point besides pointing and sputtering?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 12:41 PM
2

Every boy should be raised like in Braveheart- by women until the age of 8 and then moved to the highlands to learn war fighting and Latin.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:52 PM
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I am in complete agreeance with you. I'm impressed at how large the MRA movement is but they waste their time on silly bullshit like that and circumcision and most of them are still agitating for equality and their equality will lose every time when stacked up against the equality of women. So much potential wasted...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:50 PM
0

Eh I liked the sports analogy. Humanizes the argument.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:20 PM
1

There was some MRA thread a little while back and the top rated comment was about how they should campaign to not be discriminated against when airlines sometimes won't put men next to little kids. Right. I would love to see some fedora wearing chub get on CNN and tell America that all he wants to do is sit next to your child!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:18 PM
1

You don't have to be a jerk. Often all you have to do is define boundaries clearly and in a level tone. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. If she asks about what she's wearing, and you don't like it, say so. Don't be a jerk, just tell her "I don't like it. You can do better." When you give her a genuine compliment it will be like diamonds to her. If a girl is going out of her way for you ie being sweet, fun to be around, cooks for you, be magnanimous. Take her out- tell her to block off Satu…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:02 PM
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Haha my buddy says he wants a divorce now just so he can hire this woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 04:29 PM
6

Sex. It's called sex roles. Gender is for grammar.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 12:19 PM
12

And a man to put them there.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 12:57 AM
8

It's a girl's mind races to rationalize whatever she does like a hamster running on a wheel all night long.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 10:19 PM
4

Can we borrow some Cossacks from Putin?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:58 AM
18

We don't hate them. See the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:42 AM
18

Ever carry a full combat load over 12 miles in rough terrain? No? Then STFU.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 02:20 AM
-14

Not interested in hearing from gays etc. My two cents.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 01:37 PM
1

Try infantry officer. You'll have a blast, get manned up a bit, hang out with great guys and learn to handle yourself in front of troops. If you don't want to make a career out of it, get out after five years and do something else.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 04:15 PM
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from CH- "That must take a lot of work."
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 11:58 AM
16

Those mice are obviously conditioned by the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 02:12 AM
1

Cool story bro
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 08:08 PM
0

It's just that there were a few big articles on ROK and thoughtcatalogue lately so the debate is going back and forth. Always good to keep perspective but you can't deny that there's lots of sloppy white chicks these days.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 03:36 PM
1

Detroit. Pittsburgh. Philly. Roslindale.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:35 AM
1

Nah
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:28 PM
2

Tell you what. Next time you talk to your room mate, tell him I'm in the military, and I'd love to hear his rationale for equality without service.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 01:10 AM
4

She's a dork fantasy like hit girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:39 AM
9

Article is spot-on man. Daenerys is such an absolute over-the top example of grrrl power that it's refreshing to see a woman who is demure and quietly loyal to her family even though she's the last one left. She's realistic where other female characters are tropes. God the pirate chick is especially intolerable. Women today hate their femininity.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:33 AM
1

You're like a modern day rosa parks.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 08:56 AM
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It's not bullshit. Stop being faux offended. Discouraging open gays from joining a men's organization is an excellent idea.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 06:39 PM
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Ranger School.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 10:46 PM
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In that case, great! Then their contribution will be valued according to its content.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:33 AM
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The best compliment I've received from a woman: "Things just seem to run smoothly when you're in charge." Damn right they do. Also, it's good to see posts from married men on here. Hope to hear more from you.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 02:09 PM
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All the best OP but I would rather not see these kinds of "gay, redpill, and proud" posts. Masculinity is in part defined by our attraction to the feminine. If your preference is to be a man-pleaser then you're not expressing any kind of masculinity that's worth celebrating.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 06:09 AM
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Good read on the situation. It really did make for explosive sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:39 PM
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You know, she's not a nutcase. I think this kind of behavior is pretty natural actually, especially from girls who had a conservative upbringing. They want to be carried along, they want sex to be something that "just happened" and they don't want to think of themselves as a slut so they don't want to take responsibility for initiating it. Pretty reasonable actually. Resistance is also a fitness test. Women have a biological incentive to test their mates. Even female chimpanzees offer last minut…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 02:25 PM
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You're right. She did say yes. That's why I did what I did. The point is that she'd disguised her actual intentions with this facade of bullshit that I had to dig through. The other scenario is that she hadn't wanted to fuck me, but then changed her mind on a dime when I showed a masculine display of dismissive anger. Who knows?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 02:07 PM
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Professional twitter dork. Elite level Facebook user. Christ. Remember when 23 year olds used to make things with their hands in factories?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 06:09 PM
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"recently got a job as a social media consultant for Anita Sarkisian" LOL
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 01:53 PM
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Kids are fat because of working mothers. When women prioritize raising their children over making money, they cook meals that tend be healthy, and they're there for family dinners so they can portion control. They fix lunch and meals are enjoyed in a communal setting where the goal isn't to just stuff your face. Aka being a housewife. When moms aren't around they have to rely on processed garbage or McDonalds, and they can't supervise at home to keep the fatties out of the pantry.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 05:58 PM
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No it's bad man. More whales = fewer acceptable girls, and more competition for them besides. Skinny is great, but when there's so few of them, it raises their SMV, leading to entitled attitudes on a societal scale. Not good.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 05:53 PM
0

It's Saudi Arabia, not Afghanistan.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 03:21 AM
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There is an enormous difference between performing well on an academic test and contributing professionally by pushing the boundaries of the field.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 02:12 PM
1

I see what you're saying. In game of thrones, there's a scene where Joffrey throws a fit and starts screaming "I'm the king!" Tywin remains stone cold, and tells him that if you have to remind people, then you're really not the king at all. However, if laws we put in place are outward expressions of an intuitive mastery of both ourselves as men and our environments, then they are legitimate. Correct me if I'm wrong, because I'm about to represent my idea of your views here- but I believe that yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 06:23 PM
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No, I think these would be great to adopt. The reason it doesn't work for feminists is because they're women trying to ape men. But we're men. We were born to wield benevolent authority, in our personal lives and in society. I would apply any one of these as a guideline for a woman I was in a relationship with, and I think they'd be appropriate on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 04:45 PM
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Don't use em. None of my family does either. I was raised in a happy family, thank god.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 05:21 PM
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I don't think you realize just how plastic human sexuality is. As if "gay" is an immutable biological category, instead of what it really is: a social construction. There are men who have sex with men. There always have been- but "gay" is a relatively recent contrivance.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 02:56 PM
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"Being gay is not a choice." You see, this is one of those phrases that just rolls off the tongue because it's been repeated so often, and yet I haven't seen a single shred of evidence to support it. Genome projects have scoured the human genome for decades, with nothing to show for it. By now, that phrase is just a mantra that serves to signal the speaker's tolerance creds. "Hey guys, if we all say often and loudly enough, it has to be true, right?"
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 01:38 PM
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Women who say they don't want kids are inevitably unpleasant feminists or painfully earnest careerists. It's not unusual to find they had an awful childhood and are loaded down with emotional baggage. They are way outside the norm and tend to lack feminine warmth. Not relationship material.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 05:57 PM
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How do you feel about being a genetic dead end?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 05:53 PM
1

Once again, a false equivalency. Women's eggs expire way before a man loses potency- a man can always change his mind in his 50's, whereas a woman might waste her fertile years on silly feminist bullshit then come to rue it. If women stop having kids then we as a society are fucked.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 05:52 PM
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I loled at the idea of an actress complaining that she'd been hit too hard while filming a fight scene, as if it was sexist of her counterpart to not pull his punches even more. It just reinforces to me that every female action role is a complete fantasy. In real life, men win every time. Betas dorks love the idea of female action heroes who are sexually aggressive because it means that they wouldn't have to take responsibility for initiating sex with them.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 06:35 PM
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It's because a woman's mind will spin like a hamster on a wheel in an effort to rationalize her decisions.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 02:32 PM
1

What you want is a nice little hookah. Girls love that shit. It's exotic, and at the end of the night, after you've pulled her in close, you're going to want to invite her to smoke some hookah. Guaranteed to get you both back to your place.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 05:23 AM
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"29." Why aren't you looking for a 24-26 year old if you absolutely must commit to someone?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 05:47 PM
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My dad is the alpha who makes the money and has final say on everything. He didn't expat, but I think he was ahead of his time because he married my mom, who was a Hispanic immigrant. She's cooked, cleaned, and bore him seven kids. In return for her hard work, sweetness, and loyalty, he's utterly faithful to her. Growing up, the surest way to get your nutsack crushed was for my dad to get wind that we'd disrespected my mom. Looking back, this was ideal because as young men we were never put in t…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 03:35 AM
1

Jesus man that's tough.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 03:20 AM
2

Just to clarify our terms the slang hamster refers specifically to a frantic rationalization process, not generally the woman herself.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/13 04:11 AM
0

I tend to get aroused when a girlfriend is crying. Maybe the effects manifest with repeated exposure over time. The study could also be full of shit. I have this idea that women get physically aroused when their men get angry. I'd love to see a study on this, or just similar personal experiences.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 01:49 PM
1

I don't respect any woman's intelligence, because every woman I've been in a long relationship with has molded her intellectual world-view to match mine. Morality and philosophy are male systems on a global level, and on a local level. She might seem to acquiesce intellectually, but she's just submitting to my personal authority, because it's attractive, and rationalizing it as an intellectual decision later. This is why I can't respect female intelligence: it simply conforms to the alpha constr…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 09:59 PM
3

Many powerful men through history had homosexual tendencies. Male sexuality is wild and can't be constrained. That being said, heterosexual relationships are inherently oriented towards the creation and the regeneration of civilization, and I personally see homosexuality as a waste of masculine energy. If you're really attracted to the feminine, why not date the real thing i.e. feminine women instead of twinks? I feel like part of the thrill for some gay dudes is in taking somone's masculinity, …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 04:02 PM
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I'd love to. I'm working up a blog post on this, but for starters, physically they're nowhere even close to the average military male. The public seems to think it's a narrow gap, but it's like the difference between a 27 year old athlete and a scrawny middle schooler. Then there's the fact that women alter the dynamics of a unit, and that this push for integration is ideologically oriented. I have buddies recently returned from combat who have seen female only teams cower in ditches and cry dur…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/13 04:06 AM
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Hi. U. S. Army company-grade Officer here. Women in combat units are an absolute disaster. I speak for the opinion of the majority of my peers. Many of us are discussing retiring at the earliest possible opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/13 01:00 AM
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Hahaha Toronto sucks.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 01:56 AM
0

You could be right. It's been a little while since I saw it, but what sticks out is that rough sex scene.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/13 12:12 AM
-6

Genetic dead ends.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 12:47 PM
0

A history of violence. Limitless.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/13 04:48 PM
1

Not at all. I was lucky enough to be raised in a family of seven children, where my dad worked and my mom stayed at home. My sisters are sweet and kind and can all do laundry, cook, clean, and serve guests. I am in the military. Every single one of my buddies is basically red pill in attitude from years of army/lacrosse/football. A bunch of us read and discuss red pill stuff pretty regularly. It's good man. Build those associations if you can.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/13 04:13 PM
2

This is like the picture of Dorian Gray.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 04:20 PM
11

Living in the South/Midwest: for whatever reason Americanized Mexican girls seem to love me. They're sweethearts, they love to fuck, and they cook and clean. There's very little not to like.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 10:19 AM
6

Nice. Did not expect to see this in the NYT.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/13 09:13 PM
1

Jesus
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 01:29 AM
1

Test away mon frere. I'm interested. Still, sample size of one, with no controls? Let's call it inquiry, but it's not rigorous. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 02:32 AM
8

Race isn't real, but racism is, right?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 06:41 PM
1

Lolz
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 06:33 PM
2

You can call it space jam water. The placebo effect is going to skew your perception. I don't think scent matters unless you've already closed the distance. Our olfactory senses are almost vestigial at this point- any effect scents have would be to reinforce already existing bonds while you're jammed up close to each other: i.e. dancing or fucking, in which case you're already there and your natural scents are serving their purpose. At a range of anything more than a foot or two, a woman's "targ…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 06:09 PM
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It makes sense. A guy who's spinning plates just doesn't give a fuck when his girl wanders because he has an abundance mentality. At the other extreme, lots of T could be associated with highly jealous behavior. All of this stuff is spot on, it's just presented in this hilariously earnest manner as if it's been translated from someone's Chinese grandma. Edit: The stuff about protruding ears is obviously pseudo/folk science, but here's the nugget of truth: if a guy's got close-set eyes and goofy …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 11:14 AM
0

Consent is social construct. Apes coerce sex all the time with rocks and beatings. The females seem to find it pleasurable, and chimpanzee society still goes along. This is the context in which human sexuality evolved. There are lots of women out there who'd gush at the thought of some violent alpha male attacking and driving off her husband and then pinning her to the floor and fucking her rotten.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 04:04 AM
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You're over thinking it buddy. Go with the boner test. Date/ get rejected by a bunch of different women. Meet people. Lift weights. Stop living in your head and enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 03:57 AM
2

Put them all in burquas and remove their means of competing with each other for the sake of social harmony.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/13 06:40 PM
1

Join a sports team, or if you're about to graduate work on getting yourself on a sports team in college, even if its intramural. It seems from your post that you're overcoming resentment towards the jocks/assholes. They're just team players and bros who you can learn from. Work hard in the weight room to get yourself on a team. Even if you're not the best, work hard and other men will respect you. Studies show that men who express more testosterone are more loyal to the group and more truthful. …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 04:04 PM
1

Then he's a lost cause.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:18 AM
7

Barack might act like an alpha to the rest of the world but personally he's as beta blue pill as they come. When asked by reporters when he was going to have a son, he said something along the lines of 'oh no, Michelle won't let me.' They don't even sleep in the same bed. She's got the Presidential balls clenched firmly in those manly hands of hers.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/13 09:40 PM
2

Whether you believe or not is up to you. I would check out the scene in your area first. If its a college town, and they offer the Latin mass, you're in luck. You can find extremely pretty girls, hardly any are fat because you just don't see fat people in big families. The most effective way would be gain entrance to the Church through RCIA- then you'd be marriage material. Whether or not you believe, traditional Catholic culture is an extremely effective social technology for curbing hypergamy …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/13 05:06 PM
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Be Catholic. Go to Mass around steubenville, Notre Dame, Ave Maria in FL or any parish where they offer the traditional Latin Mass. Look for the girls who spend time in adoration after Mass. They're the ones who take it seriously. Chances are she was raised in a family of eight. There's a burgeoning conservative Catholic renaissance here in the States. Some seriously quality girls, and they're not proles like the Midwestern/southern non-denom "Protestants."
/r/TheRedPill27/02/13 02:33 PM
2

Thanks. That's a little more clear.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 09:15 PM
4

Oh sweet the thought police.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 09:12 PM
1

Hey man I'm not Jack but I'd recommend STEM tracks, oil fields, day trading at a bank, or the military. I'm in the army and I fucking love it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 02:21 PM
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Jack- I am an officer in the military. I've shared your book with several friends of mine who are fellow officers, some downrange in Afghanistan, and they've been able to apply the ethos you write about to platoon dynamics in combat. It's good shit and we love it. Keep it coming. Thanks. Where do you see our corner of society (redpillers, masculinists, PUAs, bodybuilders, Christian patriarchs etc.) going in the next five to ten years?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 01:40 AM
3

What is this good men project shit doing here? I don't need compliments from women- yes I know I'm swole, thanks. The only feedback I want to hear is from peers who are better than me at certain aspects of my job, because that means I'm progressing and It's also not bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/13 03:40 AM
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Roosh I know you did a top 9, but if you had to name one, who's the worst, most mannish, and unattractive feminist in America besides Michelle Obama?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/13 12:36 AM
1

Part of being a man is calling out other men for being spineless pussies. Honor is the sum of other men's opinion of you.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/13 06:30 PM
4

If your marriage is sterile by choice, then you're a chump for asking to the government to hold you accountable to just one woman for the rest of your life.
/r/MensRights27/01/13 08:39 PM
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Sorry about the sterility. Kids is the only reason I'll marry.
/r/MensRights27/01/13 05:36 PM
2

I think most guys secretly hope for an apocalypse.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/13 02:11 PM
2

I've only got one house. There are millions of girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 09:45 PM
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Dump her. She's just going to keep getting fatter. She hasn't even had a kid yet, and she's already starting to balloon?! Run. Is her mom fat? I'll bet she is. She's going to look exactly like her mom. Unless you're okay with marrying a chub, you should just find a woman who's always been thin and who's family is thin.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 07:54 PM
1

Army Ranger School. The school where you get one meal a day and three hours of sleep for nine weeks. The school where you lose an average of 30 pounds of body weight. The school where you rank order your peers and the shitbags get peered out. The school where my buddy went, then got shot in the face in Afghanistan. He says he'd rather be shot in the face again than have to do it over. I went two years ago and got med-dropped for frostbite. So I'm going back to graduate. Needless to say, most men…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/13 09:02 PM
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Couldn't agree more.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/13 02:04 PM
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"if some field keeps the trappings of power but loses actual power, women enter it in droves and men abandon it like the Roanoke Colony." - I fucking love it. Can't wait to get my ass to Ranger School before they send vaginas there.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/13 01:34 PM
2

I've gained value from OPs description of female manipulation, but otherwise I agree with you. It's a sick psychology and I don't want to see much more of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/13 11:46 AM
1

I stepped up and led my peers through a crisis at work, when no one else would do it. Our confrontation of the problem was confused and demoralized. I put myself on the spot and focused our efforts in a way that would have had severe consequences if I'd failed. Our response afterwards, feeding off my energy, was disciplined and spirited- we pushed through the crisis decisively. Afterwards I candidly reproached my buddies for not being prepared to do the same thing. They appreciated it because th…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/13 02:19 AM
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Crazy cat woman. Got it. I will fuck sluts until the second coming, but I would never marry one.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 11:01 PM
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Come down off your moral high horse. It's the excuse you give yourself for being a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 02:07 PM
4

No. You need to go to an old man's barber shop where everyone is black and they line you up with a straight razor. Talk sports and females. Women want a man. Just be a fucking man.
/r/seduction13/12/12 11:58 PM
-1

Just tell her kinda offhand "by the way, I want to be completely upfront here. You should know that I'm seeing other people too." Say this after the first or second time you have sex, as you're both getting ready to leave and putting your clothes back on.
/r/seduction04/11/12 09:26 PM
2

Make fun of her, brush it off with a laugh, or agree and amplify.
/r/seduction24/10/12 10:05 PM
1

The answer is yes. You are objects for our amusement. I guarantee that you'll have the time of your life too. Genuine enough?
/r/seduction24/10/12 09:27 PM
1

If you really care about what those gynoids think then you can just go ahead and hand in your man card.
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:24 PM
1

What a cheese dick.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:20 AM
2

Hey man thanks for your work. All your stuff is very well-polished with a cool vibe. Do you make your living off dating advice stuff, or is it something you do on the side? Also, in your opinion, what's the best city to live in for meeting girls?
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:12 AM
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I've never met a girl who didn't want her ass smacked. This girl I've been dating, kind of inexperienced, was kidding with me about punching me or something. I looked at her, and in a very level tone said "Kat, if you ever punch me, I will bend you over my knee and spank you like an unruly child." She said "That sounds horrific!" Her flushed cheeks and double glances told me otherwise. She loves it now.
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:14 PM
2

Tell her to stop fishing for compliments.
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:28 PM
1

"My penis tastes like Ben and Jerry's"
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:06 PM
3

I'll usually say something like "Are you usually this late? Ten points from gryffindor." It works because my persona is very non-dorky. The other solution is to just start planning on being 10 to 15 minutes late yourself as a matter of habit. Usually I get to a place on time, because it lets me pick exactly where we'll be sitting/ hanging out. Of course if you're familiar with the venue you can always start at the bar, do a quick scan and then just say "Hey let's go over here!"
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:14 AM
0

Let's hear more from a fish about how to go fishing.
/r/seduction14/09/12 05:50 PM
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Hm well if you're already doing that then honestly I'd suggest switching it up. Some good suggestions here.
/r/seduction13/09/12 09:17 PM
40

Get high together, watch adventure time, then fuck each other's brains out. Edit: I want to caveat. If you do this all the time, then do more alpha stuff like telling her to wear a sexy dress and taking her to dance in the bad part of town. I don't make childish things like being a fucking brony part of my life, so when I suggest watching adventure time it really blows girl's minds that I'd be into that. In this case I think more alpha type stuff is called for. YMMV.
/r/seduction13/09/12 08:06 PM
6

Go for it. You're probably not giving this girl enough credit anyways. If you find her attractive and she's pleasant to be around, what more do you need really? Most women have competencies in other areas which blow mine out of the water. Also, it's not like you guys have fucked yet. You're counting your chickens here. Stop being timid, go for it, and then re-evaluate how you feel.
/r/seduction30/08/12 09:31 PM
3

A hookah. A fish tank. A really interesting coffee table. A Persian rug. Lots of books. A globe. Honestly if I had four grand to spend I'd hire an interior designer, as you'll get more mileage out of a comprehensive scheme than a few set pieces.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:22 AM
3

It's just to get the ball rolling. If you're engaging and give plenty of opportunities for her to ask questions by not giving everything away up front, then you're having a very organic conversation within about ten or twenty minutes. Hopefully with a tone that's fun and teasingly good-natured. Another way to look at all this is just being able to recognize that the other party may be slightly nervous. Your conversational skills are going to put them at ease. Hey maybe she's really bubbly and yo…
/r/seduction28/08/12 08:03 PM
5

I'm 26. I would give my left testicle to be 19, knowing what I know now. As long as I could get a fake ball that was made of solid brass. Read and do everything man.
/r/seduction28/08/12 07:25 AM
30

Being playfully vague makes her work for the kind of info that she'd get by subjecting you to a game of 20 questions. She'll value it more because she had to drag it out of you. The most boring conversation in the world is where she asks you how old you are/ where you went to school/ what you do, and you answer, and then she says "oh." I'd answer every one of those with "I'd like you to try and guess." She'll guess and you can pretend to be offended, or guess about what she does, and discuss exa…
/r/seduction28/08/12 07:14 AM
11

Well based on our comments, who do you think people would rather listen to, you or me? I'm going to up vote you for participation. We can all work on being more genuine and in the moment.
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:54 AM
136

You need to work on patter/rambling. I'd recommend Day Bang, by Roosh V, as he goes really in-depth about this. I'll give you an example. The other day I was laying on my couch when the doorbell rang. There was an elderly man who introduced himself. "Hi I'm Rufus and I do yard care. See this bamboo bush right here? It's overgrown. It grows very fast with this weather, and all this rain. We'd cut that right back, get it about a one foot gap from the house, keep the roots from tearing the foundati…
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:15 AM
2

Personally, I would never send a dick pic. Ever. And while googly eyes are pretty funny, I'd never risk being trivial- it might be tough to be taken seriously if you come across as a jokester.
/r/seduction27/08/12 08:18 PM
2

Don't forget the smiley face. I've never had it fail. Women are more excited with the idea of sending pics, though they do enjoy receiving them too. After getting a pic, I'll say something like "How is this even fair? Now I'm supposed to control myself around you?" Usually this segues really well into banter over whose "fault" it is, or "you're going to get me into trouble" and talking about getting physical. Follow it up with "Come over now I want to ravage you." Even if she can't make it, it p…
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:40 PM
1

Ask her for a sexy pic on a slow Sunday night. When she follows through ask her for nudes like this: "nakies? :D " Girls love being desired, and they love showing off.
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:31 AM
2

I'd try and lift weights. For guys, a well-developed physique can overcome just about anything you really think is a flaw.
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:00 PM
-2

"The one they are hoping to court?" You come across as someone who enjoys great success with the opposite sex.
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:15 PM
2

Usually when a girl says she's "curvy," she's kind of chubby. If she just goes with "chubby," she's probably fat.
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:11 PM
13

That fact that you even refer to wealth makes me think you're absolutely intolerable in person. And body size does matter. I recommend you get humble and get in shape.
/r/seduction26/08/12 06:53 PM
9

Do a long distance glance at 50 meters, look to the side or above, then go for eye contact at six steps distance from each other (about 15 feet or 5m) more if the street is less crowded. Accompany with a smile. Source: years of timing salutes in the military. Bonus: if they smile back, put your finger in the air with a puzzled look on your face as if to say "wait one." Ask a bullshit question and strike up a conversation. And for god's sake look them right in the face and give them a dazzling sm…
/r/seduction25/08/12 04:15 AM
1

This is terrible. You should never just "be yourself." You should be the man you want to be, which means you're a work in progress and not an herb.
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:59 PM
3

Look I used to really be into men's wear. I'd go out in ties and jackets, tailored pants and shined shoes. Then I realized that I was overdressing for my city and looked like a tool. Now, I'll break out the good stuff for a really rare date, but otherwise I just wear skinny jeans, some cool sneakers, and a plaid button-down with the sleeves rolled up. I'd try and learn about style, and get some cool stuff, but don't sweat it too much unless you really enjoy it. As long as what you've got is fitt…
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:56 PM
1

What an herb.
/r/seduction22/08/12 10:53 AM
6

Tell her you're taking her out. Tell her to wear a dress and heels. Wear a tie. Don't tell her where you're going. When she gets in the car, tell her to give you her panties. Go to dinner and then take her to a dive bar in the bad part of town that also has dancing. (Recon that shit. You want skeezy, not dangerous) You're slumming. You can dance, right? Grind your hard-on on her. Take her home and kiss in the hallway. This next part is crucial. Pick her up and bump her butt against the wall. Giv…
/r/seduction22/08/12 06:44 AM
7

Call the internet police!
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:51 AM
2

Guy makeup? haha NOPE.
/r/seduction21/08/12 03:02 AM
1

There's a species of snake in the mojave desert where the female, upon encountering a male, gives a male threat display. If the male snake responds with a more aggressive display, the female will allow itself to be courted. The male's testosterone rises measurably. If the male can't outdo the threat display, it goes and slinks under a rock, and it's testosterone levels decrease measurably. Females want access to high quality males.
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:19 PM
-6

Well if they're effective, then why not use them? For example, I think astrology is bullshit, but if a girl is really into it, she's going to act out her sign to some degree. So what's the difference if it's caused by stars or mental processes? It still ends up being 'true' in the real world.
/r/seduction19/08/12 07:49 PM
-3

Who cares if there aren't rigorous double blind peer reviewed studies? I've seen it's effective in explaining behavior at the ground level, and that's all I need.
/r/seduction19/08/12 07:35 PM
9

Scented candles. Don't do anything that smells like food or flowers, but have a masculine woodsy one for your room and maybe a citrus one for your bathroom. Burn them for an hour or two during the day and it's going to give your place an appealing underscent.
/r/seduction19/08/12 05:30 PM
1

Here's what my buddy and I would do when visiting other schools for sports and the team house party was lame. Every college town has a few streets that are almost exclusively students. On any given weekend, house parties will be going on up and down the block. We'd buy a case of beer, then go around the back where the smokers would be hanging out on the back stoop. This is where the awkward penguins hang out, so we'd get to know these guys, ask about the party, who's hosting, etc. Then, we'd mak…
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:22 AM
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