rightsidedown Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Gender Equality in the USMC Seriously, I'd fully expect other guys to get laid out just as easy if they stood their and let someone charge full speed into them.	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/03/16 11:17 PM
2	How do you guys handle the thin line between being persistent and having abundance ? I suspect she's just not into you. I'd say ask once more, and anything other than a clear yes, just drop it. What you described, her responding but then dropping off once you ask her out, is 99% of the time a "no". The line of persistence and abundance is really understanding no vs not yet, but usually anything that's not a yes is a no.	/r/seduction	30/10/15 09:05 PM
1	Persistence or give up? LAST text of this girl I like so much. That'a a pretty clear no from her.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 07:29 PM
1	How to respond to "This isn't a date, okay?" This should have been clear from the get go. This is like asking what to do when you jump out of a plane and forgot your parachute.	/r/seduction	03/10/15 04:27 PM
2	Girl responds to date text without suggesting a different day Friday and Saturday is a bad date time for girls with social lives. They likely have other plans with people that are more important than some guy she met once at a party. I say wait send her something mid week, not trying to set a date, just some joke or something to keep the banter going. Then try sunday to get something for like monday or tuesday.	/r/seduction	05/08/15 08:20 PM
1	Texting a girl you've never met in person? Treat it similar to a tinder match, as if you matched with someone that you had several mutual friends with. Stay cool, have a quick back and forth exchange, then go for the meetup.	/r/seduction	31/07/15 10:44 PM
2	Sending 138 OkCupid Messages Experiment You need to consider your pictures and profile content. Also, that's not a good first message. Online may still not work for you, but just like you would make sure you're presenting yourself properly in a club, you need to make sure you're presenting yourself properly online.	/r/seduction	30/07/15 10:02 PM
2	"No more Mr.Nice Guy" will it help me? No more mister nice guy isn't about game, it's about unlearning a set of bad behaviors. It can give you much insight into why the "nice guy" is repulsive to women, and separate the idea of being nice or compassionate or caring from the transactional forms of those things that the "nice guy" expresses from a place of negativity. It's not about confidence, approaching, or anything else that gets you started. It applies once you are actually interacting with women face to face.	/r/seduction	08/07/15 05:39 PM
2	Girls are like cats, too much attention and they'll run away but control yourself and they'll chase after you. Not really. It's about not being needy and sucking value away. You're not giving the cat attention, you're asking it to stay there while you pet it and make yourself feel good for petting the cat. Similarly if girls are running away from your attention it's probably because you're chasing to get validation from them.	/r/seduction	17/06/15 06:17 PM
1	Is a PUA bootcamp worth it? It depends. The usefulness of a class, or any form of training, depends a lot on the instructor and you. I've gone through a lot of training for technical skills and management skills through work, often costing several thousand dollars for these sessions, and have done dance classes on my own. Somethings I've learned: 1) If you are a beginner, then you need a course specifically designed for beginners. 2) You get more out of training, the more you knowledge and experience you have going in 3) B…	/r/seduction	02/06/15 08:19 PM
2	If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you? Reframe your thinking. It doesn't matter what she's doing with her boobs. If you like her then you should pursue that until you get a yes or no, don't wait or look for signs of interest before you start.	/r/seduction	28/04/15 05:30 PM
-1	Vocal tonality: A topic that doesn't get raised on this sub much anymore. It helped me years ago more than almost any other advice. That was a comment about vocal tonality posts in general, hence the use of the word "posts", a plural, and not "this post". I'm going to assume English is not your first language.	/r/seduction	05/03/15 10:35 PM
0	Vocal tonality: A topic that doesn't get raised on this sub much anymore. It helped me years ago more than almost any other advice. The problem with vocal tonality posts is that they just aren't very helpful. You really need to hear the wrong way, the right way, and most importantly yourself, to calibrate where you should be. In person someone could correct you pretty quickly.	/r/seduction	05/03/15 06:25 PM
1	"Our job is not to attract every woman, but to screen for women with a high potential of being attracted to us." -Manson Sure that's true, but it seems like a lot of people that focus exclusively on inner game and reading books and not going into the field, fail to realize that you need to make yourself more attractive. It's the difference between the pool of women being 1 in a million vs 1 10. People forget that Manson also writes that you need to get fit, dress well, be well groomed, have an interesting life, be able to approach, and be able to have a genuine conversation.	/r/seduction	07/01/15 06:49 PM
-3	How should I, as a complete beginner, deal with the fact that if I screw up I could hurt someone else? You need to just get the fuck over that or give up on seduction as a pursuit. You will creep people out and you will bother people. Other people's feelings are not your problem. You just need to make sure you're taking the feedback they give you when you fuck up and correcting your own behavior.	/r/seduction	20/12/14 07:33 PM
4	People who have taken an RSD Bootcamp: How did it go? From what I read, it seems like a lot of guys take them at the wrong time. If you're still dealing with approach issues, it won't make you some super player. If you're at a mid stage, then it might be worth it. Think of it like personal training. Beginners could learn what they need on their own, if they had the will to do it, and a PT's contribution often ends up being more around will power. Athletes get strength coaches that can take them to the next level and up.	/r/seduction	15/11/14 12:01 AM
2	New RSDTyler Video! How Women Judge Men ;) I agree with you on the redpill thing. I think the whole provider and seducer thing was to sell the video to people, it's basic us vs brand "x" type stuff. I think the real key was that if you are giving off the right energy when you open a set and use humor well, then everything you do after that gets interpreted through the frame that your initial energy had. If your first impression of someone is very favorable then you can get away with a lot of stuff that you otherwise could not, and that w…	/r/seduction	15/05/14 04:42 PM
1	'[FR]' A Broken Heart Got Me Four Dates in a Week Well, keep in mind that most field reports are the beginning of the interaction only, because people are pumped to talk about it. A number or a scheduled date are good, but it's only the start.	/r/seduction	06/05/14 05:42 PM
3	I'm a girl who wants to go out, but I need help getting over my approach anxiety! Ya this is really the key. Learn how to have conversations with people in general, without need to accomplish an end goal. For example, chat with the barristas when you get coffee, ask people about their dog when they are walking it, talk to your old neighbors when they are out front gardening.	/r/seduction	08/04/14 09:39 PM
12	Why Nice Guys & Gals Finish Last in Love \| Psychology Today (x-post from Psychology) That might mean you have real boundaries. The typical nice guy might think, oh she's just busy and these things happen, and so on with the excuses.	/r/seduction	11/02/14 01:21 AM