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Lol don’t do that. That’s what girls do with their friends
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:39 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction10/12/20 03:56 AM
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The girl is basically testing you to see how “socially calibrated” you are and seeing if you pick up on the subconscious aspect of the interaction. The shit tests also show how confident you are in your own skin. Best way to pass a shit test is to play them back on her and never explain yourself. Always see it as an opportunity to play with her and tease her. There is no right answer to every shit test. It all depends on the context. -Girl: “Are you gay?” -Guy: “There is a treasure chest in my b…
/r/seduction10/12/20 12:51 AM
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Sounds like she’s trying to balance the power dynamic. Don’t give in and start DEERing. I would just leave her on read or respond with 👍🏻. Text her in a couple of days and try to reset it up. This is just opportunity to show you have priorities and are nonchalant
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:21 PM
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“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” Aka fuck her brains out while she yields to open up her legs to you and be outcome independent once she closes them
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:32 AM
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Bro you said it yourself... she’s not on the feminist/ SJW end of the spectrum. Just like most likely you’re not on the white power/ fascist side of the spectrum. Regular people cast votes based on healthy understandings of whatever party they’re supporting. If you don’t respect each other’s political views and politics is a big part of you guys’ life then I would consider breaking up. In the meantime just nail her and have fun
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:43 AM
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How is your posture when you sit/ walk? Do you look goofy/ weak? Do you emit vibes of being soft? For whatever reason there is something that makes me think that you’re attracting domineering assholes that see you as easy prey. For the guy sitting at the bench I would’ve just sat next to him and kept the girlfriend on the end of the bench and I would’ve just looked at him in the eye while not saying a word. If the eye contact persisted I would’ve said “looks like you are more comfortable now” an…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 04:32 AM
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Bro. Your story is IDENTICAL to mine. I moved from Florida to texas for a girl after doing LDR for a few months. Thankfully I was able to transfer with my job but eventually ended up bouncing to other gigs that paid a lot less and that were not as career oriented like the one I had in Florida. My Oneitis was bad to the point that I even sacrificed my well paying job in Florida and made arrangements to go be with her. Once I got to texas I didn’t have any friends and gained weight as I stopped go…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:47 AM
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A drunk and a slut... you’re giving too many fucks imo. Strictly plate and don’t take her out as friends if you feel she’s a headache
/r/askTRP25/10/20 07:03 PM
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For every hot girl you see there’s a dude tired of fucking her
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:24 PM
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An answer was good enough but you just had to insult the guy too didn’t you
/r/askTRP11/09/20 11:03 PM
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Can you give examples of you recently setting expectations onto others or you hoping to achieve a certain result out of something? The reason why I’m asking is because often times it is us that put ourselves in situation with the least favorable of outcomes.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:53 AM
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Simple answer: never DEER do DARE Also, that one time she didn’t show up for the FaceTime date you should’ve soft next’d her. The silence and your distance would’ve sent the message that you don’t tolerate that type of shit.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:33 PM
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So you had oneitis previously and are adhering to her rules by complying to “taking breaks”, allowing her to go see her “gay” friend, and wanting to get back into fitness just to impress her? IMO you have Oneitis 2.0 by putting in more effort than her. Gay friends in my opinion are a red flag. For all you know he may be bisexual. Females with gay friends tend to be very liberal which is a no go for me and the gay friends are open minded to the point they may encourage a break up or casual hookup…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:03 PM
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My comment can be related to Stoicism principles too. Look into that too
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:24 PM
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Mental point of origin. Get more pleasure out of your own life by making plans with yourself that add benefit to you as a person by self investing (ie money, game, muscles, self actualización, fun, rest, hygiene, learning new skills, hobbies, making/developing/ fostering QUALITY friends) instead of chasing tail and going out of your way to please/ accommodate others to just be perceived as a “good guy”. In other words become the best version of yourself just for you instead of looking for valida…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:24 PM
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Foam Cannon Party in Cancun. She said I was cute and she was drunk. One thing led to the other...
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:42 AM
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Powerful post. Thanks for your insight!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 03:13 AM
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“Cool. Call me daddy”
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:55 PM
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“Women don’t care about your struggle. They hang out at the finish line and pick the winner”
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:42 PM
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Spot on mate 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/seduction19/03/20 05:14 PM
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Word.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:43 PM
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100%
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:18 PM
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I don’t see the reason why you would have to use sarcasm. Bragging about your position actually drives your SMV as you have a C-level job in which people report to you. I would leave out the fact that it was just handed to you by your dad. I would answer with something funny that relates to your job and the people who report to you or work with
/r/askTRP30/01/20 12:44 AM
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Go for the swimmer’s body. Broad shoulders, V taper
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:17 PM
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She’s betanaizing you with her drama and insecurities. Be careful agreeing to everything she says just to satisfy her own needs. You’re not doing anything wrong in my opinion. I would soft next...
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:42 AM
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Agreed 100%
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:55 PM
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That’s something you don’t know. It’s not women who put us on the friend zone but rather it is ourselves. With proper frame and escalation you’re doing your part. She either takes it or leaves it. Don’t be needy and let her chase you if anything. You can’t control how she sees you from the get go, go out and game her and escalate properly. If it’s not directing toward your terms/ conditions keep spinning other plates simultaneously.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:25 PM
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You’re sounding outcome dependent. “If she X, then I Y”. By what you’re saying there’s chemistry. What is there to lose to initiate asking her out? Don’t pedestalize. Go in with strong frame. Remember: the goal is to bang her: anything that may come after that is welcomed but it shouldn’t dictate expectations on you.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:18 PM
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Either use her as social proof to attain more plates and to make her notice other chicks dig you or simply brake it off if sexual incompatibility is a problem. I mean, what else can she bring to the table? Remember: the one who needs the other the least is the one with the more power in the relationship and by her giving you a chance makes me think you control frame and can have the relationship on your terms. But I agree with everyone, spin plates as you’re young, specially since now you discov…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:20 AM
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Life in itself will throw in “tests” her way. My advice would be for you to have wide open eyes, be self aware, and make the vetting process AT LEAST 1 year. What type of tests are you thinking of that would help you vet her better to to reveal the characteristics you’re looking for? Richard Cooper always says a woman’s true character will be revealed when they’re under real pressure i.e.: Lost luggage when traveling, spontaneous change of plans, etc. Watch carefully how she behaves at a social …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 10:53 PM
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Works like a charm each time: -When first meeting her, go in for the upfront hug while lightly holding her hips and kiss on the cheek. -Right after: Hold her hand, spin her and say: “We should sip our coffee (or whatever your date is about) standing so I can keep looking at you from head to toe. You’re cute.” Innocent laughter It is mostly PUA material but it sets a strong male- female interaction/ frame from the beginning. Good luck
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:59 PM
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Mate you’re trying to rationalize with a WOMAN who you happened to just put the girlfriend title to. Women are not rational creatures regardless what they are/ may mean to you. Next time agree and amplify shit tests like that. Respond with something like: “-If he fucks you he is doing me a favor to no longer feel bad since I had previously already... (pause and let her hamster spin and just say “never mind” or “oops” in a joking manner)
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:30 PM
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