So last night I hooked up with a girl who has a typical bluepill bf. Not only is this guy insanely beta and insecure, he also is a disgusting slob. We used to be friends 2 months ago and I never saw him with clean clothes or a clean room and he always smells like 3 day old sweat. He has very little experience as she was his first and puts no effort into any aspect of his life, Not to mention he's in debt. But they have been together for 3 years.

I have feelings for this girl but don't want to tie myself down. I told her this and said I would like to be with her but on my terms (she has complete control over her current relationship) but she doesn't want to give it up. She wants to keep hooking up with me on the other hand. What should I do here to get her to ditch the loser and become my main plate?