| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 896 | Dear men lurking this sub... | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | rizzo1717 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 252 | Almost felt bad for the guy until I read he ditched his fiancé for Pam. Pam helped that girl dodge a bullet. | DUMP HIS ASS | rizzo1717 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:19 PM |
| 224 | Women are conditioned to smile and be nice. No more. | LEVEL UP | rizzo1717 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 08:53 PM |
| 50 | If he turns the conversation suggestive, desexualize it. | STRATEGY | rizzo1717 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 11:07 PM |
| 31 | Friend 1 asking me about a guy from HS on behalf of friend 2. Both have a terrible habit of giving shit men the benefit of the doubt. | NAH, SIS | rizzo1717 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:30 PM |
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| 1 | do non red pill men exist?This | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/26 01:48 AM |
| 14 | do non red pill men exist?Men can still subscribe to the ideology or aspects of it/ misogyny without knowing what red pill is. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/26 02:34 PM |
| 8 | Trying to Unlearn a Damaging Belief About DatingDo you have a job? Do you show up to work every day wondering if your boss compares you to the last guy he hired before you? Do you wonder if you work as hard as he did or are as good of an employee? What about your friends? Do you wonder how they compare you to their other friends? Do you worry they will drop you as soon as they find new friends because they are “settling”? When you start applying this logic of yours to other areas of your life, you’ll see it’s just silly. Your insecurities are… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/26 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double StandardsTherapy | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/26 07:37 AM |
| 13 | Struggling With My Girlfriend’s Past and My Own Double StandardsOkay so what would be enough for you? She tells you she loves you, wants you, you’re the best, you’re the biggest, you’re the one she wants long term. What will be enough to squash your insecurity? Will she ever be enough? What specific actions do you want her to do to make you feel secure? The past is the past. There’s nothing she can do today that’s going to change yesterday. I feel relationships like this are doomed because men dwell on shit that has nothing to do with them. They ruminate abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you still have standards for body count?Because it’s irrelevant, and nobody’s business. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?Money doesn’t matter in the sense that I don’t need a man to provide for me. Nobody is trying to date a hobosexual. Make your own money and pay your own bills. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?Why would I use my income to pay his bills? I’m not married to him. I don’t live with him. I’m not going to fund his lifestyle. I don’t see many men offering to cover women’s expenses when they are unmarried/not cohabitating. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/26 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?He needs to be able to pay his own bills, so yes. It needs to generate some type of income. I’m not using my income to pay his bills. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/26 05:38 AM |
| 10 | Why do you think relationships don't last as long as they used to?My grandma has stories of trying to leave her abusive drunk husband. She had to hide money under the mattress and commit mortgage fraud to be able to leave and buy her own house. She couldn’t have a bank account, a credit card, and she couldn’t qualify as a single mother. She only gathered the gumption to leave because my uncle/her oldest child gave her an ultimatum (he was a young teen at the time). The children were suffering because of the toxicity. And my gma considers herself one of the luc… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/26 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Do you think the number of sexual partners matters?This is like saying the number of times you’ve jerked off will affect your future girlfriend. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/26 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Do you think the number of sexual partners matters?Then learn to knit or crochet or some shit. JFC. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/26 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?Not the op you asked, but there’s a guy I dated for 6-7 months, where I earned 5x what he made. And that was okay. I treated when we went out, he cooked and cleaned up when we stayed in. There’s different ways to balance a relationship that aren’t $. I also value ambition, and this guy had graduated law school and was studying for the bar. But the further we got into dating, the more his plans for the bar exam fell apart. In the end, he gave up on wanting to take the bar exam at all, and he just… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/26 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?Not currently | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/26 07:40 AM |
| 35 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?Woman here, I’ve pretty much exclusively been the higher earner in all my relationships since 2019. It doesn’t bother me. It only bothers men with toxic ego. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/26 07:21 AM |
| 15 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.Okay well stop doing that. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Sadia Khan exposedGoob got all of it on his IG. It’s rich. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/25 05:16 PM |
| 67 | Chad doesn’t existIt’s easier for them to blame women for “being shallow” and “wanting one type of guy” than to admit why they aren’t desirable themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/25 03:55 AM |
| 4 | I constantly hear this about friendzoningThis narrative was made up by men who only feign respect to try to get their dicks wet. Aka, jerks. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/25 08:48 PM |
| 5 | I shouldnt belive in redpill ? Okay then in what else ?https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/rZtJY3xaCI | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/25 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Red pill has completely ruined my dating lifeSorry to hear about your situation. If you’re on IG, here are some pages about positive masculinity https://www.instagram.com/wearemanenough/profilecard/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== https://www.instagram.com/jgregg_jonathan/profilecard/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== https://www.instagram.com/barrettpall/profilecard/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== https://www.instagram.com/cyzorgg/profilecard/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== https://www.instagram.com/professor_neil/profilecard/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== I hope this helps | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/25 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy.I’m sorry to hear that. I see in your post history you’re almost 30. I hope this means you are on your own, and have the ability to set boundaries/distance as needed. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/24 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy.Well, fuck them. The fact you felt you had to clarify they are republican already tells me everything I need to know about what type of people they are. Keep loving on your fur baby. They are insecure. They probably don’t even show affection to one another, or to you. That’s sad. Toxic masculinity bullshit. That’s who they are, and has nothing to do with who you have to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/24 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy.What is affection? Are you making out with your cat? Because yeah that’s weird. The last guy I dated was a total cat guy. I have three cats, two females and one male. And I’m a woman. My boy cat is surrounded by women 24/7 and he just adored my ex, they had a total bromance. Who fuckin cares what people think about that? Of all the things I have to worry about, people’s opinion of how my ex and boy cat used to cuddle is not even remotely close to making the list. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/24 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy.I feel like this is an issue you’ve fabricated in your head. There’s tons of cat dads and dog dads. Patriarchy is an issue, don’t get me wrong, but like… this ain’t it chief. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/24 12:03 AM |
| 18 | Will you succumb to hypergamy if another man is more successful than you?This. I’m a career-focused woman, and I can’t remember the last time I dated a man who out earned me. The amount of money he makes/his career success would have literally zero bearing on whether I stay with him or not. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 04:23 AM |
| 6 | Is white knight syndrome a real thing men do?Lol I literally do not give a shit if it’s his wife or gf. That doesn’t make a difference in the pattern of behavior. And it certainly didn’t look like an uncomfortable laugh to me. I would be embarrassed if a man acted like that on my behalf. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 8 | Is white knight syndrome a real thing men do?He LAUGHED at the joke until he saw her reaction. That’s what made it masculine toxicity/white knighting. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Is white knight syndrome a real thing men do?Will Smith… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Simple Rules for Social ConfidenceThey’ve posted it to like 7 subs. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I’m surprised this made it to the front page of redditI mean, one person did some digging into this woman’s background and found religious and alt-right affiliations... I’m not here to say her story is true, or not true, and I also don’t support the porn industry or porn hub... however with that being said, one of my girlfriends drunkenly hooked up with a guy, and it was filmed (and she knew about it) and it got posted to PH (and she knew about that too) but she was cheating on her boyfriend, and once HE knew about the video, she lied and told PH s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:21 PM |
| 21 | Don’t explain why you’re leaving. Just leave. He doesn’t care and it gasses him up to know he upset you. Literally ghost him from your life for maximum damage potential and move the fuck on.I generally don’t encourage treating men like this however there’s always an exception to the rule, and I actually ended up doing this not too long ago. I met someone while I was traveling. We had an amazing time together and had great chemistry. I was only staying about a week, but before I left, I made plans to return 3 months later. During our time apart, communication was inconsistent and sporadic. And that’s okay. I didn’t have any expectations. But when I returned, he was pressuring me to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 19 | Indian men are so embarrassingsEnD pIcS oF bObS aNd vAgEnE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:37 PM |
| 18 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Yes I can, but that’s doesn’t help me with the wasted effort of getting ready. Honestly, when people have canceled or changed plans at the 11th hour, it’s the amount of effort I spent setting the time aside to get ready and go to the event that I’m most mad at myself about. So I don’t set that sort of time aside for just anyone now. I would rather get drinks with someone, decide I’m not into it, and go to the gym, than exfoliate and moisturize my skin, shave, do my hair, paint my face, walk out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 17 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.I prefer casually meeting for a drink/coffee instead of dinner. Grabbing drinks or coffee can be a minimal time commitment. Dinner is a bigger time commitment - in regards to getting ready for a first dinner date, and actually sitting through a meal with someone I’m not sure I’m ready to invest that kind of time in. I would rather be more prudent with my time than commit to more than a cheap $23 drink/coffee date. I have other shit I would rather be doing than suffering through a dinner with som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:03 PM |
| 51 | Almost felt bad for the guy until I read he ditched his fiancé for Pam. Pam helped that girl dodge a bullet.I don’t encourage taking advantage of men either. But I also don’t feel bad for this POS. They deserve each other. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Beware of Love Language discussions on the first date - RED FLAGHahahaha Mines acts of Service but he didn’t identify with anything that was important/spoke love language to me. Huh 🤷🏻♀️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Beware of Love Language discussions on the first date - RED FLAGMy ex didn’t identify with any of them. His love language was me planning everything. He was indecisive and awful at making decisions because it gave him anxiety, so when I created itineraries when we traveled, he said that’s what made him feel loved. Which I thought was interesting, because yeah - men usually say touch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areMale version of Pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 15 | Dear men lurking this sub...I’ve gotten a couple troll DMs since I posted this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:49 AM |
| 7 | Can we make a playlist for this subreddit?No excuses - Meghan trainor Blood in the cut - k flay FML - k flay Lizzo (Juice, Water Me, heaven help me) Yesterday - imagine dragons (about having no regrets) Ignore me - Betty who My neck my back - Elle King | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 11:32 PM |
| -2 | If you are single and childfree, don't date single fathersHis ex (the kids mom) died but okay... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Another "Forever GF" is dumped by her "boyfriend" after he wastes 7 years of her youth. Do better, ladies. Ghost them after no more than 1.5 years without a ring. He's just not that into you. LET THIS BE ANOTHER DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!Have you ever been divorced before? In middle class America, nobody wins in a divorce, except MAYBE the spouse of super rich people. Your thought process is borderline delusional. This is not how real life works. I suggest you watch the documentary Divorce Corp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Another "Forever GF" is dumped by her "boyfriend" after he wastes 7 years of her youth. Do better, ladies. Ghost them after no more than 1.5 years without a ring. He's just not that into you. LET THIS BE ANOTHER DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!It’s gonna cost you a helluva lot more than $5k in the long run to separate from an unfaithful husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Another "Forever GF" is dumped by her "boyfriend" after he wastes 7 years of her youth. Do better, ladies. Ghost them after no more than 1.5 years without a ring. He's just not that into you. LET THIS BE ANOTHER DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!You are absolutely right about common law. And in CA, common law is about as solidifying as a legal marriage, AND pre nups do very little to protect you against state law. BUT. I think it’s important to remember - a ring is just a ring. Papers are just papers. A dress is just a dress. None of these guarantee commitment. I can attest to this, because it seems like 90% of the men I attract (for whatever fucking reason 🤦🏻♀️) are married men. You can pressure/manipulate/coerce/persuade/enchant a ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 11 | Another "Forever GF" is dumped by her "boyfriend" after he wastes 7 years of her youth. Do better, ladies. Ghost them after no more than 1.5 years without a ring. He's just not that into you. LET THIS BE ANOTHER DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!“Ghost them after a year and a half with no ring” lmao ummm no. This is ridiculous advice. Also, I have waaaay more to lose in a divorce than a man so I’m not even sure I want to get married. Already said no once. Retaining your power isn’t necessarily about ghosting them when they don’t propose to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 13 | Women are conditioned to smile and be nice. No more.Yeah like “calm down, it was a fucking compliment” lmao how the fuck is asking me if I’m horny a goddamn compliment, you piece of shit? And yes. The number of women who have thrown in their two cents has been eye opening for the men who are like “omg who would do this?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:38 PM |
| 23 | Women are conditioned to smile and be nice. No more.🙋🏻♀️I just got back from Hawaii and was sick of the number of married men coming at me for a picture of me - not in a swim suit - but wearing a goddamn sports bra. And then when I stand up for myself, I’m the fucking asshole. Lol k gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Internet safety - protect yourselves ladiesExcellent advice. I have an estranged family member stalking my Reddit so I’m already relatively selective in certain information I share. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 11:20 PM |
| 25 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateI’m thinking to myself damn this is harsh.. but then i saw your comment about the narcissism and now I just want to applaud you 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | A Female 'Firefighter' Shows Why You'd Want a Man to Rescue YouFemale paramedic here. When I was still working on a bus, my company had a physical agility test you had to pass in order to qualify for the job. There's no maybe sorta kinda perhaps you can lift this weight... you either can or you can't. You either get the job or you don't. Nobody is 'pushed' through. My (female) EMT partner and I were the only 24 hour 911 unit to not be allowed to use a power gurney. She is 5'2", and I'm 5'8". We lift 300# patients just fine. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/16 06:15 AM |
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