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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Would you marry again? (poll)		rjm101	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 10:24 PM

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1	I’m an ugly 39M guy and women are getting vindictive towards me for declining to be their backup plan. Don't even interact with the ones that you think could be trouble and consider whether you can adjust your surroundings. If you don't want the hassle consider not outright rejecting them but rather just being distant in a more subtle way.	/r/MensRights	22/06/26 06:55 AM
4	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week Well played on reading in between the lines there. Seems obvious now. OP I hope this isn't true but probably worth looking at what happens whilst you're away.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 06:29 PM
4	Why the fuck would anyone get married again? I think the trick is to not technically legally own or earn anything and for this to be done prior to marriage. Obviously effectiveness will vary based on your jurisdiction but the UK for example has trusts. Put all your assets under that, for earnings maybe you have a company, also put that under the trust and keep earnings within the company. We see the wealthy go through divorces all the time and I wondered how on earth are they not getting totally rekt from this and it's probably because the…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/25 04:51 PM
17	Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction? Finasteride can cause it. It's medication that can halt balding somewhat.	/r/MensRights	22/08/25 08:23 PM
12	Being Alone Sucks I've recently come to a realisation that it doesn't matter whether you raise a family or not we will all eventually be alone. For example my father has an old family friend let's call him Bob. Bob had a wife and 2 kids. The kids are now grown up and the wife sadly passed away. Bob is now pretty much alone. Sure he might get a visit here and there from his adult kids but that doesn't change things much. He is now alone in his big house on a day to day basis. Picture a perfect family and even in t…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/25 10:15 AM
2	Are MEN to blame for the UK fertility crisis? Women want children but are forced into freezing their eggs due to the 'mating gap' - where they can't find a partner to commit OP: More male hate! UK women are very standoffish. The difference is night and day when you visit other non-western countries.	/r/MensRights	30/10/24 03:17 PM
16	My Wife Is In A Coma It wasn't a coincidence that you said what you said. Your intuition is your higher self that operates outside of time. Interjections like this come at critical times of our life. Research near death experiences and you'll find thousands of accounts that claim on a first hand basis that there is more to this life. These are people that have had serious near death incidents themselves many which were clinically dead under medical supervision who've had respected careers themselves like surgeons so…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/24 09:44 AM
6	My wife left me and I’m struggling with understanding why. This comes across as planned. She wants half your stuff and the child support payments. I wont be surprised if she repeats the same scam a year or two down the road with someone else.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/24 03:48 PM
11	Despite the stereotype that men cheat, more, study finds women are more likely to cheat It's common sense when you think about it: Take Maria. Average looking women. If she posts her profile on a dating site she'll get hundreds of likes and match easily within 24 hours. Take average Joe smith. Nothing special about this guy but he has a decent job and isn't overweight. In 24 hours he might get 1 like if he's lucky. The opportunity presented to be unfaithful is going to be bombarded for women, not men.	/r/MensRights	21/09/24 07:47 AM
7	Wife admitted to not loving me Honestly it just sounds like she wanted a number 2 to help her with the bills and kids. I guess just another reason not to date single mothers. It's sad to see but if they can solve a lot of problems just by marrying a stable guy they can tolerate living with then they'll do that.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/24 05:25 PM
12	Traditional gender norms for men, but not women If you're on a date ask her if she considers herself a feminist. They almost always say yes. Then when it comes to paying cover your half and remind her that's she's a feminist and can pay her way. They can't have their cake and eat it. Then they might have the audacity to say: "You asked ME out" Me: "So every time your friends invite you out they pay for everything? Yeah right🙄"	/r/MensRights	07/09/24 09:40 AM
5	“I HATE MEN” They hook up with bad boy players and wonder why they got hurt. They think he would be different with them🙄 The "I hate men" call should always be responded with a question about why they hate their father, grand father, brothers and uncles.	/r/MensRights	10/08/24 12:55 PM
1	50/50 assets splitting is not a fair policy. They need to have the same overall net worth too.	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 06:02 AM
4	50/50 assets splitting is not a fair policy. That is beyond messed up. Men need to fight for better protections against legislation open to abuse like this.	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 06:00 AM
16	Being a Passport Bro solved all my problems with women IRL. Would you ever bring your woman back to the US though? Environment plays a factor and I can't help but think bringing them back to the US over time as they make friends, get exposed to US attitudes will contribute to a change in their behaviours.	/r/MensRights	30/07/24 11:48 AM
22	Half a fucking million. Marriage only makes sense for broke people that have nothing to lose. In my country prenups don't mean anything either.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 08:33 AM
8	Most of my friends have become massive simps Some people just cant manage their time well when they're in a relationship. I've seen this all the way back when they're teenagers. It's pretty weird and kinda sad that these people are willing to throw their friendships under the bus for some partner. Obviously when its over they come crawling back acting like nothing ever happened. It's an immature thing to do and also suggests a rather toxic relationship with their partner that's bound to fall to bits. Call it like it is: telling them to sto…	/r/MensRights	27/05/24 12:38 AM
11	Being a man sucks and women are awful The older I get the more I learn to appreciate religious god fearing women. It keeps their morals and actions in check.	/r/MensRights	18/04/24 09:53 AM
10	Why won’t Britons serve in the armed forces if called? \| YouGov Because my life is not worth less than a politicians who gets to cosy it up and stay out of the meat grinder.	/r/MensRights	28/02/24 08:43 PM
24	My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day. It's genital mutilation and I'm tired of people acting like it's not. Clearly it is.	/r/MensRights	28/02/24 06:08 PM
9	Last post I made here was about going on a date with a woman... she just dumped me I don't think we can let ourselves get too emotionally involved to the modern woman these days. Go into this with the expectation of failure. Assume they are going to let you down and if they don't then it's a pleasant surprise I guess. I think part of the anger comes from all the effort and investment people put into relationships. Dial that back so that it's not as painfull. It's more work anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/24 12:29 AM
9	Tired of conditional love They're focused on money because they know there's simps out there that will give them everything. The men that do this are the ones that are making it worse for the rest of us.	/r/MensRights	25/12/23 10:42 AM
1	Do y'all feel like your life would be better if you were a woman There's one thing I know would be better for sure is my love life. I'm too ashamed to go deeper into it but yeah my situation is just ridiculous at this point.	/r/MensRights	19/11/23 11:58 PM
6	My 2nd divorce is coming Women want to marry but don't want to be wives. In a world where a lot of people are not religious there's no god fearing to keep both together no matter what in order to get through the tough times. To top it off women are usually financially rewarded for triggering a divorce. Marriage just doesn't make much sense in today's society.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/23 10:57 AM
6	Why do women keep asking where all the good guys at? They know exactly where they are. They're the ones in their friendzone.	/r/MensRights	09/11/23 12:39 PM
15	The end of an era? Bumble is crashing down, losing 80% of its value. It's a useless app because women don't make the first move. Best you'll get is a "hi".	/r/MensRights	07/11/23 05:32 PM
2	When a man wants to split the bill on a date she says— “Oh my god…you wanted to just be friends? I'm so confused - this whole entire time I thought this was a date. I'm so sorry - here's my card.” One sided relationships are tiring and wear down eventually.	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 07:54 PM
14	When a man wants to split the bill on a date she says— “Oh my god…you wanted to just be friends? I'm so confused - this whole entire time I thought this was a date. I'm so sorry - here's my card.” Pay and you'll be setting a precedent for the entire relationship that you're her personal piggy bank. For those that pay they only have themselves to blame. Also I bet she considers herself a feminist. Equality for thee but only when it works in her favour 😅	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 06:55 AM
1	Body shaming (more like advocating for total short men death) This is why I imagine Napoleon waged wars.	/r/MensRights	30/10/23 10:40 PM
12	Funny but relevant: Why do men hate celebrating their birthdays Because it's just a reminder that you're getting old. Birthdays only make sense when you're 18 or under.	/r/MensRights	27/10/23 03:40 PM
2	Holding it in when other guys get married If you're divorced then surely they know they can come to you for advice if they really wanted it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/23 06:03 AM
-1	Dividing assets 40% more than I do, has had employer matching options the whole time, and came out of college with less student loan debt than I did. So she has been able to save considerably more for retirement than I have. This explains why she doesn't want lawyers involved. Her view is that she has contributed more financially to our household over the 17 years we've been together so we should just keep "what's ours" Most men have this take when they're the primary earner but still get rinsed regardless. You…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/23 10:38 PM
9	In my country it's legal to discriminate based on gender our race At my company we recently opened up a role. The internal recruiter does the shortlisting for us and I noticed that all of the candidates being shortlisted for the 2 roles we opened were women. Turns out the company has some push for 'diversity'. The approach is just wrong, candidates should be hired based on their skills & experience NOT their gender!	/r/MensRights	12/10/23 03:50 PM
3	Just Venting Not sure why you'd marry someone that was from the looks of things constantly putting you down?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 06:26 PM
1	Would you marry again? (poll) How strange.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/23 05:14 AM
1	Would you marry again? (poll) I have no problem, Maybe, living with somebody for decades? Consider yourself lucky you don't live in say Austrailia where partners cohabiting with eachother can have legal rights and obligations similar to those of married couples.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 01:10 PM
48	Even my dad is buying into the "all men ar pigs bs" "So are you a pig dad? Am I one as well?"	/r/MensRights	30/09/23 10:32 AM
5	Fellas do you guys think there's some truth to this comment? Just confirms my thinking that western women just want park themselves at the finishing line of a race to reap all the rewards that came from finishing 1st but avoid the tireless work that was put into becoming a winner. Then they complain about being objectified and being viewed as a prize when they're the ones that parked themselves at that finishing line instead of bringing their standards down to earth enough for a decent hard working man to get a chance.	/r/MensRights	03/09/23 04:58 PM
3	My (M30) Girlfriend (F37) questioned wether I am a 'real man' or not It's not going to work out obviously. Financial expectations are misaligned and that's a pretty big issue.	/r/MensRights	02/09/23 12:22 AM
2	Is there even any point in moving out nowadays? Early 30's male I'm basically you it seems. Basically I've been focused on FIRE for the past 10 years. I'd really like to move out but it needs to make sense. I want my next job to be fully remote so that I don't need to reside near an expensive city and so I can buy a decent property that could one day raise a family. Living with family trashes the lovelife though. At 30+ the stigma becomes real and at the face of things women (without telling them directly about your net worth) they will not see you as succes…	/r/MensRights	21/08/23 11:08 PM