rkbell Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Am good at opening, but can't actually gain her interest in the convo		rkbell	/r/seduction	23/10/16 04:36 PM
3	So, I think I have a problem with conversation.[FR]		rkbell	/r/seduction	14/05/14 01:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	How do I close the date with the kiss? Climb	/r/seduction	12/05/20 02:12 PM
1	How I Love Being Nervous Go skydiving. Jump naked into a freezing pool. Hell do anything, as long as you’re having fun	/r/seduction	26/01/18 02:09 AM
88	3 steps to approach with insane confidence TLDW; warm up, realize rejection is good, and assume attraction	/r/seduction	06/11/17 05:13 PM
2	FR - First night out alone and stone cold sober Yeah, unfortunately most of my friends feel like in order to approach girls they have to be borderline shit faced, so when I go out with them I usually have at least a couple. If you’re used to it, it’s normal to feel like you can’t approach without a drink. But also realize it’s just your brain tricking you because you’re about to do something that makes your brain uncomfortable. My brain usually goes through a series of thought processes when I first get into a club specifically designed to ma…	/r/seduction	04/11/17 09:46 PM
3	FR - First night out alone and stone cold sober Hey man, good on you for going out solo and sober. I’ve only tried to do it once and failed spectacularly, it sounds like you did pretty good in comparison. With that said, I think I might be able to offer some insight that might help. How to escalate: This is one that I too have trouble with, but the general idea is that you want to prove yourself to the group first, then escalate with the girl you’re attracted to. I tried two ways and have had success and failures with both. First way is to op…	/r/seduction	04/11/17 08:37 PM
2	Success and Attempts Go Hand in Hand Thanks, good stuff!	/r/seduction	18/04/17 09:48 PM
2	Success and Attempts Go Hand in Hand "My conversation skills were flat, I didn't know how to tease girls, make girls feel comfortable." Could you expand on how you worked on this in particular? It's pretty much my biggest problem.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 06:23 PM
1	This will make you an alpha Okay so sifting through the sexual bragging, sexist tirades, and slut shaming of women in this obscenely long post I made some bullet points of the actual useful content: TLDR; Set your ego aside. You must be willing to face rejection a thousand times a night and do it over and over again. No sexual judgement. She'll open up more if she's confident you won't tell anyone. Always be leading. Think of it like dancing. Don't try to impress her in any way. Don't ignore her friends. Make her experienc…	/r/seduction	16/04/17 04:31 PM
1	Staring at the girl's eyes... I can do that, and I hold my gaze. However I find smiling somewhat awkward while looking at her? "Eyes are the window to the soul" If you try to force yourself to do something that doesn't come naturally while making eye contact(like forcing a smile) the girl will see that you're trying to put up a front, and that's what's creepy. Be in the moment.	/r/seduction	31/01/17 05:34 AM
2	From approach to convo. How? EXACTLY. I started a door-to-door sales job this summer. I used to hate door-to-door salesmen. For the first little bit I felt bad annoying people... But then I realized that if talking to a door-to-door salesmen is the worst part of their day, they have a very privileged life. Same thing goes for girls. And what's even better, most girls WANT you to talk to them.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 03:38 PM
4	[FR] Went clubbing lone-wolf Well you seem very optimistic, good for you dude. Too many people take rejection too seriously. It seems like you know what you need to do. Dancing can be a great way to escalate physically, but if there's no emotional escalating/talking/building rapport it won't amount to anything. Keep on improving brother!	/r/seduction	24/12/15 07:53 PM
5	[FR] Went clubbing lone-wolf Props, going into a club solo is ballsy stuff. If you don't know how to dance salsa or bachata, maybe find a club whose music you can dance to/enjoy. Your night should be about you having fun after all. The girls who you danced with, you probably could have gotten them alone to get drinks/smoke break etc. Did you try this and if so how did it go? How did the approaches on the subway go??	/r/seduction	24/12/15 06:35 PM
2	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? I disagree. Yes, you want to be friendly, but I wouldn't escalate kino with a friend. I wouldn't hold strong eye contact with a friend. I wouldn't look at a friends lips periodically throughout our time together.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 03:25 AM
27	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? Alright, so you got a date. That fucking rocks, you fucking rock. You know why you rock? Because you're awesome, and you're interesting, and you're fun as hell. There are no rules here. Talk abut whatever you want, touch her if you want, go do something that neither of you planned on doing because it's what you want to do. Remember, you're awesome, she's awesome, and this is just two awesome people enjoying each other's time. All this is to say, relax. Have fun. If you feel yourself getting too …	/r/seduction	29/10/15 03:22 AM