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| 16 | [FR] The library approach #-close and dating - Long story by a Chinese guy | rleungz | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 06:55 PM |
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| 1 | How do you guys open on a girl in the checkstand at a grocery store?If she said 'no' I would have just smiled and said 'ok' or cried there and then. There is no perfect formula for good lines, openers or general ideas of handling rejection. Just suggested guidelines that have worked for other people. If I was rejected I would have moved onto the next approach and taken what I've learnt from the previous. I read somewhere, 'Stick it out to bitter end', so if you don't get what you expected in the first hour, keep going! I'm a firm believer that you can read all t… | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 09:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys open on a girl in the checkstand at a grocery store?That's fear of rejection concept stuff. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 12:17 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys open on a girl in the checkstand at a grocery store?I actually did this today but the female cashier was in the FX shop behind a bullet proof window. So forget kino or touching! Heres my approach. Me: hey, I'm not actually here to exchange my money, I just wanted to say hello to you. Her: oh right, hello! Me: hello, I am R. What's your name? Her: I'm HB7 points to name badge Me: I know you're working, so I'll keep this short. Would you like to go for a coffee after you've finished your shift? Her: yes, I like that, I finish around 5. Me: cool, le… | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 02:06 AM |
| 7 | Confession: I've been lurking for over a year and still have not approached a girl. Can't get sustained motivation.Watch this short 2 minute video. Changed my life as of yesterday when I approached a girl, got a date 2 hours later and kiss closed at the end. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdymCQ5PXrs The video is called seconds. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 01:36 AM |
| 6 | I feel like this isn't talked about enough: overthinking, stop thinking and start doing.Today of all days mrjewfro667, I have to thank you! I went to the shopping mall today and saw a very attractive female cashier behind a glass panel (the ones the bank uses to protect their cashiers from guns). I wanted to approach but AA kicked in, big style and the 3 second rule got blown up. I sat down, got out my phone and read your post, had a change of heart, walked over to her and asked her out. Went on a date 2 hours later and a kiss close. So, I thank you one more time! Now just the smal… | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 01:27 AM |
| 2 | I'm a guy, and I've lost half my bodyweight (150lbs). Struggling because I lack confidence and still feel fat and have NO game. How do I push my own limits and learn?Have a read of my FR http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/130q45/fr_the_library_approach_close_and_dating_long/ | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 12:24 AM |
| 2 | I'm a guy, and I've lost half my bodyweight (150lbs). Struggling because I lack confidence and still feel fat and have NO game. How do I push my own limits and learn?I remember being 14.5 stone and I lost 4 stone to get an athletic body type because I wanted to feel good about myself. So well done you :) and you're certainly not fat any more. Remember to turn your negative thought into a positive one when you catch yourself doing it. Also, try this for a positive life hack, get a picture of you pre 150 lbs and now and put them together. I took a picture of myself before I lost all my weight and a picture after I completed my first triathlon. It's just a nice… | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 12:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The library approach #-close and dating - Long story by a Chinese guyThank you! It definitely boosted my confidence re-living such a set/experience but now I know about daygame and my recent break up with my girlfriend, I'm wanting to get out there. I'm going to London soon and will most certainly practice what I've learnt off seddit. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What did this guy do wrong?I'm no expert but I'm assuming the camera must have put off the girl. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What did this guy do wrong?"Rejection I don't care speech 101" at the end. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I've known about this stuff for years but just can't do it. I need a coaching/bootcamp. Suggestions?This is great approach to over-come AA. It's how I started getting over my AA towards women but less structured. I started by asking everyone (female or male) where X was and the fastest way to get there. One example I had this morning, I asked a girl with red hair where the train station was and the fastest way to get there. Nice and simple. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 05:48 PM |
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