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bro you are getting too emotional on this i simply stated that i never understood a “coffee date” why would a random stranger and i go out to have coffee for a date in the middle of the day? how am i going to escalate the situation in that environment unless i just want to be friends you think you guys are going to a cafe at 11am and then you going to flirt with her so perfect and take her home on a sat at 1pm? be realistic i always chosen date nights for that reason
/r/seduction24/04/26 04:48 AM
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there’s no way you are closing on the first date with those ideas
/r/seduction24/04/26 04:08 AM
2

there’s no way you go on a date to get coffee at 11am in one of those fancy cafes and think you going to get laid. maybe if you are looking to waste the girls and your time, sure go do that pretty sure she’s talking to other guys that will actually take her out at night
/r/seduction24/04/26 03:01 AM
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you know what’s to waste time getting a coffee on a weekend? at what time too? specially for a first date? for that i rather ask her out for drinks/dinner at night and actually do something than just go to a starbucks and get coffee
/r/seduction24/04/26 02:56 AM
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i don’t get the whole coffee dates tbh. at what time are you telling her to grab a coffee? if both of you have normal working schedule, 9-5pm, when do you ask to grab a coffee? at 7pm???
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:12 PM
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I see what you mean but i wasn’t inside the car, we were outside by her car but regardless i should of tried harder to kiss her. But also, don’t you think if she’s really interested me not kissing her on the first meet up, it wasn’t a proper date mind you, it was only a gym class. no drinks, no dinner etc, it shouldn’t have turn her off at all. i been in multiple dates where i never got chance to kiss the girl first meet up like a gym date and end up smashing on second date after a proper date
/r/seduction21/04/26 01:41 AM
1

Is not lacking abundance, I told her to lmk and put the ball in her court. I was expecting dead silence after that and then she wanted she reaches out. Now problem is she keeps texting me and I don’t want to be pen pals but also don’t want to burn a bridge just for acting tough. I’m replying with low intent and without rush but idk if is the right thing to do or is better to tell her, hey i don’t like texting too much just hmu when you are free and we plan something instead of just ghosting her …
/r/seduction19/04/26 07:19 PM
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We did have a dessert that she got for us from the gym. It was like a protein cookie. Again we finished at 11 and she has to wake up at 4am so time wasn’t on my side. But true, i’m not high priority. Is there a way to change that? Also update, after i told her to lmk when she’s free she said she will but then she keeps texting me low energy. I don’t care to text her but don’t want to ghost her or stop replying since she could be someone that will come back later down the week. So what should i d…
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:59 PM
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Yeah I put the ball on her court and let her decide.
/r/seduction19/04/26 03:48 PM
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I understand what you saying but also this place is way too far from our places. Like a 20 min drive. Also it was pretty late and she has to wake up early next day because of her schedule, not a lie or bs btw. But how is she matching my low energy when I was matching her high energy and I just switched to lower energy when she started doing it. Could also be her age? She’s 20 and i’m mid 20s?
/r/seduction19/04/26 03:46 PM
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I mean I’m just asking for advice bro. I know what I have to do… Get your money up, improve looks, start dating new women etc But you guys don’t understand what I’m asking here… I just want to have this girl to have casual sex when I can’t get laid with a new chick. Im not looking to go back or anything. What’s the difference between fucking my ex that I was with for 9 months and a random chick that I met yesterday and could of been getting fucked by different dudes?
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:06 AM
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My bad bro, I just realized I’m in the wrong sub. I thought it was AskTrp. I’m not married
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:02 AM
0

What do I need to improve? I want to improve
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:59 AM
-1

Bro I have been working out for years, being a relationship never made me stop from working out. I’m already beach lean, whats losing/gaining 10 more pounds will change on what I want
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:57 AM
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Obviously, the first 2 weeks it was hard. 3rd week started talking to a girl and went out with her, fucked her. I just want my ex as a way to have pussy while I start talking to other girls
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:53 AM
-7

I understand your point. But like I said I’m not looking for a relationship, just want casual sex.
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:49 AM
-1

I understand, but I’m just looking for sex. I’m not looking to get feelings or talk about the relationship
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:47 AM
-1

Why is that?
/r/askMRP13/07/23 12:36 AM
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That’s my first thought but what about when we called the ex? He knew exactly what she was talking about?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:35 AM
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Wym?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:26 AM
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Should I dump ?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 05:21 AM
-6

Fuck man, it’s going to hurt. I really got to like this girl a lot.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:43 AM
3

Bro recently I hooked up with a girl and couldn’t get rock hard and think is because of the too much porn. How long will it take to go back to normal?
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:28 AM
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Serious question: How do you know if she gives it to other guys easily and makes me work for it?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:08 PM
3

Same thing about the no text or text for logistics thing. That shit doesn’t work with young chicks, maybe 30+ year old.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:45 PM
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What’s a simping Chad lmao
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:42 PM
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Same with the no texting or only text for logistics. It only work with older matured women
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:01 PM
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So you think a guy will be okay dating a girl without sex? If he isn’t getting sex from her, he will get it from another one
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:55 PM
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Isn’t that the point of dating? Unless you live in a fantasy world that’s reality
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:59 PM
8

What’s gross about having sex?
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:20 PM
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I feel sometimes guys get stuck with one girl because they realize how much time they have invested and at least they will wanna fuck before moving on
/r/seduction19/09/20 02:02 AM
1

But if I match with her, set date and just wait until the day without texting, they flake as well
/r/askTRP29/08/20 07:24 PM
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Then who’s the guy that fucks her then?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:55 PM
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My friend told me to text her “we’ll make hot babies” later night as if I’m drunk texting her since she talked about how cute my kid will come out idk, what do you think
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:42 AM
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US
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:37 AM
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Yeah finance manager, was a salesman for 2 years
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:36 AM
0

It’s been 5 dates in a row over 3 weeks, this can’t be normal. Especially here where people say they have dates line up the whole week
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:35 AM
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Probably, I thought that since she agreed the first time
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:31 AM
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Just need to sleep, tomorrow is a new day.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:29 AM
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I just feel rage and anger towards women now
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:26 AM
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Will use it next time, if there’s a next time
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:25 AM
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It’s a sales job, I get paid commission. Some months I make 18k, others 22-25k. So far my ytd is mid 100s, probably will end at high 100s or low 200s
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:18 AM
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Yes sir. Before I use to send a couple of messages and tell her to come meet at x. I realize it didn’t work and now I try to build more rapport and then go for plans
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:15 AM
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Nah bro chill, but I’m nothing special. Have lean body since I always played sports, soccer and bjj. Have visible abs but not bodybuilder status. 5’10, 170. Not beard, been on minoxidal to grow one for 2 weeks, been working so far. Light eyes and sleeve tattoo
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:54 AM
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Is not the girl, is my situation on tinder. Why it doesn’t work for me
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:42 AM
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How can I get more options? That’s why I’m on tinder, to get plates but I can’t even secure dates. That’s what I want multiple plates
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:40 AM
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I’m here because I’m following the red pills methods on texting and their aren’t working. When I said emotional, I meant creating an emotional connection with her. Not to text logical stuff like “I’m here at work bored hbu” shit like that
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:39 AM
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I only use the script as a opener to filter out the ones that are interested. I have actually improve my game from following “scripts”. Before I was like you said, “hey cutie”, “ how’s your day”, “what’s up” etc. I’m learning and I felt I did everything right with her, flirted with her, no boring conversation, she even started convos etc
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:36 AM
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Might try that with a friend. I’m telling you I’m not been needy, I have improve massively. When I started I was been needy and cringe, “hey cutie”, “how’s your day”, “oh no I’m here in the office”, etc boring logical shit. I’m trying to be more emotional with them now.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:32 AM
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Agreed. Just like the other 5 dates, so why do I even try if there’s going to be someone better? Why even try?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:29 AM
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I do that, send some witty opener. See if she reply and then get number set up date and that’s the end. I don’t invest too much time with them unless they give their number. Yeah, I know I’m not the only one talking to them. But like I said, if everything time she flakes is because she found someone better, then why even try? There’s always someone that’ll beat you in something. Maybe he’s taller, maybe better game, better looks. Why even try?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:25 AM
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I know but just like most people in AskTrp say, paying for sex doesn’t help improve your life sexual life. It can’t be terrible bro. People post here daily about their plates that got from tinder. Is everyone supermodel Chris hermsworth status on here?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:20 AM
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Same thing I did with the 1st, then the 2nd one, then the 3rd one....
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:15 AM
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Live in the US. Not into fucking hookers, did that once when I was 20 and it felt like jerking off. I have already started investing in real state and stock market. That’s what I’m saying, not to brag, but a lot of people in their early 20s don’t have this resources. It pisses me off how I can’t even a tinder date. I’m not invested into her, is not the girl but my results on tinder. Especially when I come here and I see people here I have been fucking multiple girls from tinder.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:13 AM
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What script will you recommend? This is the first I used it. Gotten from a YouTube video of ToddV. She just texted me now after I texted her: “All good, just had an old friend hit town anyway” which is obviously a lie but I got from asktrp. She replied : 😬
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:09 AM
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I’m a finance manager in a dealership. So far my YTD is mid 100s going to the best months of the year. Should be ending at low 200s, high 100s depending on the virus thing. I’m here because the results that have gotten other people better with women.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:06 AM
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Why even text me then?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:02 AM
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Tried a hooker when I was 20, and it felt like jerking off. I work in sales, I deal with rejection every day but fuck never this bad
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:01 AM
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Is not the girl that’s fucking me up. It just my luck with 5 “confirmed” dates and all of them flaked. Like legit I don’t even want to do anything anymore
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:00 AM
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Bro I’m 22, lost my virginity at 17. Had a LTR from 17-20 years old. I have only fucked 5 different chicks while people here are saying they fuck multiples girls a WEEK. I can’t wait until I’m in my 30s to start fucking multiple girls. I have a good body, not bodybuilder but lean. Have a extremely good sales job where I make roughly 20k monthly. Not bragging but for a 22 that’s a lot of money. I just feel like giving up. She just texted me now after I replied to her: “All good, I just had an old…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:55 AM
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That’s what I’m saying bro. I just had this bad luck on top of me, I understand that girls will flake but 5 “confirmed” dates and all of them flake? Come on what am I doing wrong? It just pisses me off even more because I’m following you guys approach and is not paying off. I am in fortunate position with my job as a 22 year old, I work in sales and make from 20k-25k a month. That’s a lot of money especially for my age. I’m not bragging and it pisses me off with the luck I have. And with Reddit,…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:49 AM
2

I value money more but I also want to get laid? I have a lot of financial goals I want to reach but what’s the point of making 6 figures a year and not be fucking chicks? That’s why I use tinder, I’m not looking for a relationship unless is girl that will be worth my time
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:42 AM
2

Give a example of submissive message you have sent a chick?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:36 AM
1

Then why even use tinder? 20 dates for 1 date? There’s have to be something wrong
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:53 AM
1

Then wtf??? Do I go for older women and see if they are interested in a younger dude??? On YouTube, most dating coach pull off girls in their early 20s
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:51 AM
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I understand but I’m not looking for a relationship either. I’m just looking to hookup, have fwb and stuff. I’m in a point in my life where I am doing good financially and I won’t have time for a relationship. Then do I even use tinder anymore? What’s the point?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:47 AM
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I completely agree with you about meeting girls in real life. I just can’t with my schedule that’s why I resort to online. Then how do some people win on tinder? I’m telling you is not about matching with girls, is that they flake all the time. I haven’t had a chance to talk to them face to face.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:42 AM
1

I asked because I was reading here on the AskTrp forum that some people ask her to meet somewhere public or pick her up? If it was to me, I would of straight up told her “what’s your address, I’ll be on my way in 10 mins”. People here said that girls don’t like meeting a stranger and getting into their car. For low interest, in the past with other chicks when I texted them on the day of the date they wouldn’t even respond. I think if she wasn’t interested she will would of left me on read or som…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:36 AM
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I’m more angry about my luck in general, her in specifically I don’t give a fuck. I understand if a date or two flakes in a span of two weeks. But bro, 5 “confirmed” dates by using the example you guys preach and none of them go through. Yes I can think, “oh whatever someone better than me approached her” but fuck all 5 times? Why even try? Set 20 dates for one to happen? Is this how you are suppose to get plates/dates?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:31 AM
1

If I could post the tinder chat I’ll do it but it will a pain in the ass. When I asked her to grab drinks, she said Yes it sounds good. Then I gave her my number. She said nice today after I told her, I leave at 7:30 so 8:30 should work out. I thought she knew what I was talking about. I’m not going to text to HMU when she’s free but I don’t want to NOT reply because she’ll think I’m hurt
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:13 AM
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On tinder, she told me she’s looking for a relationship and I said I’ll consider a relationship with the right girl. On the deeper issues, can you be more specific? Like give me some examples what could be wrong, and I try to be the less needy I can while texting.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:10 AM
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I don’t even want to try anymore bro, this experience just sealed my confidence away
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:48 AM
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I felt I fucked up by not calling. Over Tinder I texted her this, BTW this are some tips I gather by watching Todd V on YouTube M-What’s your view on going out for drinks this week? H- Don’t have none M- You do now I haven’t made plans for Friday yet but x sounds good. Meet me there! H-Yes it sounds good M- 8:30-9 works for me Text me @ x She texted me next morning. I don’t think I have been hard on myself but fuck bro it happens every time now, IDK what the fuck I’m doing wrong. She just texted…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:47 AM
1

Any tips on been more flirty with girls on tinder?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:35 PM
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When I read it the first time, I thought she rejected the offer. I’m stupid lol
/r/askTRP26/08/20 07:14 PM
1

Bro can you give an example if you don’t mind. Thank you
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:08 PM
1

What do you mean? Isn’t that a rejection to my question on going out?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:03 PM
1

Lmaooo true, but some tips wouldn’t hurt.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:54 PM
-2

I always follow this: “Is not what she says, but how she acts”. Is the same ASD that girls put on her bio “Not looking for hookups” but ends up fucking the guy
/r/seduction26/08/20 03:52 PM
-1

Cellphone number, I got by telling her: I barely get my notifications here, text me #
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:47 PM
1

Alright. What can I reply to her answer on the last text?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:35 PM
3

I think the main fear that comes when asking a girl out, is not the fear of asking her but the fear of rejection and what other people might say/think. That has been my problem for the longest time that I’m trying to fix.
/r/seduction24/08/20 05:18 AM
2

Can you give an example of him been defensive towards her? Because I wouldn’t understand how can he could of in a defensive manner about that question?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:12 AM
1

I get you. Also, on your 1st sample about Mr.V, how is telling her “I just had the juiciest burger. Still got some on my beard” how’s that flirting?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:49 AM
1

The topics switched because what else can I keep saying about BJJ? She agreed that she will like me as a coach, I ask her when do you want to take your first lesson and then she switched the conversation to where I live by.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:24 AM
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Fuckkkkk bro, that line was too good. I’m plagiarized that line lmao. But yeah I understand what you are saying, that’s why I’m asking for examples of things I can say to make it more flirty/cocky but I never come up with anything on the spot.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:21 AM
1

Yeah bro things like that, but actually showing a whole conversation. Because I can use that line, get her number, text her and set up a date. Then they ghost me again
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:39 AM
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I train MMA. I have been training it for 3 years. The way my gym has it set up, M-W-F, we have BJJ No-Gi for 1hour and then 1 hour of Muay Thai. Tuesday and Thursday, you either can Gi BJJ or wrestling practices. Also there’s morning classes but I can’t go due to work.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 04:18 AM
1

So when should I text her again?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:08 AM
1

But legit, the today’s convo were like 7 text max and us just talking about our jobs. And then is when I texted her to go out. Did I handle the situation right after she told me about her grandpa or I fucked up?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 04:34 AM
1

I mean I wanna fuck other girls than the ones I’m currently hitting on. And on ig there’s a bunch
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:39 AM
1

How to get instafamous? Any tips?
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:26 AM
3

What about if I met this chick on IG and don’t know her in real life? How can I start to engage her in meeting up then ???
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:23 AM
1

Lmaoooooo
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:35 PM
1

You couldn’t live with your own failures. Where did that bring you? Back to us.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:27 AM
1

After doing that, what’s the best way to escalate to go out/ possibly sex? Will she do that on her own since she will try validate herself to me since I won’t be one of her beta orbiters?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:09 AM
1

Understood! So if she comes and start flirting with me I should be dry and not flirt back? Is there a chance that she will think I’m shy thus why I don’t flirt or give her A&V?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:52 AM
1

I’m glad I got mostly everything right. But can you elaborate on how to next her (ignore her)? Because let’s say, if she wants to fuck anyone in the workplace, wouldn’t she go for the ones that flirt back/do stuff for her and not me since I’m ignoring her? She would just think I’m not interested. Thanks
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:41 AM
1

What’s a good way to make it seem like a prank? Never been in this childish scenario
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:16 AM
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Yeah fuck it, just going to move on unless she starts something
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:02 AM
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I understand, but this isn’t a job I’m planning on been for more than a couple month as I will be moving soon. But if you have anything tips I can use I’ll appreciate it
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:53 AM
1

Fuck peace, if you can’t aim for peace then aim for between the eyes
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:28 AM
6

You sound triggered by that response
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:54 AM
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Cringe as fuck lmao
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:53 AM
1

How often do you use the strips? And what toothpaste do you recommend
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:42 AM
2

Rack Pulls below the knee just takes the legs out of the equation making the lift more back focused. If you are working out back I always recommend to do rack pulls instead of deadlift. Deadlift is a more lower body movement hence you are using your legs more. Let’s say you deadlift 405 x5, but you can rack pull 405 x12. Which one you think will benefit your back gains more?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:58 AM
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Yep I rotate them, on my first pull workout I do them below for overall back gains and then second pull day I do them above after a set of weighted pull ups
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:38 AM
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If you want to get a thick back then do RACK PULLS. Deadlift is a entire body movement, Rack pulls specially below the knee target your back more and if you want to improve your traps then hit them above the knee
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:29 AM
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Have the “I am the prize” mentality. A tip I used when I see a hot chick is, keep in mind I am huge Conor McGregor fanboy, I am change her “bum” life literally. I think to myself, I bet she is having a bad time and when I talk to her I am bless her life. Sounds funny but I don’t care it works for me.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 12:26 AM
4

Can you explain soft next and hard next?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:11 AM
1

I watched a video of joe Rogan and Jordan peterson on polyamory and monogamy. Does this too are related to hypergamy and polygamy?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:14 AM
1

I am getting the Rational Male next week from amazon, I just been watching his YouTube videos with Elliot Hulse and entrepreneurs in cars. Do you have any good podcasts on iTunes about the red pill?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:03 AM
2

So hypergamy doesn’t come to play when been an alpha?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:01 AM
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Actually I stopped watching it like 3 weeks ago.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:15 PM
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What’s so stressed about man? In two weeks you will be making 70k. That’s roughly $1300 after taxes a week? Just pay up your roommates and start saving. Just hang in there for this first few months
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:00 PM
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I agreed with everything, except that Messi’s is the greatest of all time.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 12:23 AM
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Why would you state that? Aren’t you cutting your chances at getting plates at work and the gym a lot? Since we spend a good amount at this places.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:33 AM
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