Hey guys

So a few months ago, in February, I dm this chick on ig and we started talking. She is a fitness girl and I work out too. So we set up a gym date for the following week. She then completely stop engaging in the convo and ghosted me. Not big deal I don’t chase her.

Then randomly, she hmu early this week and said it was kinda rude from her for not replying blah blah blah. Then she invites me to a fitness class that she does, I said yes and we meet up a few days after. Do the class and we were high energy, flirting, making jokes etc. After class, we talk outside by her car for a hour trying to get to know each other.

Then after we leave, she kept texting me like normal and then the next day I start seeing her responses taking longer and shorter. So I match her energy, and then I’m like I ain’t playing this game again. I sent her when she’s free this upcoming week because she did stated she’s busy a lot when she was telling me her schedule. She replies she’s busy but she’ll work something out for sure. I said no worries lmk then.

Now my question, is why does this keep happening so I can fix it for the next girl? She start hot, we met and then disengage. Is it because I was texting her too often? I was just matching her energy or maybe I didn’t pass the vibe check? I thought the “date” went good on my end, no weird or awkward moments specially for me going into her “world”

TLDR- i dm girl few months back, she ghosted before date. came back this week, we finally met, and starts becoming distant again. she starts hot and then fades away