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Fundamentals Dana_myte/r/seduction02/02/26 07:59 PM
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Inner Game Dana_myte/r/seduction29/04/26 05:23 PM
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Inner Game Dana_myte/r/seduction25/11/25 05:16 PM
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Field ReportDana_myte/r/seduction11/02/26 06:48 PM
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Fundamentals Dana_myte/r/seduction21/01/26 05:56 PM
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Fundamentals Dana_myte/r/seduction17/01/26 05:48 PM
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Inner Game Dana_myte/r/seduction02/06/25 08:59 PM
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Fundamentals Dana_myte/r/seduction16/06/26 05:04 PM
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ConversationDana_myte/r/seduction10/06/25 06:15 PM
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Inner Game Dana_myte/r/seduction13/12/25 05:59 PM
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Inner Game Dana_myte/r/seduction18/05/26 07:30 PM
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Inner Game Dana_myte/r/seduction29/04/25 09:58 PM
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Fundamentals Dana_myte/r/seduction16/08/24 04:38 PM
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ConversationDana_myte/r/seduction29/12/25 10:32 PM
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You're self improving and putting yourself in the right environment but you're not intentionally going for what you want you're just expecting for the spark to pop up. So the question I have is what does success look like for you? If it's talking to a buddy at the group gym, or rizzing up a girl at stretching class you gotta be proactive about it. Can't just show up.
/r/seduction06/07/26 04:49 PM
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Your feelings are valid and sorry you're going through this I can see how mentally draining it can be. Honestly at the end of the day you're going to do what you want and feel but i'll try to give you my 2 cents about what I just read. You missed to say the reason you guys broke up in the first place which can be key to how & why she is acting this way. but my only recommendation at this point is to keep living your life. I recommend you go and talk to a couple girls you're interested in and see…
/r/seduction03/07/26 04:38 PM
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Text her later "that shit was bunk"
/r/seduction16/06/26 06:50 PM
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lol bruh
/r/seduction13/06/26 04:28 AM
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Well to begin with he wasn't emotionally honest or at least didn't frame it correctly he acted out of jealousy and insecurity. It's another thing if you can have an honest talk about it and see how things can be fixed something like "im noticing this and that, I was wondering if i'm over reacting etc.." whatever this conversation looks like that's being emotionally intelligent. So it aint about if she's the right one majority of people who you attack will defend themselves.
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:26 PM
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^ keep in mind the only works sentence.
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:19 PM
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Totally get where you're coming from but you're lieing to yourself. You can't be the only one communicating because it makes you feel mature, grown, like you're leading, or coming to save her cause shes "scared, doesn't want to be rejected" now that she didn't reply. Shes a girl bro trust me that's a cop out girls say when she finally does reply. In reality she doesn't care about it. You called her twice and got no reply. It's cooked fam what are you hoping for you reach her and she gives you th…
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:31 PM
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Love it
/r/seduction28/05/26 12:38 PM
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Sounds like she's being real about it. She saw you as pass by but the long term wasn't there and she doesn't want it to linger on anymore. While I think the excuses are a bit weak maybe to not be cruel, overall she wasn't that into you & was testing the waters
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:38 PM
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Why didn't you smash her in the car?
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:50 PM
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DW, soon you'll find a girl who you will want to be tied down to without even realizing it. The player thing isn't it.
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:39 PM
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Actually, the long-term relationships I've been in they all wanted to cook for me without me even asking for it. It was their form of showing care or love and what not.
/r/seduction22/05/26 07:17 PM
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Cause it sounds like you like her and you want it to be more than just sex lol
/r/seduction21/05/26 08:01 PM
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If it's just a social thing what works for me is being a safety blanket & letting her fall into your frame. You're the outgoing one right freedom of outcome so what this looks like could be you giving her a peck out in public and if she gets shy reiterate that there's nothing wrong and nobody cares this will slowly show her that it's a safe place. Or things like holding her hand she might feel weird at first but if you sit with it it becomes a nothing burger. Probably a lot of physical affection…
/r/seduction21/05/26 04:47 PM
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I know how to cook I wouldn't feed anyone and say this shits bomb. Plus I don't believe in cooking. My lady should be the one to cook my traditions & upbringing not something I enjoy doing. I was merely commenting to say that I've heard many stories from this community where it seems to be a staple to cook/drinks at their place it's usually a success. I'm open to cook here and there in relationship but catering a meal to have someone come over sets expectations im not willing to withhold. Plus I…
/r/seduction20/05/26 07:02 PM
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I need a crib first otherwise i'll just have the skill sitting there for special occasions which im not too enthusiastic about.
/r/seduction20/05/26 05:07 PM
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OP is ready to smash, you're still playing with the idea of maybe it'll happen maybe it won't. Key thing is social reading in both scenarios.
/r/seduction20/05/26 02:40 PM
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Shit works if you have your own place and actually know how to cook. Which I have neither of the two.
/r/seduction20/05/26 02:37 PM
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When I get "weird" I tend to focus internally on "purpose" and it gives me that calm grounded energy.
/r/seduction19/05/26 05:08 PM
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I had an ex who I would occasionally do it cause I liked/wanted to. Then she started to love it and told me to do it every single time. I would do it to please my partner but I stopped enjoying it. So if you have to tell him or else he doesn't do it he probably doesn't enjoy it.
/r/seduction19/05/26 03:57 PM
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You made this post about you rather than guiding my question and contributing. I get where you're coming from i'm not here to preach that one religion is superior or your beliefs are. I'm glad you figured out what works for you.
/r/seduction18/05/26 09:00 PM
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This post isn't really about if religion is good or bad or getting into the specifics of that rabbit hole. I mention religion as it being a framework of good. I should have probably never posted religion cause its a big ol can of worms and people seem to be feeling some type of way going in different directions that was intended.
/r/seduction18/05/26 08:57 PM
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This is the sort of framework I was looking for, that brings good awareness self reflecting on if i'm genuinely interested in this person or I'm just using tools/tricks to get something out of them would give me my answer. Thanks.!
/r/seduction18/05/26 08:53 PM
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No i'm only dabbling into religion now. I stop by church just to pray and leave, I don't read the bible yet, just learning the story atm through a show on prime called "the chosen". gives me a sense of peace i've never experienced so i'm leaning into it. i'm not fully emersed just trying to do things differently I understand what you're saying i'm totally aware of it. The post wasn't really about religion like that it was more about following good principles and it seems manipulation or knowing …
/r/seduction18/05/26 08:48 PM
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Yes sir. It takes a certain something to hit this phase of realization. For me it was all the shitshow of hurting everyone most importantly myself. it's part of growing up, I'm optimistic that out of learning to be able to be alone and finding comfort in it rather than chasing some dope hit good things will come. For me that's someone who I genuine want rather than chasing and tossing away temporarily someone who I can build a connection with.
/r/seduction15/05/26 04:39 PM
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lol stick to respecting the relationship. it’s a tough spot that’s the battle with the wanting something else but I think the grass is greener where you water it is starting to make sense but you also got to want to water it, jt sucks you only you start wanting to water it when it’s already dead or just doing it to maintain basically half watering is a bit of trouble can be a sign idk tho
/r/seduction01/05/26 02:50 AM
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Si tambien me dice mi papa que ya no es para que este escojiendo la mas guapa mejor alguien que me trate bien y piense bien y no este loca. Lo malo orita ando enculado con una loca pureso ando asi todo pendejo, hasta como cuando te enamoras de una carinosa asi me siento a unque nunca me e metido con una carinosa pero me da esas vibras, es puro sexo y addicion has la quieria un chingo pero se metio con uno despues de 4 anos que quieria relacion pues yo si la doli un chingo me dormia con muchas cu…
/r/seduction30/04/26 08:40 PM
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Came back to say I understand lol.
/r/seduction30/04/26 07:02 PM
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Buena reflexiones me das a pensar. Yo si quiero hijos y mi persona al final del dia con quien voy a dormir cuando ya este grande? lo de los papeles pues hoy en dia como esta la situasion todos ponemos parte. Lo de la casa y cosas materiales yo e mirado como se pone la cosa tambien camino con precausion ya veremos en ese departamento cuando el tiempo diga pero ojala no me asiege jaja.
/r/seduction30/04/26 07:02 PM
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I can see why that would affect anyone. I'm not the type to spill the beans like that, but if they ask I try to be as honest as possible. Wouldn't not revealing the truth however cause closeoff ness and maybe some disconnection? Sometimes things are better taken to the grave I feel that but by that same token can you get intimate? i've gone on this whole release honesty lately don't know if it's right or helping but feels right.
/r/seduction30/04/26 06:54 PM
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yea going through it now
/r/seduction30/04/26 05:19 PM
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I learnt it early on talking around 2012ish from RSD tyler & jeff himself infield footage I would see what he would do, the energy and game and basically copy that and it worked. Then everything else came naturally it was a feeling of control you cannot explain "escaping the matrix" type of voodoo. It did help I maintained fit and was out and about throughout high school I think that shapes the majority of it to come "naturally". Vs guys who stay indoors and play video games and dont socialize o…
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:41 PM
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Thanks for being honest we share the same sentiments. I probably would never be open to an open relationship unless it was me doing everything but then I think it would still sabotage the relationship of the person I'm with just based on energy & experience before. you really got a keeper & I wish y'all the best!
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:25 PM
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This one hit home rn this the transition I'm currently going through and navigating. thank you for the insight, & reassurance will continue to act appropriately and do the right things.
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:19 PM
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Hellz yea That's what I want, a solid relationship, im just getting over a 5 year relationship on and off and inbetween offs a lot of women ultimately leading down destruction, trust issues, etc. I no longer want that I want to build something with someone great rather than sexual.
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:13 PM
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Man that's my goal right there to come to that realization where I don't want to miss the one "whos a level above the rest"
/r/seduction29/04/26 06:44 PM
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What about kids? Feel the fading will always be there without a strong foundation or kids would you want to keep doing this till 40/50ish and just keep moving on to the next chapter?
/r/seduction29/04/26 06:38 PM
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Haha savage
/r/seduction29/04/26 06:03 PM
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I feel you ill def be thinking about it because it actually does work wonders when you have multiple and abundance etc.. But how optimal is that in the long run? being one foot in one foot out works but then comes the question if that part that was out was in would things be different? (hope this make sense) The whole culture is fked shits a shitshow. I haven't found the one lol I found that one that led me to change (hopeful) but not for her for the next person who I chose. Oh def always got to…
/r/seduction29/04/26 05:58 PM
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The same way you went into the relationship.
/r/seduction29/04/26 05:48 PM
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Man you're my idol. Question for you and don't mean to burst your vibes or bubble or open any energy into you but feelings change with people if your current said she wanted outside fun how would you feel about it? For me when it's one way (Selfish) its amazing but when the other person wants to be with others, I'm a pussy i'll rather leave. Also what does your current even look like? is it personal, loving and sharing or just sexual for the most part? I understand you prob have different tradit…
/r/seduction29/04/26 05:44 PM
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No I'm currently taking some time off. I'm coming from a place of fking around so much that the girl I did care about left and it's fine we live But my tendacy would have been to get another girl to detach and move forward only to repeat the cycle. Do you believe in the one? Not the one where it's bubble and fresh because that's pretty fantasy and short lives but the one where you would know you want to settle in life with think like your grandparents or parents.
/r/seduction29/04/26 05:38 PM
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Just trying to understand OP, going to martial arts or gym, or "Blank" doesn't necessarily mean he's dominant or not. What image is he trying to portray or pick up?
/r/seduction24/04/26 07:47 PM
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Well, define dominance for yourself, Dominant can be in owning your work, your fitness, your relationships. What exactly you are looking for and in what realm? where do you feel like you slack in that you feel this need to be dominant? this is too broad.
/r/seduction24/04/26 07:10 PM
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got to get out of your head try to switch the mindset with: This is my friend who I can joke with. Joke/laughter usually leads to flirting.
/r/seduction24/04/26 06:29 PM
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Your first mistake was you initiated future hangout literally next day, you tried to make her think about future plans with you which she is not ready for especially right after sex that's a girl thing to do plus even worse that she's not lookign for a relationship. If you want to save this you literally got to pull away don't text her unless she does and let the whole thing die out, then a week or two later hit her with the "lets hangout". She's clearly not into you and just wants sex, if she e…
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:27 PM
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Sounds like you're justifying it, you're the main character my g. Start leading with authority and conviction on what YOU want, be persuasive if you wanted to she would sacrifice the drive and sleep. What the dude above is saying is talking for long period of time is "girl shit" we all do it but it's a trap they start to friendzone you or lose attraction and you're just there cause you like her. But its about getting high spikes out of them. Suggest a protien smoothie after, or a lunch but make …
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:50 PM
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You def have that idea in mind that's why they gravitate towards you, the seed is most likely already there they see it in your eyes and your vibe. It's up to you to not get caught in a situation you don't want to be in. At the end of the day it's not worth it but you're going to do you regardless.
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:59 PM
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I gotta pay better attention to that reaction, get caught up with too many crazies who I think at the time are just emotional but def speaks to something deeper.
/r/seduction15/04/26 05:20 PM
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You're too outcome dependent and desperate they know & can feel this. I get the feeling you're walking on eggshells when conversating and are trying to say the perfect thing to them. You may throw a hail Mary from time to time to try to escalate things cause your urges skipping steps that ruin the attraction. Something im learning over time that may help is girls get aroused by raising the buying temperature, they want the flirt, the tease, the getting to know you (obviously there's outliers) th…
/r/seduction15/04/26 05:10 PM
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You gotta capitalize on those women now that you decided to take on this journey.
/r/seduction10/04/26 08:04 PM
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I don't mean to shit on you merly analyzing and making you see the introspective I see. You say you haven't really had sex in all your 20's for the above reasons but yet you say you have pull because you were talking to 1 girl? Talking to girls is 1 thing and actually getting them to get in bed and FWB is a whole other thing. You might be undershooting this whole thing. I think you're starting from zero if you ask me, I would say start off by actually talking to someone you're interested in gett…
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:41 PM
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I struggle with the same thing, you almost want to cater to them now that they gave you the kitty or feel like you owe them something. Sex in itself does draw some type of bond so don't feel weird about it especially if they are coming over to you place. I wouldn't feel like this if I was at hers cause then I would just dip home or something. Suggestion is to not take them home find another place or what I've been working on is, getting distracted instead of hugging and cuddling. I get out of be…
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:07 PM
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She wasn't ready to date or move that quick she second guessed herself and pulled back. Only thing you can do is agree and keep going on with your life. Add her on IG for exposure if you're an interesting guy and show her what she's missing out on. not saying to post intentionally for her btw but she would come around again if you seem fun. Act non chalant about it like you don't care and this happens all the time.
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:48 PM
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It's a tough choice, speaking from a perspective of having multiple partners alone, regardless of girl or guy that in itself speaks volume. Some folks don't care but think about the 1-3 first hook ups how hard it was to detach from that person and how much commitment they showed to make something work. Just cause ya'll bedded. You often hear it right "I just don't hook up, I want to give it time and it be real etc they actually want to build something vs. Take a guy/girl who has had 10+ lays the…
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:12 PM
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Thanks for sharing op, if I may ask what acual practical steps do people or are you taking to fix these realizations?
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:15 PM
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Yes thank you for this.
/r/seduction06/03/26 05:32 PM
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Hate the fomo part how do I get rid of it, even if I have an ideal girl there's always that voice/feeling inside, sometimes it makes me feel guilty, sometimes it affects the relationship, sometimes I think about it and don't care. However I do want to change that behavior or way of thinking if I'm going to want to settle down with someone
/r/seduction05/03/26 07:40 PM
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The "“heartbreak” for you is just “waaaaaa they didn’t like me and this hurts!!” Hit home, how do I change this pattern/behavior?
/r/seduction05/03/26 07:21 PM
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Can you elaborate on the cautious upfront and what pumping the breaks looks like.
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:48 PM
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Happens all the time, especially knowing "game" very easy to fall in and out of "lust". I'm still learning how to navigate & deal/communicate with this idea that nothing is forever. Especially dating in today's era, everyone so qucik to switch & move on.
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:08 PM
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Dating apps are weird to begin with it's either a hard yes or a hard No. Idk how much im missing out on but I would say 80-90% of the time get a response off a simple "Hey" I don't say anything witty or funny or engaging unless it comes naturally. I believe if she's interested, she will reply no matter what, that's why there was a connection off a simple "liking of the picture" From there, some respond to direct date offering without saying much. Other girls like to screen, age location, job occ…
/r/seduction13/02/26 05:25 PM
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As everyone else said don't do it. But not like you want to listen, so I suggest you use her to draw her friends and other girls in. Girls bring more girls especially since she sees you as her big brother, she's comfertable this will signal other woman around to also invite you in. Eventually you'll realize her friends are better and you can "game" them, while at the same time she will start to notice your masculinity & want to bag you herself. Therefore, if anything does happen between ya'll it…
/r/seduction13/02/26 05:04 PM
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I can be upfront about it, but it also feels weird just telling someone "btw im dating/seeing other people" on our 2-3rd date they might hit me with the "idc". But I get what you're saying as things progress it's an important thing to bring up.
/r/seduction13/02/26 04:56 PM
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like the reflection, nobody teaches you these things they just kind of pop up what seems common sense isn't so apparent sometimes
/r/seduction12/02/26 10:13 PM
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I have been sleeping with other people the sex addict thing doesn't apply to her I meant in general. But truthfully im probably not, to her maybe I am but to other maybe not.
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:26 PM
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You got the first half right, im only trying to because she's trying to lock me down while not giving anything.
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:24 PM
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I agree with you 100% and that is the direction I also feel it will go. It isn't that I want her to change I legit told her that most likely feelings are mutual and she never disagreed. But she also wasn't willing to let go of the relationship. I'm still gather all my thoughts that's why I came here thank you for the insight.
/r/seduction11/02/26 08:39 PM
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Well yea weve also came to the conclusion that I may be a sex addict. Her personality is cool good person to be around but nothing crazy that im chasing or want this type of girl/vibes is all fairly new. I appreciate your input
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:25 PM
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Both, so when we made out, I actually got attracted sexually signified to me that I could be sexually attracted. But if we are just out and about I'm normally not turned on by her body. & yea part of me wants me to just call it quits cause of these reasons and other part of me says to wait. mixed emotions/signals
/r/seduction11/02/26 07:06 PM
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Amen Brother I felt this Thank you.
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:55 PM
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Sunset pics get them everytime. You have to be in it and it has to be a beautiful background view.
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:10 PM
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Message me my friend they went away
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:36 PM
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Do activities, this takes away the conversation aspect of it. Not that you're completely going to ignore her but let's say a coffee date or dinner is literally 99% conversation vs. a bar or show it will be like 50-70% conversation as you might play games, etc.
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:28 PM
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Lmfao it's a good laugh. I get understand the message.
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:41 PM
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For contexts when love is in play, I am a firm believer in exclusivity. What we have here is 3/4th date/hanging out minimum texting etc so it's all still very recent.
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:02 PM
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The abuse is not talked about enough, guys learn game and get cold for a reason, If they don't they get ran over, laughed at, used, etc. some berly even stand a chance with all the studying and learning they do. If being the "nice genuine loving guy" worked, we wouldn't be having all these conversations on this sub.
/r/seduction03/02/26 07:59 PM
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I'm not posting other dates im posting other things like that "im out" and they make the assumption..
/r/seduction03/02/26 07:55 PM
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It's tough out here.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:30 PM
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Hell yea ill be adopting this one. this is hinting at they need to be spending more time in getting to see me putting it on them.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:13 PM
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I actually said that the "exploring my options" then she hit me back with the "well ima do it too" since she was only talking to me by her claim. I said "go ahead" then she hit me with the "that means you don't care about me" as I said "no I just know you won't find better" she didn't hit back.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:11 PM
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hahaha fuck you right, I will say someshit like this but honestly trying to be mature about it.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:04 PM
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99% always say "something serious" even if they don't mean it -.-
/r/seduction29/01/26 08:09 PM
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Relax bro ain’t nobody butthurt lol Idk if you didn’t read the post. im talking 4th date it’s ain’t like im in a relationship simply asking if this is the norm moving forward
/r/seduction17/01/26 09:51 PM
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I hear you, I see it more from a place of "let me do this for you because im appreciated/grateful". Tbh I pay and go on dates for my own pleasure. Subconsciously want something in return everyone does if not you would not even be there to begin with. Maybe 1. I'm getting tight about my resources or 2. these dates are not able to give value. I've gone on plenty dates where girls offer even a candy, drink whatever even if they don't end up paying There's some value to that. Something about just sh…
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:35 PM
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I get what you're saying. The grey area is I'm not giving 100%, I'm literally not trying and giving few resources. Maybe I'm just seeing girls who don't have much to offer and I don't mean that from a ego or high horse place.
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:29 PM
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Julian used to say you don't need to F*** the grandma, just open her.
/r/seduction17/01/26 05:54 PM
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For dating apps everything moves so quick so it's nothing concrete the only downfall in my experience. It's a good way to get out there, have fun, and get distracted for the time being. But it's just girl after girl. If you're fresh & just want to mess around, you should give that a go. If you're not looking for that type of thing Running clubs especially the popular ones are where it's at.
/r/seduction15/01/26 06:11 PM
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This is the game here ^
/r/seduction09/01/26 10:48 PM
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It's not bad to spam PUA content cause you're learning and programing your brain so when you do practice it you might notice idea's, concepts, situations in which you learned about. But the hardest part is the actual doing. piecing it together gets you the results otherwise you just know concepts
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:50 PM
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She probably makes more than you (her assumption) or/and her love language is gift giving which means she really likes you.
/r/seduction05/01/26 06:31 PM
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Type of response I’m looking for appreciate it.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:14 PM
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Yea my perception might be the same dating apps is like finding a diamond in the rough. I think the idea of the dating app itself says a lot in itself. if you're looking for something serious or someone who is just about you etc that might not always be the case. They got to filter through 10-20 minimum guys daily on the app vs cold approach might be 5 in a month who approach them. I'm on the dating app too trying to feel it out but I think deep down idk if it's practical for long term.
/r/seduction29/12/25 07:29 PM
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A fade haircut will boost your confidence minimum 10 points. but rip wallet overtime.
/r/seduction29/12/25 07:07 PM
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This might be the issue in your post; girls can read the energy and if you're genuintly not fully interested or not giving them what they want to see and vice versa it really won't get anywhere. You're not doing anything wrong I just think you lack the drive and motivation and deep down care/even direction to what you want. You need to do some searching within yourself to see what you're really looking for.
/r/seduction29/12/25 06:28 PM
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REAL AF
/r/seduction22/12/25 06:31 PM
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You're not being persistent enough because you just didn't want it bad enough because you can always fall back on girls who are receptive and use that as comfort.
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:56 PM
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Sometimes this "cool" thing can play in your favor if you know how to use it it's almost like a trance. You know when you are feeling really good kind of in control, in your world euphoric. You spot a girl shes looking at you gives you the smile you call her over without talking just vibing she comes over then you just play it smooth maybe a warm hug it's just energies talking. Almost like if it was a movie happens all the time to people Then when you start talking shit gets real real fast lol t…
/r/seduction17/12/25 05:49 PM
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thanks big bro big help. lol
/r/seduction16/12/25 07:51 PM
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You describe it perfectly. The dilemma for me is like when you know you can afford/get that fancy meal and the meal at home can be for tomorrow
/r/seduction13/12/25 10:34 PM
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Sounds like you're doing things right just missing the "fun factor". You're going off the script learned here and while it's good starter, things flow better when you're lose and having fun already (basically self-amusement and don't take yourself or anything too serious). In these two interactions I would say great start as openers but sounds a bit depressing like you didn't contribute anything to elevate their state. Perhaphs next time do something funny dance your way in to get a laugh, throw…
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:54 PM
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SAME BRO! Your time will come brother. December/winter is probably the worst time to be single tbh. weather the storm, stay on your grind remember spring and summer come right after that's where we start to shine.
/r/seduction10/12/25 07:12 PM
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If you don't want to make it high pressure or be too direct when you guys are done doing the activity just hit her with the "what are you up to after this?" based on her response example: "I got math class i gotta run to" just be like good luck don't shoot your shot imo till the next time you can get her not rushing. If she says "I got class 1 hour from now or nothing really" suggest going for a smoothie say "I got us" since you're obviously paying for it since you invited. I like the "I got us"…
/r/seduction10/12/25 06:59 PM
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the peak arousal level whenever that is, is a thing. But something feels weird about even looking into this and trying to time it. Speaking on birthdays though, In my experience every girl is always lining up to get some on her birthday week. I've had a couple of times this has happened to me. Even girls you have simply been chatting up with they will always seek a prospect for that week/day. So if your girl/girl you're talking to isn't seeing you that birthday week, I might have some news for y…
/r/seduction10/12/25 06:43 PM
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Not in the same way because we don't really care about valuation/social status as much as woman do.
/r/seduction05/12/25 07:30 PM
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I read some of the comments didn't read anywhere you said you wanted something long term. I understand your sex drive wants to bang women, but it sounds like you don't really care about building a relationship at least not from this post itself this post is more about "why I can't direct about sexuality" and not "what am i doing wrong that I can't find someone long term". The sex only engages them the conversations and feelings keep them. I struggle with this too and is actually something I'm tr…
/r/seduction02/12/25 05:50 PM
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Majority of girls need to build rapport before they actually want to go anywhere. They want to make sure you're not going to "kill them". They want to know that you care in a way. That's why majority of the time it's literally impossible to be direct until they trust you. Unless you're dealing with a "free soul" who doesn't care and beds with many guys etc.. Just part of the game it's basically be the nice/you care/ you see them till you're able to be "in" As for the "fuck boy energy" girls can …
/r/seduction02/12/25 05:28 PM
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Well thats the thing and I realized I might have not been to descriptive based on most peoples input that i'm trying to get "funnier to score which doesn't work." i've always been the "chill/laid back" dude who kinda has a mystrerious feel, doesn't overshare, etc that has always helped me get the girls not the bomb ones but I never had that big of an issue creating attraction/seduction. Now that I get older I want to develop my personality not for the purpose of entertaining or seduction althoug…
/r/seduction26/11/25 05:21 PM
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I don't want to get into your head so take this lightly. From my experience when you buy into a girl's vibe like your infield story from the jump she was in control, you were the one chasing her for the smoke sesh, to going to her place, to you asking/concerning about her bed time. I believe when this happens girls don't see you as a potential long-term partner for the fact that you cannot lead or are not controlling frame. Girls are naturally ment to follow and guys to lead and there's nothing …
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:42 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way speaking only from experience and take it lightly. But could be your thing a little lose or the vibe when doing it is off. When sex is dull it takes me a while I really have to try hard to get into it even when I'm hard. Or when there isn't much sensation going down there the same it feels like a dull motion for some reason maybe something you're doing, they aren't feeling? idk just thoughts I'm not trying to say you're the issue also... there's so many factors but …
/r/seduction20/10/25 08:15 PM
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Sheesh don't feel down bro. Figure out your niche, something or somewhere you are completely confident in, where you feel good. If that's like a sport, an activity, etc channel that inner confidence to toher aspects of you life. Confidence is attractive so if you can do this you will walk through life in general a bit easier
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:58 PM
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It's their way of saying "I don't want to hurt you" because they ultimately know it's going to lead nowhere in the long run. Probably due to the way you act around them. Most likely you're just a horn dog around them in a nice way, they trust you however they know you just want 1 thing that's why they tell you this. I'm going to assume these girls are probably older? or more mature? I wouldn't change anything about what you're doing just enjoy it eventually you will get 1 that will try to lock y…
/r/seduction14/07/25 05:19 PM
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Relate it to something you guys talked about or did. You can even just "check in" mention how's her knew phone or whatever then pivot to that night and the kissing, touchin etc to keep it sexual.
/r/seduction09/07/25 09:50 PM
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Stuck with her as in trying to make it work, girls are an invesment right your time an energy. OP was obviously trying to have a serious mature conversation; he was already starting to have a conversation over this little "problem". Say this happened repeatedly it gets harder to just dip out it becomes a constant high and a low. If you're not emotionally invested in someone, I can see how you can't see yourself stuck. but when you like someone and you start emotionally investing into making it w…
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:41 PM
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You're losing the battle my G. Leave immediately don't bite into her baits you haven't done anything. She doesn't like you and isn't mature She's trying to manipulate you into being her dog by shaming you as if you are the issue out of nothing this is toxic behavior that she's used to ive delt/dealing with girls like this. Be careful trying to figure her out or trying to win this game she's playing. I used to say "okay I get what you're doing Ima try to be non-reactive, just ignore it, figure it…
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:20 PM
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As a preface: i've never done it but this is how I would imagine it or approach it if I had to. Considering you guys are already noticing each other you should def give a compliment. Ex: I see you working good stuff "fist bump" kinda gives that both of you are in there to "workout" then you can follow up another day or same with a name and "gym talk (how long have you been working out for?, how many days a week, you come here often, etc.." that starts to build familiarity. If it was just a rando…
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:33 PM
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Showing interest, that you're genuinely excited about what the man has to going on rather than judging it and trying to screen if he would be a good fit.
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:22 PM
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Just sounds like your buddy wasn't calibrated and came in with a huge swing, wasn't much of a what he said more of the vibe. The vibe was playful and fun and he made it serious caused everyone to start thinking again. If he would have followed it up with a joke to keep it light think it would have worked. Don't blame him these girls are very hard to intially game but at the same token if they like something of you its a wrap and you just see all the barriers/walls fall.
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:33 PM
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What's the reasoning behind the no selfie?
/r/seduction12/06/25 08:26 PM
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I get what you're saying ofc if possible, try to not be competitive and set yourself up where there's no competition and most of the time it isn't even worth competing for a girl but.. I'll give you this example hopefully you can have an answer. You game a girl and wife her up 3+ years into it everything going swifty but then bam 6'5 drake rolls on by and starts talking to your girl. When I mean by talking I mean gaming Shes completely in his frame now, something she saw she liked. What do you d…
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:11 PM
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Nah fam this aint it. If you get amoged are you just supposed to leave?
/r/seduction06/06/25 04:05 PM
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I feel like picking them up always increases your chances as she will feel safe and guided by you, usually means the girl is very open and spontaneous to doing whatever. This is going to sound terrible but make sure you have consent. Well anyways what's worked for me is if we are drinking and after that initial buzz phase around 2 drinks, she is wanting to continue drinking... this to me is a clear indicator that the girl will fuck or be sexual almost never fails. If you want an easy lay give th…
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:16 PM
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I think what boils down to is confidence and being precent in the moment. If you're automatically feared the idea's, panic, beliefs seep in and you ultimately end up losing and shutting yourself down. Personally sounds like you're not seen as a threat if a another man thinks he can just steal your thunder without taking you into account. Take a martial art class or some type of self-defense class/hit the gym what this does is get you comfortable with male energy, with trying to be amogged and be…
/r/seduction14/05/25 05:18 PM
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It's the age bro im in similar situation but like you said we have no other choice lol. Excited for you to test it good luck.!
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:19 PM
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only way to find out is to field test it. Try going up to a girl on your very autopilot shitty mood and being that congruent tired man and open a girl and that iself will probably snap you out. "hey I had a long ass day im really tired, droopy I can nap literally here but I didn't want to miss the chance to get to know you." Bam i'm sure that'll work that's showing the congruency maybe she is tired too lol.. Also remember not every day will be a good day/high energy there will be bad days/recove…
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:55 PM
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You tweaking brother
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:35 PM
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Going based off what you said and something is not sticking you're either giving away too much and self qualifying and trying to hard to lead the conversation and validating yourself that you give no room for fun and play and mysteriousness. Women like a guy they can't figure out someone who pushes/pulls, gives and takes. Be a little more playful. Also the eyes never lie so I don't know what idea you have of a romantic connection but you have to kinda feed that idea to the woman she will light u…
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:59 PM
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Share your skin care routine
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:31 PM
1

I have a homegirl who is in an open relationship she's told me about one with her and her husband. The key take away from that was that the girl was into the girl & the guy is just a plus aka the tool of pleasure. Think it works better that way just from a territorial aspect or whatever barriers are involved idk. Which makes sense there's a very low chance that this whole time your gf's friend secretly had a crush on you and was waiting for y'all to ask her it's more like she had a crush on your…
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:26 PM
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Yea its definitely almost self-sabotaging and makes sense, it's a lot of energy to act witty and feed good emotions that when you go back home or away it's back to default and then that's where the doubts and everything starts to seep in. Got it soo in general try to go for the conversations that lead to connections and repour that way it doesn't feel like someone is being taken advantage of
/r/seduction30/04/25 07:08 PM
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Right you're hitting it wrong on the nail. So then what should my follow up frame be? it's almost like I do the fun value stuff get what I want, then feel like I got to pleas them or adjust to them now Aka Chase. which is not ideally what I want for someone I like. Is it just about being abundant and continue to do my thing? When I do this it also almost feels like I'm forgetting about the person or being a player or whatever is that the game? At the same time if I do this and don't chase then t…
/r/seduction30/04/25 06:24 PM
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I do tend to follow up and get eager although I never show it I usually just suffer in silence lol what’s the typical wait time or whatever for a follow up?
/r/seduction30/04/25 12:10 AM
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Thank you for the input and nice words 🙏
/r/seduction30/04/25 12:08 AM
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Similar experience, probably because the ones who are open about sex are already tired/jaded to it and the one's who are more "closed off" or considered "good girls" still want to experience those thrills just behind close doors
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:52 PM
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We all got a weakness my g don't forget every dog has his day. Tried to google this gospel you speak of this couldn't find the reference link lad.
/r/seduction15/11/24 08:52 PM
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100% The issue I find when you're a fuckboy girls want to cuff you and eventually you find someone you want to cuff too. Then get attached/entangled and then you start thinking or without even knowing if this girl is a good girl or not.. That's when it gets tricky, feelings get hurt then you go back to the cycle of gaming.
/r/seduction15/11/24 07:36 PM
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Because he got desperate, one-itis, already thinking about the future, waiting for the text, he's reading into her patterns and thinking she lost interest that he's not good enough, or needs to do something to keep her etc... it's a matter of time before she sees it, & loses interest. Unless she feels the same about him maybe they can work it out but it's not something you just ask her. Pretty much has to play it cool & stay busy detatch a bit from the outcome, etc but that's the hardest battle …
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:24 PM
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Hard truth: you already lost her. No way around it. It isn't your fault tho.. at least you hit...?
/r/seduction06/09/24 05:48 PM
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As long as you can somehow connect and look the part with that age group, and not feel weird (out of place) don't see why not. Ill use raving as an example sometimes you see these 50/60 year olds and everyone is cheering and applauding them for still being able to dance etc.. If that person would game there, think he/she can pull. I'm sure there are girls out there looking for older men.
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:55 PM
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I would do it for yourself, obviously don't get financially in debt but if you can get yourself a nicer car it would make a big difference. From experience & im the same age as you. I notice women do care about the car you drive. You will still be able game them and sleep with them without it. But it is something they look at for long term. Think about it like having some nice pair of shoes on and the girl compliments you or having a fresh haircut it just reflects the person you are and can add …
/r/seduction16/08/24 05:10 PM
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