So i've met this girl on a dating app, hanged out she came off as really reserved and "good girl" that doesn't sleep around, goes to church, all that stuff (not that i believed it or cared). The important thing here is: she's not really my type, body wise so I didn't really get that sexual attraction.
Since I don't fully feel sexually attracted with her at all we haven't really done much i haven't pushed for it. we've hanged and are enjoying each other's company and that's been fine cause I've been getting my rocks off on the side either way which is why I don't really care for sexual activity.
Well anyways from previous post it's semi clear she see me as boyfriend potential. But this whole topic of sexual attraction came up yesterday I told her how I felt along the lines of: We will literally be out, and she gives me no body language, she hasn't sat on my lap, hasn't pointed her butt towards me, no caressing near the growing, no sexual talk or even tease over text. Literally only made out I grabbed her butt and that was it very dull in that field.
She didn't really have an answer, I told her we probably aren't sexually attracted to each other.
What are your guys thoughts on this? she seems to want to continue to progress the relationship however im big into sexual attraction and I relayed this. I'm used to girls not necessarilyy throwing themselves at me but also not just being passive.
She did end up confessing shes scared of being hurt etc..
Part of me plays into the idea that with the right guy she will do it part of me says she needs time.
Either way im enjoying the ride and using it as experience.
Let me know your thoughts.
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