rmarden Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
853	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody.	Inner Game	rmarden	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:58 AM
2	Aloof/Terse Game - how has this worked for you guys?		rmarden	/r/seduction	03/08/22 05:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) No offense, but you sound soft as fuck if you're letting other people and "SoCiEtY" influence who you date and ultimately have sex with. Doubly soft if you let other people influence whether you take action in your own dating life or not. I'm 33, going to be 34 in a couple of months and my dating pool is +-10 years. I have been killing it since I turned 29. If you're a man worth his salt, then your dating pool is vast. If you don't have anything interesting about you, have no game, and aren't ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 06:00 PM
-1	CMV: The potential negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than for cold approaching. No, it doesn't. But if you don't know that attraction isn't "logical", then I can't help you. Men who are "successful" with women never say "I politely hit on a women politely...I do mean very politely as not to offend Ms. Princess". Those guys aren't saying that. They'll say "I went up to her and she wasn't feeling it" or whatever. I've blatantly hit on several of my friends' friends several times and many of them weren't feeling it but several of them were and that lead to make outs and/or sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 02:16 PM
-4	CMV: The potential negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than for cold approaching. Yeah, because you probably came off as a weak man and she didn't want any part of it. You don't hit on women "politely". You hit on women "assertively".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 11:39 PM
2	Aloof/Terse Game - how has this worked for you guys? Yeah, I've seen that be effective.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 02:21 AM
1	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? This is why you're having problems. You see yourself as a spectator and not a participant.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 06:23 PM
3	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? Here's the truth: most women don't really think highly of themselves. They're insecure, they're neurotic, and anxious. Many women (despite how strong they may seem on the outside) look to men for leadership. And men are natural leaders of women. This is why women accept harsh treatment by men. This is why they accept harassment. This is why they accept "dick pics". This is why they accept general ill treatment (not every woman, but many have in the past). You need to develop strong frame and gro…	/r/seduction	03/08/22 05:59 PM
2	A study of 65k+ women finds that "Attractiveness" is not a top 5 feature that women look for. No wonder OLD sucks for men. I've pretty much stopped giving a shit what women do or don't like at this point. I just do me.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:30 PM
1	Should I pursue women or focus on myself You think 30 is old? Haha, oh boy, don't worry, you'll be "old" soon enough.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:28 PM
1	Should I pursue women or focus on myself Lol, and neither are you	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:27 PM
3	Should I pursue women or focus on myself Some guys will tell you to spend your entire 20s in "monk mode". I disagree. But, I think you should develop a strong base of self development habits, tactics, and mindsets that will allow you to be the best version of yourself. I was in a worse spot than you at your age but I got out of it by working on myself and flinging myself out into the world. Work on yourself but don't isolate yourself.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:25 PM
1	Girl disrespecting you It depends in what context. Either way, she's a hard next.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:22 PM
–	Lower your standards, sleep with some fun women, and your abundance mindset will become real, and hotter girls more accessible. And you sound like you have no experience with women... Who are you pulling? 11s?	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:20 PM
1	She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?” I think she wants to play chess.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 10:19 PM
4	Seduction is an on-going process. Therapist (if necessary), male friends who you can trust, maybe other females. There are few outlets a man can go to if he wants to offload these things. That's why they either get bottled inside or forgotten. Either way, the frame must be maintained. There is no other way. "Do not ask for easier lives but for stronger shoulders."	/r/seduction	18/11/21 03:55 PM
5	Seduction is an on-going process. Or instead of living in fear, you can understand the nature of women and society and know they judge men in their own ways, then act accordingly. If you want to show your emotions, go to a therapists' couch. If you want to show weakness, do it in your own private moments. There is little room for either when the room for error is so thin.	/r/seduction	18/11/21 03:51 PM
0	Seduction is an on-going process. Thanks!	/r/seduction	18/11/21 05:19 AM
2	Seduction is an on-going process. Who’s living in fear?	/r/seduction	18/11/21 05:19 AM
1	Seduction is an on-going process. What?	/r/seduction	18/11/21 05:18 AM
1	“What’s your body count” Then don't come onto a self-improvement subreddit propagating what is essentially bullshit that isn't grounded in any objective reality all because you want to bitch.	/r/seduction	18/09/21 06:22 PM
1	“What’s your body count” You are beating around the bush. Provide the study where it says "around 40% of men are incel" or stop replying.	/r/seduction	18/09/21 02:33 PM
1	“What’s your body count” You didn't answer my first question. How do you know that 40% of men are classified as "incel"? You provided no study, you're just talking out of your ass.	/r/seduction	17/09/21 05:21 PM
1	“What’s your body count” I'm of the opinion that she will deflect when ask or just outright lie because there's no real advantage to her doing so.	/r/seduction	17/09/21 04:11 PM
1	“What’s your body count” How do you know 40% of men are incel? Was there a study done? Or are you just projecting your internal failings onto young men as a whole? And yes, certain groups use certain words to signify allegiance to that group. If you're a certain nationality, there are certain words you use that "outsiders" will not use. Likewise, if you're a racist - there's a certain way you speak that non-racists don't.	/r/seduction	17/09/21 04:09 PM
1	“What’s your body count” What I'm trying to say is: there are some things you will never know for certain. A woman's partner count is one of those things. It's not like finances where someone can lie about being in debt and you can pull their credit history. Unless you were a fly on the wall for each of those encounters, you will just have to take her word for it. And she could easily lie about it, taking the secret to her grave. Therefore, it's not really that much of a good metric to go on when judging the quality of …	/r/seduction	17/09/21 04:08 PM
1	“What’s your body count” There is no argument. I'm simply stating that people don't talk like this. "Normie" is a word used by the incel community, who aren't the most mentally adjusted people.	/r/seduction	17/09/21 04:05 AM
2	“What’s your body count” On top of the fact that women are conditioned reflexively to lie about things like these or evade the subject, so it's better off not asking and instead screening VERY thoroughly on other characteristics.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 10:33 PM
1	“What’s your body count” The fact that you use the word "normies" invalidates whatever opinion you have. People who are actually grounded in reality don't talk like this.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 10:32 PM
1	“What’s your body count” What I'm trying to get at is - how do you know they aren't lying? And if so, does their number outweigh other intangible or tangible characteristics?	/r/seduction	16/09/21 10:31 PM
3	Something that's important to realize about life/women/whatever You either put in the effort or you don't. Either way, no one will do it for you and to be honest, no one cares that you do or don't do it.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 04:50 PM
2	Something that's important to realize about life/women/whatever The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy Atomic Habits by James Clear No Excuses by Brian Tracy Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden What to Say When You Talk to Yourself by Shad Helmstetter That's enough to get you started.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 04:49 PM
3	“What’s your body count” Would you freak out and judge a woman if she gave you an honest answer you didn't like?	/r/seduction	16/09/21 08:58 AM
6	“What’s your body count” Do you expect a woman to give you an honest answer?	/r/seduction	16/09/21 08:57 AM
6	“What’s your body count” Would she tell you hers?	/r/seduction	16/09/21 08:55 AM
1	“What’s your body count” Who asks? Why do they ask? Is it women?	/r/seduction	16/09/21 08:55 AM
1	[deleted by user] You got a BJ at that age? Shit, that's more than I was doing at that age. I was fantasizing about being with girls at my college and put every woman on a pedestal. I also thought my life was just about over, but that's another story for another day. At 19, you a half-baked product. Shit, you haven't even been formed to go into the oven, so to speak. So much road ahead of you. But you need to play your cards right. Build yourself up into the man you want to be. Go to the gym and lift heavy weight…	/r/seduction	16/09/21 02:49 AM
1	[deleted by user] Can't Hurt Me is an amazing book.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 02:38 AM
1	[deleted by user] This. Complete game changer.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 02:27 AM
1	Women want to join a saved game Yeah, you need to find some way to meet people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 03:47 AM
1	Women want to join a saved game Trolling strangers? I don't see any trolling here. But I'll just say this. You have something wrong: You aren't approaching enough women You aren't approaching right/well You are socially awkward Maybe all of the above You figure out which areas of these you've got wrong? If not, you can always keep posting on here and see how that works out for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 02:19 AM
1	Women want to join a saved game Um...yeah? If you're looking for dating/sex/relationship/other that's kind of the point... It's a numbers game and you need to rack up the numbers. When I was sharpening my skills in talking to women, I was told to approach one woman a day. I did that for 3 months continuously. 40ish women gave me numbers. Out of those 40, I went on dates with 12. I ended up sleeping with 6. Then I had a FWB type relationship with 2. I'd also recommend building up your social circle. Girls on the periphery of yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 01:27 AM
1	Women want to join a saved game So only 2 times? LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 01:11 AM
1	Women want to join a saved game So that means you've never tried it...got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/21 12:39 AM
2	Women want to join a saved game Why are you leading with money in the first place thinking that would get you laid/a girlfriend? Very few people want to be with a guy who makes 200k but has the personality of a plank of wood. What do you do for fun?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:48 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game That's the thing guys need to understand. Women don't want a guy with a shit ton of money, just enough to support himself and have his shit together. If you're in your late 20s/early 30s and make under 45k a year with no effort to remove yourself from that situation, you have no business complaining about not being able to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:46 PM
0	Women want to join a saved game People who are poor have the most kids and children out of wedlock. They screw other uneducated/poor/low income people. Do you honestly think women from the ghetto who work at Arbys/McDonalds/Walmart are out there fucking investment bankers? LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:45 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game Do you seriously know guys who did this in real life? And if they did, what kind of partners were they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:28 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game How many women do you approach in real life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:25 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game You’re invisible because you probably have zero game. I knew a bunch of Comp Sci guys in college. Good guys, high earners, zero game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:24 PM
1	Women want to join a saved game If you can’t live on 200k a year in LA, you either: A: Have terrible money management B: Have a spending problem C: Both A and B I live in LA and don’t make that and I don’t know anyone else who does and we are getting along just fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 10:16 PM
1	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. How do you master any game? You learn to play it.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 03:10 AM
2	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Dropping hints isn't taking initiative.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 10:45 PM
2	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Guys who aren't afraid to put themselves out there and risk what could be endless rejection get the women. It's just that "players" are more likely to do it. It's like playing a game. You could win or you could lose. But if you never play, you will never win.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 04:54 PM
19	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. It's hard to overcome years of social conditioning in addition to the generalized expectation that the guy will make the move. Again, if she doesn't make the move on a guy, some other guy who is more willing than the other guy will do it, so there is no real "pressure" on her to do it. Either way, she will have the chance to connect with a man - though at that point it's sort of like drawing a lottery ticket. If a guy waits around for a girl to make a move, he might never end up in a relationshi…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 04:49 PM
8	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. No, that's not the purpose of Reddit to me. I'm more intentional with my use. Finding random things to waste your time on...Seems pretty...aimless and purposeless just like random Internet surfing.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:54 PM
1	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. As someone who was addicted to porn for 7 years (from the ages of 19 to 26) and has been free from it 3 going on 4 years now, I can confidently state that most men have a porn addiction. It is a spectrum. Some are more addicted than others, others are less addicted, but all have problems. It's a large reason why we see large scale objectification of women and why many men just can't be the man they're supposed to be.q There is a high chance that a woman will date or has dated someone who just se…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:29 PM
9	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Not really, if you know women in real life - most of them have horror stories of meeting guys who seemed to be really nice guys who then turned into Mr. Hyde.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:25 PM
4	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Sure. But the bigger point is this: all attraction is undergirded by sexual energy. Without it, you are just friends. But you still need to find out if that potential is there. That's why you use that sexual intention to meet and approach women. That is the engine that is driving the action.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:23 PM
7	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Says the person who has nothing better to do with their life than sorting by "all" on reddit and scrolling. You can downvote all you want. Truth is truth. And it hurts.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:23 PM
1	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. You're still calling yourself a "beta". "Think of what you could be, then aim single-mindedly at that"	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:20 PM
8	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Most people will never rob a bank in their lives. Most people WILL have sex in their lives. Regardless, if you don't make a move on the woman that strikes your fancy, don't think they'll wait around for you to gather up the courage. Someone else will come in.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:18 PM
7	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. I'm not just saying you should have sex just to have sex or to do it with ANYONE....but realize that the woman you want to (eventually) get down with will do it with another guy...and that guy might not even be better than you. Just saying don't doubt yourself.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 10:21 AM