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Rejection is better than regret. Talk to her!
/r/seduction27/05/19 11:11 AM
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It didn't come across to me as a command so much as she just really wants to help her friend. She told me that she almost feels a bit guilty that she and I are having porn star sex now while her friend deals with a dead bedroom and a husband with a porn problem. Her response to the cheating discussion was essentially "don't do it. It isn't going to fix anything".
/r/askMRP29/07/17 04:58 PM
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Great point, thank you.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 10:15 PM
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I think they moved to be closer to his job, and as far as I know it isn't a contributing factor to their marital issues. My wife and his wife don't see each other as often because it's farther to drive.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 10:14 PM
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Thank you guys for all of the insight and advice. I think my best play is just to try to get to know this guy better, maybe work out with him when possible. I need more guy friends anywhere, and this is something I've mentioned working on before.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 06:03 PM
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This is an optimistic way to look at it, and perhaps that's the case. I've read enough sidebar now to know that if I get lazy and fall off of the path I'm on, things will go to shit again.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 06:01 PM
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I've been considering offering this to my wife, the next time she starts asking about fight club. Your idea might be my only safe option.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:49 PM
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Thanks for that link and the insight, great read!
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:48 PM
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I'd like to help him, but I just don't know him well enough. When I found the RP stuff, it seemed to explain so many things that I'd experienced in life that had up until that point been a mystery, so it was easy for me to see the uncomfortable truth about myself. I have no idea how he'd react, even if he found this stuff on his own.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:47 PM
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Yes, this thought has crossed my mind too. Since I don't know him very well, I could see something like this happening. Thank you for the insight!
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:46 PM
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Logistics will make this difficult, as they moved to be farther away from us a few months back, but I like this idea.
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:45 PM
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I'd say I'm early on in the process of fixing myself, and she's definitely noticed and so far seems to want to come along for the ride. I have a long way to go to reach my goals, and yes, she can come along or not. I agree with your assessment and I treat such statements she makes with a healthy dose of skepticism. In this case, I interpret her statement as her saying "You fixed the things I didn't like!". There's still a ways to go for me before I decide if our marriage can be what I want it to…
/r/askMRP28/07/17 03:31 PM
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I'm about 3 months in. I had a period fairly early on when things seemed to be great. No shit tests for a while, but eventually they started up again. Some of it seems to depend on what sort of day she's having but the tests are still there. I just keep lifting, reading and working on myself and it seems to be working well. Sex life is almost where I want it; there's still a few things she's reluctant to do but for the most part she will do anything I want now. Keep your head down, keep lifting …
/r/askMRP28/07/17 01:28 PM
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"Really? You're going to leave it on Big Willie Style?" "What, you can't handle my big Willie?" or "You know you want some big Willie, baby..." So many ways you could have spun this into something funny and then been fucking her brains out moments later.... Try being fun around her, instead of a whiny little bitch.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 03:52 PM
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You're 5 months in and haven't started lifting? I started fucking lifting like the day after I read that lifting was the first thing I needed to do. I got my diet dialed in tight about a week after that. I upgraded the home gym a week later and am now almost 3 months into SL 5x5. Seriously, there's a ton of information in this sub and the related ones about fitness and how to get started. If you want a good resource, check out the book Bigger, Leaner, Stronger. And read the sidebar, for fucks sa…
/r/askMRP01/07/17 10:51 PM
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Nice, I'll have to give this a try.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 08:03 PM
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Thanks! I fucked it up for sure, but all I can do now is just be better. The thing with the kids was tough, because I'd just started giving a couple of the kids a bath, and she was screaming at me to leave, when in reality, she was the one that needed to take her rage out of the room. Short of physically hauling her ass out of there, I wasn't sure what my options were and I felt like leaving/doing what she said wasn't a great alternative either (but maybe it was...). I appreciate the response!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 02:19 PM
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Yes definitely back then I was totally unaware of RP and failed every shit test that came my way. Lately though she's eating up all the game/kino I throw at her. Three months ago if you told me she'd ever be talking dirty to me during sex I wouldn't have believed it, but she's really into it now. She's constantly aroused and in fact on the night this happened she initiated sex. I do feel like there is this vibe of like : she loves all the sex we're having, but she's more concerned with her own p…
/r/askMRP18/06/17 08:15 PM
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This was my attitude. I had a blast and figured if we didn't finish then, we'd do it the next day. One of the most profound things I've read, regarding sex is that, women want to feel strong emotions about it, and it doesn't matter if they are good or bad, as long as they are strong. If this happens again, I'll just tell her I had fun and let it go/leave her to her feelz. Love your blog, by the way, many thanks!
/r/askMRP18/06/17 07:33 PM
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That last one you mentioned may be onto something. After reading what you wrote, I can remember a few years ago, probably early on in my beta decline, I can recall her saying something (usually after I would pressure her for something a little more kinky than what's in her comfort zone) like "It doesn't matter what I do, you always want to try something new" (which was true). "Regular sex with me just isn't good enough. I'm not good enough". Back then I tried to argue/logic it out to her as "why…
/r/askMRP18/06/17 07:31 PM
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My wife was 3-4 months post-partum when I started initiating the 10-second kiss and gaming my wife constantly, and it's been surprisingly effective. She went from "sorry hun, I just don't have any sex drive when I'm nursing" to : "I used to think I just had low libido, but I clearly don't". I asked her what she thinks will happen when her cycle starts back and shes ovulating. She paused for a minute, smiled and said "oh, you're going to be in trouble".
/r/askMRP18/06/17 06:40 PM
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Are you gaming her constantly? I'm new at this, but of all the things I've been doing, this has by far had the most dramatic effect. On days when I get home from work and immediately seek her out for a little make-out session/10-second kiss, tease her a little, drop sexual innuendos until she's laughing and rolling her eyes, she's in a much better mood and very responsive to my escalating later. On days when I don't do this, she'll either act indifferent, or worst-case, start asking questions li…
/r/askMRP16/06/17 07:08 PM
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Health/Body - Still lifting 3x a week and training martial arts 2-3x. On SL 5x5 and have finally added enough weight to most of the exercises that I'm failing a bit. Squats and Deadlifts are still climbing, but I've noticed some minor pain in the middle of my back the day after squatting, so I'm looking into making sure my form is good. Stone's post about RDLs was eye opening, and I can't wait to try this soon. I suspect my hamstrings are tight and that might be part of my issue. Diet is getting…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 12:57 PM
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At the moment, I am driven to become the best version of myself that I can be. Long term, I'll have to have a bit of a think about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 10:39 PM
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Sorry, should have listed more about myself and my goals: I'm about 5-11, 165lbs, so not overweight or obese, just skinny-fat. My hand-held body fat calculator has gone from reading 21% to 18% in the last few weeks, for whatever that's worth. My short term plans for myself: 10% BF, hopefully without losing too much weight. If I get there and I'm too skinny, I'll have to do some mass building and then cut again. Bring it on. Be the leader of the house. Be decisive and confident in all things. Be …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 10:10 PM
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Health/Body - Lifting 3x a week and martial arts at least twice a week. I started strong lifts 5x5 at almost the minimums to try to ease into it and finally am starting to hit some sets where I can't quite get the last rep. So far my mid 40s body is responding and recovering better than I expected, but some of that might be related to diet. I've never been as dialed in on my eating as I have been the last month. I'm only down a couple of pounds, but I wish I'd taken some body measurements when I…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 06:26 PM
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I wasn't "slaying pussy", but I generally did alright and didn't have much trouble finding dates. However, I probably did choose my words poorly. I'll elaborate a bit just to give some context: When I met her, she was just starting college and I was in my late 20s. I thought she was around 22-23, and when I found out she was only 18, I was pretty skeptical that dating her would ever work, and I'm made sure she knew that. She ended up pursuing me pretty hard, but it was a good many years before I…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 10:56 PM
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Background - Found TRP/MRP about a month ago or so. Mid 40s, married about 10 years, together for ~17. Was a somewhat unaware alpha when we met, primarily because I am a lot older than she is and have always been a cocky/funny dude. Slowly, I have lapsed into a lot of beta tendencies, but it got worse when we started having children (lets say the last 4-5 years), stress from children, work, etc got to me more than I should have let it, and here we are. Lots of shit to fix, but I know how to work…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 01:52 PM
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Thanks for this. As much as I fucked up the whole situation, I feel like there were aspects of it that I handled far better than I would have a couple of weeks ago (not letting her outbursts provoke me into a shouting match, etc).
/r/askMRP28/04/17 06:26 PM
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Highly unlikely, but anything is possible. No, and I have several computers/devices. Definitely not.
/r/askMRP28/04/17 10:25 AM
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Good point. I have only myself to blame!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 11:11 PM
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I'm on it!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 09:25 PM
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Yep. I fucked up.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 04:34 PM
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Awesome, thanks for this.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 01:29 PM
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Will do, thank you!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 01:08 PM
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I wasn't actually that upset about it, but I think was looking for a way to 'punish', which I can see now was pretty stupid. I'll take the L and learn from it. Thanks man!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 12:38 PM
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Thanks, much appreciated!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 12:35 PM
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Thanks, brother, appreciate the honesty and kick in the ass! Since I posted, she texted me and seems to have dropped it. My only replies have been about logistics for the day.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 12:29 PM
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Thanks Professor! Anal has been off the table for a while now, but back in the early days when the sex was whatever I wanted, when I wanted, she was into it. The past few years when I've asked about it, she's insisted that she "never liked it, and only did it because that's what she thought girls did to keep a guy interested". After reading what I've been reading lately, I'm not convinced. I think this is her hamster going full steam trying to 'excuse' her behavior because of whatever mental han…
/r/askMRP27/04/17 11:32 AM
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This makes perfect sense. Thank you. I've been trying to demonstrate that what she thinks doesn't matter too much to me without getting pulled into an in depth discussion about it.
/r/askMRP27/04/17 10:27 AM
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I see what you did there.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 05:52 PM
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Sadly, and I think this is a big part of my problem, I don't think she ever believes in a million years that I'd cheat on her (I think she still thinks she's the prize). But, I am pretty sure if I keep on keepin' on, there will come a moment where the first bit of dread hits her. I'll file a FR when that time comes.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 04:47 PM
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Awesome! Thank you.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 02:47 PM
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She definitely still loves me, respect has dwindled over time for sure. I've always been good at making her laugh, and I'm sure I wasn't doing enough of that the last couple of years, for various blue pill reasons (basically my not wanting to get my shit together and be a man, and be the leader of the house). Her response the last few days has seemed to be confused amusement at me, which seems like a step in the right direction.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 02:45 PM
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Thanks, I am trying to ease into it, since I'm reading a lot of material and am still kind of at the "wow, all of this is overwhelming, how the fuck do I proceed?" stage. I'm also still dealing with a bit of the anger at myself for letting it get like this, but I'm also thankful that my situation is nothing compared to some of the reports I've been reading on here.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 02:00 PM
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