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If nothing else, this is pretty funny!
/r/seduction20/12/14 07:12 AM
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That's a big reason I would do it. I want them to have it, but I also want to go ahead and give them all they will need - so they won't have to ask for more. Go ahead and donate some, get that taken care of. Sock away the rest and live off the income like a boss king.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:35 AM
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Came here to say that. Also, fuck it - I would just move to a beautiful island country somewhere and leave her high and dry, even take the dog. Fuck even letting the court decide. However, had she been cool about it and not aggressively demanding money, I would have shared it with her - and all of my friends. If I win hundreds of millions, all of my friends will become millionaires.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:04 PM
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It's a calibration thing. Learn to do both, because usually body language is all that's needed, and showing your value through non-verbal means is the more natural route - if you call her out verbally on everything she does, you can come off as controlling after a while. Save that for very limited use, and it will retain it's power, use it too often and it will lose impact. Showing that you can lead her with your eyes and posture and whatnot is a sign of a really in-control man. If you have to r…
/r/seduction11/11/13 04:42 PM
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I get over that every time I have sex, man.
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:59 AM
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You have been rebuffed with the same joke, making fun of men, on r/jokes
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 05:39 AM
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That's more women than have ever existed, if you added up every single female since we split from the last human species. In fact, it's more people than have existed in history, not just women. In 2011, it was estimated that 107,602,707,791 humans had ever been born. This # is 40x that. So it also tells us that 1) women aren't following the rules, and are going back repeated times, and 2) even after reaching the top floor in the past, they keep trying to go above the last level that had husbands…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 05:26 AM
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When I stopped giving a fuck what women thought, it was like a blast of freedom. I still find myself subconsciously reacting, though, when I go out without bothering to put on nice clothes or showering after hiking or something, and a woman treats me like I'm some kind of scumbag hillbilly. But quickly I remember how women think, and laugh to myself. Most women are really transparently judgmental when you pay attention to them. When I get dressed up to go out with friends or family - with nice c…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 12:39 AM
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The best friend I made when I moved to Phoenix at the age of 27 was a fellow PUA. I met him on the Love Systems forum. He hit me up and said he sarged around town, we should meet up. I had just started studying pickup, and had not had much success - I was super shy all my life and it was a major anxiety attack for me to try to open. I had just opened a couple of sets horribly. He had just started too, but was a little farther ahead and was using good canned material. So I watched him and imitate…
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:57 AM
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I got that sense, too - that it was more pandering to that demographic for popularity than how he really felt. Like, if he saw Blomkvist as a guy like him - basically, pretending to be on the same side as all the women so that he could get laid more easily. Not a bad ploy, if reality worked like it did in the book. I mean I would be on Salander's side if reality was like the book, and some poor girl went through all that her character did. It was awful stuff. I just don't think that is an accura…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 07:40 PM
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I agree, when talking about adults and older students, but in early grade school I think it is the teacher's job to keep it interesting, and at least try to reach all the kids. I taught college for a while, and I felt like it was my job to challenge all of my students - the ones who didn't get it, I tried to make things very simple, and the ones who seemed to get it easily I tried to extend greater and more open-ended challenges to. Whomever is responsible for it morally, upping the effort on ei…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 10:01 PM
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I was in school in the 80's and 90's. I meant that my school system was 50 years behind the times, they just don't care about education in South Carolina. Ugh. If you want a kid to hate reading, studying, and learning, send them to school in the deep South. They made it about as horrible and boring as the law would allow.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 07:15 AM
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Man, I hate the system. I scored exceptionally high on IQ tests and standardized tests, etc., and they did not give one fuck. Spent my entire public school career drawing, daydreaming, sleeping, and cutting classes while getting straight A's without studying once - not because I'm some super genius, I'm not trying to brag, but because the school system I was in sucked so bad and was geared towards the lowest common denominator. Had a total of one teacher that ever challenged me enough to pay att…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 09:33 PM
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No, it's not really rape. I was just making a joke about how no one in this society accepts responsibility for their actions. It's rape when someone holds you down and rapes you. It's not rape when you go along with it in every way but then decide later that it was a bad idea. If you can't make the right decisions when drunk, either learn to live with that, or don't drink. If you drive a car while drunk, you're responsible. But if you (are female and) have sex with someone while drunk, it's now …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 10:06 PM
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Yep, you should be horribly offended!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 10:02 PM
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Be sure to get the media involved, so that wherever she goes, people will recognize her as the rapist she is!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 05:51 AM
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I try to stay as far away from police as possible. And if the police do talk to me, I don't say a word. But this post was pure sarcasm. I'm not going to cry rape on my ex's.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 05:50 AM
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Yeah, but so would most men.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 04:18 AM
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You can also compliment a girl on the aspects of her looks that she can control - it's basically saying that you think she has good taste. For example: I dig those shoes. or I love those glasses frames. It isn't something that is going to build attraction in her, but complimenting her on something about her clothing or style is an excellent opener. It pre-emptively shuts down a bitch shield. You just need to be careful not to compliment her again for a long time, or you will look like you are br…
/r/seduction09/07/13 10:46 AM
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There is a cute Mexican girl who works at a store I go to once a week or so. She doesn't speak much English. I started talking to her in Spanish, which is about as good as her English. We chatted a bit each time I came in. But I was embarrassed about my not-so-great Spanish, and feel pretty DLVish when I talk to her. So now it has gone South enough that we hardly talk when I come in, although she pretty much follows my lead. It's not one-itis at all. I hardly care about picking this girl up. But…
/r/seduction09/07/13 10:38 AM
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I, for one, appreciate the non-believers. It means that they won't even try, making less competition for me. A shitty thing about pickup getting popular is that women are always on the lookout for "pickup artists", which means that some classic gambits are probably off the table. Unless you don't care about getting busted, which I am starting to care less and less about since it has happened a few times and all that came of it was a good laugh. But hey, the more guys out there buying girls drink…
/r/seduction08/07/13 09:44 PM
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Also, you are more likely to encounter hb's who are on vacation - and in the mind of the hb, sex on vacation "doesn't count", it's like a fantasy or something, because at the end of the vacation you go back to your separate homes and it doesn't get back to her crowd and affect her rep. So girls on vacation are basically in heat. It's magical.
/r/seduction08/07/13 09:41 PM
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Aren't women a part of "all people"? And if you interpret it the way you did, it would be sexist, not misogynistic. Not that I care if I'm either.
/r/seduction01/07/13 03:52 AM
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A girl won't care if you are sleeping on a friend's couch if you don't care. If you act ashamed, it's a DLV. If you don't, it won't matter. If she asks about it, just explain it's temporary and you're getting a place soon. Or just make a joke about it, tell her you like couching it. Anything to show that it doesn't bother you at all. Women basically think the way you tell them to - and you tell them how to think by showing how you think through subtle clues. This is a really important key to und…
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:32 AM
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Congrats! That's not a #-close, though. I hate to break it to you, but she's not going to call you. It sounds like you just opened her and then bantered. Seducing a girl means you need to get her attracted to you with DHV's (display of higher value). Then, you want to qualify her - basically, elicit a reason from her that you are attracted to her other than her looks. Now it is established that you two are attracted to one another. Move on to building trust, basically by spending time together a…
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:16 AM
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I had never heard the term "the Red Pill" outside of the Matrix before about a year ago. But I put together all of these ideas years ago. I used to be a passive beta who always treated women like princesses. So I got cheated on in 1997, and it crushed me so bad that I tried very seriously to kill myself (shot myself under the chin with an SKS). After rebuilding my life, I had to make some big changes. I started becoming more assertive altogether, not just with women. I stopped "falling in love" …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 01:01 AM
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Well, to be fair, a lot of those women argue that breasts are not sexual organs - they are reproductive organs, but not sex organs, and so should not be covered up, etc. I like breasts being usually covered though, because it makes me appreciate seeing them more. If you go to a strip club or topless beach, boobs get boring after a while. The testicle thing is horrible though. Feminists are nuts. And yeah, pretty much no one is more privileged than middle and upper class white women.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 12:42 AM
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Same goes for men. Hang out with good looking, and/or charming guys. Women will always be around. Plus, a lot of it will rub off on you. And just being a friend of the alpha is enough to get you some of the spill-off pussy.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:08 PM
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Yeah, this sounds like it was kind of a gimme.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:05 PM
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It's called the three second rule, dude. Most powerful anti-AA tool there is. Plus, it shows you are a confident man of action.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:04 PM
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Nice Dune ref.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:02 PM
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Thank you. I've been saying this for years, and no one believes it.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:00 PM
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It's tough because the good ones get married. You don't see thousands of pretty girls a week like you did in college. You may work with a few, you may not. Here it is - you have to have an active social life. Go out. Go out a lot. Not just to bars, but do all sorts of things. Go out by yourself if you have to. Talk to everyone. Be social. Depending on what you are looking for, you may meet women you like in bars and clubs at night, or at coffee shops and parks during the day. Looking for quick l…
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:20 AM
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Also, it's just one chick. Next. And losing weight won't fix your game. It's just an excuse not to work on it.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:23 AM
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This guy thinks that your best nights often follow your worst nights. Getting back out there is such an accomplishment that often you can ride it to a great night. Plus, if you use it how you use all rejection - it's not a lost opportunity, it's gained experience. You have to go through so many rejections until you get a close. One down. Don't drink. Don't try to pick up drunk girls. Alcohol is fun as fuck when you want to get drunk and act stupid. But alcohol is a total wild card when it comes …
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:20 AM
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Good article.
/r/seduction22/06/13 06:39 AM
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Mos def. Doggy dinner bowl eyes.
/r/seduction19/06/13 08:15 AM
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So, you're about to cold read, and you need something to say, but what? For some of us with a touch more experience, the clothes a girl wears, as well as the way she carries herself, certain responses to questions, even eye movements and body gestures are all subtle clues. That's more like warm reading.
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:28 AM
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but I've been told by friends and women alike that I'm too ugly to date, and it's put me in a dark place as I hate failure and being told that I can't do something. I used it as motivation to work harder at first, but more and more they are being proven right, and it's draining my will to live. You are the guys that go farthest in seduction. All great PUA gurus were once horribly terrible with women, much worse than your average AFC. You have the most to gain. You need to get over this hump of t…
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:53 AM
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I think he means "make a move" like try to kiss her. Kino escalation anxiety, I guess. goodknee, teach yourself to recognize the signs - compliance testing. But have in the back of your mind the fact that if she hasn't told you to leave harshly, it's always OK to try to kiss her. If it's too early, she won't let you. But she'll forgive you, and you can try again later. In fact, many girls have a rule that they never let a guy kiss them the first time. ASD. So think of her first rejection as gett…
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:43 AM
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Women have put millions of years into evolving the instinct to accept or reject men like you. It's just what kind of man are you? The kind women accept, or the kind they reject?
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:38 AM
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Wow, you are a terrific writer. Good job.
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:35 AM
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She was a bad girl. Scold her and move on.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:29 AM
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Boring chicks are just fun chicks who are waiting to be stimulated. Develop a bag of tricks - you can literally learn some magic tricks if you don't care about people calling you out on being a PUA, or you can just learn some good parlor tricks. Check out Scam School. It is a goldmine of entertaining shit to do in bars. Watch the vids, they are fun as shit, you won't mind wasting a couple of hours watching Brian Brushwood act the fool and get free drinks. Then pick out one or two of the tricks h…
/r/seduction05/06/13 01:31 AM
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That is a case of getting in your head too much. When you start to think about what you are going to say, and think about if what you said is good or if you haven't talked enough - all that is garbage that will shut you down instantly. When you find yourself approaching that state where you are getting self conscious or introverted, you have to snap yourself out of it. More than snap, you have to fucking explode yourself out of it. Spontaneity is the key to staying present. So when you find your…
/r/seduction05/06/13 01:09 AM
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Don't get too anxious to get older. Right now you can fuck teenage girls. You will spend the rest of your life wishing you could fuck teenage girls, but it's not allowed. So enjoy the fuck out of those fresh little titties and perky asses. Hit 'em young while you can, trust me bro - you'll regret it when you're older if you don't. Find parties. Under 21 house parties are where it's at. They are actually better than bars because it's more intimate and you don't need excuses to approach girls beca…
/r/seduction05/06/13 12:52 AM
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physically I am kind of goofy Me too. Doing seduction well taught me that looks matter, but just in one aspect that really doesn't matter. Yes, great looking dudes have it easier, but skills can blow that advantage out of the water. Fucking Steve Buscemi gets mad pussy - think about that. "Fuck this, this is where this is all suppose to happen. I'm ready" Perfect attitude! AA is temporary, and once you plow through it the rest of the night is amazing. after catching their attention I just said t…
/r/seduction05/06/13 12:45 AM
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The way she was talking, I'm pretty sure she thought she was bragging.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 09:07 PM
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I had a girlfriend who was fairly pretty, and she said that when she was single her and her girlfriends would go out on dates with guys just to get a free meal, no matter what the guys looked like or how lame they were. She saw nothing wrong with that - leading on men when she had absolutely no romantic intentions whatsoever, just to get some grub. I've talked to a few women about that, and quite a few of them do that. They justify it by saying that the guys are "creeps" for trying to buy their …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:08 PM
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She got the house. From the looks of the photos in the article, she's not broke. My guess is that she is already a multi-millionaire from what she did get from the divorce, although it doesn't say specifically. But of course, she feels she deserves to own half of his share of Paypal because she sat around and spent his money for the time they were married. She seems like a delusional, entitled bitch.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 04:25 PM
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Then he took me to a bookstore and handed me his credit card. "Buy as many books as you want," he said. No man could have said anything sweeter. Her fondest memory of their courtship was when he handed her his credit card and let her go nuts.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 12:43 AM
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I'm like that. I don't allow my girlfriends to hang out with most guys too closely. But fuck if she's going to tell me not to hang out with whatever women I want. But I don't believe in fairness, nor do I whine about it. I basically do what's in my best interest. Life has taught me that you either skew things to be unfair to your advantage, or you whine about the unfairness against you and no one cares.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 03:51 AM
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Ah, the old bullpen.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 03:47 AM
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A lot of these statistics are skewed by the way you are reporting them - like the average prison sentence: my guess is that women average less violent crimes. Does combat deaths include innocent bystanders? And whenever you talk about the overwhelming number of male victims of homicide, you kind of have to admit that the % of male perps is also just as high. And fatherless/motherless is kind of moot because there are so many more fatherless kids out there than motherless ones. So yeah, a few of …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 03:10 AM
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Yeah, I struck that phrase from my vocabulary years ago. Much better ways to word it that sound more natural, and won't get you busted as a wannabe PUA.
/r/seduction20/05/13 02:59 AM
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It actually would probably land me a hotter chick than usual since so many guys think it lowers her value, and I'd bet trans girls are super grateful for attention and sex. That, I can almost assure. As long as you do it to expand your options, and not to settle because you feel you can't do any better, more power to you. At least she could never sue you for child support by getting pregnant on purpose, or claiming that some other guy's baby was yours :oP
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 06:09 PM
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Well, not morally superior, but able to overpower their lower brain functions with their higher brain functions. A guy who can overcome his feelings of disgust at her previously being a him for the sake of love, has learned to master his base instincts. NOT a man who swallows his disgust at the idea just because he is settling and doesn't think he can do any better. I don't necessarily mean "better" when I say "more evolved". Base instincts are there for a purpose. In this case, arguably it keep…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 06:06 PM
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raping a prostitute Isn't that just stealing?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 05:48 PM
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I think that his post was accurate, but not binary - men fall towards the honor end of the spectrum while women fall towards the empathy end of the spectrum. They are not mutually exclusive, and both philosophies or justifications can be experience by both genders. But women tend to align more with empathy than honor, men vice-versa. Certainly there are plenty of exceptions. Japanese Samurai wives were expected to live by the same code as male Samurais, and they did.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 05:47 PM
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Agreed. Democracy isn't the best form of government because it is morally right - it is the best form (that we have been able to pull off so far) because it inherently, by definition, serves the most people. By definition, in democracy the majority get their way. Which is arguably better than other forms of society where the minority get their way. So we force people to obey laws that do the majority the most good. It's kind of a law of nature - each cell in your body does what is best for your …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 05:31 PM
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is there really that much of a difference in the ways that women conceive of the notion of honor? YES! There is a huge difference. Women seem incapable of even understanding honor as men do. They appreciate loyalty (to them) because it benefits them. They appreciate men who work hard, because that would potentially benefit them, if that man were to work hard for them. But they do not seem to understand the value of doing good for the sake of doing what is right. Now, women do appreciate charity …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 05:22 PM
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We outlaw and discourage all "fat-talk" and make everyone act as though being fat is every bit as great as being fit. Everyone becomes fat because why not? It's easier. Horrible diseases become rampant and men no longer have the desire to mate with any real life women because they are all fat. Computer porn evolves to cyberpunk levels of virtual reality, sex is now with machines and not with other humans. Reproduction becomes a totally artificial process, harvesting sperm from males to impregnat…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 04:38 PM
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"This knowledge can be used to help national efforts to reduce 'fat talking' on college campuses." Oh goddamnit, stop telling people what they can and can't say! Of course women like to hear "body-positive" talk instead of "fat-talk". It makes them feel like they have less work to do to feel good about themselves. I like to hear how guys who have no job and play vidya all day love their lives - it's very "empowering" in the sense that it makes me feel like I can do whatever I want and just be ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 04:32 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, man. The real heart of TRP is about being true to yourself, not just hating on women like this subreddit seems to think. I doubt I would date a mtf person, because I don't think I could get over it in my head - I would constantly feel like I was having sex with a man. But that's just me - some men are more evolved than me. The shortcomings you speak of are just bowing to society's bullshit expectations of men, so anyone is potentially a participant/victim/whatever. It'…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 04:21 PM
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I consider 10 as just the top 10% in the looks dept. Although it should really be more like 9% since most people include 0 in their scale, hypothetically. But I hate when guys idolize/idealize the # 10 like it's some impossible form of human beauty. It's just a damn rating system, a tool. Like giving someone a grade on their term paper - "I only would give an A to someone who wrote a Pulitzer worthy paper". Making your rating system bend to this unrealistic abstract is a subtle way of thinking o…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 08:20 AM
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Face: 5 Legs: 8
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 08:10 AM
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I LOL'ed at your Walmart comment, but here's the scary truth - I'm stuck in the Deep South for the time being, and I've found that there are a lot of really attractive girls here. A lot of southern girls are raised to be completely dependent on their looks for everything they get in life, and therefore take very good care of themselves. But in the South, everyone goes to Walmart. It's just a part of life. So you go to Walmart down here and you will see a lot of crazy hot women. It's weird. Becau…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 08:09 AM
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Why is it disgusting for me to think this?
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:55 PM
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Focus on your job. That will keep you from being too self conscious around the women. Plus, being aloof has a powerful effect on women. Don't avoid them or obviously ignore them - treat them like any other co-worker. Do talk to them, just don't go clucking out game like you would in a bar at night. You don't want to shit where you eat, so don't risk turning your workplace into an uncomfortable environment, or getting fired for sexual harassment, or just plain old getting a rep. Rely more on "soc…
/r/seduction28/04/13 05:56 AM
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truly love I hope you are a troll, or very young. With a little experience in life, you realize that things like soul mates and true love are Western myths. Not that love doesn't exist, and you can't be happy with one person your whole life. But love is an overused word that has lost all meaning due to the hype around it. Most guys fall "in love" with one of the first women that will have sex with them and play them well (kind of the female form of seduction, with is more focused on making a guy…
/r/seduction27/04/13 03:55 PM
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I was terrified he'd start stalking me because he mentioned that he wanted to shop at her store, which she claims is the only store in the city (WTF kind of city is that?). I never saw him at my job and he didn't text me after that. Totally not a stalker or rapist, but still got accused of it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 12:20 PM
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Seddit is pretty gay compared to the seduction community at large. Of course, the seduction community is pretty gay compared to the seduction community 5 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 04:27 AM
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"Extra sausage"?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 04:25 AM
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Professional photographer. Most of the work I do is pretty boring - product photography alone in a studio, sitting on a computer for hours and hours using Photoshop. But a perk is that sometimes (not enough), I get to work with professional models. Professional models aren't all what you think of as a model - it's like actors, some are old, some young, some male, some female. But there are a good few who are really beautiful fashion models. So I get to direct them, which is basically telling the…
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:24 PM
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This is actually really solid. It's what Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is based on. It works very well. Caveat: you have to actually believe the things you tell yourself - don't make up ridiculous shit, be logical about it.
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:15 PM
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Plot twist: the brunette from work is secretly a sadistic dominatrix. He's now chained up in her basement with an XL sized butt plug and a battery wired to his nuts keeping him busy all day.
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:11 PM
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Yeah, this is pretty much it. Most guys realize that "assholes" do well, but then try to act like assholes in order to reverse their nice guy stigma, and do it wrong - they are just mean. The "assholes" that do well mix it up, pushing and pulling. There have been a lot of posts written about this, and it makes sense. The "kindness only when earned" shows that you value yourself, and your respect must be earned. The pushing and pulling just makes women question their own power and crave your appr…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 07:10 PM
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Coachella is one of the best festivals I've ever been to! And West Coast girls - fuck the world, they are beautiful and awesome!
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:21 AM
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Even if you fail miserably and publicly at getting a girl's interest, the crowd is so huge that you have a really improbable chance of ever meeting anyone who noticed your failure. Ergo: No actual social ramifications from embarrassing yourself. This is one of the best things about it. You can literally spend all day opening every set you see and never run out of new sets. Embarrass yourself early, so you get over the fear of it. That can put you into a state of becoming a social animal, opening…
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:20 AM
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Oh, yeah, I forgot. You won't do very well up front right in front of the stage. It's too packed and those people are really into the show. You'll do a lot better at the back of the crowd where people are sitting on blankets and just hanging out. Those people stay put for a while, so you can join in on some awesome groups, and as you keep meeting people have them join until you have your own little social circle there. One trick is to just sit near a set you are interested in, and (as long as th…
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:16 AM
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If there is a campground near it where people are camping, do that. It's fucking awesome - the party just continues at the campsite and everybody is friends there! If there are chicks that are walking around topless or in super absolutely slutty cosplay, I wouldn't bother. They are in a different mode - they've been getting hit on all day by losers and believe that they are 11's because of all of the attention. Bitch shield is on full power. They aren't there to hook up, they are there to soak u…
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:13 AM
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You were in a new environment. That ups AA. You are always more comfortable in a place you've been a few times before. A somatic therapist taught me that if you slowly look around the room and take in all the details, especially the doors and exits, it will alleviate some of your anxiety - it is a really primitive part of your brain that responds to that. You were sitting alone at the bar. You had no momentum. You had already put yourself in a non-social little bubble (you even called it creepy …
/r/seduction21/04/13 05:51 AM
1

TRP is just seeing how the rules of society are laid out, with knowledge and without the warped tunnel vision that most people have had since birth. Once you understand how the game is played, and who is making the rules, you are free to really do whatever you want to. I'm glad that you have chosen to use it to become more manly and realize other goals. I use it just to be free from society's bullshit expectations. So I can live my life the way that works for me instead of a bunch of people with…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 06:10 AM
1

I agree with you. I was just making a tongue in cheek joke, although there was some truth in the exaggeration. There's a study where they showed women a bunch of pictures of men in different clothing and had them rate the men on attractiveness. They used a lot of models, so it wasn't obvious that they had each model in three outfits: one low class like a burger king uniform, one just normal like jeans and a t-shirt, and one high status one with him in an expensive well-fitting suit and (I rememb…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 04:46 AM
1

Oh, good. I'm glad that the stuff I read was wrong. I'm thinking I'll go to the next one I can!
/r/seduction15/04/13 04:26 AM
1

I came off too harsh. I've read that Neil isn't crazy about the pickup stuff anymore. My issue was really just with how aggressive his marketing is. But then again, I don't think he even handles that himself, frankly - I get the idea that he has someone doing all that for him these days.
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:53 PM
1

To be fair, the material is all still gold. Style's methods are still great. I guess that I got spoiled back when everything was being shared mostly in a I help you, you help me kind of way, and then got turned off by the way it took off commercially. Mystery capitolized on it as much as Style, but he just seemed less sharky about it. I don't get emails from Mystery saying "hey, here's a great trick to help your game," then click on the email to have it be a mile long page of testimonals and pro…
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:50 PM
1

I wouldn't say evil tycoon. It's just that at first I thought he was really into helping guys improve themselves, and now it seems like he's into it just for the money, which makes me feel betrayed. My idol turned out to be human, I guess. I guess that my rage yesterday came from the fact that I had gotten kind of into the Society idea because it sounded like a great thing, only to find out that it's basically just a way of selling products to guys who are trying to turn their lives around.
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:26 PM
1

Oh. I had read that people weren't getting their refunds back at one point. That could have been competitors trying to make them look bad, though. Not unheard of. But like you, I think RSD is great!
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:23 PM
1

I was more annoyed that a guy I used to think a lot of turned into kind of a shill.
/r/seduction14/04/13 12:10 PM
1

I like them too, but they caught a lot of flack for charging people for their "free" seminars, and really agressively marketing at them when people came, so I know a lot of people bitch about them. TD is one of the only guys from back in the day that still goes out and has fun with it!
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:26 AM
7

My highest scoring photo on "My Best Face", where OKC users rate your pics against others, is one of me looking away, with my dog. It is also by far the ugliest picture of me - my hair is a mess, there is dirt and shit all over my pants, and I hadn't shaved in days. I look like a total slob. BUT DOG!!! I think the best photo would be one of you in a nice suit, big gold watch, with your back to and ignoring several hot women who are clearly checking you out, while you play with a puppy. Shot from…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 11:04 PM
18

Remember boys, if a woman has one drink she is no longer responsible for anything she does!! But no matter how much or how little a man has to drink, he is responsible for not only everything he does, but everything that goes on in stupid peoples' heads, and what any female does within 15 feet of him!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 03:08 PM
3

Yeah, learning to undo a bra is easy - if you don't have access to a girl who will let you, you can just pick up an old bra at Goodwill and wrap it around a tree or something :oP I don't know of a good way to practice kissing other than with a real person, though. It doesn't take much practice to be a good kisser, as much as it does creativity. Mainly, I just do what girls have done with me that I like. Don't be too aggressive, ramming your tongue down her throat. Keep it wet and soft for the mo…
/r/seduction13/04/13 08:11 AM
2

That's pretty smooth. I bet she loved the natural confidence that conveyed!
/r/seduction12/04/13 05:10 AM
75

First, ABC: Always Be Closing. Then, don't close. She'll chase you home. What I mean is, be witty and charming, display high value, qualify her, build rapport, etc. all while escalating kino - all the basic seduction stuff. But don't escalate kino aggressively. Do it like it is an afterthought. Like when you first hold her hand, have the mindset of "oh, yeah. This girl is into me, I should throw her a bone and hold her hand." When you kiss her, be the first one to pull away. When she looks a lil…
/r/seduction12/04/13 05:09 AM
6

Yeah, ever since PUA's started talking about "alpha males," most guys have been acting like Kenny Powers, trying to belittle every other guy and talk over top of everyone else. When a real "alpha" is around, other guys like him, not feel outdone by him. Everybody is drawn to him, because if anything, he is accepting and cool towards everyone. You literally can't amog him, because he isn't competing. Sure sign of a beta male: trying to be an "alpha male". Cut that shit out and just be cool, be th…
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:45 AM
-1

Oh look, it's all six of the five characteristics of an alpha male!
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:38 AM
1

Meh. I like LJBF too. PUAs coined that term :oP
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 02:24 PM
2

Oh, the mods in that sub constantly delete posts that they don't agree with, quoting whatever idiotic rule whether it applies or not. I got thrown out long ago. I highly recommend it! (getting banned from there, that is)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:36 AM
2

Well, plus by talking about it you are pointing out that women fall for that shit because they are extremely predictible, and oh how they hate to even consider that they aren't all extremely unique and complex and altruistically beautiful on the inside! My record is 14 years younger than me, but I once drunkenly hit something like 35 years older than me (when I was about 20). I never found out her age, didn't want to. She told me that I didn't need a condom because "oh, honey, I went through men…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:33 AM
2

Yes, just like when a beautiful model marries a rich old guy, she deserves the best in life because she is such a wonderful role model for women - but he is a dirty pig who just uses his money to get a trophy wife!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:28 AM
2

There's no use in trying to argue logic to women, especially on their turf. In fact, I like that they are so naive and irrational. It makes them easier to deal with. I am a mysogynist, red pill, sarcastic, selfish, cocky, arrogent motherfucker. But around women, I'll totally agree with all the "rape culture" and other nonsense they talk about. Why? Because it helps me get laid. I don't care what they think. I know that they are totally irrational and nothing I say is going to change that. May as…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:25 AM
1

Well, you guys have been typing "lbjf's", when the acronym is atually "ljbf's". It's "let's just be friends," not "let's be just friends" most commonly. And yes, it can be a noun, a verb, or sometimes an adjective - same as "friendzone".
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:16 AM
1

Actually, I think they are purple.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:11 AM
1

I'm just glad I got permabanned, so I don't go wasting hours laughing or raging at the idiocy there, educating people, and then getting tarred and feathered for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:09 AM
1

Yep. Once you learn to recognize it and use it to your advantage, you can even learn to love the consistency of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/13 05:02 AM
5

It's amazing to witness the smooth, fun bullshit that you come up with once you break through that wall of self consciousness that has been holding you back your whole life. It's like there's this badass mofo that's been inside you all alone, and he's free. You find yourself reacting to women in a whole new way. But like OP said, it comes from practice. If you've ever played a competitive sport, it's really similar. You get out on the field and there's no time to think - but if you've practiced …
/r/seduction30/03/13 02:33 PM
-1

You should tell him. Fuck up her world.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 08:38 AM
2

Sounds good in theory, but just isn't true. Most "nice guys" are too nice to everyone. There are "good guys" though. Plenty of Alpha-ish guys are kind. You can be generous and helpful and all that while still maintaining your role as a leader and not taking shit. In fact, the men who are the very best at getting girls are usually like that. It's just not very common. What makes nice guys suck is that they give away their power for no reason. A nice guy buys a girl he doesn't know a drink. An alp…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 08:36 AM
14

But hey, she changed her ways when she got old! Lesson here, guys: if you stick it out being friendzoned for years and years, when that girl hits the wall and becomes unattractive to bad boys, she'll let you pay for her life and raise her kids! Just remember to keep doing everything for her with no appreciation shown - eventually she'll settle for you when she starts looking old and worn, and has no other options! See? There's your reason to be a nice guy right there!
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 08:21 AM
13

I've had girls say that to me before - something along the lines of "You are so clueless. Why aren't you picking up on all the flirting I'm throwing your way," like they've never even considered the fact that maybe I'm just not into them. I guess girls don't face rejection that often.
/r/seduction23/03/13 07:37 AM
3

It's not good business practice, what SG did was fairly close to what AR did - making a big deal out of nothing, causing someone to lose their job. I think that what people tweet or say in public is should not have any effect on their job. But it's absolutely beautiful karma. I love it. She is a self righteous bitch!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 07:53 PM
2

Yeah. OP is talking more about an attitude of playful teasing than aloofness. Aloof means distant, like you are not interested or otherwise occupied. That kind of aloofness is a good tool, but only in certain circumstances. The stuff OP is talking about is textbook good flirting. Playful, socially aware, not defensive. It is what makes Swinggcat such a legend.
/r/seduction21/03/13 07:31 PM
3

I would have pretended not to have said it, and sued her for libel.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 12:39 AM
6

I think that you have misconstrued what it means to be 'alpha' in a common way. Instead of explaining it, I'll provide an example or two: Alpha: knows when to interject into a conversation so that people naturally stop to listen to him, they want his input. His general presence is so impressive that others know his opinions are valuable, prior statements were valuable enough that people wait for his contributions that come at natural breaking points. Can stand back and listen without talking whi…
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:18 PM
24

You can add to #12 anything that draws attention to boobs/legs/ass. I notice girls in low cut shirts will bend over (in my general direction), offering a "better view". If she's not interested, she'll use her hand to hold her shirt closed when she bends over. Girls are hyper-aware of what their boobs are up to, and who the intended audience is. It's also a way of testing guys to see if he is interested - does he look? Does he stare? (fyi, you should look and then look away really quick - that is…
/r/seduction13/03/13 08:17 PM
2

Thanks. I'm getting there!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/13 08:34 PM
7

If your parents respect you, and you don't mind hanging out with them, then stay put!!! But use that time to save up a lot of money and really get ahead, don't just play vidya games and wank off and blow your money on weed. If you want to get laid, go to her place, or a hotel. You seem to have your wits about you, I'm sure that you can make that work. FYI, I'm 38 and in the same situation, almost. Mine is due to my own stupidity, and my parents do not respect me as an adult. But despite that, I'…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/13 05:41 AM
6

seddit is not a very good representation of the seduction community as a whole. It's a bunch of keyboard jockeys who think copy/pasting 100 girls on OKcupid is 'tight game', and don't really understand how the female brain works. I see the most AFC bullshit posted there sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/13 03:46 AM
7

No difference. OP is just convinced that he was being alpha and not buying into the women's games, hence 'red pill'. The seduction community and the Red Pill guys overlap a lot.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/13 03:43 AM
2

body language. Yours must be saying "ignore me, I'm not important."
/r/seduction28/02/13 08:33 AM
9

Wear a rubber band around your wrist for a month, and snap it hard enough to hurt every time you find yourself fidgeting (operant conditioning). Stop drinking Rock Star. Take beta blockers.
/r/seduction28/02/13 08:05 AM
2

Trying to close is like approaching was. You'll be horrible at it at first, you just have to plow through a few rejections first, and then you'll get better at it. Unlike AA, CA (closing anxiety - I had/have it too) kind of goes away permanently. Not completely, but it lessens greatly and doesn't come raging back every night. And you can make yourself more comfortable during the comfort stage just like you do her. Remember, it's not about the #close. A #close is only if you can't continue on in …
/r/seduction28/02/13 08:02 AM
2

You don't know she's crazy from that. I would approach her just to find out what it was all about.
/r/seduction28/02/13 07:53 AM
1

Mindset. Seduction doesn't have to be about getting ONSs, or 'tricking' girls, or seeing them as sex objects. The core of game is about self improvement, and learning to relate to women more efficiently.
/r/seduction28/02/13 07:53 AM
1

Cool. Casual was a bad choice of words. I was trying to express that you should say it in a way that conveys that you do not think it is weird, or that you will get a bad reaction. Basically, you convey that you are beyond the game and are using a shortcut - but you have to be convincing. I understand why it works. I'm just surprised that it works 50% of the time, because I would think that even just logistics would preclude at least half of women - she's actually there with her bf, or she's una…
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:45 AM
3

Walk up to the girl, say "What are you doing later?" She says something. You say "Do you want to go home with me?" Act casual but serious. After that, you basically run comfort. That is the classic apocalypse opener. Some guys claim to have as high as a 50% success rate with this (although I seriously doubt that), when pulled off correctly. Supposedly, the brash confidence and just cutting to the chase is attractive. I've never tried it. Always meant to do it once I get in state, but I never rem…
/r/seduction28/02/13 04:11 AM
1

Teasing her. Not supplicating, etc. Make her work for it.
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:49 PM
0

10's for my age category You mean 6's?
/r/seduction27/02/13 12:07 AM
1

LS too damn expensive! Ain't nobody got the money fo dat!
/r/seduction27/02/13 12:06 AM
2

Just one step in becoming the master of my own universe.
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:58 PM
1

MM is still the best overall structure explanation of game. Just concentrate on that first. Attraction-comfort-seduction. A1-A2-A3, you don't even really have to break down comfort and seduction into their three stages, I think he mainly did that for continuity. You have to go over MM a few times to absorb it all. It is a GREAT foundation, though. But the most powerful thing about it is that structure - because for the first time in your life, you'll be able to know exactly where you are with a …
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:58 PM
3

Get on video chat rooms. Wear a pirate eyepatch.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:43 PM
6

Dude. Duuuuude. Go after 16 year olds. Because for the rest of your life you will want to, but not be allowed to by society. Get it while you can.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:41 PM
1

Always be challenging. Especially in the beginning of the set.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:36 PM
2

Anything she says or does to throw you off your game. Best ignored. She's testing your frame to see how strong it is.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:28 PM
5

It shows balls to be a little nervous but approach anyway. Women LOVE to see a guy actively overcome his fears. Good point. Nerves aren't a game killer unless you let them be.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:27 PM
2

Immersion therapy. You WILL give a fuck for a long time, but the more you do it, the less you care. And at a certain point, it actually becomes fun. But time w/o opening resets AA to near original levels. Also, get a good wing man to have fun with and push one another into sets.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:48 AM
1

I like salad...
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:45 AM
4

THREE SECOND RULE!!!
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:44 AM
3

I don't tolerate that kind of behavior. I call them out on it, tell them that they are being rude. They stop doing it after you do that, since appearing to be socially graceful is most women's top priority.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 07:35 PM
1

Would you be willing to post a picture of yourself? I'm now wondering if you are suffering from a kind of body dismorphic disorder, or are really that ugly. IM me a link if you don't want to do it publicly?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/13 08:48 PM
2

fuck, that's awesome!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/13 04:53 AM
1

Compensate? If you are actually too genetically screwed to get strong, but you are very good at your job, max out your job potential and get a bodyguard. That would take care of the fear factor. You are then strong by proxy. Just as good as being strong yourself, in practicality. When you have a problem you can't defeat, you go around it. As far as looks go, are you familiar with the American rapper Flava-Flav? Probably about the ugliest motherfucker you could imagine. Yet full of irrational con…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/13 04:48 AM
-3

Cosmo, girl chatter, etc. Almost everything they do is related to making themselves more attractive. Girls start talking game in about 2nd grade.
/r/seduction07/02/13 12:43 PM
0

Liberal Arts buildings usually have the hottest girls. But try the common areas too. Just be careful not to shit where you eat, especially if you go to a smaller school. It's one thing to go around striking up normal conversations, another to get a reputation as the creepy wannabe PUA on campus. In other words, it's a great place to meet girls. A bad place to practice or learn PUA.
/r/seduction07/02/13 12:40 PM
1

This ^ Think Tony Soprano.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/13 06:39 AM
2

It's just game. Since you are bigger, you have to have a little bit tighter game. I'm 5'6" and 205 lb. I've been up to 235. I know a couple of guys who are a lot bigger and have great success. Opening is a unique skill. Remember that opening is just an "in". You aren't trying to get her attracted to you by opening. You are only getting the set's attention and interest (although you can't do anything to kill any attraction, like leaning in, etc.). Opening is not about whether she is attracted to …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/13 06:36 AM
3

don't poke my butt, pervert!
/r/seduction04/02/13 04:58 AM
2

I read a blog post from a psychologist about how to add power to your affirmations: repeat them in different personas: "I do what makes me happy," "you do what makes you happy" "he does what makes him happy" - for some reason, this covers all the bases of the ways you can do self-talk, since you are thinking from different points of view. Another was to form them into questions, and answer them: "How do I do what makes me happy?"; "I make a game of approaching the hardest sets, and laugh if I ge…
/r/seduction04/02/13 02:14 AM
6

I like the 'flex' routine. But man, is he dressed like a douche!
/r/seduction04/02/13 02:01 AM
3

Don't rely on texting. Use texts just to set up a real life meeting. Texting is too easy to fuck up, and it's difficult to convey personality. Especially in your current condition. You could easily come off as needy. Cool off for a while at least.
/r/seduction04/02/13 01:40 AM
64

Dick pic Dick pic Dick pic Dick pic Dick pic Dick pic bitches love dick pics!
/r/seduction04/02/13 01:36 AM
2

Ha ha
/r/seduction04/02/13 01:21 AM
2

Anything past one drink really does fuck with your game. Even if you have a lot of AA, and it seems to get you rolling, it hurts in the long run. This is coming from a seasoned alcoholic. I love my dark beer and scotch, but I'm basically either drinking or sarging. It works for me to just let go and have fun doing one or the other. You don't want to have to rely on alcohol to be able to talk to women.
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:36 PM
3

Frustrated. Googled "how to get laid". Found the web version of ASF (which I was familiar with from newsgroups, but never gave any credit to). Started reading. Found it fascinating. Read everything I could. Started going out to public places to try and open girls. Was too nervous for a long time, then I butchered my way through some horrible sets. Like one every few nights. Then, I met a guy in my area on the old Mystery Method website (now Love Systems). He was a little bit ahead of me, but a n…
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:33 PM
3

Dual induction, not incursion. Basically, you give one girl a massage, then switch to the other real quick, and get the first one to start helping you massage her. It builds pretty quickly from there according to Style. There's a little bit of advantage as to which girl you start with, pick the one who feels a little more like the alpha of the two, or the one that would be most down with a threesome. But mainly, do it really casual and confident like you would imagine. Read The Game if you haven…
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:20 PM
2

It's "dual induction massage". Read The Game. It is the best PU material out there, although its real power is the story of nerd to world's best PUA, more than an instruction manual. Although there is good basic material in it.
/r/seduction03/02/13 05:11 PM
2

Great job! I don't know why people are giving you shit for "putting up with that". Because, a) you didn't put up with it, and b) this is textbook shit testing that any hot girl will try to lay on you. They don't even do it consciously most of the time, it's more of an instinct with them. I am so proud of you, my friend!
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:36 PM
105

Because there is a bona-fide link between crazy and fun in bed.
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:34 PM
1

It's also "safe" for the girls, because the men are locked away - so they can participate in the fantasy without actually getting involved with the guy. And serial killers and murderers are also famous and hardcore. What angsty teen wouldn't love that? Considering that rockstars won't write you back.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/13 10:48 PM
3

Oh, god. Honestly, the one that I have used the most in my years, and always works is the classic one from Style: You: "Tell me something really quick, I gotta go meet a friend so I only have a second (this is your FTC), but if a girl goes out to a club and kisses a guy that isn't her boyfriend, is that cheating?" set: yes/no/whatever You: "What if she kisses another girl?" set: blah blah blah. Girls love this one. It works pretty well with guys in sets, too. Everyone has an opinion. It doesn't …
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:32 PM
1

"No, I don't think we would get along at all," said with a sly smile.
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:03 PM
1

Girls don't really care if you are a "good" dancer. What they like to see is that you are having fun and are loose. Don't be so serious. If you go out there and act like a goof on purpose, and have fun doing it, that can be a real draw. Letting yourself go is good - just not to the point of being obnoxious.
/r/seduction01/02/13 04:00 PM
2

You are just out of practice. Remember the basic strategy is: open with something interesting, body rock and false time constraint, demonstrate high value, qualify her. That's attraction in a nutshell. I'm a big fan of canned material. Especially when just getting into or back into the game. Your brain tends to freeze up, so it's really hard to just come up with good material on the spot. So memorize some good openers and DHV stories. Use them over and over, so that you can concentrate on delive…
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:58 PM
2

You just have to learn to enjoy it, and it will become natural. First, you have to get over the awkwardness of it - the only way to do that is to do it a lot. Memorize a good joke and a couple of interesting facts. Short ones. Talk to strangers, everyone you can, young and old, as often as possible. Your anxiety will cool fairly quickly when you do this (but it comes back fast when you stop doing it - it is a momentum thing). Then, you can work on getting better at it.
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:37 PM
2

Make your goals be 1. to have fun, and 2. to learn. In cognitive-behavioral therapy, writing things down is a kind of magic. When you put pen to paper, it cements things in your mind. You can use this to change your thought patterns. Write yourself a short essay (1 or 2 paragraphs) about why you enjoy learning pickup. Include examples of how you had fun doing it, and times you had a big insight. You have to make it legit, though. Bullshitting yourself won't work. Just write down reasons why you …
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:32 PM
1

Your game is decent but each girl is just not interested uhm. You may be overestimating the quality of your game. It's probably something little though. Have a friend who understands game watch you. Usually this is a body language issue. You may be leaning in too much, or slouching, or something else that is an instant turn-off. Body language is probably the most underappreciated aspect of seduction, it can be the most important aspect as well. It can certainly kill a good set if you do it wrong…
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:19 PM
2

It's how you interact. Other women can tell if those girls are attracted to you really easily. Or they can pick up that you are a non-sexual entity to them, if that's how it is. Just make your relationships with those women a flirty one.
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:14 PM
1

6'5" back seat of a Dodge Neon FTW
/r/seduction31/01/13 11:44 AM
1

It's too bad that you guys have had such a negative reaction to this. I've had good luck with it. Maybe the girls I go after are a different breed or something.
/r/seduction29/01/13 09:32 PM
1

LOL. I read that. There's a funny line in Ted about that trend.
/r/seduction29/01/13 09:30 PM
1

Eastern European name.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:42 AM
1

Don't forget to 'peacock' with a big furry hat, maybe a cape or something!
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:14 AM
0

I will. Have fun wowing her with your theories on a grand unified theory of physics and how you can recite pi down to 87 decimal places by memory.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:13 AM
-1

And yet it works. You expect girls at bars to function above a grade 8 level?
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:12 AM
7

Just a hot girl I know. Look up "Jelena" on fb - they are all hot. I don't know why this is. Alicia's used to be pretty hot, but they've gone downhill recently.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:11 AM
13

Yeah, this is a tactic for bar sluts. Should have mentioned that. Definitely not a day game / coffee house move!
/r/seduction28/01/13 10:30 PM
1

Want some easy pre-selection proof? Buy a stick of lipstick. Put it on. Kiss the collar of the shirt you are about to wear out, make it look messy, like an accident. Little smudges work well, not big obvious full lip smacks (more believable, and girls will always notice). Wash off lipstick. All night, girls will think that you've already had a female kissing all over you. Alternatively, take a pen and write a phone # on your arm, followed by a good female name (obv. in girly looking handwriting)…
/r/seduction28/01/13 09:03 PM
4

One thing that helps me is to remember that girls want to meet guys. They want to be swept off their feet. They want the D. It's just that their conditioning and instinct and whatnot tell them that they can only get it from a man with status, and all those other attraction triggers. Women want you to pick them up, to turn them on. It's why they leave the house only after 2 hours of making themselves look hot. You are selling them something they already want, if you do it right.
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:07 AM
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But if you want to be more than just another random guy, you have to convey a deeper message. That message is intention. This is why being a little bit nervous but plowing through can work in your favor. It subconsciously spells out that your intentions are romantic. Plus, if you are a little nervous, she will feel it too. But that is what women feel around men they are attracted to - a little bit nervous. So she rationalizes that she is into you. On top of that, she sees you are a little nervou…
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:01 AM
5

Anything I had read in the Tao of Badass or any other PUA book went right out of the window. I guess the true symptom of approach anxiety is being unable to control your mind and body to the extent of being unable to get stuff done. This is why being a keyboard jockey does nothing for your game. Things do not stick at all until you do them IRL, over and over again. I concentrate on remembering one thing each time I go out, usually that same idea for at least a week. If you go out with a head ful…
/r/seduction28/01/13 01:55 AM
2

Dammit, I thought the pic link was going to be a pic of the hb9.
/r/seduction25/01/13 11:53 PM
3

It is quite enlightening. I made a fake female profile. Now I understand why girls complain about what guys say to them. I got like 20 messages the first day that were basically " 'sup, you are so hot!". There were one or two more involved ones, but they were really beta - trying to kiss up to something on my profile. It really teaches you what not to do, and how to stand out.
/r/seduction25/01/13 11:52 PM
1

Actually, later the same day is not a bad idea. If it's going really well, then you can use that vibe. Roll with the good feelings. And changing venues is magical, she will feel like she knows you better and has invested more into it. So if the lunch thing goes good, I suggest getting her over to your place for the other stuff. If she can't because of some prior plans, then you can set it up for the next day or later. But really, if things are working out waiting only allows time for that attrac…
/r/seduction25/01/13 11:48 PM
3

Next level shit: mix it up. Sometimes text immediately back, sometimes wait as long as you can sweat it. It will really fuck with her head. It's called selective reinforcement, and it is the most powerful kind of behavioral modification. It's what keeps gamblers yanking on those fucking one armed bandits (slot machines).
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:28 AM
1

You are doing fine. How long until break? Just don't get needy and start sending a bunch of messages making sure it's still on. I would wait, get yourself into your work to keep your mind off of it so you don't over think it. She'll text you if she can't wait. If she does, go with the feel/rhythm of her texts. It could make the anticipation build if she's getting into it. But if it's you being on the leading end, it could seem like you are a bit too invested. It's a gut thing. Just don't, don't,…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:26 AM
1

I would stay away from asking to call. That's a bit beta. If you are going to call, just call. If she doesn't answer, though, I don't leave a message and I don't call back. I'm not sure that is the "right" thing to do, but it does tend to lead to some curiosity/tension on her part, because everyone has a cell phone with caller ID, and she'll know that you called. But the best thing for me is face to face. I only use the phone to set up a meeting. Phone/text game is really hard, so I would just r…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:21 AM
1

It's a kind of last minute resistance. Girls feel guilty about being slutty at the bar. You have to keep backing off, saying "we shouldn't be doing this," and stuff like that. Make her want more by pulling back. Lovedrop talked about kissing girls at bars. He said that after a little while it becomes simple to get a girl to make out with you at the bar. But it is counter productive. Because girls do that just for fun, and it satisfies their sexual tension. So they usually don't go home with you.…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:15 AM
2

I loathe going on "dates". It makes most girls a little nervous too. I've learned that it is a lot easier if you don't frame it as such. I NEVER use the word "date" with a girl, until after she's my gf. We're going to go hang out. Do something cool. If she is into you, she'll think of it afterwards as a date. If she's not, or it goes poorly, she'll just think of it as hanging out and it wasn't that great. But if it is an official "date" there's so much pressure and so many expectations that it m…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:10 AM
2

Yeah, that is a risky move. If you already have lots of attraction built up and have escalated kino smoothly, and she's comfortable with it, then it would be fine - but you have to be able to tell. Because that's a pretty ballsy comfort test. If she's uncomfortable with it, trying that could ruin everything. This is one of those things where only your gut can tell you -and you have to be good enough for your gut to be right. Think, you would do this to your gf without thinking about it. But if y…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:05 AM
3

Her attraction died. Girls' attraction is a moment to moment thing. You have to # close while her buying temp is high. By waiting 2 days and messaging her on fb, you should have started over building attraction. Remind her how interested she was in you by continuing to be fun and different. Remember, girls are fucking flighty as fuck. They live and die by the emotions of the moment. Use that to your advantage, and never forget it. They don't carry a torch unless you've really blown their mind. E…
/r/seduction22/01/13 05:00 AM
2

This ^ Try to frame it in a positive light: everyone has struggles, you are busting ass to overcome yours. That's very attractive.
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:57 AM
2

Good date ideas: go take pictures somewhere cool if you are into photography, or go hiking (but not hardcore, sweaty hiking - easy hiking somewhere pretty), take her to see a cool local band play, a museum if you are both intellectual. Just frame it as "I'm going to go, you should come with me." What are her cool hobbies you mentioned? You could do some of them. Nothing wrong with having her 'teach' you one of them, say you've always been interested but never tried it - teaching someone somethin…
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:56 AM
1

Mall, campus, dog park, book store, coffee shops, record stores, any place where crowds gather that is kind of upscale (as in, not Wal Mart).
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:09 AM
6

Be careful gaming girls in class. Don't shit where you eat. I don't mean that you should not pursue them - just don't try to go all Mystery on them if you aren't already extremely good at it. Because you are going to fail in most sets. That's why bars and such are perfect - you blow a set, you just move on. You don't want to have a class full of girls you hit on and got blown out by. This is "social circle" game, which is much different than cold approaches. You get into the friend group first. …
/r/seduction22/01/13 04:06 AM
2

I think that the "girlfriend training program" had a good bit. I used to get his newsletter, and it was great because he typically lead off with just what was going on in his life lately - which consisted of him living with a harem for the most part. His main gf was a hottie with a lot of good PUA advice, but for some reason she dumped him and is now dating Style. It's a weird world among famous gurus, I guess. There's a pretty hot vid around of him teaching how to make a girl squirt, showing th…
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:54 AM
5

(http://www.ideagasms.net/)[http://www.ideagasms.net/] Stephane is the master of this. He gets a lot of shit for his spiritual approach to PU, but he's a great guy - one of the only gurus that will personally respond to your emails. He'll even hook you up with old IG products that aren't available anymore for free.
/r/seduction13/01/13 09:33 PM
2

Negging is the most controversial topic in PU. Done at the right time, in the right way, it is a game changer. The reason it is so frowned on is because most do it wrong, or at the wrong time. But well placed negs have turned sets around for me, from wingman giving me the "eject dude, eject!" sign, to her trying to qualify herself to me - after one short statement: "I like those earrings, my niece has a pair just like them," or similar. They really can be a cheat code to a successful pickup. But…
/r/seduction12/01/13 10:19 PM
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Yet I have your attention. Just some early morning PUporn because I'm bored. Hope you enjoyed it.
/r/seduction11/01/13 03:26 PM
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That's it, you're out of canned material. But momentum is gaining. You kick wing#1. "So how do you guys know each other," he asks. They reply something. He launches into his own DHV, but hb is all eyes on you. "Let me borrow your friend for a minute, I've been ignoring her, you say to the group." It's absolute rubbish, but it works. They are caught up in wing#1's story now. You take her towards the bar, and order a water. She wants to buy you a real drink, and one for herself. So it goes. You te…
/r/seduction11/01/13 03:25 PM
0

That's why it's taking so long - typing it with one hand and all.
/r/seduction11/01/13 03:09 PM
-1

Surprise no longer registers as you dive into your rehearsed-a-billion-times DHV story. Pre-selection, check. Leader of men, check. You throw in a new thread, "do you like horses?," you ask her, and go back to your story as she nods her head yes. You are two steps ahead, and it pours out of you without thinking. Apparently, it's going over ok, because they are listening like a group of toddlers to Blue's Clues for the 10th time that day. But you are delivering all this to the two obstacles, only…
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:54 PM
-1

"You're still here?" you ask her as you walk back up. Her two friends have appeared. "Uhm, yeah." She says, as her friends watch in enraptured silence. "What's going on," her friend asks. Panic is back, tunnel vision ensues. "It's all in the game," you think, as you reach for your beer in silence. And then some part of your subconscious rushes forth and takes over. All of that practice did become second nature. "I've got nothin'," it says. "I just wanted to get your attention," it says as you ma…
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:39 PM
-1

It doesn't matter that you look like BrickTop from Snatch, you tell yourself. Because you have the balls of BrickTop. But you have nothing. Panic is beginning to set in. All those days spent at the mall making random hb's feel awkward are going to pay off, you tell yourself. You haven't been laid since you started this game. But then you laugh at yourself and remember. It's just a game. "It's all in da game," you recite in your best mental impression of Omar from The Wire. Your ego bounces back …
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:28 PM
-1

On the way there, you listened to Eazy E Real Muthafuckin' G's, or whatever gets your dick hard, at full volume. Maybe you took a couple propranalol or a bump to nullify your anxiety. Met your boys there and opened some bullshit sets on the street - gay guys, ugly girls, the unapproachably hot girl handing out drink coupons - anything that gets your confidence up, because the first few sets are just practice. By the time you go inside somewhere, you are completely in character.
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:05 PM
-2

"Who are you?" she asks. You don't answer. A few seconds go by. "Want to hear the world's shortest joke?" you say. She just looks at you in a state of pure confusion. "My dick," you reply, deadpan. A few more seconds. You crack up. A look of astonishment. All subterfuge is blown. "Watch this," you say as you continue smiling and get up. "Stay here."
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:56 PM
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I agree that your banter was pretty god awful. Never lead with "excuse me, unless you literally run into a girl. Think about it: "excuse me" literally means "blow me off". You introduced yourself as a thing to be put away, moved past. Then you started asking borderline creepy questions. I'm all for acting as if you are already friends with someone when you first meet them, but not acting like a mother hen! Don't follow a girl anywhere. She can stay and enjoy the privilege of talking to you, or s…
/r/seduction05/01/13 08:29 AM
2

I did Mystery's "newbie mission" when I first started out. 12 approaches a night. Repeat for a month. Did it with friends. It's really hard, at least the first few are. Approaches 1 to 3 are just practice, I learned, because AA is so high. But then it gets easier. After about 6, it actually becomes fun (most nights). But the thing about AA is that it comes back night after night, although after awhile you know that you will feel it but also know that you'll push through it. I went from being dea…
/r/seduction04/12/12 05:38 AM
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