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Lol!! it's just a low brow joke, if that didn"t take the sting out of him losing 5 minutes of life then i got nothin for him lol if i was trolling i would've said something like "now you know how every chick you've fucked feels"....still not much better i guess lol
/r/askMRP20/09/17 04:27 PM
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I can't jelly my dick in your wife's ass Jelly is easy to spread, like your wife. lol i like that one too
/r/askMRP20/09/17 12:53 PM
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What's the difference between jam and jelly?
/r/askMRP20/09/17 04:38 AM
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You're all over the place. lol I'll give ya that one, communication has never been my strong suit. it is geared toward the newbies like me, looking for more practical examples/advice. a lot of this stuff is starting to "click" for me...just trying to do my best to share what I've learned so far with others that are getting started.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 04:36 AM
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great point. I'm still prone to overthinking and taking things as blanket statements. that def clears that one up though
/r/askMRP20/09/17 03:27 AM
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Your advice has proven to be invaluable. Made a huge stride in the right direction today! Thanks, again, for the guidance.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 02:05 AM
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Doesn't Athol talk about mate guarding raising attraction and also being an alpha move? His example was a SO getting hit on at the bar...approach the guy, strike up conversation and offer to buy him a beer. Or something along those lines. I didnt spend too much time reading on maye guarding so i may be a little off with that example
/r/askMRP20/09/17 01:06 AM
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Goin out on a limb here, but she probably doesn't call bc it feels more like checking in with a P.O. instead of calling to chat about her trip & talk to you. If you want her to call, be someone she wants to talk to. You're hamster is going apeshit and she can sense it....those aren't fun phone calls and if she's on business it's not a break from the stress, it's adding to it.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 12:36 PM
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good points! The only reason I said anything about being with her then was to call her out on her bullshit. It was another lie to try to cover up the first one, and I won't meet that with silence. Possibly with some vision about how you see an honest marriage benefiting you both so she can see she has no reason to lie. Give her a positive to look for. I'm not going to speculate on why she got the credit line, but if she feels she can't be honest with you because of past reactions by you then it …
/r/askMRP17/09/17 06:01 PM
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OP, did you say the second part about being with her during the return or was that what you were thinking but answered with don't lie to me? Yeah I said it. She tried responding to it I think, but I cut her off with "just don't lie to me." The plan now if it were to happen is just withdrawn time/attention in one way or another, after saying something of course.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 04:04 PM
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how do you know she doesn't do this again or lie about some other bullshit? I don't. I assume she will at some point though. What do you do if she does? If it happend today, I would say very little about it and withdraw time and attention, possibly leave the house altogether. Down the road, I dont know yet. Is she aware of the consequence No. ...or that there will be a consequence? Yes. Will you fillow through with the same frame you approached this issue with? I'd like to think so.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 03:07 PM
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It's not gonna hurt us. Bills are paid, we have a fucking blast together as a family every weekend, dinner on the table, and all the lumber/drywall ect for my remodel projects. The money is a non-issue here.
/r/askMRP16/09/17 05:00 PM
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What is the most alpha way to respond to sexual advances when they are made in situations where it is not possible to carry through with them? the answer, most definitely, is not "hop online and ask a bunch of dudes how to respond"
/r/askMRP15/09/17 09:44 PM
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Just go into it accepting she may not be down. And when she is not, go do something else. This, OP. Everytime. You sound pretty similar to how I was. And I was shocked how fast I was able to internalize this concept (it's not a conscious thought in my head anymore when I'm ready to lay pipe). I'm also here bc I was tired of being a depressed, validation seeking little man-bitch....not to get laid more. As long as your priorities are straight, this could be one of the easier hurdles to jump.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 09:22 PM
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i found a pdf on ebay for 4 bucks...dude emailed it to me 15 minutes after i paid.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 09:12 PM
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wordy frame. Spot on. I'm working toward a "less is more" way of communicating, with everyone. It's not so much trying to "win" as it is trying to recognize any serious issues that need some resolution and separating those from the rest of the bullshit. The more I learn about subcommunication, the less talking I will have to do to recognize, separate and address. With my subpar communication skills though, I have no doubts it comes across as looking for a win right now. I'll get there
/r/askMRP15/09/17 05:04 PM
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but when a woman cries on you, screams at you, or issues an ultimatum to you she is self-acknowledging that she is powerless to the point of having to come over to your way of communicating. I was re-reading The rationale male in the side bar and came across this line in "The medium IS the message" under the Communication section. That night when the Straight Talking began, I was given an ultimatum...shortly after being asked if I was happy or if I wanted out of the marriage. She asked me out of…
/r/askMRP15/09/17 01:34 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4clb60/had_a_fight_last_night_help_me_parse_it/d1jdorp/ this link was shared to me yesterday, r/jacktenofhearts breaks it down perfectly in his comment
/r/askMRP14/09/17 09:05 PM
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"take a minute, start over, because whatever you want to communicate, it's not working," there is no shame. You're not tolerating their shitty communication, but you're not invalidating their feelings either. fuuuuuuuuck there's the lightbulb! that one simple sentence is my new "stfu & leave"... Like I said in a response to your other comment, when I can get her into my Straight Talk space shit goes so much smoother...I just never even knew where to start in the heat of the moment to get us ther…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 09:31 PM
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I've read it twice, and will probably reread a few more times...i still can't make the connection here though. here's more info as to why. it was revealed after i got home that she thought i came home bc she assumed i thought she 1) couldn't handle the situation herself and 2) did something "wrong" to cause the panic attack. She also ended up expressing some personal guilt she felt...like a "i've been a horrible mom and now he's having this anxiety" kind of mentality. I'm a Straight Talker when …
/r/askMRP13/09/17 08:38 PM
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I'd focus on why he's afraid to disappoint you then Will do this for sure. I'm always stressing praise the effort and not the outcome in my home. I don't give a shit if my kids fail as long as the effort is genuine and they continue to try. I'm only disappointed when they go half-assed at something, even if they succeed, I'll call out their bullshit attempt. He's been hearing this for years too, more so this year it seems though. He's always done real well in school,as an example, and when he br…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:52 PM
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Not even close. I'm well aware of my parenting skills, my feeeeeeelings on that subject dont care what anyone has to say about it. What I won't tolerate is being told that ANYTHING concerning my children is "none of my business."
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:14 PM
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If your wife screams at you about loading the dishwasher wrong, it's not about the dishwasher. ah yes, i remember this from a youtube vid by Athol Kay! I'll check that link out as soon as I get to work.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:03 PM
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he knows we have his back, there's no question of that. he doesn't want to disappoint us is his thing. If I hadn't have found MRP, he'd grow up with nice guy syndrome for sure. As I digest more I will share more and more with him.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 05:13 PM
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Removing your presence means you don't pick up the phone either. You completely negated leaving. Did you stop your car a block away and Argue with her? lol no, i wasnt sitting watching the clock or anything but a good amount of time, and a ton of ignored calls/texts, before i finally answered. i see what you mean though, if i'm evee in this situation again i will not answer at all and talk when i get home. Then, you DEERed. Should I have just let the action of coming home to talk to him about it…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 04:36 PM
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thanks! i'll keep an eye on that and see if there's a noticable change. i think a lot of it is early onset of nice guy syndrome, he is def a people pleaser. I'll be sure to pass down the red pill knowledge as i digest it, and will keep working toward being a good role model for it as well. Perhaps you need to analyze us how you talk to SO and children. I'm not quite sure what you mean by this, unless the "us" wasn't suppossed to be in there
/r/askMRP13/09/17 04:29 PM
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Handle her emotions with her. This is what I'm working toward. Being able to stand in front of her last night, look her in the eyes and actually hear what she was saying, instead of spacing out to avoid my own feelings about it, felt really good actually. Now I want to start working on being able to do more than stfu while i'm standing there
/r/askMRP13/09/17 04:23 PM
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And this time instead of going off and being a jackass, or worst...just roll over and take it without saying or doing anything, I just left after I did what I came home to do. It's not a "if she does it again, I'm leaving boundry"...I allowed it for so long, so I can't throw her overboard all of the sudden. I established the boundry, and I stuck to it the best way I knew how at the time. When I'm closer to being the man I want to be I'm sure if it is even still happening at that point I'll have …
/r/askMRP13/09/17 03:41 PM
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Why would that trigger you? She's not denying your role as a parent. She did though, her exact words shortly after I got home were "it's none of your business." Word for word. I didn't respond to the texts after I left bc the 2 i gave as examples came 2 minutes after a few other texts saying I walked in like she was "beating our children"...I knew what I said when I walked in so there was no need to respond and defend. For now I have to stfu in that situation and talk later, and it worked well l…
/r/askMRP13/09/17 03:33 PM
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I was the drunk captain for sure. I also didn't come to MRP bc of a DB either though. In spite of all the shit I was screwing up, we were still fuckin pretty regularly. She's pretty vanilla, I'm not. Since I've started to get my shit together though she's been a lot more open to try new things...haven't got a no yet. It's remarkable to see the blatant intent from woman who want to fuck you. Always under the guise of plausible deniability. And ain't this the truth! hell, a lot of them leave no de…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 02:03 PM
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eat eat eat!! 5-7 meals a day....MEALS. if you're not into bulking then leaning out, then eat clean for all of these meals. when you're at the grocery store, stick to the produce and meat departments. easiest advice i was given to get me started was this... "if it comes in a box, or you've seen a commercial for it, don't eat it." if you wanna learn about bulking/cutting, go ahead and start eating whatever the fuck you want all day everyday while you're reading up on it. Calories is the name of t…
/r/askMRP10/09/17 02:01 AM
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both talk about winding up their wives sometimes along the lines you are suggesting, because they and their wives enjoy some drama and push-pull in their relationships. But only do this if you can do so from a true spirit/frame of play and affectionate teasing, rather than passive-aggressiveness, anger, or getting her back for something. Man I swear my wife and I enjoy it, to an extent anyway, too. I straight nuked the hut a few weeks ago, thinkin I dug myself a huge fucking hole to get out of. …
/r/askMRP10/09/17 01:37 AM
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I didn't do it to get to know her better, is the thing. I did it for me. All I'll say on that is I needed the break....bad. And it helped, just 2 short weeks. I know what ya mean though, after that 2 weeks was up it was a whole new ballgame. Sex can def build a relationship, but when someone is being an unproductive grouchy resentful butt-hurt little bitch bc they cant think about anything else but fucking, and are pissed bc they arent getting it 24/7....it's time to take a break and get their s…
/r/askMRP10/09/17 01:16 AM
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I did it for the same reasons, and I just stopped initiating. I didnt overtly tell her anything. I got to know myself and my wife a lot better in that time too. If you're using sex as a crutch, one way or another, making your mind up to go without for a little bit takes a lot of pressure off of everyday situations. She starts acting up, you are less likely to roll over and take it bc you're not thinking about getting in her pants later that night (if you still have that backwards logic, as i did…
/r/askMRP09/09/17 05:40 PM
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but with my wife I had a history of insecure, asshole behavior that tainted everything I said. After thinking about it for awhile I realized this is part of the reason I sent it. I put myself in a situation I've been know to fuck up in to test myself and to exhibit my change in behavior...and that tells me I'm not doing this 100% for me. Or am I doing it 100% for me while also realizing I want to be a better husband/father/son/brother...? I got some more digging into myself to do. Thank you for …
/r/askMRP09/09/17 04:46 AM
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struggle with this one myself. you're pointing out things you dont like about yourself in these situations, which is a good start. but then I respond. So engaging with her is a losing battle. I say things I regret and the solution could always be waiting out the storm. you're going into her frame. the end game is to build yourself (frame) up so you don't fold in these situations. that's the thought i keep in my head during. i still fuck up, and there are other times i think i handled myself pret…
/r/askMRP09/09/17 04:22 AM
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solid advice. thanks
/r/askMRP09/09/17 02:40 AM
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I still have a hard time not seeing this particular example as a good way of stirring up some emotions though. With the possibility of negative emotions at first (i.e. "oh no, not this shit again") then ending with positive (i.e. "oh, maybe there is a new sheriff in town..i'm gonna suck his dick clean off his body when he gets home") granted, she didnt get shitty at all and we both ended up getting a good laugh out of it. so it's all kindda hypothetical at this point
/r/askMRP09/09/17 02:19 AM
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this is the kind of feedback I was looking for. So, not a good idea to instigate shit tests, even if it's done subtly. Just take them as they come naturally. Thank you for the insight
/r/askMRP09/09/17 02:05 AM
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sounds good, I'll have to ask my wife if she's in the mood first though
/r/askMRP09/09/17 12:29 AM
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i understand that you feel that way, but i don't want to STFU.
/r/askMRP09/09/17 12:10 AM
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ask and you shall receive just called wife on break, rang once before she answered and then hung up. a minute later i get a text "can i call you later?" my first reaction was to reply with something along the lines of yeah, no problem. but then....the wild hair found its way into my bum and i respond with "can you say that on the phone next time instead of answering and hanging up" -- i know my wife, this is (or at least, was) a shot fired. And a year ago, she would've been right. But this time …
/r/askMRP08/09/17 11:10 PM
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I've missed you too.... looks like I need better aim. 😂😂 I'm stealing this one
/r/askMRP08/09/17 06:34 PM
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damn...i should've led with "send nudes" lol
/r/askMRP08/09/17 01:09 AM
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If you were going to follow through, you wouldn't be on here trying to get us to tell you how rediculous you're being. true story. OP, are you bluffing or trolling? You didn't ask for any advice at all in your post. And surely you've lurked enough to know what kind of responses posts like this get. Come back when you walk in on her getting railed in the ass by some rando dude... at least then you'll have a better story to tell us.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 06:46 PM
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too busy fuckin to write another book, probably
/r/askMRP07/09/17 02:39 AM
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I want to take baby steps to get back into this (sexualizing everything), and I know this may be a big no-no here..but for her sake, not mine. I've been doing good at reading her reactions, and OI is fully internalized at this point for me when trying to sexualize things throughout the day. No resentment if she doesnt respond, and when she does I go a little further and make sure to end the conversation on my terms and leave her wanting more. Last year I was the bull in the china shop and would …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 11:43 PM
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This. I got the same reaction "I don't like this new you..." and all. Whether you realize you were doing it or not, there is a natural dread game being ran when you're going through this self improvement process. When I was faced with it I did exactly what OP suggested, told her the vision I had for myself, let her know her and our sons were still 100% included in my vision (from a place of I want you guys here) and went a little more in depth explaining that by helping myself all the other rela…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 06:37 PM
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The application of it varies depending on which person you're interacting with or what situation you're in. The more I thought about it, this is what I ended up thinking as well. When I'm in a situation I'm in control of is when I'm at my best. It's when I get a curve ball that I have to stay more conscious of "staying the course." Same was true when I was at my worst a year back...I could laugh off any shit given to me by ANYBODY except my wife. I would trip on the smallest shit with her. Knowi…
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:16 AM
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In a serious response though, I have already started looking at why I was able to get over my sexual resentment/frustration so easily, and how I can apply that to the other areas of myself I need work on.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 11:38 PM
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In a serious response though, I have already started looking at why I was able to get over my sexual resentment/frustration so easily, and how I can apply that to the other areas of myself I need work on.
/r/askMRP01/09/17 11:37 PM
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Don't over analyze this shit, dude. it's who i am. it's what i do lol not in a spun out hamster type way this time though, i've always had an interest in psychology and this stuff is a big ol rail of pure, uncut psych 101. i'mma toot it everytime!
/r/askMRP01/09/17 10:55 PM
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it's all 20/20 in hindsight for me now....i see it. i ended up owning it before leaving for work today without completely renigging and being a total bitch about it. no need to go into all the details but her reaction let me know I have got some things right over the last few months and she's been noticing (found NMMNG and the bluepill profs youtube videos a couple weeks before this sub). i also know i got A LOOOOOT of shit tests on the way so I've been doing lots of reading tonight at work, and…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 01:32 AM
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absolutely! i love their shit, still listen to adrenaline front to back like it's brand new. you a fan too?
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:27 PM
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agree with point one 100%, this is my kind of "support group" through and through. and dont you worry about my frame, fuck face.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:18 PM
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vs. what? just moving forward not knowing what some acronym i've never seen before means? I had a question, ended up getting the answer on my own. go coat your throat
/r/askMRP28/08/17 09:12 PM
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lol i'll just google it. thanks for the help edit: Dictionary.com tells me "DEERing" is a mispelling. Urbandictionary.com says "the act of having sex with a deer" OR jumping out in front of cars with my hands on my head like antlers lol! but a hit did come up for the red pill women's site where the acronym is explained...so sweet burn to OP that used it! lol
/r/askMRP28/08/17 08:21 PM
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i can't, no. not saying there werent other options, i just dont have any of them in my tool box. stfu wasnt working. "go away and we'll talk when shit cools off" didnt work. i'm glad i didnt go to my old default mode of jumping into her frame and argueing every point she tried to make...but yeah i ran out of the few options i know of and went to nuke town. shit is blowing over, had a productive conversation today and blah blah blah...but dealing with these blow up fights without dropping a nuke …
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:59 PM
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wtf is DEERing? and yeah...i checked the acronyms in the side bar for it. i was asking about the ticket situation...was i ramboing without knowing it. i've been lurking on breaks from NMMNG and have seen countless ppl thinking they stood their ground by the book just to find out they should've just -insert action here- in the first place. but either way we finally had a calm conversation today. yeah i blew the hut up when shit hit the fan later that day...but i'm a handy guy and repairs are alre…
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:44 PM
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i usually don't take advice from someone not passed the "calling people faggots online" stage of their life...especially when it comes to self improvement. but when you're right, you're right lol. I'll put NMMNG on hold and look the shit up sooner than later. good luck in your next Call of Duty match
/r/askMRP28/08/17 07:35 PM
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This only gets hookers wet - and even then they're using lube. 😂😂😂😂 fantastic!!
/r/askMRP25/08/17 02:45 PM
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i was in the same boat, more or less, not too long ago...and here's what i did: -monk mode for 2 weeks. taking sex completely off the table for myself was actually kind of a relief. long before i found MRP, i was constantly looking at myself in the mirror. MRP reinforced, or helped make sense of, a lot of the revelations i had and what i needed to do to ease my inner turmoil. if you havent spent much time thinking about anything other than gettin in her guts before this, you may want to set a lo…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 02:37 PM
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see, from personal experience anyway, it was the exact opposite for me. things changed drastically the second i spoke up to my MIL. i could tell my wife looked at me differently (in a good way), MIL backed off both me and my wife and they ended up taking steps to better their relationship. granted, i spoke up when my MIL was bitching about my wife and tried to get me to pick a side... bc he said MIL is viewed as the alpha by wife, i think any chance he gets to calmly stand his ground with her sh…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 01:43 PM
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care to expand on this? you're advice is "defer to wife" ?? or am i missing something?
/r/askMRP25/08/17 02:57 AM
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I feel the need to put my foot down. If if it was just wife, I would feel no guilt. you answered your own question. and....your few week old baby does not miss you. babies dont know shit other than "i'm tired/hungry/uncomfortable" so dont fall for any of that bullshit. if you got the confidence to call, respond that way immediately. if not, at the very least text YOUR MIL. Dont piss and moan to your wife about it. dont ask wife for permission to break off on her mom...just do it. say what you ne…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 01:09 AM
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i asked more as a discussion to the theory, but i did make it part of my plan before i even got to that part of the book. i'm not doin the whole 6 month nun challenge, but i just decided to initiate when i want it and, for now, prepare for her to say no before hand so i dont fall into my same old resentment patterns. so far so good with that approach. eventually it will be second nature and i wont have to keep it in mind going in. as i improve in the other areas i want to work on i'll get more i…
/r/askMRP24/08/17 02:21 AM
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thanks for the insight! and... Are you so focused on sex that it is excluding or distracting you from pursuits that enrich your own life? If yes, take a hiatus so you can clear your head while getting yourself into new habits of self improvement. yes, I absolutely was. dont get me wrong, the drive is still there but i'm getting better at acknowledging it and continuing to get my shit done anyway...vs. trying to just ignore it, which never worked.
/r/askMRP24/08/17 01:52 AM
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I needed it. Actually, I made it part of my plan to an extent. I still initiate when I'm really in the mood...I just needed to focus my attention elsewhere. Like the other OP mentioned though, I just got stuck in the philosophy and overthinking kicked in. Better to ask than wonder i guess
/r/askMRP23/08/17 10:56 PM
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