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Get medical advice from the proper people. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/23 10:45 PM
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Exactly. If you can't feel good about you, it's going to be a major slog to feel good about anyone else, or anything else. This is not a false sense of security, but a sureness of who you are and what your values are. You can be in a tough situation, and keep your wits about you by grounding yourselves. And we should always look for what's good or better in us - even more when someone is seeking to emotionally or psychologically take us down a notch. Many people are scanning for chinks in your a…
/r/askMRP02/12/21 05:18 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askMRP02/12/21 04:08 PM
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I'd absolutely never endorse anyone being or becoming a "nice guy" ... that's a pathway to hell, greased with all sorts of nastiness. So, certainly not that. I "validate" myself and live by a set of values and principles, which I embrace freely. Sometimes I screw up. Most of the time I self-correct. And I always seek to treat people a little better than what they think they are or might be, because if you take people as they are ... most of the time ... they sink below what they could or might b…
/r/askMRP02/12/21 03:58 PM
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There you go! An authentic life, based on your objective values. You get to decide who comes in, and who goes out. What you are willing to tolerate; because we have to remember that everyone is different, and we have to appreciate both differences and similarities. That's what adults do. Many however, are not adults. They're just overgrown, and entitled kids, forever trapped in their past. Unable to do more than their limitations. We all have to "fight the Balrog" at some stage, and take a stand…
/r/askMRP01/12/21 04:46 PM
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You’re welcome. Rest well. And stay in touch. You’re a good man. Don’t forget that.
/r/askMRP01/12/21 12:54 PM
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It's time to stop beating yourself up. Someone else did plenty of that already. You have to get out of that hall of mirrors and reclaim your birthright; to own your own life. That's all it is. I haven't read any of your other posts. But, I identified with what you had to share here. I'm not going to condemn you, hiding behind some keyboard as somehow superior or better than you. Who the fuck am I to judge you? I haven't walked in your shoes. But here you are, doing what you can, with what you go…
/r/askMRP01/12/21 12:41 PM
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You're welcome, brother. Listen, everyone has a life before they encounter and engage with others. We come with our weaknesses and faults. Things we haven't resolved or dealt with. Sometimes we just don't know how to deal with these things. We brush them under the carpet. We hope people won't see. Some of these things are our mistakes from the past; adults feel guilt ... kids feel shame. So, when you feel shame ... it's pointing at a part of your childhood that you haven't found a way to integra…
/r/askMRP01/12/21 12:21 PM
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You either clean up your shit; both of you. Make it work. Both of you - get your childhood shit sorted out. Or you do both of yourselves a favour. You walk. And then again ... get your shit sorted out. You both are in the wrong here, and that doesn't make it right. You're behaving like little kids. At least one of you needs to behave like a grown ass adult.
/r/askMRP01/12/21 12:01 PM
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What did you agree to, before you got married ? Did you have a plan about what you were going to do together, and a timeline?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 10:18 PM
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Maybe he means something along the lines of “practice, practice, practice” - which is a reasonable enough approach I’d say.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 07:37 AM
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My man, you just asked for permission to train with kit you already have. You give yourself that permission. And as for gym; do you think that the Spartans needed gyms? SPECOPS trains heavily with body weight. Even when they deploy; same deal. Get a kettlebell if you want. Anyway, good luck!
/r/askMRP20/08/21 07:51 AM
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Do you do any group activities, or rather, have you? COVID might be throwing a spanner in the works. Anyway, what’s your fitness like? Do you get enough sleep?
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 12:55 AM
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Sorry to hear about your troubles. It looks like you’ve gone through some hell, but here you still are. Good. It means that you’re not done. Tell me though, what did you learn from these relationships? What did you learn about yourself and what did you learn about the women you picked? Why do you think you tolerated their bad behavior? What were you getting out of that? Or maybe you don’t know this yet. Last but not least, what do you want in concrete terms, for your future? What price are you w…
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 12:51 AM
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I'm a bit older than you. :-) I'm really not sure anymore about being a parent. I've seen so many men crushed by their wives or partners. Some of them claim to be happy; I roll my eyes, when I see how dead they seem inside. It's kind of funny, the girl I am with tried to joke with me, that "...women give men the illusion of being in control, so I don't understand why you don't let me do it too..." ... "that's never going to happen with me!" ... was my response. "Oh..." She said. I also remind he…
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 07:28 PM
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They may sexually mature faster, but I think a sign of real maturity is taking responsibility for your actions ... past, present and future. And part of that, is planning for the future. Essentially, she is not a bad person. Not at all. I just don't think that she realises that this is not a hobby; relationships are work and that means goals. You're either in the team, or you are not. I think she gets a bit shocked when I have told her that her Pussy Power means nothing to me; she doesn't or has…
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 06:15 PM
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Well, I think you nailed the big items there. Thanks, man! I grew up in a hyper-capitalist, super competitive environment. You have to make it on your own; there's no one behind you to catch you. It's do or die. It makes us quite mentally strong and sometimes a little brutal ... for some people. Her mother seems to have two pets; the dog and her second husband. I feel sorry for the man, but he's about to retire and probably is set in his ways. I'm busy planning my businesses and life, and needin…
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 06:04 PM
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Amen to that, brother! I'm going to admit it; I didn't think she was a unicorn. She didn't paint herself out to be one. But, as things turned out, it took her 6 months to really show her face. It went from compliant and co-operative to bringing in the "crazytalk" and basically, not really making an effort. I'm a pretty focused person, and want to get ahead and get a move on. She procrastinates and lets things snowball. Made the mistake of co-habitation and it grates me to say this, but after my …
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 05:48 PM
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What other key insights do you have about Polish women? I'm in a relationship with one. In my opinion, she's way too passive. Doesn't like to take any initiative. Responsibility? What's that! [I laugh!] She's definitely different to the Western European girls I have been in relationships with. I was wondering if you had any tips?
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 04:31 PM
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Pick your attitudes. Fight the good fight. Never give up. Have goals not attached to material gain; have goals attached to material gain. Stop overthinking; take leaps of action. Move on. Stay hard.
/r/MGTOW225/12/20 08:27 AM
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Sleep well, brother.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:08 AM
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We all pay a price for our decisions; and reap the rewards of those choices. Sometimes it’s a low to negative return. Sometimes it’s a payout that’s far greater, and we profit from our choices. It’s all learning. Never forget that; it’s all learning. About yourself, about the others ... about the world. You make better choices sometimes, and the same mistakes at other times. Often you need to repeat your decisions in order to develop both good and bad habits. So what you want comes at a price; w…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:07 AM
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I get you. We’ve all been there; and I would bet - many more times than what we’d want to honestly admit. Unrequited love or reciprocation. It’s part of life. Like going for an interview for a job you really want, but somehow just don’t get. We all have hopes and dreams; sometimes they work out in our favour. Quite often they don’t. And if we are really committed to our goals, we’ll find a way. If you have a strong enough why, you’ll find a how. Attraction is not purely physical; it’s how you pr…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:54 AM
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You still hope that she’s going to come around to what you expect from her, it seems. And that’s altogether a human response. If it becomes an obstacle or an obsession in your life, you might want to rethink your position on this matter. Further to that, you have to be honest with yourself; do you really want to team up with her to partner on helping each other to achieve your mutual and individual goals - or - do you really just want to bang her? Be honest with yourself here. Most people are dr…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:27 AM
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Great! That’s a good place to start; I don’t know - is an answer, my friend. It’s not somewhere you want to be, but for right now - that’s where you are. So let’s move on to what’s next. So, what’s brought to here and now? Describe your journey to here, as if you were telling a story about “some guy I met, told me this story...” You might be locked in a circular thought pattern; now it’s a start to put your thoughts down - as if you were describing the life of someone else. This won’t remove the…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:07 AM
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Right. Let’s stop the slide. It’s time to get a grip on your life. What is it that you really want or wanted to do, but somehow - for whatever reason - didn’t manage to do, or get to do yet? You’re still in the game. You know this. So, let’s figure out your next step...
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:58 AM
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Depends on what you want out of it; and also who you're talking / sharing with. You need to do the work though. I'm a therapist, so ask away, if you like.
/r/MGTOW213/06/20 01:18 AM
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You're f*cked. Get a lawyer.
/r/askMRP24/05/20 11:10 PM
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So, you never asked her to contribute to your shared lives together?
/r/MGTOW222/05/20 09:57 PM
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We can assume that she doesn't. If life laughs at him, we can laugh at him too.
/r/askMRP14/05/20 12:03 PM
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He’s right.
/r/MGTOW02/05/20 12:18 PM
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The Chernobyl HBO mini-series is worth a watch; no doubt, the same sorts of lies and half-truths are being spread around now.
/r/MGTOW224/04/20 05:52 PM
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That’s brilliant! Well done! 👍 Keep on at it!
/r/MGTOW20/04/20 05:06 PM
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That’s pretty good. I assume that you have a job lined up as well?
/r/MGTOW20/04/20 04:52 PM
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I take that this is your income projection based off of earnings and savings?
/r/MGTOW20/04/20 04:34 PM
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How'd you factor in the recession / depression?
/r/MGTOW20/04/20 01:40 PM
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You can spend your time, developing yourself in preparation for your future. This investment, will pay you back, many times over. There's something about fear, that you might want to consider. Quite often, what you fear, you will somehow manifest in your life. Seek out a higher and stronger version of reality. It is what you will end up starting to create. Set your standards high; it might take some time to find someone who's worth your while. Don't put them on a pedestal; this is one of the big…
/r/MGTOW218/04/20 06:52 PM
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"If you have to ask, I don't need to answer."
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 04:43 PM
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My business is in the USA. We have lost 70% because of this nightmare. It’s a good challenge!
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 03:55 PM
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I work in logistics 😊
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 03:52 PM
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Czech me out in Czechia, neighbour 💪🏴‍☠️
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 03:29 PM
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One thing to consider, brother ... having ... one does not, or rather, you cannot have a relationship ... as a possession or thing. It is not a thing to have; it is something that is shared. One thing to keep in mind; you will never be able to out drive or out run yourself. You are always with yourself. Your challenge may be to be in one place and discover what is real about you, now that you know what is not real about you. Where in Eastern EU are you?
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 12:43 PM
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You may need to reimagine the situation. So, here goes. You’re in a spaceship, traveling back to Earth. Your only way of interacting with your son, is via FaceTime. How would you go about sharing your stories and listen to his? What would you do to let him know that you still love him very much and you will see each other again? The physical care is one thing; we remember how people treat us on the emotional level. Tap in to that and build on that.
/r/MGTOW208/04/20 09:27 PM
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Be straightforward. Ask her to do the same. You’ll waste less time.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:34 AM
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Just stop. It’s as simple as that.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:31 AM
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Start writing. Let it all out, by putting it all down. Seems like you’ve been bottling everything up. Now it’s time to let it go. Stay away from booze. Stay away from drugs.
/r/askMRP02/04/20 11:11 PM
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They will try for as much as they can get. And try and force you in to that. Well, the value today is the value today. She failed to take action at the appropriate time. That’s on her. It’s like not selling stocks at their peak; you can’t go back and demand that you get the peak price. If you waited too long; that would be in you. What do you have in writing?
/r/MGTOW231/03/20 11:22 PM
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TY.
/r/MGTOW231/03/20 08:27 PM
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So, this "started" in September 2019? Let that sink in.
/r/MGTOW31/03/20 04:54 PM
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Moment to moment, day by day. You’re doing a job that most people don’t have the balls to do. It’s rare breed that walks in the shadow of death, in order to serve others. There’s always more in the tank, but you have to take time, to take stock. Find a way to release your tension. Let it out. And when in doubt, remember those who sacrificed with you. If it gets too much; cycle out. Refresh and reload. Just take care. Thank you for who you are, and what you do.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:35 AM
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How did you get to that point though, in 2001? What led you there?
/r/MGTOW228/03/20 01:59 AM
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Anytime, brother 🏴‍☠️
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 01:46 AM
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What society cannot see; what most people cannot see ... is the invisible. What is in your heart and mind. That you are making choices for yourself now, makes their opinions irrelevant. Your humility and integrity are great strengths, and I wish you all the best in and through your life. You definitely got this! And you are most welcome. Live for you. :-)
/r/MGTOW226/03/20 10:53 PM
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I would rather ask you to speak to yourself differently; I am a changing man. Value is really yours to determine. Don't internalise the opinions of others. Plants don't grow up to the light of the sun, to spite the darkness of their beginnings as seeds in soil. They are doing it to grow. And so you are growing towards the light of your potential. You have given yourself credit; so what would condemning yourself, really do? Well done!
/r/MGTOW226/03/20 04:01 PM
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Hahahahaha. Fabulous! 😊 I need to get some shut eye. Best wishes and regards from Europe. Shine on, diamond! 😊👍
/r/MGTOW224/03/20 02:20 AM
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Find somewhere to be useful or needed, as things continue to unfold. Because, many aren't going to be doing that. Most, actually. You will find your own way, by how you behave in a time of crisis. That's what we're in. Good luck!
/r/MGTOW223/03/20 11:16 PM
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Well, he wasn’t a Catholic, so he’s got that going for him.
/r/MGTOW22/03/20 09:05 PM
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Not with the new $1 Trillion about to be pumped in to the economy; per day. $1 Trillion per day.
/r/MGTOW222/03/20 01:31 AM
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First of all, I am not a Boomer by any small stretch of the imagination. Sorry! I have said nothing of the sort; your very sad attempt at ad hominem, indicates to me that you have a rather interesting imagination. Anyway, that's your problem and not mine. And maybe get a refund on that education you never got. I have no interest in seeing chaos unfold. The system that we have been operating under, is corrupt and needs reform. This is quite clear; we would have been able to manage things far bett…
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 11:08 PM
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Sorry, pal. I deal with facts and truth here. You stop your selfish bullshit. These are human lives; you're just revealing yourself to have sociopathic tendencies on a public platform. This conversation is over. I hope that you and your family don't get sick. Goodbye.
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 10:48 PM
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So, would you want to do you? If not, then why should she?
/r/askMRP21/03/20 05:42 PM
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First things first; this is not flu. It’s an aggressive form of pneumonia causing virus. Consider this; if attacks the “weak” as such - the vulnerable. Now then; what’s the obesity rate (which technically is a disease) In North and South America? It’s not a small number. So, we can expect they average age to drop. Or there is a wider spread. That’s an issue. We live on a planet as one big and extended community; no one person gets to decide the value of another person’s life. We pay the price an…
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 10:54 AM
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This is what is coming to you, wherever you are; soon!
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 08:57 AM
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No, I don’t. Globally, this is a severe problem in the make. We don’t know what to do yet. This has never been encountered before. For the short term, things have to change. This is what it is like to live in a time of war. It’s not great at all. The state will have to intervene. Some rights are going to be suspended; well, maybe. Hopefully, we can sort this out and then resume our normal lives. We have been here before, but on a much smaller scale. This is history in the making. For all our ach…
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 08:29 AM
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Boomers will go first. Then this pneumonia will start picking on you and your family. This is no flu virus. So, how much do you love your loved ones?
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 08:14 AM
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How is it worse to protect the vulnerable? To make what is really a small sacrifice, to respect all humanity? That’s why we are staying home. And if businesses are going bust; that’s on them for poor financial discipline. It’s a hard lesson, but a necessary one. Any approved vaccine will be ready - April 2021. The real death numbers haven’t even begun to start. This is the beginning of the beginning; the quiet before the storm. Buckle up.
/r/MGTOW21/03/20 07:58 AM
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Thank you, sir! I’ll take you up on that. Prague welcomes you! You’re in Aussie; right where abouts? I spent some time there; one of the best times of my life! I don’t think 27 is too late; look at it this way - it is that you learn - not when you learn that matters. Look at Einstein; it took him a lifetime to produce his best work. Look at any master. There’s this bs about a certain age you need to be; are those your rules? Is that your way? Sure, you can lean on that and take some insights. Bu…
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 02:00 PM
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Oh, absolutely! Let's be honest here; what hot blooded male doesn't like to see some hot bird? Tits and ass. We're programmed for the stuff! I love looking at beautiful woman; I won't deny that. I used to put them on pedestals. I went to an all boys private school; and we used to drool over the young female teachers. [Had a few hotties too!] Other than that, we were total retards, when it came to women. We were Simpaholics. Jealous of the older guys, picking up the girls our age. We didn't under…
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 01:34 PM
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Mate, I am certainly full of shit! Always trying to up my game; sometimes making a fool out of myself. But that's the sort of fun part of life. :-) I'll set to work on that list. Maybe a post is a good, because I can include a lot of links to other philosophers and writers. To me, at the end of the day, I think we wanted to be well rounded individuals. I truly believe in the individual; not the narcissistic plonker. But the "stand up guy" - he can say "Yes" and "No," from a point of view, that r…
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 01:21 PM
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No worries, mate. The way I look at lots of things, is that if someone is offered as the magic bullet, to slay the monster ... it's probably got a very limited use. Rollo, as much as he doesn't want to admit it, comes out of "The Game," PUA stable. Of course, he's evolved his ideas; we think or hope he has. I definitely think he has some good insights. No question on that. But to be "The Authority," that's pushing the envelope of what's believable just a little too hard. I look at some of the gr…
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 12:46 PM
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Thank you, brother for your thoughtfulness. I cannot agree with you more. I would actually point the MGTOW community to this video, to get a reasoned and balanced overview of hypergamy. Dr. Shawn T. Smith is a very reasonable and rational male. And Dr. Glover, also disputes the blanket nature of hypergamy. Rollo can't touch their clinical credentials, or education. He's just spouting out his armchair wisdom. Which might contain truth, but he's built his following on this core tenant. Surely, a r…
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 11:46 PM
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And as time goes by, she gets worse and worse. Now she's got her mother moving in. Can't say I feel sorry for him anymore. He's turned in to a narcissist too. Whatever she says, he echoes. RIP.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 09:23 PM
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You are already prospering. Likewise; one step in front of the other. :-)
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 08:17 PM
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Thank you, brother. I appreciate the support. Hope you and yours are keeping and staying well.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 07:43 PM
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There are a lot of sore losers in the game of life and love; they need someone to blame. Nature is the easiest accomplice. There is such a lack of self-knowledge and honesty; as well as an expectation as to how things should be, as opposed as to how they are. Above and beyond that, a total ignorance, in equating men and women as equals. We're not. We never have been and never will be. That's not to say that social forces haven't changed social dynamics; they certainly have. Women have ascended i…
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 02:49 PM
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Take it with a pinch of salt, friend. The Hypergamy hypothesis is unproven; try not to fit the concepts to what you want things to be. We all do that to one or another degree. Test everything you read; several times over and realize that you have a confirmation bias in place.
/r/MGTOW219/03/20 11:55 AM
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Definitely! I think that having a decent foundation to become “anti-fragile” is definitely something that I wish I’d had, at OP’s age. Stoicism provides this framework. Interestingly enough, I’d also revisit some Mr. Rogers. He was an exceptionally strong man, who also had a big and kind heart. Compassion and strength, go together. I think it’s also important to learn as much as possible about what truly matters in life; personal integrity and the conviction to follow your values. To resist judg…
/r/MGTOW218/03/20 01:15 AM
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Relationships should serve a purpose; be clear on the expectations at the outset. Set integrity and honesty as cornerstones; and vet. Yourself first and then the other. There are good women out there. It may take time to find them. Have other things to do.
/r/MGTOW218/03/20 12:43 AM
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Marcus Aurelius - Meditations Epictetus ... anything you can find, will be good! Start there.
/r/MGTOW218/03/20 12:39 AM
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Looks like you have nothing of long term value to lose. If the marriage is dead; then part. Enlist. Sort the divorce out later.
/r/MGTOW217/03/20 02:06 AM
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Fantastic!
/r/MGTOW217/03/20 12:18 AM
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This...look at these
/r/MGTOW216/03/20 02:18 AM
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That’s a brilliant analysis. Thank you. Marriage was designed to look after property; when the agrarian aged kicked in. Families were also extended. Right through to the end of the medieval ages, and started to change in late Renaissance. Prior to that, the tribe was in involved in child rearing. So I think, as society evolved - so did the norms and customs. So, I agree with your hypothesis. We don’t know what comes next. My empathy favors what’s happening to young boys. I’ve seen the emasculati…
/r/MGTOW215/03/20 02:38 AM
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The problem is that it requires one other thing to work - for a cultural and legal framework to ensure the parties remain committed EVEN IF THEY DON'T WANT TO. That's kind of the point of commitment, after all - we wouldn't call it commitment if it only involved doing what we wanted to do. I think when you have to have that as the guard rail, so to speak, to everyone in check - and this would apply, I would imagine, to most people. And if for one or another reason, things don't work out, then sh…
/r/MGTOW214/03/20 05:09 PM
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Marriage is only for the serious. This is the truth of the matter. The committed. It requires a tremendous amount of work, for it to work. And this is something that most people don't, won't or can't do. Self-Transcendence is hard; to go beyond just being a naked ape, and be something greater. But because we don't really value this as a culture on a whole, it's just another "thing to do" - an experience. Consider your parents marriage; it brought you in to the world. You are the most meaningful …
/r/MGTOW214/03/20 01:49 PM
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Because you’re not focused on what you want. You’re focused on what you’ve willed yourself in to believing what you want. The one cancels the other one out. So what do you really want?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:57 AM
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You are so super welcome! Respect goes out to you for your courage. You’ve got all the raw materials; a great work ethic, a positive attitude and smarts. The world needs you; it needs us both. Peace ✌️!
/r/MGTOW205/03/20 07:57 AM
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I think we’ve been down the same or similar road before, brother. There just wasn’t a community like this before. And I’ll be honest, back in the day, I really wouldn’t have wanted to hear the cold hard truths. I was driven more by my hormones. You have to tame that beast and vet like crazy. And what you describe is not unusual in the similarities between your mom and your gf. In fact it’s well established psychological phenomenon; you’ll seek out what is familiar in a partner - even if it contr…
/r/MGTOW205/03/20 07:51 AM
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You have options :-) As a thought experiment; always assume that there is a third or fourth option. It’ll open you up to approaching solutions to problems; beyond the obvious. Please; for your sake. Make a list of the actual similarities between your gf and your mom; even both your parents. Snatch is snatch. It’s not what makes a woman special. Use your fine mind. This cutting / self harm blackmail routine is vile; it’s a sure sign of some severe character flaws. Tread carefully here. You are no…
/r/MGTOW205/03/20 07:37 AM
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Have a goal in mind. Ask them how they’re going to help you achieve that goal.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:15 AM
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That’s a raw deal you got there, friend. But guess what; you’re still in the fight. That means, that in spite of what you’ve been through - you’re strong. Far stronger than you imagine. You also need some help though. Taking on too many things at once, is going to overwhelm you. So, don’t spread yourself too thin. Pick 3 things to focus on; that’ll reduce some anxiety. I’d recommend a book; Can’t Hurt Me, by David Goggins. You don’t have to copy him. His goal is to get you to be the hero of your…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:05 AM
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I’m going to vote for staying in school. Build everything else around that. If you can build a home gym; do that as well. You got this! And...congratulations! You’re doing great!
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:47 AM
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My friend, I empathise with you. So basically what you are saying is this; “I want to live my own life. I can only afford to do this, if I move in with my girlfriend.” That seems to be the long and short of things. As others have pointed out, you’re moving away from one manipulative woman, to live with another manipulative woman. (Side by side; how similar are they?) There is another option; why not just rent a room in a shared house? It’s not a bad next step. What’s stopping you from doing that…
/r/MGTOW204/03/20 11:51 PM
2

Good job. My only real comments are these: A story has a beginning, a middle and an end. You have the first two components, but I don't see any conclusion or summary that ties everything together. You have some formatting issues with your subject headings; a combination of upper and lowercase headlines. You might also want to consider some of your layout; such as line spacing and header sizing. You need to draw the eye across a page.
/r/MGTOW204/03/20 02:53 AM
2

I hope so too; but if the big tobacco playbook is being used... well, let’s hope not.
/r/MGTOW203/03/20 03:35 AM
2

Well, I suppose that’s one way to go about population control; ghoulish - but hey, look at those pharma stock prices. It’s insidious. More people die from nutrition related disease, than by terrorism. 🤷‍♂️ And unfortunately, most people just don’t really care.
/r/MGTOW203/03/20 03:25 AM
2

I’m not sure what’s really going to happen. There’s so much money at stake, for these huge corporations and their supporting industries. It feels overwhelming. My question really is; when do we hit the tipping point , or have we gone over it already?
/r/MGTOW203/03/20 02:43 AM
3

That’s a very dim view you have of life. I don’t blame you though. Not at all. On the surface, it doesn’t seem very inviting at the moment. Commodity love, is all around us. It might be rarer these days. Lines are more blurred than ever before. I have had my doubts, about whether or not there is indeed love in this world. And my conclusion is that it is indeed there. It does indeed take many forms. Lust is often the most often confused version of it. Love can be the truth. Love can be learning. …
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 01:45 PM
2

You automatically associated love with sex; how is that? You're a virgin, rightt?
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 01:12 PM
-7

Childhood and early adulthood, has always been tumultuous. It’s a time of learning and exploration. If you consider that the human brain, only really settles at around 20, and then fully matured at 25; there’s a great deal of growing and change that happens. We take a very long time to mature. That’s scientific fact. Now there’s been a huge effort to get more women in to higher education, for quite some time. That’s been a matter of social policy. And if that’s been to provide equal opportunitie…
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 11:02 AM
4

Would you like to love someone, and allow yourself to be loved by them?
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 09:10 AM
1

Thanks for your answer. Don’t worry about getting a true or full picture now. That’s always hard to do. So, a way to start working around this, is to go around the problem. This, we do with questions. What are you most satisfied with, in your life now, compared to say; 3 months, 6 months, and a year ago? What changed? What seems to maybe have stayed the same? And, what’s the trajectory that you feel like you’re on?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:49 AM
1

Have you considered that maybe what you’ve been doing is in conflict with some aspect of your value of belief systems? Or how your attitude towards what you are doing: is aligned to who you really are? How are you seeking out your growth? What are you most afraid of? And what makes you laugh or smile?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:34 AM
1

What do looks mean to you?
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 02:32 AM
1

Get up. Pay your bill. Go somewhere else. Own your life, or others will walk all over you. And if anyone asks you; “Why?” Simple. “I don’t hang out with low value bottom feeders.”
/r/MGTOW223/02/20 08:07 PM
1

I see my error. Why 20,000 years for starters? The development of agriculture. Centralisation and higher density population clustering. The introduction of the beginnings of theism; and monotheism. Moving along. Why 4,000 years? First real historical records and verifiable artefacts; written records and art, etc. Of course there’s a history before that. Sorry for the short responses; I’m on mobile. 😊
/r/ExRedPill23/02/20 04:39 PM
1

Well, let’s look at this way. What do you think has been consistent, when it comes to promiscuity, for let’s say ... the last 4,000 years? We’ll narrow the timeline, to line up with historical record.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/20 03:29 PM
14

I’ll add this; a paradox. It’s okay for RP-PUA’s to hop from sexual partner, to sexual partner. And that’s gospel to them. Then migrate to “plates,” replacing those that are “dropped,” or are “nexted,” when they get tired of the yo-yo abuse routine. This, because; “It’s only your turn,” and, “she’ll monkey branch away!” Now, no doubt this happens, however there’s no evidence to suggest this is hard fact. Even in today’s time, which might be the most promiscuous time, in a very long time. Maybe 2…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/20 03:14 AM
9

I think that we need to make a distinction here when we use the term; relationships. So here's my run at it. Healthy Relationships Neutral Relationships Unhealthy Relationships Healthy Relationships; by and large, they balance themselves out. They amplify the positives, that cancel out the inevitable negatives. They don't have too many extreme highs or lows, unless they're in a war zone, or something along those lines. They're mutually beneficial and respectful. They require work, and maturity t…
/r/MGTOW222/02/20 05:50 PM
5

Condolences to you and your family, brother.
/r/MGTOW22/02/20 05:35 PM
2

Who is James, though?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/20 11:57 PM
1

I'm not Canadian either. :-) It was only because of the fuss that Jordan Peterson made about it, that I was aware of it. This is what kicked off his coming to be the figure he now is. Anyway, generally, it is quite difficult to make changes to these sorts of laws. Canada has a hybrid, Westminster system of government I think. There need to be several readings of the law, before it is passed. And this has to be done by the highest law of the land. These changes were rubber stamped by Trudeau. And…
/r/MGTOW21/02/20 08:58 PM
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Bill C-16 changed that, my man. Here's the relevant bit: The law adds gender expression and gender identity as protected grounds to the Canadian Human Rights Act, and also to the Criminal Code provisions dealing with hate propaganda, incitement to genocide, and aggravating factors in sentencing. In essence, this is indeed an erosion of parental rights and responsibilities. The State can now decide, however they see fit, and woe betide the parents who resist.
/r/MGTOW21/02/20 07:55 PM
1

What haven't you done yet, that you always wanted to do, but because of your past commitments and responsibilities - you just couldn't?
/r/MGTOW221/02/20 06:28 PM
1

Both of them have written books, actually. Robert Glover wrote; No More Mr. Nice Guy. And I think a few others too. Shawn’s work is different though. Tactical guide to relationships; I think. Both of them touch on being honest with yourself in your interactions, with yourself and others. I wouldn’t put them in the same bucket as RP, even though Shawn does some live-streaming with Richard Cooper. And Robert has appeared on one of them. Have a look and see what you think.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 12:03 PM
2

Exactly! Sadly enough it is the cornerstone of RP-PUA. Men and women alike, do seem to have a bit of problem with relating these days, because things are a little topsy-turvy. I think that the vast majority of people are decent, or aspire to be decent. If you wholesale believe or buy in to RP-PUA ideology, then you reduce everyone to not being people, but automatons. Which is patently not true. You actually rob someone of their personhood by this very crude Cartesian analysis. It's akin to doing…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/20 07:36 PM
2

Sadly enough, these are slippery customers. The key will lie with us, the individual consumers; we can vote with our wallets. It might only be a tiny dent at the beginning, but with enough people, we can get things back in to a better state of affairs. And for me, personally, I will admit it. I was in the dark; wilfully for the most, as to what was going on. I'm making my little contribution with my purchasing decisions and providing some limited input, here. I'm definitely not on the fringe of …
/r/MGTOW220/02/20 06:38 PM
2

Exactly! The American public have been used as lab rats by big business, with rampant collusion between lobbyists and the FDA. There's a reason why trans fats were banned; and only in 2018. High-Fructose corn syrup has been laced in to everything. Food quality standards have been warped and twisted. And the massive marketing machines have sewn confusion, to make things worse. The problem however, is global. And it's not going to go away, until we tackle those who're driving their business agenda…
/r/MGTOW220/02/20 06:00 PM
3

Go and look at Robert Lustig’s work. The food industry has played a huge roll in the health of the nation. You seem to be looking at the symptoms, and not the causes. It’s not as simple as you might think.
/r/MGTOW220/02/20 09:05 AM
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Hypergamy is a pet theory of “Rollo’s” - it’s never been scientifically proven. Look for Shawn T. Smith’s video on it. Both he and Robert Glover, who are heavily trained and experienced, mental healthcare professionals, with licensed credentials - don’t find this to be a truism in their extensive experience. There may be some truth to it, but it’s not a fact. It’s an hypothesis, which remains unproven. As for the rest; anything in an absolute format is more than likely going to be an outlier. Th…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/20 07:42 AM
2

Great stuff! Thanks for sharing this, OP! :-)
/r/MGTOW215/02/20 08:45 PM
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I’m probably going to - again. And I’m excited about that. Check out Carol Dweck’s book - Mindset. It’s very interesting. Maybe listen to a Rich Roll podcast too. You’ll see why ;-) Congratulations and good luck!
/r/MGTOW215/02/20 07:39 AM
1

That may be true, according to that paper, but it's like calling water ... wet. It's self-evident in itself. This is nothing new, to being a human being. That is self-talk. Let me give an example. You need to make a decision. You need to weigh up the options, so you think about it. It can be something trivial or something less trivial. You'll definitely have words going through your mind. In fact, as you write, you are talking to yourself. Maybe not out loud, but in order to write out your thoug…
/r/MGTOW14/02/20 10:32 PM
1

That's interesting. I think we might mean something different, or indeed the same. So let me put it this way. We all have internal dialogues. We relate and talk to ourselves, more than any other person that we will ever know. You don't need any particular skills or intelligence for this. It just happens as course of being a human being. And depending on how we see things; let's call that a mindset, is what shapes our internal dialogues. And these dialogues becomes our internal, which we then act…
/r/MGTOW14/02/20 10:13 PM
1

Absolutely! What you think, becomes the fuel for what you eventually end up acting on. If your thoughts are all over the place, then so will you be. We just get used to our inner dialogue, that we end up sleepwalking through our lives on autopilot.
/r/MGTOW14/02/20 10:00 PM
3

Sweden. Norway. Finland. UK. USA. Canada. New Zealand. Netherlands. Iceland. Australia.
/r/MGTOW14/02/20 12:32 PM
1

Grinding, brother. Learning. Growing.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 10:55 PM
0

Well, it depends on what you mean by what you want. Do you want to become a psychotherapist or a psychologist? Or maybe even a psychiatrist? Which one is it, friend? I might be able to help you here.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 07:55 PM
1

This is the way!
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 05:22 PM
1

That's brilliant! Amen, brother. You're damn right!
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 05:21 PM
2

Truth is truth, my friend. Anyone saying that there isn’t any serious risk involved, is lying. That’s really awful what happened to the guy you knew. A friend of mine was in an accident a few years ago; rear-ended at a set of traffic lights. He wasn’t moving, as the lights were red. The car driver behind him, just smacked in to him; wasn’t paying attention. His biking days were over. You’re right; driving on that farm reduced some of the risks. Something could have gone horribly wrong as well. I…
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 08:32 AM
2

Pain can be a great teacher. In fact, most of the time, suffering is the best teacher. If you can work through it and expand your horizon. The problem though is that we get hypnotised, whether we are aware of it or not. If our attention is a bucket of coins, and we see a room full of slot machines; flashing lights and noise. We wonder around, paying attention to the games we see. Each coin we drop, is not just a moment of time, but attention and focus. We don’t invest in a few good things; we in…
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 05:29 AM
1

I had an accident when I was a kid, so when I got on again, I was a bit nervous. Many years later. However, I took it easy and over about two weeks, was soon flying around. Lucky for me, this was on a farm. Spent a month there in total; riding bikes, looking after cattle, shooting guns and bbq everyday. It was awesome!
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:36 AM
2

You’re right. I should make it happen. I’ve still got my 2019 vacation days unspent. Why not? :-) You might want to check out “Way of The Warrior,” from the BBC. It’s from the 80’s - a little dated, but very good. You can find it on YouTube. I have travelled quite a bit, but not enough. :-) I’m in my 7th country now; living that is. I get the feeling I might end up in Asia eventually. In many ways, there’s nothing quite like going somewhere unfamiliar and seeing how you do. Not sure how much tim…
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:31 AM
2

Wicked! I’m in interested in going to Okinawa, to visit one of the old school Karate dojo’s. There’s something very interesting in how Bushido used to work. How art, calligraphy, ritual discipline and martial arts work together to cultivate the mind and body. Maybe you can go to the Yamaha or Suzuki factories; alongside hanging out with your homies. Not that you need to be told this; new challenges are up ahead, but you’re a warrior on a mission. Everything to gain :-)
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:19 AM
1

I want to go to Japan as well. Looking forward to your podcast. Soak it all in. You’ve done the hard yards to earn this. And that’s super awesome! :-)
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:12 AM
1

Beautiful! You go for it, brother! 👍
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:09 AM
2

Glad to be of service; you’re most welcome, brother. Keep on keeping on.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:05 AM
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Thank you. Much appreciated.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 02:38 AM
3

I really hope you are, brother. Some words are easy to spout out; they can be meaningless. And I’ll tell you something - what I attempt to share is what I did and got wrong ... wait for it ... for decades. And I am happy to share my mistakes, if helps you or anyone else to help themselves. I genuinely wish you the best. If you want to chat, then hit me up. Be good to you.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 02:28 AM
1

Well, if you feel that's what it is all about, then for as long you want to believe that - that's going to be true. And maybe it is true for you. There are many alternatives though. One of them is to hold sovereignty over your thoughts and emotions. You can shape what and how you feel, as much as what and how you think about things. That's mastering yourself. And part of that, is not giving other people permission to manipulate you.
/r/MGTOW212/02/20 11:28 PM
1

I do indeed misunderstand you. I don't know if Spetsnaz is still all male; I am assuming it is. So, yes, by definition it would be (for missions) MGTOW, in terms of operators. As for support personal; who knows.
/r/MGTOW212/02/20 10:04 PM
1

You're quite correct, it is indeed the elite SF of the Russian military. It seems that he picked up his name, from the Russian martial art of Systema. Spetsnaz, is a practitioner. He is/was also a boxer. A little bit more about him. He's worked pretty extensively with guys in the prison system, helping them to rehabilitate and find their way of their previous lives of crime. A lot of them were former gang members and hard men. He helps them to find them a better way forward for themselves. He ha…
/r/MGTOW212/02/20 09:54 PM
4

Focus on yourself man, instead of being a victim. Unless that's your game.
/r/MGTOW212/02/20 07:54 PM
1

This is how low reality TV has stooped to? Just when you think people couldn't get more ridiculous; someone has to take things down a few more notches. No surprise; +/- 75% of these "marriages" fail. Here's the Wikipedia article.
/r/MGTOW12/02/20 02:36 AM
1

:-)
/r/MGTOW211/02/20 08:28 PM
1

Wise words, brother. And good for you! Well done! Keep on at it.
/r/MGTOW211/02/20 05:12 PM
2

Anytime :-)
/r/MGTOW211/02/20 06:22 AM
1

Solid gold. Thank you for this. 🏅 The Three You’s is deeply insightful.
/r/MGTOW211/02/20 03:06 AM
9

Sorry to hear this my man. You managed to get through it. Look after yourself, okay?
/r/MGTOW211/02/20 02:36 AM
1

You might also want to see if you can not think; or reduce your self-talk. Silence. Stillness. Give that a go.
/r/MGTOW09/02/20 12:47 AM
3

Oh, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I’ve read through this paper and have quite a few questions about it. I’d be interested to know who commissioned this; what their political leanings are; were there any biases that were confirmed? To say the very least. The institutions that the authors represent, are pretty decent, however that doesn’t really say very much. It wouldn’t surprise me, if MSM does latch on to this and it twist things to their narratives. I don’t know to go so far, as to say that…
/r/MGTOW209/02/20 12:43 AM
6

Thank you for sharing this.
/r/MGTOW208/02/20 10:10 PM
1

Then you need a prostitute. Just be pragmatic about it. And maybe a pet. If you don’t like yourself, then how do you expect someone else to? Unless they want to use you for something.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 09:42 PM
2

Since when does a case need to be made? Under what conditions, would such a situation arise? And who is the one, who decides upon this? What is their moral authority to make such proclamations, definitions and judgements? We often hate the things that we are ourselves, guilty of. Two wrongs, generally, still don’t make a right. Where and how do we find a higher ground? And, how do we provide an environment, where we can discuss each other’s opinions, with intelligence and empathy?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 08:47 PM
1

Pick something that is relevant to you. That always makes it easier. You have touched on a very interesting subject though. In fact this might be something to explore. What is it though? There is no summa summarum; which means. There is a sum of all sums. A coherent system of hypotheses; whether these are ideas that come to us from the sciences, philosophy or any of the other humanities - that neatly folds things together. At least not in this particular subject. It would then appear, that there…
/r/MGTOW208/02/20 07:11 PM
1

Even better than a troll. A radical feminist.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/20 04:02 PM
2

Then, perhaps we should start working on that. I am going to politely disagree with you. :-) And I shall tell you why. I think that a sub, dedicated to those who are dipping a toe, or are engaged in the first phases, can post as they please. Some conditions would need to be applied though. Now, I am not sure what those could or would be. Without some kind of rules, there's just chaos. These rules must be made in such a way, to provide opportunities. Not condemnation, as you so rightly point out.…
/r/MGTOW206/02/20 08:08 PM
3

Just wish men in the first stage of going mgtow or those who wish to share negative experiences with women still had a place to do that That's actually a brilliant idea! I couldn't agree with you more. There should be a place to do that. Because the alternative is, bottling things up, which creates a bigger problem down the road. Or alternatively, getting drunk on hate and anger. Both approaches and their outcomes are counter-productive. Self-sufficiency is what everyone is aiming at, and the ma…
/r/MGTOW206/02/20 07:53 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with a newborn. They come with their potentials and limitations; as we all do. There is only insult if you find it, where you look for it. As you want to see it. You're not going you're one way, if you're stuck in the past. I don't mean you here. The sidebar literally says this; No Women-hating, hate, and negativity in general: Keep the misogyny to a minimum. There's that, which sets the tone, leading us on to the following: This is a place for focusing on positivity of mgt…
/r/MGTOW206/02/20 07:15 PM
1

Quite true, but this sub is for those who've graduated kindergarten. Not for those who're still stuck in the hospital; freshly born.
/r/MGTOW206/02/20 07:08 PM
1

Thank you for your kindness, my friend. Believe it or not, I haven't directly done this. Through some of my other comments, there are glimmers of the truth. To put a finer point on things; no, I haven't. I suppose if I might be able to help others, then I could be persuaded to discuss my blunders and the insights I have derived from them. Truly it is a treasure trove of what not to do, and occasionally a nugget of wisdom. What have I started, very slowly, is to create some YouTube content. It's …
/r/MGTOW206/02/20 04:43 PM
7

If I didn’t feel compassion for you. If I didn’t feel moved by your plight, I’d have just not said anything. I’m not alone. Many other kind people have put their hearts, heads and time in to responding to you. Does it not occur to you, that once the mask of looks / money / status - are removed, that we all don’t feel and suffer? Yet, we endure. Day by day. That includes you too. You need to be at peace with being alive. Gratitude for what you have; not what you don’t. That’s not to disrespect yo…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 12:28 PM
6

Cyrano de Bergerac. Read that book. Put some stock in the development of your character. And I mean this, most sincerely - stop playing the victim to yourself. It’s a form of self-pitying solipsism at worst, or narcissism at best. You have to totally accept yourself, and then make the best of what you’ve got. Your choice is between self-flagellation or courage. Which one will it be? Will you dare to be courageous, in spite of your perceived shortcomings? Until you deal with your neediness, you w…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 07:10 AM
1

Good for you, my man!
/r/MGTOW206/02/20 03:22 AM
1

Find Sir Roger Scruton on YouTube. Re-educate yourself. Read great literature. Dostoevsky is a good start. Listen to classical music. Detoxify your mind.
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 02:35 AM
1

It wasn’t always that way. The custody law used to heavily favour women. I should know. I got naaied by it. The mother still is the go to for most custody settlements.
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 02:33 AM
3

No matter what anyone says, your biology is going to predispose you towards wanting to mate. At a certain age, when your sex hormones kick in, and you have a sex drive, as sure the moon exerts an influence on the tides - you are going to feel a pull towards whatever is your sexual preference. That's just Nature / Life at work. It's an undeniable fact, for most people. Unfortunately, this can play havoc with you. And it does; for men and women. As this sub is focused on men and men's issues, we f…
/r/MGTOW205/02/20 11:44 PM
3

Mooie gedrag en heel fijne vragen. Jammer dat niet iedereen je goed behandeld. Maar ja, zo gaat het wel.
/r/MGTOW204/02/20 01:02 AM
1

Couldn’t agree with you more, my friend. It shouldn’t be used as a weapon or tool of manipulation. That’s cruel and unusual treatment. No one should have to experience that. Unfortunately, it seems to be a little too common these days. Or perhaps more obvious. Tell me, I have a sincere question, as you have piqued my interest. What is the contemporary Christian outlook (as you know it) - on how relationships are going?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 01:50 AM
1

Thank you for your thoughtful and lengthy response. I must be very honest with you and say that I don't put any stock or particular degree of faith in quoting any one particular book. I know that this is in itself a heresy, and I shall take the consequences for my own thinking, gladly. Because to be very honest with you, to devolve everything to sex, makes a human being no better than a mindless monkey. And maybe that is an insult to monkeys, so perhaps I should focus on another creature, which …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 01:34 AM
1

In principle, I agree with you. As I mentioned, in terms of scaling time, we have come quite far in the last 10,000 years. Compared to the long tail of our evolution, these last 10,000 - 20,000 years have been quite incredible. Considering in relative terms, it wasn't that long ago that we were a source of food for the apex predators. In the last 2,500 - 3,000 years, quite a bit has changed, however it might be difficult for us, over such a short period of time to fully comprehend it. It might t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 05:29 PM
2

Not to be flippant or disrespectful here, but is that really true though? Our lives have changed pretty dramatically since the ancient tomes were etched out. Our medicine has changed. Our food. Our education. Our modes of transport. Our methods of communication. Maybe back in the day, where things pretty much well stayed somewhat consistent, things may have seemed to have reached their peak. I am sure the Romans thought that they'd seen and done it all. Just like some people do, today. And then …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 04:09 PM
1

You got this, hero. Take your time. Relax. The worst part is almost always the first part. Build that “No” muscle, as best you can, when you can. And it’s one foot in front of the next. Simple, Strong & Stable. You never were a simp - just a man on his mission; building his awareness.
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 09:58 AM
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Yeah, but back in his day there weren’t any cam girls, insta-sluts and their ilk. I do not think anyone could have foreseen what would eventually happen. Might be time to do a little bit of revision. Things have changed pretty radically.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 05:05 AM
3

Nope. You get to be the hero of a new and improved you. You may have to rip him out of the past, and create him in to the future. Your mission has just begun. Celebrate, my friend. The dark times are over. The interesting times begin.
/r/MGTOW229/01/20 02:47 AM
6

Well, you used to be whatever you thought you were. You hit the “RESET” button, so off you go now! Don’t look back.
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 01:50 AM
1

Neither do I. A neat 1 for 1, may suit a simple mind. Life is never so certain and clean. We all meet in the midst of the less than clear. We are better off not expecting clear proofs, but rather accepting the vagueness of possibilities. Who are we to judge millennia of probability? Some of us lack the backbone to attract the other sex; whether it is prowess or proof of ability to be provisioners. Some men will come short and be wanting. There is no guarantee here. Some will fall short. Life is …
/r/MGTOW224/01/20 02:40 AM
1

Well, you’re entitled to your opinion. I think it’s rather juvenile to use such categories. Intellectually lazy, truth be told. If it makes you feel comfortable and certain; so be it. That’s entirely up to you. Do you expect symmetry? It’s a rather a naive expectation, considering the broad base of science. Understandable of course. I don’t subscribe to any ideology. It’s an incredibly lazy position to take. It lacks nuance and denies individuality. All this pill nomenclature, is really a fumble…
/r/MGTOW224/01/20 02:00 AM
2

Thank you for your kindness, brother. It is much appreciated. I have been trying to think about how I might be of some value here. I genuinely do want the best for everyone here, and in fact, every man seeking his own way. There is so much detritus, division and anger around, that most people probably feel a little more lost than what they should. This is indeed a hard path, yet I am convinced that it is one that is worthwhile. I am perhaps a little older or a lot older than the average member h…
/r/MGTOW223/01/20 10:44 PM
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Dear Gentlemen, I would not despair just yet. Hear me out for a second if you will. It goes without saying, that men and women are different. You'd think that we'd be complimentary differences to each other. That is to say, we could team up and face the challenges of our lives together. See ourselves through the thick and thin. Maybe we need to realise that this is an ideal type of situation, which is incredibly difficult to see through a whole lifetime. Certain people might best suit us at diff…
/r/MGTOW223/01/20 09:57 PM
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Indeed. What I truly find difficult to fathom is just how men have been lionised. Modern feminism has turned in to industrial scale institutional nagging. No one doubts that there was some chauvinism in the past. Just like there was indentured labour, slavery and several religious wars. Lots of suffering for everyone! It wasn't like there was a lack of it. Truly, to my mind the question should be: "Why can't we just all get along?" We can negotiate a way forward, that is beneficial to everyone. …
/r/MGTOW223/01/20 09:16 PM
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Gender is, of course, a social construct. The divine feminine is beyond that binary, best understood as the energetic force of nurturing. Plenty of male-identifying individuals are in touch with this force, although women tend to be more likely to find their strength in the divine feminine, in part because of the way society commodifies the stereotypical responsibilities of sitcom motherhood, such as cooking, always being the one to remember when to buy toilet paper, and giving birth. 🤮 Let’s se…
/r/MGTOW223/01/20 05:53 PM
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That’s a fair question. Why is he miserable? He didn’t vet her properly. That is to say, he went in to his relationship with rose tinted glasses. He bought in to the Romance Myth. Love at first sight; etc. He’s a high value male; successful businessman and used to be jacked. She was unemployed, post wall with a high notch count. (STD’s after getting married proved this. But he “loved her,” so that was overlooked.) His gym days were over as soon as she could convince him that he was being selfish…
/r/MGTOW223/01/20 09:09 AM
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"GYOW (MGTOW) isn't for everyone." This is true. It really is playing life on hard mode. Now, I prefer the term - Going Your Own Way, over MGTOW. Do your own thing and be your own person, on your terms. Your terms can also include having women in your life, on the condition that they're part of you going your own way. HuMAN and Colttaine, both have LTR's. Maybe your friend doesn't actually want to go his own way. He likes the idea of doing it, but the reality of it, doesn't mean that suddenly ev…
/r/MGTOW222/01/20 03:55 PM
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Topper! :-) Dit is wel - De Wereld Draait Door. Welterusten.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 12:47 AM
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I found it. :-) Are you Dutch, by any chance?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 12:43 AM
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Thank you! Much appreciated. OP, links from a Dutch TV show. I was wondering which one it was. It’s a panel show, where various notables discuss various topics. I’d be curious to see what they say. It looks like - De Wereld Draait Door” - just wanted to check.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 09:42 PM
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Do you have a link to the actual TV show this clip was played on, OP? Uitzendingvermist?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 09:09 PM
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You cannot relive the past. You can remember it, but you cannot relive it. If you have feelings of fear, then you may have unresolved anger or it is time to grieve a loss or pain, that you haven’t accepted. If you have feelings of anger, which you also have suppressed or not let go of. It’s impossible to “work through” your suffering; accept or acknowledge it in the moment it happens. You need to wake up your awareness. You cannot hold too much regret in your heart for too long - over anything, …
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:16 AM
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And you doubt that you are a great man? The king wears a very heavy crown. He carries the burdens of his subjects, who turn to him with open palms. They expect him to not only provision, but also to protect. They turn to him to enforce the laws, in order to provide justice. And they in turn, become his subjects. They will serve him, when he needs them to. To fight his wars, and till his lands. That may be an archaic and outdated form of governance, and my example is heavily oversimplified. So le…
/r/MGTOW219/01/20 02:34 PM
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Some people are worse than others. All of us share the same weaknesses and proclivities. We all make mistakes. Whether we decide to learn from them is another matter. There are good people in this world. You make the choice to be one of them or you decide to be like rest, and feed from the trough. Being righteous and pompous, doesn’t make anyone any better. Do your best.
/r/MGTOW219/01/20 02:28 AM
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Wow. That's some cold hard reality there. But you know, I needed that. I just get so lost, confused and conflicted. It's not just the judgment of others that I sort of find hard, but considering how much no one helps me ... well they can screwed really. You see it's my own mind that's messing with me. I just feel like I am a prisoner in my own life. I didn't sign up for this you know! I am not even sure what the hell I signed up for to be honest. Deep down inside of me, I actually do want to liv…
/r/MGTOW218/01/20 06:58 PM
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You are not alone. You have spoken and now people are responding to you. So let me tell you something very important. You are a great man. You just cannot see it yet. Now, imagine this. You met a stranger somewhere, somehow. You struck up a conversation. One subject leads to another. Finally, he starts to tell you about his life; what's gone on and what's going on. He tells you the same story you have just told. I would hope that you would see the following. That in spite of the hand that he was…
/r/MGTOW218/01/20 05:57 PM
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Listen more, speak less. Learn from those who are better conversationalists than you. You can do this. You just need to take a step back, relax and focus. And if you can’t resist from speaking, ask questions instead of making statements. You’ll get the hang of it.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:43 AM
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Shine on, you crazy diamond! Good luck. You just made a major deposit in to your Self-Esteem account. Keep safe, be strong, stay awesome.
/r/MGTOW218/01/20 12:23 AM
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It's absolutely my pleasure. I know that I am about to become a heretic here, but here goes. I am questioning some of the underlying ideas of some of RP wisdom, that is held as true in MGTOW terms. It appears to me that something is not quite right. Too much is taken on face value, which . indeed might be true, but when dig down there is actually a lot of pre-suppositions. A retrospective piecing together of a theory or series of hypotheses. Now I am not going to deny that there are real problem…
/r/MGTOW217/01/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah, Stephen Hawking was one of the first people that came to mind. If he was just left to wither and die when the worst symptoms of his disability set in, we would've lost a brilliant mind and humanity as a whole would've been poorer for it. Exactly! I don't know what research or what studies may exist, but I would be willing to make some healthy bets about many of the great human beings who have lived, are alive (like us!) and those yet to come, who exhibit some sort of deviation from the nor…
/r/MGTOW217/01/20 01:52 PM
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Maybe consider using the word - vocation. A calling. A mission. And over the course of your life, you probably will have a few of these. One may lead to another. The real value of life, is found in the journey you take. The destination is probably not as important as the time, decisions, and courage it took to start and continue. Living is like sailing; you sail with the winds, when they’re there to be had. You weave over the days and nights to your destination. You encounter people and places. …
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:53 PM
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There’s one way to stop TFM in his tracks. Stephen Hawking. He could have been written off. He wasn’t. My observation is that some of these MGTOW celebrities take liberties with their “thinking,” or how they reason their opinions out. Even Stardusk holds some incredibly inane and obtuse opinions. To expect TFM, or in fact anyone for that matter, to get things right all the time, is just asking for too much. So for whatever reason you’re here, you’re here and that’s great. You go and live the bes…
/r/MGTOW216/01/20 09:55 PM
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Great recommendation. He’s a really interesting philosopher. His book on conservatism is very good too.
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 02:29 AM
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Simple. What’s going to make you the most money or help you achieve your financial goals? Your goals need to define your direction / decisions. At the end of the day, you need to look after yourself. That means supporting yourself and the kind of life you want. So, why don’t you write out what you want to achieve in the next 3 years, and then look at how your decisions might influence that.
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 01:49 AM
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That doesn’t answer the question. So, I repeat, what does being a Jew have anything to do with this? What are you, personally driving at here?
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 10:40 PM
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That last bullet point of yours. What exactly are you getting at? How is being a Jew relevant?
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 10:38 PM
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Wow, this reminded me of a funny story from Austria. I grew up in California and wanted to be different in high school with my foreign language choices. I think French was kinda gay and Spanish way too saturated. Chinese and Japanese wasn't offered. Soo, hey, German sounds good haha. Damn, I would have loved to have learned Japanese or Chinese. I tried to do some German, at university, but the courses clashed with my majors. I have however picked some other language skills, as time has gone by. …
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 04:50 PM
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what what what what what what what what what what Yes, yes, yes, yesssssss! Well. He should be immensely grateful to have you as a friend. There is much honor in having a fellow man that is worthy of entrusting, life, wife and checkbook. I am by no means a flawless human being. Lord only knows that I have my ups and downs. Not to take too much credit for myself here; I find humble bragging to be a little nauseating, and if I'm doing it, then it's a degree worse. I do have his back, even if he do…
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 04:26 PM
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Agreed and agreed some more! Serial monogamists, quite oftentimes seem to turn in to the bitterest of individuals, when the wheels fall off again. He’s missing a great opportunity, yet feels he’s somehow going to get what he wants or deserves with this new relationship. You don’t go from being a doormat, to enlightenment at the speed he’s going. I too hope he finds his way. I think we all know that he’s pandering to the romantic narrative; a sort of reverse rolled Sleeping Beauty. That’s of cour…
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 07:42 AM
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And he’s right in to his next relationship. He hasn’t learnt anything! He’ll be back in another few years.
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 02:28 AM
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Oh my man! It’s South African. I think it’s easier to make than jerky. Personally I think it’s better. Check it out. There’s a sub here for it, with recipes and tips. You can have your first batch done in 4-5 days and there’s a lot you can do with seasonings. You might stop being a vegetarian, sooner than you thought! 😂
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 01:27 AM
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Chinese American Born Nazi! Omg, brother! That’s hilarious! 😂 I feel for your homie. Here’s our deal. So we’re best buddies. Before and just after they married, she got rid of all of his other pals. Except she knew, she couldn’t get rid of me. I think she’s a little scared of me. I like it that way. He knows I can’t stand her. I told him that I’d spend some time with him and his family over at their country cottage; correction - big ass farmhouse, over the holidays. Why do I mention this? Well i…
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 01:24 AM
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He shouldn’t be playing Russian roulette with his health. Is he going to have her tested beforehand to see his odds? I highly doubt it. If he’s smart he’ll move on.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:44 AM
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Nice! Damn, those sound like pretty cool and useful skills / knowledge to have! I’ve had some Indian friends who pretty much grew up as vegetarians, and it really was no big deal. I mainly eat meat protein and veggies. Try and avoid the old carbs and extra sugar. Works for me. I want to get in to hunting this year as well. Spend too much time indoors as is. Cool for you! My reason for responding is that I was at a business lunch today and out of the blue, a good friend announces that he’s going …
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 12:28 AM
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Yes they can! Your invitation to a LIFETIME of HPV awaits you.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:15 AM
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Brother, I don’t see why anyone should downvote you. I (we) should respect your choices for what they are; yours. Personally, it’s not my gig, but I’m open to trying more vegetarian type options. Expand the old palette and so on. Anyway, Happy New Year to you!
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 12:08 AM
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Makes a huge difference when you do. Good for you, brother! Have a great 2020!
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 10:35 AM
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Systema.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:13 PM
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Keep this in mind!
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:16 AM
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You know I don’t really want to drop any more bombs on you, after what you’ve been through. I totally empathise with you. I’ve been there too. Your sense of outrage is justified in a world that is based on fairness. Justice is rare my man. It comes at a high price too. You’ve heard of a Pyrrhic Victory, right? And this has the potential for your own, if you go down that road. But in the grander scheme of things; which right now is going to be hard to grasp, you’re going to be better off. It’s to…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:05 AM
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You should get revenge on the guy who allowed this all to happen in the first place. Now go and find a mirror. Right. It’s done. Over. Take your lessons. Move on. And when you start to get that revenge vibe again; go and visit a mirror.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:19 AM
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Well, instead of focusing on what happened, it’s time to focus on what’s going to happen now for you. You need to get some distance and time between yourself and this really difficult relationship you’ve had. You need a starting point though, because maybe your self-esteem has or is crafting, and that’s not going to do you any good. So what are you going to be doing with yourself the next few days to the next few weeks?
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 02:56 AM
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You’re not here to be “tested” by anyone in particular. And that includes what you may or may not think about “God,” or some notion of a deity. That’s for you to decide my friend. Anyway, the point is this. There’s no score that is being kept against you, by anyone else other than yourself. By going your own way in life, applies to more than just how you want to relate to women. It’s about finding your way in your life. This is going to be specific to you. You may do lots of things that are the …
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 02:13 AM
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Really sorry for you my man. Move on as soon as you can.
/r/MGTOW14/12/19 01:55 AM
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You have your priorities wrong! Studies come first. There are other women in this world. Do you have the money to repeat this semester if you have to? Lock it down. Once your responsibilities are done, you tackle your options. Right now, she’s placed herself in that category. Good luck on your finals! Smash them! You got this.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 03:24 AM
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Stay away from drugs - all of them! It blows my mind to see how many young people are walking pharmacies. No drug is going to open your mind, make you smarter, better looking, more intelligent, interesting or make you money. Alcohol - In moderation and not when you’re sad or otherwise unhappy or discombobulated! Screw social peer pressure to get wasted. Get drunk once if you need to see how that feels. Savings - Save a % of your money. Don’t overthink everything; there are more books on this pla…
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 01:49 AM
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Well, in your mind, what are you to her?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:57 AM
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Absolutely no problem, brother. :-)
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:17 AM
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My pleasure. Something else to add. There’s something also to be found in reading some of the classics. Humanity encounters the same sorts of issues, time and again. So you start to see patterns from days gone by, in our present - and no doubt in to our future. Often things happen in waves, so you start to see them and understand what’s going on. Yet the truth really is this. You will never be able to read enough news or enough books to get a complete idea about anything. It’s literally impossib…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:52 AM
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Maybe start with The Economist. It’s pretty well fact checked. Science is also pretty good. The Wall Street Journal can be okay. All news outlets are going to be owned by someone with their own agenda to spin out. So just keep that in mind. Sometimes you can actually find something of use on Fox or CNN. Even Al Jazeera runs a few good articles every now and again. Journals like Nature and Science, can have some good reads. Hackernews can also be interesting. Hope this helps a little.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:03 AM
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Everything takes time to change. Don’t underestimate that you may have subconscious drives also in operation. Fear of loss, might be one of them. So, what scares you? I mean really terrifies you? Being alone? Abandonment? Disapproval? If you don’t get to the root of the causes, then the symptoms are going to come back, again and again.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 03:27 AM
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I totally agree with you on this. Those numbers seem risky to me.
/r/askMRP29/11/19 04:56 PM
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That’s a HARD NO, from me, dawg! Have you lost your mind? You have a patchy, at best, relationship with her and now you want to bring that dynamic in to your business? She’s already the boss at home, so this is going to translate at work, whether you like it or not. It’s going to happen, either from the start or at some stage. Business with friends and family is always tricky, but this takes things on to the next level of over-complicated living. You think that she’s going to treat you the way y…
/r/askMRP29/11/19 02:58 PM
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Anytime :-)
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:34 AM
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You can chalk up some wisdom points for yourself there, my man. You’re dodging a potentially massive hornets nest. It’s a life lesson; when a woman loses her shit and that can happen because of nothing, she’ll give her all and then some to see you twist and burn. There’s so much in truth in; “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.”
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:12 AM
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Oh brother, I’m sorry to hear this my man. You made the right call. Sounds like you had to cut deals a lot. I’ve seen too many good men get their lives controlled by their women. It’s sad. Nobody needs that shit. That’s the choice they made. So many of them just gave up their balls. I know it might seem like a platitude right now, but you’re going to get through this. It’s all for the better. You have give yourself some credit here; you got out of a bad place and now you’re moving on to a better…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:30 AM
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If you committed to your family to complete this degree, for which they have sacrificed, then you are honour bound to complete it. That is your purpose for now. Unless you repay them, and clear the balance. You can do that of course. Unless it is life threatening to you, complete this course. You may have to fight yourself to do this. What was your original motivation behind doing this degree? Did you research what career opportunities it might open for you?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:20 AM
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You’re looking for a false equivalency here. Unless you both agreed on ways to score each other’s performances, reviewed and then reported back to each other. You could have created a baseline, and then run various analyses. Implementing change, when and where necessary, with quarterly reviews. Or, you’re overthinking this and should just get on with living your life. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:11 AM
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Interesting. There are massive holes in RP theory. Rollo is one of the major sources of spreading half-truths at times, particularly when it comes to his knowledge of major players in the development of psychology. He has at best, loosely cobbled together his ideas. I’m not aware of anyone who has put his work to actual rigorous test. That’s not to say that what he’s saying is false, as such. There is either just very little research for him to use and what he does use, is quite often out of con…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:02 AM
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If you want create a vortex of family drama, then by all means... go for it! Short term gain, long term pain. Why not? Then again, don’t eat where you shit. Your call...
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:35 AM
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The grass isn’t greener on the other side. It’s a phrase that can get eyes rolling. It’s true though. It is not always greener on the other side. That applies to everything in life. To elaborate. If you’re in a bad place; whether it’s in a bad job, bad relationship or even depressed - seeking an alternative is probably a good thing to do. Unless, you’re just going through a rough. You’ll know in your gut, what is what. Things may get worse, but they also might get better. On top of this, everyth…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:22 AM
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Stupid games. Stupid prizes. OP wants to gamble, well, let him gamble. Over complicating his life seems to be what he wants. If both of them go thermonuclear, then irrespective of his position as a partner, if they sew discord out of spite, it’s him that will take the long walk. Eastern European too - oh la la - he’s pulled the pins out of two grenades. Tick tock.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:14 AM
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Do not text her!!! If it’s office / work related, use email. Don’t be too hasty to rush off to HR either; they’re there for business continuity. If she’s more valuable than you, guess who’s more than likely to get the boot on your declining performance? Play this smart. You can ask her for facts about what she means, and you offer to discuss this with the appropriate higher ups. You need to drive this. Keep your cool.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:03 AM
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Will you be alone, or will there be other people around? My concern would be that if the date doesn’t go well, and I have no idea about your date, but give the current climate - you don’t want to be accused of anything improper. Maybe that’s being overly cautious. That’s up to you. In principle that doesn’t sound like a bad idea. What kind of date is this? Is it a 1 hour coffee type deal? Or evening? What else is going on in your town or nearby?
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:05 AM
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Cheers! I’ll give it a go. Much appreciated!
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:30 AM
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Thanks for the Vitamin D tip! I didn’t know that. I’m on the older side of life, compared to most people on this sub. I think. One thing that I can say, is that what amazes me sometimes is how many diagnoses we have for every conceivable little issue a human being might face. I know that there’s certainly new things being discovered, but it blows my mind as to how much “growing up” is now being seen as some sort of mental health issue. I’m not saying that some people really don’t have some debil…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:13 AM
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Too true! Everyone is doing their best, and that varies from person to person. A lot of people just exist. Those that live, struggle. And that’s cool. I’ve had to fight some learning disabilities. Still have to at times. It’s been worth it! Keep on, keeping on my man! You got this.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:52 PM
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My apologies for taking so long to respond to you. I am glad that you ended your comment with this; I wasn’t cause it just felt unfair to say ok ur stuck with this YOH CANT CHANGE IT which is a fuckin lie. The standards that are set to judge or to categorise people, are often based on some pretty arbitrary measures. Some of them go unchallenged. The problem as such, really is, not that you can discover a cause or causes of something that has brought some additional frustration or suffering in to…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:36 PM
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I hear you. It's difficult not to put women on a pedestal, when you've been brought up with all this clatter that extols the virtues of women, without showing their vices. In so many ways, men have had their darker sides dragged out in to the light of day, but women have managed to escape this sort of public shaming. Not that there is anything really to be shamed here. It's the amplification and distortion of the nature of things, which is really where the problems begin. I think we all have a b…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:42 PM
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It really does! It’s put some distance between the two of us. I detest her. I’ve also lost a lot of respect for him. He used to be his own man. Now he’s her bitch. That’s on him though. I tell you what, when I heard the words coming out of her mouth, when she wasn’t getting her way; “This isn’t the the Princess dream I wanted!” Tears streaming out of her eyes, the fake stutter she magically has, when she’s upset, I just had to shake my head in revulsion. The amount of shit tests, fact and truth …
/r/askTRP12/11/19 09:36 AM
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I’ve been where you are, mate. It didn’t go down particularly well either. I just asked a few questions and made some observations. He heard, but he didn’t listen. His personal ideology got in the way. Or rather his belief system kicked in hard, even though there was/is still ample evidence to show him that his wife is running his life. He’s her ATM. She makes all the decisions about what to buy for their home. He has no say. I’ve literally seen her break down and pound the floor with her fists …
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:28 AM
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What sort of life goals do you have? Perhaps it is your focus that needs a little altering here. You need to own something in your that’s your own. You need to set your own standards, because if you’re measuring yourself by others, you are in their “frame” and not your own. It’s difficult not to compare yourself to others. You need to master your mind. Take control of your insecurities. This does not happen overnight. You’re going to bloody your nose as you go along in life. It’s inevitable and …
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:13 AM
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Are you daft? A baby cannot communicate when they don’t have language as a tool. They cry to signal that they are hungry, tired, in pain or scared. That’s basic evolutionary biology in action. You know, survival of the species type stuff. It tones down with age.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 01:21 PM
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A crime against humanity. Surely, this must be a definition of it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 11:52 PM
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You're not ready to be a man and own your shit. This is your second post in days. If you need a woman to validate you, you are failing as a man. You need to sort your shit out. Until then, blast off with your hand. You don't deserve to get laid. AWALT doesn't mean all women are whores. You're the bitch, man.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 10:27 PM
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I'm really not so sure about that. However, I must concede that the likelihood of this sort of rationale, may have become obvious at some stage. It's silly conjecture though. I know. Anyway, such is life :-)
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 09:01 PM
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Somehow, I am not surprised, yet still I am. I did a little digging and found this gem of a website. And to save you a click, here's a quick copy and paste, to give a taste of the content. We believe in the benefits of robots and technologies to our society and human cultures, but want to ensure that robotics develops ethically and that we do not reproduce inequalities with their development that could further reinforce disturbing human lived experiences. We are not proposing to extend rights to…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 06:54 PM
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You’re a narcissistic beta, friend. Stop hyper-reflecting and hyper-intending. You’re at a literal standstill, paralyzed. Put your focus outside of you for a while. See life as a big laboratory. Take what you think you know, and apply it. Fear. Fail. Rise again.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:16 AM
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Don’t worry about getting “too caught on ... feelings” - that’s totally cool. You’re learning about yourself. You’re creating that opportunity for yourself. It might not seem that way, but turn it around. Every time you feel something, you can learn about yourself. That’s powerful stuff, if you can see and learn from it. And it might take a while; and that’s okay. Really. It’s doing more than most. If knowledge is power, just imagine what self-knowledge is. It’s your power. And when you can star…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:42 AM
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No worries, brother. Look at abundance this way. Choice and opportunity. Imagine, if you will, a whole day just for yourself. You have the opportunity to make choices about how you want to spend your time, during that day. You don’t have constraints, other than what you see. You’re not boxed in. In that respect, you’re thinking bigger, in terms of possibilities. This engages your imagination and motivation. Things may not work out, but hey, you gave it a shot. Lots of life is like this. A sort o…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:27 AM
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If you don’t, first approve of yourself, then it’s going to be hard for anyone else to. People pick up on these subtle cues. What does approval mean though? You need to get to a point where you can recognise your strengths and weaknesses, and accept them. You don’t need to broadcast them, just know your truth in the here and now. (You’re going to change over time. That’s guaranteed. You get to influence how you change. That comes down to your attitude, more than anything else.) Comparing yoursel…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:12 AM
2

That’s great! Step for step. That’s how it works. It might be a bit of a cliche, but success is a daily ritual. And the great thing is, it just takes a couple of days to get in to the swing of things. For some people this is just too simple. You don’t have to be some people. You just have to be you. And that’s the same for your sister. She may not get the job, but she stepped up to the plate. Can’t fault her on that now. I’m glad that you’ve had or are having a good day. You get to make another …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:45 PM
2

That’s great news! I hope she gets it. It’ll be good for her too. When we lack a sense of purpose, life can become terribly difficult. It sounds like you have a family that’s going to back you. And that’s really great. Cherish that, brother. There is still a long road to travel down for you, as an individual, for you as a son and a brother. Of all things, you have a fine character. Money can’t buy that. That comes from you. You’re going to earn your way in this world. There are more tough times …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:23 AM
2

It's absolutely my pleasure, brother. I'm happy that we have this opportunity to shoot the breeze, and that hopefully this gives you a little breathing space to view things in a new light. With that being said... By your actions, you're more than obviously, a great son. Whatever circumstances that have brought you and your family to here and now, and without needing to go in to too many details, it must have been hard. And I mean this in the truest sense of testing your mettle, perhaps before yo…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:13 PM
3

Well, I think it’s high time that some of this financial burden comes off of your shoulders. Freaking out or not. You’re giving your all, and I think it’s just disrespectful to you, and undignified, not to respect your sacrifices here. Your sister has to grow up and take the strain. It’ll be good for her in the long run. I know this is easier said than done, but you can only carry her so far, for so long. You’re not being mean or malicious. Adults take responsibility for themselves. With this in…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:13 AM
1

Have you had an honest sit down with your family? That is to say, your sister. Can she get any sort of job to help with the finances? More importantly, what is the goal you’re going for? What’s all this effort for?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:37 AM
1

Start with sugar, processed foods and soda. Cut them out.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:34 AM
5

Oof. I think you’d be wise to start looking for another job ASAP.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:19 AM
2

Absolutely my pleasure. There's indeed a lot to think about in life. From personal experience, I will say this. Try and not think too much about everything. Sometimes we end up going in circles. We don't intend to, or really mean to, but this can happen. It's often only at the end of a period of time that we come to know these things. And that can apply for what we "sign up to" in life. We're more than often working with incomplete and inaccurate information. We need to make assessments and eval…
/r/askMRP14/10/19 03:13 PM
2

Thank you. And that’s the thing. Jargon has become the staple. It stifles any sort of progress. Old ideas are rehashed, and not progressed. There’s a need to integrate perceived or accepted wisdom, as well as an evolution of ideas. That’s progress. Things need to move on. I’m afraid that’s what is not happening. I make no claim to know anything more than anyone else. Perhaps I can put to words, what we somehow know, yet can’t express. I feel that we have a noble cause, which might not be fully a…
/r/askMRP11/10/19 10:12 PM
4

Alright then. I’ll do it. I’ll give it my best shot. Thanks for the encouragement. I appreciate that.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 12:24 PM
8

Thank you for your kind compliment, sir! Much appreciated. I’m going to add this. Unplugging. Neo only has to take the pill once. Somehow so powerful, that he just gets it. In an ordinary sense, things very rarely, if ever happen with such an event. Change is gradual. If you consider how children develop speech, it takes them at least 2 years of listening to sound(s) to start to get the most basic grasp of language. And then the development path, only progresses. In another sense, taking the RP …
/r/askMRP11/10/19 11:03 AM
17

Not to get more down on you, brother. You don’t need that right now. I’ll give some context for my response. I was you, some years ago. With a few key differences. It was an LTR. There were no kids to consider. Well, she had an abortion in the last 6 months of our relationship. We both knew that things were over, so I’ll give her that she knew what the right thing to do, was. Anyway, I mention that last detail, because we had that kind of regularity. It was a begrudged chore. I wasn’t RP aware t…
/r/askMRP11/10/19 07:06 AM
8

Every other MONTH? Even worse - every other QUARTER?
/r/askMRP11/10/19 04:42 AM
1

What do you mean by - sane? Men and women are different. I think that’s pretty clear for most. Everyone has elements of all personality disorders, at some point during the course of their lives, and to varying degrees. From minor / subtle, to noticeable.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:45 AM
2

It’s a lot of (badly?) “Regurgitated Rollo 101” A lot of the content on this sub, is this sort of low grade, entry level rehash. The interesting thing about Rollo though, is that he has a lot of nuance to bring to the table. He also doesn’t come across as an angry chimp, with other screeching chimps, echoing back at him. It suggests a lot of young guys, swinging their dicks in the wind. Which is fine. They’re one upping each other. I also kind of laugh about Patrice, because whilst I appreciate …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 12:08 AM
1

Get a dog.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 12:53 PM
2

Genius!
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/19 05:01 PM
0

Robert Lustig. He’ll tell you all you need to know about sugar.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:16 PM
1

"... general tendency to downplay female negative traits and over-emphasize male ones." Absolutely agree with you. The field of psychology is over-represented, with more women than men being in the field. I don't know if that automatically brings with it a bias towards steering it away from focusing on more than what we see today. I think it would be reasonable to assume that there is a bias, given the state of where see the APA making breathtakingly vicious positions on "male toxic masculinity.…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 06:12 PM
1

There is a tremendous amount of bad science out there, and particularly in the Social Sciences. This is slowly being addressed and corrected. I think, as you are aware, it is just not easy to do. Biologically induced psychopathic traits play out in the cooperation-and-competition economy of groups. A full, referenced treatise of the subject would be out of proportions for an internet post. Agreed. I know you're condensing a lot of thoughts here. It's really very difficult to boil this all down i…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 08:00 AM
2

There are certain terms that are used very loosely, and rather carelessly. So let's take a step back and get a definition on what psychopathy / psychopathology is. Psychopathy is theorized as a disorder of personality and affective deficits while antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) diagnosis is primarily behaviorally based. While ASPD and psychopathy are similar and are highly comorbid with each other, they are not synonymous. ASPD has been well studied in community samples with estimates of …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 07:14 AM
2

Okay, well let’s put it this way, because “Frame” can mean all sorts of things. Frame is a collection of attitudes. They’re based on beliefs. You combine those attitudes and beliefs, and you have your frame. So let’s start with a few examples here. “I am a person who values my self-worth.” That’s an attitude of self-respect. “I deserve respect, as I am respectful.” Related to self-worth, but you get the idea. It’s really about how you relate to yourself here. Now, how you relate to yourself, als…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:06 AM
1

You have a weak frame, friend. You need to fix that first. You need to take a step back and look at what’s going on here. You’re in her frame right now. So she’s shit testing you, and you’ve got to play it cool here. You’re not obliged to stick with her. That’s your call.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:50 AM
2

Whenever you include "Dream" in to anything, you don't take a pinch of salt, you take 1lbs of the stuff. He's a loser.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 11:42 PM
1

I'll come at this from the direct approach. When you first met her, did you want to have sex with her?
/r/seduction11/08/19 09:46 PM
1

Anytime. :-) Just remember, she's not there to fulfil your needs, whether they are sexual or not. That's on you, my man. And that's great. You got this. :-) Keep your eyes open for when / where you might try to manipulate things, and use the truth as often as you can. Save yourself a lot of hassle and bottled frustration. And I'm happy to help, when and where I can. :-)
/r/seduction10/08/19 11:33 AM
1

Okay, so that sounds very healthy! Congratulations to the two of you! I mean that. It's actually pretty damn impressive, because a lot of people just can't get the basics right. And you guys seem like you have it together. Of course, you have to keep working at it. Keep on doing that; both of you. It's her responsibility too. You both need to take care of your own needs, and that means communicating them. That means you're both responsible. And that's cool. So about manipulation. Let me make it …
/r/seduction10/08/19 12:03 AM
1

Okay, so go and do some research on how women's hormones and behaviour, changes during their cycle. It will help to educate you. You didn't answer my question; do you directly ask her for sex, when you want it? And there's something else to consider; more than often, couples who live together, have less sex than if they live at their own places. It's just the way how things go. So, you both have to work at this. And that's mean communication. If you're both being honest, you will come together. …
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:16 PM
3

You do understand some basic female biology? The week before her period, she is going to feel more horny and be more attracted to you being a little more assertive. After her period, when her hormone cycle changes, that's when you can apply some more more comforting type of romance. Do you also just ask her straight up; "I want to make to love to you!" - just like that. Or do you communicate indirectly? Last but not least, if you really feel you're not getting enough - jerk off! This is not rock…
/r/seduction09/08/19 10:24 PM
3

That’s your words, buddy. I did not say that. Have you ever been abroad and lived in 2 or 3 different countries? AIALT
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 07:36 AM
3

Your opinion, which is limited as is, might very well only apply to the USA. Outside of it, you’re totally wrong. And that’s what limits your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 06:57 AM
1

If you enjoy STD’s ... go for it!
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:00 AM
5

“You do you, I’ll do me.”
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:45 AM
-1

You’re laughable. That’s the best you got? Hahaha. How feeble and weak you are, huckleberry. I’m not sure who’s wearing panties here, tough guy. Your name sure is suggestive that you have some floss string up your crack. You can’t stand on your own; you need to appeal to the gallery. Step up now, will you. You don’t need a gang to express yourself now, or do you?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:58 AM
3

Good for you. I genuinely mean that. And as for our other buddy here; I only hope that he finds his reason to be, sooner rather than later. The grass is greener. It can be done. It’s worthwhile, but you need the heart for it and an unrelenting commitment towards striving for a better today. Keep well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:37 AM
2

You don’t have to agree with this guilt tripper. You’re in your own fight, and you win it, each time you defeat the beast. Good on you, mate! Screw what everyone else thinks. You are the rock upon which your life is built. And you’re doing bloody well. Keep at it! Win the fight when it happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 01:08 AM
4

You’re an asshole, you know that? You project your own pathetic inability to take control of your own life, to put a dent in someone else’s happiness. Fuck you, you loser. Sort your own life out, before you start poking holes in the lives of others.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 01:05 AM
1

Whatever strategy works for you. At the end of the day, it’s a relationship - like with anything in life, there are good and bad times. TRP is not a silver bullet approach by any small measure.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 01:59 PM
1

That’s super! 👍 Maybe you want to ask her if something is really wrong. You don’t have a crystal ball here, and you sound like a reasonable, why not ask her? As for taking off the ring. Oof. I might do the same; if she asked what was up, well, “same as you, keeping my options open...”
/r/askMRP06/10/18 01:17 PM
2

Is she in shape?
/r/askMRP06/10/18 01:13 PM
2

Mate, if you’re really having suicidal thoughts - go and seek the help of a qualified mental healthcare practitioner. That’s more critical then anything else right now. Suicidal thoughts, once or twice a week, is a lot and this puts you in at an at risk category. Please, for your own good, seek out some help.
/r/MGTOW06/08/18 03:58 AM
2

He skews towards the make believe. He’s been debunked many times for factual inaccuracy, bending data to suit his narrative etc. He needs to be fact checked all the time.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 04:02 AM
0

You do see the irony of your post, right? That's a 100% self-made woman, who should be damn proud of what she's achieved. Harry Potter, rings a bell, right?
/r/MGTOW26/07/18 12:15 AM
1

The wall??? The woman is 57 years old and she's battling cancer. Here's a iittle tip or two for you, OP. 1.) People age; I know, amazing, right! You're going to get old too and not look as great as you were in your prime. It's called - LIFE! 2.) Diseases and the treatments for diseases; well, they generally don't make you look better. Quite often, you look worse than before. I know it's a surprise, but someone had to break it to you. You're just being mean and going for low hanging fruit / easy …
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 11:47 PM
1

Just saw his TedX talk, after Googling him. Thanks for the tip, OP. Here's the video I found, if anyone else is interested in listening to him talk about his approach.
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 11:40 PM
3

Absolutely no doubt! He was an OG! Rome never truly appreciated how devastatingly powerful he really was, until it was too late.
/r/MGTOW08/07/18 09:16 PM
2

I hate to be the kiljoy here, but you're getting historical facts off of 4chan? I know that this doesn't fit the narrative everyone wants to cheer and jeer around, but this is an extreme case of an oversimplification of history. Worth reading this for a little insight. Attila was the one who saw this as an opportunity to do what he'd always planned to do.
/r/MGTOW08/07/18 06:42 PM
2

No, buddy. I have an ex-fiancée from DE. The craziest and nastiest creature I’ve ever had the displeasure of being made aware of. There are some differences, however I’d say it’s a general phenomenon. Even in Eastern Europe, where I am now - it’s the same as Western Europe. I have no idea about Asia though.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 12:54 AM
6

You're the bigger cunt though.
/r/MGTOW30/06/18 11:24 PM
2

Well, that's not exactly what she's saying now, is she? I don't think that anyone is particularly concerned as such, it is just her catty and obnoxious tone. Other than that, she and anyone else, is free to do as they wish.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:59 PM
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I found this article particulary nauseating, so I decided to go and check out what these "early studies," might mean. Well, the link was to a Guardian article. The said author of this particular article is lo and behold, a contributor to the Guardian. Not being deterred, I decided to continue poking around for some statistics; maybe a paper or two, and boy did I find one. You'd have thought that this slap up piece would have turned to a little science, but really that's just asking too much. Fee…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:52 PM
2

When our children were born, I decided to co-sleep. THIS! My best friend has lived this life for the past 18 months. His wife sleeps with the baby / young child. In fact when they moved apartments, she specifically got a bed for herself in the baby's bedroom. At the beginning I didn't find this unusual. One night about 8/9 weeks ago when she and I were chatting, her having had a few drinks, she made casual mention that; "Oh, it's only like 2-3 minutes I have to give him!" Referiing as you might …
/r/MGTOW24/06/18 10:43 PM
10

Anytime, brother! You're a good man; don't you ever forget that!
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 11:36 PM
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No worries. Really sorry to hear this. I'd suggest maybe turning your phone on - just in case. I spoke to my Dad at around 10pm (I'm in Europe) - so, that was a bit late in the day. There's no shame in having feelings and being hurt. By all accounts you've done and are still doing an amazing job. I think you have every right to raise this with your daughters. You deserve better and they might need a little reminding. Wishing you well, brother.
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 11:15 PM
135

Truly, this is not nice. Here's a Happy Fathers Day message from me; you're a great father. I hope you did something or will do something nice for yourself.
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 10:55 PM
1

Oh no, I’m very much aware of MGTOW / TRP vernacular. I think you misunderstand me. Your choice of metaphors is rather interesting. So let’s start with some questions. What were your pre-conceptions of women, when they first started to appear on your radar? What did your social conditioning tell you about them and yourself? As for MGTOW itself, I appreciate some of the concepts and agree with some too. This is just me; it’s my approach towards everything. Keep an open mind. I have questions. I d…
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 07:50 AM
1

Oh, I hear you. I’m going step aside from using acronyms, because I highly doubt that any really hard, fast and thorough research has been done to absolutely convince / conclude, one way or another. So AWALT / NAWALT. I don’t know. So here’s my take. Times have changed. Social norms and mores have definitely changed attitudes towards relationships. Technology has played a big role in this. Nothing new there either. There’s an upside, and a big one these days. Don’t like the person you’re with? M…
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 07:19 AM
0

Cool, np! My 2c on this subject. One of the hardest things to achieve in life is finding a woman or women that is best suited to you. And even if you do, that may change over time. More than likely it will. No great insight, but I think a fair enough one.
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 06:51 AM
2

I think you’ll find that gay guys have just as many relationship issues, and perhaps sometimes even more. All relationships are complex.
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 06:37 AM
4

I think JBP defines love quite well in this. Yes, it feels like shit right now. The relationship meant something to you. Things will get better. Just don't fixate on it. You'll just feel worse. There's more to life. Now go and live it.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:06 PM
1

It might appear that the OP cherry picked quotes to pull out and focus on here, and looking at the resulting comments, it seems that this was a successful strategy to follow. What's this all about? Well, how about this from the article: “Couples are constantly finding new reasons to delay a pregnancy. Men especially. There are so many things that have to be done or experienced before starting off. So one day the woman and the man split up, without children.” “Numerous studies also indicate that …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 03:25 PM
1

Where did you go in India and what did you get out of that trip / journey?
/r/MGTOW19/05/18 04:19 AM
2

Well, the thing is that there are very few people who have the absolute conviction of knowing that they really want to do, for how really long they want to do it. In other words, you'll do different types and kinds of work over your lifetime. Almost everyone will. And that's okay. What were you studying? Which area of focus? Where are you at the moment? The UK is not bad. I assume you're an EU citizen?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:29 AM
2

I'd agree with you that the world around us is going at a breakneck speed. As for those around you; I'd highly doubt that all of them have it figured it all out. Perhaps they have a great game face and are going to "fake it until they make it," because this is what 99% of the world is doing. That might seem a little unsettling. Perhaps that's the point of it all. Why'd you decide to leave college? What were you studying? Did you really want to go in the first place? Where do want to go work abro…
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:17 AM
7

Not to sound flippant here, but do you think your life is over at 20? Another question or two; are you studying or working atm?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:07 AM
1

Alright, Baldrick.
/r/MGTOW18/04/18 03:10 PM
0

What, you have nothing to say back???
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 03:00 AM
0

Prove me wrong; you never even grew up during Apartheid. You know nothing you fool. Stupid Afrikaner offcast...
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:59 AM
0

I lived through Apartheid you fool. What did you do? Live in the scrotum of your father as an itch? You know noting you fool.
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:48 AM
1

Bullshit! You NEVER grew up in and around Apartheid. You know nothing you moron!
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:43 AM
1

You can't even deny you're some dumbass Afrikaans hick. What a joke!
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:40 AM
1

The Boers were shithead dumbasses. Uneducated SCUM, that no one one in Europe wanted to claim...
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:38 AM
1

You're my favourite kind of huckleberry. You little neo-Nazi. I have you for lunch my boy. Let me help you, you little racist shithead. And you need to show yourself in public? Even better. I lick my chops with little virgins like you. Facts, you heard of them? Maybe not. You dumb racist assholes want to cherry pick them... The Boers were a bunch of disenfranchised assholes that held dearly on to their pre-historic, knuckle dragging beliefs as you all you Dutchmen were prone to. No wonder you al…
/r/MGTOW17/04/18 12:36 AM
1

I grew up during Grand Apartheid. I know what it was like. Did you?
/r/MGTOW16/04/18 10:04 PM
1

Point proven. You can’t substantiate anything. Another one bites the dust. Shut up and learn history. Stop stoking the lies of hate.
/r/MGTOW16/04/18 10:04 PM
0

Wow, your incredulously poor understanding of Southern African history, it to put it quite mildly - astounding. Let's take a step back; did you even live through to experience Apartheid?
/r/MGTOW16/04/18 02:22 PM
0

Yes, he was a hero to the millions that the Europeans pretty much well enslaved. You're probably a butthurt former Saffer now having run away to NZ to cry about the glorious old past. You've cleared up nothing here, just spread more Apartheid apologist ideology. Remember Koevoet?
/r/MGTOW16/04/18 01:34 AM
1

Very much, this! I see a lot of guys throwing down the diagnosis of BPD. Unless it has actually been diagnosed, it's not altogether wise to do the diagnosing unless properly trained in how to do this. Women are different creatures to men.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 03:14 AM
1

The same state in India, where a load of people got rescued from organ harvesters? Damn. That’s some false advertising!
/r/MGTOW01/03/18 03:29 AM
27

And where is JP in all of this?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 03:27 AM
2

I have only but question people these days, when they need turn to movies, which are figments of the imagination, and somehow derive a worldview which is held to be real. That is to say, what you find in the day to day grind or even over greater periods of time. It is indeed baffling that so much energy is being focused on Star Wars, as if it were some sort of religious doctrine. It's a space opera for crying out loud! Disney, the maker of Star Wars, wants to make money. So, they're going to tap…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 07:16 PM
2

You’re quoting WebMD? Says it all my man.
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 07:42 PM
1

I can see your POV. There is something missing in TRP though. As a species, our development or evolution has actively played a role in bringing all aspects of life to us. There are also cultural influences as well. They co-mingle with the wet wear of our biology. Humanity is always trying to define itself. In a way we’ve become victims of our success. It seems that atop of the balance of power between genders goes, it’s lopsided and on a spree. With woman having something of an upper hand; at le…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 02:23 AM
1

That’s the ideal. We all get help in all sorts of ways by sharing ideas and giving a little support. As they say, ‘No man is an island.’ It’s always a choice to listen or ignore. We’re not just machines on a logic clock. We’re pack animals, so we cooperate. Or try to.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 01:16 AM
15

The data is here... https://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stats.htm ... or here ... https://www.cdc.gov/std/stats16/other.htm#hpv
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 12:28 AM
2

That’s more like 30% of males and females...
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 12:04 AM
1

I didn't know that before now. Cheers for the extra information, mate. There's always something new to learn. There's always room for additional context.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 10:25 PM
1

I couldn't imagine so either. Perhaps MGTOW would be his best approach for now. Let's just hope he's not going to walk in to another ambush, because people can only take so much before they snap.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:53 PM
1

You are totally correct. Let’s hope so.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:02 PM
5

Start small. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. You'll find yourself taking on more and growing in confidence as time goes by. If you work at things enough, they do get better or you change and remove those things / deal differently with those things that have an impact on your life. Lurk no more, you have people to talk to now. :)
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 08:33 AM
1

Interesting point you make there. I forget the correct terms, but I’ll take a guess. There are HL and LL? High Libido and Low Libido types of people; well they identify as such in DB’s. The question though is, what’s the measure for such a choice in categories? Not enough / sufficient testosterone in one or both partners? And variations thereof. Overwork? Not keeping up some game / tension / desire / attraction? Boredom with the same old same old? I’ll add a little anecdote. I can remember lying…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:07 AM
1

I always miss the good parties! Damnit! 😂
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:38 AM
5

After being together so long... it’s not all that surprising tbh.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 10:54 PM
1

Maybe it’s just a sign of the times. He’s tame by ancient standards. I’d not have liked to have been in the crosshairs of many an ambitious Roman wannabe power monkey. I haven’t commented much here either. This post however. Wow. I know there’s a fair amount of hate and disdain for women here. I’ve had my fair share of rough and smooth. I like the game though. I hope this guy heals up.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 09:36 PM
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I was / have been True Blue, most of my life. I'm not looking for a unicorn. I'd be happy with spinning plates. I just don't have spare time for them right now. I'm running and building several businesses. There's only so much time in the day. :) I'll add this observation about RP, which I haven't seen much mention of. Men have their own variation of the Unicorn. It's the big boss man, wheeler dealer, know-it-all, feckless, unethical douchebag. In fact there's one running a country right now. Th…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 08:03 PM
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Mate, if you understand the essence of TRP, then you're not going to come across as being bitter or sarcastic. I'd think that there is a spectrum of Blue - Purple - Red or whatever other category you can think of. Your task in life is to be a man, if you are a man, and that's all, really. It's really up to you. No one should be hating on anyone else. That's a sign of weakness. Real strength comes from having grit and integrity to call things as they are and behave appropriately.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:38 PM
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Sorry for the delayed response, mate. I was busy getting my groceries. I'm moving more in a keto direction, so was hunting down ingredients for dinner and breakfast this coming week. Congratulations on your achievements. It's not so easy to just flip and switch and off you go. It's all trial and error, ultimately. Persistence is key and that's where I think many people give up. It's trying to do too much at once. Bruce Lee {apparently} said; "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks onc…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:35 PM
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I agree you with there. You know what you're getting in to and so do they. I would say that perhaps 50% of the ones that I saw were highly educated. Doctors, Engineers, Lawyers. I found it rather baffling. There was always that polite distance, however you could pretty much well ask them anything you liked. Funny little anecdote, is that I after a long hiatus, decided to reward myself with a little fun earlier this year. I did my homework, or so I thought I did, and what seemed to be a good pick…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:31 PM
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Sorry mate. My wording was a bit off there. Apologies.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 06:29 PM
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Can’t and won’t disagree with you there. I’ve spent most of my adult life so far focusing on work. That being said, I was a White Knight when it came to relationships. And for a while, because I could afford it, high class hookers. Essentially though, I was a Nice Guy Beta. Am I anymore? I sure as hell hope not!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 06:04 PM
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It has been a long time since anyone called me a young man :) Professionally and personally I have seen people unburden themselves of some pretty dire confessions of their past behaviours. I cannot categorically say that all women are x,y and z. As I cannot say that for men, either. There are tendencies; most certainly. I will say this, and maybe it's generational, I do feel for guys in their 20's. It's savage out there. I recently talked to a 24 year old woman, and all the CC hallmarks etc. it …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:41 PM
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You underestimate people, friend, because a conscience is a heavy burden to carry, even for a dial-a-hoe.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:23 PM
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I don't think it is too late for him, but whether or not he's got enough in the tank to do it. He's been pretty well ground down. I don't know if I would have handled myself as well as he did. This page has certainly had an impact on my life, and only in a positive way. I have learned a great deal about myself and the world I find myself in. I will admit that I have a small slither of hope that there are decent women out there, but as time ticks by and now I'm almost middle aged, I have some ser…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:20 PM
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I am nearly speechless. First the wife, then the gf. This guys needs TRP, stat!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:47 PM
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Good for you! Everything takes time. It's easy to get distracted and things go the wrong way; but that's just life. You're here to grow throughout your life and that means experience. Some good, some great, and some total shit. They all pass. The fap / no-fap thing, I don't really or can't really comment on. Do what makes you happy, brother. Anything in extreme, is generally not going to be good. Seek wisdom to gain insight in to yourself. Experiment. And enjoy the ride. Sometimes we need to eas…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 04:54 PM
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Well, we've all lived in the USA. We're not all Americans though. I think we're all pretty distinct characters, but also equally, we have our downsides and flaws. Together we cover each other. To expand on the future and the past. Referentially they exist. Existentially, if we assume that this means us here, right now, they don't truly exist. Our human version of time is both subjective and objective. And yes, babystep your way. It's a lot of rinse and repeat. I'd also suggest that if you're goi…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:26 PM
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Cheers for the feedback. Much appreciated. I don't believe in predestination. I've had moments of serendipity, however for the most part, getting stuck in a grey area of mysticism is something I just don't want to contemplate. Relatively speaking, I've been MGTOW, however I don't subscribe to a prolonged "Monk Mode." I love banging women. I just took myself out of circulation to focus on other aspects of life. This was a re-introduction of sorts.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:16 PM
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You need to develop habits. I know. It sounds so simple, and it is. Personally, and I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but I have drawn a great deal of influence from some friends of mine. One is former SF and the other is a Marine. They are great people. They are able to take and give criticism constructively. They’re relentless too. We all work together. We tag each other constantly and work as a team, even though we do different things. It creates an energy that drives you forward. We’re …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 01:48 AM
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You're right. All the indications were there.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:51 PM
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I’m a super on point kind of guy, when I’m fired up. I’ve been blazing through my tasks and making great gains in my business life. Tomorrow I’m meeting my new trainer. As for her, she’s super intelligent. What made me curious is that as our evening went along, there were these as pauses as we locked eyes and said nothing at all, but smiled. That I’ve never experienced before. I didn’t really hamster about it. My attitude is - I’m the prize. I get that. She was really polite tonight; but I’m won…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:29 AM
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Oh no, I get you on that one. I was in a slightly higher energy after crushing it at work. I was a little exuberant. This did not seem to be a problem. I don’t have a crystal ball. Ironically enough she got in touch with me and asked me how my day was going.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:24 PM
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Not all shoe sizes are the same right? You're getting this through my filter too. I'm not a pessimist, but at the same time I'm not that green. Even the greatest of minds get caught out every now and again, and in a variety of situations. LOL. ;) But you really missed the deeper meaning here, and that's about your subconscious, which is at the best of times, difficult to control. So I had a date, who gives a fuck? Really. I got played; boohoo. No skin off my nose. You don't do, you don't learn. …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:09 PM
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It seems not for some Eastern European women. Personally, I didn’t really care. I managed to get an ass grab in on the first date and a deep sensual kiss. That was a result.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:01 PM
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My reasoning, exactly. I just moved on.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 11:59 AM
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Thanks for the recommendation! I’ll check it out. What was really interesting for me was being aware that something was playing itself out, and it started out as being very subtle. Once the initial series of thoughts popped out, there was a trickle of them in my conscious mind, then a flash shower. It reminded me that by being aware of your thoughts and your emotions can be of great benefit. I could witness them and then disengage and refocus. Take any emotional charge out of it. In that respect…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:38 AM
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Could very well be! I wouldn’t discount that at all. My frame is strong, by and large. No doubt it requires some improvement.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:30 AM
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There was maybe about an hour or so of feeling some irritation, but when I saw the writing on the wall - well - rejecting reality is just as bad as reimagining it to fit your frame of mind. I did something else and I was just fine. Other than that, you’re spot on!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:27 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. My intuition tells me she’s not going to reaching out; and that’s just fine with me. I don’t want to focus my attention and therefore my time on her, pondering scenarios. If she does get in touch, then I’m playing this cooler than ice. She’ll have to work for it. And work for it hard.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:24 AM
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Full respect to you. I played game once with a vicious vixen. I thought I could outsmart and outpace here. Of the 22 running projects there were at the time, I owned 15 of them out of a team of 12. I thought I could cope, but it was just too much. I asked and asked for help and was assigned the most incompetent loudmouth who has her tits out more than anything else. My bosses VP told me go on a vacation. I did. When I got back, Big Titty Intern had given herself permission to fly to Germany to f…
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 03:59 AM
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Puntje uit, zeg! It always amazed me how hard the tax service or Belastingdienst would crack down on people and jail them. This in contrast to violent criminals getting lighter sentences. You’re better off shooting someone dead than not coughing up ... it felt. The Netherlands is the ultimate nanny state.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 03:35 AM
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Do you think that maybe you rolled the dice here too fast and didn’t double check what was going on?
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 02:49 AM
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There's nothing essentially "wrong" with mgtow, even if there is a misperception that other harbour towards the movement. No one appears to be advocating anything that is even borderline radical in nature. I don't want to use the words "empowerment" - "liberation" or any other SJW / Feminist tainted type trope, even though there is an essence of the meaning imbued in mgtow. I'm splitting hairs! I think it would be a good idea to have some sort of way to help others out, who're going through divo…
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 09:40 PM
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Thanks for the update. Much appreciated.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 06:26 PM
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I should think so, if the OP can give us a heads up, then why not? It’s time to do something. I’m all for some positive action.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 02:05 AM
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That's tragic and fucked up. What is he doing today? Maybe we should all bro-down and help this fella out? We can share and commiserate over these harridans, or we can nod, and then take action to help out. Like most of us, I'm tired of these trolls having the final laugh.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 03:59 PM
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What are you getting at man. Cut to the chase here. You want it black and white? You tell me chief....
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 01:21 AM
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I'm not going to tell a man what to do or not to do. It's not my place. I'm part as I see it, of a brotherhood. And that's what I'm supporting.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 12:58 AM
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Quite often I am baffled by all this "snowflake" talk. It must really be something that stems from American exceptionalism, which is in itself a myth. That's not to say that there are not exceptional Americans; quite on the contrary. There are many. The same applies to every other country on the planet. But also being the inventors of the participation trophy, it's not difficult to understand that those who do achieve feel somewhat irritated by awarding effort, as opposed to improvement and exce…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:09 PM
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Cheers, mate! Greetz from Central Europe.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 09:58 PM
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I'll need to have a proper think about your feedback and insights. Very intriguing and stimulating. :) As an aside. A good friend of mine is a geneticist and he puts everything down to evolution. He and I have some rather interesting discussions, similar to what we have been having here. I always concede that maybe I am a little more open towards a slightly heretical way of thinking, but I always consider reason and the scientific method as having the final say. To ask questions, is a very human…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 08:32 PM
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You raise some fair enough points, which are reasonable on their own. I don't think that they are by any small stretch of the imagination definitive, but definitely interesting. To wholesale go down the road of ... "It is merely a utilization of the tools humans evolutionarly recieved - namely the frontal cortex and opposable thumbs." is in itself an oversimplification. In a way, Newtonian. I would think that in an age of Quantum Physics, we'd have a slightly more advanced opinion. Perhaps there…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:55 PM
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Fair enough. How did we manage to let's say, transplant hearts, eradicate some diseases, invent computers, harness the power of electricity? Even, have the capacity to compare and contrast ourselves with and amongst other creatures? And how about, compose music, learn about perspective, metallurgy, develop art? What's your answer to that?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:43 PM
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Powerful and relevant stuff. Thank you, OP.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 05:08 PM
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Apologies for my late response. Thank you for taking the time to provide some feedback. Much appreciated. I must admit, I have a very hard time looking at how we as humans extrapolate information / knowledge from the animal kingdom and then either neatly overlay it on to human beings. It seems to me to be a false equivalence that doesn't hold a great deal of water. Whilst there may be similarities, when I consider the immense sophistication of humanity, and then contrast it to other species, we'…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 04:26 PM
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Very insightful post, OP. I've also read the book too. I don't know if I agree with all the ideas in it, because like many things that come along, there's always some sort of golden age that we're now ignoring. You don't suggest that. I'm just commenting in general. I see a lot of "back in the day," type thoughts crop up every now and again. Some people believe that we're going to hell in a handbag. Truth of the matter is, human beings have never had it so good. Hans Rosling made some interestin…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 11:51 PM
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Found some "notes" on the book over here. Thanks for the recommend, OP.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:20 PM
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That was some cringeworthy reading over on that sub. The OP over there is running his own hamster frame, fueled by fear and niceguyitis. He's looking for a strategy to play, instead of just engaging and seeing where the cards fall. I think he's going to go down in flames. And all those comments; wow. Bad "advice" in every direction. More strikingly to me is that 'MensLib' is a thing; that's the most pathetic part of it all.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 10:13 AM
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I think you're going to be hard pressed in the legitimate criticism department. I think that a well researched, reasoned and argued critique would be useful. There seems to be a developing tendency towards disregarding anything that doesn't work with TRP zeitgeist, which is itself split in to camps. Consensus seems to be difficult to achieve unless things are expressed black and white; and life is certainly anything but that. One thing which I'll point out, which to me is glaringly obvious, is t…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:54 PM
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P&G have been making massive cuts - globally. I am not surprised that they cut their digital media budgets, because they were getting ripped off; and also they have to shoulder responsibility for their poor choices too. Advertising is changing around the world; there's no mystery in this. It's not going away though. Back to P&G - in 2016, they had net sales of in excess of $65 billion. They spend just over 10% of that on their advertising budget, so that's $6.6 billion. {The actual figure for 20…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:42 PM
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Advertising works. Period. I don't know how you can even question that. In whatever form it comes in, it works. And anybody who thinks it doesn't work, has their head up their ass.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:25 PM
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Thank you, good sir! I'll get back to you shorty. Here's wishing you a great day!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:44 PM
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Aha! I'm not sure I have enough in the way of knowledge / information to offer any proper insight. I do however see that there is a greater pronouncement of ideology in the wealthier nations, who've been conditioned over quite some time, by some very smart propagandists. Yes, I agree that things go in cycles, but the tipping or turning points are hard to pinpoint at the time of things actually occurring. It's a slow build up to anything and then it's either going to happen or fizzle away. I put …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 08:37 PM
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I don't know if I would make such a grandiose statement my friend. Too many times it has seemed that we have moved closer to some sort of doom, only to realise that we weren't. There are definitely tipping points, however they are incredibly difficult to pinpoint. A few smart people will be able to predict within a certain degree of reasonable accuracy certain things. Or their probability of happening. The rest of them are "Black Swans," which seemingly come out of nowhere. Just when the critica…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:01 PM
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That's a real shame that he's not willing to stand up and get involved. Because really we need a broad spectrum of men of all ages to engage with each other and form a firm front here. It's just too easy to wear down individuals, but as a group, there is not only safety in numbers, but also the advantage of being able to stand together. There's a necessary process of re-education that needs to be facilitated. This sub-reddit is great, but so much of the wisdom therein is so dispersed and not rea…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:21 PM
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Amen to that man! RIGHT ON! Ripping off those beta blue tinted glasses and realising that wholesale, we've been sold and bought in to a pack of lies for way too long - is the best thing a man can do. I definitely skew towards the older side of TRP - 40+ and I can reflect back now on so many of the great topics, debates and discussions that can be found here. And I can certainly reiterate to anyone who's reading our thread, to go through the Sidebar thoroughly. I really can't stress this enough. …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:45 PM
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I don’t think it is any great mystery that the concept of a single partner for life, or the myth of “the one” has taken something of a rightful bashing over the last few decades. There are countless other posts here and indeed, the sidebar to reference here. So rather than trying to retread an old tire, I’ll add in a quote that I got from Alain de Botton on something Theodor Adorno said; “Walt Disney is the most dangerous man in America!” Well, his influence certainly is not limited to the USA. …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:50 PM
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Alrighty then. I get where you're coming from. I think. You and I differ on the degree to which we judge the man. I don't particularly think he was RP. There may have been a time when he was; I don't have the knowledge on him per as to prove that. He had to have a certain degree of ballsiness to produce the work he did; both in volume and in content. That's a rare sort of work ethic to blend in with talent. I would also add that he was as much a product of his time as anything else. In many ways…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:39 PM
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Mate, you're using a film as the crux of your argument. I mean, do you see the humour in this? A Hollywood production - as the basis of your argument. That's a little bit flimsy my man. It's hardly an academic study; it's an historical drama based on events and interpretations of them to create a romanticised drama. Or am I and everyone else missing something here?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:07 PM
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Fair enough. I think you have to give Beethoven a little more credit than what you appear to give him. His body of work will trounce - more than likely - anything you or I will ever achieve. It's way too easy to trash him and call him names.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 09:54 AM
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I'm struggling to see how this is TRP related...apart from being written by an angsty teenager, there's nothing to really glean from the incoherent verbal diarrhoea. I think you need to actually read Marx to develop an informed position. As for the rest; well how about you TL/ DR for us your salient points, please?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 01:10 PM
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Beethoven's music is absolutely nothing like schlager music. Don't know how you can even attempt to equate the two.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 04:40 AM
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I'm going to agree with you here. Women the world over share similar if not the same traits. East, West, North and South. All the same. Now I'm not convinced of the absolutism of AWALT, because to be fair, this is not a factual certainty. There's a large quantity, maybe even a majority - under certain circumstances that certainly are - all like that. No question on that. We mostly hear one side of the story here. There are people who don't experience cheating or active hypergamy. I can't disprov…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:05 PM
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You're a bit thin on details here, OP. • How did you meet her? • How much time did you spend together and what did you do together? • Do you need to learn a new language? Even with the above you're taking an exceptionally long shot here. You chances of success are very low here. And I'm speaking from actual experience here. That being said if you can achieve other life goals, and prioritise her as last on that list, you may have a reason to explore the world. However if you're only in this for t…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:29 AM
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I don't know what you snorted before you wrote this, OP, but I do recognize a substance that could get a guy to talk this load of shit. It is pretty clear that you don't have the slightest idea as to the complexities of PTSD. I know a sufficient number of brave and strong men that have served, and I'm pretty damn sure you'd be on the receiving end of a severe bollocking for your drivel.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:59 AM
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The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:42 AM
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Exactly! I know that my father is none too pleased about this, but he's a good sort and from an older generation that just sucks things up and marches on. We all know he's not a happy camper about this. Anyway, yes, if you're not lucky, you can end up on the street and it all goes downhill rapidly from there. Sad thing is, this relative grew up in a violent and alcohol infused home environment. The scars never healed. Time went by and soon enough; OAP. I've even tried to intervene. I stayed with…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:50 PM
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No worries, mate. I get where you're coming from. My own family member made bad life choices, suddenly went off the rails and now my folks have to step in or rather had to step in and accommodate this person. They're capable of living on their own and working, but because they don't want to be responsible, they've ensured that they can't get a job and my parents have to provide accommodation. It's tough. The local council has tried to intervene, but as you say, because of the dark days of asylum…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:33 PM
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I have experience of a relative in the UK in a similar situation and can validate the OP's statements here about how the government/ social services will respond. They will do everything that they can to ensure that the family takes as much of the load as they can. With budget cuts to the NHS and other austerity measures have taken hold, it has become difficult to get the state to willingly intervene. That being said though, OP might want to see if he can chat to his mum's GP or her Social Worke…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:12 PM
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STFU you idiot. You're talking a load of bullcrap, just throwing fuel in a non-existent fire. There is NO such conspiracy you moron. How old are you, 13?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:10 AM
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Do / did you agree with what he taught you?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:44 AM
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You'll be just fine. I've lived in 8 different countries. Some I liked more than others. It will take you a few months to get to grips with how things work. Have fun and good luck!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:43 AM
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My only "issue," as such with Marcus is that he was well aware that his son was a maniacal sociopath, and instead of picking a better heir to lead Rome, which wasn't uncommon - he picked Commodus, his son. I don't know if he could have known that Commodus would be an amalgam of Nero and Caligula x n, however he must have known his son for what he was. It's the great irony of Marcus; a great leader and deep thinker, but a shit father and role model to his son. TRP falls apart with Commodus; weak …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:26 AM
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Took a lot guts and humility to lay this out in the public. I've been down this road before, and noped right out of it at lightspeed. It probably still smarts a bit for you, but you're still in the game. +1.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 08:45 PM
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Fair enough. You do make some cogent points. I think, or I would imagine that you would appreciate that psychologists and psychoanalysts, can have very different ideas / approaches towards how they approach their clients. There's dogmatism on all sides of this particular debate. I think efficacy is more important than approach. Naturally, you don't want to leave your client worse off than when you first found them. It is very difficult to ascertain how he is when he takes on the role of therapis…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:04 PM
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How many of his lectures did you watch? And are you a Clinical Psychologist? What did you specialise in?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 08:52 AM
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This husband had some very deep and dark psychological problems and if this article is in anyway an accurate representation of fact, he was / is a piece of shit. This woman didn't deserve to be murdered by this asshole.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 10:55 PM
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Essentially you are alone in life. Being lonely is something else . We're social animals and need to interact with others. You might need to interact more with others. And that doesn't mean on Reddit. Too much of modern life is mediated through a digital interface. That being said, you're also in an important time right now. I think that should be your focus; short term pain, long term gain. It's worthwhile. You're young and there's much ahead of you in terms of ups and downs. I don't say this t…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 02:01 AM
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Aha! I hear you loud and clear! I've seen people being shot in front of me, stabbed, molested and otherwise - fucked up. I've seen some harsh realities, where people live in garbage dumps, running after you as you empty out your trash. Life is tough for many people. I don't think if you haven't lived in such a world, you can really understand it. Hope you're keeping safe and well.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 05:22 PM
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He was a rather sickly man too. Commodus, his son, ranks in the top tier of deranged emperors. He did drain the imperial coffers, but didn't bring down the empire. There were great emperors after Commodus. He certainly was a crazy guy.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:48 AM
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I'm going to check you on this. I grew up in the third world; yes, a lot of shitty things go down, and some people are more resilient. The gangster / enforcer I knew who was shot 9 times - I saw the scars - he was tough at first, but once I got to know him as a person, he was just a human being, with the exact same frailties and traumas as anyone else. The poverty and violence he grew up in, caused him great trauma. You just wouldn't know it on first glance. I'm pretty sure this holds up to any …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:03 AM
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Agreed! It's like introducing yourself like this; " Hi, I'm a moron!" /u/sdgy - Dude! Get a new username - start being strong - FOR YOU! Do it now!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:54 AM
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👍 good stuff 👍
/r/RedPillWorkplace23/03/17 08:13 AM
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Seriously, this is even a question? You need to secure your base first and have that stable, before you can do anything else. That's literally a no brainer. What ever he thinks is irrelevant, because he seems highly irresponsible. If you don't plug the holes on a sinking boat, and you sink, because it's just going to be okay - make sure you can swim when you need to, because drowning is not fun.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 05:15 PM
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With you on that approach too.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:25 PM
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Gah! Thanks, thanks a lot! I've only had a few bananas today and. Ow I am having visions of casserole. I'll make one this weekend. Mmmmmmmmmm. Yasss.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 08:56 PM
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Your username is pretty cool too; not relevant, but I like casserole. OP, I think there's a lot of wisdom in The responses I've read here. Playing the Break Up Card is super uncool imho. If he's holding out for you to leave, so he can come out smelling like roses {just a guess} ... well, that's ice cold. Maybe looking at your life metaphorically; are you building on rock or clay here? The answer will be obvious to you and doing that what's right is often tough. I genuinely wish you all the best.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 08:51 PM
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Unless she's super intelligent and a fast learner, there's no way she'll be able to keep up this pace - if she intends to be a doctor. That'd be some achievement on its own. So that'll skew your scorecard. Even if her current guesstimated strike rates remain stable, there's a very good chance that she has a low self-esteem background, which could be indicative of a history of abuse. It's easy to paint a generalised picture, without some specific facts from her, herself. Talk to her. Not discredi…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:25 AM
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Alrighty then my man, it's no bloody wonder why you're feeling the heat. Seriously, that you're even considering taking the strain with this kind of pressure on you, you're doing bloody well! Still though, I think what you might be feeling a little overcooked by, is that you're not living your life. You're living everyone else's and you're just somehow in second or third place. Would this be a somewhat accurate description of how you feel? Let's keep talking. I'm here my man. Let's get you livin…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:17 AM
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Okay. Right. Well, here I am to help you. So, let's talk. What worries you most about what's going on in your present? Give yourself a little credit; you realise you need some support and you're asking for it. That's a big step in the right and best direction for you. Well done. Now, lean in on your team. Let's go!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:34 AM
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Have you considered that this just might be part of your growth path as a human being? That it is necessary to your development. That there are lessons to learn. Keep on going.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:50 PM
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Wow! Thanks for sharing this.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/16 07:57 PM
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You've never been to Europe, have you? Sorry mate, you're talking out of your ass on that subject.
/r/MGTOW10/09/16 05:47 AM
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Precisely! She should have been bitching that her team wasn't aggressive enough in getting the ball.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/16 01:27 PM
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He sounds like a Beta Husband. He has to evolve too. Lots of blaming her. Kinda sad.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 11:16 AM
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Look at this another way; pain and difficulty is the forge wherein you are reborn as an adult. Where you can cast away what has held you back. The thoughts that plague you at times, the nagging doubts and the things you want to change about who and what you are. And you can change, oh boy, we all can :-) Seriously :-)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:59 PM
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Why do you say, irritating? I would be happy to continue this chat with you, if you like...so, shall we?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:42 PM
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Here's my 2 cents. I've gone through my own version of hell for about a year now. What helped me a lot was meeting a Navy SEAL. Yeah; a real one. Now, what struck me about him was his attitude. Always focused, always up for a laugh, humble, confident and appreciative. I decided to go and look in to their mindset. And I was quite amazed to see how simply they approach things. My take away was this. 1.) Life is hard; accept it and you can manage it. 2.) Everyday you are - "Cold, wet and sandy!" 3.…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:37 AM
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Write a book one day. You have the facts; just to be on the safe side, call it fiction based on real events. Sorry for your pain my man. I can relate; just not this severely. Bro-Hug.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:20 AM
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And there's no backstory or context here to really grasp what's going on.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/14 07:40 AM
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I wonder if there was a fall guy on her drug dealing trial. We didn't get the truth. We got the story that her lawyers concocted, that became the truth once she was left off the hook. Seems like just another trashy upstart with no class or culture.
/r/PussyPass26/07/14 10:55 PM
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