romworld Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Lonely in the Second Worst City in Europe		romworld	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/22 12:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the court As someone who’s been divorced for 4 years and on the dating apps it’s still a bit surprising how divorced women rarely take responsibility for the rupture and collapses of their marriages. It’s always the man’s fault. They’re telling me this knowing that I’m a divorced man which shows such a lack of situational awareness imo.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/25 05:18 PM
2	Update, 2 years post divorce That’s progress. Onwards and upwards. Best of luck to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 07:12 PM
16	Update, 2 years post divorce From my POV I’m not appreciating your friend giving you all these details. Shows a lack of empathy and consideration. Nothing he told you was of value and would only cause pain. So not sure what level of friend he is to you but I wouldn’t call that being loyal. It was more like cruel.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 10:08 AM
4	I loved my wife and the life we had, I’m doubtful I’ll find another woman like her. Through the grieving process we all have our Mopey Dick moments and setbacks. Same ship as yours too but only a different flavour of betrayal. Detaching takes time. That meaningful connection you’re searching for takes time and resilience. It’s important, as a man, to prepare yourself to be alone for the rest of your life. I feel like only then will you have the emotional intelligence and availability to find your life partner. Otherwise, it’s likely someone says they like you and, god forbid, l…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/25 11:04 PM
10	Was marriage worth it? Few things are more destabilising for a human than realising you married the wrong person. The psychological, financial, physical, etc damage is all encompassing especially if you’ve been married for years. Is it worth it? Nope. An authentic partnership doesn’t need a piece of paper for validation. 50 years ago both men and woman respected the sanctity of “from death do us part.” These days marriage is simply a transaction that has totally lost its romantic sheen. If your relationship needs a te…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 11:59 AM
14	Songs my stbx wife has been listening to I think you’re using Reddit for its intended purpose. But, hopefully, you picked up on the fact that too much curiosity about your STBX is unhealthy. As someone who’s on the other side of divorce I would say real growth comes from not giving two shits about what your ex is doing. That development of antipathy is a beautiful thing. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 12:49 PM
3	Do you think they regret it? This is the way to go including staying away from alcohol, weed, pills, etc. The point is to not trade the negative emotions for a crutch. It’s easier said than done and takes extraordinary discipline. Most people fall off the wagon at one point during the healing journey. I think divorce is like a trauma and needs to be treated as such. Otherwise we risk getting even more fucked up. I see a lot of men falling off a cliff myself included. It happens and is usually recoverable but the journey tak…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/23 05:36 AM
7	Do you think they regret it? Firstly, thank you for your service and what you’ve endured to keep our country secure. Secondly, she’s angry because she failed at life in her opinion. That can’t be her fault so it has to be yours. It’s also easier to be angry than in pain.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/23 02:46 PM
2	Divorce looming, feeling lost, angry and scared Sounds like you enabled her to behave this way. She took advantage of your knighthood but you made it easy for her. She does not have the moral character to restrain herself from overstepping boundaries. When presented with a moral challenge some of us will rise to the occasion, others will falter. Good character is typically nurtured at home. From what you described doesnt sound like she had good role models at home whereas you did. Im truly sorry for your situation. Life has a way of turning a…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/22 04:05 PM
15	Do you believe in a soulmate or that a happy lifelong marriage is possible these days? All relationships have an expiration date now. My gut says no way someone getting married today will ever go the distance. Not when we live to be a hundred and there are so many temptations out there. So many distractions that take a person in a couple away from why they got married in the first place. No way. If you get married today, there should be a pre-nup full stop. This isn’t the 1950s. The romantic notion of marriage is just a nostalgic echo from movies, religion, old family members (who…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/22 08:48 AM
1	Ex Wife Can Barely Function Man, I feel you. I punched above my weight too. Sure was nice when I was fit as fuck. But then I focused on earning stacks of cash like she wanted because she’s a materialistic pos that likes trips to Italy. When I got a little doughy she cheated on me. Not with a a physical dude but the lord almighty. Started going to church 4-5 times per week. Still think she had an affair with the priest (Orthodox Christian). Now she does the same thing. Asking me questions that she should know or answer with…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/22 07:09 AM
3	Venting my response to her social media posts about how much she loves herself. I think you kind of said it in your post. After the loss of your son, she was all you had left. So you desperately clung to her. Love is not generated or maintained out of desperation. It takes two and she didn’t pull her weight. Your ex is doing you a favour by making it clear you two are over. She doesn’t want you thinking they’ll ever be a “sorry, come back” reunion love fest. No single person on this earth should ever have the power to make you want to kill your set. Good god, man, do you re…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/22 08:43 PM
2	Need advice please. That’s horrible. All that money going to attorneys when she could be getting some if she would just be fair about the settlement.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/22 02:32 PM
2	Need advice please. For how long?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/22 11:21 AM
6	The person you divorced isn't the person you married. How long was your relationship? I’m at 10 years and I expect changes especially from someone that I met in her mid-20s and now in her mid-30s. Lots of “finding herself” drama and the inability to prioritise our partnership over her nosy family that intrudes at every juncture. We’re their signs of what I see now? Yes, for certain but I ignored them. Tbh, I thought she’d outgrow and mature more (I’m older) but instead she regressed especially after we moved back to her home country.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/22 02:13 PM
1	Lonely in the Second Worst City in Europe Bucharest	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/22 12:42 PM
1	Lonely in the Second Worst City in Europe Bucharest	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/22 12:42 PM