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1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice.		rosesjaunes	/r/seduction	06/09/12 12:23 PM

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1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. I explained in another post why there's possibly nothing happening. I didn't give all the information about my relationships here. It's possible that he's afraid because of my 1) mono to non-mono transition which is going on and 2) because of the non-mono-ness. Anyhow, I will act on it. I've already tried to get out of our usual pattern of things we do and do something else, to which he responded very positively and suggested doing more weekend stuff.	/r/seduction	06/09/12 08:26 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. This is quite likely. I think I may just leave it be for a while, perhaps ease off on the dating (maybe I'm dating too much/ too many people at once), and see later on. The situation is a bit more complicated than described in the OP as I'm transitioning from a mono to non-mono set-up. And the guy in question seems to want me to be 100% sure about the non-mono set-up before doing anything - understandably.	/r/seduction	06/09/12 08:22 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. I'll have a look. With other guys I'm more active but for some reason not with him. Maybe because I find him so attractive it somehow makes me shy. No doubts about the chemistry!	/r/seduction	06/09/12 04:33 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. Not sure about the relationship thing. I'm happy to be on my own, and indeed have had long periods without dating anyone. What I really find frustrating right now is knowing I have fantastic chemistry with someone and feeling like we're wasting it because 'nothing' is happening. I really feel the need to have sex with this guy and right now it's just not happening. I'm so sexually frustrated with the situation. It sounds stupid but that is what's bothering me. Sometimes I wish I could kill my li…	/r/seduction	06/09/12 04:25 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. I am quite happy on my own. Maybe that's why I'm not willing to compromise too much. I know what I want, and if they can't provide that, then I'm not really interested. Maybe I don't seem open to a relationship? I'm not sure really. I wonder if somehow the intellectual types tend to think that because I'm really into conferences, discussion, debate, that I'm somehow not sexual?! I enjoy sport a lot, which I try to get across, and I dress suggestively, even if I'm not the kind of person who'll we…	/r/seduction	06/09/12 04:06 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. I'm pretty sure he has got the message, hence his 'we'd be so compatible' etc. But yeh, my plan is increasingly to get a bit drunk, see if he will be more flirty, be very obvious, and blame it on the alcohol if it doesn't work.	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:56 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. My fear is also that I'll ruin it if I get rejected. I don't care about getting rejected with a random guy (in fact will happily approach), but someone whose friendship is important to me, yes, I do care. I'm increasingly thinking the best thing will be to get slightly drunk and see how that changes things. A little alcohol can have its uses.	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:54 PM
1	How do I get some happy medium between 1) intense or 2) shy? Female seeking advice. The strange thing is I find this is a recurrent issue, regardless of the country I'm in or the age of the guys in question. I've had this issue since I first started dating. I've had experience with guys who're both older and younger (up to around 10 years older). My experience with older guys is they don't just want to date. They want a life partner/ wife/ someone to have kids with. I've tried the 'please slow down' or 'let's chat and then fuck', with the overly-touchy guys, but it never seems …	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:47 PM