roseyscrunchy Archive

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3	Do men have fifteen years on women? When I was 21, I didn't see older guys as sexual being either. None of my friends did. If there was someone rumored to have fucked an older guy she isn't exactly proud of it. I'm 29 now and I'm pretty turned off by the majority of guys more than two or three years older than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 11:20 AM
3	Do men have fifteen years on women? A man in his 30s can not match the strength, stamina and just sheer dick hardness power of a man that's a decade or more below him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 11:16 AM
4	Do men have fifteen years on women? Yea, I don't see men over 35 as being sexual beings either. Providers, definitely if he has the means to. Relationship material? I guess that depends on the man and his reason for being single over 35. Men need to put in work if they want to stay relevant after 35. Most do not, but the ones that do are good enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 11:14 AM
1	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? That's what I mean. Women choose men that can be husbands, and/or would look good to their family and friends. Honestly, for a marriage I do agree with this. Arab women are a lot smarter about marriage than we are. I'm just trying to dispel the myth that "traditional" or "old value" people are somehow more adoring of their spouses. It's just different value sets and in some cases, the men have a lot more to live up to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 07:42 PM
2	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. Inexperienced girls often have no idea what to do when in a hairy situation. There's a reason why creeps target inexperienced women to coerce them into sex or unhealthy relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 12:11 AM
5	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. If the desire is still there, they aren't trustworthy. If someone wanted gourmet food all their life and couldn't have it, and they resigned themselves into regular food. They will jump at the chance to taste gourmet food if they can get away with it. Even if maybe their friends will mock them for it or whatever, if they could get away with it and hide it they will. If that person can't appreciate regular food then it's unfair to all parties to settle for regular food. But this is a terrible ana…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 12:08 AM
1	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. I don't just mean sex. I mean with everything because the post above me asked is there anywhere else in life this is acceptable. Of course I'd rather not have a man that was in like 100 vadges and took STD pills every year but even that is better than someone who wishes he could live the life but wasn't able to or just restricted himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 12:04 AM
1	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. I mean in terms of casual sex and things that go against the family oriented values. I've found a lot of women from other countries want American and European (British and Nordic mainly) men despite the existence of hookup culture because they believe that the men treat women better in general. Like what you said, they don't like many of the "traditional values" in their own countries that leads to abusive treatment of women. They think western men are more romantic and sensitive. They like that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 10:14 PM
2	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? I know a stripper that married a very straight and narrow guy. ATTRACTIVE and only a few years older than her. You can't judge the entire world on your own perception of things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:47 PM
7	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Women work now too and can give ourselves a roof over our head and the ability to eat. So... are you saying everyone was happier when this wasn't the case?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:43 PM
9	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Right. Look into more traditional cultures. I've lived everywhere and women that had the freedom to do what they want and the freedom to choose their own life and husbands actually genuinely look up to their husbands. In the middle east marriages are still largely arranged, though I've heard even in these past few years it's changing a lot. Many women dread getting married and value money/stability over romance or love. They don't blindly admire their husbands. In some of these countries it's ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:42 PM
2	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? FDS and traditional roles? LOL no	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:34 PM
12	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Same here. Men were not more romantic in the past. The rules were just different. Women have a lot more negotiating power now. I have dated men from more "traditional" cultures... there's a reason why so many women from these cultures want a western man. I'd much rather men be honest about their intentions too. It makes it easier to weed out the ones that are not going to treat me well, and if you find someone that -despite being bombarded by hookup culture- wants something real... it says a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:33 PM
2	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. This. I know people that did not "experiment" and they feel like they missed out in life and either just whine about it or start letting loose when they're older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:21 PM
2	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. White american girl here with many white american girlfriends. A lot of us only do serious relationships, it's just that our culture allows for the freedom of choosing what kind of relationship you want. Hookups are okay. Relationships are okay. In other countries this is not the case, so people NEED to only go for relationships. Now this sounds like all people from these cultures are preferable for a serious relationship but that's not the case. They hide their true desires, and even if they wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:16 PM
7	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. Well, I am a woman and I'm very friendly so I've known a lot of women very well. Many of the women that have hookups and whatever really are romantics deep down but they are doing all this as a way to numb the pain or as a buffer against the men that treat them in this way. Kind of like "if I play the game too you can't hurt me." They're trying to make getting used and abused hurt less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:10 PM
3	Hook up culture and society makes being a romantic basically impossible, even for those that want to be. Id much rather be with someone that went crazy when they were young and learned from it or got it out of their system, than someone that wanted to do these things and restricted themselves. Of course there are also people that never were interested in experimenting, but the way the world is now, most people want to experiment. With relationships, sex, partying, substances etc. Also, I'd rather be with someone that learned the boundaries and how to restrict themselves. Oftentimes people that have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 09:05 PM
6	People really be cheating like this? I’m shook? This is low value female s***. Women like this get an ego boost by sleeping with men that are committed to someone else.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 11:03 PM
40	Old pervs have no shame 🤮 We all started screaming "PEDOPHILE! THIS MAN IS A PEDOPHILE! HE HAS CHILD PORNOGRAPHY ON HIS PHONE. HE JUST TOOK A PICTURE OF MY BOOBS AND I AM A MINOR! SOMEONE CALL THE POLICE! PEDOPHILE! PEDOPHILE! PEDOPHILE! CHIIIIILD PORNOOOOGRAPHY! PEDOPHILE!" while taking pictures of his face. LOL this is such a good idea if you look even kinda young. I dont even care if you obviously look like youre in your 20s if someone calls you out instead of him then they've got issues too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 10:27 PM
3	Hey young women! I know my balls are old and saggy and I need viagra for my porn addled dick to work - but I prefer my women to be 18-23! No red flags here, just into music and working out. -Scrotes I think most of the romance is in the beginning, even with HVM as nothing can replace that feeling of getting to know someone and they have no idea if you will be with him. Rinse and repeat. If you love romance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 04:24 PM
9	An open-relationship is an excuse to cheat Same. There's no way in hell I'd keep carrying a man's child after that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 04:17 PM
5	Old dudes on dating apps be like... I'm taking a hiatus from dating but you guys are making me want to download dating apps to verbally abuse men LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 02:42 PM
87	Where's The Lie Though? Insecure men want a relationship with someone that seems harmless because they know deep down they are low value and think the "girl next door" type they made up in their heads will have a harder time trading up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 02:40 PM
11	Lesson learned. Never settle! Yup. The first moment for me was when I bought myself my first designer purse and I felt like I had to HIDE it from my ex LOL. Then one day I was like wow, I can't marry this guy. If we ever divorce someday, he'll ruin everything I've worked hard for.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 02:34 PM
7	Ladies please get a google number!!! Even if a guy gets mad when you reveal to him that you've been giving him an alternate number. So what? If he can't respect your decisions, find a new one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 02:43 AM
1	The implication that being alone is worse than settling for bare minimum enrages me more than anything. Because women used to not have the freedom we have now, and these attitudes still exist. Apparently a woman's only purpose is to benefit the men in her life. Sad thing is men and even some women still believe this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 02:38 AM
20	Beware of#himpathy: when a man only cares about women's issues as it relates to women in his life (wife, mother, daughter,etc.) Ex: His daughter is part "him" and therefore suddenly she counts in a way no other woman did before/ learned empathy when having a daughter/etc. Sometimes the "empathy" they extend to female family members isn't even real empathy, they're just trying to protect they they think belong to them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 02:12 AM
24	Rose experienced this tenfold Same! It makes me really happy to see her being so active on social media and taking advantage of her new fame. brb clicking on every ad in her youtube videos!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 02:10 AM
63	Rose experienced this tenfold Also we can't really judge her on our western dating values, because it's very different in other countries. Some places put much more value on wealth and ability to provide a good life, ability to provide children above pleasure and enjoyment in a husband. So this is what she was judging Ed on. Not to mention she really wanted to escape. I hope she realized her worth, and that even though she is desperate, she still can shoot for better men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 01:54 AM
81	Rose experienced this tenfold For many women in impoverished countries, marrying out IS a good strategy. She hasn't owned up to her worth but I have a lot of sympathy for women that are in such horrible situations they are willing to put up with a human zit just for a chance at an improved life. For her it's such a desperate situation, we can't pet labels like "high/low value" on her. But imo, most women are just unrealized high value.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 01:51 AM
5	Never let a LVM know that you are angry with him. Men simply don't fear female anger in the same way that women fear male anger. In fact, men seem to actively enjoy it. Best thing to do is just not care. Fake it till you make it. They want to get a reaction out of you and when you show them that you're unbothered they get so mad lol. Eventually you just start to care less altogether and it just feels healthier.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 01:45 AM
12	To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority Yeah that's gonna be a no from me dawg. Bondage is a red flag imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 01:00 AM
2	Is there any way for low-to-average women to desire low-to-average men? Culturally, men are TOLD that they are horny and if he is a virile man, he should have difficulty controlling his desires because it's just pouring out of him. There are so many outlets for men to engage in his sexuality in small ways. Porn, how culturally we kinda encourage ogling women and dirty jokes etc. Women are told that if they have sex they are sluts. Basically men were never told to hold back on their sexuality, while women were old to restrain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:56 AM
1	I met my LTR from being FWBs. Why do people here seem to think all women who have casual sex can never be considered for an LTR? I know a lot of people that did, and some that are even married to this person now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:48 AM
-2	Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison? It's really not talking about the same thing. Insulting incels have nothing to do with a woman's actual preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:42 AM
1	Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison? I prefer a low n count in a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:41 AM
2	Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison? I'm a woman and I find high n counts in men disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:41 AM
1	Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractive For many ethnic men you literally just need light eyes and blonde hair. You can have the ugliest face, just have light eyes and maybe light hair. So dating ethnic men is an easy way to not be alone if you're too ugly.. but if you have light features.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:39 AM
0	Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractive What? I've lived in asia and I live in the city and this is just not true at all. I feel like I see the opposite more, attractive white men with busted looking asian girls. The prettier ones seem to want asian men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:37 AM
1	Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractive I remember reading this too. It's usually the white men that date others, and actually it applies to all races. And just from my own personal observations and experiences it seems true too. And I'm saying this as a white women, who dated outside of her race, and have lived outside of predominantly white countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:33 AM
5	To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority Yep. Wanting a conservative partner while you yourself aren't conservative is just being a creepy manipulative predator. If you guys really want a conservative bride, be conservative yourself and like mined people will flock to you eventually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:19 AM
5	To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority or marry a woman from a country where religiosity and conservativism aren't as tangled up as they are in the U.S. That depends on if they'll have you. Sure there are many countries where being a light-eyed western man is enough, but they'd still expect at least a level of conservatism from you too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:11 AM
9	Older men are delusional entitled whiners Yea this is what pisses me off the most. They want to have lived a full life but also want to deny their future spouse the same thing. So they want to rob the woman of her youth so she can be a baby machine for him? Even if the guy is rich, I will not settle down with an older man. I just won't. At this point, after all the bs I've been through, I'm only going to date someone who has a lot of offer. Having the energy to run around and enjoy life with me, not complaining about old man problems, b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 06:43 AM
26	Older men are delusional entitled whiners I can’t believe some younger pickmeisha’s fall for that tripe with older men who tell them they’re ‘mature for their age’ & ‘younger women are better’ like they’re not gonna age. Even in my most desperate days, I thought this is incredibly stupid. Girl, you're gonna age too. There was a post in I think r/relationships about a girl who found out her boyfriend was having sex with an underage girl.... her boyfriend she met when she was underage and he was 18. So.....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 09:43 PM
36	Older men are delusional entitled whiners Yep. If a "friend" expresses interest in you, he's not a friend and the only thing to do is either be with him (jk no) or cut him off. Block him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 09:39 PM
47	Older men are delusional entitled whiners A lot of dating for the man is ultimate selfishness. Starting from their obsession with virgins, you think those virgins want to be with a creepy experienced dude or someone they can learn and explore together with? And alllllll the way up until old age, they want a younger women. This is incredibly selfish. The woman will not enjoy her life, she will waste her youth. A 20 year old woman with a 30 year old man will no get to enjoy her 20s. She will not get to enjoy the vibrancy and fun of a 20 y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 09:37 PM
7	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE Thanks for sharing this. I've been wondering if it's better to date older men, stick to my age, or if it's gonna be okay to go younger. It's hard to feel genuinely attracted to older guys, not to mention they usually have worse personalities. Just like bitter and set in their ways. And they have no interest in life sometimes. I think the only reason I've been trying to date older is because men have framed this to be whats "right."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 09:06 PM
1	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" They might be more faithful for many reasons. Because they aren't used to obtaining sex etc. I don't think lack of knowledge is one. I think it's the contrary, virgins have higher expectations because they just don't know what reality is. They see movies, tv shows and porn and think this is real. When I was a virgin my first boyfriend had partners before me. I resented my ex so much, had feelings of FOMO, he was a good boyfriend for me at the time, but I thought that he sucked because of this an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 09:01 PM
2	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Exactly. It's just a different game. A game that Arab men and Arab women can play seamlessly, but when words collide it ends up being a mess. As a western woman, I prefer the way western men display love actually. I think the reserve and composure is more sweet and sexy. They are carefree but pull out all the stops for the RIGHT woman, and most women will not be the right one. I prefer this to men that are more warm to many women, or who display their warmth (or semblance of it) readily and easi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 09:00 AM
7	Why Gamers are LVM I literally will not date a gamer because I imagine what it would be like if he told my friends that he's a gamer. They would laugh at me. This is enough to convince me he's low value.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:52 AM
18	Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GF Same. It's just not worth the headache. There are much better men out there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:38 AM
3	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Honestly, that's pretty sad, and reinforces what many white girls think about Arab men after observing them. Because what I wrote doesn't just apply to the riches Arabs that are buying instagram girls for sex, it pertains to even the average Arab man that isn't paying for sex. Those Arab girls practise restrain, do not raise their voice, do not argue with men. Only then they get treated better. Any girl who is like that, I also respect her but I do not go on to fool her into sex by advertising m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 08:36 AM
27	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE There are attractive 40+ year old men, but they were a lot more attractive at 30. Yes. The men that are attractive at 40, were as a rule much more attractive at 30, and muuuuuch much much more attractive at 20. The way I look at it, for every attractive older man, there are tons of more attractive younger versions on him running around.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:28 AM
28	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE Yup. I'm noticing this with guys around my age. I would say many start at 28 and after that, it's all on genetics and luck how fast it progresses or how busted they start to look. This is the thing that sucks most about guys this ago imo. Once a man starts balding... :/ The body isn't as big of a deal for me, but face and how much hair he has is sooooooo important. I just can't feel attracted to a man that has bad hair.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:26 AM
33	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE I hugged one guy and he felt so FRAIL. I can't stop laughing. You know that feeling when you interact with a guy and you just... feel bad for him? LMAO I'm glad I moved back out to the city for this reason. The men take better care of themselves out here. Not all, not even most, but enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:22 AM
27	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE I'm 29 and the men are already started to look busted. It sucks. Full on hairloss is rare right now, but there are a lot of men that are starting to show a little bit of that male pattern baldness horseshoe on the forehead, and hair is thinner. Like there are men in their early thirties where I can see his skull outline through his hair. And do not get me started on the skin or muscle tone..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:17 AM
42	Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUE "Men age like wine" is the biggest lie that men have used to control women. I am 29. I was terrified of this age. But I'm noticing that actually, the inverse is true and men age like already soured milk, while women continue to look fresh and vibrant. It's not even a self brag, I notice this about MOST women and MOST men. Women are the ones that go through extreme lengths to take care of themselves, while men usually just don't. Not only that, it's also biological. They are also under the impres…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:15 AM
67	Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GF I used to make my exes throw away nudie mags and unfollow girls, and it was always a really crappy process. A lot of gaslighting, fighting and just overall feeling bad. Now I will next a guy if the people he follows is not up to my standards. Even garbage "comedy" accounts where its literally just like, a woman bending over in leggings and a man dumping paint on her or something. I vet everything. It's crazy how many guys can't tell if a body is real or not. Through editing, poses or surgery.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:03 AM
53	Guy admits following Insta models desensitizes him to his GF SAME. I will not be with a guy that follows insta models. I used to be all lame, get attached, then force him to delete them, but I'm not even gonna go through that song and dance anymore. I always ask to exchange social media accounts and I scan through what kind of people he's following among other things. Sometimes other guys AND GIRLS will say that it's unfair because you as the girl are following..... male celebs and whatever. If you run across this, do not let them trick you. I used to sec…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 07:58 AM
5	There has been/is and will always be people at the bottom of the dating hierarchy. The "problem" is these undesirables don't want to date each other Oh, like "he could have anyone but he picked ME!" Yikes. I hope these girls will be okay :	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 07:32 AM
2	There has been/is and will always be people at the bottom of the dating hierarchy. The "problem" is these undesirables don't want to date each other There may be some women who are willing to screw a Chad that makes in known he is disgusted by her, but women are big balls of self esteem issues and we care deeply about our presentation. If she is even a little bit healthy, she won't	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 07:17 AM
2	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Yeah I wish I'd vetted men harder when I was younger. I think this dynamic in my first relationship really messed me up mentally and emotionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 07:15 AM
3	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Not really. I lived in the region and mostly socialized with other white girls. Most aren't just going for the richest guys and most preferred white men in terms of looks. I think because of build and height but everyone has different preferences. Have you lived in the middle east? The richest Arabs, the ones with family money, marry someone from the same country, sometimes even the same family. If he is handsome AND rich he's already married in his early 20s no doubt. Not to mention the richer …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 07:13 AM
2	How do low-n women react to high-n men? This 100%. I've had men curse at me and block me after I told them I'm not interested in something casual. I met my ex in another country days before moving to a new one. We talked intensely for months before I was able to physically see him again. No matter how much you're into a guy, if he's not that into you, you won't convince him by being pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 02:06 AM
4	Don't let your ego play you Okay. Just take it as a compliment then, because it is! He came groveling back. But take it as that and leave it. Let it stroke your ego a little and inject a little interest into your boring days and move on. Don't give him any attention. Find someone better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 02:01 AM
6	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Wow! I had no idea this was such a thing. If you walk into the wrong bar at the wrong time guys will think you're a prostitute if you are youngish and white. Dubai isn't all that bad though. Most expat men in dubai are just hard working and career minded, as opposed to like.. expat men in asia lol. And the local women know how to deal with their men lmao, though I feel kinda bad I wonder if they know just what these men are up to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 01:55 AM
4	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Exactly! If a man is really into you, he will do all the right things. Also, as a woman, you don't want to be with a man that doesn't fulfill all these things anyways. Sure thing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 01:09 AM
6	How do low-n women react to high-n men? YEP. Arab guy lied to one of our coworkers, telling her that he wants marriage and something about family drama. They dated IN SECRET for YEARS. I even heard of a white woman that did get married to an Arab guy but it was a marriage contract that is very easily broken, not a true legal or Islamic marriage. And they divorced when she was pregnant. It's not always lies to get sex, sometimes it's also to save face of top of that. In places like the middle east and asia, men still need to save face …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:53 AM
6	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Exactly. I think because we white women aren't used to the way the way Arab men flirt and pursue girls, so it's easy to fall for them. I know several girls that dated Arab men. It's all the same two stories. Either they disengage after having sex, and string them along for easy sex. Or they date, usually in secret, until he decides he's done with her. They also sell the idea of Arab culture being commitment minded and family oriented... but what they don't tell these girls is that they are only …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:38 AM
1	Don't let your ego play you What's preventing you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 12:24 AM
8	Don't let your ego play you Meh, I used to do this with my ex boyfriends. Mostly boredom and loneliness. I used to work a job that made it really difficult to sustain a real relationship. Still, there were no feelings. Just boredom and me wanting to inject a little drama into my life lol. This girl sounds um. I hope shes doing well LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 12:23 AM
41	Don't let your ego play you Even exes. If he comes back after months of being gone. He's been fucking other women, trying to pursue a relationship and failing or whatever else... and he's only coming back to you because he ran out of options. It's never because he finally realized you were the one. Or even if he did, really, after running through other women? That's what it took?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 12:20 AM
9	There has been/is and will always be people at the bottom of the dating hierarchy. The "problem" is these undesirables don't want to date each other I've noticed the opposite. It's always prettier women with toad boyfriends. I rarely see a couple where the man is objectively better looking than the woman unless they've been together for a while and she stopped taking care of herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:16 AM
14	There has been/is and will always be people at the bottom of the dating hierarchy. The "problem" is these undesirables don't want to date each other Women don't want to date a man if she knows he thinks she 's ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:13 AM
3	How do low-n women react to high-n men? I was the same way before I had sex. I really wish I'd lost it to someone similar in experience as me. It seems much more fun to discover new things together instead of having it be very special for you, while for him it's like the n-th body he's thrusting on top of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:08 AM
2	How do low-n women react to high-n men? If she's merely ugly or isolated, she won't care. I was ugly when I was younger. My first boyfriend has a few girls before me. This really bothered me, but for different reasons. It was a self esteem and FOMO thing. It bothered me enough to want to break up with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:05 AM
5	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Because a lot of women aren't as strong at putting up boundaries. If a guy is being pushy, she might go for it even if she is unsure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:02 AM
4	How do low-n women react to high-n men? They almost always are worse people. And they always try to push the sexual boundary way too soon, like sir, you are disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 12:01 AM
12	How do low-n women react to high-n men? I hate this so much. I lived in UAE for a while and I was interested in an Arab guy. I'm a very direct and some would even say rude person. I asked him isn't it against your culture and religion to date? He said yeah, but it's different with non Arab girls? I asked why? Are they just harder to have sex with or what? The answer disgusted me. He said that Arab guys prefer non Arab girls for sex because they don't want to "ruin" the purity of Arab girls. The only way they would pursue an Arab girl …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:59 PM
4	How do low-n women react to high-n men? Disgust. Its been in a bunch other girls before me? That's actually nasty. I feel the same way if I know a guy has been having sex with someone not that long ago. I don't want that community dick. I'd rather have a guy be clueless than be disgustingly experienced. One of my exes was suspiciously good at it and it actually made me recoil.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:54 PM
2	Are men really the gatekeepers of relationships? This is it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:47 PM
1	How would you describe your attachment type? However, I find that my attachment type is the result of my history with relationships as opposed to the cause. I used to embrace the idea of a loving girlfriend whom I could grow old with but Wanting a certain type of a relationship in your head has NOTHING to do with your actual attachment style. Those of us that want relationships, all want a loving relationship but our attachment style gets in the way of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:37 AM
8	If a woman is subjectively physically unattractive to you (i.e. a 3/10 or lower), are there any redeeming qualities that she can have that would make up for her looks and what are they? What do you mean by fragile and "kinda clingy"? It seems like most men hate a woman who is emotional and easily upset over things. And that clinginess is a negative trait to have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:30 AM
3	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" Haha I love you. So true. Also, even young non virgin girls don't really want to settle down with or bed an old man. Young, fresh men are always going to be the top choice for young women. When I was in the early 20s I thought old men were gross, and so did all my friends. Dating an older guy is the kind of thing girls try to not let their friends find out about, and if we DO find out about it we spread rumors like wildfire and cut her down in secret lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:23 AM
4	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" Yeah. If a guy told me he had a million sex partners in the past but thinks sex is sacred... I will lol. Either he's a liar or he's incredibly unstable and it really was that special with all those women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:13 AM
5	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" Women are just as repulsed by cheating. If "women don't need sexual exclusivity from their partners to ensure that their genes are passed on" actually has biological ramifications, then there isn't much motivation to be monogamous. She could just get pregnant by anyone and convince a long term mate to raise it. Human relationships are much more complex than this. I really don't think you can predict faithfulness from number of partners. Someone might have been a serial monogamist because they ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 11:09 AM
7	This one goes out to all the Kinkmeisha’s lurking. We’re here when you’re ready. Is this a thing? I dated an asian guy for a year. I'm white. Not as extreme as your guy, but he had insecurities over white men. He was kinda vocal about them "taking" asian women away from asian men and he worshipped me as a trophy. He got off on thinking that other asian men look at us and feel jealous. I can't lie, I did enjoy the attention, and back then my insecurities were so high that I ignored a lot of red flags to keep this stream of validation coming. And he was extra creepily insecure…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 12:55 AM