| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 94 | Tailoring texts to be intriguing - an article on flirty texts | rosid | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 04:44 PM | |
| 5 | Inner game seminar - stay in state, control monkey chatter, and eliminate neediness (outcome-dependency) by engaging the brain's right hemisphere | rosid | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 08:05 PM | |
| 2 | [FR] Next time bring protection. Maybe antibacterial wipes too. | rosid | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 07:34 AM |
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| 9 | She's your biggest fanThis is one of the most important articles I've come across regarding mindset. Even just the title is inspiring. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Advice for an over-analytical mind? I feel like this has impeded my progress in becoming comfortable in my own skinI know where you're at. I used to think waaaay too much about what I did and who I was, which is not a bad thing if it's not actually stopping you from doing the things you want to do. However if you're not doing the things you'd like to do and you're thinking all the time about the negative reasons why you aren't having fun, then you're just in a negative self-perpetuating loop where all your conclusions make you feel bad and you continue feeling unfulfilled. You may not like where I'm taking t… | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Hey guys, thanks for taking the time to do this! One quick question: Do you have any quick tips for getting your head in the right place? I've heard of guys doing jumping jacks outside of clubs to get their heart rate up, yelling like an animal to un-stifle yourself, and running a few warm-up sets to rejection to get over any anxieties etc. Do you have any personal, uncommon things you like to do to get in state? | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?She asked her friend to evaluate you? That's like bringing a friend along to see some real estate you want to buy. She's geared toward being negative toward you regardless of how stellar you are, it's really just how she justifies being asked to come at all. It's shitty and I think you're lucky to get out as quickly as you did; that is not behavior I would tolerate at all. I doubt you really did much wrong considering you've been intimate with her. I'd send this back: "I enjoyed our time togethe… | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 04:11 PM |
| 2 | IAMA mPUA request: Sinn!Hey what happened to Neil Strauss' and Tynan's interviews? | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 07:29 PM |
| 3 | i don't know how to take a compliment or how to deal with being hit on without being awkward."Thanks." And then you talk about something else, don't linger with it. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 08:55 PM |
| 11 | Detailed post on Approach AnxietyI'm just a little through it, but in case some one decides to just read the comments here instead of the post, they're missing this awesome link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wJ-js_NLV8 Man, Bill Hicks was awesome. Also, this may inspire you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOY-jJeOeBk | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 04:56 AM |
| 1 | A tip for sedditors traveling abroadI've an apartment in Brooklyn that you're welcome to crash at for a week. If you're interested, PM me. Just remember I have to get it by my roommates first and that isn't guaranteed. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 03:53 PM |
| 8 | I'm TofuTofu. Ask Me Anything about Japanese girls.Not a seduction topic, but do you have any tips for someone considering moving to Japan to work in an ESL program? I'm set on the teaching, but not so much which country (though I am certain it will be either China, Korea, or Japan). Also, did you get my message regarding Herbal's IAMA? | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Advanced Grooming Advice - Part 4I love using a straight razor with some shaving soap and a badger-tail brush. I swear it boosts my confidence, I feel like a fucking boss afterwards. You'll totally fuck up and cut yourself the first time, but it's a worthwhile investment over time since you'll not have to keep buying those expensive cartridges. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Tailoring texts to be intriguing - an article on flirty textsHere's a mini fail that I just did: We had about 15 back and forth fun, flirty, and sexual texts the day after I met this girl (previously only engaged in sexual touching and long make outs on our first meet). I deleted them already, but they were fun future-projection stuff that referenced our previous conversations. Then I proceed to fuck up. This convo was DEFINITELY supposed to be call-only. Talking details is boring, if I was on the phone with her I could have easily maintained interest wit… | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Tailoring texts to be intriguing - an article on flirty textsNot my article, I just came across Chase's site and found a lot of helpful info. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 02:10 AM |
| 7 | Tailoring texts to be intriguing - an article on flirty textsI can't possibly recall all the back-and-forth texts that I ruined by taking a long, bland, logistical dump in the dialogue that should have stayed witty and fun. I'm going to try and keep time/date/info stuff to phone calls instead. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to improve your openers - The Pre-OpenerI really like Chase's insights. His Text Message Flirting article is awesome, I'm going to post a dedicated thread to it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/11 04:33 PM |
| 12 | Announcing next round of experts in our "IAMA mPUA" Interview Series!Wow! Excellent work TofuTofu. This is a really impressive roster. If I could forward another recommendation, it would be the guys at http://www.attractioninstitute.org/. I think their approach to inner game and their perspective on the seduction community would bring a great dialog to seddit. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 02:48 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First night game, with a mPUANot to lean in, showed me how to lean in properly if I can't hear a girl. Can you help me visualize this? | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 07:54 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Next time bring protection. Maybe antibacterial wipes too.Mmm, totally leaving out some great details like picking her up by the foot of a pond and nearly plunging her into the water to make sure she was baptised before the raputre happened. Anyway I have to credit seddit with forwarding me a lot of 'inner' game materials like David Burn's Intimate Connections which was pretty much a life-changer for me. I don't feel like much the old school structured stuff is useful for me since it just flows naturally when solid self-love is in effect. | /r/seduction | 23/05/11 07:49 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Lessons From NYCI also turned down taking a girl home recently because of the dreaded subway ride home. Living all the way out in Bushwick is sometimes an 1hr+ affair to get home if it's past midnight... really no clue what to do in that situation when getting back to her place is out of the question. The L train is a fickle mistress, talk about a rock and a hard place. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 06:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Lessons From NYCWhoo! Bar 13! I never knew they threw down dubstep on Mondays. My coworker used to promote for them and I'd some friends in for free with some drink tokens but I haven't been there in a few months. | /r/seduction | 17/05/11 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Any specific tips or techniques for developing a habit of slower, deeper, well paced voice control?I found this useful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VDslvC4_5w& | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Brad Branson of RSD here to answer your questions! AMA!I'm having trouble not stifling my words when I'm just spewing out whatever is on my mind at the time. How do you just go about saying what's on your mind confidently and ignoring the voice that goes "why are you saying that"? | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 03:33 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Audio of me daygamingI like your tone of voice for the initial interaction, but it's too... what's the best way to say it... too "into-you." Like when you first start the interaction your voice conveys "hey! let's talk because you seem fun!" but then you should lay off the optimism in your tonality and take down a little (not in volume) so your voice is now saying "so, what's it like being around you? surprise me." The same theme also applies for how much you're talking. I've only heard the first three minutes, I'll… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Another Charlie Sheen demonstration on being Alpha [x-post from Entertainment]regional manager? | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Who is down for a New York City lair?Haha, you beat me to it and with a better name no less! Let's get the first night out figured out on r/gothamseddit, then promoted on seddit, and go on from there. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Who is down for a New York City lair?Sounds like the best course of action. I'll start a new subreddit for it. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Who is down for a New York City lair?r/nycseddit Not sure if the mod is active but let's get going on this anyway. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 05:00 AM |
| 4 | REMINDER: David Wygant Q&A Session TONIGHT at 7PM PST!! DON'T MISS IT!!Absolutely not. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:13 AM |
| 11 | Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD)Silence is wonderful. Any tension can become sexual tension if you just frame it that way. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD)Being non-reactive is simply being content with one's self. People's jabs at you or other attempts to get a rise out of you (to show their dominance over you) simply have no effect on you. You can play them back and be cheeky, thus showing how they have failed in trying to control you. Or you can just ignore them, not as an attempt to cover up the fact that they got to you but because it just didn't register with you. If you're trying to be unreactive, you're not doing it correctly. It is a natu… | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Pinker on Language and Social RelationsI love this! Thanks for the link to this series of well illustrated lectures. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Inner game seminar - stay in state, control monkey chatter, and eliminate neediness (outcome-dependency) by engaging the brain's right hemisphereHaving been a student of cogsci, I'm not entirely comfortable with the public's consciousness of the left brain/right brain domains and how rigidly enforced they are in the public's mind. The left hemisphere doesn't control language; at best, it recruits certain neuronal centers (and not all the time) to perform certain actions that are related to abstract aspects of language and they all interact with various other areas (left and right) to give humans the ability to communicate. But in this co… | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&AYou're the only one making up the excuses and limiting yourself, get over it and get to work. Good advice, thanks for the reply and doing this AMA! | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&AI really liked this question, I hope you'll answer it: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f8ejp/iama_mpua_interview_series_1_questions_savoy_of/c1e5l6e Early in your PU career, when you started having success, what things did girls start to do during interactions that you never thought they would do or be open to? -perronec And to add to it, what have you done or now do that would have blown you away when you started? | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 03:21 AM |
| 13 | [FR] Approached after class, Tips for next time.That's such a Mark thing to say. | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Jungian Psychology re: Relationships."Man and his Symbols" is a great introduction to Jung. It was his last writing on his theories and is far more approachable than his other work. I also really love "137: Jung, Pauli, and the Pursuit of a Scientific Obsession" by Arthur Miller. It's more about the relationship of the two men and their pursuits and personal lives but contains a good overview of Jung's psychological theories (like universal archetypes). Also, find Jung's Red Book. Spend countless hours pouring over it. I find Jungi… | /r/seduction | 16/02/11 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Well, I Finally Had The Balls To Go Out SoloAnd you don't have to cruise alone if you don't want to, let's get this up and running -> http://www.reddit.com/r/nycseddit/ | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 07:09 PM |
| 4 | How to Neg - Can someone explain this to me simplyThis is great advice. Also, I don't like the term "neg" since it is often interpreted as a technique to lower someone's value and bring them down to where you think you have a chance... or something silly like that. Tease her because its fun, qualify her to see if she meets your standards (make sure some kino is in the reward) and stay in the moment instead of looking for a weak spot in convo to drop a critical neg x1.5 pull-push bonus multiplier. Don't memorize a list of negs to avoid working o… | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Is r/mensrights just full of AFCs? I liked this article because it can work for men in many of the same ways it does for girlsYou're dancing with a guy on the dance floor and he has a drink in his hand. You say, “What are you drinking?" while casually taking the drink from his hands and taking a sip. Keep dancing and then walk away. He won't have the balls to ask for it back. Even at my shyest, and it was pretty intense, I cannot fathom not calling a girl out on this. | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 07:58 AM |
| 4 | Well, I Finally Had The Balls To Go Out SoloYou feeling awkward drinking water at a bar can easily be reframed as you are bad ass enough to order water at a bar. Anyway stupid shit like that and the bartenders being quiet aren't reasons to not approach girls you want to talk to. Stop not doing anything! If you're anything like me, your AA can get pretty bad and you feel that for some reason, talking to girls (at a bar of all places!) feels strange and not normal. This may take some courage and will power for you, but forcing yourself to a… | /r/seduction | 15/02/11 07:07 AM |
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