I had a long day this weekend and met a very cool girl. I don't think I can write up everything that happened since it literally was a 24 hour affair, but somethings have been weighing on my mind the day after so I will endeavor the write about these thoughts very briefly. Sorry about the poor writing (cruising through some half-conscious insomnia right now) and lack of details, but some redditors were around and I don't need this getting out there in those circles.

The truth between me and her. I heard this phrase by some seduction guru on the 21 Convention and I think it's the perfect way of getting to know someone. Thinking about what's possible between two people is much healthier than worrying about what to say next or by seeking a reaction from someone. I used to do that. It's shitty and never actually works. You can't insincerely interact with someone and hope the relationship evolves to one where you can finally just speak your mind at any time. I'm sure you've come across a lot of literature on this board so I won't go over it here.

Conspiracy! During the get-together I was asked to help with some technical stuff involving a projector and a laptop that was to be done without anyone knowing. I recruited her to help me get to work. We instantly had our own little secret that we had to hide from everyone. We ran into the back room and worked on the problem while having a lot of fun. Some other guys came in and tried talking to her, but they couldn't do much since we were spies and had a mission to accomplish. Shooting each other knowing glances across the room and coordinating silly tasks is a huge attraction booster.

Breaking away. She was talking to her male friends and some of them were getting rather touchy. Did not let that shake me one bit, but I did feel the need to one-up that as a small challenge for myself. I found an older woman I met before (and she is pretty stunning) and chatted her up a bit and led her into the room to see what was going on. We had a long conversation keeping the laughing and touching going strong. This wasn't to show her off and start jealousy nonsense, it was more to keep my frame strong and my abundance mentality upfront.

Be a child. This come pretty naturally to me. I saw a bicycle at my friends that needed a little bit of work to get back in working condition. Did that. And just had a fun time riding around before the party began. I talk about it afterwards and convince her we should go riding right. the. fuck. now. 2 people one bike NO QUESTIONS. It was a lot of fun and obviously involved a lot of suggestive touching.

Isolation and descrepancy. Sometimes you can't just be seen even flirting with a girl without bad repercussions. We had a chance to break away from everyone after the bike ride. This also fits into the conspiracy idea since we had to sneak out together. Knowing to stop holding hands and not be seen kissing was important to her in front of her friends and I knew when to go full-out platonic on her ass when needed. The best part is resuming intimacy with renewed intensity since instantly spikes to ridiculous heights when the all clear signal blows. The night instantly became about me and her, everything and everyone became just an obstacle between what we both wanted.

Poor logistics: running away to construction site is a fun place to cuddle with someone, but a terrible idea if you want to get closer since your hands will inevitably get dirty and be in no condition to finger anyone pleasurably. Without the forethought to bring protection I didn't push it past making out for long stretches of time and serious groping in between talking about our interests/passions/life outlooks and just holding each other for warmth in the cold night away from the party.

And unfortunately, she was only in town for a small bit and I'm unlikely to see her for some months :(

Tl;dr: Doing a lot better with letting people see how awesome I am. Also lady nipples feel great.