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| 13 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Is it possible her friends think it is a 'just friends' scenario because you have not established your intent? If she was showing those signs at the movie, and you completely ignored them she is probably thinking of it as you being not interested. So why would she go and tell all her friends she likes this guy if you are just treating her like a friend. The fact that she brought up that you did not touch her at all during the movie date a whole 24 hours+ later shows that it was on her mind. | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 08:54 PM |
| 4 | [FR] 'Celebrity' CrushThats just my personality. Ive done it before. Ive handed my boss a thank you card for my non existent raise before. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 12:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] 'Celebrity' CrushDoesn't matter. She is well known enough that she does not want her private life out on the Internet, you know? | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!Thats my thing. Of course it makes a small difference. I am just going back to when I first started here. Every thread I saw I thought "Ah, probably an attractive 6 foot + athletic white guy. The subreddit is about game, and not looks. It is just my personal preference. I get pms from new people all the time and I try to help them to the best of my ability but 9/10 they have this mindset that they are ugly and cant do pickup because they are not white, are not tall, are not athletic. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:40 AM |
| 1 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!No, sorry. It doesn't make a difference. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:48 AM |
| 10 | [FR] 'Celebrity' CrushWill do. Just trying to be as careful as possible as to not release who she is. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:40 AM |
| 8 | [FR] 'Celebrity' CrushWell, my friend went to school with her and is her very close friend. We played minecraft together (I play when I work, makes time pass by) and I brought it up a lot. She probably saw. But, still weird. I actually went over to askseddit to get their opinion on how I should have responded. Took it as a major IOI though. If I heard a girl wanted to fuck me I would only bring it up if I wanted her. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:39 AM |
| 1 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!It would be very obvious. There aren't many big names in her sport. If I said what it was, you would know. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:35 AM |
| 1 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!What I am saying is I disagree with your research. None of that matters in pickup. Thats what new people come in thinking, and any 'research' will be counter productive for the community in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:32 AM |
| 1 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!Why does it matter? | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:28 AM |
| 2 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!I guess to each their own. I disagree, it is an attractiveness scale to be. Thus the "Hot body" for HB. I do not care about their social status, I do not include that in their attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 06:47 AM |
| 3 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!I wish! I would say this girl is a solid 8.5 | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:07 AM |
| 11 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!1.) Dont morph your personality to gain friends. I did this, and I didnt have any close friends because of it. Its like I cheated getting them. 2.) Goes along with number one, but be yourself. Trust me one friend you make while being yourself is worth 50 friends of faking your personality 3.) Be careful with this one, because highschool is a breeding ground for hate and can make your life hell if you take this too too seriously but Don't give a fuck. I didnt realize this till my senior year. Spe… | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:05 AM |
| 12 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!I cant even single them out, there were so many that helped. Just keep in mind this: If you are born and your father teaches you baseball tips until you are 21, but you never even see a baseball or a baseball bat. You probably will still suck at baseball. If you grow up and learn to play baseball on your own you might be pretty good. if you grow up and learn baseball while receiving tips and tricks from other baseball players, you can get pretty damn good. Not always right, but you get the idea | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 12:56 AM |
| 4 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!She is very attractive. She is not pro yet but her family is the biggest name in the sport she is in. She is probably going pro within the next 3 years | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 12:10 AM |
| 10 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!Never said she was a 10 | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 12:09 AM |
| 8 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!Take your battery out or turn off your phone. I regularly do this every few days. Whether it be play video games alone, or to take my boat out and fish. My life does not revolve around people. Will some girls get annoyed that you aren't giving them attention? Maybe, but they probably shouldn't be getting that much attention. I go out and be alone when I feel like it | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 09:39 PM |
| 4 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!19 | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 08:59 PM |
| 7 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!Will do tonight. I wasnt doing an FR because pretty much all of it was just confidence and being indifferent towards her wealth and fame. 2 things she probably never gets. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 07:56 PM |
| 7 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!Sure thing. Will do tonight when I work. It really wasnt anything special though, so I dont really think it is FR material. It did not display a lot of things to learn from, just confidence and being indifferent of her celebrity status. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I can get #closes like a motherfucker, but nobody texts me back. Please help Seddit!I disagree. I think it makes you look needy. Every guy I know waits 2-3 days because 'thats what your supposed to do' Girls expect you to wait a few days because that is what is the norm, and it is done with the sole purpose of not coming off as needy, which in turn makes you seem like you are a try hard and are needy. I text within the first 10 mins of getting it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 05:34 PM |
| -1 | "I just get penis shy around boys I like" Where to take it from here?What the hell is happening to this subreddit. The advice that is being upvoted is just terrible Just because she is not having sex with him after a few weeks does not mean the is using him. I would not wait a few weeks to have sex with a girl I just want to casually fuck and date, but if I genuinely like her and feel like I can have a LTR with her I am not going to tell her to leave because she is not having sex. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 07:21 PM |
| 39 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?Being happy | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Pickup in another countries?Probably about a year ago, and yes. A lot | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Pickup in another countries?I would love to know how many people have me tagged as 'Blender Whore' | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 01:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I got wayyy too drunk at a party. I had an awesome line, and have been dating the girl for a few months now, despite peeing on her.I pissed on her. I wasnt trying to get with her at this point, I felt terrible. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I got wayyy too drunk at a party. I had an awesome line, and have been dating the girl for a few months now, despite peeing on her.The girl is actually really attractive. No clue why she stuck around. I wouldnt way I am anything too special. She would say otherwise though | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 04:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I got wayyy too drunk at a party. I had an awesome line, and have been dating the girl for a few months now, despite peeing on her.I would say I am average. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 04:10 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Can anyone give me tips on this 30 year old I am talking to? I am 18. She is my female friends sister, and my friend pushed us to talk to each other. First time I met the 30 year old was on skype, and she was drunk telling me I am hot. Fast forward a month, we talk on a regular basis (non platonic on my part. I flirt a bit, but wasnt trying to seduce her) She told her sister how she wishes I was 30, or that she would totally date me if I was older, but I didnt really believe her. She just texted… | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 11:32 PM |
| 1 | The friend-zone is not always bad.She is not the type I date. Generally I date people that are kind of the opposite of me. She is the female version of me. As a friendship it's great, but I cannot tolerate myself in a dating situation | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 12:52 PM |
| 1 | The friend-zone is not always bad.Not if they deserve it. Trust me, many did. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 03:30 AM |
| 1 | The friend-zone is not always bad."Like" a sister. Obviously I don't stare at my sisters ass. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 10:30 PM |
| 0 | The friend-zone is not always bad.Do you see each other all the time? 2-3 times a week. We work together, so I often see her inbetween shifts. Hang out 1-2 a week with group of friends, one on one once or twice a month. I also see her when she picks up her boyfriend from a class of mine. Do you keep in regular contact We text back and fourth. Probably a small convo every other day to every three days Do you think about her when you're not with her? Only if something comes up that reminds me of her. Not more than any other guy fr… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 02:08 PM |
| 2 | The friend-zone is not always bad.And thank you for not being one of the many in this thread telling me how I feel, and telling me I don't know my own brain. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 01:58 PM |
| 0 | The friend-zone is not always bad.... I had a feeling it was a bad idea posting this here. This subreddit has helped me in so many ways. A lot of it is pure spot on genius and truth. But it is the hivemind here that all thinks the same thing. I was friends with this girl since I was 6. I grew up with her, and she is like a sister to me. Even back when I was a major AFC, and couldnt get a girlfriend I did not get feelings for this girl. Sure, I had thoughts about sex, which is human nature. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 01:51 PM |
| 5 | The friend-zone is not always bad.I cant say for sure she is not into me, but I am not into her. And I am far from AFC. If you disagree, then simply say it. I asked a followup question to yours, and you come off as a complete douche. Take a step back. The rules are right over there on the side, read them and please dont be an asshat for no apparent reason. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 01:49 PM |
| -7 | The friend-zone is not always bad.I can get better, without ruining anything. If I wanted to, I could have by now. Why fuck and attractive girl and ruin my best friendship, when I can fuck an attractive girl and not effect my best friendship at all? All in all, she is attractive, I would bang had I not befriended her all those years ago. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 01:36 PM |
| 1 | The friend-zone is not always bad.Usually I can agree with you. I have had female friends in the past that I have fallen for, or they fell for me. I am just saying there are instances where it works. I admitted that I have considered fucking her, and I still find her attractive. But I have no feelings for her that way whatsover. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 01:32 PM |
| 9 | The friend-zone is not always bad.Jesus, why so hostile? She has a boyfriend she is very much into. He works nights, so he couldn't be with her. I had nothing better to do so I hung out with a friend of mine. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The friend-zone is not always bad.How so? If you mean about the couple part, we didnt pretend to be a couple during it, that was just poor writing on my part. Generally when we are out at a store and someone calls us a couple, or a worker calls me her boyfriend we go with it. Better than explaining it and we are so used to it. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 12:17 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 26/m awkward introvert, first date f-closeHeartwarming story. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Common shit tests you can use you women? Share your own!God dammit. My reputation here is ruined. | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 09:14 PM |
| 14 | Common shit tests you can use you women? Share your own!I usually say something like this when I just met the girl What is something you do better than anyone else here? I like a girl that actually is skilled in something, it shows she can work. Even if it is not true, if she says something as simple as dance, or cook, it means something to me. Also many times they will say something sexual. Also (This is used less than the other) - What makes you different from everyone else here?or what makes you special? Or if I am feeling very dominant: Why shoul… | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 07:14 AM |
| 2 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?Did you make a blender subreddit just for that comment? | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 02:02 AM |
| 2 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?How does one be the drug? | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 01:56 AM |
| 7 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?hahaha, did you tag me? I have a feeling I am going to get comments like crazy in other posts. | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:52 PM |
| 3 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?I am the DD actually. I am not hiding the fact I have a tumor. Alcohol free beer still has some alcohol, so thats a no go :/ Ill have to find some sort of party trick to do I guess. Thanks for your comment | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:51 PM |
| 7 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?I actually kind of rather them force drinks on me, its a good conversation piece as others have said. | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:50 PM |
| 24 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?I am starting to regret that comment | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:48 PM |
| 15 | How to be the 'life of the party' at a party of 250 people where only 2 of them know you?Doctor says no strenuous activity. Including sex. Normally I would ignore that advice, but considering the seriousness of this I am listening to him 100% | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Can someone clear this up for me?Can you give an example of corny and cheesy? What I got from this subreddit is how to NOT be corny and cheesy, more natural. Granted, it taught me to be fun and outgoing, so I will use outragously cheesy and corny lines from time to time to have some fun. And sexual, yes. Its supposed to be sexual, you need to point out your intent right away. If you go up to a random guy and start talking and click, you become friends. If you go up to a guy and start being sexual he will think you are gay and p… | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 11:19 AM |
| 10 | Help me, Seddit! I'm going to a "Nut & Screw" party tonight and I need some witty one linersLets not do this one. | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How To get over a social disability... Like Stuttering?I had this same problem, along with a lisp. I went to a speech therapist for the lisp (lost it completely!), but I also mostly lost the studder. I really only get the studder when I am really nervous now, and then I just carefully think of what I am saying. If I find myself stumbling on a word, I stop for a second, take a breath, and try again. As BlueFire said, you think people are judging you, but they really aren't. Honestly, if anything, stopping and taking a breath shows self control. Obvio… | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:20 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Start a conversation from their what?!?! | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Biggest change? Eating well 2nd biggest? Working out. My confidence was at its all time low 4 months ago. I lost 40 lbs, and started lifting and my god I look fantastic. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Short jokes for text game...Better as "How do you find will smith in the snow" | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 12:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.Ah. I just didn't want to give off the wrong vibe. At the time it sounded like I was bi-sexual. Nothing wrong with that, I just wanted to make it clear. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 03:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.How exactly did I try to convince you I am not gay? | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 01:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.ahhaha I hear it now. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.Huge Breaking Bad fan, confused at the reference though. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.we just didn't mesh. We kind of saw each other for a month and I felt like there wasn't anything there, but she wanted a relationship. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 09:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.this makes more sense | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 08:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.white power mate? | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.I just woke up from a nap. I realize how ridiculous my writing style was haha. but all the cursing and such isn't to be defensive, it's just simply to convey certain parts and make it more exciting. My apologies if it came of2f as anything negative. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:46 PM |
| 5 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.Fun fact: I don't actually suck dicks. But what does that have to do with any thing | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.How was I being defensive? This is my first time getting some sleep in the last few days. I just happen to get very excited when I write and curse all the time. Writing while tired yields interesting results | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:29 PM |
| 9 | [FR] A really fucking long FR about a #close, and a k-close, and declining the potential f-close.Oh, no you can like classy girls and have intercourse with them. I was just being a sarcastic ass saying I was classy as fuck. TBH I was just sleepy and didn't want to have sex at that moment. Plus, when I really like a girl... I kind of want to wait. I'm not talking a while, just when it feels right. Think with the head of my body, not my wiener. My god I sound weird as hell when I am tired. I am going on 70 hours of no sleep, my apologies. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 12:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet people in a small town?by busy I meant AFTER you approach. sorry can't edit on my phone | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I meet people in a small town?everything is okay if you fucking own it. Just gauge whether or not they are busy | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Just moved, looking to get into the game. Anyone from Edmonton here?There is a Seddit locator in the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:57 AM |
| 3 | How do I meet people in a small town?Cold approaches with daygame. Thats what I do. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:52 AM |
| 3 | quick question about shit testsIt doesnt sound like a shit test. If anything she did the 'wrong number' thing so that she can start a conversation, because I guess she didnt want to just say hi. How old are you/the girl, from this it makes me think 16-18. And you were kind of a dick. You werent overly mean, that can be fine in a teasing way, you just went out of your way to say "like your face". You lined yourself up for it, and it was just not natural at all. I would text her in a bit, acting like nothing happened and she wh… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:31 PM |
| 0 | [Technique] One of my favorite methods of keno and escalation: Palm Readingit ridicules what?!?! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Ugly Guy GameAh, okay. Sorry I misunderstood. So many times on here I try to help people, and they wont help themselves. Fitness being the main one. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Ugly Guy GameIt just has to do with the fact I am continuing a redundant argument. The fact that I was upvoted before shows I am correct. I think OP is just asking a hypothetical, and isn't looking for someone to talk about actually helping the cause. Either that, or he just does not want to change (if it is not a hypothetical) If it is the latter, we can't help someone who wont help themself. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Ugly Guy GameOkay, ask any girl if they would rather hook up with an overweight guy, or a fit guy. Fit is more attractive than overweight. It is as simple as that. If an ugly guy wants to look better, he loses weight. Fitness is an attractive trait, for most at least. Being overweight is an unattractive trait. I never said fitness excuses personality, I am just saying being fit makes someone who is unattractive more attractive. Although he still may be unattractive, he is more attractive fit than overweight. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 07:52 AM |
| 8 | Ugly Guy GameI still disagree though. It would affect the person on a visual level, but generally making you more attractive. A fat guy who is ugly < a lean guy who is ugly, | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 06:43 AM |
| 9 | Ugly Guy GameFitness does matter here. An ugly dude that is fit, is much better looking than an ugly dude who is not fit. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 06:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)Not severely dyslexic, I have spell check at least. Sometimes it says my works are right when they arent though, so I have to just give out the warning. And I am not sure what else to say about it. We were about to go at it, she said no, and I stopped completely. And said that it was a turn off. That way she makes all the moves. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 03:23 PM |
| 1 | My roommates are throwing a Halloween party, any suggestions for costumes (late 20s male)?Get white pants and put a blood stain on crotch. Then just wrap a present and carry it around. Dick in a box. | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 04:46 AM |
| -1 | "I feel like you don't like me."Agree and amplify probably wont work in this situation. Honestly, if a girl needs you to text her all day she is probably too much work for too little gain. Would you rather a cow that gives 1 cup of milk for an hour of milking, or a cow that gives a gallon per hour of milking? | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Saw a guy get rejected today because the girl had a boyfriend. It kind of inspired me.you misunderstood me. I ask them even if I think they are selling stuff to me. even a 5% chance of an ioi you should go for it | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 02:56 PM |
| 1 | So /r/seduction, what is something interesting about yourself?I am a bartender with over 200 drinks invented under my belt. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 05:08 AM |
| 8 | Saw a guy get rejected today because the girl had a boyfriend. It kind of inspired me.Honestly, I never take ioi's from sales people seriously. Don't get me wrong, I dont let it stop me, but I never get my hopes up because I realize they are paid to sell, and flirting sells. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Picking up on the first week of schoolThis exactly. I made that mistake. First day I was opening with everyone (guys -no homo- and girls). Some it worked, but only a few # closes. Although hitting it up with the guys has helped me. I was worried that they would think I am weird, but it seems like they try to impress me. I guess they just assume I am a cool kid. I moved so I am not even in the same state, so I guess the fresh start will be cool for me. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Post your job, and lets work together to frame it in the best way.I never thought about talking about making drinks, haha. Although I have a go to drink I have that I 'name' after a girl I like. Turns out there is like 500 name variations, and all the girls drinks are the same. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Post your job, and lets work together to frame it in the best way.To be fair, I have invented over 200 drinks for my bar. Thats what my bar calls me. haha. Not sure how that would sound douchey. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Post your job, and lets work together to frame it in the best way.I say I am a 'Mixologist' | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Post your job, and lets work together to frame it in the best way.Bartender is already the best way to explain it :D | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Biggest game changer for meCan confirm a similar thing - losing weight. Lost a shitload of weight, once I hit my 8% body fat I am bulking. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What are some alpha responses when you get rejected?Exactly. Daygame for me, I dont try too hard to get an uninterested girl interested. There is just so much to move your attention to. A few times though the girl gave me the benefit of the doubt because I made her laugh. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 04:09 PM |
| 2 | What are some alpha responses when you get rejected?I like to say something funny if I am never going to see them again. "But.. I love you!!!" as they are walking away "Guess you are going to miss out on the herpes" This is with daygame. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Who's got Openers!! I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.'oh my! hellooooooo' - George Tekai. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Beginner HS pua. Need HelpNo. Just no. Trying to game high school girls while in highschool wont work. You can still get laid, but not with these techniques. Highschool is about status. Once you are out of school, things get different. The status part is still there, but it changes. Enough so that 'gaming' works. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 02:36 AM |
| 17 | Let's talk about "Being Alpha" for a secondNice cans, baby girl wat | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 04:04 PM |
| 1 | First day of class tomorrow (community College)... advice on what to say when I sit next to a girl?Problem is, I am funny when I dont try. But If I go in trying to be I will fail miserably. Any ideas of different ways to just say "Hi" I dont have the book for the class yet (amazon took forever to ship) so I was just going to say "Hi i'm ____, my book is still being shipped so if we need it mind if I look over on yours?" | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:33 AM |
| 2 | 19 YEAR OLD VIRGIN GETS FIRST K-CLOSE WITH HB8, FUCK TO THE YES.Why are you so self conscious? Are you fat? Lose weight. Are you ugly? Figure out why and fix it. I am 100% someone who is 'ugly' can stop being ugly if they work on it. Bad acne? Go to the fucking dermatologist. Bad facial structure? Dress better, keep yourself groomed. My one friend looks like a troll, and I mean this in the nicest way possible. He just isnt pleasant to look at, he admits it. Cleft lip, square head, bushy eyebrows. What did he do? He dressed better, groomed himself better, bul… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:00 AM |
| 5 | 21[M] Ok Seddit, you've conviced me...Cute would be a fine substitute, however. Source : I am 18, and they fucking love being called cute. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How do I keep her interest in college? [short FR]Bumping doesnt do anything on reddit... | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to approach a girl without complementing her?I would say your best best is to do approaches not to get laid, but to simply talk to someone. Just say hi and talk. Work your way to showing interest in the first minute. I ALWAYS will tell them they are cute either in the first sentence I say, or a minute or so into the conversation. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Best time to bring a girl back? How soon is too soon?Yeah, with those I generally go slower. I was just pointing out I am not doing anything illegal haha. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 05:56 PM |
| 1 | A little survey to better understand this community!18 2 Y - on dry spells N 4/10 (was better before I moved. I am out of my zone in the new state) | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Best time to bring a girl back? How soon is too soon?The whole US (maybe minus 2 or 3 states) that is legal. Age of consent is 16. You can go 4 years younger than you. so legally a 20 year old is the oldest that can be with a 16 year old. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Break The Foreveralone Self-Loathing Feedback Loop? (Inner Game-ish)In order to bulk, you need to eat at a caloric surplus. Have you been doing that? Eating at a caloric surplus with lots of protein (chicken chicken chicken) is the key to bulking. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 04:14 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Break The Foreveralone Self-Loathing Feedback Loop? (Inner Game-ish)As someone who is 35 lbs down, I couldnt agree more. I should be at my ideal 8% bodyfat by christmas. Hello six pack! But really, losing weight is not hard at all once you get into the rhythm. Your confidence will explode, you will feel better than you ever have before also. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How old are you? (basic question)18 | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:00 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Just do it!Why does that matter? And if you are asking that question you are already wrong. I am a 10/10, because I am fucking awesome. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm torn guys / girls. What do I do?I understand, I am the same way. Sometimes you need to make people upset to stay happy. Do you want to be in a relationship with her? If not, then don't. Do not sugar coat it, you will just end up hurting her worse later on. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 02:37 PM |
| 4 | I'm torn guys / girls. What do I do?This really sounds beta, sorry but it does. You seem apologetic for no reason, you dont want anything serious yet. Dont apologize for that. She said take the time to think about it. It seems like it is one way or another. You need to decide what you want. If you want to be in a relationship then put a label on it. If not, then say "I made up my mind, I want to stay where we are with no label" She might end things there if she isnt happy with it, but it will end either way. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Quick responses, but short. Are we still good?It could be either, but probably doesn't want to text you. In my experience, even if a girl is busy, she will make time to text you right then and there. I usually take upwards of 30 mins to an hour to respond to most texts. But that minute the girl will respond. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Quick responses, but short. Are we still good?Dude, she does not want to text. I dont know how old you are, but if you are younger more than 15-20 minutes to respond is not fast responses. Girls that are into me will respond that minute. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 03:58 AM |
| 5 | She got a boyfriendIf she is happy, fuck off. You might get told otherwise here, but that is my take on it. And before a possible attack from a previous post of mine (noting that I was FWB with a girl who had a boyfriend): He was a dick, he cheated on her, and they were unhappy. I say it is fair game in that situation. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.It just seems silly to me to not count them. You are figuring out the same thing in the end, one is through calories, one is through the scale. Me personally, I would rather know what I am consuming, instead of waiting to weigh myself to see if I am eating at a deficit. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 04:08 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.This is good advise. This is kind of where I started before changing what I eat completely. I just do not like #1. If you are not counting calories you have no way of knowing if you are eating in a deficit. I know if I followed that advice, I would just have a serving of this, a serving of that, and so on. I would still eat at a surplus. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 03:50 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.What? | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 12:13 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.I don't understand why you are being downvoted either. That is a perfectly fine argument. I just want to point out that I never thought I could do it either. If you eat the right things, you can be full. This is coming from someone who would eat like 4000-5000 calories a day. I think the big thing for me is my timing of meals. If I had a medium size meal for breakfast, and a medium size meal for lunch, I would get hungry before dinner due to the longer break between lunch and dinner. If I had a … | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.I am not saying have the discipline to hit the gym everyday at all. I am saying the complete opposite. I also pointed out that I can easily only eat 1200 a day and feel full with the right meals. Not cutting out good carbs. It really is that easy, the problem is people will make excuses saying it takes too long or that it costs too much money. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:47 AM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.I did this back when I worked 55 hours a week. I am not saying this works for everyone, but it doesnt take much time at all. Maybe 30 minutes out of your day altogether. including eating. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:45 AM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.I was considering getting a membership there, I am not sure about the price though. I wanted it for the chicken and the frozen veggies. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 12:25 AM |
| 5 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.Give me your address, ill send you my cum box. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 09:43 PM |
| 0 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.My jizz? ahah. Pineapple is proven to make jizz taste better. Oddly enough. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 09:40 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.Lets put things into perspective. I just measured out 30 grams of my favorite cereal. It says a cup or 30 grams. 30 grams was much less than a cup. Thus, you are eating more and consuming more not giving you accurate info. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 09:39 PM |
| 2 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.Sorry, wrong word choice. Basically, weights while doing weight loss for me helped with skin, and also preserving muscle. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 09:37 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.For me, if I go to walmart or BJs I save money buying it frozen, I buy it fresh also, but when I am in a rush and dont have time to cook it I just buy frozen. If you read, weighing was to accurately know how much you are intaking for calories, carbs, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 09:34 PM |
| 1 | A little bit on losing weight, and confidence building.Exactly. One problem many guys I know face (me included) is trying to bulk while cutting. It CAN be done, but it doesn't make sense to. Personally, I would rec commend to anyone overweight to lose weight, until they are happy with their weight. Then hit the weights and bulk up. Hitting the weights is important when doing weight loss also, but for toning more so than muscle gain. Me personally, I am trying to get to my ideal weight and THEN eat a surplus of calories and bulk. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 05:57 PM |
| 3 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)between 8 and 9 | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 11:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)hahahaha. Wow, didnt even put that together | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 08:12 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)I understand that. I am not anti-relationships. It is just that I JUST started school, and I don't want anything serious. This girl is pretty great though so we will see what happens. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)You are 25 and probably have more game than me. I never thought I would get this. It shows I had it even though I didn't think so myself. Just keep going out there. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 08:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)Thats the reason for 'when a girl says no I get really turned off. It points out you dont even want to make out. Then that gives you enough reason to believe if she starts again she is inviting sex. Sorry, having a hard time explaining. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 08:07 PM |
| 3 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)I am torn whether or not to go further with this girl. We will see how it goes. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 06:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)You caught me. I was trying to hide my location, but that narrowed it down quickly. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)He said something like ' you dont need to say anything, but if she keeps asking you why just say you get turned off by nos' I do too, it just makes it feel unwanted if you go further. Although with this method it was nice because it was her taking it further, so you know she wants it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)Yeah I thought so too. I like how I didnt even need to say anything seductive to the girl. Just made another joke, but it worked I guess. I don't think my technique in this pickup would work with most other girls. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 05:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)I am in no means a master, lol. I personally just go in for a kiss when I feel like it. I know this is cliche, but look for her signs. if there is a romantic part of the movie and she looks at you go for it. If you know she is interested there is no wrong time. You could do it during the police chase scene and it will still do the same effect | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 11:33 AM |
| 5 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)no, I just try to conserve clutter on my phone. I also find it makes me more organized. | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 11:31 AM |
| 12 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)She acts so much older which I really like. and let me tell you, last week, I thought I would never get these results. I am pretty sure she was heavily into me without much work so that helped, but still. I was reading fr's and thinking "god this would never happen like that to me" I was wrong. If you are reading this thinking that way change your mindset now. Really, I wish I did sooner | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 10:54 AM |
| 12 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)did I spell dyslexic wrong? | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 10:54 AM |
| 122 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)It took a looooong time | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 10:52 AM |
| -1 | My first attempt at Daygame - Awesome day!Just a tip, when texting a girl (if you do that) Leave the colons out of the lol. Confused the fuck out of me. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Unusual phone call/meetup spotI never call girls, unless I really like them. I am 18, and really no one calls. I wish they did, but it never happens. Maybe that was part of your problem. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What is your greatest fear that is preventing you from becoming who you want to be?For me, it isn't fear of rejection from one girl, it is fear of rejection from all of them. I am in a smallish town going to community college. I am worried to game too much, to the extent everyone knows who I am and what I am doing. Shit sucks, because I can get over AA and fear of rejection from one girl. Not the whole community. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm new to college this week, any advice? I'm pretty shy.Mine isnt either. I was explaining other colleges. Around here, a lot of people go away to school so the CC has less of the bubble feeling. It still is there though, which actually helps. It is harder to befriend people, but when you do you are kind of in the whole group. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 11:10 AM |
| 3 | I'm new to college this week, any advice? I'm pretty shy.I am in the same boat as you, except community college. Here is the thing, noone knows each other. Yeah you have your highschool friends that decided to stick together, but still. I was worried too, especially being at CC, but I was wrong. Girls don't know a lot of people, they want to meet you. Go up and talk, worse comes to worse she will have enjoyed talking. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 07:58 PM |
| 1 | A few thoughts to share with everyoneA little tip regarding the vodka/gin- Learn to properly mix drinks, and get a shaker set. It isnt hard, and it is much nicer. Keeping it in the freezer is kind of cheesy, and college like in my opinion. Granted I am in college, but I am a bartender. Lets just say I personally feel like it is more appreciated made correctly, than taken from the freezer. Just my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 04:07 PM |
| 1 | gaming for the second timeah, I can see why people could get stuck there. I think I underestimate my ability to hold conversations. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Confused on how to act, re: best friend's sisterDon't. It isn't worth it. Keep your friend, don't cause bad blood. Especially since it isn't likely anything would happen. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 03:25 PM |
| 1 | gaming for the second timeI always enjoyed responding like this when they ask why "You a cat or a dog person?" "Cat, why?" "Because (You are cute and) I want to talk to you" The parenthesis I do personally, although a lot of people here seem to hate that direct form for whatever reason. Just a different way to respond. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't find a good directory in sidebar, is there a list of a bunch of FR videos?I get scolded if I flirt with intention to escalate outside of work. Plus, I am only 18, so the age difference hurts me. Still possible, but many 21 year old girls wont give me the light of day once they find out my age. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl working at the mall, pussied out of asking her out/her number. I am a noobie in dire need of advice!Uh oh. Careful about oneitis, it eats us all at one point or another. I am in the same boat as you, leaving for school in a week. At 18, outside of college, sometimes it is hard to f-close in just a week. Just keep that in mind. But really, she isn't special. I used to think any girl that gave me the light of day was special until I started using this subreddit and improving my game. You WILL meet a lot more girls in school, and I guarantee that you will soon realize she isnt that special. But g… | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Is coming over my house for dinner (homemade) and a movie too much for the second date?Good response! It isn't an extremely nice apartment, but it is nice. It is VERY clean, and since I am only there for school I have a very tidy and neat room. I agree, it is a plus for me. Also, having a heavily stocked home bar(mine personally) I think will add some 'sophisticated' nature to me. That might be bad wording, I am not sure. Just woke up. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Is coming over my house for dinner (homemade) and a movie too much for the second date?Good advice, thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 02:12 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Met a girl at the museum, I like her friend more than her, how do I make the switch?Me personally, I would start talking to Sarah as more of a friend, and start talking to amy more flirty. Make it subtle until sarah loses interest and amy gains it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 01:16 AM |
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