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This is true. An average or below average woman is better off than a counterpart male. However, this trade would only be valid if someone told you that your self-improvement journey is done and nothing else can be done. Since that's probably not true, the trade would still be a shit trade since you can self-improve. Therefore, start improving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:43 PM
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Most women make the first move only when the man is way out of their league and seems reasonably scarce (on the train, night out). Yes, it only makes sense they would be happy after landing a man out of their league. However, the guy though...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:30 AM
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Women, as usual, want only the good stuff and don't want the bad stuff, yet frame it all in on basket. (Think equality). They want the tingly good emotions, happiness, passion, anger even. They don't want most of the other stuff. Whenever you hear that "women don't want something" or "want something" make sure to dive deep and just find which parts of it they want / don't because that's how it works. There. Mysterious whamen cracked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 04:43 PM
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Exactly, therefore having a higher standard for a partner and figuratively being taken care of. A golden parachute doesn't hurt either just in case shit goes south with the whole independence thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 06:16 PM
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> This only fails if you assume that women have a biological imperative to date men who make more money than them. This is not pseudoscience and this is why it will fail. Women DO NOT stand partners who are "lesser" than them. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:28 PM
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​ TRP tends to extend its arguments to say that all women act a certain way This is correct to a large extent. Women who DO NOT act that way are the ones who are capable of taming their primal desires. The same goes for men, don't get me wrong. This isn't a misogynistic rant. That's what a unicorn is, the one who has a good upbringing and has learned to tame her primal brain to the extent, just like successful people do. The one who isn't damaged too much. The one with a stronger sense of honor …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:26 PM
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Every human on Earth does whatever he does in order to attract the opposite sex. Sex is the ultimate and final reward a human can obtain. That's how our brains are wired. However, since we are not primates, the train of thought doesn't go: Wow, me get better job, me get better pussy. It's more in the fashion of: I'll get a better job, improve my financial situation for MYSELF, have more freedom, be more respected by my male and female peers, my parents, my brain's reward centers will fire up, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:28 AM
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You tell yourself that you know what people want and then are happy to ‘break’ them to get it. Correct. And when they get "broken" they are incredibly attracted, because it's a semi-animalistic approach and semi-we-live-in-a-society approach. If you are seducing them, why call it ‘breaking’? If you get them really excited and wanting to fuck you? I literally listed a couple of reasons a reply before. What is your issue with me saying get full enthusiastic consent? Rarely happens unless you're on…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:27 PM
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You, once again, did not read. She wants the sex. When I feel she doesn't want the sex for a reason because she's not attracted to me, then I in no way will push her. When I see it's the good girl routine, I forgot to shave, will he hurt me, will I look stupid, I'm insecure... etc. That's when I "break" her. And like I said 99% came back happily after. Can't backfire at all, I will never hurt her, I will never pass the line where I see she's clearly in panic mode and want me to stop, I will neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:08 PM
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Do you really not care if she enjoys it? First time is about conquest, therefore, I do not care if she enjoys it. However, I would be repulsed if I saw she is not even neutral, but rather hating it, I would definitely pack up my shit and leave. I don't think you understand that fucking on a first or a second date when she says "she doesn't usually do this" is probably peak of her enjoyment and excitement. I'll have to repeat, when you're doing my gameplan, it's when you see this girl will fuck y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:55 PM
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You only have to be wrong once. Can't happen. I rarely leave visible marks on any new girl that hasn't been vetted. I never forced my dick into someone. The "pushing" part is happening while she still has her clothes on for the most part. She can scream rape all she wants, I'll be guilty until proven innocent, which I will be, because the girl doesn't have any violence or forced penetration marks, and then I'll sue her and take everything she has. Fortunately I don't live in a feminist shithole …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:44 PM
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Dude, if you think the first time you fuck someone is a good time to push past their resistance to fucking you? You are risking raping. Why not just wait until you find a partner who actually wants you the way you want them? Enthusiastic consent is absolutely the best way to go when it comes to sex. And it’s a hell of a lot less risky. I am not risking raping because, as I said, I know how "Please don't slut shame me because I'm fucking you on a first date" looks and how "I'll literally scream a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:33 PM
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Of course I'm fine with pushing when it's a new girl and I'm trying to get laid as soon as possible. It's her duty to resist and play hard to get. It's just a game. Anyone experienced enough will know it. Women want to feel desired, women don't want to feel like sluts. If it's a LTR, then pushing needs to be done strategically. And begging is obviously not an option in any case. Animalistic "I WANT YOU" pushing is desired, begging, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:03 PM
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Sexual coercion is a shittest made by the modern feminists. I've spun dozens of plates, I've maybe once or twice got rejected after "sexual coercion", and I'm pretty sure it wasn't because "I coerced them into sex". The rest came back for sex again. I've explicitly said that with experience comes knowledge when it's just a game women play to feel better about themselves, and when is it rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:52 PM
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>Consent given once is not consent given forever. Being promiscious doesn't not mean you cannot be raped Absolutely. However, there's a clear distinction between guy usually has sex with a particular girl, today she didn't feel like it, she thoroughly enjoys the submissiveness, often during sex pretends to be a victim, says no but gets as wet as a waterfall and cums while he's "raping" her. And a case where a guy literally had to bruise, tear her clothes, damage her vagina, and so on to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:32 PM
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I don’t do it because it’s scumbag behaviour. Only because society said so. 18 year olds are deep into their menstruation cycles and birthing capability. Women are just far more comfortable being grasping leeches. Obviously. That's their biology, look nice and manipulate to obtain resources. That's how they survived for thousands of years, can't blame the nature for making them that way. Notice how you said you don't fuck 18 year olds because it's scumbag behavior. Nature disagrees. You only thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:47 AM
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And society still doesn't allow you to fuck teenagers. What's the problem? It isn't illegal to not want to marry someone, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 08:59 AM
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Great remark. This is why we enforced marriage and contained female sexuality. But now the "strong" workforce is not really required anymore, and the cat is out of the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:16 PM
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Women aren't unreasonable. Their biological imperative tells them to see for the highest value man. You can then say that biology is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:51 PM
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Women have always wanted to capitalize on their youth and beauty and just have fun. The only thing that stopped them was the patriarchal limitations. Now that men have given those up, they can have fun. The same goes for men, before, they were forced to grow up and start working in their teens, now, they can play video games and "go to college" for years longer, and then possibly get a job. This is a universal problem. The only reason you write about it because women won't have sex with you if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:39 AM
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They are in a book of any man who has barely any standards. If a man doesn't have standards, means he's desperate and will marry a jobless woman just to get married. Therefore, that woman married DESPITE not having a job, it was a tradeoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:35 AM
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That's about right, not many earn the big money do they. However, kids are trying and trying, so I guess we'll see who are he sluts and who aren't, but it will never become mainstream spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:23 AM
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And what are millions compared to over 3.5 billion? The market will saturate sooner or later, the Twitch is already getting saturated...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:08 PM
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Every market, including OF and Twitch thotting becomes saturated enough. At certain point most won't make any money, and minority will make a boat load of cash. Therefore, probably not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:23 AM
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When you want to do something badly, it's easy indeed. Average guy on juice looks bigger than an average guy, however, since they usually dont diet they could look "bloated". Still better than your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:20 AM
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Correct, however, they terribly want to spend it at the gym, it's not a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:56 PM
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Actually with steroids it's pretty darn easy. Being on steroids is sort of like a super power, all you want to do is pump iron and get big. The gains are multiple times better and faster than natural lifters. The dieting part could be harder for him, but once again, losing weight on steroids is multiple times easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:20 PM
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Except our sex life is great but OK The dynamic doesn't mean just sex. Well, live and let live. Absolutely, do your own thing. However, don't propangadize it as a "normal" or "why not" because it's everything but "why not".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:24 AM
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IME this actually makes living together easier, not harder. If you both have interests and hobbies outside of each other, that naturally means that you will both want to spend time apart sometimes and can do so with no hard feelings because you're both enjoying doing your own thing. That's the plan, however, I need more hobbies due to my work being from home, while she will most likely work in an office after college. Also, as a woman who hates gaming and married a gamer... please don't try to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:23 AM
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Yes, after a colleague told him that's cuckoldry. Your comment reinforce my experience that red-pillers seems to be mostly men afraid at all time to be seen as not-masculine-enough. That's not very Chad, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:06 PM
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Nothing wrong with him doing whatever the fuck he wants. However, him bringing the "im masculine you arent for not letting your wife fuck other men" is what needs to be cut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:48 PM
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For the case of argument, let's say you aren't making this up to save your face. I don't find sex yucky, I find the one thing that completely destroys the male-female sexual dynamic completely unacceptable. I'm glad you transcended the ways of men that were nurtured for a 100 thousand years, however, my girl isn't going to get plowed by other men and that won't change. Luckily hippies like you are a minority and hopefully won't propagandize more men who actually give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:54 PM
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Like many others have said, yes, for most relationships it spells doom. This is why my LTR and I haven't moved in for years now, I am extremely hesitant to do so until I save enough money to move to a bigger place where we could spend our day apart (multiple private rooms) especially for me because I work from home. I can't imagine her keeping attraction after seeing me at my fucking desk every day for the rest of her life whenever she comes home (yes, I do have hobbies but they take significant…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:04 PM
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You realize you can't pull the "I can do any sort of cuck shit because I feel confident in my masculinity" at everything you do? If having your woman get plowed by another man and then sleeping in your bed isn't the fucking line, then this world has gone to shit. Stop watching degenerate movies and following cuckoldry propaganda. A man's woman defiled by another man is the ultimate humiliation and there's no masculinity bullshit you can throw at it to make it right. P.S. if you were so masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:57 PM
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Everything you've said is partially correct only, depends on the man. You've entered a bubble of thought seeing only the extremes and you need to quit Reddit ASAP and get out into the real world before you go down the rabbit hole even deeper. You sound exactly like a newbie to TRP, still in Anger phase and not realizing that he only sees the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:55 PM
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Oof you hang out with some weird people. All men I know want children eventually. So do women, I've known a few women who said they didn't but they were mostly damaged women. Of course, I am excluding young immature people from here, I know very few under 30s how want children now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:53 PM
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As I said in many posts before. You are among minority. The dangerous thing is to propagate this to MOST women, since MOST women and men WANT children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:51 PM
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Give it a few years, you seem young. The clock usually kicks in at 30, and it kicks hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 11:25 AM
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Good luck explaining this propaganda to your primal brain that has evolved like that for around 100 thousand years. Hint: It won't go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 10:57 AM
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Toxic masculinity in this perverted society is essentially: "Dear men, we need your strength, we need your leadership, we need your numbers, we love when you defend women and the weak, we love when you fight wars to preserve our way of life, we love when you work in coal mines, we love the top tier sportsmanship in all kinds of sports - for that you need masculinity and testosterone, however, we don't like that it also makes you aggressive, violent, and patriarchal. So can you just stop doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 10:29 AM
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You'll need to be careful when doing it, obviously, social media if possible, her not wishing to talk about previous partners at all can be a mixed signal, but you will need to attempt to get her to talk about previous partners (you can talk about yours and lead by example) and see how she talks about them. There's a clear distinction about how woman talks when she was alpha widowed and when she emotionally broke up with him (the latter usually sounds like he was a loser / idiot / why was I with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 10:01 AM
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The relationship ended in their mind months before they dumped the guy. If they were dumped, they have options, and as the old saying goes: Nothing heals a broken heart better than more women. However, there's a third scenario called being Alpha Widowed (look it up) and that one damages the woman for life. It can also happen to men, in blue pill culture it's called The One That Got Away. Always inspect your woman's history, see if she was possibly Alpha Widowed, if so, RUN.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:44 PM
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English isn't considered a second language for the last 10-20 years. It's kind of a must. If you insist, a third language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:42 PM
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Then none of the research suggesting that women with high N counts have “attachment problems” are valid. They are valid because when a woman says she slept with 4, a rule of thumb is that it's 8. It's more of a joke but you get the point. Also high N count women don't usually lie. If she's done 30, fuck it what's the point of lying to make it what, 15? Lol. snort you’re forgetting that TRP discussion is viewable by anyone. You’re lying flat-out about that. TBP and TRP would be the same thing if …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:39 PM
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It was always a lie that there's someone for everyone. This is not historically true. Marriage had a good run but now it's over, the cat is out of the box. Adapt or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:44 PM
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First claim: if women and men both lie on their N-counts, then none of the research on N counts for either gender is valid, neh? Correct. Second claim: yes, people are very similar. Men and women are more alike than different, and there’s more variation between genders than the averages across genders. Men and women are very like, they both have similar goals, dreams and desires. How they operate is a completely different world. Third claim: TRP does not advocate ‘a little jealousy.’ It advocate…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:10 PM
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That seems like a very difficult, arduous process just for the possibility somewhere down the road you might get laid. Becoming a millionaire would take years. Meanwhile there's Chads who don't have to do any of this nonsense. Don't you think that being rich as fuck sounds good apart from getting laid? What happened to "there's someone out there for everyone"? 3's should be fucking 3's, 5's with 5's etc. The leftists and cucks sexually liberated women and stopped forcing them to fuck guys they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:03 PM
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I'm not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:02 PM
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Boring and dishonorable, not very motivating, barely helps with girls. The fuck. You need to get your shit together bro, soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:10 PM
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Dogs are not good judges of character, but yeah being active and passionate about something is genereally attractive. If you have a working dog breed you better have a purpose for it though, other than just playing. Any other kind of "dangerous" dog get a hard pass from me, I will assume the owner is insecure, trashy and probably have a small cock. Agreed. This I didn't have a chance to add, but this is also very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:09 PM
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This way you will dramatically increase your chances of fucking women, without it, you surely won't be fucking. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:09 PM
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Lmao that's the worst attitude I've seen in a while. With it, you'll remain a loser and cry on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:57 PM
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Here are some ideas: - Go become a millionaire - Go help the weak - Get jacked - Get a new degree - Learn another language - Learn martial arts - Become successful in a sport of your choice If that doesn't get you respect come back and I'll chop my dick off. Stop whining about what trash media is saying. You're literally entering their frame and failing the global shittest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:55 PM
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Not really. Again, context is important. If your dog pic is this that's a no. If your dog pic is this you just got yourself a pussy pass. Why? This dude is actively playing with his dog in nature. He must be active, free spirited, ready for adventure. The dog seems to be enjoying, he must be a good caretaker. Dude is dressed quite okay for playing with his dog, not pushing it, not like a hobo. He probably won't embarass me in public with his dirty clothes. Dogs like him, he must be a good person…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 02:40 PM
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Women are not as horny as men on average, but within the right context, they can be. Therefore, women are not as horny as men is a valid fact. Secondly, these Cardi B junk videos are not about sex at all when viewed from a woman's perspective, they're about power, money, domination, and status. Women are obsessed with those just as men are. When Cardi yells lick my pussy or whatever the fuck else, a woman doesn't imagine a guy licking her pussy and that's about it (Something that a man would ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:26 PM
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Correct. Women require context. The same person whose portrait with a bland background is on Tinder might get a no, however, the same person when seen in a beneficial context (popular group, working as a firefighter, playing with dogs... you name it) will get the pass. It's extremely easy once you figure this out, you can create a dope tinder profile, your pictures just need to provide context, only your face won't cut it if you're not a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:13 PM
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High N-count affecting divorce rate doesn’t distinguish between men and women. First of all, you cannot measure this. Women lie on N-count tests, so do men. Women shrink their numbers, men inflate. men and women are just not as different as you would like to think. I actually think most people are very similar, they just operate in different ways. ‘Dread’ is just making your partner insecure, by implying that you are not attached to the relationship. Dread is welcomed, also backed by the shitty …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:06 PM
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I'll repeat this, again. Male-female friendships work only if both are so unattractive/asexual that none want more. Otherwise, it's a constant struggle for one of them, never has, never going to work. OP, your friends either want to fuck you, or you're super unattractive. There's no other option. I don't mean actively want to fuck you, but if you show any interest, shit's going down. I was an acquaintance professionally with some women, you might even say this could have been a "friendship", how…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:32 PM
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You are absolutely a hypocrite. You are demanding something in other that you will not accept for yourself, despite the negative predictive factor (future infidelity) being the same. Nope, not hypocritical. It's beneficial for men to rack up a higher n-count before dedicating to a LTR (not too high) because after and only after learning how women think and operate, one can steer a relationship in a beneficial direction for both. If a man is inexperienced with the true nature of women, the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:23 PM
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I am a woman, jackass. Unless you’re a telepath, you don’t know us better than we know ourselves. That was the point. You never seduced women, and when you seduce a woman as a TRPer you pretty much see what needs to be seen, women are most careful when lying manipulating and hiding when it comes to mating strategy - and then it's all out in the open. You see it all. Sooooooo don’t sleep around yourself, you hypocrite. Men who philander (‘a couple of dozen times’ puts your n well past what I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 09:23 AM
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I understand women a hell of a lot better than you, my friend, and I understand what makes a winner on the biological level. Considering you seduced and fucked a couple dozen times less, I strongly doubt it. At least when it comes to mating strategy. I do not understand why men are so butthurt that women don’t want to settle down in their 20’s, and that they largely don’t get to marry virgins any more. Not at all. I do not expect a virgin, I simply don't expect a cum dumpster. And the standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:36 PM
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You are extremely clueless when it comes to female mating strategy. Stop telling me that men should be cucks settling down with women after they've rode miles of dick and even try to convince me that it's a good thing. I realize you want a stable loyal cuck who won't get out when he gets bored of your nagging. I truly do. Just, stop saying that it's a good thing for men to strive for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:57 PM
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You said that your personal experience trumps research. That was a profoundly stupid statement to make. In heavily politicized social sciences, I stand behind my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:54 PM
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snort ALL of the ‘alphas’ are fake. They’re men who think that they have to perform stereotypes of masculinity in order to be masculine, and react aggressively or even violently when their ‘alpha maleness’ is questioned. Wrong. This is a view of masculinity from a feminine perspective. You do not understand how it feels to be a man, you do not understand why we do the things we do. You do not understand what testosterone does to you. Feminine way is not the correct way of expressing ourselves co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:08 AM
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Wrong. I specifically said social sciences, and lol'd even harder at social sciences in 2020. If you knew what's happening around you, you'd realize I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:06 AM
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I do not need science when I have real life experience. Also social sciences, lol at that. And an even bigger lol in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 11:27 PM
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You actually mentioned qualities in a man that both alpha and beta can have. Seems like you just ran into fake alphas. Discussion over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 11:26 PM
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I don't think you understand that what I mentioned are POOR qualities. Just because your experience with higher testosterone "alphas" was a bunch of retards flexing their muscles on the beach doesn't mean that testosterone, assertiveness, strength, leadership, and so on are inherently poor qualities. You just didn't find yourself a well balanced "alpha", which is not the surprise, those are extremely rare. While I strive to be one, you could still catch me in numerous situations where I act like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:41 PM
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Just wanted to contribute. OP is currently in an anger phase after realizing the women's true nature with his own eyes, or should I say dick. It does hurt a bit finally realizing it because you spent so much time doing what you were told (the opposite) and not getting laid for years. He'll get over it, unless it sparks some new existentialist questions after your programming of decades has turned out to be a lie. But first, dude's gonna have some fun in the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 11:51 AM
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Are you thinking about a woman's political ideals before you sleep with her? No, but before I marry her? Hell yes. If my LTR was a degenerate leftist feminist that would be a hard no. It's a hard tell that she does not understand how the world works, why would I want to settle for life with someone who doesn't understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:41 AM
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You're thinking that women care about politics or Trump or anything remotely similar to that. They pretend they care because it's a popular topic. If for some reason the drama in politics would settle down, they'd just move to the next popular thing. Is she going to miss on this catch of a guy because he supports something she doesn't really care about? Hell no. Most women's (and men's!) reach when it comes to politics is writing an angry tweet or Reddit post and moving on with their day. Nobody…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:38 AM
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Again, maybe it’s like that for some men, but it’s not for women- at least, not in places where female status isn’t dependent on their relationships with men. I know that’s the pop-psychology that gets handed around on the Internet, but for people that’s just not how it goes. Incorrect. Most of your assumptions are made from scientific journals that are not allowed to dispute such claims because it would change the game upside down, and that big of a game changer would possibly be catastrophical…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:01 AM
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Beta is a low testosterone man, always in line behind the "alphas", quiet, rarely stands up for himself, you don't notice him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:58 AM
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That's a lot of rationalisation when you need to understand one thing. Women's sexuality and the thing between her legs is her biggest power. That thing is bigger than all the oil, cash, and stocks in the world. It's why wars start, it's why men work 60 hours a week, it's why men yell women and children first. After you've understood that, you need to understand one of the feminine untold laws. Women have been pushing this narrative for years, decades, centuries. "How can I be more sexual and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:40 PM
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Actually, if we're generalizing, beta boys are much more fragile, they're sometimes even so fragile that they understand how low in the hierarchy they are and you can't "shake them up" because they already know how bad it is. But yes, I agree that trads are quite fragile as well due to their inflated egos and narrow views. They're actually usually okay guys but think they are much more and that's why they're fragile in my opinion. Still above beta boys though. Just, you can shake up a trad guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:32 PM
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Not exactly. If you’ve ever taken an interpersonal communication/group communication class, you’ll see that people apply for different roles within the group, which are not necessarily heirarchical. The ‘leader’ can also be called the ‘speaker’ or ‘the facilitator,’ and they don’t necessarily get to decide who gets what, or how much. There's a "hidden" hierarchy formed at all times, to put this simply if you don't have enough social intelligence for it, men know who they can fuck with and who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:24 PM
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I understand and agree with this point, if you married a fragile man. I'm better at most things than my LTR and she's better at some than me, and one of them is even something manly, I don't feel good when it comes out because we needed it, but that's how it is, she was born with it, I wasn't. I am plenty confident that I'm great at some other things and it doesn't hurt that much that I'd need her to lie. Vet your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:15 PM
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This, if you're doing well already, and then giving some back, well, screw me but that sounds attractive and amazing to me. Imagine Chad who can beat the shit out of anyone, is hot and wealthy, but dude also gives to charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:27 AM
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Literally this, can't comprehend that someone would say women are thirstier, there's literally multiple times more testosterone in men, and our sex drive is proactive not reactive like women's. Men are multiple times more thirstier and there's science behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:10 PM
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Depends on how valuable she perceives you, I've had women buy me drinks and having sex later. However, if you're not in a super sexy setting such as a club or a bar while already wasted, I strongly suggest buying for the first round on the date and telling her to order the second and pay, playfully with a slightly commanding tone. If it's a place where you just get drinks until it's time to leave and then you pay, you're fucked and you will likely have to pay for the whole thing if you want to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:29 PM
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Ah come on. This sounds like women manipulate only when the husband is drunk and yelling... They manipulate whenever they want something. Whether it's a chocolate or to keep the drunk husband from killing her. Everyone manipulates, men too. Women just had a lot more practice with it for obvious reasons, I hope. They do it more often, and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:50 AM
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They even exist in humans to some extent. Not to some extent, every group that ever meets organizes itself in a "hierarchy" shortly after meeting. Not a publicly disclosed one, but everyone knows who is above and who is under. Humans subconsciously place themselves above and under certain people who they deem more or less worthy. Sorry, got no genes for this one again. it is not true that the alpha gets ‘everything. Never meant literally all, alpha get more, unproportionally more than beta speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:46 AM
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Out of whole Reddit I ran into a guy whose career is to prove me wrong. Now that's irony! From what I saw among the first half of your post, we seem to agree on the thing, except that my semantics were wrong. (Regarding natural selection). So I'll leave that one out. Now when it comes to hypergamy. Why do species like primates or, lately popularized by Peterson, lobsters also show a hierarchical approach to society where the alpha gets all the spoils and reproduces the most? Also there's that cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 11:20 PM
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Yes, puppy eyes, playing victim and more... classic women MO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 11:14 PM
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No you don't. Women's language is a constant reading between lines effort. I imagine while speaking to friends it's slightly more direct and clear, but never as clear as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:14 PM
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You mean doing the exact same what women do all the time in most romantic relationships and balancing the power, therefore, actually keeping the relationship alive. A classic example of women saying one thing doing another thing. Literally one of the TRP staples, watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:13 PM
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Wasn't that the whole point of the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:32 PM
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Evolution is random. I suggest a good read called "The Selfish Gene". Every evolution that ever happened, happened randomly, and persisted, obviously. As per your example regarding lactase persistance, this is not evolution per se. Think of it like this: Some dude decided to drink milk, shared with others, most clearly rejected it, but this one dude didn't have problems with it and kept drinking it. He procreated, it's possible that his children also didn't have problems with drinking milk, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:15 PM
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No. There's actually a whole debate that most TRPers due to social programming are looking for ways to maintain a marriage with strong TRP leadership. Where TRP is strictly against marriage as its a bad deal for a man. Many of the renowned members are married, as well. TRP is learning the female AND male nature and applying to every aspect of your life, whether your goal is to spin 18 year old plates or live a happy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:08 PM
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I used to hang out with such girls when I was younger, they were usually insecure and part of the alt subgroups, some grew out of it and got "normal" boyfriends, some still date pretty skinny beta boys. I guess you carved a pathway in your brain to prefer such guys and that must be the reason. The beta ones were good with you, the masculine ones weren't, you naturally went back to beta ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:41 PM
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Do some introspective on why would you want a small cute boy. Mommy syndrome? Insecurity? Since this behavior is not normal (I don't mean you're sick or something, but it's a deviation from what most women want). Maybe it helps you grow, maybe it doesn't. Just throwing my 5 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:31 PM
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Obviously not intended for the first date, we're just getting to know each other. For a FWB or relationship, yes. That's how guys talk to each other when we want to achieve something. We transmit an information, no games or reading between lines. Even though sex is most likely on the table in FWB or LTR, you still can't talk to women directly, nor they want you to. Anyway, sex isn't the point here. It's relaying any information that's supposed to tingle her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:29 PM
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but I don't like disrespect or cheating. Noone does. TRP DOES NOT encourage disrespect in a form that you think, the only disrespect we do is banter and playful negging. And, TRP does not encourage any cheating whatsoever. Spinning plates in an uncommitted relationship? Encouraged. Cheating in a LTR? No. If a guy doesn't respond to my text right away because he is a normal human with a life, great! I'm the same. 99.9% people are not that busy to constantly reply hours later. Sometimes, yes. Cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:27 PM
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It depends. Especially when you're in your 40's the game changes, bc 85% has kids at that age. True, that's a whole different age. At that point I'd go for it if the kid doesn't live with the mom anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:24 PM
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Women wouldn't participate as much as you'd like, they'd still try to catch the guy with no kids if possible and only settle with a guy with a kid if necessary. The normal dating apps are already mostly guys, let alone such an app...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:24 PM
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Character and beta boy in a same sentence. Huh. Likes saving animals and supports the downfall or patriarchy? Jokes aside, if by character you mean, he's attentive to you and not a selfish cunt, you realize that a buff wealthy guy can do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:12 PM
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SMV = Looks, wealth, power, character. If the ugly guy you mentioned has 3/4, that's an amazing deal. Don't really see the fuss? Getting a guy with all 4 is near impossible. And, the older women get, they weigh the four differently. Younger woman: Looks > power > character > wealth Older woman: Wealth > power > character > looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:07 PM
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Yes, I immediately disqualify. Single moms and single dads are mostly limited to a pool of single moms and single dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:57 PM
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High quality man is a man that has his SMV combined of looks, wealth, power, and character. A beta boy usually has few of all. Insecure girls think they look good (think skinny band frontman) but they usually look like shit, the power and wealth factor carries it all. I won't go into discussion with a woman who thinks beta boys are attractive because you're a minority and therefore not representative, therefore, not a relevant argument in a thread that says "Every woman". Of course, every woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:54 PM
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Nobody really wants a Chad, Chad is a meme college jock who pumps and dumps. However, if you want a beta boy instead of a high-quality man, work on your confidence because that's not normal. Or don't, not forcing you to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:46 PM
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In this particular example, it's not possible to undermine a 100 thousand years of evolution with a societal shift and expect people to be happy with it. They can pretend they're happy, but in reality, not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:00 PM
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Educated guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:58 PM
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You're young, it will pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:33 PM
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Actually, evolution is not what you described. Evolution is not a forced thing, evolution is a random event that happens, and then the gene line is maintained if the evolved specimen manages to reproduce, usually because the evolution event was beneficial for survival. Therefore, women have evolved to prefer men who earn more / are more successful. This is obvious why it's extremely beneficial to preserve humanity. Women who are now "forced" to downmarry won't experience the same satisfaction th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:32 PM
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This. Wrote this in a little longer format but generally this. I would be so much better off if I could communicate to women as I communicate to men, direct information exchange, no mind games, no push pull, no delays in texting. We're lifting at 4, burgers after and then some gaming sesh when we get home is how I can talk to my mates. If I apply this when talking to women: Date, 8 PM, dinner, sex after. No tingles, no emotions, no possible drama, NO DEAL. Women crave the mind games, they crave …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:21 PM
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FDS tactics are widely used by women since the dawn of time. TRP has been created to allow men to realize that and play accordingly. Women are natural Chads. They own the sex market, and sex market is the most valuable asset on Earth. Hence why they had to adapt and evolve to use the value wisely. Men are programmed by feminine society to do exactly opposite of what they should do in order to compete in this valuable market. This is simply a grand shittest thrown upon men in order to filter out …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 11:58 AM
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Women don't want to be introduced to TRP. Women don't want their imaginary bubble of spontaneous romance, mind games that they actually enjoy, and do themselves (TRP is literally just a way to handle the mind games women do). If you ask men, they'd rather be pretty straightforward, I ask you out, we have a nice date and we come home and fuck. Women don't want that, they need the push and pull, they need the late replies, "mystery", they need the anticipation. In a somewhat perverted way, when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 11:54 AM
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While Chads do bang a lot of women, they couldn't possibly bang all of them, there's plenty left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 08:56 AM
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I blame them because they are not really dark triad. I've seen it happen, they end up miserable because it takes away a lot of mental energy to fake it, comes out sooner or later after they get the girl and they end up lonely, yes. Find another way, you don't have to be full on dark triad to get girls. You can also be a normal person with hobbies, interests and somewhat good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 08:32 AM
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Even though I believe most successful men are dark triad, let's pretend that dark triad is a very bad thing. Dark triad men who are born that way can't be blamed for how their brain works, as far as I know there's no cure for dark triad and that's about it. But, lets call dark triad shit. Now you have women, lets call them flies, sticking to shit like its glue. Nobody forces them. They just do. Consciously or unconciously? If it's conciously, then I blame them, if it's a biological feature to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 09:23 AM
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Amongst other things yes. Instead of blaming dark triad men and TRP, blame women for being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:10 PM
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Np I misread you as a woman. TRP is not that and you're just making yourself feel better by simplifying it. TRP, if I try to simplify it, like you did. Is a manual that shows you how things actually work regarding social dynamics. It's up to the user how shall he interpret it and use the knowledge. My current LTR, unless she snooped on my PC, does not know I'm a TRPer or what it is at all. She may say I'm being a dick, conservative, stubborn, not feelzy enough. But when you think about it, that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:52 PM
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What happened is that you were a lower quality man in the eyes of women (hopefully now you're much better!) and you tried to skip the YEARS of internalizing by imitating the cocky professionals and wondered why women are not buying your fakeness. Seen it with my own eyes with a couple of friends. Some of them started lifting a few months ago, packed barely noticeable muscle, were still very insecure and dorky, yet tried the "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" routine. Doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:54 AM
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You're trying to deconstruct TRP to a simpleton model and equalizing it to make it look like early 90s PUA in order to make yourself feel better and thinking you now know the deal and a LTR who is a TRPer cannot happen to you. Thing is, you won't know is your BF a TRPer if he doesn't want you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:51 AM
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>Sounds like a pretty shitty way to live IMO, imagine on your deathbed never having experienced true intimacy. This dramatic ending is clearly the basis of your post. You're once again looking at men from the feminine imperative perspective. Men should have more feelz, feelz are where its at. No feelz on deathbed, what a sad life! Men are MUCH more fulfilled with a sense of purpose, contributing to themselves, their family and their society. Having "true intimacy" and feeling like you're 16 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:42 AM
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Cyber and trade warfare, I doubt biological warfare. Modern warfare is all about subtlety, we're watching a world war right now (trade wars), BLM movement, Hong Kong, Belarus protests, Covid mass control etc... This is modern warfare to a seeing eye. Regarding MGTOW terrorists, I doubt it honestly, most of MGTOWs and 30y old virgins are afraid to fight themselves and change themselves, let alone hurt other people / die for a cause. I think they will do a good job in tranquilizing them further to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:15 AM
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This is a crucial point a lot of people don't seem to understand. Hypergamy needs to be curtailed in order to give average guys a purpose. If the bottom 80% of guys feel they have no chance then they will give up and the world will grind to a halt. They may even start attacking the top 20% of guys. Religion and laws were introduced to curtail female hypergamy but over the last 50 years we have said to hell with it. Over the next few hundred years we will see how the bottom 80% respond. With sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:56 PM
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Yeah of course, cutting off a long term acquintance is unreasonable, I would probably avoid them but definitely not burn the bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:19 PM
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Ideally, yes. But everytime that guy sees you all he will want to do is fuck you. It's doomed. Chit chat and small talk during group meetings and so on, of course, otherwise I would also get out when rejected, don't need to torture myself further.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:47 PM
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Then how the fuck did I get here? LOL. Why then did not all us average guys get culled from the herd and why are we even here? A: There might be more going on that just "physical alpha" males being the only ones reproducing. Let's face it, no matter how much brawn Caveman Chad had, he'd still get mauled by the tiger, or stomped by the mammoth. Intelligence has a role as well. So, I get that women are hardwired to get wet for the physical alpha who is also dominant socially. I'm an average guy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:46 PM
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Because it reinforces the belief that men need women mostly for sex. He doesn't want to be my friend? See, he only wanted me for sex, am I not good company if I don't spread my legs? Yeah, pretty much. I prefer to hang with my mates instead of girls if there's no leg spreading. Nothing wrong with that, just because I don't want to be your friend doesn't mean you suck, I just have better options for friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:21 PM
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This is why I think a lot of average guys are frustrated. The expectations of the average woman are simply laughable. This is biology 101, this isn't related to instagram (instagram does accentuate it though, but is not a source), it's a mere biological mechanism that allows the human race to thrive. That Chad caveman having children with 10 women is a better deal for the race than if each of those women had a child with an average man. A race needs prime specimens to survive, and women evolved …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:26 AM
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In the title of your post, which is completely false. Come back after reading a sidebar and I'll gladly have a discussion if you still feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:00 PM
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Read through the sidebar material and come back for a discussion, otherwise you're just making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:31 PM
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You didn't understand TRP. TRP =/= PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:57 PM
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I guess I'm just missing how it's some kind of honor that a guy will house you in exchange for sex? As I said, guys could do it with gay men but they don't... While sex is the primary driver. It's not just sex, there's emotional support, someone to talk to, someone to be there for you, someone to cook, clean and a bunch of other blue pill bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:26 PM
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My parents divorced, my mom has had multiple men willing to marry her even though she's FAR from hot. She refused and wanted to be single I guess (translation: they weren't good enough). For every woman no matter how fat or ugly she is, there is a lonely man willing to marry, the problem is they refuse to. And, those men have jobs, a house, which is by far better than paying your own bills alone. They just don't meet their standards. would you want to house some dowdy older woman with no money N…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:10 PM
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Homeless women is a true strawman. Quite rare, and usually includes drug addiction or mental damage. We're talking regular women who were abandoned by their husbands. I've never met a woman in my life who didn't have at least a couple of men ready to take care of them at moment's notice. Their standards though...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:01 PM
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SMV is reduced with age, regardless of gender. People can become wealthier, or savvier as they age, which elevates their perceived value - but if they had been just that wealthy and savvy when they were younger or beautiful, their SMV would have been higher. Just look at how women fawn over pop and kpop stars. The billionaire main character of 50 Shades of Grey is 27 years old - given that book was a fantasy for millions of women, they would have made him 40 if that were "peak" SMV. Even RMV fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:48 AM
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Hey hol'up. Who said anything about dating? I'm talking about women giving up their best years to be a corporate slave, delaying motherhood, and then further not nurturing their child enough because they have to work, otherwise husband's money isn't enough. And then a majority looks back on their life and thinks what the fuck have I done. A minority manages a higher paying job, a good family - work balance and says I'm glad feminism happened. That's my whole point. This actually happens to men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:50 PM
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High n-count encouragement is just a shittest for women. Those who rack it up, have lower quality life, marriage, and mental state. TRP men gladly hop in for the ride. Those who pass the shittest, simply don't rack up the n-count, and have the opposite of what the ones who failed the shittest have. And, just to be clear, if TRP could hypothetically choose whether they want all women to be virgins and no casual sex is available, or having to go through the efforts of finding a woman who is actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:59 PM
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How does this post contribute though? Of course most people are fuckups, that means most women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:22 AM
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You are in the higher echelon, I did mention it's better for those women. Majority are not high earners, and have it worse. Yes, they can play video games, and mountain bike like you, not sure if that's a good tradeoff when you're a slave for another person 40 hours a week though. Maybe. I'm also a high earner, working for someone 40 hours a week to barely meet ends sounds like something I'd blow my brains out for on the first week. Yet, women seem to embrace it. Because they can do a lot of stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:19 AM
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Correct, and that is why women were SAHMs, submissive, supportive, bubbly whatever the fuck people call it. Now when life is much easier than it was and men are not as needed as they were, unnatural ideas like feminism and equality arise. As soon as the first disaster strikes and men are needed once again, things will return to mean, which is full-on patriarchy. Men will die for women once again. Society is a product of its time. History doesn't repeat itself, but it often rhymes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 10:48 PM
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I don't understand what are you referencing to, can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 10:11 PM
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They've been brainwashed into thinking that being a woman sucks and men have it better. Little do they know that life for an average man is far worse than for an average woman. The only time it's better to be a man if you're top tier genetics/accomplishments. They've been brainwashed into thinking that being a slave for a corporation is a good thing, because of freedom. When all it brought is stress and bare means of survival for them. When once again, only the top tier women enjoy the benefits …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:59 PM
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TRP has been plagued by angry kids for the last year or two. The sidebar material is where its at. The subreddit has gone to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:44 PM
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You pass if you have control over your shit, you're not insecure, you learn from your mistakes, you do not dwell. TRP does not advise ignoring your LTR (ignoring plates is the way to go indeed). Pushing your interest over someone is once again a very broad topic and cannot be summarized without a specific example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 02:03 PM
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In your exact specific example where two people are discussing relationship issues and it gets uncomfortable, how you respond, how you handle the talk and how you handle the past damage will decide how the other partner sees you after the talk, therefore, shittest. If it helps you, maybe forget the word shittest and try to realize that everyone will keep forming opinions on you, every single day, every single conversation, how you handle yourself is how they treat you and give you imaginary minu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 10:31 AM
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You don't. Someone literally offending you because they're mad at you is a shittest just like the playful banter. Hence why I said, whether it's funny or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:02 PM
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Anything that is supposed to make you uncomfortable unless you respond appropriately, whether it's funny or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:55 PM
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If you don't believe in shittests by women, then it would be best to realize that everyone is shittesting, including men. Do you know that friendly banter? That's shittesting, if you handle it like shit, you failed. Shittesting is so ingrained in our beings that blue pillers don't even realize what they're doing. Women are also rarely thinking "I'm going to say this now and see how he handles it in order to decide is he worthy or not!", it's just regular banter that all people do, however, when …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:11 PM
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This, most breakups of long relationships were done months before the "official act".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 06:28 PM
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Don't see how, since those women I mentioned are a strong minority, not many people around here have been with such a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 09:44 PM
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That is not what I said. However, a girl raised like a Navy cadet definitely is not as feminine as your ordinary princess. I would refrain from going from case to case as it does not help with anything, we need to discuss society wise, aka majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:50 PM
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It sounds like that woman is a toddler. I guess because I have my own shit going on (gym, hobbies) I just don’t understand why some females act like that. Don’t get me wrong men can be like that (neediness/validation) I dated one and it was extremely exhausting. She's not a toddler, however, the more feminine a women is, the more childish she is. You can of course get yourself one of those top lawyer women with 3 hobbies while managing 5 kids. However, those are often quite androgenous with exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:02 PM
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Refer to my long ass post somewhere on this thread for further explanation how to have your turn for a longer time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:00 PM
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What I've learned after 3 years of my first commited LTR is that you can never relax (I don't mean relax on a sunday evening), I mean relax in general. Has she fallen in love with you when you were hitting the gym 4 times a week with sub 15% body fat looking better than 90%? Well you better fucking keep hitting the gym with the same intensity. Has she fallen in love with you when you were doing 2 hobbies per week and even had to cancel some dates because of them? You better keep doing that. Were…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:58 PM
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Exactly, and this is the case. If we put it on paper, she will have a very hard time finding a better deal. However, feelz are feelz. It's just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:47 PM
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Actually it makes women wiser too. When she says she's done with the Chads and ready to settle for Billy, etc. They also find out what do they want out of a man by riding the CC. However, the issue is that women are more impulsive and emotional than men. This makes it hard to control the damaged pair bonding, comparing, etc. This is why you don't want a high N woman. She isn't a dumb puppy that jumps on a whistle and runs to another man, the problem is that her emotionality and impulsivity make …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:47 PM
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You're either lying or you have the weirdest personality, a nice guy mixed with an aggressive jock? Weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 09:38 AM
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Everyone holds power over someone at any given point. There is no zero-sum in human relations. You need to absorb that. If you don't like to be "too powerful" you can try and balance it out to make it more enjoyable for the person not holding the power, which is what I do, but someone holds power at all given times. And if you care about biology at all, you should know it needs to be a man in a relationship. Secondly, pretending not the care while you depend on the relationship a lot is a recipe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:36 AM
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Lets hypothetically say this is all true. I'm sorry then! It didn't work out for you. You are an exception to the rule. This is the point, the narrative is dangerous for the masses and the civilization (falling birth rate). Just like if all men in the world suddenly got red pilled would be a danger to the society, because society needs blue pill men to keep the cogs running.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:21 PM
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I do not have children, yet. However, I am positive that a planned parenthood is one of the most fulfilling things a human being can do. Fun is overrated, feeling fulfilled is where true happiness lies. Every hardship you just mentioned just makes it even more fulfilling. Even if this were true, they had a lot of fun up until 40. You're overrating the amount of fun they probably had. You skipped the part where I said that most childless people are living just as boring life as parents. Get off I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:06 PM
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Exactly. Just the thing is, most of those childless people don't do super interesting things and have just as boring life as most people, and they didn't fulfill their primary biological imperative which would make most miserable. I repeat, most, there truly are cool wine aunts and cool worldly uncles, however, those are a strong minority and it's dangerous for the feminists to push that narrative onto the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 09:52 AM
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Because imagine telling your friends and family that your guy is not only a slimebag but also an "insert offensive gay words". Pure disgust. Did you make him gay? Was he gay all along? When he cheats with a woman, a woman still respects him somewhat, especially if the second girl is hotter. However, cheating with a man means she loses most if not all respect for him because women don't respect gay men. Unpopular non PC opinion, ready for downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:16 PM
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Since I am in the top 20% I reap the benefits. Whenever I see a dude approaching and winning, I cheer for him so hard, unless he's cringey of course, then I laugh at a comedy sketch. I also dedicate some of my time here online to hopefully educate men because I feel great satisfaction when a guy scores. I guess it's my way of coping with the unfairness of the sexual market. To be clear, I do not endorse rape, lying, or anything forced, I truly enjoy when a guy organically scores, even if it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:52 AM
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There we have it, mental instability and insecurity manifested through cock carousel riding. Had a couple of similar plates, I'm sure some are extremely faithful to their hubbies now, who probably won't get anal but hey. I really didn't want this to go this way where I have to be this harsh but seems like I've hit the spot and got a reaction like this from you. And, btw, I DO NOT hate women like you. People are people, people make dumb choices, I don't hate you for that, I've done a fair share o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:16 PM
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None. Both are a recipe for disaster. If gun to the head, option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:40 PM
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There's sure as hell less women with high n-count who won't cheat than women with low n-count who won't cheat. You need to stop thinking on a person to person basis and think on a society basis. For every high n-count women who will be the perfect wife, there's 2 more that will screw it up. Therefore, suggesting that high n-count women are a desirable partner is a terrible strategy when considering the society as a whole, and there's research to back it up. Before you go on a misogyny rant, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:31 PM
4

Correct. However, to be fair, men are becoming weak and feminized as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:22 PM
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I found one. I went through A LOT of plates before her and I've learned about most of the red flags, high n-count usually is one, it doesn't only signal lack of pair bonding, it also signals impulsivity, mental disorders and so on. Props for you if you managed to rack up a high n-count and remain sane and extremely faithful, however, you're an exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:59 PM
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That's a hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:56 PM
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Because finding a quality LTR is already hard enough, I sure as fuck won't waste time vetting high n-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:08 PM
1

Not black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:08 AM
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Then you should suggest it to her, why order for her? This is not why gentlemen order for women in high end restaurants, it's a power move, and the gentleman will also pay for it in the end, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:13 AM
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You are correct in your statement, an average worker these days is poorer than an average worker back in the day. This is a direct result of capitalism (importing cheap labor, exporting operations to cheap labor countries). While I am a capitalist myself, the current system is making an average man poorer and poorer. Miss me with that socialistic bullshit just to be clear, however, capitalism in this form needs a rework. Now, onto the part of changing your mind. You are missing the fact that NOT…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:00 AM
1

What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:51 PM
2

Getting away with denying her autonomy, as per the 3rd wave feminism narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:51 PM
2

I'm in such a LTR. She doesn't know my n count but she knows it's fairly high. I am positive it bothers her in terms of how faithful will I be, but otherwise, generally admires me for it. She's very well aware that in order to get a high N count as a man you really need to have your shit together if you're not a trust fund pretty boy or a college jock. I'm positive that if she found out the real N count the reaction would be fairly negative but only short term due to the reason above, a high N c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:16 PM
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You're forgetting that feminism is a shittest. If you're rich and hot enough, no, none of those brainwashed chicks would risk speaking up in fear of losing the "catch". This is seen over and over, you can get away with anything if your SMV is high enough. I'm not saying you need to be a high-end movie star to get away with anything, a slightly above average guy will get away with certain things that women would give him shit for, the higher the SMV, the more shit you can get away with. Always ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:09 PM
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Their game is very simple when it comes to the seduction part, maybe some push-pull, mind games etc. just like all people. But when it comes to the relationship that's where their game starts, and it's light years ahead men's relationship game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:27 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:47 PM
2

This. Funny how women on this sub act smart yet they still think that a proper neg is "Did you gain weight?".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:45 PM
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Can confirm, spun many plates, chose the "prude".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:58 PM
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High ranking women are far from the normative. For the record, I am an avid supporter of the fact that women are capable of achieving greatness, just in lesser numbers than men. Not sure what you're doing right now, trying to prove me that men are not more direct when it comes to conflicts because you've never seen a fight, which was anyway a hyperbolic way of expressing directness vs subtlety and behind-your-back shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:30 PM
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This is why I mentioned that it doesn't have to be a physical assault, it can be a straight up calling someone out. Depends on the work environment obviously. Miners are most likely to physically handle it, programmers obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:51 PM
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Rollo explained the evolutionary reasoning in the post that I sent and it works quite well, you explained it well as well. I believe you're saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:50 PM
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Correct, Rollo Tomassi has written about the Sisterhood. TL;DR they do it to cover each other's nonsense and lies in order to prosper and counter the male Brotherhood. As soon as there is no male around to counter with Sisterhood, they rip each other apart, when a masculine power comes into play and threatens them, Sisterhood kicks in and they protect each other. (Think Patriarchy as the best example)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:25 PM
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In a direct and physical way, yes. But there are a ton of ways women will ruin each other's lives, often even harder than a man would ruin another man's (a good old fight or just facing you right away in a less physical way when it comes to men's conflicts). I would personally rather step on a man's toes than on a woman's, especially in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:16 PM
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As I said, after a hierarchy is established, the constant chit chat and attempts at backstabbing are made. This is probably due to the lack of aggression and physical retaliation when such things are done, a lack of consequences per se. When you talk shit behind a guy's back in a male-dominated office, one wrong move and you might get your ass kicked, or face the consequences in a less physical way right away. While in a women's office, the retaliation is mostly done the same was as the assault,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:13 PM
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You need to understand that the phrase per se exists, but is not used. In public and when not threatened, women will spew nonsense and support each other no matter what. But when it comes to closed doors and cameras off, they rip each other apart harder than men due to the inability to establish a hierarchy (think women only office) and respect one in case one was made.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:36 PM
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You're wrong, not everyone is losing, those who figure out this grand shittest come out on top. And this whole be nice and respectful isn't little lie women tell in order to win. It's a lie orchestrated by the men in power for centuries if not since the beginning of a nuclear family in order to keep the men in line, promising them pussy if they're polite, do their job and keep their mouth shut. Do you really think the elites want that every man out there starts lifting, thinking with his head, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:18 PM
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It's rather simple. Because it's threatening if you're unattractive. It makes the woman scared and disrupts whatever she's been doing a moment before. She now has a potential rapist in the back of her head and the feeling intensifies when there's more of them. Of course, if the guy is hot, the stares are welcomed. However, a hot guy usually also knows he isn't supposed to stare like a retard, but rather do it subtly and at the right time. So, in general, it boils down to subjectively unattractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:54 AM
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I am aware, not a good situation on the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:13 AM
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Higher than 5 by 25 is high n-count. Higher than 10 by 30 is high n-count. If your standards are far away from this, prepare to be cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:03 AM
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No, we're not going to double standard it. The point of this post is get your shit together or at least don't tell about it until you get it together.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 08:40 PM
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While the OP has made it quite black and white, both of you are not completely correct. The only thing that I would like you to understand is that relationships are based on creating a fantasy of your partner and maintaining it. This is biology 101 and you will see a lot of BP research on this topic. ​ Therefore, your girl, and YOU (yes, all of you) have created a fantasy version of your LTR (Don't get me wrong, not saying you think your girlfriend is a goddess, I hope!) that is not objectively …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 08:39 PM
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While it's always better to start off strong and in an "asshole" way and calibrate yourself in a LTR to a masculine, yet human version instead of starting off like a pussy and then enforcing masculinity, this post makes it all black and white while it isn't like that. In a LTR, or hell, even a hookup during the courting phase it is welcomed to show weakness. But not like the bitch in the OP's post. Showing weakness should be done ONLY, and ONLY after you've overcome the obstacle and made it a le…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 08:31 PM
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Yes, they do but they will let you know that you're not fucking because she's acting nice, not because you're unattractive. Possibly subtly. And they will deny sex to a potential LTR only if they've vetted him as a guy who would wait (not "alpha" enough). Otherwise, they won't risk it and will jump into bed and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:51 PM
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I don't assume they will be intentionally cucked. They will hamster it as being progressive and eat shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:07 PM
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"Normal" men won't commit, on the contrary, they will be inclined to shift towards even more extremist views. However, simps and soyboys will be committing with attempts to virtue signal their progressiveness. Since we're seeing more and more of these pathetic human beings, they could actually skew the statistics towards "men are committing to thots more".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:07 AM
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Correct from my experience as an ex heavy plate spinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:59 PM
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I agree. It's a subconscious thing, you know, just like the one where a woman knows whether she wants to fuck you within first 7 seconds (myth or not, the time frames are very short) or just like a hierarchy. When hierarchy is formed (shortly after a group assembles) unless it's a business environment, people don't usually write down who is who in the hierarchy, they just know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:29 AM
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Well, you must be one promiscuous lesbian then. Discussing what happens after a sexual relationship was not the topic. Even though the post is deleted, he was referring to getting laid by lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 11:36 PM
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Odds are, I've been with multiple times more vaginas than you have. Thanks, but I'll stick to empirical evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 07:48 PM
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Wrong. Women if not heavily intoxicated / recently traumatized / damaged will not sleep early with men who they deem lower value. If they deem you lower value, you will get asked if this is serious before sex (testing how beta bucks are you). Therefore, higher value (relative, not absolute, therefore, only higher than her, if she's a 5 you can be a 6 and it still works.) men DO NOT get asked this in fear of blowing it up and acting needy, when they're dating a higher than themselves value man, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:50 PM
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Never ever told a girl I want something serious when I didn't. But guess what, they didn't dare to ask before we've banged a lot of times anyway. Why? They were lower SMV than me, therefore, they were afraid to blow it up by asking and kept looking for subtle signals. After not finding them, they would either straight up ask or just leave. A couple of them did ask eventually, presumably because I gave a couple of subtle signals, I actually did say go with the flow who knows, and I did mean it. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:11 PM
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Of course he would, too bad she wouldn't respect words from an emotional tampon. However, I reckon a frequency of shittests would increase, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 03:15 PM
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Correct answer. To expand, it stems from selfish reasons. Women know that men when horny would plow just about anything, therefore, he was thinking with this dick and this doesn't say much ABOUT HER. Finding an emotional connection with someone else means that SHE isn't good enough. When men see the woman cheat emotionally, it hurts less because women make friends and beta emotional tampon friends all the time. (Hell sometimes I'd wish my GF finds a cuck to be her emotional tampon, or well, at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 02:44 PM
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Do a simple test, do not flaunt money, do not drive an expensive car, go and get a date, pay 50/50. If that works, there, you got the girl with your looks and personality and not money. In the end, it's not wrong to attract women with money. Money = power. Just don't end up buying the love. Keep the gifts to a reasonable rate, do not become a sugar daddy. It's okay to pay on a date, it's ok to buy a gift for a birthday, Christmas, anniversary, and maybe a couple more a year. I'm in a position wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:39 PM
1

Now you know. Sundays are possibly the best days to hit up plates, especially if you do it right when the night falls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:37 PM
0

On Sundays, especially after a night out, people are weakest, subject to needy emotions, and under the heavy impression of all the eye candy from last night. This has nothing to do with make-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:06 AM
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Insecurity. Men say they prefer women without makeup because they think makeup signals sluttiness, lack of loyalty, fakeness, and all the other things you DO NOT want in a wife. Their hamster believes that a woman without makeup is a unicorn, godgiven, not like the other girls, and so on. Logical fallacy driven by insecurity. When they should actually be encouraging a healthy dose of makeup because looks are everything for women and there are studies showing that people treat women better when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:00 AM
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Many people, including men, live life on easier mode than ever before in the Western world. Hence the rise in depression and mental disorders. An old saying goes: "Boredom is the devil's playground". Hence why we see Western women having a steeper increase in mental disorders than men, partly due to their biology and predisposition to mental disorders, and partly because their lives are easier than ever before in history. Therefore, we have a conundrum, life on easy mode (access to resources, su…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:13 PM
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The wall is as real as ever, just it's not 30s anymore but rather 35s and early 40s due to medical and technological improvements, life standard and life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:36 AM
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I don't think you're equipped well enough to carry on this debate. The arguments on are on a level of an angsty teenage girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:54 PM
1

The same logic applies. Everything we do is deeply rooted in getting access to a romantic partner and reproducing. I guess understanding this is not crucial to one's well being but it's the truth. I also think you've edited your comment afterward to make mine look off-point, not cool. You've clearly talked about appearance before editing the comment and even added the "care about having great lives".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:11 PM
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The first one is real self improvement, the second one is a shortcut. Both sexes take the shortcut first because it's easier, women more often, naturally, due not being pressured into self-improving because of the how sexual market works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:04 PM
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Women do it to impress other women, which then provides access to more men (competition eliminated), which in the end results in sex and romance. The primary driver of humanity. I thought the "I'm putting makeup to make myself look pretty!" was dead by now... Jeez people still believing this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:02 PM
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Of course, women can and will self-improve if one is capable of it. However, the "problem" is that many women won't go as far as some men in accepting reality. By reality I mean, male self-improvement when it comes to romance would be, lift, groom, go out, practice approaches, create opportunities, approach, make it fucking happen. When it comes to women (and many men), they mostly don't want to interfere with the "fate" when it comes to romantic success. You will see many, if not most blue pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:58 PM
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I don't think you're aware that there's not much to see when it comes to men and women in general, slightly more when it comes to women from my experience. The first thing a man sees is fuck / or not fuck, nothing wrong with that. Later on, if there's something to be seen, it will be seen, rest assured. Most people (men and women!) haven't got much to offer, therefore most women will be considered a "masturbation aid". In reverse roles, most women see most men as tools to get their own way as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:17 PM
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Came here to say this but you already did it. I would like to add that the only person who will appreciate and understand your struggle, and even bond over it is the person who went through the same thing. Girl appreciating your dieting and hard work at the gym? Has she ever done that? Odds are no. Therefore she can't even fathom it. The girl is a successful entrepreneur just like you are - yes, she will appreciate it when you tell her about the heavy client you just had today and deal with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 11:40 AM
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The biological clock starts running faster and faster as they approach late 20s, with every year even faster. Most will GLADLY change their mind soon enough. (Similar thing applies to men as well, just not as fast)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 10:58 PM
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The wall is real, however, the modern TRP doesn't take in the equation that 40 is the new 35. The easier lifestyle, advancements in skincare products, better medical care and so on are making women delay the wall longer and longer. TRP is also focusing too much on wrinkles and fat. That's only the minor part, and a lesser one in the modern times. However, the two major factors that are the true wall are: Reproductive clock Lack of "good men" in their words, translated to RP, men that are stable,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:31 PM
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Not related, I'm saying I've been liked by women because I was a cute boyfriend material guy, and I've been liked for being a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 02:55 PM
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This is the nature of the sexual market. It's like saying hey if all humans were 150 IQ we'd be on Mars by now. Therefore, you can't blame men, but rather biology. And that sounds like a waste of time to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:49 AM
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Okay! And that's great, however, maintaining that throughout years and years is what's extremely tasking and impossible for most if not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 10:09 AM
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Of course many men will stop growing. People will be people. Stopping to grow after you've fulfilled your primary biological imperative (reproduction) or at least tricking your brain you're safe now and going towards reproduction (LTR) will make you relax and kill your drive to grow slowly and steadily. Add up age on top of that, relentless shittesting in marriage, keeping the bedroom alive, taking care of the family, children etc. The list goes on. Regarding the boiling frog analogy, you took i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:58 AM
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Been on both. That's why I clearly understand the contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:53 PM
2

Every man in a LTR is experiencing the boiling frog effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:53 PM
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Saying you're "beta" as soon as you marry would be hyperbolizing. However, you are immediately a notch down from "Alpha" (don't prefer that term tbh) and on the road to becoming a real "beta". ​ It's an every day struggle until you finally break down and don't recognize the man you were before. It's too mentally taxing and challenging to remain "alpha" during LTR or marriage. The most realistic outcome is that you don't become too "beta" so she dumps your ass but do your best to maintain a somew…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:08 PM
0

Not only it exists, I regularly get it "black on white" by female friends and plates. Clear as day. Heard it so many times that I just chuckle now whenever I hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:06 PM
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No, they don't go through the process exactly like that, but the result of your theory is correct. The process is more similar to this, in short: If she notices a lot more likes on IG / attention IRL / compliments. She will raise her standards solely based on makeup. Because a person can only raise her standards after receiving positive feedback, aka the thing actually works. Therefore, no make up > less attention > lower standard. Makeup > more attention > higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:48 PM
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While you are more or less correct. However, men on average are more honorable, rational and less solipsistic/labile. Meaning, more connected to the factual reality when deciding to do one of these "human traits". All in all, more reliable and consistent. And that's why I'll do business, deals, debating and so on with a man rather than a woman. The good old yin and yang, chaos and order.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:44 PM
2

Are you serious? You're saying a bluepilled, not groomed, not well dressed chubby guy will start racking up N count only if he ditches the losers? The actual fuck... that's a variable in the formula, a minor one. A groomed good looking RP based Chad can go out with a bunch of WoW players and get laid, beta Billy going out with a group of Chads won't be noticed. Not sure if serious tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:58 AM
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I'm her first and would have loved to try an LTR with her (or maybe not) but I'm not done with my n-count self-improvement path. You need to get your N count to very minimum of 5 before trying any LTR. You won't be able to maintain a LTR if you lack experience, or you will be you will always feel like you're settling and not fulfilling yourself fully. Hard move, wouldn't want to be in your skin to break up over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:46 PM
2

A truly minor part, the attitude, no grooming, no muscle was the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:45 PM
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Correct. OP is mentioning that women like skinny undeveloped guys in his country. OP is most likely a teen or early 20s where that look is often popular due to bands / artists being skinny undeveloped guys so the chicks probably go for those types of dudes because they're similar. However, as soon as they mature that look is frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:03 PM
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Most Beckys won't get to ride with Chad. There's just too many Beckys and not so many Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:15 PM
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While your post may hold some weight, it's also quite wrong. For instance, while I was a semi-chad material all along, for the bigger part of my teen years I used to hang with the nerds/musicians/alt guys. Complete contraries to stereotypical Chad. We actually laughed at Chad's because they're just pieces of buff dumb meat. However, we didn't care because they were getting the Staceys and we told ourselves we don't want a Stacey anyway, she's also a dumb blonde. We wanted a smart nerdy girl that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:48 AM
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Women don't understand that, in their eyes their pussy is rather simple to get, you just "need to get it". When someone can't get pussy they're disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 10:01 PM
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Because it means you had to pay to get something so simple as a pussy. Instant turn off. You must be weird, ugly, retarded, whatever else comes to your mind when showing disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:27 PM
1

Women aren't jealous, they're bitter because the gym allows you to become bigger and more confident when you weren't born with it. It's similar to make-up, they know it's fake, they do it because they're insecure and they project the same thoughts onto the gym. If you're lifting and trying to get bigger, you must be insecure and genetically poor, therefore a combination of an insecure guy masking his insecurity and trying to "cheat" his way into her panties with something that you weren't born w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:23 PM
1

Pair bonding is real and I feel it myself. High N count damaged my pair bonding and the only thing saving me is my high rationality and introspective. Young people are getting divorced because they're young, stupid, don't know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:43 PM
1

30s is a broad term. It can be 30 or 39. 10 by 39 is fine. 10 by 30 is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:42 PM
1

N count of 10 by 30 is high. If I had learned my LTR has 10 by 30 that would be a hard next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:42 PM
1

Not sure if serious. Tell that to the most men who never rack up 10 in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:41 PM
1

Pair bonding is a real thing and you can see it right now, you don't need studies. A woman has an N count of 10, and marries the 11th. ​ 11th guy is now compared to the previous 10. Statistically, the 11th in most cases is NOT going to be the most endowed / richest / emotionally available / most educated / best lover. Choose one or more. Therefore what happened here is that the women "settled" in a way that she chose to ignore that he has a smaller dick than the 6th guy, but he's very rich/educa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:20 PM
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As far as I know, the number of times young people have sex is trending down. Casual sex is on the rise indeed, but from my experience most women that are not damaged goods stop riding the carousel after a couple of Tinder / Club dicks because they realize it's not what the want. California, Reddit, and similar decadent bubbles are not what I would pull as relevant data, those are extremes. Hence why you will hear that 10-15-20 N count for women by 30 is not high, when in reality it's SUPER high…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:05 PM
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This is the progressive narrative that I'm not buying into. Looking for a woman with an N count less than 8 is MUCH easier than you think. The Reddit bubble and progressive narrative is blurring your view. Many, many women do not rack up more than 8, let alone 10 by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:01 PM
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Correct, most men, there are numbers to back this up. You guys are doing great but should probably slow down. N count of 20 at 20 is insanely high and consider yourself a pussy slayer. Now chill out before you ruin your pair-bonding capability completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:59 PM
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With every dick, your pair-bonding capability drops. 12 by 30 is considered high biologically wise. I don't care what the progressives and the current world narrative say about an acceptable N count. Your hindbrain doesn't work that way. Just to be clear, this is also valid for men. Men also lose pair-bonding capability with each pussy. However, the number is, naturally, higher than for women. Meaning, men can get more pussy than women can get dicks in order to maintain healthy pair-bonding capa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:56 PM
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You got lucky then that the 12th was the best one. Most are not that lucky. And damn, 12. Most guys never reach 12 in their lifetime. Red flag for me and is what I would call riding the carousel, even though many progressives and post-modernists would call a reasonable number. Studies and common sense have shown that's way too high by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:34 AM
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That's great for you, however, as you state you were not riding high SMV dicks via tinder and clubs. From my experience, even serial monogamist girls have a dick or two in between relationships just because they can, and are "wild and free", hence why my 4-10 calculation. You were a serial monogamist with apparently no dicks in between and you found the best deal right now and getting married. The ideal scenario as a matter of fact. A disclaimer for men reading, the minority of women are like yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:08 AM
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From my observational and empirical experience (double digit N count) many of the girls I plated actually ended up in a relationship with a more stable (beta by TRP standards) men not long after I plated them. From what I gathered, most of them tried a couple of dicks, one night stands, and plate relationships and then moved on to the "real thing". What I'm saying is, most of my plates weren't your TRP fantasy thots that ride a new dick every day. They were more "the ordinary girl" type. However…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 11:48 PM
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No, they don't. Your anecdotal examples are just, anecdotal. It's time to start looking at it from a different perspective. As you said, the muscles in your anecdotal examples were a good bonus. Period. They're a bonus, they look well, no matter how hot or ugly you are, they're a bonus. Extra points. Nothing to discuss here. Now, let me present some anecdotal examples myself. Lifting for 8 years now. Went from fatty > ripped > fit look (while still trying to get bigger and stronger, and trust me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:21 PM
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