rowang96 Archive

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1	People with siblings of the opposite gender, did it influene your view on who has it easier? I mean every feminist I know also advocates for abolishing gender roles in men, which is why they talk about the patriarchy being harmful to us all. And while there are actual MRAs who aren’t sexist the majority of them have harmful views about women, and don’t recognize the ways that they are being disadvantaged are also due to the patriarchy. Many PUAs genuinely recommend abusive behaviour in order to get women interested, and then claim it’s evidence that that’s what women want, when in reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 05:34 PM
2	People with siblings of the opposite gender, did it influene your view on who has it easier? I am just as sympathetic to you as I am to anyone else who can’t find the type of partner they’re looking for, which is to say, that’s tough, I relate and understand, but you’re also shooting yourself in the foot. If you want someone who doesn’t expect you to fulfill traditionally masculine roles, then you’re looking for a feminist. But by aligning yourself with redpill ideology no feminist is going to want to be with you, because you will be perpetuating misogyny. You may want a family and kids…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 05:16 PM
2	People with siblings of the opposite gender, did it influene your view on who has it easier? Lol if you don’t want to do what you think is expected of you then don’t. Nobody is forcing you to be a provider. Nobody is forcing you to marry someone who has slept with more people than you. Nobody is forcing you to be with someone who is bad with kids or earns less. You don’t feel like you’re getting a “fair deal”? That’s how life works. I suggest getting to a place where you are comfortable with the idea of being single, and recognize that just be society pushes a romantic partnership and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 03:13 PM
4	TRP, Late Stage Capitalism, and The monetization of sex & relationships You don’t know what late stage capitalism is and yet you feel like you have the place to criticize anti capitalist view points… yeah it’s clearly you who is lacking both understanding and perspective. People who are anti cap know exactly how capitalism works, and how it’s supposed to work, it’s not a complex system to understand, and it’s not a difficult system to notice the many flaws within.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:35 PM
1	'Men also seek the prettiest, youngest women' is true, but a red herring This is LITERALLY the dumbest shit I’ve ever read. Cheating isn’t worse when it’s done by women, you’re just a fucking misogynist	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:28 PM
3	'Men also seek the prettiest, youngest women' is true, but a red herring This is entirely untrue, you could do a simple google search and see that men are significantly more likely to leave if they have fo fill a caregiver role as a partner. Like this information is readily available, not only are they more likely to leave, women are often expected to do more of the housework and will often have their symptoms minimized. So I’m not sure where you’re getting this information aside from your feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:24 PM
3	A sentient android would be a better wife or husband than a human spouse If your ideal partner means never having to compromise and having a being that submits to your every desire… then that’s not a partner, and I think it would likely create serious issues with your ability to empathize. Sidenote I would encourage you to do some research into why aspergers is an extremely harmful term to the autistic community and only serves to create divide and serve capitalism. Autism is autism regardless of presentation and aspergers has roots in nazism and is very ableist	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:12 AM
1	Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone. Issues in relationship are almost entirely on both sides. Again that has nothing to do with anything I’m saying. Obviously you should take time between each relationship to grow and evaluate yourself as a partner. You should also take time and evaluate what you need in a partner. Just because you don’t see people trying to introspect about their standards after a relationship doesn’t mean that isn’t happening. And if that’s the case with the majority of the people you surround yourself with, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:43 AM
1	Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone. Yeah I mean obviously relationships don’t always work out, and after a failed relationship then you can reevaluate your standards to not end up in another dysfunctional relationship going forward. Having high standards is not automatically synonymous with having healthy standards. However having no standards automatically leaves you open to what will almost always be unhealthy relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:35 AM
4	Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone. No. Not everyone is compatible, if people don’t have standards, even if they manage to get in a relationship is will not be successful and will likely breed resentment	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 11:11 PM
2	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also People have different levels of comfort depending on the situation, the dynamic, and the expectations moving forward. If you’re too insecure about people’s past sexual history, and feel the need to compare your dynamic to theirs to make sure you’re getting the same treatment, then you’re probably too immature to be in a relationship in the first place. Hope this helps!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 06:05 PM
12	Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone. FR men will brag about having no standards, as if it’s better to be with someone you are totally incompatible with than you just be alone. You have to be in a place where you are comfortable with the idea of being alone before you can date successfully imo. It poses different problems for men vs women but ultimately it’s bad for everyone. If we didn’t live in a society where a monogamous romantic relationship where the end goal is creating an individual family unit, was the end all and be all of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:57 PM
6	Not only are you a beta male simp pussy you're also a moron if your solution to paternity fraud is it has to be government mandated. Right, I mean she wouldn’t feel personally slighted, it would still definitely change her perspective on how he sees women or relationships as a whole, and it would be well within her right to decide she didn’t want to have kids with someone who was so mistrustful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 08:00 PM
14	Not only are you a beta male simp pussy you're also a moron if your solution to paternity fraud is it has to be government mandated. Tbh like this is something that should be talked about before the baby is even in the picture. Like I too would be mad if I’d already had a child w someone and then later they wanted a paternity test. But if someone makes it clear they’re only willing to have/support a child with proven paternity and the woman goes into it knowing that, then she wouldn’t feel slighted or accused when it was time for it to happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 06:56 PM
1	Q4W, Have you tried inserting yourself into male friend groups, and if so, why? I don’t care if you remove it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 06:44 PM
1	Q4W, Have you tried inserting yourself into male friend groups, and if so, why? He literally discussing how he bullied someone to the point of them crying. That is absolutely a personal attack, sure it may not be a personal attack on me, but it’s literally no different. He clearly finds joy from personally attacking individuals. Additionally my remarks were not an attack. He in fact does sound like a terrible person. He made reference to a homophobic joke he made, so me calling him homophobic is an observation not a personal attack. He is not only generalizing women but als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 06:31 PM
1	Q4W, Have you tried inserting yourself into male friend groups, and if so, why? The initial comment was full of personal attacks, so why shouldn’t the same be allowed in return?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 03:43 PM
1	Why in humans there is more patriarchy rather than matriarchy accross multiple different cultures or societies? Religion is the big one, cultures have no all been historically patriarchal, but the patriarchy seeks to expand power in a way that matriarchal societies have no had a tendency to do. Christianity is a fascist and patriarchal religion at its core, and has done its best to spread to every portion of the globe that it can. The fact that before reproductive healthcare was available women would often be forced into situations where they were extremely vulnerable and thus dependent is another big one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:07 PM
1	Quantity for men, quality for women How will reality hit me? It’s not as though I have a high number of sexual partners, I’m simply aware that it’s not a determining factor in someone’s worth. I also don’t believe that monogamy is the gold standard for a healthy relationship. Also if people are going to cheat they’re going to cheat. I know people who have cheated after having only one sexual partner and people who have cheated after having 40+ sexual partners. Someone’s ability to be an open communicator has literally nothing to d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:00 PM
1	Quantity for men, quality for women Anyone who think previous sexual partners reduces a persons worth, is not someone worth dating in the first place. So luckily your opinion is irrelevant, hope this helps!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 01:45 PM
7	Quantity for men, quality for women Tbh anyone who is seeking out quantity of partners over quality is clearly looking to fill an internal void. Like there’s nothing wrong w having many sexual partners, it doesn’t inherently reduce your worth, however if your goal is just to sleep with anyone who would sleep with you… yeah people like that probably aren’t in a healthy enough space to be seeking out relationships at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 05:22 AM
3	The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as men Maybe if you were consistently sent photos from people who did not care about your comfort level you would find it off putting too. If you were aware someone was actively disrespecting you and objectifying you and you still found yourself wanting to have sex with them that says less about your sex drive and more about your relationship with your self worth. Get well soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 10:37 PM
1	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? This is completely irrelevant to what I said. People can use people in many many ways and money is by no means the most common or the most damaging. If you don’t want to give someone money it’s really easy not too. Emotional reciprocity, reciprocity of time, reciprocity of care and of general generosity are much more difficult to measure than money. Imbalanced relationships happen in all different types of dynamics and I sincerely encourage you to expand your thinking on this topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 10:23 PM
1	How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships? Anyone who would prefer and be fulfilled by a relationship w a doll probably shouldn’t be in a relationship in the first place. That being said if it provides people joy and minimizes the likelihood that they will harm others because they have an outlet, then I’m all for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:28 PM
3	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? I mean this can be true of any type of friendship. Ensuring you aren’t being taken advantage of isn’t a gender specific issue, it’s important to make sure any friendship you’re in has a degree of reciprocity	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:22 PM
2	Do older women resent younger women ? I mean older women who have internalized misogyny and are upholding patriarchal values both resent and shame younger women yeah. I would hope that most women have the capacity to recognize and unlearn these things are they get older. It’s also difficult if you’re involved in a religion like Christianity which is in and of itself stepped in patriarchal values	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:14 PM
2	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Lmao if you’re that pressed just learn how to wear makeup, literally nothing is stopping you except your own hang ups. Additionally most men can’t even recognize or appreciate the artistry that goes into makeup so they are definitely not the target audience, and again if you lack the ability to tell when someone is clearly wearing a full face of makeup and then you feel deceived that is a you problem. Makeup is SO obvious if you know what you’re looking for	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 01:11 PM
1	The idea that women use men for free food is bullshit Exactly and it’s not as though you can’t find people who prioritize money, but living is a capitalist society and being angry that dating is expensive just seems foolish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 05:45 PM
1	Women have far more freedom with their future aspirations than men do The sentiment is not taught in the same way to men. Women have a systematic history of being abused in relationships where they have no escape due to financial abuse. Men are taught to be independent but they aren’t taught that they could end up being trapped with an abusive woman if they don’t have a good paying job. Women are becoming more educated for a reason, because they have had to be reliant on men who have taken advantage of, and actively harmed them for decades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 12:58 PM
4	Women have far more freedom with their future aspirations than men do Exactly lmao, as if most women have the luxury to pursue a job that will help their partnership instead of because they need money to live, this post is coming from an extremely privileged perspective. Not to mention that many women do not feel safe relying on their partner for financial support because that can often lead to them being abused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 12:55 PM
1	The idea that women use men for free food is bullshit Exactly like there are many people who would happily take someone out to dinner in the hopes of it becoming more, but understanding that may not be the case. Men really just shouldn’t offer to spend money they don’t have, I think that’s what creates resentment. Any dating is a gamble, and it’s possible a women could meet with the expectation of dinner and then hit it off. If you’re going out with a stranger, the knowledge that you’ll be getting a nice dinner, can be enough to convince someone to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 12:53 PM
2	Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men? Mutual discussing emotions is not at all what “expecting emotional labour” means, nice try tho dumbass	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 10:50 PM
0	Do women really care about height as much as PPD claims they do? When I was young I cared about height a lot due to my own insecurities about being short and not liking the idea of potentially having children that would deal with all of the bullying that I had to deal with growing up. But once I was able to work through my personal hang ups height became fairly irrelevant, though it is nice to have someone who can reach tall things, a step stool is an easy fix	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 10:24 PM
2	Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men? Many men expect their romantic relationship to the the most if not the only important relationship in their life. Many men are not vulnerable or intimate with their friends. Many men expect the emotional labour of a partner to make their own life easier so they feel robbed when they have to meet their own needs. Comparatively most women have close friends that are emotionally supportive and available, not to mention most women who have given up on relationships have done so because having a shit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 10:19 PM
7	Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relations You’re arguing with a bunch of women cuz you don’t like the answer you’re getting, most men can’t make a woman cum. Men know they will usually climax during sex women don’t. Women choosing not to have sex isn’t due to lack of sexual desire but lack of desire to have an utterly unfulfilling experience. Not to mention that birth control is known to negatively impact libido, which doesn’t mean their innate desire to have sex is lower. Men also equate almost all physical intimacy for desire for sex,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 03:32 AM
2	Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup? If you know literally nothing about them how could you even know if you’re going to be sexually compatible? How do you have any idea if she’s interested in you? It’s not that honesty is the problem, trust me I’m autistic and I wish people would be more straight forward, but intentionally putting someone on the spot, as well as forcing them to engage in a conversation that is sexual w ZERO knowledge of their comfort level, is gross. The reason it’s gross isn’t because you’re being honest, it’s be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:07 AM
1	CMV: If you believe it's fine that dating is not fair for men, you have to apply that to women too Some of this is mad dumb. Like it’s just the way it is that datings unfair, but it’s not okay if men are labelled as losers or subhumans for their difficulty in dating. Just like it’s not okay to label women negatively for deciding to engage in behaviour some may consider promiscuous. Like we can recognize that certain things may be innately unfair without using that to judge other people. Like if men prefer stay at home women that’s fine, as long as they aren’t being rude or derogatory to women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 10:35 AM