rowli98 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Female PUA Pointers Girl here, I have never had sex on the first date without getting a second one. Hell, several of them became boyfriends later.	/r/seduction	28/02/13 07:46 AM
1	Female PUA Pointers I disagree. I have a very attractive female friend who has done this multiple times. Generally, men are so freaked out by it that they say no, even if they know her quite well.	/r/seduction	28/02/13 07:45 AM
1	Is there a 'game' to get a girl interested in you again after she has left you? My friend swears by the silent/cold shoulder treatment to get any girl back. Details of his play inside, thoughts? Well, whatever action you decide to take, good luck! I just think your friend has the action right: cold shoulder, move on... but the motivation wrong. You should drop her from your life because she doesn't want to be in your life , and life is too short to waste with girls who don't appreciate you. If she realizes that she appreciates you later on, that's cool, but in the mean time it seems best to focus on other things.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 02:37 AM
1	Is there a 'game' to get a girl interested in you again after she has left you? My friend swears by the silent/cold shoulder treatment to get any girl back. Details of his play inside, thoughts? Women have a tendency to be less confident and secure in their own decisions. Don't have much experience with women, do you?	/r/seduction	03/01/13 02:29 AM
2	Is there a 'game' to get a girl interested in you again after she has left you? My friend swears by the silent/cold shoulder treatment to get any girl back. Details of his play inside, thoughts? This may not always work. Generally speaking, when I end it with a boyfriend/fwb, there's a good reason. I think most of the time the guy doesn't contact me after I end things, but I haven't gone back to him or called him. I'd really advise leaving her alone, not because you'll get back with her, but just because...why be with a girl who doesn't want you? Why waste time contacting someone who doesn't like you? There's plenty of others out there.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 02:27 AM
8	Out of curiosity, why does most of reddit have a negative stigma towards seddit? From my perspective? I thought Seddit sounded like a good idea until I came here. As a girl, the sexism here is very off putting. Seddit is good in that most of you seem to value women who enjoy sex (most of you don't slut shame)...but bad in the whole, "women just need to look pretty to get laid!" deal. It's more complicated than that. Also Last Minute Resistance, and how to overcome it. When I've seen threads like that, there are always responses that make me go O.O As someone who has been in …	/r/seduction	17/12/12 11:18 PM
2	40m needs help. Before it stops working. Mm this part is interesting "Your default attitude is that all guys approaching you are 'creepy' unless you like them and then it's not creepy." I've heard this before, and again, it isn't true. Often you meet a guy who is very attractive, and then does something "creepy" to make you dislike them- usually along the lines of touching you too soon/too sexually, or making an extremely sexual comment early in conversation. (These are things OP should avoid) Acting overly sexually will put even an at…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 09:23 PM
1	40m needs help. Before it stops working. Real facts: Most older men come up to younger women and A. compliment you on your appearance with no other introduction to conversation. B. almost universally make a comment on how your personality is "mature for your age", while having no evidence besides a brief conversation to base this idea on. C. Try to touch you way too soon. Congratulations on your 18 years younger ex girlfriend, but facts are facts, most older men hitting on younger girls come across as super creepy. The man you're givin…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 09:02 PM
1	I'm in my 30s and live in a tiny studio apartment in Chicago. Is that a major turn-off? Girl here (bi, if it matters.) The answer is maybe. Some women find financial status super important, and you probably won't have a long term hookup with them. That said, a good friend of mine, who is extremely attractive, spent about 10 months hooking up with a guy who was dead broke- he was confident, and didn't make it an issue. My advice would be don't act insecure about it. If you act insecure, it will definitely be a problem.	/r/seduction	09/12/12 08:38 PM
2	40m needs help. Before it stops working. Girl here...this line "Your biggest challenge as an older guy is that you must not intimidate younger women." Is just not true. I'm early 20's, get hit on by older men fairly regularly. His biggest challenge by far will be not coming across as creepy. Of all the 30+ men who have hit on me, only 2 have managed it. (My female friends all agree) Life experience is all well and good, but the physical appearance changes quite a bit from 20's to 40's. He'll have to really play up his career/wealth/suc…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 08:31 PM