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| 2 | 4 Answers To A Simple Problemnot sexual excitement but providorship. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/23 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Can you guys expand on the idea of frame?look into my post history, there is a post about frame on the main subreddit. It's has a short and clear explanation and example. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How to improve speech? (mumbling, stutter)look up adhd, look up cluttering speech | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 5 | What if she has a high body count, but is an exceptionally devoted and trustworthy partner?It's not about your view on her, but about her view on you. Maybe not now, but in the future. Sure you can love her despite knowing what's eventually to come. Just know that your love is also a consequence of your lack of choice, i.e. scarcity mentality. You've said it yourself: she's most aligned to your image of a unicorn, she is THE ONLY ONE (in your world, at the moment). Makes complete sense not to want to face reality. However that's no reason for us not to tell you the truth. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Loner and the up hill battlefind a goal to focus on, even if it's online gaming. just stop being alone with your thoughts so much. learn to control your thoughts by meditating. try wim hoff method. sound like you have some discipline, use it! take care. feel free to send me a pm | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so difficult to get respect in a group who knew you when you had low SMV?you get new friends through experiencing things together. join a club, society, ... sports, .. become the initiator. host parties and gatherings. problem is: a) it's difficult, you have to put in a lot of time and work b) with covid, not the best timing c) you already have a bond with the other group, albeit a low value one | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | High value guy - thought I had vetted LTR well - she cheated with a fat loser.Flabbergasted as well. Please get the answer and let us know. My take: you haven't been giving her enough attention (you don't even see her every weekend?), she got some tingles from the fat fuck. Also even though his appearance is shit, he could give 0 fucks and have an attractive attitude, at least at that time. She'll regret it when she sees the reality of what a loser Steven is. Please keep us posted if you ever find out why she did it (chances are slim she's aware of the reason and tell you… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Are some guys really arrogant because they've gone way too long without someone putting them in check?inner delusion sounds like 'be irrationally self confident' | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Are some guys really arrogant because they've gone way too long without someone putting them in check?The guy is making jokes with you like he's known you for five years, but you don't even know his name and he just met you 5 seconds ago. The type to hit on your girlfriend in front of you and talk shit about you while you're standing right next to her. The guy to speak over you, interrupt you, or just not answer you when you ask him a question. This guy probably doesn't lift, definitely has never trained MMA, but is still somehow more confident than you. sounds awesome, I'm kind of jealous of hi… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Practical guide to motivation, even though you should rely on disciplineI agree. What would be your advice to fight complacency and get a new drive to do better? These are 2 different journeys: 1 where you want the destination (my example), another where you don't want the destination (complacency, your example). If there is no goal, discipline won't help you get anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/20 03:19 PM |
| 3 | FrameIf the CEO is AMOG in your frame, then there's no frame conflict and your date will be attracted to him. If the CEO is not AMOG in his frame (because of lack of social skills, understanding of women, ..), even though he is CEO, then there is no frame conflict as you are AMOG. Your date will be attracted to you. If the CEO is AMOG in his frame, and he is not AMOG in your frame, then you should show to your date that your frame (context: social dynamics, not business hierarchy) is stronger. Do tak… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] question. Does anyone here believe love exists?I, too, wonder about this. I believe in the feeling of being in love as I've felt it before. I do not believe there is a feeling linked to 'love', except maybe for your children / when someone you love goes away/dies/.. You don't love her, you love the feeling she gives you (and vice versa). What you feel is probably the ego boost you're getting when she's higher SMV. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Sadness phase, end good ltr, what is love, .. Makes me fucking depressedIt's not pedestalizing. Read the sadness phase. https://archive.is/Vc7oA Also the top comment by archwinger is great He sees her humanity. [...] He feels for her. And in another comment That's only natural, it's called having empathy and being a human being instead of a total sociopath | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Sadness phase, end good ltr, what is love, .. Makes me fucking depressedPedestalizing women = attributing them higher SMV than they really are. Not what I'm doing. Have you ever alpha widowed someone? I have. They send me messages even though they're in a relationship with a beta (and have 2 kids even). They also say the relationship sucks and they miss how it was between us. They had children with the beta because they approached the wall / infertility. But their love life is ruined. I am the cause of alpha widowing someone. My current LTR is as green flagged as th… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome scarcity of quality?you'll never get over this unless you meet someone of higher smv. 'alpha widower'. do take into account that you probably used to be lower smv, hence the difference between your smv and hers used to be big, which gave you strong emotions. now your smv has risen and it'll become even more difficult to get those feelings. long story short: focus on someone of equal or higher smv than your ex | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | There's so few things I'm interested inI know he's right. All relationships end, just my turn, ... But I'm not bragging or anything, rather I'm admitting a weakness. Not the point of this thread though. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | There's so few things I'm interested inyeah this could make sense. thanks | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | There's so few things I'm interested inok mate thanks for your constructive reply. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 09:46 AM |
| 0 | There's so few things I'm interested inyeah, I meant theoretical knowledge :) problem with my LTR is: she's nothing but green flags (red pilled father, very low n-count, ..) and doesn't deserve to be alpha widowed. My catholic upbringing prevents me from being that selfish and hurting her / ruining her life (like I did before with other women). Also she moved from her country to mine without asking anything in return. All my family and friends love her. Catch 22: my sexual strategy suffers for being in an LTR, my conscience would suf… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do I keep “backing out” when i am close to a break through? Or feel like i may be... (revelations after shaving my head). Dead serious.and then everything will make even less sense cracked me up :D | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 32 | You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelitymore red flags than a communist parade in China had me laugh out loud. have my upvote! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Gather your tribe, do not homogenize yourself.sign up at subreddit the_fraternity | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/19 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Do women actually hit on you guys?yes, they approach. but they're not 9's and 10's. mostly 6,7, occasional 8. it doesn't happen often. maybe 1/month at most. fyi, I live in western europe, 6ft3, lift, ok in looks, .. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 11:42 AM |
| 1 | request: post on dominance vs friendliness (~agreeableness)awesome :) thanks | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRthanks for the mature discussion | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRI agree. I know high n-count for men is attractive to women, preselection etc. A woman can be high SMV, alpha widowed and still be attractive. Yet she is a red flag for an LTR. A man can be attractive as well, even though he still craves higher SMV (or has a oneitis) but still be a red flag for LTR. Actually, having a high n-count itself is an indicator that a man is not looking to settle down and be monogamous with a woman whose SMV deteriorates over time. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRAgreed. How do you explain oneitis from an evolutionary perspective? Sexual strategy is all about finding the best genes to reproduce, so your children have a higher chance of surviving & reproducing. Therefore it does make sense that you try to fuck the highest SMV women you encounter. I don't think our goal is to fuck ALL the women, as I am repulsed by low SMV women. So our nature isn't to fuck all women, it's to fuck the highest SMV women possible. Once you fucked high SMV women, an explanati… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRWhat I actually meant was 'how to demolish the oneitis in my head'. E.g.: Oneitis phase: she's a unicorn. Then consciously redefine the image: she shits like everyone else Leads to: she's not a unicorn. But I don't think that adds up emotionally as you will still crave a woman of higher SMV. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRThanks for your reply, good reminders. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRExcellent point! How do you explain oneitis from a biological standpoint? Maybe it's only psychological? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis vs alpha widow, high n-count red flag for a man as well? LTRAlthough I completely agree, that's not the question. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Is there a female game? How can a girl learn to be more seductive?I actually disagree. We talk about women being hypergamous. To me this means that she will branch swing if you are lower value, or she will dump you if she can get higher value. The exact same thing a man would do. What is sexually empowered other than wanting to be a man? She decided she would take the lead of the relationships, did it, got disappointed at her partners and at herself (because she feels bad for failing to be her man's supportive rock and because she realized they need it), fucke… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Is there a female game? How can a girl learn to be more seductive?about female dating books: Most of them insisted that I ought to remain passive in order to gain a man’s attention, that I should just go out and sit at a bar and wait for a man to approach me, and that if he didn’t approach me then he just wasn’t that into me and that I should just accept it and move on. Or that I should get a man by just “being myself,” but that being myself also meant going to the gym, dressing up, and wearing makeup. There was some serious disconnect here. interesting. she's… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 02:41 PM |
| 2 | What to do whenThose who cannot decipher the meaning of its text will go insane with madness and throw an SJW hissy fit while those who are enlightened find success with both business and women. hahahahahahah, golden | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 02:10 PM |
| 2 | How would you have handled this? Guy with two hot girls at a cafeteriaBoth. This also negs the women a bit as you are obviously not just interested in them, shows you are a social guy, etc | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Witty response to seal the deal?"my presence/attention/.." | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Where do I start?read everything mentioned in the sidebar, twice. but first get a membership at your local gym and get a workout schedule | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 12:14 PM |
| 2 | How would you have handled this? Guy with two hot girls at a cafeteriaFirst you could disarm the guy by not making it obvious you are amoging him directly. Then get to know them all, trade numbers with a plan to meet later, obviously don't invite the dude. Or do, if you think you could amog him easily / if he is low value. Read the mystery method or any other book on game. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 12:10 PM |
| 7 | What to do when you know your girlfriend is attracted to someone around you, and he'll be around for a while.To be honest, we always had a 100% honesty policy and it has never backfired. Have you paid attention to her actions rather than her words? I was thinking of telling her that I think she has a thing for him, and that it's bothering me. Because I don't want to let the situation escalate. Don't show weakness. Rather tell her they should date. You could also punish bad behavior and occupy her mind / feelz by doing so (run some dread game), preventing her to think about / getting feelz for the other… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Women only get into me once they get to know me, how to fix this?awesome bot | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Women only get into me once they get to know me, how to fix this?Which country do you live in? Have you observed your body language? Have you read the charisma myth? Seems like you need to improve your game. You start off by saying that when they get to know you, they like you, but you end with not even a kiss and no success? Not really congruent. PM me for a more personal discussion. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Very very weird situation - Need helpThis post I wrote a while earlier describes your situation perfectly: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6825gv/the_actual_real_reason_hot_girls_make_you_nervous/ | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 12:32 PM |
| 911 | Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. "The 48 laws of power, law 38: "Think as you like, but behave like others". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Losing My Inner FireRead books about happiness and stoicism. I'm reading Solve for Happy. Our current culture has trained us into believing that financial security, making big money, .. will bring us happiness, but it doesn't. Note: it also doesn't bring us unhappiness, so I'm not advising you to stop doing that. Plenty of people are rich, famous, .. but eventually that doesn't cut it anymore (hedonic adaptation) and deep within they are unhappy. Solve for happy is a book writtin by a very rich guy working at Googl… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?if you haven't yet, check out motivation vs discipline on trp. good luck in college. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?being alone is not a curse, especially if you're an introvert. it's not because society tells you you should never be alone, that you shouldn't. I assume you're rather new to trp. keep on reading and improving. all that you want is within your power. don't hide your inaction behind the 'i'm an introvert' excuse. you don't like going out as much as extraverts (in your opinion)? too bad. life is not fair. it'll be a little harder on you (or that's what you think). don't complain. accept, work, imp… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Plate of 1 year is so generous and satisfactory that I've dropped all others for total lack of interest. How do I avoid oneitis?you mean art of manliness' brad pitt rule? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0hlpctj0qs | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 12:20 PM |
| 3 | ~~she's not yours, it's only your turn~~ you're not hers, it's only her turn. LTR or not?Thanks for challenging my view. I think it's important to note what "She's not mine; it's just my turn" really means. To me it meant that she is in power (as in gatekeeper of commitment), while apparently it just means that every relationship is always temporary, even if you hold the power. 'You're the prize' and 'man is gatekeeper of commitment' aren't really consistent with 'it's just your turn'. But probably I've been taking it too literally. Lesson learned. 'It's just her turn' on the other … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 10:41 AM |
| 1 | ~~she's not yours, it's only your turn~~ you're not hers, it's only her turn. LTR or not?women ultimately chose who they are in a relationship with women choose who they have sex with, not who they have a relationship with (of course she chooses, but men are the gatekeepers of commitment) Plating is actually exactly what 'her turn' means. If you don't commit, it's just her turn. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 10:30 AM |
| 3 | ~~she's not yours, it's only your turn~~ you're not hers, it's only her turn. LTR or not?/u/VasiliyZaitzev, as you're older: what's your experience with women getting bored? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 07:52 AM |
| 1 | I think even a RP life is only 'okay'This is a troubling statement, it to me implies that you will one day revert back to old habits or cease your growth, potentially ruining your LTR. Correct, even though we cannot predict the future. Maybe one day you'll lose the joy of the grind and what happens then? All I can say is that, at the time, I have the discipline to grow, even though I don't enjoy the grind. You are a man, therefore we do not ask why we grind, but give us the strength to grind longer and harder. To me, this is the sa… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I think even a RP life is only 'okay'Thanks for the reply. I think my goal can be to become a personal coach in helping men through their red pill journey. I'll work on it. About children: I am prepared for a ton of work, leadership and mentorship. However, even this might not ensure their happy life. How do you envision your children's future? At 6 years old, I think there's less worrying and everything will be smooth still, what about puberty/..? My brother's child for instance is very small for his age. His life will be worse th… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 11:03 AM |
| 1 | I think even a RP life is only 'okay'I mean 'someday' (she's 26, so in a few years). I just included the part as I think agreeing on wanting to have children is important in an LTR. About wife vs GF: I'm not planning on getting married, although in my country, the divorce laws are different from America's and prenup is the standard. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 10:52 AM |
| 1 | field report on the speed date with the VIPthanks for this post, was hoping to get it in the original, but I learnt the hard way. My answers are shown short, but I actually did talk a bit more. This is just to show how it went, but it's quite fuzzy. You are right about the frame though. I just believe it would have been easier to lead if she weren't acting as / hadn't achied the status of the prize to be won. She used to work for the radio so she was used to chatting and 'leading a conversation', but indeed I should learn to lead, genera… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Got selected for a (speed) date with a VIP by sending a mail, any tips?It was okay, had a good laugh with my wingman. Also it was a valuable experience as you can read in the FR. It's one thing knowing RP, another thing applying. I thought I reached amused mastery during/after the speed date, comparing myself to the others. I also was a little disappointed not being selected as I had expected to have succeeded phase 1 of my plan. I planned to get more out of it, get some small media attention and pump & dump her eventually, getting some social proof etc. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Got selected for a (speed) date with a VIP by sending a mail, any tips?Just take a look at this link: http://www.p-magazine.be/shoot/nasrien-cnops They were too bèta to think anything of her behaviour. When I arrived, there were already 12 guys drooling all over her, and even more came in; she kept commenting on 'oops' (it was said there would be 10) and talking about herself. I thought the whole situation was pathetic, and she loved the attention (even from from that type of guys). I think they thought they were lucky to be there (being selected out of 500+ candid… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Got selected for a (speed) date with a VIP by sending a mail, any tips?followup: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3ugahe/field_report_on_the_speed_date_with_the_vip/ | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Got selected for a (speed) date with a VIP by sending a mail, any tips?I was aiming to plate Michelle Obama, but Alba and Kunis will do as well. Nice thinking though | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Got selected for a (speed) date with a VIP by sending a mail, any tips?true. With make up she was an 8. The link does include a bad picture of her though. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 10:33 AM |
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