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rpisnotpua/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:41 PM
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rpisnotpua/r/askTRP18/11/15 05:50 AM
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rpisnotpua/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:29 AM
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Online dating and long-distance dating are impractical. Don't do both at once.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:36 AM
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Keep it simple. Making your own food will reduce the fat by a ton just because restaurants always cook with unnecessary amounts of fat. Eat enough protein, add rice/complex carb and vegetables. Buy spices and experiment with them.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:34 AM
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They fall for hamsters who can LTR-signal.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:32 AM
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I find myself raising my standards (for others) as a result of raising my standards (for myself).
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:27 AM
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Keep people in your life who add value. Remove people who aren't worth the effort. It's pretty straightforward. "If I were a girl, would I be delighted to LTR him?"
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:23 AM
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You don't make a beta less beta by making him dependent on your advice.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 07:02 PM
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Nice username, OP. There aren't many alpha models out there--being that good looking means you trip and fall in pussy. As for whether to do it--there's nothing beta about making the most amount of money with the least amount of effort. If you're cut out for modeling, it's free money. Keep working on yourself, don't rest on your laurels. That industry chews people up and spits them out.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:53 PM
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When she asks for your number: personal experience, it's because emotions are fading and you should have asked for hers already. Asking too early and her saying "not yet" is better. They rarely say "not yet".
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:47 PM
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Don't worry about what you prefer. Life is random. Play the hand you're dealt. Different plates get different rules. Don't make rules unless there's something in it for you--logic turns off the feelings, and they probably won't remember it anyway. Incerase lifespan: kissing, free dates with touching. Decrease lifespan: gm/gn texts, taking her on dates and paying for her, dates without touching, being mushy.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:44 PM
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trollll
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:40 PM
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Wolf of Wall Street.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:38 PM
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Yes, but is a huge beta any time his wife or daughter is around. It's like flipping a switch. Also, he's high half the time, so it's hard to tell whether he's high or just naturally aloof.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:38 PM
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She lives with ex and gets high with him. I'm betting she doesn't fuck him. Maybe for his birthday. It's a bad idea to live with girls because it lets them control you way too much. If she lives with him, she knows what he's doing all of the time, which means if she's fucxking him, he's not fucking anyone else. If she's provisioning you (food and drugs) then she's trying to keep you, trying to make you have feelings for her. In any case, if you're getting too close, taking a break is absolutely …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:37 PM
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Don't talk. Don't reason. She tries to leave before you're done, you grab her and push her back down. Repeat until you get tired of it. Caveman style.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:34 PM
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Did you escalate when you met up? Did you get IoIs? If no, don't waste your time. 3-date rule.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:31 PM
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2nd rule of social savviness: don't be clever. Don't try to open their eyes or impress them with how original you are. It's an exam, not a dissertation. You're not there to change any minds.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:30 PM
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Is there any point in being attractive to women if you're attracted to men? Because that's what "alpha" is. Serious question.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:28 PM
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You're allowed to take a break and pull out and grope her and kiss her. There are no rules. You do what you feel like. Sometimes that means busting in 30 seconds, and she'll take it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:25 PM
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Having a resting mean face is good for guys. A resting doe-eyed face is really ahrd to overcome. You got lucky. Smile when something is funny to you. Turn it off, turn it on. Smile 25% of the time.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:21 PM
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We don't say "go fuck 20 more" because we're saying you're bad at it. We're saying, that after 20 women, you'll see that they all have a lot in common. Your special girl isn't that special.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:19 PM
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The difference between a nerd and anyone else is sense of humor. Nerds miss jokes and take everything seriously. They believe what they're told and take criticism to heart. Once you learn that social skill, you transform from beta bucks to six-figures and sexy. That is literally the difference. No change in hobbies or career. There's nothing standing between good grades and huge biceps (and going to parties). You can have both. People were doing it in high school. Not many, but it was done. The …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:16 PM
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Picture yourself as the grade school bully and he's one of your flunkies, jus tstanding at your side, all he has to do is laugh and nod. Now take the second-best girl and he gets the best one.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:10 PM
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Solution to so many problems is: date younger women.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:08 PM
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Sounds like she's being submissive. The kitcehn is your thing in her mind, and she does whatever she's asked. So ask her to prpare something. Start easy, like turkey sandwiches. Then pasta. I'm betting she'll continue to do as she's asked. Right now, it seems to me that you're complaining that she's not taking the initiative enough and not crossing your boundaries. That's a good thing. You can build on that. Hoping that she'll read your mind and surprise you with exactly what you want is a girl …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:00 PM
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I didn't see how what I said to her was a rejection if I told her to come hangout but maybe she could have perceived it that way. She perceived it that way. Girls are extremely sensitive to rejection. Having a good reason is still rejection in their minds. (Which is why politeness is coming up with an excuse to not do something with a beta--they rejected him and it's just his social inadequacy which makes him keep chasing her, not any fault of hers.) Pretend like it never happened. Revisiting ol…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 05:01 AM
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Different kinds of birth control do different things.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 05:00 AM
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Whiel true, this is exactly what you should not say. Respond emotionally, not logically. "Chicks dig nerds."
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:45 AM
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"Having zero interest" is hamstering for "I'm afraid" [of wasting my time] [or something else]. Don't ever convince yourself not to do something on the basis that you don't care.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:42 AM
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I gave her some shit about being quiet during sex and she hit me with a long paragraph about how she wasn't used to different positions etc. inexperienced basically. You made her feel insecure. She also texted me another long one explaining what she likes in bed and what she enjoyed while fucking me. Then she felt guilty for complaining, basically, and wanted to give you compliments. Not something women do with an alpha...but: No contact for 24 hours. Saturday she texts me "Wanna chill tonight?"…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:39 AM
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It breaks the mood a little, but not as much as anaphylactic shock would.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:33 AM
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Learn from your dad by watching. Also talk to your friends' dads. The other men in your life who have successfully passed on their genes.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:30 AM
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Someone on here named the six things which need to be in your life. I would give credit if I could remember. Eat, Sleep, Work, Fuck, Lift, Read. Either the people you know fit into those categories somehow, or they detract from one of them.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:28 AM
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college gym. grocery store. since retail has already been said.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:34 AM
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Freckles. or Extreme height difference. or Non-white.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:34 AM
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Turn your brain off. The animal in you knows what to do. Forget how to speak english.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:32 AM
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Forget you asked. Until SHE brings it up, pretend she said no. Continue using condoms. As great as no-condoms is, it's reserved for only the best of plates. And if you're still making mistakes like this (no offense), you don't have the best of plates yet. See her as many times a week AS SHE WANTS to see you. She should be the one asking when she'll see you again. You can discuss plans/schedules, but it has to be her decision to show up. My all-time record is twice per week. [If she's your girlfr…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:30 AM
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If you haven't ESTABLISHED that you're non exclusive, then confront her, but be vague. Don't tell her what you know. Tell her something like, you don't want to catch her fucking around with other guys. Which means she'll ghost on him or become more discreet, and both of those are what you want. Being passive-aggressive WONT GET YOU ANYTHING. YOU have to BE the conflict in YOUR plate-ionship. If she controls the conflict, it's over. But if she knows you two are not exclusive, then you got nothing…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:24 AM
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Do what you want. Personally, after she's plated I can step my dick game down and spend an hour making out with her in bed instead of just fucking her senseless 3x a day. I like making out in bed. So do chicks. It's a comfort thing. Whatever you do, she will enjoy it if you do. Even spanking her with your belt. [edit READ THIS] Don't do what you want if it's loving her and caring for her deeply. Take a break when that happens, for two reasons. 1. to get used to life without her again, see what s…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:14 AM
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Dark Triad=social power=attractive. Any woman who has kids with a DT man is going to have DT kids. And half of them will be female.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:12 AM
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Instagram isn't going to get you laid. No matter how much or little time you spend on it. (Just like every other social network.) Unless you're a model.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:11 AM
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Always order pizza with a ton of veggies and no meat. Black beans and brown rice--healthy, cheap, filling.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:09 AM
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Look for "no excuse workout." That's a place to start. I found an arm workout I can do every day in my apartment, in 10 minutes. After you make small changes, you can make big changes.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:06 AM
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So you like girls who play hard to get. Who you have to chase. No surprise.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:05 AM
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"Don't do that." why? "It's annoying."
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:04 AM
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Waiting for her to text you is much more powerful than texting her and saying [whatever]. Doesn't matter. Forgetting who she is and pretending (or not pretending) you never met is fine. Kissing though, I have to try that. "Hey, Ahsley, how ya doing? <kiss> Oh, you're not Ashley? Kim? Oh, my bad. You look just like this girl I know. So I guess you don't have a butterfly tattoo on your hip...?"
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:02 AM
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Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:59 AM
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I can't speak for everyone, but when my buddies are I are bullshitting about something with girls present, we're doing it for us, not them. Even when we cross the line from teasing, nobody's feelings really get hurt. I know they'll have my back if I need a couch or saved from a beating. The girls are just lucky to be included in our fun. If they think this is some sort of primal chest-beating contest, they're welcome to think that. Insecurity doesn't factor into it. Whether girls laugh doesn't m…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:59 AM
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Being short makes your muscles more visible. Same mass, less area. Lean muscle never hurt anyone. Look at underwear models. They might be pretty boys, but you can be sure they're getting laid.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:55 AM
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Going home, don't feel good. Ok Just got home. <nothing> Played perfectly. Set up next date when it suits you. She told you her plans, you didn't over-invest. A-OK.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:52 AM
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Jealousy is an emotion. That emotion triggers behavior which deprives another of an object or privilege. Women have use of that. Men do not. That doesn't mean all women are jealous, and that doesn't men that no men are. Don't look at labels. Look at cause and effect. "She isn't yours, it's just your turn." Tying your value to objects which can be lost and not skills (which cannot) (like talking) is where jealousy comes in. Who do you know who accumulates objects to display status? BB.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:50 AM
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I wouldn't count on plating a girl who doesn't set a bullshit plan.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:45 AM
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The world is high school. In high school, girls fuck whomever they want because they already have their BB. After high school, they have to find new BB, and they can't tell the difference what they need financially and sexually, so they call BB attraction just like AF is attraction. That's the blue pill.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:43 AM
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It is an extremely broad field. That's why it's so damned valuable. Control over what you do. Wealthy accountants are wealthy because they learned how to get wealthy. Wealthy engineers are wealthy because they got poached.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:40 AM
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I don't think she did. And it's a risk you can't take. Don't make jokes over text which would be bad if not taken as jokes. Girls have terrible senses of humor.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:57 AM
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You're 16. They're going to laugh at your philosophies no matter what you say. Wait until you're 26 to try anything like that.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:56 AM
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"Only one way to find out..."
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:55 AM
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She was drunk and didn't have anything interesting to say and wanted attention. She's texting someone in a different city all NYE about what she's been up to. If she had done someone awesome, she would be talking to him.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:54 AM
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Accounting will teach you more life skills. Engineering will teach you more profitable skills. "Accounting" is "number crunching". Do you like doing the same thing over and over and over? Like tax returns? If you're in it to make money, you're in the wrong place. HOWEVER, accounting will put you in touch with a LOT of people and make you invaluable to a lot of people. It's the long-term play. You can expand your business and life with a lot more freedom as an accountant. But you have to be watch…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:52 AM
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Girls get less attractive as they age. Their options dry up.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:43 PM
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Emotionally distant. Be a success object. Tell her what to do (and disapprove when she doesn't). When you don't like something she does, don't let it go. I can't emphasize emotionally distant enough. EXPECT GOOD BEHAVIOR from her, and let her know when she doesn't.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:42 PM
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Thank you for TLDR. Don't date girls from work. Be friendly and game her friends. Social circle game.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:38 PM
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90k of 300m, of people who are on the internet (mostly teenagers who can't really apply these things), who have time in their day to surf, and who have the fortune of tripping over the right search term. Yes, it's very small. As far as people who actively resist blue pill ideology, also very rare. Most naturally RP men live in rural areas, where plate-spinning is difficult, so getting married is a RP thing to do. So you're talking about men in urban areas who have the opportunity to spin plates …
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:36 PM
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It was great for a week, but teenagers have terrible memories. Fucking a playboy or SI model.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:29 PM
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Whatever hides sex stains best. You don't want new girls to see them, and you don't want to wash your sheets more than once per week. I use white with a pattern. Also have dark sheets in the closet for period sex.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:27 PM
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It means you're funny. Keep doing whatever you were doing. Don't respond with anything about how funny you are.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:24 PM
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The correct answer is "no, <insert joke>." And they always ask you because it looks like you do but you haven't mentioned it yet. And you shouldn't mention it, it sounds tryhard.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:21 PM
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"Smart" is an illusion. A "smart" man is a man who looks good on paper but doesn't give any feels. If he gave feels, a word beside "smart" would apply. It's the opposite of a backhanded compliment (a fronthanded insult?). It's a "beta" tag. A "smart" woman looks good on paper, but looking good on paper means nothing for female attractiveness. It does still mean that you can't find anything else exceptional about her.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:19 PM
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Be unpredictable, not alarming. Random, not awkward.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:14 PM
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Never ask a girl if she missed you.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:13 PM
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This reply has been more common lately and should be noted that it's a joke.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:11 PM
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Every girl has ups and downs. This is a down. Don't change your behavior to try to make it go up again faster. Ride it out.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:10 PM
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No. Kiss close is an absolute minimum. Making out+ is better, but sometimes impossible due to logistics.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:08 PM
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I didn't see it, but if it wasn't constructive or asking a question, it might well be removed.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:06 PM
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I would help, but I need a summary.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 01:18 AM
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Common question. High partner count isn't the problem. Low self-control is the problem. High partner counts correlates with headaches for you if you try to date them.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 01:11 AM
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Plates have no problem fucking me on their period after I tell them I don't care. We've never made a mess, but sometimes use the dark sheets and wash them afterward. One plate used to make sure we did it when she was bleeding. Apparently it helped with cramps. Orgasms help with a lot of things. They can be super emotional that time of the month, and sometimes that includes overwhelming horniness. Good for me, good for them. Maybe that makes me a beta, but I doubt it. 3 fucks in a single day is a…
/r/askTRP26/12/16 01:08 AM
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Either get visible abs or thick arms. If you have neither you're not there yet. <- abs. I have a hard time building muscle but no problem cutting. Also tall.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 01:03 AM
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You did fine until you tried to continue the conversation. Should have let it drop at "damn im shy sometimes lol". After you had figured out her intentions. Everything after that was free attention for her.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 01:00 AM
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It doesn't matter what you do. It matters how you say it and what you have to show for it. My situation was very similar to yours (minus Wall Street) and I fucked 3 new girls per month while doing my program. Undergrads, mind you. I didn't meet them in class, my age rarely came up. They guessed I was 23-25. (When you're under 20, anything between 25 and 45 are like the same thing. Remember when you were a teenager, and you thought college was so old? You probably thought 20 y.o. were just like 3…
/r/askTRP26/12/16 12:56 AM
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She's coming on to you about as strong as girls are allowed to. Ask her out, escalate, fuck. Maybe plate her, maybe not. But she wants you.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 12:50 AM
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Girls might read TRP, but they don't understand TRP. They might read a bit and start throwing shit tests, but you know how to beat those. As always, there's nothing ever to be gained by admitting you come here, or bodning over it or anything. It's all just feelings to her. For girls, internalizing TRP means they know their role, instead of having unrealistic standards of what they deserve or can get away with. They will not understand it.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 12:36 AM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/03/24/what-women-want-on-the-dance-floor-according-to-science/?utm_term=.ea7fcd520903 Googled: good dancing arms legs science.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 12:04 AM
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LTR means she knows a lot about you. Where you are, what you're doing, who your friends are. Predictable. Girls are turned on by unpredictability. Which means you have to keep your game solid in other areas, because you're giving her comfort from predictability just by being around her all of the time. On the other hand, the longer you keep her, the more her value drops, the less vigilant you have to be. Your time investment is also her time investment.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 12:02 AM
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Be less predictable.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:58 PM
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Girls who can go out and get dick don't spend time pontificating for people who won't kino. Dateable, hot, feminist. You never see all three.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:56 PM
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"I bet you study fashion."
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:52 PM
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Fixed.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:46 PM
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I guess I missed that part.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:46 PM
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Start writing new narratives for things in your daily life. Imagine how you can turn any given thing into a DHV. It won't work all of the time, but if you practice telling (or thinking) stories and framing things as interesting, it will become second nature. Don't use logic for telling stories. Use feelings. Interrupt yourself. Take tangents. Then circle back. I use Netflix for inspiration sometimes (about an hour a day, when I'm eating my post-workout meal). Sometimes I pause it to look somethi…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:33 AM
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You're going to need them some day. Which means you're going to need to be able to make them. Best time to practice is when it doesn't matter. Why do people in prison read books? Because they have nothing better to do, and it might help them someday. Imagine a college girl. She has all of the friends she could want. All the boys want to talk to her. She only wants to talk to the hot guys. Why should she waste her time talking to guys who aren't carrying athletic 6ft tall seed (people who aren't …
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:28 AM
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Don't ask her questions about herself. Except when they're crucial to logistics. When she talks to you, she should be thinking about you, not herself. Would her girlfriend ask her a question like this? Yes? Then you don't.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:23 AM
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You have to let your heart decide what you want. (Use your brain to figure out HOW.) You don't have to let HER heart decide what you want. If you have your game down, then losing a plate isn't a big deal to you. That's what she is. A plate. You're saying you don't know whether you need to game her as usual, or be more receptive to her needs. I'd say, take a shot, try something new. Maybe you lose her and learn AWALT yet again, or maybe you two get along really well and date for two years. You wo…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:21 AM
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Break is tough. I choose not to talk to plates (or prospectives) when escalating is out of the question. So all of that happened, and you two were on xmas break when you got the apology text? You might lose her, just because you can't swoop in after she apologized and return nonchalantly to pre-explosion relationship. Talking about the fight is just going to remind her of her feelings (your supposed shortcomings), and validate those feelings for her. So that's a no-no. It really depends whether …
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:15 AM
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Sorry, nope. not from what you put in your post.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:02 AM
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The comfort/shit test she gave me: "We don't know any of the same people, I wouldn't know if one day you died." Which is sort of a legitimate concern. But if you were in this situation, and someone went cold on you, and you really didn't know what happened to them, what would you do? Well, you know where they live. So you can talk to their neighbors. (And you can think of more solutions, because you're an adult person capable of solving your own problems.) So I told her, if you're ever legitimat…
/r/askTRP24/12/16 08:18 PM
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If you're not very socially savvy, then just keep socializing and de-emphasize plating all of them. You can always meet people through them and possibly run social circle game. You can't plate girls if you're afraid of losing them. Plates fall eventually.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:55 AM
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Snapchat is for holding orbiters. Why don't older people use it? Because they don't have many orbiters and must give individualized attention to each of them. I should say, they don't rely on it. They surely use it. But none of them are breaking 1k followers.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:52 AM
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So long as Caucasians continue to hold the wealth and power in the world, yes. Girls talking about liking other races is anecdotal. Girls can get horny feelings from anywhere, but their numbers will trend toward rich, powerful, tall, athletic men.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:51 AM
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Men do everything better than women, just with more effort. When the artificial uterus is invented, you'll understand.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:44 AM
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If you're thinking about promoting her as a plate, there are more important things to consider than her siblings.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:42 AM
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TRP has little to do with it. "regression toward the mean." Introverts get better at socializing, extroverts get tired of it, smart people find they aren't good at everything, dumb people find things they're good at, ugly people grow into their faces, hot people stop taking care of themselves. In a general sense. On average, everyone gets closer to average over time.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:41 AM
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Your priority is damage control. Stop running game, because that is for seduction and is going to make her shit test you, because she already knows how weak you can be. Don't fight with her. If you're angry, she's feeding on your drama. Don't reason with her. Communicate for logistics. If she goes on a tangent, stop talking. Ex wives can never be a healthy relationship. Respectful distance is the best you can hope for. Don't bond with the guys she dates--respectful distance should be easier with…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:34 AM
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Decide what your goals are. For example, keep the marriage or keep a plate? Then decide what you're willing to sacrifice to achieve that goal. I don't get your boundaries. You cheat on your wife (A). You agree to be prevented from future cheating (B). You apologize for GPS failing (B). You have a good reason (A). Your wife asks permission to pat you down (not strip searched?) (double A). You don't want to be searched (A). You come here, apparently quite confused (B). If you really only want her …
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:29 AM
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Teach him a sense of humor. If he gets teased at school, he has to tease right back. Teach him to not be afraid of fighting. If he gets punched, he punches back. Teach him that he doesn't have to agree with his mother all of the time, and he should think about what he does instead of just doing as he's told. But he should be polite to his mother and pick when to rebel and when to conform.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:21 AM
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Praised in RP communities because they were raised in RP communities. They have no illusions about what your role is, or what theirs is. They haven't been raised on Disney and happy wife happy life and the glass ceiling and pussy pass.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:16 AM
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No, but when any politician talks about "hard-working americans", he's not talking about the wealthy ones. It's a euphemism. There's nothing wrong with Netflix and chilling (I do it with my bros), but that's not what it means. N&C is fun, but when you do N&C, you don't call it N&C.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:12 AM
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Chateau heartiste. 3 rules of social savviness. Talk to them the way you talk to guys, if you're just trying to be friendly. (How do you talk to dudes? No agenda. Just talking. Don't ask questions, unless you really want to know something. Don't respond, unless s/he said something interesting. )
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:06 AM
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By isolate, I mean set up another date, with just the one. Like Netflix and chill. Yes, absolutely. Though you have to decide whether you want to invite plates to meet prospective plates, or bring in new prospective plates. You give each girl a turn to talk to you. You're allowed to have a conversation with just one. They can talk to each other while you're talking to one. It might alienate you...but whatever. You're not going to plate all of them. And you're not going to plate any of them witho…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:02 AM
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If you crash it you get nothing. If it breaks down you get nothing. The only reason to have a big showy expensive car is if you have a backup waiting in the garage.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:56 AM
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I told her I just never deleted it and it's been there since before I met her and that I love her and wouldn't cheat on her. Massively failed that shit test bro.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:31 AM
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3 rules of social savviness. (Nothing wrong with teasing.) You shouldn't have to fight. But there's nothing wrong with throwing a punch once in a while. Even if it costs you a black eye.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:29 AM
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ASD.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:27 AM
1

What's your/her age?
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:26 AM
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Either you ignored good advice because everything you said is true, or you actually believe everything she told you. Best advice I can give you is: start actively looking for a new job.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:25 AM
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Ignore. Any time a girl (or anyone) talks about something you don't want to talk about...talk about something else. You're not going to get sent to detention for not paying attention. "How do I react to this?" Get yourself out of the mindset that you have to react. Your beta training is telling you you have to continue a conversation this person is having with you. You don't. Don't text her again for 5 days. Or until she says something you actually want to hear.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:21 AM
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Why women with strong jaws are attractive. E.g. olivia wilde. IDK, I tried.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:16 AM
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Who cares? Humiliation is a shit test. Laugh. Sense of humor is the biggest turn on.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:12 AM
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Being bored and in a new situation is the best thing. It's how you find new habits. You start exploring, instead of using old patterns. Hell, it's how I found TRP. Two hours to kill, WiFi with all of the good sites blocked. Got on reddit, surfed. Being bored is good for you.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:10 AM
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Use the group to meet girls, get their numbers. Set up dates from there. You won't fuck all of them, but you could do really well, especially if you're the only dude in the group. If you try to run the conversation yourself entirely, then you're going to get tired (and bored) since you're just entertaining them. Talk to each of the girls individually, like you would in any group atmosphere. Number close, move on to the next one. All dates are platonic. You isolate to escalate. In a sense, going …
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:06 AM
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FWIW, no one wants the "normal dating activities". TRP is all about avoiding making the same mistakes as everyone else. Like spending money for dates.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 09:16 PM
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most of the guys on reddit are under 30. because most of the guys on the internet are under 30. (under 20, really.) most of the guys on the internet have the overarching life goal of getting laid. they're not pathetic, just inexperienced. they want experience, they come here and ask about the one big thing on their minds. TRP is a set of information. about how people work. it's red, contrast with blue, because it's the truth that no one (the blue pill) wants to admit. after knowing this truth, m…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:34 AM
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"quit" anywthing the way addicts do. go to rehab--find other habits/hobbies to fill your time. working out (driving, lifting, shower, post-workout, shower, eating full meals) has taken three hours out of my day. thats 3 hours less every day for me to play xbox, and also 3 hours i'm burning calories and not sitting down. and now i eat healthier (because spending an hour at the gym is stupid if you're going to eat cheetos for dinner), which means i buy my own grocieries, eat out less, and lost wei…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:22 AM
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Doesn't matter; FTMs will die out once they realize they can't have kids or get laid. Just wait 50 years for the pendulum to swing back. Traditional sexuality will make a comeback.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:17 AM
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I've never had girls complain about me objectifying other girls. Then again, I don't do it on the first date.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:15 AM
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Sounds like you're the package. A lot of enlisted dudes are huge betas (because the military needs people who follow orders) in their relationships, but if you're not, then you're set. Settle down when you find a 10 who is worth a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:14 AM
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Being in a group makes you look more attractive. Stick to it.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:11 AM
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Learning a new skill is always a good thing. But I don't see anything wrong with being an aggressive talker.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:08 AM
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There's nothing beta about always having social proof on tap.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:07 AM
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Alpha is what they want first. Sex, attraction, good looks, power, masculinity. Beta is what they want second, and they're willing to "cheat" to get it. Money, security, commitment, traveling, experiences, someone to change poopy diapers sometimes.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:05 AM
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Good response. Thank Awakened for writing the whole thing up.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:04 AM
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WElcome to being an adult. Neighbors are noisy. Thumping is the most polite thing they do. Be glad you're not listening to them having sex. You could thank him for buying the throw rug. Dude came down from his apartment for the first time, actually paid you a visit. He was super nervous and defensive. Biting his head off was the wrong call. Don't make enemies unless you can beat them, and you can't here. However, if you suspect someone is being hurt or abused (guttural noises), calling the polic…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:01 AM
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red pill is information, not a personality type. maybe you're asking how to be confident, unapologetic, and masculine, but also nice and likable.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:54 AM
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Ask r/fashion about which frames to buy, not here. The best we can tell you is, "buy fashionable frames".
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:54 AM
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women use them to accessorize. they don't always improve, but they can. they CAN draw positive attention to the female wearer.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:52 AM
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She asked your friend. Her first choice. He said no. She asked you, her second choice. You also said no. She may have asked someone else. In any case, she asked you after your friend, indicating she was willing to settle for you, second-best, despite your friend being her first choice. In the future, you can expect that to continue. She will ask him first, then you second. Hypergamy exemplified. She will NOT wait a little for a potentially better dude, but she might fuck them both, an hour apart…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:48 AM
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Your best bet is to join a fraternity. But I'll explain why your goal is stupid. You don't want a girlfriend. You want sex every day, and you think a girlfriend will give you that. She won't. Don't use facebook. At 20, you're one of the least attractive men available. Men: age=value. At 20, girls are some of the most attractive available. Women: youth=value. Aiming for a girl at that age is like playing roulette. Keeping a girl at that age will be endlessly frustrating. The second-best you can h…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:42 AM
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Doesn't matter; it will be over in a few minutes. There are hundreds of videos of girls stripping for complete strangers on omegle, if you didn't know.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:37 AM
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Men can't "truly" love. We love faster and harder but also finish faster. Women start slowly and finish slowly. They can stay in love for their whole lives, but we turn it off (and on) multiple times per day. Often for different people. I fall in love about 5 times every time I go to the gym. And I'm over all of them by the next day. Before TRP, I could fall in love and stay in love with one woman; I now know that was one-itis. Even if I were pressuring myself to marry her and love her for the r…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:36 AM
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Yep. 3 dates rule exists for a reason.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:31 AM
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Nothing wrong with arranged marriages. A girl won't friendzone you before she meets you. No need to fear that. In a sense, arranged marriages are easy mode. You can't go anywhere else, but neither can she. She's around all the time, which means you don't have to arrange dates or compete for her. You can be aloof all of the time, until you decide to bless her with the grace of your attention. if your parents know her parents, she will be much more motivated to be a good girl. You'll have social c…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:29 AM
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Be a drug dealer. But if you're not willing to do something illegal, you'll have to compromise something else. New experiences, however, are totally something girls like. Finding a girl to take along for the ride should not be difficult. But then you have to pay for her.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:22 AM
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Find your !cat! a new place to live ASAP. That might mean finding yourself a new place to live. After you make sure your roommates aren't going to fuck up your shit, THEN you can report them. But for the immediate future, you need a place to live where you're not going to get your throat cut in your sleep. Don't go for revenge. Best served cold for a reason. If you can't annihilate your enemies totally, you shouldn't annihilate them at all.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:19 AM
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Be there for him. Arrange father/son activities. Bond. Except in this case, you're the father. It's important to have a relationship with your father. Even a broken clock is right twice per day, and this broken clock loves you. Don't be his psychologist. Avoid talking about your mother. Lead by example.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:16 AM
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Wait three days before you care. She could have gotten hit by a car or alcohol poisoning or something.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:14 AM
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Better to not wait long enough than to wait too long. Easier to apologize and establish yourself as a sexual person, then to come back from the friendzone. Relationships are made to be broken. Either break them or let them decay.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:12 AM
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Need more details, but the first thing you need to do is go no-contact for 4+ years. Then you need to change yourself enough that she sees you as a completely different person. Beard, muscles, tattoos, tuxedo, engagement ring, ultra hot girlfriend....SOMETHING.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:09 AM
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It's happened. "I love your smile. "You are like the hottest guy I've ever dated. "I love your body. "Yellow is a really good color on you. "The way your hair curls is so cute <takes picture>. (Actual compliments. complete garbage, except the first one--I spent a lot of money at the dentist.) But why don't they, when they don't? Because they're getting attention. Why do they give compliments? Because they aren't getting enough attention yet, and you're the only one available to do it. And if you…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:07 AM
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Since everyone has said the obvious answer, I'll share something more unconventional. You could try it. Just a shove. Not leave a mark, not really hurt her, but show some physical aggression. Or throw a cup of water on her. Lol. Then again, I can't understand ever being legitimately upset with your mother. Like why you would raise your voice or express anger. (I take it back, yes I can. I let her use my laptop on the patio, and then she left it outside for a few hours before I realized it. She's…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:55 AM
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Yes. Once you've banged 20 chicks, you'll realize that sex really isn't that great. And you'll also realize that they enjoy it way, way more. They ought to be chasing us. But you'll still check out gym ass at every opportunity. You'll still be curious and think about it. Can't help it.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:48 AM
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Denial that it's her fault (ultimatum, i need space), check. Defensive/anger (how can you be cold?), check. Bargaining (can we talk?), check. Depression/apology, check. Now you move in. Don't wait until she accepts responsibility, because that's her moving on. So you respond after the apology, at your leisure. You don't mention the whole thing she did, because you don't want to rehash it and start her again. Evade the subject. Resume as if nothing happened, because as far as she's concerned, you…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:45 AM
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She's dating you while she dates him, so she hasn't friendzoned you yet. Assuming you want to fuck her and not LTR her: Don't mention him, ever. If she brings him up, continue the conversation without explicitly mentioning him. Be her fun time. Not serious. Her fairy tale romance man. The guy she goes to when she gets tired of her bf. The alpha she needs, not the alpha she deserves. I could go on with specifics, if you want. Source: plated a girl while she was engaged and for 10 months into her …
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:35 AM
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She either wanted validation or dick. You gave her validation what you up to? You didn't change the subject, then asked about her. Followed her frame, and right there you became validation and not dick. A better response would have been what you doing? Come hang out Then she either says yes (so text for logistics), no (so ignore her), or asks for more info "why?" "where are you? "who are you with" etc. (so evade until she says either yes or no)
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:28 AM
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Be what they wish they could be. (Just like with girls, how you be what they wish they could have. TRP doesn't tell you what to DO, it tells you what will HAPPEN.) Which has to be close enough to what they are, for them to see it as attainable. Follow the 3 rules of social savviness. Beside that, be the beta they want to hire. Focus on being valuable, not on being attractive.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:20 AM
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The lower their SMV, the more attracted they are to men who invest in them. Seeing a hot guy who hasn't even said hi to them doesn't turn them on, because they aren't turned on by his interest in them. The more uninhibited they get (like from alcohol, or from constant attention like hot girls have), the less it counts.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:13 AM
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It's psychological. Stop putting pressure on yourself to perform for her, accept that you won't come every time... and then you'll come more easily. Strange, I know. But I've been there, and without cutting down on whackoffs.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:12 AM
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She texted you. Either she wanted 15 minutes of attention or she wanted to fuck. She was driving the conversation topics, not you. Therefore the latter. Talk to her again, ask her a couple questions about herself, then ask her out, all in the same convo.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:05 AM
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Don't stay in touch with girls you have no chance or no desire to fuck. Makes you an orbiter. Future girls will think it's totally normal (because they've had orbiters), unless they're completely crazy.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:52 AM
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You probably know this, but... Don't ever sit across from your date, if there's any possibility at all to avoid it. Site next to her. Choose venues with that in mind.z Sitting next to her makes kino 100x easier.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:50 AM
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Nothing changes. You'll probably become more comfortable around each other since the sexual tension is gone. Look up "LTR game" on chateau heartiste, but know that's 6 months away.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:48 AM
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You're too old to do it when you can't find people who want to do it with you. Maybe that's 26, maybe that's 46.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:45 AM
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Some skills are so damned useful in life that having them whether you enjoy them or not is a huge advantage. Like doing algebra. Or fixing a car. Or talking effortlessly to women. Or talking effortlessly to men. Or managing a checkbook. But if you just follow someone else's plan for you in life, with the goal of: get money, then you end up a doctor with 3 divorces and 3 houses you don't live in and $100k a year and nothing in the bank because you work all the time and always let your wife manage…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:44 AM
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Join a club. Something which has other cool dudes you can go out with, or something which has attractive women in it. Get used to talking to them, whether you hook up or not.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:40 AM
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It's a cruise. Temporary everything. Everyone will be in ONS mode. Just mingle as much as you can, don't spend too much time with any one group. Don't try to get laid or even limit your conversations to 18-28-year-olds. Talk to everyone. Focus on having as much fun as possible. The lays will happen. As far as your family is concerned, you're out mingling. As far as anyone else is concerned, you're either with your family or out meeting people. No strings, no dates, no expectations. Everything is…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:38 AM
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My consumption has tapered over time. The more I have to learn, the more useful. Then i start seeing repetitive topics, dumb questions, obvious trolls...and I become far more efficient at reading topics. I probably only spend 5 hours a month, down from 5 hours a day, when I first swallowed it. As they say, get out there and practice what you learned.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 11:07 PM
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Paternalistic, caring, nurturing behavior and tendencies got men laid for centuries, before mass-communication made armies of orbiters possible for the most attractive women.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 11:02 PM
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You don't really get famous and published by being hard to work with. Entertainment is quite blue-pill in language, if not in presentation. Gangster rap is different, but how many of those guys are actually gangsters and not just betas selling the image?
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:59 PM
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"Sure thing honey." <don't change anything> I really don't know; it's never happened to me. My experience is more the opposite--she starts calling me "sir" or "big strong man" (i'm not really that big), like she's trying to be submissive. When that happens, I escalate the sex (over the course of weeks)--choking, spitting, intense spanking, pinching, biting, even some humiliation. I rarely have to go as far as humiliation. It's sort of a relief when it's over. As much as I like abusing the pussy,…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:58 PM
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If you have a reasonable excuse for it, there's no problem. Being shirtless is peacocking. Draws attention, but if you can't capitalize on the attention (build attraction), you just look like a douchebag. Girls might approach you with bitch-face, as long as you don't get defensive, you're good.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:49 PM
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Male SMV is at its highest 35-45 and doesn't drop sharply afterward as women's does. You think she's getting a lot of compliments now...if you keep up your game (stay fit and don't become a doormat), 10 years from now, she'll really have the jackpot.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:37 PM
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One election does not change anything. One person does not change anything. He is severely red-pill, possibly DT. That does not mean we should or should not support him. It's just recognition of what he is. However, many of his ideas, should they come to fruition, bode well for other men who understand TRP. You can bring betas to the Pill, but you can't make them swallow. Then again, pretty much everything bodes well for men who understand TRP.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:57 AM
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Say something the next day. Keep the good feelings going. Make her reply showing interest before you tell her what the next date is.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:52 AM
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You're securely in orbit. Stop talking to her unless it's making arrangements to see each other.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:50 AM
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What happened to r/marriedTRP?
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:47 AM
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Cool. I'm glad it's working out for you. Risky move, but if you're making it work, and not just hamstering, then awesome for you. But 25 is not in your prime. Just FYI.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:46 AM
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If she has opportunities to cheat (alone with other men who are more atractive than her) or if she does a lot of peacocking (outrageous makeup, hair dye, body mods, hysterics), then she's cheating. Girls don't set out to cheat. They cheat by setting up scenarios or inviting scenarios in which they can cheat.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:44 AM
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The smaller the community is, the safer you have to seem. Smaller community means more likelihood that people know you, which means more likely that she can trash you to others. More power in her corner. But if you can get several girls to complain about you, that's free advertising. If they meet each other, one or more might come back.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:42 AM
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Ordinarily, A&A. But for a tinder girl...JUST STAY SILENT. She's trying to re-frame the date, and you don't want that. Don't respond at all, until she changes her offer. She wants to bring a friend, because she isn't comfortable being alone with you, but she likes the attention. You could bag her, but it will be a lot more work to roll with the punches if she brings a friend, even if you invite friends of your own and have a party...for a girl you barely know. If you respond, you have to treat i…
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:36 AM
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Bodyweight exercises. Make sure you're getting enough protein. Make sure you're getting enough protein. Make sure you're getting enough protein. Make sure you're getting enough protein. Make sure you're getting enough protein. Protein as soon as you wake up (for breakfast), and whatever else sounds good. Protein for lunch, and whatever else sounds good. (Pasta, cheese, bread, oatmeal, dried fruit, potatoes, guacamole...) Protein right after your workout, and whatever else sounds good. Make sure …
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:37 AM
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As sad as it sounds, he's absolutely right. It's a physical relationship, with other things added by one or both parties in order to obscure that fact, in order to maintain it. I learned that lesson the hard way.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:25 AM
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Soft next, not a hard next.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:22 AM
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True, but <whoosh>.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:21 AM
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Guys have been getting caught with their pants down by their mothers for decades, and didn't have a community who they could talk to. What did they do?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:10 AM
1

Even bowling? Billiards?
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:09 AM
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Relationships are made to be broken. But you shouldn't advertise it. Silence for a few good minutes was ok. She knows, after failing her comfort test, that she got through to you. And you didn't make it into an argument. You did fine. She's right, but you don't need to tell her that. Do something sweet for her.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:44 AM
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but essentially I ended up taking my wife in a variety of ways doing all the things I usually enjoy doing to her but this time simply not asking permission before doing them and instead just demanding she get in this or that position while I do my thing. After I finished she merely walked into the bathroom, took a shower and then went back to bed. She probably liked it, or at worst noticed nothing different at all. Don't make a thing where there is no thing. If she has a problem with it, she wil…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:41 AM
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Varies depending on the couple. I would be worried if she were initiating more than 50% of the time. But so long as she never rejects you without a good reason ("we're on a moving bus!") you're fine.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:39 AM
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Yeah. Have, will again (some of them just look so damned perfect!), never requested it. But of course people joke about it. Ass doesn't "taste like ass", surprisingly. Sometimes like dry, stale sweat, which is terrible, but after you spit on it and clean it off (or put some lube on it) it's fine. read: black twitter I loled.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:35 AM
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Neither of you has your own place. People have been getting laid in college for decades. Hell, people were getting laid in high school when living with their parents. Just means you have to do some planning, and be ready to stop immediately if the roommate comes home. It's not really a shit test, but it might turn out to be a reason why the relationship won't work.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:33 AM
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Listen to any interview with him, and while he's a really interesting and influential guy, he's still completely serious and logical all the time. Never passed a shit test in his life (which helped him have time to build. a. fucking. rocket!)
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:28 AM
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When a woman has your attention at all times (LTR), whenever she wants it, being silent/aloof is a powerful thing.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:25 AM
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Can't uprate this enough.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:22 AM
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There is nothing alpha about anything you can do with a TV.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:21 AM
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Biology. We all want LTRs, and we all want to cheat. And we all somehow think that a LTR means a constant supply of sex, even though 90% of us are wrong.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:18 AM
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What did people do to deal with miniature crises in their lives before the days of internet?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:17 AM
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You're on TRP, while a girl is at your place. Not smart.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:15 AM
1

He's calling you a troll.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:13 AM
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Be happy you're 16 and dating a 8. Text her less, date more.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:12 AM
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As soon as you go logical, she'll go back to emotional. You can go logical, just be prepared to go right back.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:09 AM
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Go to the gym, work out. Talk to guys if somehow they don't talk to you first. Smile.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:08 AM
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Why is this not upvoted more
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:06 AM
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Every so often, point out something she does which is disrespectful to him.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:04 AM
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If you break it off, you can re-start it if you change your mind. If she breaks it off, very unlikely. When in doubt, break it off.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:01 AM
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No friends, 0 social interaction at job. Join a club, take up a sport.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 01:00 AM
1

Practice not arguing. Practice changing the subject/ breaking others' frame.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:59 AM
1

It's just a specialized computer. Will having another computer add value to your life? Only you can answer that.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:58 AM
1

Can you give me some more info? Googling "read models" isn't helping me.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:57 AM
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Don't give compliments, unless you're reinforcing a certain behavior. Instead of "you're hot", you can say "you look like you might be an interesting person to get to know." Invite her to qualify herself in order to earn your compliment. Not based on beauty.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:57 AM
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Mark this as a field report or ask a question.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:54 AM
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Next morning after waking up, she apologized for her behaviour. I told her it's okay to which she responded with "No, it's not okay, I shouldn't whine that much". Perfect!
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:52 AM
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Google "uptalking". It's a way of generating approval.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:50 AM
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It's a bandaid. But yeah, fuck it. Hats come off indoors. Comb-overs require you to hold frame while you do it. Maybe beards will be less popular after society catches on to using them for jaw support. They seem to be catching on since feminism, not fading out. Hmm.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:45 PM
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Beta orbiters don't realize they're beta orbiting. With knowledge of TRP, beta orbiting isn't as dangerous as it was before swallowing it. Most of us probably fucked one of the girls we were orbiting at some point, before TRP. Orbiting is not evil. Just inefficient.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:43 PM
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That looks like her RP throwaway account. She might actually be knowledgeable. Or trolling. Only time will tell.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:09 PM
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They're just dumb people being dumb. Bringing up the first conversation topic that comes to mind. Not aware that they're being offensive, or maybe just don't care. Either way, they just want a connection with you, and they're too dim to make one themselves, so they ask you to give them all of the answers instead. Once you make them happy and solve one problem, they'll just come up with something else. realize they're not challenging you, they're just looking for stimulation. imagine if everyone …
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:08 PM
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Life is highs and lows. Having happiness doesn't making you deserving of more happiness. Having depression doesn't make you deserving of more depression. You can choose between freedom and stocism--if I understand you right, you're choosing between bliss and control. Swallowing TRP (knowledge) is the path to control. asking questions when you need answers (how many times do you use google, instead of other websites) and not seeking knowledge for yourself is reamining blissful, and many people do…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:00 PM
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She wants you to understand why you feel the way you do. She's being a therapist. But if she's chubby too, then you should drop the subject at your first convenience, or else she'll get defensive and not do her job as well. I work out not to lose weight, but because I have a history of heart disease and a murmur. My heart needs the workout, even if the rest of me doesnt. You can use that as an excuse, even if it's not true for you. Long-term health, not aesthetics. Even male therapists are prett…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:46 PM
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"No." You can always change your mind later, if you really, really really want to. Not everything is a shit test.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:43 PM
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I'm glad it was helpful.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:40 PM
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A few months ago, after (how many years?) on the red pill. There are way too many betas out there fucking up the social spectrum, letting girls get away with wayyyyy too much shit. I need to raise some alphas of my own.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:39 PM
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Beard.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:36 PM
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You can dip her. Like dancing, turn and hold her horizontal, kiss her like that. make sure to let your massive ego out of its cage--you're going to need to be loud and unignorable. The stepstool thing is a hilarious idea too. A&A to the max.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:36 PM
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Usually it's nerves. Talking dirty to her usually works for me. When it doesn't, I'm still making out with a naked girl (who I ostenisbly like), and that's still pretty good. Once we watched pron together and fucked, so it wasn't exactly sex, and that wasn't bad. (Doggystyle, laptop on the desk in front of her.)
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:32 PM
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Only difference is girls were at their peak in high school and constantly dropping, and guys are the reverse. Every girl over the age of 80 considers herself blessed to have a single orbiter (husband). And is terrified of cheating on him for fear of losing him, and is very open to sex, because any way she can get him to pay attention to her, she will use. And guys that age can fuck girls up to 40 years younger, and his wife will probably let him. The middle is what we call the dating world, wher…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:27 PM
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Didn't read the whole thing because it's a wall of text. You're too young to have a LTR. LTRs DO control your family. That's why they want to meet your family, so they can extract more commitment from you. And that's why we advise spinning plates before LTRing your best one.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:18 PM
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She has a really strong ASD going on. LTR, she knows it, you know it. She wants you. I would say de-escalate kino, then re-escalate, but slower. Typical tactic. Typical, for how rarely you have to do it. Be prepared for massive, repeated LMR. The guy who said she wants you in her friendzone is ignoring the fact that SHE asked YOU out for a BEER. Alcohol. But he's right in the fact that you are currently in the friendzone. She's enjoying your kino, or she would stop it. Which means she hasn't dec…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:15 PM
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Girls will be expert gold-diggers, boys will be powerful alphas, who are inclined toward bad habits. Bother are better than being raised by a single mother...but you really need two parents, one of each gender, to raise a well-adjusted child. A single father can't really be beta. Shepherding kids for more than half of your waking hours is being in control, that's going to make you assertive and skilled at dispelling drama. Which is also why single mothers are miserable.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:07 PM
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At least you're creating conflict. She feeds on that, and that's why she's still with you. You give her a rush of feelings. Use more power talk. I said, well you'll find out if you participate in the convo... That's using guilt as a motivator. Use pleasure induction. Her next sentence is her defending herself, because you caused her to feel guilty. I'm not staying on the phone if you're going to stay on fb Don't give ultimatums. Those allow her to make the decision, and to create a losing scenar…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:02 PM
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"It's complicated." A good answer for so many questions. Apologies that I can't give credit to the red piller who first posted it.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:53 PM
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You don't have two personalities. Try a support group. There's a sex addicts anonymous in like every city, and they may be able to tell you where to find porn addicts anonymous. Getting a sponsor will help.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:18 PM
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Make pizza (or order it, but then you don't know what they put in it). The dough alone is 1200 calories. Eat the whole thing (1-1.5 meals). Loaded with vegetables and mozzarella, it's not even junk food. Takes about an hour to make pizza, whether it's 5-inch or 15-inch. Leftovers are easy. I love pizza. And burritos (black beans brown rice cheese salsa, sour cream or guac if I'm adding calories). Bulking is easy for me. Add that to your 20-oz protein shake every day (peanut butter, ice cream, oa…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:15 PM
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if she doesn't want to talk to you, it's because she feels like you're always available to her. sounds like she's withdrawn, not angry. if she's angry, then she has a lot to say to you (and doesn't make much sense), and is still mentally invested in you. but if she's withdrawn, then she's taking you for granted, and the solution is to become less available. ...just something off the top of my head: if you're using qualifiers (i think, i feel, i believe) in your conversations with her, stop that …
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:48 PM
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I talked about it a lot with my therapist in college. Haven't actually used a life coach, mostly because I've been bad at finding new therapists when I move.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:10 AM
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A ton of girls who are just bored will swipe you right just for not being an ogre. So you're guaranteed like 1 in 10 matches for that.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:08 AM
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You're in your prime now. And not wearing a wedding ring, apparently. Enjoy it, bro. Fuck all of them; you owe it to yourself after being married for so long.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:06 AM
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Because he was high on it and thinking about her, and probably wanted to apologize in some way for not being good. For the OP: even after you've done your share of fucking, sometimes it's not easy with a new person. Don't feel bad, and don't ever apologize for it.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:03 AM
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Alphas fuck first, reconsider later. The girls rationalize it as a "hook-up". Girls don't fuck guys who are in control of their own sex drives.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:57 AM
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In their minds, it's the classy choice. Beer is for college kids (it's cheap) and hicks (it's cheap). Liquor is for college kids (bingeing) and single women (mixed drinks in a bar). Wine has neither of those stigmas--drinking wine alone seems less lame. The people they hope to impress are the people whose drink of choice is wine.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:54 AM
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Deal with a narcissist by being a narcissist. What would the Joker say?
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:52 AM
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You don't have to absolutely go silent, but you should minimize communication. 5-word texts, tops. If she wants more she knows how to find you.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:50 AM
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So just don't talk to her. If you have an open invitation to go to her house, then do it whenever works for you. Showing up at someone's house is what grown-ups have done for all of history. Acquaintances call first, but neighbors/friends just show up.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:48 AM
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Just talk to people. Don't hit on them until they show IoI. Keep it short--you're both at the gym to work, not chat. Girls will like you more if they've already seen you talking to other people--not just other girls.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:45 AM
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we are chilling in my car after class, chit chatting She wanted you to kiss her right there, and more. Any talking you do beyond there isn't going to make her like you any more. She's not going to break up with her boyfriend until she already has you.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:44 AM
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You already know that women marry up. Low-status women marry low-status men. In the U.S., non-whites are lower status. A white woman who marries a black man wasn't doing it as her first choice. She's settling for a guy who sticks around and is happy to be marrying a white woman. However, there are different levels of "low status". An asian who went to harvard is arguably higher status than many whites. But still a minority, and that's where it gets cloudy. So why do X brand of white women marry …
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:39 AM
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The fact that she moved away and wasn't begging you to make it work long-distance translates to: she's breaking up with you. The only thing to do is move on, don't talk to her unless she's asking you to meet up.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:35 AM
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You have to address her anger ASAP. Not try to pacify her, but tell her "that it's not an acceptable way to act. If she has an issue with you, she needs to tell you so you can deal with it or shut up and deal with it, because you're really getting sick of her attitude and quite frankly you don't want to be around her recently." Whether you actually address the source of her anger is up to you, it's probably a play for commitment or a shit test, use your brain to decide what to do, but that's wha…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:33 AM
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Find something better to do. How do you cure boredom? By finding something to do. It's a self-perpetuating loop. Smoking weed as a hobby is paying...to sit around and do nothing. Take that buzz somewhere and do something. Or do something, without the buzz. Ideas: reading (fiction, wikipedia, political crap), rollerblading, tennis, auto show, carnival, play a musical instrument in public and collect tips.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:27 AM
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If women initiate, they run the risk of finding a passive, non-masculine, non-ambitious, etc. partner. Birth control has only been around for 50 years. By waiting around for men to make the first move, they greatly increase the odds of finding a powerful man and also of producing capable offspring.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:22 AM
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Buying sex for money is very honest. If the world accepted prostitution, TRP would never have become a thing. It's not immoral. It is expensive. If you value it, pay for it. On the other hand, alphas don't have to pay for sex.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 02:19 AM
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Kinky means alpha widow. Girls don't learn to be kinky unless it's to hold on to someone. (Girls with high counts tend to have had an alpha at some point.)
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:00 PM
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1/10 anger, 9/10 no reaction. Over the course of a relationship, a girl should see you get angry a few times. But only a few times. When in doubt, get angry. You can always apologize later. But you can't be calm first and then get angry later. Doesn't work.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:59 PM
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Tell him, yeah. But all it means is that she's bored and looking for orbiters.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:55 PM
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She's cheated on you before, bro. She's preparing to do it again in cancun.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:54 PM
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Don't worry about dieting. If you're lifting, you're burning calories/fat. Focus on increasing your strength, and your fat% will drop. When I started cooking for myself, just to make sure I was getting macros to match my lifts, my BMI dropped. Focusing on eating so much of what I need just didn't leave time to chew on the junk food. And ordering out, restaurants/fast food pack extra carbs and fat into everything, which is delicious, but just isn't giving me the protein I need. Chewing everything…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 09:51 PM
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So that's a 6-month LTR, or less.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:29 AM
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Yeah. I came back after a break, and it seems less about "help me with women". It's an upgrade if you ask me. TRP should be about recognizing truths for the long run, not about learning tricks for the short run. And if that means some men realize they aren't a 10 but can marry a woman and have kids and not be a doormat, then the world is a better place for everyone. "We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:26 AM
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She's a plate now. Not a LTR. And 1.5 years is not a LTR. It doesn't become a LTR until at least 12 months. Especially if either one of you is college-aged.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:21 AM
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Yeah, it's reasonable. Expensive, though. Potentially addictive.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:18 AM
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you don't. you either fit into the "friends" box, or the "kissable" box. you don't switch boxes.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:15 AM
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Usually with a plate. A girl who isn't getting laid on Fri/Sat, is [subconsciously] trying. That includes my plates. This week, though, I'm on the train :(
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:13 AM
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Get broken up with. Anger phase helps a lot.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:09 AM
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You'll feel better when you found out she slept with someone else too. When she says "I love you," it's always tough. I haven't figured out a good way to deal with it. When it becomes a semi-regular thing, I say "I'm very fond of you, too" or something...but I can't guarantee that's the right thing to do. "You better, I'm sweaty as hell now", "<make out>", "want to do something even more romantic now? <shower>" are other responses I've considered.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:08 AM
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I haven't observed that at all. Women do like drugs. Maybe they don't like the stigma of DOING them... That's all I got.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:02 AM
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You will meet people when you go out. Not all of them will be girls. Guys can be worthwhile investments too.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:00 AM
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If your SMV is really as high as you say, you could be honest. "Hi, I think you're really pretty, and I'd like to talk to you, but I've spent so much of my twenties working on my career, I don't really know how to talk to girls. Would you bear with me?" And go from there. (Don't be too honest, obviously. Don't mention TRP.) Your success rates might be better than "absolutely can't deal"-ing with them. Plus there's the whole, "it doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it" working for you. …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:59 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/5513aq/serious_what_is_a_great_career_path_that_kids_in/
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:53 AM
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Conventional wisdom is: Break it off. In two months, she'll either be with another dude, or she'll come back to you. If neither, THEN you can resume. I'm guessing she's waiting for marriage/the perfect guy (and you're not good enough), and has rationalized "i'm not a slut" by considering vaginal is what matters. HOWEVER, if everything else is really really good, you could just enjoy it for what it is.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:50 AM
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It's always good to be involved in things. If they provide some other concrete benefit, even better. If going to them is actually costing you something then yeah. But if the alternative is watching TV or trading text messages, then go.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:38 AM
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For the record, you blocked her on social media to make it easier to remind yourself not to talk to her.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:36 AM
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Every girl loses interest eventually. It's not your girl, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:35 AM
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Nothing. Treat him like any of the rest of her orbiters. Talk about him like an excited little kid. Be positive but dismissive. It's entirely possible she's looking for jealousy or protectiveness from you. You should have a series of short stories about girls showing interest in you prepared for such an occasion, and pretend like they happened just last week or whatever. Talk about them the same way--positive but dismissive. (It's cuteeee.) Your girl basically wants to have a dick-measuring cont…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:31 AM
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Priority one. Have fun. Use that mindset. Maybe women gravitate toward you, maybe they don't. Being the life of the party doesn't usually fail. Coming off as thirsty does.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:29 AM
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Uprated. Exaggeration fits right in, too.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:27 AM
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Should start with a therapist. Therapist helps you with your head, be happy with what you have. Life coach helps you with everything except your head, helps you find what you're missing in life. Life coach is more thorough but also more expensive. Not legally bound by patient/doctor confidentiality (usually). More like a professional mentor. Not someone you see every week. More like a consultant. Hired, yes. Fireable, not really. There's a lot of room for interpretation for LCs. It is what you w…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:24 AM
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"always has to communicate through socail media" sounds like she's got you in her text game, not crushing on you. She doesn't have a crush on you unless she wants to see you. Maybe it's crippling self-consciousness, but it's working fine if you're in orbit. I don't know if you are. You aren't obligated to tell her anything.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:42 AM
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Show him the girls you've banged since you've started lifting. Yes, bro, these are girls I know and have fucked, not internet hos or chicks I saw on Tinder. From there, convince him that lifting and gains are the way to get it. Sprinkle on the RP wisdom while he's seeing results from lifting. Giving him the idea that everything he knows is wrong, is to be avoided.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:38 AM
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Music production is high-risk, high-reward. You know that. Anything in entertainment is about making connections first, content second. Going to school is a financial investment. If you don't know what you want, it's wasteful. Going into debt is to be avoided at all costs. "Finding a path" is solved by finding a life coach (professional mentor). Finding him/her is a pursuit itself, and it will cost money, but that's your guaranteed answer. Finding a therapist first will be easier, and get a refe…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 07:52 AM
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In practice, all of the guys here have been Chad at one time or another. But "Chad" succeeds 100% of the time, and everyone here knows it's just a numbers game. He's a metaphor.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:41 AM
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Of course it's weird. Unless it's not. Do the girls like you? not weird. do they have time to think "why is he talking to me?" yes weird. stupid how our definitions are based on how women respond to it. You should not have told her why. That makes you seem weird. You should do it because "it just felt natural".
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:36 AM
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Everyone should do therapy. Make sure he's not a complete beta. (ANyone who got through 4 years of college and 4 of grad school is pretty beta.)
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:34 AM
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Then marry her and enjoy the SMV boost from being married. Are you openly hitting on the girls in your day game? That's the only thing I can think of. If you're not getting any response, you're not being inappropriate enough.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:33 AM
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do it the first time or not at all. they're paid to be nice. there's no point. but there's no point in not. but do it the first time.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:31 AM
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weird, my mom is always complimenting me on my gains. then again, she's a yoga instructor, so it's more of a shared interest and less of a contest. girls who get mad about it are mad because your SMV is rising and you'll no longer be their orbiter. girls want things to be predictable, and that includes the men they know. change = conflict, and women avoid conflict at all costs. reverse rationalization. can i get that man? no? he's too attractive, and i'm not attracted to all of that muscle. is t…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:27 AM
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you're 20. you should not be in a LTR.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:22 AM
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bulk once you plateau %wise with your cutting. vice versa.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:20 AM
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they're drunk. have fun with them. so you're getting hit on. have fun with it. you have abundance mentality. getting hit on is not a new occurrence for you. the difference between you and a hot 18yo girl is you have self-confidence enough to have fun when you get hit on, and not having to instantly decide whether they're good enough for you or not.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:19 AM
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different people are different. is there any value to you in living with them? are they good influences? are you costing them unduly? do what makes sense for you. do you develop bad habits from living by yourself or with peers? i learned housekeeping and cooking from my mother after college. i became more independent from living with them. i made it so both of my parents could spend more time generating income. it was mutually beneficial. does that work for often? most people don't have parents …
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:17 AM
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I don't understand "kicked out for bad sex." elaborate? i don't see the need for an apology. she did something you didn't like, you punished her. transaction complete. either continue the relationship or don't.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:07 AM
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he's an alpha, trying to make a place for himself in an industry of betas. why? because he's so fucking alpha and narcissistic, he can't imagine that other people are any different. he can't understand that betas exist. or that that is what he must become, in order to win. you know who else were alphas? kings. monarchs. you know how their countries ended? badly.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:03 AM
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beta is letting other dictate what honesty and integrity is for you. women don't understand honesty and integrity, but they will try to use them to control you. re: confronting or powering: don't think about it as that. do the decision which has the more desirable consequences. maybe getting caught isn't one of them. when frank underwood got caught, he owned it. he carved his heart out and put it on a plate. and he won. it's only a story, i know. as for "lying about 6 figures", yeah, there's no …
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:00 AM
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been there. that's how you meet a wife. she's only a oneitis if you're friendzoned. which you're not. what happened to mine? i let her get too close and she felt guilty and went back to her husband. to be continued. i shouldn't have transitioned to LTR game.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:52 AM
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feel free to PM me. (i don't check messages daily) quick questions to consider: have a degree? have a history of intense focus on hobbies? for men "life purpose" is "career". you want something you can jump into and invest yourself in, long-term. something to eliminate all of your free time. right? google life coaches. or hire a therapist and ask them for help in exploring yourself to find that purpose. they might be able to direct you to a life coach. do some research and find the right therapi…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:49 AM
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I want to be friends with people who are educated, can pay for their own shit, have large circle. I find it very hard to be friends with white guys. these are going to make private and house parties? How to fuck women at these parties? this harder. white guys have the SMV. being friends with people who are not visibly white will not help your SMV since you aren't either. educated and wealthy basically puts them as betas. (basically, not 100% of the time.) and betas, while they might have big gro…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:38 AM
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yeah. we were officially not exclusive, but she was loyal. when she sensed that i was using it, she found an excuse to see me more often, thereby reducing the number of women i could date. although maybe this falls under your "plate numero uno" category, since she was married (to someone else). she was a plate for 1.5 years, which qualifies as LTR in my book.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:35 AM
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been there. like exactly. wow. time to have a relationship talk. yes, those are bad...unless you're already in one. make your expectations known, get her feedback. decide on rules for the two of you. she will realize that you are thinking objectively about her and you are not in love with her. it's introducing dread. it's covertly telling her that you're thinking about how she compares to other women. whoever decides to have the talk, wields the power of negotiation. if it's her idea first, the …
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:31 AM
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you were completely within your rights. in fact you gave her a lot of chances.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:24 AM
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seddit is frequented by women. women have learned to date women but never how to close. i wouldn't believe most of seddit's advice. the hostile atmosphere is necessary to keep women out of here.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:22 AM
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too long IMO
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:21 AM
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"cool" is sufficient. who is this girl to you? is she anyone special except when she's right in front of you? she's trying to cause jealousy and demonstrate SMV because she feels rejected you didn't sleep at her place.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:20 AM
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don't take it so personally, he was addressing everyone everywhere, not just you.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:18 AM
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1st and 4th line were sufficient. no need to be antagonistic.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:17 AM
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get out of your own head, bro. if you've been dating a girl for 5 years and not sure you want to marry her, do he (and you) a favor and cut her loose. maybe she comes back, but more importantly, you have got to break that pattern in your life. [e] practice being random. i'd really like to help you here man. go watch some pickup videos. normal conversation doesn't attract women. they get normal conversation 100% of the time. distinguish yourself. having a girlfriend, keeping you in the same speec…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:13 AM
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alpha and beta are just words. leaders and followers. there are no absolutes. they're a way of describing a set of behaviors. either your public image is as an exciting risk-taker or a predictable tip-toer. your image is with a series of actions, not just one.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:09 AM
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all oneitises always have boyfriends. they alpha-hop. once you're a beta in a girl's eyes, you're never anything else. if you're still talking to her and not fucking her, you're her orbiter. it hurts, but get out of orbit, because you'll never land.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:06 AM
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all strippers want to fuck. all strippers work for tips. they're trained gold-diggers. do what you want to do, but don't fall into their web.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:04 AM
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it's a life experience. it hurts now, but you'll get past it and see the bigger picture. i can't tell you how to "handle it". time is the cure, bro.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:02 AM
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if she's interested, she will suggest another time. if she doesn't, next her. no response needed.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:00 AM
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"k" is fine. basically the same as "ok".
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:59 AM
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Being in a group of friends in college is an technique beneficial to girls to keep a ring of betas. Occasionally one of the girls finds an alpha, and she leaves the group and her betas. Eventually, the girls who haven't found alphas settle for one of their remaining betas. Fraternity is good because guy friends are more valuable than girl friends, for life, not just for game or SMV.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:57 AM
1

Show shallow interest in all girls. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:55 AM
1

halo effect is trying to give "the right answer" in conversation, to be seen as socially acceptable, regardless of the accuracy of the answer.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:54 AM
1

Getting married with access to TRP puts you ahead of 90% of the married men out there. Just knowing how to hold frame will make your marriage (and wife) tons happier. Turn on the tv and watch almost any show to see how poorly-behaved, frusrated wives.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:53 AM
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ratio: 2 statements to 1 question. phrasing matters more than content.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:50 AM
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They draw attention and imply confidence because they're permanent. What you do with that attention is up to you. You know plenty of betas who have tattoos (and probably don't lift). A lot of girls claim to like tattoos (and the ones who don't like them don't say so), but like everything else they say, you should take with a grain of salt. But you're your own man. If you want a tattoo, you should absolutely get one. Personally, I have better things to spend $500 on.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:33 AM
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If you start college, you should finish it. Especially with all of that debt, which won't get paid down without a BA diploma job. Yes, college is a scam for 75% of people (because 75% of college is a scam).
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:29 AM
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Connector. Even Tucker Max's crew had a lot of variation.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:28 AM
1

Testosterone levels are not your primary problem right now. Do what your doctor said.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:24 AM
1

Study the pyramid, practice. Practice on a dummy if you have to. I stopped being "not a naturally touchy guy" once I realized girls WANT you to touch them. They want to fuck guys who invade their space, not respect it.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:23 AM
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Yeah. Great, great book. He's really abusive, doesn't use amused mastery nearly often enough, but the book is full of great lines and stories which you should absolutely plagiarize.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:21 AM
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If you've fucked her, freeze out. If you haven't, go talk to someone who isn't in a bitchy mood. "Don't tell me what to do" is a pretty good response for a lot of situations, but without knowing details, I can't know how apt it is here.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:19 AM
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She's a sub, and might not know it. Can confirm.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:14 AM
1

Yes, it's absolutely an IOI. Period.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:13 AM
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Doesn't matter. What matters is that you not let her emotional state determine yours.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:11 AM
1

You're starring in the play. The main character is bald. If you go bald, then you're announcing, every time someone sees you, that you're THE LEAD in the play. It's a SMV increase. DO IT. It's an excuse to draw positive attention to yourself and for girls to talk about you. Ashley: "Why does that guy have his head shaved? No one else in school does." Carly: "Because he's in the school play as XYZ." Ashley: <panties wet>
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:10 AM
1

What do you mean by "hold on to TRP"?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:08 AM
1

Social circle game. Why would you ever not game a girl? To game her friends. When women treat you as a friend "without gaming", it's because they're seeing you as high SMV--you've internalized game. And statistically, you can only fuck about five women per week, and you should have at least that many attractive women in your life. So long as you've friendzoned them, and not vice versa.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:05 AM
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Take the initiative to find unusual ways to create dating prospects. Unless you're living in Alaska in the woods alone for two years or something. That's pretty RP in itself. The original monk mode.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:01 AM
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A girl who likes you ALWAYS wants to fuck you. Girls are turned on and off slowly (over the course of hours or days), men are turned on and off quickly (minutes or seconds). Nothing wrong with letting her initiate. Statistically, you will initiate more often. Every time you see a plate, you should fuck her. Sex should be an expectation, consciously or not. It's better not to broach the idea of "sometimes one of us isn't in the mood", but it's just a guideline. However, if she's initiating ALL th…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:58 AM
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Girls are different. Additionally, I make short girls orgasm more than tall girls, no idea why.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:06 AM
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Practice standing up straight. Buy clothes that fit well and make you look good (not like a whole new wardrobe, but a couple new shirts should be affordable). Make eye contact (don't be afraid to be creepy, fixing that will come later). Start lifting or running, learn about how to do it properly (makes a conversation topic). Devise responses to anticipated shit tests, i.e. own the things you might be insecure about. Practice your smirk.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:04 AM
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An alpha doesn't view it as cheating. An alpha is just being friendly and if women fall on his dick, that's their decision, not his. The alphaest alphas destroy all of the good relationships they're in because they can't keep new women off their dicks. So it can go too far.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:56 AM
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You're 17. Slow down. To answer your question: just talk to everyone and have a good time. That's the mentality you need which will make you look good. Dance. Yes, 1000x, dance. You don't have to be good (even better if you are), but 1on1 time with any girl, let alone MULTIPLE girls, is the best possible thing for you. Cements you as unafraid of rejection, popular, and it's an opportunity for kino.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:53 AM
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She's not ready for a LTR. You shouldn't be either. You give her a LTR when SHE asks for it and only if she's proven herself worthy. Blue pill misconception: you should get a LTR so you can get habitual sex.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:51 AM
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Didn't read all of it, break it off sooner than later. Waiting longer makes her more likely to do it again. Also, you can change your mind later, and she'll know you weren't afraid to let her go.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:49 AM
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LTRs kill my sex drive too. Doing the same vagina repeatedly, even though she's still hot and submissive, just isn't the same. We mostly did it when I got back from the gym with strange, younger ass fresh in my head. Sex improved when we visited weekly instead of twice weekly.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:47 AM
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You have to be serious about sleep. But 4am might be excessive. People really only party on weekends (i.e. when they can actually sleep for 8-10 hours the next day).
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:17 AM
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I also go into these interactions with no desire of sexual pursuit. A man who isn't thinking about sex is a man who isn't getting sex. (Contrast with a woman.) Whether that's alpha or beta is open to interpretation, but betas are very effective at hiding their sexual intentions, from fear of rejection.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:16 AM
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Female athletes only fuck male athletes. Or betas with massive bucks. Look at the olympics.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:13 AM
1

she asks me what time I was heading home, but Stupid fucking question. Only two possibilities: in 5 minutes or in 5 hours. She asked the question because she wanted you to tell her the answer. It was an invitation.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:11 AM
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The fact that they're talking about you means you have power. If you let them talking about you bother you, you lose power. Ignore it, don't even amused mastery. Be friendly to them individually but ignore them as a group.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:06 AM
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You have to be polite and professional, but you shouldn't indulge her. Don't make an enemy of her, though.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:04 AM
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Teenager game: Do sports (popularity, recognizability, social proof). Be in shape (eye-catching). Talk to everyone (social proof, abundance mentality, no fear of rejection). Be positive (maintain frame). You should be working out and taking schoolwork seriously, as priorities. Don't waste your time sending text messages (to 1 or 100 people); talk to people in person. Being the least attractive person in your friend group isn't helping you.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:03 AM
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Maybe if you're a performing musician. But she has to be into it already. [edit] "Performing" doesn't mean "famous". It means she sees you get on-stage in front of dozens of people and do your thing.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:57 AM
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No. Read and remember the 48 laws of power. "Decent guy" is open to interpretation. If you manage your power poorly, then you cannot be adored.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:53 AM
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Date younger women.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:52 AM
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In general: college girls...dates more than a week in advance...not likely. In my experience, radio silence wins. Trying to keep up attraction/interest/comfort failed. Probably because it compromised the emotional distance/mystery. You can text them the day before to say "see you tomorrow at 7" or whatever your plan was. And you should always do the "i'll be about 15 minutes late" about an hour before to see if they're going to flake.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:50 AM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/08/12/the-difficulty-of-gaming-women-by-age-bracket/ TL;DR: learn it on easy mode before you try hard mode.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:44 AM
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Don't let women see you do it and don't do it with anyone who talks to the women you know. Beside that, whatever you have to do to get your mind right. If something is messing with your frame, you have to fix it one way or another. Especially in the long term.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:43 AM
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They're ALLOWED to do what they want. When you (I) can tell they're not dating/doing anyone else (not because they say so but because they're actions say so), i.e. when they CHOOSE only me, then they earn extra privileges. If you required it, then it would be monogamous or at least a negotiation, which costs you power, which costs you attraction. (Betas mate-guard, alphas disregard.) As with any other behavior, if it's something you like, you reward it gradually. I don't see how loyalty can be w…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:41 AM
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Yes, absolutely. Though not as beta as adopting the kid in order to keep fucking his/her mom.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:22 AM
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Was 100% sure of sarcasm.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:21 AM
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Girls can't survive without emotions/drama. That's how you catch them, and that's how you keep them. It does sounds like you were too demanding and not enough exciting.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:20 AM
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Yes, it's called plates stop spinning eventually. (Women want an alpha...who they have some hope of locking down.) You have to start sending boyfriend signals eventually if you want to keep them (look up LTR game). But if you're continuing to approach and keep your options open, then plates dropping isn't an issue. Just as they know, orbiters drop eventually. People don't get led-on forever.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:16 AM
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Happens to me too. Translation: you're showing me a bunch of your emotions (not being emotionally distant) and because you're attractive, it delights me! It's a helpful reminder to always be on your game. You can't be a dork 100% of the time or it's a turn-off.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 04:14 AM
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It's pron. If she got on your case about what you watch, you'd say she's being oversensitive, right? You'd say it's not a competition, whatsoever, you're not fucking them you're fucking her.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:34 AM
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Be patient. Don't specifically address it. Slip a finger in her butt (slowly) sometime, pull it out before she complains.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:17 AM
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Speaking straight to the point is a good skill to have, but it doesn't excite women like a guy who can take her on a roller coaster of emotions ride.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:16 AM
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My career. Cooking (also goes well with lifting). Reading (nonfiction, but I don't have as much time as I used to).
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:15 AM
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I would have gone silent when she says she's getting serious with a guy and he wouldn't like it. I ask "Is the guy only seeing you, Or is he dating too" "we havent talked about that yet but its like unsaid right?" "HMU after 8 if you want to do something" "sounds good, or just give me a call" Too much interest from you. She's just enjoying the attention. Good job with the soft next and wait for her to say something.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:14 AM
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Kindly elaborate, without analogies?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:05 AM
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No doubt. She's a regular plate.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:59 AM
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Up-voted. Follow-up question: what else could cause it?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:59 AM
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Thanks, but I always bang her. Attempted condescension is noted.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:57 AM
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Thank you for the most knowledgeable answer (anyone want to challenge him for the crown?). She is a regular plate. She stayed the night. We had already fucked. I always take her when she visits. She initiated once, and I'm looking for possible reasons beside the obvious "she was horny". Of course she was horny, this is TRP. But when women's behavior changes, we know to be suspicious. So I'm here asking for ideas.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:55 AM
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I mean, plates hit me up, but I have to actually take the lead when they arrive. 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:53 AM
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Be more brief. That one message had like 4 main ideas in it. Honestly, I think the only chance you have with her is the ability to push her buttons. Your asshole game isn't very smooth. Pick on her in person. Don't text. Stop trying to get with her. Make your new goal just to mess with her. You might end up getting with her anyway.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:01 AM
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Do what you feel like doing w/r/t spying. Don't get caught, don't get stupid or petty. Risk vs. reward analysis.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:53 AM
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I'm guessing you and sister are both between 20 and 30. In which case, your SMV is just starting to rise, and hers is around its peak. That will reverse over time, so her attitude toward you and your dad is only going to improve over time. Back up your dad. Be supportive. Don't tell him what to do. Don't try to educate him. Try to bond. Amused mastery on your sister when she tries to play him. When he sides with her, don't confront him, just continue amused mastery on her.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:51 AM
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People don't get to be dads without mixing serious beta into their alpha. Guys in the military learn very alpha skills and very beta frame. Not saying everyone turns out the same, but a military doesn't work with people who don't abide chain of command. Military teaches you to follow rules--beta by definition.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:43 AM
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The answer to flaking is a soft next. Sometimes they get a second chance, but never a third. By continuing to chase despite refusal without a good excuse, you're just demonstrating low value. It's just how the game is played. If flake, then ignore. It's not personal.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:41 AM
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You'll get used to it. It's not a bad thing to have a hard time falling asleep with someone who you've never been asleep with before. It's a trust thing. Girls who you don't subconsciously trust to be walking around your apartment when you're asleep, you'll have a hard time staying asleep with. If it's something you really want to do with them, practice.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:38 AM
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They're not worried about being woken up by you. They're even half-expecting to be woken up at 3am with your dick in their mouth. (Or maybe that's just my experience with plates who earn the privilege of spending the night.)
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:36 AM
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Feel-good. When were you told to follow your dreams? 1st grade? 5th? 8th? 12th? Probably not 12th. Before you hit puberty and became a man. Before you joined a sport and started thinking about winning and making dough. "Follow your dreams" is good advice for women. Women don't generally dream about having a big salary, nice car, sports team, and concubines--they dream about having friends and going places, having families and big houses, and sexy men enamored with them. Women who follow their dr…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:59 AM
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Because they feel too much in control. Because they don't have someone telling them what to do.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:53 AM
1

Green chile tabasco. Is yellow.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:51 AM
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You're allowed to lash out and be aggressive and agitated. You're not allowed to do it often or predictably. People mess with the gentle giant. People respect the gentle giant who sent someone to the hospital ONCE. When in doubt, do as the old you wouldn't have. Sometimes that means simply grabbing someone firmly--violating the personal bubble.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:49 AM
1

Go to the places girls go after clubs. Cheaper, and they're hornier and already high from beta attention.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:46 AM
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Self-esteem issues. Possibly abundance mentality. Since moving to a college town and seeing multiple 8-10s daily (not to mention the flood of 5-7s), I can't get it up for anything less than 8. Lifting will help your self-esteem. Putting in the effort will take a while, start now. It will be a few months before you see any results, partially because you don't know what you're doing yet.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:45 AM
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He made a good first impression. Probably isn't the most alpha guy you ever met. That's also how he pumps and dumps so many girls--leaves them before they see past the first impression.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:42 AM
1

Fact is, women ruled humanity for the first 250,000 years. Fascinating, would you elaborate or point me to a link?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:40 AM
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Things are already changing. Anti-feminist women are popping up (as much as a woman can ever actually have a belief system), "SJW" is becoming a well-known slur, more men are getting wise to feminism, more and more men are retreating to video games thereby increasing female competition and therefore decreasing their inflated standards.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:39 AM
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Have to plate her first. Even virgins can be plated.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:36 AM
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But it's not Machiavellian to challenge his machivellianism head-on. Have to undermine him, without badmouthing him back.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:35 AM
1

I read on TRP that MFM are the easiest to do because she gets drunk on the attention, but never last (multiple sessions) because the girl falls for one of the dudes (hypergamy). But FFM, the girls have to be into each other.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:31 AM
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Last one I was in, was because I really enjoy unprotected sex while she was on BC. Wouldn't have done it if she weren't also obedient, respectful, eager to please, shared interests, didn't flake, never withheld sex, shit tests were few and far between, didn't dye her hair, great smile, didn't talk about interest in other men... probably more. The only thing I didn't like was her hesitance to go to the gym. She was young, didn't really need to, but everyone should go to the gym. Makes girl-on-top…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:29 AM
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I enjoyed reading it. Those are pretty blunt cons, though. I'm sure you know it, and thank you for being so open, but I'm going to say it anyway--be careful, because those cons can become unmanageable.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:23 AM
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If you were a beta, what would you say? You might say yes, and then you'd start talking about what a great girl she is, or no, but there's this a girl I like... Or you might say no, but I wish I were... Or you might say, not anymore, we broke up because of this or that or its complicated... Maybe the situation calls for beta. Maybe it doesn't. Your call. Which impression do you want to make? What is your goal in this situation? What is to be gained by divulging or withholding information?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:21 AM
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Why are you letting a plate stay there while you're trying to sleep? I think you're sending her mixed signals. Yeah, a bit. I let my plates spend the night, but it's after sex and she wants to go to sleep. If she isn't tired she can go home. I don't want her wandering around my place while I'm sleeping. Plates don't get to stay the night until they've earned the privilege. Some of them do earn it. There's a quote about gremlins which applies, can't find it right now...
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:17 AM
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That. And once she got her AF, she was in the mood for some other kind of intimacy, so she called an orbiter. This may not actually be correct, but it fits.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:15 AM
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This might be a conversation about her talking to other dudes (which you're fine with, you just don't want to know about it)... but you need to make it a conversation about respect and politeness, because otherwise it's about your feelings and insecurity. When you are at another person's house, as a guest, it is a RULE of etiquette, to not speak on the telephone to other people. If you MUST, you get your host's PERMISSION AND you keep it SHORT. Otherwise, she's being rude. It's also a general ru…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:14 AM
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The day I stated using TRP on my mother (i.e. not logic), my life got significantly better. The day she noticed my gains at the gym, even moreso. (Context, she's middle-aged, trophy wife--no surgery, asks me for things a lot, has a hand in--not control over--my financials.) Fucking weird, but it works. Anyone can be gamed. Also, you're 16. Your mother's job is to make your life unbearable. Practice not letting it affect you.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:07 AM
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Ass or nothing IMO. Ass is a great idea, I wouldn't have thought of it. I would have just let her remember after several days, but if you have a good ass, it's a great way to pass that shit test. Even better than sending your balls, and certainly better than any but the briefest text. "HugeCock" or "McLongCock" would be another possibility but ass pic wins.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 03:02 AM
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Usually I'm being a whiny bitch. Why did I go to the gym at 8pm instead of 8am? Because I didn't feel like it. Why did I watch Netflix instead of doing research? Feelings, excuses. Why soda instead of oatmeal? Didn't feel like taking an extra few minutes. Why spend 3 hours having sex instead of 1? Feels so good and relaxing. Dammit, I have shit to do. [edit] Thanks, laere.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:51 AM
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So I won't look old when I'm 80. So I can still bang 20-year-olds. If I break a joint or tear something, that will seriously impede my long-term goals. Look at Kevin Spacey and Sylvester Stallone. Old dudes, but your girlfriends would still bang them. Then again, Kevin Spacey has mad internal game and less looks than Stallone.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:47 AM
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I don't think it will work. Guys aren't meant to have tons of close friends. (Girls measure their own worth by how many orbiters she can attract, so how many men she can make feel close to her.) Men, however, need to have free time to pursue casual relationships with women. So men can't have many close relationships. A saying which has always rung true for me is: men get together to talk about interests, women get interests in order to talk together. Instrumental communication versus expressive …
/r/askTRP14/11/15 02:45 AM
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Yeah, buddy! Congrats on the progress.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:41 AM
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Yeah. But you get invited to the wedding, right? Bring a well-behaved plate, or go stag and meet one.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:37 AM
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Too confrontational. Not replying to the emotional train was right. Then she apologized, so you should have set up another date. "Not gonna happen" was you breaking it off. She got the message. if you change your mind, you lose points. Maybe you can salvage it, maybe you can't. You won't fuck her if you don't try again, but your future attempts are going to be at 75% effectiveness. Could still work.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:36 AM
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A 4 is not revolting. A 4 is mildly unattractive. As in, 40% of men would fuck her. That includes old dudes.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:31 AM
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It's not so you can fuck now, it's so you won't look saggy and decrepit in 20-40 years, so you can still fuck 18-28-year-olds in 20-40 years. It's about taking care of yourself. The playingest dudes are the dudes who don't look like players (remember Mystery?). They seem like polite, well-adjusted, assertive but not aggressive, funny men. (Basically what TRP looks like to women.)
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:30 AM
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TRP was invented so men wouldn't have to pay money for sex, let alone for not-sex. One suggestion I found, haven't tried it myself: If you do find yourself at a strip club, sit at the bar (not the stage), enjoy the scenery, talk to the bartender and/r cocktail waitresses. You'll look mature and not thirsty. You'll also build rapport. You have a better chance of gaming the waitresses than the strippers, too.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:23 AM
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Fuck her in the alley, in the bathroom, in the bathroom of the diner down the street...or even just get a bj in those places. Also she was probably on something. Have her scratch her number into your arm. Lol, but seriously. Somebody has a freaking pen.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:19 AM
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Are you dropping her or just not happy with the high comfort level? Fade out. If the latter, fade out but occasionally have hookups. Don't verbally tell her anything about the change in relationship.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:16 AM
1

Be alert for red flags when dating talking to a nurse. You found several. Now stop giving her attention.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:13 AM
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She wants to fuck you. She sees you as someone respectable, because your lifestyle is so different from hers. Of course she wants to fuck you. You smell like grown man. She'll probably pedestalize you less after you fuck her, and then you have to deal with her crazy. So don't fuck her.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:06 AM
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She'll stop whining and driving you insane when you stop being determined to make it work. She'll shape up when you grow a backbone.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:03 AM
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The women ive dated/fucked have told me im between 7.5-9 on a rating of 1 to 10 Not a good idea to ask the women you're dating how hot you are. They won't give you a useful answer, and it reeks of insecurity. Which might be your problem.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:02 AM
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Step 1. Fix your diet. It will help your mentality and get the ball rolling. And by fix your diet, I mean, not chocolate and pizza. No wonder you feel like shit. A vegetable. Any vegetable. Two. Make scrambled eggs. PB&J. Cereal. Frozen chicken strips in the oven. Instant oatmeal. Those are all easy and don't require teaching yourself to cook. (Learning to cook can be step 2 or 3.)
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:00 AM
1

Ten pounds in 4 months? Damn. I've been trying to gain, too, and yes it is hard. Can you post before/afters?
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:54 AM
1

Too much pressure on yourself. Give up and don't come. Have another date. Fuck. If you don't come, don't worry about it. You will eventually. Girls love when you come, but I've never lost a plate [solely] due to my inability to ejaculate.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:53 AM
1

You aren't giving her enough feelings. On a more technical note, you know who doesn't talk more than necessary? People (e.g. Asperger's) who lack social skills--the ability for small talk, etc. She's getting suspicious. You're seeming more like a calculated cool than a suave truly exciting man. "why are you not trying occupy and intrest me by yabbering on about yourself?" Close, more like, "why aren't you being interesting?" When women are attracted to you, you can't shut them up.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:04 AM
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Fair enough. Advice: recognize lack of interest after fewer messages and walk away. "Yes but I'm crazy busy"=I'm unavailable. "Haha we'll see"=I'm unavailable. There's no excitement or thought in any of her messages. She doesn't care. She was talking to you to be polite.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:40 PM
1

Think less. If it matters, you'll know.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:38 PM
1

Keep reading. Practice talking to people. You will have some (many) failures, but they will get better. Also, you're 19. Without social capital, you're practically nothing. Grats on discovering TRP. Don't give up, you'll be amazing in a few years.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:36 PM
1

Seeing your girlfriend every week is hardly a girlfriend. If she isn't texting you daily then she's not into you. You have a plate (assuming you're fucking her). What's "changed" is up to you, but it seems like you're not going to keep her for long.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:33 PM
1

All she did was swipe you right. Doesn't mean she's into you. Don't say anything until you actually have something to say. A little mystery is worth more than anything else you have right now.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:29 PM
1

Yeah, you never had her interest. Nothing but orbiting there. Sorry man. "your just looking for sex" was probably a shit test, but even if you'd passed, it wasn't going to get her to your hot tub. She was just stringing you along the whole time.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:27 PM
1

Go to her place, IMO. Easier to leave than to kick her out gracefully. Not always possible.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:21 PM
1

Don't hold hands. Touch hands. Touch arm. Touch whatever. Anything lingering isn't exciting.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:20 PM
1

Foreign girls have lower SMV than white girls, or they think they do. Preferring foreign girls is telling girls: you're giving up on higher SMV girls, which lowers your own SMV. So if you do legit have a fetish for them, you can't admit it openly without losing SMV. Everybody else has a "fetish" for athletic blue-eyed blondes with perfect white teeth.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:17 PM
2

Also, you've been practicing for years getting girls hotter than you (successful or not), so you have been fighting an uphill battle. Girls, however, have had everything handed to them for years and had to practice saying "no" (or not). So you have experience getting what you want and have much more skill, and they're slowly starting to realize they have to start learning NOW.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:14 PM
1

Girls are irresponsible. You don't put the ball in their court because they don't know what to do with it. Tell, don't ask. Have a plan, inform her of her place in it. She will either accept (good), counter-offer (good but rare), or try to make you orbit (next).
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:10 PM
1

Yes, we know. Humans who haven't put in the work yet are very willing to give you their input, but humans who are knowledgeable are less patient.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:06 PM
1

Not wanting to play games will lose you female attention. Which might be the right call in some cases, but it still holds true. You should have teased them more. "Really? [Tell us more about how good you are at not taking us seriously and A&A, because we're excited by you regardless of how you look.]" "No, not really, I'm 22." "[Oh, you're not exciting anymore. Bye!]"
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:04 PM
2

I'm still in the stage where I enjoy seeing her pleased. When she's moaning on the end of my cock, that's what's pleases me. If she's not vocalizing and squirming, my boner shrinks. Fortunately, she's most vocal when I'm being selfish and focusing on my own orgasm.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 10:01 PM
1

Doesn't have to be cold. Just enough to be uncomfortable. The goal is to not spend 4 minutes adjusting for the "right" temperature--turn on, get in, wash, get out.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:45 PM
1

It's reverse psychology. Take it easy.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:42 PM
1

Exactly. If sexy dudes were easy to find, everyone would be dating them. Instead of cheating with them.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:38 PM
2

because "like a jerk" is a four-letter word, and "alpha" is 4 pages of rules. Alphas come off as jerks but so do clueless betas who only read the first page.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:37 PM
2

She's 18. Anyone she has dated for more than a year is pretty beta--she hasn't been hit on by sexy older men yet. So it's not "this easy" for all girls--just for younger ones (because they're dating younger guys who are the best they can do right now).
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:54 AM
1

The only thing wrong is he's here asking about his chances instead of out there testing them for himself. And he'll get over his hot-blondes craving quickly enough.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:51 AM
1

Keep your GPA up. Nothing is wrong with going to college for a bit longer (especially since you have a full ride). Don't let "living at home" stop you from getting laid. Or from talking to girls. You know why "having sex in your parents' house" is such a well-known problem? Because tons of people face it and deal with it. Plus, you don't need a bed to have sex.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:49 AM
1

True, but A&A is lying, technically. Jokes and flirting are lying. They're lies which can't really be taken seriously, so you never have a problem. You can lie, so long as you're willing to face the consequences (having to justify yourself later is one possible consequence, so respond in a way which doesn't result in that). Lying is part of socializing. Covert communication.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 05:02 AM
1

It's bullying. Girls like bullies. When another dude gives it right back, then you both look cool. Obviously it all works better if you already know each other. Otherwise you get "bully" shit tests and so you basically scored points at his expense, but it wasn't your fault. When you do it to a girl and she does it back, it's called flirting. But there's really no reason to pick fights with dudes you don't know. Befriending always works better, but you can't befriend a white knight.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 04:59 AM
1

Performance anxiety. You were putting pressure on yourself. It happens. Then you let her get offended. And it sounds like she has too much control. Then you "went full beta". Learning experience. Your first actually went pretty well. Next move: set up the next date, keep the language brief. If she replies, fuck. If she doesn't next.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:39 AM
1

No catch. You gamed well, now you have a plate. Keep boundaries, continue with tight game and TRP. You've done everything right. She's yours to lose. Stay vigilant for signs of crazy.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:35 AM
1

College town, visible muscle, Tinder. Women your age are dying for their last AF, women younger than you are dying for their first AF. Really not that hard. Don't expect a relationship.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:32 AM
1

Means girls your age are now fucking even older guys and you have even less chance with them. Focus on yourself and your studies/career (because chasing women won't get you laid and your SMV has nowhere to go but up). You won't have a LTR for another 4 years because girls are raging bundles of hormones and girls won't care about exclusivity until they're 22.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:27 AM
1

Has to be 4 years difference and under 18 for it to be pedo. That said, don't fuck crazy girls, of any age.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:23 AM
1

Same thing. Style called them shit-tests, they come up in TRP more than PUA because TRP prefer plates and PUA prefer ONS. Fit/fitness/frame tests are a more descriptive, less offensive way of saying the same thing.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:19 AM
1

Used too much overt communication. It's not an unrecoverable loss but your effort is better spent meeting new plates than trying to keep that one.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:13 AM
1

That. I cook for 4-5 days and do the dishes, in the same night. As I go through food, I put the tupperware and dishes in soapy water (not much sap, not much water, just enough to prevent stuff from sticking) in the sink, then wash it all together. I could switch to disposable but I'm not sure it wouldn't be a waste of money.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:11 AM
1

Real alphas don't ask women anything important, they instinctively know the answers. You don't have to ask, you can figure it out yourself. Just pay attention. And you SHOULD NEVER ask, because it displays insecurity and then she will ask yours, and that is a shit test.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:04 AM
1

No. Musicians get plenty of tail. That's why beta junkies decide to be musicians.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:51 PM
1

You're surrounded by women. That's more than just abundance mentality. Don't stay away from them. Get involved. Lead. Flirt. Go out. Don't be the errand boy and they will compete for you. I'd love to have a class full of women. One of the problems with being in STEM.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:50 PM
1

Without consulting me? That's disrespectful, and she's going to get less attention until she figures out what she did wrong. When she asks about it, "I miss your long hair." No more emotion than that. When she apologizes and starts demonstrating respect again, we're good. Crazy though? Not unless it was an extreme change. Same goes for dying hair.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:43 PM
1

I said, "No, I actually didn't." I showed her pictures of the girl on Facebook and our message exchange from that night. She scoffed and said, "Well she doesn't seem like she's that into you anyway." She challenged you, you qualified yourself to her, her reaction was to lose attraction. And then she started qualifying herself to you (apparently your exes were hotter than her, so qualifying didn't hurt you too much), and she was yours. But you kept talking. Also, she's 30. Wall or almost there.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:38 PM
1

So meet her somewhere else. See how legit she is, then evaluate where you'd like to take her. She doesn't need to be included in any of the planning.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:34 PM
1

They wouldn't know the definition of a pickup line if it were in the dictionary. It's just a bitch shield to be defused. Keep trucking, ignore their words.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:32 PM
2

I can't enjoy a bunch of the TV shows I used to, because I see all of the unnecessary drama and repetitive feminist empowerment (no bitterness, just a description) stuff. And I'm always noticing which characters they build into alphas or betas and when they betray those characters' identities (for excitement!). Californication is a classic example. I'm also noticing how women are acting rationally and saying things women would never say. Which means I spend less time on entertainment and more ti…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:30 PM
0

So sigmas are MGTOW? I don't really buy into labels beyond A/B.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:25 PM
2

She'll stop looking at her phone when a cute guy walks up to her and stalk talking. Then all you have to do is be more interesting than her phone--with practice, not hard. Most girls are looking at their phones because they want to look busy and not awkward, not because they're actually doing something.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:24 PM
6

"Approach, approach, approach. They're more afraid of you than you are of them. Believe in yourself (cliche, but SO TRUE for men). You are brighter and hotter than you know and you shouldn't feel the need to fit in and be comforting. Girls don't fuck guys who are comforting."
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:19 PM
2

Number 3 is good, but amplified too far. Calling her a slut kills the amused mastery. "Well it may not be in your top 5..." and let it hang. But if she uses the same test often, then apparently she's enjoying your responses too much. You can tell her to be more original in her insults, too.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:17 PM
1

That's one of the rules. You have to be awesome, but you get more points for making it look effortless.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:53 PM
1

Too much overt communication.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:50 PM
1

Entirely possible. Watch what specific tricks he's learned which allow him to persist.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:48 PM
1

Sounds like she wants to bone and every time she gets close you drop the ball somehow. I confront her about her feelings for me, she admits she has them, but doesn't feel like the situation doesn't warrant a relationship b/c she's graduating and moving back home. She even self-deprecates and says she makes a "bad girlfriend." Never once tells me LJBF. Even after she leaves, she still insists on keeping contact with me, texting me every day to ask "What's up?" So she was asking you to fuck her. I…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:27 AM
2

You're allowed to reply. You're just not allowed to give her text validation unless you're she's a plate, and then you should be wary of giving her too much. Orbiters get "more attention" than fuckbuddies, but you wouldn't want be the former. It's not how much attention you get, it's what you do with it. Being whiny and uber-beta is sure to get you attention, but that attention doesn't lead to sex.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:14 AM
1

You're allowed to reply. You're just not allowed to give her text validation unless you're she's a plate, and then you should be wary of giving her too much. Orbiters get "more attention" than fuckbuddies, but you wouldn't call that a bad thing. It's not how much attention you get, it's what you do with it. Being whiny and uber-beta is sure to get you attention, but that attention doesn't lead to sex.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 07:03 AM
2

Deflect. Don't talk about it. If she keeps pushing, you can talk about it. Only give her as much truth as she can handle; you'll know how much truth she can handle by how much she pursues it. Would you feel guilty about telling someone a big fat lie in a language they don't understand? Probably not. But if you do, there are ways around it.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:25 AM
1

It's not a villain, it's an illusion. A test. Men who believe in it fail the test and award status to the woman testing him. Men who see through it pass and gain status, thereby wetting panties.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:06 AM
1

Watch him. Analyze him. Learn from him. Figure out how he manages to make people do the things he wants them to do. Betas can be machiavellian. The best even have themselves fooled.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:52 AM
1

Rush. Can you get along with the dudes? Accept bid. Still getting along with them? Initiate. Nope? Accept bid elsewhere. You won't get a bid from people who don't like you (and you won't like them). Rush. Meet people. Find the one you like best.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:40 AM
1

Athletes. Great shape+social proof with other dudes on great shape> social proof, no matter how much. Then again, social proof + game can > great shape +social proof + less game. But you're never going to get an athlete and his bros to compete with a fraternity member and his bros. TOo much abundance mentality on both sides. (There are no athletes who are not on teams. Therefore social proof.)
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:28 AM
1

Males test other males all the time. It's called ball-busting (or any number of other names). You don't notice it because you pass them without thinking (or you learned to pass them without thinking from TRP). That's how you go from "this is a fun guy to talk to" or "this is an awkward dude, he doesn't understand I'm joking with him".
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:17 AM
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