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Mike Sartain said it best: There are three types of humans in the sexual marketplace: The top 4.5% of men who are crushing it that all the women want Women The bottom 80% of men who women are largely ignoring It's squishy numbers because we don't have 80% of women chasing the top 20% of men. The reality is 80% of women are chasing the top 4.5% of men, but will settle for the 20% if they fail to snag a Chad and settle as the wall approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:52 PM
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RP sites are dying because it's gone mainstream and now resides in those spaces where Gen Z and younger millennials congregate for their social media consumption. (eg Tiktok & podcasts). Reddit is an example of a dying platform much the way Facebook is relegated to boomers sharing boomer memes with each other and the principle use by younger people is to keep in touch with thier boomer relatives. Adapt or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:42 PM
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Right now, it is difficult to prove or disprove this. Hoeflation is not only real it's plain to see. Denying the lived experiences of millions upon millions of men nationwide is folly at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:41 PM
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Re #6: From the source: https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030—the largest share in history—up from 41% in 2018. "Recent data indicates 51% of U.S. women aged 18–40 were single in 2023, a significant increase from 42% in 2000": https://www.perplexity.ai/search/what-percentage-of-women-aged-.mg_4dWRQZCMINlATPCmEQ#1 Not quite an apples to apples age comparison, but close enough. M…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/25 08:33 PM
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Both parties took men for granted. The only reason guys showed up was because of Elon and Joe Rogan, and the very real possibility of getting drafted if things are allowed to continue in their present direction.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:27 PM
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As OKProfessionaon9405 said, there's two halves that must be accounted for. Similarly, we must also acknowledge men and women are different. As for the definition of "sexual fulfillment, this isn't as simple as people think. Most may immediately jump to the conclusion this means actual sex, but it's not that simple. Sexual fulfillment can take place just from being sexual attention and affection, even if sex never takes place. This is where things get interesting IMO. We all agree the overwhelmi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:44 PM
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Life isn't fair. Not everyone gets to be an astronaut. Social media changed the game and has exacerbated the gulf between haves and have nots. Whinging about it doesn't change this basic fact of life. To hammer home the above point, for all of history men are viewed as sub-human. The sooner you accept this the better. Men are not going to generate sympathy by the masses as all of human history women have been viewed as human beings. Men are human doings. h/t Dr. Warren Farrell Get with the doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:44 PM
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Women do not want a nice guy, they want a guy they are so monumentally attracted to they would crawl over broken glass just for the opportunity for him to nut on their face to be nice to her if only for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:55 PM
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Half of childless women are not childless by choice. They stayed in the casino too long. This isn't a revenge fantasy, it's data. Go watch the Birth Gap documentary for all the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:09 PM
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Lol, his cherry picked data and research was horrid and rightfully lambasted. It's about 30% of men under 30 not having sex in teh past year or are still virgins and about 2/3 of men under can't even get a gf. It's to the point they've given up and stopped looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:23 PM
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are women supposed to persue unattractive men for sex? The issue is due to social media women are not having sex within their own leagues anymore. A substantial portion are getting ran through by dudes several points higher in SMV and mistakenly think that's their level. It's not until they hit the wall and reality sets in that all of this changes. But by then for many women, about half, it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:21 PM
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Cool story, I'll remind your girlfriend how polite you are after I rail her on a night out with the girls.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/24 02:28 PM
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Heelllllll no. Sorta. Red flags are green flags if you just want to have fun. Take your turn on the town bicycle, but don't commit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:20 PM
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She's telling you the type of men who turn her on. Do with that information what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:02 AM
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Instagram is your social resume and the world's greatest dating app ever created. I'm 47 and smashed a 24 year old model a few weeks back who cheated on her boyfriend with me. Why? Status, fitness, and she wanted to have some fun. Social media unlocked that possibility. In fact social media has completely leveled up my game and allowed me access to women I'd otherwise be locked out of.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/24 08:25 PM
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When I go out alone, I usually have no issues attracting and hooking up. Because you're selecting for sociosexual women. Most women who hookup with guys like that were going to and it was your turn. That's miles away from what he's talking about in the writing where some guys are just THE guys going through all the women in a social circle, privately, without anyone knowing it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/24 07:23 PM
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I've been around from the very start. In fact some of my OG writings helped create what later became known as The Red Pill / Mansphere. A good chunk of the sidebar was me over the years on different accounts. /u/redpillschool and others know who I am. My most famous/infamous contribution is probably the concept of "branch swinging", aka "monkey branching" back in... oh, about 2007. I actually borrowed from an ooooooold movie from ~1989 and slightly updated it to describe what so many men were ex…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 08:33 PM
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Being high status IS game. Being wealthy feeds into that status. Being in the top 5% of fitness feeds into that status. Being the leader of men (solid frame) feeds into that status. I think you get the picture. What most people define as "game" is the least important aspect of what makes a man attractive to women. All celebrities and pinnacle status men have to do is show up and not do something hyper egregious that puts their foot in their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:16 PM
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I can tell you don't have female friends. I went out in DC away from my normal scene where I had no status. I did just fine with girls hitting on me bringing me to their table not the other way around. If you suck at night game it's a you problem, not a night game problem. Work on your energy and learn to vibe with women better. Having a bunch of hot female friends goes a long way to solving this.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 01:40 PM
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Build status, hang out with them, and sex just happens. https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/10ga16e/the_key_elements_of_male_attractiveness/
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 01:37 PM
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Right. The handful of married women I've banged over the years I didn't know they were married until afterwards. If a woman doesn't like you, she'll say she has a man to get rid of you. If a women does like you, she'll go to great lengths to keep you from finding out. Girlfriends are a whole other story and yes I've known at least a few had guys. Sometime I found out after we had already started banging and realized what's up once he started blowing up her phone, and for us to go back at it sinc…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 01:13 PM
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Most women are in the secret society with a small number of guys they're regularly hooking up with. If you didn't know that about the single women in your life, then you're not in the safe crowd the article describes.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/24 01:24 PM
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The way things are headed I wouldn't be surprised if your average 21 year old woman is racking up a higher body count in a year than the average 50 year old woman has over her entire lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/24 09:46 PM
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It's not about being villainous, but rather a philosophical mental shift to get what you want out of this life. The world will not hand you what you want on a silver platter and that you're going to have to go out there and take it. Often that means taking it (or her) from someone else. You must give yourself permission and not be afraid of being the bad guy in someone else's story.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 05:49 PM
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Exactly how I feel.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 12:39 PM
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There's no real easy answer for that. Once you're brought into it though, keep your mouth shut and be non-judgemental.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 12:37 PM
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Was a copy & paste from a ~12 year old post, I think on an RSD forum that's now defunct. I'll leave it as is unless someone finds a better version.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 12:36 PM
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The red pill got caught in your throat and came back out with this one.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 04:06 AM
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I also don't want to catch 2 in the chest because some disgruntled hubby has pathological scarcity mentality That is a real risk so be careful out there. That said, I don't have any sympathy for Timmy Halfatwink who can't control his bitch, or Ollie the Orbiter who freezes in the clutch. Orbiters can't get laid - they just go in circles - and then get mad when I swoop in and isolate, escalate and then penetrate "his" woman. Sorry, but to the victor goes the spoils. THAT is what this thread is su…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 04:04 AM
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My next post is a throwback and should shine some contextual light on things that a low of guys seem to be missing. Hopefully that helps.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 03:59 AM
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the decision to knowingly sleep with someone's partner is open to perception. Some would call it villanous. Yup. They were going to do it anyway, why not get mine.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/24 10:53 PM
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Perhaps this helps explain my mentality on this one... https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1d2q5ix/be_the_villain/l63dy3j/
/r/TheRedPill28/05/24 10:52 PM
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The best way to begin behaving like a villain is by making yourself your own mental point of origin That and truly owning the reality of the world in which we live. The successful men aren't nice guys trying to live in a Disney fantasy. Do with that information what you will.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/24 10:52 PM
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Consider it a ripping off the band-aid of Mr Nice Guy. Sometimes you just need to give into the deep end of the debauchery and live it for a while. I've never been the nice guy, I just wanted to be. It's a complete ego fuckery frame shift because I've been living the bad boy life and never really owned it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/24 10:51 PM
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Have you... tried making friend with them? We've turned a corner and now the "secret society" is more powerful than ever. A select few guys in an entire social circle is smashing all the women behind the scenes and almost nobody is the wiser. Make friends with a huge group of girls and work on becoming the guy they all hook up with. That is the way things are now. I mean they always have been, but that's more important now than ever before in part because of the reasons OP described.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/24 12:52 PM
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In addition to the girls night out, dressing to attract sexual attention is also a no-go if I'm not present. In fact dressing that way is in general not appropriate and I expect the women I am serious with to have some class. For those in the cheap seats, dressing in such a way that solicits sexual attention from others is itself a form of infidelity and a monumental red flag your woman is looking for a bigger better deal to branch swing to. The rare girls night out is acceptable because it won'…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/24 02:40 PM
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Mid women crave attention and use sex for validation.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/24 02:37 PM
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If it can be automated away with AI or robotics, steer clear of it. Skilled trades are in massive demand as the boomers retire. Easily multiple six figures within 10 years if you are good at what you do.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/24 02:35 PM
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Seeing as I helped create it I'm a bit biased. To put it simply TRP is just a praxology. Nothing more. How one applies that knowledge to their own lives, that's what can be debated. In its simplest form utilizing the knowledge within one's life is what I would best describe as applied evolutionary psychology.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 01:54 PM
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Look up the light-switch effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:19 PM
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Recently went out with someone that seemed like the perfect gentleman on the first date... and turned into someone completely different by date 2, once he realized he wasn't getting laid. That's a feature, not a bug. You just filtered out a guy who was not looking for a wife or was only looking for a hookup. So long as you make EVERYONE wait and truly do have a low body count (under 3).
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 10:57 PM
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The type of guys you're describing are the guys who will bang anything that comes their way and end up in the domain of mid women and slump busters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:03 PM
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Nobody wants women who've been ran through. I'm worried about the future of the nation. When women are fat, have high body counts, masculine attitudes, and generally not worth committing to, ask yourself what happens with the men? Hint: They drop out of the labor force. That's bad if you like running water, electricity, and bridges that don't fall down. And so far about 10M men have said "no thanks" and are backing away from the table. This is why within 5 years will have shortages of 100,000 li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:30 PM
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Data. Overall it's about 51% women, but at younger age demographics there actually more males. The numbers shake out the way they due to on the job deaths, early deaths, and risk taking in general that skews women's numbers slightly higher in the aggregate over all age ranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:58 PM
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In the modern era that would look more like the top 5 men piping down 40 of the women, and the other 60 women "settling" for the next top 15 guys as that top 5 guys are too busy banging the top 40 women for those other 60 women to get their hands on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:54 PM
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They're more difficult because they're stuck on their highest setting combined with gobs of drama, trauma, and baggage. See also: Alpha Widows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:52 PM
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Remember, single =/= celibate. They're getting their back blown out by someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:51 PM
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Per the recent General Social Survey 20% of women are sharing a man whether they know it or not. I personally expect that number to climb substantially in the coming years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:50 PM
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Testosterone is a hell of a hormone. Men's sex drive is at minimum about 700% stronger than women's. The horniest most women have EVER experienced their entire lives, that's Tuesday for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:01 PM
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There's a couple under "Hard Mode".
/r/TheRedPill06/02/24 05:37 PM
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What is there to debate? This is just factually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:24 AM
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That's simple. https://imgur.com/a/S6tG6FZ Serious answer: get good at social media. Instagram is the social resume at this point. If it, like a dating app profile, doesn't look sharp, well, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:11 PM
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Yeah I thought that was true too until I saw who wrote the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:04 PM
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Most have. 60% in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:04 PM
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Look, women don't want to be approached by random men they've literally never seen before. That's the thing with cold approach, you don't get to make the choice of who or when they approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:47 PM
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Nobody has ever gone to jail for saying hi to a woman. Have you not been paying attention? Guys have been arrested for approaching girls. It only takes one or two situations like this to having a monumental chilling effect as reported by OP https://reason.com/2019/10/11/manchester-teen-griffiths-sex-offender-friend/ https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/10107166/student-googled-how-to-make-friend-touched-schoolgirl-faces-jail/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:37 PM
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A large majority of guys are done trying and are some combination of Getting their passports heading to places where they're treated well Hunkering down waiting for sex bots to become a reality Addicted to porn and video games They've largely been disenfranchised though #metoo, the obesity epidemic, women's piss-poor attitudes towards them, and society in general telling them not to approach women. For the last 15 years guys have been berated and beaten down being called toxic would-be rapists, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:26 PM
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Fixed. https://amzn.to/3um67Xz
/r/TheRedPill29/01/24 06:53 PM
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Go watch some hoe_math on Youtube. His early videos nailed it last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:39 AM
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Good catch. I'll get him added soon.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/24 01:58 PM
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I only waited for sex if I thought it had a chance at being a serious relationship I hope you understand he will dump you on the spot if he ever finds out you made him wait while not making others, assuming he has even a shred of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:40 PM
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To answer the question in the title: the answer is always abundance. h/t Mike Sartain
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 07:51 PM
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Never heard of them. I'll look into those tonight.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 07:50 PM
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My recommended order to start off on this reading is: Tactical Guide To Women - https://amzn.to/3StDLEd Evolution of Desire - https://amzn.to/3YhEYPu The Rational Male - https://amzn.to/2H9qdbf This is a good flow for introducing blue pill friends to the red pill as well should they ask for a book to read. The topics begin highly academic and progressively get red pill.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 04:01 PM
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Many will say Rational Male, but it's not good for blue pill normies. A better introduction to a lot of our topics, and is heavily backed by research, would be the Tactical Guide To Women by Shawn Smith. It has most of the core RP praxology baked into it while also being couched in normie-speak and based on academic research. Once TGW has been read, the next book should be Evolution of Desire by Dr David Buss. Only after those two should you broach Rational Male. If I haven't added them to the R…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 03:39 PM
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Hoeflation is absolutely true because the competition for a girlfriend is now global. That makes it exponentially harder to get women to date. And the women that are available are much lower quality in terms of what men look for in a partner. Aaron Clearey already did the math on this for his book "Book of Numbers" and the result was that only 2.7% of women in the US meet the baseline criteria for what men want. A lot of that owes to the obesity epidemic as men tend to want slender women. So tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:11 PM
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It's not that we "believe it". It's just... reality. And its backed up by 40 years of research. Have you ever read any of the books by Dr. David Buss? It's all right there my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:43 PM
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Women will absolutely marry someone they wouldn't have dated years ago, because he wasn't the hot guy and then disguise it as she's matured and found out there's more then looks Classic case of making a necessity into a virtue. We see it all the time with guys who can't get laid trying to frame it as though they're "above" casual sex. No, they just suck with women and aren't very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:41 PM
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this probably won't happen It already started. Brazil for example. https://www.frommers.com/blogs/passportable/blog_posts/one-of-brazil-s-visa-requirements-could-get-you-kidnapped-consumer-group-says like restraining their own women and restricting them to their own men That's already on the minds of Thailand and Philippine leadership. I can't find the article, but they're already concerned about the fertility drain as women are being pulled from the country from western expats.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 02:05 PM
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iv) In the US, the departure of young men from marriage is causing a predictable panic among women and 'social conservatives', who just cannot tolerate men acting in accordance with their own self-preservation. Demands for more government coercion will be next, and expect the most oppressive ideas to originate from 'social conservative' Republicans, rather than radical 'feminists'. Within 10 years we'll see nations favorable for men to go expat/passport bro enact restrictions on men going abroad…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/24 06:38 PM
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Very rarely are "single" women actually celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:17 PM
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There is little payoff and high risk That is especially true these days thanks to hoeflation. That's why a lot of guys are not bothering or going abroad to date. With western women the overarching consensus is the juice is not worth the squeeze. And the data bears this out. As I stated in another thread, Aaron Clarey did the math for one of this books and found less than 3% of women are ideal relationship material when you consider things like sexual past, kids, age, STDs, debt, and other variab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:39 PM
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Sorta? The way I see it single women 25+ are a walking red flag for men who want a family, and here's why... We should give our best to our partners and in this context that includes women giving their future husbands their physical prime. It's that mental picture of your hot young naked body that gets seared into our brains that fuels our libido when we're old and wrinkled. Without that mental picture life is the bedroom is going to be problematic for both of you long-term. Find your husband 18…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:38 PM
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Cold approach was never the be all, end all people think it was. The BEST of the best that I've ever seen still only got numbers 10% of the time, and only a portion of those converted into dates. Believe it or not, cold approach is actually the contrarian trade right now. So few guys approach women anymore that guys who do are getting really solid results these days. The competition has been slashed in half due to how few men approach women, especially younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:34 PM
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White, jacked, and a bit over 6' tall, and he could dance. This was ~25 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:25 PM
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Only two I got with anyone as far as I remember. There's some other stories floating around I got tagged in, but I can't find them at the moment. https://imgur.com/a/cjNNVQy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:39 PM
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Gen X was the last generation where everybody flooded into rock bars, dance clubs and neighborhood pubs on weekends to mix, mingle and basically chat up women. Now, the bar scene is more of a nightlife scene where friend groups go with EACHOTHER to sit at one or two tables and enjoy EACHOTHER's company. I lived through the change from the 90s to post-social media and this is spot on. That being said, you can still talk to groups. Do the work to be fit and dress well and approach them by being no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:17 PM
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Nah, it wasn't that bad. Top 32% or so could pull if looking at it from the perspective of the bell curve. How often they could pull is a different story and would depend greatly on how many standard deviations above average they were in looks, status, and game. I was 1 standard deviation and I was rocking anywhere from about once a week to once a month. Guys I knew who were 2 SD were pulling multiple women a week. The one very real Chad I knew put us all to shame and he worked part time as a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:12 PM
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So, is talking to women at bars just… over? No. I went out for NYE and grabbed 5 new IGs and have dates for the rest of the month. They show up with their groups and stick with them. They don’t mingle. They do if you've got your act together and can socialize. Also, know when women are giving you an opening. Guys are notoriously bad at this and it's actually gotten worse over the last few years than better. It's like all the PUA stuff that became public knowledge has since been brain-dumped. Pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:54 PM
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This is why I don't shit on passport bros. You still have to do the work, but a 7 here is godmode in a lot of places. Going where you're valued and have life on easy mode is a no-brainer if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:06 PM
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You're describing hoeflation. And yes a lot of guys will have to settle and take what they can get as there's no other options unless they get their passport and go abroad. Aaron Clarey did the math in one of his books and found less than 3% of women are ideal relationship material when you consider things like sexual past, kids, age, STDs, debt, and other variables men consider in a partner. Between the obesity epidemic and other factors, the days of the sexual middle class of average guys endi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:04 PM
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2.1 was from the year prior. Other searches showed it was up over 3M now. Next year it'll likely grow some more given the state of the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:06 PM
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There's apparently 3.18M creators. 47% are 18-24 so 1,494,600 that age range. 45% are in the US, so 672,570‬ 18-24 year olds in the US doing OF. 70% of creators are female so that's 470,799 18-24 year old women in the US creating content on OF. That's 3% of women aged 18-24 in the US actively doing OF. Add on top of that the 4% of women who are actively considering it per surveys listed on one of the links I posted earlier. 4% of 15.644M women in that demographic is another 625,760 women aged 18…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:34 PM
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As someone else pointed out, my 28% of 18-24 year olds is just who have an account. It doesn't mean they're creating content. Thankfully that number is actually smaller than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:11 PM
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As someone else pointed out, my 28% of 18-24 year olds is just who have an account. It doesn't mean they're creating content. That number is actually smaller than I thought. As someone else pointed out, my 28% of 18-24 year olds is just who have an account. It doesn't mean they're creating content. Thankfully that number is actually smaller than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:11 PM
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As someone else pointed out, my 28% of 18-24 year olds is just who have an account. It doesn't mean they're creating content. That number is actually smaller than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:10 PM
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Some good news in all of this... As someone else pointed out, that's just who have an account. It doesn't mean they're creating content. That number is actually smaller than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:01 PM
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Short answer: dark triad = exciting We're relearning as a society why certain things became the way they were. For example, women weren't allowed to date without parents vetting the guy first to weed out the dark triad time wasters & players to ensure their daughters only spent time with guys who would be good for them long-term. Cads vs Dads. “Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the problem has…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:18 AM
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Not only men, but the overwhelming majority. And you probably nailed it, they sign up to look around and never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:47 AM
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I find it difficult to believe women would be on there to subscribe and PAY for porn. Watching for free on PH sure, paying on OF? Maybe a small minority, like 2-3 standard deviation (1-5%), but the bulk of them? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:37 AM
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I neglected to point it out as I thought it was obvious, but if your fashion sucks, you're short/old/fat/scrawny, or have zero status to speak of, then yes you better have solid game. Get to work on improving those other aspects about yourself and always remember: Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses, and accept that which you cannot change.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/23 11:59 PM
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Good catch, but that 28 is still strikingly high and IMO does illustrate intent. Maybe they're kicking the tires to see if that's something they really want to do? You know damn well 95% of them aren't on there to look at porn, you have to pay for it on there after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:41 PM
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Women on OF are more common than you might think and are representative of over 28% of women aged 18-24 in the US now. Run them numbers yourself... https://techjury.net/blog/onlyfans-statistics/ https://sexualalpha.com/onlyfans-statistics/ https://www.influencermade.com/onlyfans-stats/ old data https://datacenter.aecf.org/data/tables/6538-adult-population-by-age-group#detailed/1/any/false/1095,2048,574,1729,37,871,870,573,869,36/117,2801,2802,2803/13515,13516 There's 10M women 18-24 on OF, 45% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:05 PM
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I just looked it up. it's 2% with another 6% actively considering it. That's 8% of women nationally, but the women doing it tend to be clustered in high cost of living areas such as where I live. This is why I said up thread about half the single women in my social circle have either done it already or are considering it. And expect the numbers to go up the worse the economy gets. edit: I just ran them numbers from their stats. 28% of American women aged 18-24 have an OF. There's 10M women 18-24…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:49 PM
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Interestingly enough more women think it's immoral than men do. Women HATE sexual competition. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:30 PM
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Go to any large city today and half of the women under 40 will have either already tried OF or are actively considering it. And for those under 30 it's probably even higher. Not just the hyper attractive ones either, but girls next door types too. People wildly underestimate how prevalent cam-girls/OF content have become. The worse the economy gets and lower the dollar's purchasing power goes, the more we'll see women reverting to "the world's oldest profession". OF and similar are digital equiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:04 PM
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Whatever podcast does this all the time bringing on hot traditional conservative women to serve as counterpoints to the thots sitting across from them. The type of women these shows have on as guests are more representative of modern women than people want to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:02 PM
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Whatever Podcast and all those channels always invite the biggest scum off Women on the Planet, literally handpicked to make a perfect show. Yes, but no. The women they have on their show come from all walks of life. It's not representative of all women, but it does represent A LOT of women out there today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:59 PM
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Women who cheat have 230% higher body count that women who don't. https://twitter.com/StatisticCloud/status/1715349029029286180 More data I was just reminded of when I was reviewing that: Compared to married women with only 1 partner (baseline), the odds of a women cheating on her husband is: 6 times higher with 2-4 partners 9.47 times higher with 5-10 partners 14.05 times higher with 11-20 partners 16.05 times higher with > 20 partners
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 10:40 PM
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I think women know this instinctively, evidenced by the fact when you ask women what their body count is, if they think they're being judged, 3 is the most common figure given. Funny how that works sometimes. Some things are just ingrained into us as a species.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 10:08 PM
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Yes. Women's body count matters and here's why... There is a very good reason why waiting for marriage to have sex became the default practice in the west, and arguably is why western society surpassed all others as monogamy is the bedrock foundation for western civilization. In other words: 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐦 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐨𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐝. If you want data, then here you go... https://archive.is/9TjpL https://archive.ph/V2TJb https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2018/07/Kennair-Wyck…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:02 PM
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It's hard to say if most women WANT to cheat, but it's fair so say we're all tempted from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:20 PM
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Yes. Hypergamy doesn't care about marriage. Whether they act on it or not is another story. Although I will say nurses are notorious for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:14 PM
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The only way to overcome the hoeflation in the west is some variation of being wealthy and/or high status. The key to remember is wealth and status is relative and situationally dependent. Older average guys look like ballers compared a 19 year old woman's peers. Or her boss at her work that she looks up to an respects. Doctors have been smashing nurses and lawyers their paralegals for a reason. The key is the women looks up to the man and he has some kind of power over others that she respects.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:56 PM
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You're the one who is making that assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:12 PM
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Great use of our formatting standards. Glad to see some people read the rules.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 08:35 PM
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The average guy making the median income in the US is a top 1%er globally. Any dude with a dead-end WFH/remote gig who saves up the cash for a one-way ticket to Thailand or Philippines will be living it up like Leo DiCaprio in no time if they are in decent shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:31 PM
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TL;DR passport bros are doing a noble service for impoverished women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:24 PM
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Simple answer: hypergamy. This is why the hypergamy paradox of success exists. Women date across and up, so the higher women climb the socioeconomic ladder, the fewer attractive men to there are to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:50 PM
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Not true. If you know who I am, then you know I'm a former Chad and ran through a lot of women back in my heyday and I still have a lineup of women in their early to mid 20s. And I'm in the process of adding two 19 year olds. Speaking from a position of authority on this subject, I absolutely think hookup culture is bad for women and bad for society. I'd happily give up some of my plates for a society that resembles something more old fashioned so our younger guys could have families of their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:12 PM
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Did I stutter? In most of the non-western world assortative mating still works Your money goes way further. If you make the median income in the US you are a 1%er globally Women are still raised to be wives and mothers especially in a lot of Asian and Eastern European countries Leaving the West denies it of your tax money so you're no longer feeding the beast To wit, instead of competing with Chad and Tyrone, the world is a big place where just being an average dude will make you a Chad or Tyron…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:26 PM
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You just made me realize something about Tampa that I've been kind of mulling around for a while. There are gorgeous women everywhere and then when I go out at night there's nobody. There's a lot of college girls doing the college girl stuff with the college guys down South Howard but where are all the women? A lot are being ran through by athletes, but there's so many people here where are all the women? Virginia in DC are even worse. Everybody talks about how guys are not going out the bars an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:44 AM
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Correction: they want to be approached more by attractive men. Average guys are viewed as below them and thus not attractive. I blame social media for skewing women's self-perception to be much higher than it actually is by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:36 AM
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You're not wrong that a lot of guys are not approaching but you're missing the causation. Most guys do not have success approaching so they stop doing it. That's it. That's the big secret. Women have a monumental part to play and they are not giving men positive feedback so guys stop trying. It makes perfect sense why they would. One of many changes we need is for women to do better and start enticing men to approach them. Not through dressing a certain way, but through their behavior. Otherwise…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:34 AM
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OP hit the nail on the head on a few things. The best thing we could do is require age verification for social media and ban everybody under 25 from all social media. It's going to have to happen otherwise we're going to go full feudalism with the sexual marketplace. 20% of women are already sharing a guy and that number is going to increase. And then you got 60% of guys under 30 already out of the dating market. And this doesn't even touch on the incels that are going to shoot up the joint in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:23 AM
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The society you live in the west. Get your passports and go where you are valued. If you're struggling in the west you have no need to. If you make the average income in the States you are a 1%er globally. As a white dude making 40K a year you can go to Philippines Thailand and any number of countries and you are Leo DiCaprio. Why suffer and struggle when you don't have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:20 AM
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I've debated this topic on Twitter a number of times. The OP is right in that there is a war on all of the classic ways men and women used to meet and form relationships. School. Work. Gym. Hobbies All will get you ostracized, fired, or even arrested in rare instances If you try to talk to women. It's slowly moving towards being online in some way shape or form. You can still do well approaching women in person but it's going to have to be on the street and you're going to have to hope that she …
/r/MensRights03/12/23 05:53 AM
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Good list. I posted something similar and guys started adding some other traits as well. Between your list and theirs I think we have a good checklist of qualities to screen for. https://x.com/RealJoeDee1/status/1727853074943807957?s=20 Don't have male friends. Be a virgin. Learn to cook and have a signature dish. Greet your man when he arrives home from work looking and smelling fresh. Be deserving of honor. Only date one man at a time. Be invested. Follow the man’s lead. Be physically fit and …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/23 02:42 PM
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Junk food sex is a good way of putting it. A large SMV difference is how we get slump busters. If the women are "lucky" then end up in what Hoe_Math calls the sleepers category. Guys will hook up with them, but won't commit and don't want others to find out about it. My old analogy was they're like mopeds. Even if you have a Harley or superbike, a moped is still fun to ride now and then, or you'll take it in a pinch if nothing else is available, but you'd never want your friends to see you doing…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/23 02:29 PM
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Hook up with them at first to bolster your ego and confidence, then turn them down later when you have true abundance and can afford to be more discriminating.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 03:58 PM
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For those who don't know, I've been moderating this sub since the start under other another mod account that got banned. Several mod accounts actually. A good chunk of the sidebar was my content over the years.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 03:55 PM
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Don't worry about that minor detail or you'll miss the forest for the trees.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 03:52 PM
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Not entire, but yes. Social circle is massively important. Think of it in terms of a sales funnel & leads. Or baseball. More at bats you have the better your chances of getting onto a base. Having a robust social circle puts you into contact with not just your friends but also their friends and acquaintances. Bonus if those social circles are centered around hobbies and/or the type of women you truly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:08 PM
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That's a strawman argument. I don't know if you meant it to be, but it is. Personality is a huge component of what keeps a man around. Physically, yes, that'll get our attention no doubt about it, but personality is what keeps it. Personality is a big component of "fit, feminine, friendly, and inquisitive" men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:43 PM
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Correct. Men want women that are fit, feminine, friendly, and inquisitive. You can either take that information and use it to your advantage, or complain about reality and how men should want whatever qualities you optimized your life around, regardless of whether or not that's what men find appealing or attractive. When women ask men what we want, and we tell them, instead of accepting it they shame men for having desires and preferences not in line with what they have to offer. Don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:40 PM
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Where's the debate? You're telling factual observed truths. Women for the past 30 years or so have worked very hard to become the men they're attracted to. What's new today is TikTok giving many of them a voice to push back and bemoan how men won't date them now as roughly 2/3rd of them have gone some flavor of MGTOW, of which I include guys finding greener pastures by going ex-pat/passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:37 PM
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Those laws came about because kids fuck at a young age sometime. The solution was the shotgun wedding to add a veneer of legitimacy to the pregnancy. If she's having your baby, then you're marrying her one way or another. I don't care if you're both 13. You did the deed, you're taking care of her. The parents would talk, and the rest is history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:20 PM
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That's most of the world. But they're not full adults until 18. What you're championing for whether you realize it or not is raising the age of adulthood. That's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:17 PM
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Why stop there? May as go for 25 or 30. I'm getting tired of this persistent infantalizing of adults. Someone's poor decision making skills are not yours or my problem. If you're interested in protecting people from being groomed as you said, then focus on fixing the problem where it starts: dads being kicked out of their kids' lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:14 PM
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If both men and women put in their actual height and weight, then this could work. They won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:17 PM
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The good news is men are wising up to the charade and getting off the apps. Granted they're dropping out of dating entirely, but that's a whole other issue. Point being, Tinder and Bumble are dying because they can't get men to join anymore to pay for the enhanced features. https://x.com/cervi_frank/status/1722071173704331534?s=20
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:15 PM
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I don't fault guys for that at all. I'm looking to do something similar for retirement as money goes MUCH further that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:51 PM
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https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/ Only half of single men are actively seeking relationships or even casual dates, according to Pew. That figure is declining. Wouldn't be surprised if it's higher than that now considering... More than 60 percent of young men are single Look at how popular the MGTOW/Red Pill content has gotten on YouTube. It didn't happen in a vacuum. Perl has nearly 2M subscribers, Better Bachelor, Sandman, F…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:59 PM
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Those options still do work Maybe, maybe not. The perception for about half of men under 30 is that the risk is too high. Until women start holding other women accountable for shaming men and ruining things for the rest of them, I strongly suspect nothing will change. Guys should still do the self-improvement work IMO, but that doesn't fix the perception of risk that's causing so many guys to self-censor and not approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:11 PM
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It does, but it's been significantly crippled. Where then do men go to meet women in real life when women aren't open to meeting men in those traditional areas relationships used to form? Everywhere women would have historically found a good man to marry, they've made into no-go zones for men. College, work, gym, you name it, all off limits for regular men to initiate something with women for fear of financial, legal, or social ruin. And people wonder why men are opting out (a whopping 50% of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:48 PM
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Average and below average men have largely been boxed out of the dating market by the top 10-20%, so you can either do the work to level yourself up or be left behind. But, there's no guarantees doing the work to improve yourself will be enough. As I've said repeatedly on youtube, "not everyone gets to be an astronaut". Life isn't fair. All we can really do is maximize our strengths, minimize our weaknesses, and accept that which we cannot change. The wildcard to this sentiment is "Geomaxing", a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:28 PM
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Best thing that could happen at this point is the US gov mandates you have to be 25+ to get a social media account and requires a REAL ID for age verification. That would nip all this nonsense in the bud in no time flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:57 PM
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Now that's a fair point. Being high status doesn't mean you'll be good with women. Some of the highest status guys on earth right now, the Bezos, Gates, and Musks of the world, are still blue pill to the core and get ran over by the women in their lives in a lot of cases. And game can create interest and buy you time to create familiarity that raises one's mere-exposure effect. But... it's not the be-all, end-all many purport it to be wrt making a man attractive. Rock stars don't need game becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:38 PM
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Read what I wrote again. Let it marinate for a while. You'll get it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:55 PM
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That's black pill doomer talk. Status most certainly can trigger intrigue and attraction where none would have otherwise existed. Men and women are not the same, and the weighted value of status as it applies to making one be perceived as attractive plays immensely more for women than it does for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:53 PM
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The link below is honestly a great way to fine the older high quality stuff that's been memory holed by reddit. https://theredarchive.com/
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 04:20 PM
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Short answer: The whole platform has become a far leftist cesspool so barely anyone uses Reddit anymore. As such we're infrequently on here to check people on their BS.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 04:19 PM
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STATUS is king. If you have sky high status the only game you need is not putting your foot in your mouth. We often hear about looks, status, height, frame, game, and all the various things that comprise a man's attractiveness. MLD puts it as money muscles game & frame, and it's a good abbreviation when one needs to be quick when discussing the topic, but we can do better. Below is a quick primer on what formulates the amalgamation of a man's attractiveness to women: SLFM&G * Status * Looks * Fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:10 PM
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No sane guy will go for a girl who "just showing up". You underestimate how much crap guys will take when they're suffering from terminal loneliness. Then again you did say "sane". A lot of guys have mental health issues now from how little affection they've received throughout their lives. Remember, the first time most men get flowers is at their funeral. Let that sink in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:57 PM
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MS is in the business of making money. Take it up with them, it's their research.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:38 PM
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There's nothing to change your mind about. If Morgan Stanley is correct per their 2019 SHEconomy research, then roughly 45% of them will be alone, permanently come 2030 (once Chad & Tyrone are done with them). To wit, a LOT of women are about to find out the hard way alienating average men in their prime childbearing years to "have fun" (read: getting ran through) has consequences, namely about half are not going to get their beta provider to bail them out of their poor life decisions when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:54 PM
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That's implied, yes. It's the gist of what Myron Gains professes on F&F. Get your 50 notch count and you'll then have enough experience to see the red flags and know which women are quality and which ones are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:07 PM
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It's very common. I've known more than a few Chads in my day who could pull absolute stunners, sometimes threesomes with them, but the chicks they decided to settle down with were almost always an "adjustable 6". Some were 7s. Those 8s, 9s, and 10s were all WAAAAAAY too much hassle to put up with for an LTR. Also, you're just seeing it the macro manifestation of hypergamy. To wit, if women date up, then the men are dating down in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:35 PM
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Think it through. Where then do men go to meet women in real life when women aren't open to meeting men in those traditional areas relationships used to form? Everywhere women would have historically found a good man to marry, they've made into no-go zones for men. College, work, gym, you name it, all off limits for men to initiate something with women for fear of financial, legal, or social ruin. And people wonder why men are opting out and/or getting their passports. The latter is my recommend…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:27 PM
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In fact every time anyone says anything about relationship dynamics it always boils down to OLD and dating apps. Are you not aware the most common way people meet now for sex & relationships is online? Gone are the days of meeting a future spouse at work, school, or church.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:00 PM
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Bingo. I did this when I moved to Tampa and became the leader of our social circle. Didn't take a lot of effort IMO, but I did have to do things methodically and with purpose to get the results I wanted. There was some trial and error for sure, but it's a repeatable process. HOWEVER, there's a critical question looming over all of this this: Are the women you will meet worth the squeeze? This is the issue a LOT of men are running into now. Thanks to loose moral standards and the advent of social…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:15 PM
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You're wrong. Most just don't want to do the work to make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:14 PM
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If you want to be approached, then you MUST keep your body language open to the venue and go in groups of no more than 2 to 3 at most. Better still, leave your damn phones in the car/at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:12 PM
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It’s the downtown bars in popular cities. Typically those guys are tinder chads taking their online dates to a bar before proceeding to fuck their brains out I've been on both sides of this and for big cities this does appear to be what has become the norm. Either bring a chick with you or watch people on their pre-hookup dates. There's almost ZERO in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:10 PM
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I remember the olden days before Steve Jobs invented humanity's biggest cockblock (the smart phone), and it's night and day how different bars and clubs are. The advent of smart phones, by way of ushering dating apps and social media, has completely wrecked dating. IMO we need to ban that shit outright for those under 25, but that's just me. Could make getting social media accounts require a Real ID to sign up in order to do proper age verification and there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:09 PM
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Times have changed. YOU have to go out and start initiating. If you see a guy you like, make him cookies. Tell him if he takes you out, you'll cook him dinner the next time. Make an overt effort, no other women are and you'll stand out. The beacons are lit! Gondor calls for aid!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:06 PM
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Better Bachelor and Aaron Clarey both did pretty good videos about this recently. Everywhere women would have historically found a good man to marry, they've made into no-go zones for men. College, work, gym, you name it, all off limits for men to initiate something with women for fear of financial, legal, or social ruin. And people wonder why men are opting out and/or getting their passports. The latter is my recommendation and here's why: The average man in the US is a top 1%er globally. Let t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:03 PM
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While the concept of an AI girlfriend may seem like a joke, it really isn’t that funny. It is enabling a generation of lonely men to stay lonely and childless, which will have devastating effects on the U.S. economy in less than a decade. There's times I just want to say, "Fuck'em. Enjoy the decline." That's the gist of how I feel at times after watching the political left shit all over men for the past 15 years or so. Bed, made, sleep in it. And don't expect us to come fight your wars either. T…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:15 PM
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Get your passport and go where you want. Lots of places out there where you'd be treated like the 50s for good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:46 AM
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In large cities, yes. The average body count of 25 year old women is in large metro areas is 30-50 depending on qhich data you go by (GSS, CDC).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:09 PM
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Red flags galore. Guys who can't date younger are themselves settling. You won't respect him soon in all likelihood and will eventually resent having to date him. Just the way these relationships tends to go over time. Eventually you'll cheat or want to open the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:17 PM
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Updates: Mike Sartain, Sergio of Purple Pill Pod, and GLO are done (PPP is being edited). Next big interview being coordinated is Justin Waller. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 02:08 PM
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^ This is a good example of a shit test for the fellas. You do you, just don't be surprised when you lose all respect for the guy you had to settle for once you're post-wall. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:00 PM
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This rationalizing solipsistic line of thinking is why so many people are not relationship material these days. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:58 PM
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Almost all men care, only one had the balls to bring it up. When im talking to a guy, why would I care about who he has been with in the past? It makes zero sense to enter a new relationship worrying about the past. That's your perspective, not men's. And the science is settled on the subject: women's body count is one of, if not THE number one predictor of infidelity and divorce. Source 1 Source 2 TL; DR - Science says women who are "ran through" qualifies as more than 4 sexual partners. Q. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:43 PM
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Guys have every right to expect a virgin wife if that's what they want. Women may HATE to hear this, but a significant portion of society has been raised to expect exactly that. You need to operate in reality, not your feelings, and recognize the cold hard truth that running up your body count disqualifies you from being LTR material for a large portion of men out there. Most men knows you don't wife up the town bicylce. I forget where I picked this up, but from a tradtional conservative perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:02 PM
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Men in the west are still expected to be traditional when the women are not. Men going where their upbringing is valued is a very sensible solution. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:39 PM
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It's not a theory, it's an observation of women's behavior. Praxology bro. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:01 PM
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Not a shit test, just seeing if they're self-absorbed or not. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:33 PM
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Bingo Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:30 PM
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For real. I'm a top 1% for my age, leader of my social circle, and about to crack the top 10% for fitness, and most women available to me are mid at best. All the ones actually on my level are getting ran through by local professional athletes, Chad, etc., then get pissed when I friend zone them. I'm not going to LTR a town bicycle. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:27 PM
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You don't get confidence from telling yourself something you know not to be true (affirmations). You get confidence through positive reinforcement that comes from repeated success, which comes from doing the hard fucking work. Competence breeds confidence. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/X5IJcPTcqpw Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill30/01/23 03:12 PM
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I've written about this for years now. Adam Lyons was good about this. Look at DJs and club promoters. They've got it figured out. I'm going to do a workshop on this over at The Fraternity soon actually. It all comes down to networking and providing VALUE to others, especially men. edit: Also, fix your damn Instagram and dating profiles. You should be demonstrating access to scarcity. Pictures from a DJ stand is one such example. Pictures with celebriteis or athletes are another. A huge group of…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 08:19 PM
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Can you show the chart comparing both years with the same ages? I didn't see it. Fully admit I may have simply missed it earlier. If the trend broke, then that's a GOOD thing for society. Still, this is all based on self-reported data. right?. How many guys are going to admit they are an incel? Could be a drop in surveys could not be reflective of reality. From what I'm seeing this is mostly likely with online becoming the dominant way people meet and women only swiping right on the same 5% of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:34 PM
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Both of them can be true at the same time, just pick different sample from different people. That's exactly what the OP's article did. They never compared apples to apples and chunked the data into different groups, thereby drawing different conclusions. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:08 PM
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Flawed breakdown as it never compared apples to apples. Instead of going full 18-29 it kept chunking the data and cherry picking results. The 2019 data was exacerbated by covid lockdowns. Even if the trend simply stayed consistent we'd be at about 1/3 today. Given the damage covid did to people's sex lives, and the acceleration of women condensing attention into a lower percentage of men, 1 in 5 women under 30 are in harems now (whether they know it or not), it's entirely plausible we're approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:06 PM
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Video is private. Got a copy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:56 PM
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Video is private. Got a copy?
/r/MensRights26/01/23 04:56 PM
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Tl;Dr - You don't want average and feel entitled to "Chad". Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:15 PM
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If you want to get married and have kids, then deny your urges and desires and stay a virgin until the wedding night, or at least until you are in a serious long-term committed relationship (eg. Engaged w/ ring). We have the data as to why. Short version, past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. In fact a woman's body count is one of, if not THE #1 predictor of infidelity and divorce. We have mountains of research on the subject now, and it frankly supports what our elder generati…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:50 PM
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Before all of this post-covid inflation it was estimated to cost $330K to raise a kid from birth to 17. Going to be a whole lot more now. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:44 PM
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Most women would rather at least enjoy the pleasure of Chad than to be touched by a man she doesn't want. My warning to women still stands. Control your lust or it'll control you... and wreck your future expectations. (Hello alpha widow) Also, you just confirmed an old red pill adage: Women would rather share an alpha than have all of a beta. Crazy how just a few years ago this was a controversial statement that would get you cancelled, has since become common sense knowledge today. Follow on so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:38 PM
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In the past year since getting in shape every woman I've dated was exactly 24. I'm 46. (I pass for my late 30s and them being the same age has been a weird coincidence) Stay in shape, chase success, and build your network. It's shocking how much the dating paradigm flip-flops as we get older. Being an older guy with his shit together is equivalent to women having all the options when they're 18-25. Almost all the hate on large age gaps is a cope/sour grapes because they're not the one doing it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:14 PM
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She makes comments like “I’m not wild like that anymore” or “Don’t men want anything other than sex?” Clutch observation. As I stated in another comment, it signifies a lack of true genuine desire. She had one night stands in the past, but she made you wait? She settled. She had threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes with other guys and women, but she won't with you? She settled. She didn't break at least some of her rules to date/have sex with you? She settled. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:00 PM
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Lack of true genuine desire. She had one night stands in the past, but she made you wait? She settled. She had threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes with other guys and women, but she won't with you? She settled. She didn't break at least some of her rules to date/have sex with you? She settled. Ladies, your sexual exploits of the past set the bar for what your man not only should expect, but is entitled to. If you're not and recoiled at this statement instead of being excited to do those things …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:57 PM
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$237K for my height. I'm right there if not a bit more and I don't think it's made any difference. I did just fine making a lot less at my height of 5'6", so there's a lot to be said about having good social skills this study is missing out on. Women's inability to objectively assess their dating value has quite literally spawned an entire industry of podcasts and shows on youtube, beginning with Kevin Samuels. Because women are leading us back to polygamy with 20% of women under 30 in a defacto…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:23 PM
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They're the male version of the big girl who'd rather bloviate about body positivity than put down the cookies and hit the gym. It's all a cope for lack of discipline and grit. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill24/01/23 06:18 PM
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I've seen this before on Fresh & Fit. The guys are telling you what they want and you're here fighting them telling them what you think they should want. That isn't how it works. Not by a longshot. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:11 PM
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Ask yourselves “what do I bring to the table?” You have it backwards. Men are still largely being cultured to fulfill the provider role as nature intended. Instead of trying to change men to be better betas, it's incumbent on women to submit to their nature. Otherwise you'll be combative, masculine, and alone. And this isn't just my opinion: Morgan Stanley did some research on this in 2019 to figure out how to invest for the coming decades and found by 2030 roughly half of today's working women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:02 PM
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Honestly, I'd almost prefer doing ASKTRP as a call-in show for the youtube channel. It creates content for us at http://www.youtube.com/@redpilluniversity It's so much easier diving into it live with someone being able to ask questions and having a back & forth discussion. Often times the issues they think they're having are actually a symptom of a larger issue you don't know about through text that becomes obvious when speaking to them. "Guy: My girlfriend dumped me because [insert reason]. Wha…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/23 02:47 PM
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We just did! https://youtu.be/_goIxssS6Rc Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill23/01/23 04:54 PM
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When you have all of the other pieces in place, all the game you need by and large is not putting your foot in your mouth. Do you think Leo DiCaprio is DHVing with magic tricks? Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill23/01/23 04:53 PM
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improve your weakest aspect of attractiveness first Agreed. You're only as strong as your weakest link. That being said, improving your status will, for most men, get you the biggest ROI. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill23/01/23 04:52 PM
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FYI I fixed my flair. Not an EC, but rather a Vanguard member. Been around since the start. Even wrote a good chunk of the sidebar. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 07:28 PM
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Approach anxiety is a combination of 2 things: Fear of rejection Stage fright The fear of rejection goes away after enough approaches. How many varies person to person and how much positive reinforcement you receive from a vareity of other factors. Stage fright never really goes away, but we do acclimate to it for the most part. My advice is always the same: Approach a LOT of women in a short time, not scattershot approaches, but with intention. 30 minutes a day is a good start. That can be one …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 07:17 PM
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Unless she's independently wealthy or drawing a pension of some kind, she is NOT "independent". Most "strong and independent don't need no man" type of women are actually quite dependent on men. Even if they're not dependent on an employer for their income, then they are still dependent on the men who build the roads, keep the lights on, pick up the trash, etc. To wit, men are an essential need for society to function and a foundational part of every man AND WOMAN'S life. Nobody is independent o…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 05:55 PM
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effective communication and conflict resolution techniques Those are platitudes and do nothing for creating raw lustful tear each others closes off attraction that's required in LTRs as OP is discussing. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:58 PM
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I wouldn't stay with anyone if they suddenly for a long period of time without reason were no longer sexually compatible with me. It's more than that. If a woman cuts off sex, and changes her behavior, the medium is the message: she's getting her back blown out elsewhere... or is at least trying to (branch swing). Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:56 PM
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If your wife isn't fulfilling her end of the marriage contract, then you have no obligation to uphold your end not banging other women. Simple. As. That. But because far too many men either lack the abundance or capability to pull other women the wives feel absolutely comfortable in their position of power to control the relationship. THAT is why this stuff goes sideways: the women control the frame and power of the relationship. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:54 PM
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Whatever her sexual past is sets the standard for what you absolutely should expect. If you learn down the road she used to have threesomes and banged guys the first night she met them, then you damn well better have experienced the same otherwise she's just not that into you, but rather "you'll do". Far too many guys don't get this and end up 7ish years down the road getting blindsided by divorce or getting cheated on after Chad or Tyrone throws attention her way. Past behavior is the best pred…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:46 PM
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Good one! I'll ping him tonight and see if he's game. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill18/01/23 05:37 PM
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The confidence itself can make a man attractive. Just depends on how he presents himself and what else is going on with his SLFM&G. Status Looks Frame Money Game They're listed in that order for a reason. Follow on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:47 PM
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Reddit is an authoritarian leftist echo chamber. It's why we're creating our own spaces WE control. TRP.red, Ascestus, and The Fraternity are good examples. RP Women needs to create your own space one of these days away from reddit and the grips of left leaning big tech. An online and in person hybrid sorority similar to what we're doing with The Fraternity could be the right option. If anyone on the mod team wants to discuss it, feel free to message me. For those unaware, I'm a former mod here …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 03:33 PM
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I'm reminded of The Spearhead article years ago about the guy who made a strongman class and women tried to infiltrate it and bend the class to their sensibilities. He ended the class instead of diluting it and destroying its purpose, which is exactly what women have done to many formerly male-dominated fields, subreddits, academia, you name it. Good example was women flooded into college and now many if not most formerly male-dominated degrees aren't worth the paper they're printed on. The Soft…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 06:12 PM
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Do not open up to women spilling out your insecurities, your journey, or the effort you go through to be what you are. Both of you are better off this way. I'm convinced stoicism arose because of this truth of reality. Short version: men being "vulnerable" is a massive turnoff for women and quite honestly not respected by men. Follow on social media: http://www.youtube.com/@redpilluniversity http://www.instagram.com/realjoedee http://www.twitter.com/realjoedee1 http://www.tiktok.com/@rpuniversit…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 06:09 PM
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womens’ attraction is primarily driven by emotional experiences. Control their emotions and you control the frame, their sexuality, and even their mind. This is a large component of why Dark Triad qualities are so attractive. When it comes right down to it, it's all about Looks, Status, Money, Game, and Frame ALL of it matters as the above qualities are what comprises every man's level of attractiveness (or lack thereof). If you want to develop those qualities, JOIN THE FRATERNITY. Follow on soc…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 05:23 PM
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I believe Itiswr1tten and DTC talked about this during one of the After Dark shows. Not a bad topic to focus on though. I'll add it to the list. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 05:10 PM
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Shoot me a DM and we'll schedule something. Follow on social media: http://www.youtube.com/@redpilluniversity http://www.instagram.com/realjoedee http://www.twitter.com/realjoedee1 http://www.tiktok.com/@rpuniversity
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 05:10 PM
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Fair point. It doesn't hurt to at least reach out and see if Luc is available. Would be good to hear his thoughts on all of this as he's right there in the thick of it. Follow on social media: http://www.youtube.com/@redpilluniversity http://www.instagram.com/realjoedee http://www.twitter.com/realjoedee1 http://www.tiktok.com/@rpuniversity
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 05:09 PM
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Not yet. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 05:08 PM
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Please reach out to him. I'll try as well. I'd like to do the interview this Monday since we're off for the holiday. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 06:12 PM
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You can tell the research was done by a woman. To wit, women's income doesn't make them attractive to men. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:13 PM
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How about a joint interview with you and Whisper? Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 03:53 PM
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Good one! I'll add him to the list. Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 03:50 PM
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Love is for young people. As we get older it's more than how we feel. I'm reminded of "old person wisdom" I heard years ago... Love is something that happens multiple times in a relationship over the long haul. You think grandma and grandpa that were married for 60+ years were the picture of relationship happiness all that time? The reality is the fell in and out and back in love multipole times over the course of the relationship as that's just how life works. This is the unintended consequence…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 06:40 PM
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Hard Mode 2 needs to happen where we'll cover managing LTRs. If you haven't seen the first episode give it a watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdiyyMadmc0. Vetting has been talked about pretty extensively throughout our RPU and After Dark series. More interviews are indeed happening. One on Monday in fact. I'm working on getting an interview with Pearl Davis of Just Pearly Things, and Sergio over at Purple Pill Pod. Eventually we'll need to get Rollo and Rich on the channel. I'd also like t…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/23 02:16 PM
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Your post is a giant example of Apex Fallacy. You're ascribing to all men what is only attainable/available to the top echelon of men at or near the top of the socioeconomic ladder. It's not to say more men wouldn't do the same, but most men don't have the opportunity to do so. Women with "high value men" just need to recognize they're going to have to share them. Tate and F&F have been talking about this for years now. Women's mating strategy is hypergamy, men's mating strategy is to be as fait…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:40 PM
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Trick question as there's no excuse for alimony to exist as she can get a J-O-B.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:48 PM
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Patently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:43 PM
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You're lying. Libelous in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:23 PM
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Women's mating strategy doesn't have to make sense, you just have to recognize what is going on. To wit, women who have primal sexual LUST for a man will break all the rules to bang him, but guys they just LIKE and want a relationship for will string them along and demand commitment before they have sex with him. This is where "women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas" comes from. The good news is thanks to the internet guys have been able to compare notes and learn and are FINALLY …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:38 PM
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I'm game. For those unaware here's his first interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=69fWeG7SDaY Update: GLO Returns! - https://youtu.be/_goIxssS6Rc Follow on social media
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 07:48 PM
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even tho Tate is probably toast, some other figure will just take his place… First it was Jordan Peterson, now it's tate, and later it'll be someone else. Just the way it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:31 PM
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His supporters love to proclaim how much he’s helping men and inspiring them to improve, and that the matrix is trying to cancel him because he’s saying the things you “aren’t allowed” to say. These are verifiable facts. Remember, TRP got censored as well and is still in quarantine as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:30 PM
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Considering I was in the process of setting up an interview and AMA before his recent arrest I think you are talking out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 03:09 PM
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Short version, it's not a good idea to associate with them given the nature of the allegations against them. Reading the room if you will.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 03:07 PM
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Andrew and Tristian Tate are immensely popular "influencers" and took the world by storm, especially in the red pill space. They're now in jail pending investigation of 1 count of rape and several counts of sex trafficking.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 03:06 PM
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The best indicator for divorce is getting married as a teen or early twenties, regardless of sexual activity or dating behavior. Have you see women's body counts at that age? It's no wonder divorce is so high in that segment. The average 25 year old woman today has an average body count of somewhere between 30-50 these days, depending on which source you use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:35 PM
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A third of marriages in the US begin with a hookup. Source? It'd explain the divorce rates as non-virgin wives have horrible long-term divorce risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:23 PM
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Now that enforced monogamy is withering in the west, with no safeguard to restore it, the 95/5 rule from our most distant past will likely return to dominate the modern dating market soon enough. On social media which is the #1 way people meet now to form relationships and have sex, that is exactly what the dating apps show with women only swiping right on 5% fo male profiles. Per the GSS, women are absolutely leading us back to polygamy with 20% of women under 30 already in a defacto harem whet…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:12 PM
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There is nothing wrong with consenting adults being 'ran through' if they want to be. There is if they want to get married someday. What draconian shit is this? Responsible reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:04 PM
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How would you restructure the culture? Chris Rock once famously said it's the dad's job to keep his daughter off the (stripper) pole. The modern version is keeping his daughter off social media. To any dads reading this, if your daughter has apps like Instagram (IG) or uses dating apps like Tinder, there's a 1 in 5 chance daddy's little girl is being ran though as part of a man's harem whether she knows it or not. This isn't a wag, it's math from the General Social Survey: https://youtu.be/3pEdO…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:41 PM
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You're all over the place on this one. The larger issue is why so many men are unsuccessful with women. This wasn't such a huge problem before social media messed everything up. Guys need to level up to compete, but not everyone gets to be an astronaut. Even if guys do level up their game, money, fitness, and frame, if everyone's in the top 10% then nobody is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:37 PM
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True attraction/lust cannot be negotiated. That being said, limiting options and being ignorant of what else is out there helps check expectations and reign in women's hypergamy. Some muslim countries take to this to extremes, but the women seem to be genuinely happier than they are in the west. What we're seeing in the west right now is women's hypergamy on overdrive to such a degree it's making 80% of men unattractive to them. This isn't good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:25 PM
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My advice always is: Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses, and accept that which you cannot change. Now that you want to change, it's time to create goals and find your mission.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/23 02:48 PM
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You don't know who I am, do you? That's fine, it's a new account. Hint: https://www.youtube.com/@redpilluniversity
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 05:55 PM
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Off topic, but you up for another interview for our channel? We took a hiatus since I moved and life happens, but we're ready to start producing more stuff for TRP/RPU. Also, we never did follow-up with a "hard mode" series for married/LTR guys, but I'd love for that to happen as well. You, me, /u/RPUMike, and perhaps one more would be a good panel.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 04:23 PM
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Lighting.... A lot of guys make the mistake of having "mood lighting" for when they bring a chick home. If it's dim, you know what's the first thing she's going to do? Flip more lights on. Instead you should have a well lit hallway, then the living room is a bit darker with fewer lights, then the bedroom even darker. You get the idea. Put simply, with a bit of forethought you can have your house/apt help set the mood and "escalate" things for you as you progress through it showing her the place,…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 04:17 PM
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This just isn't true if you're a guy who has his shit together and has a good profile. Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 03:57 PM
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Be that as it may, it's a good thread. IG is THE #1 dating app on earth and if it's not on point you're limiting your success. OP is also an EC, so show some respect.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 03:56 PM
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I really like this. I tried to DM you, but you're not accepting messages. How'd you like to do an interview for the official TRP youtube channel? Here's our other interviews: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNU3Yu_O9xa8SP-bz-1JQCUM7QfkDz8hm
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 03:56 PM
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I get rejected all the time, girls flake on me all the time, cause I dont have the status Status/clout has never mattered more than in recent history IMO. This is why you need to be on your mission and build your network. Instagram needs to be on point as well as that's the new shorthand people use to see if you're a "somebody".
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 03:51 PM
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No hymen, no diamond. But others are right that just being in western culture is enough to mess everything up. This is why we've said for how long now It's just your turn. Find your purpose at Red Pill University: http://www.youtube.com/@redpilluniversity http://www.twitter.com/realjoedee1 http://www.instagram.com/realjoedee
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 06:59 PM
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Well damn, I missed it. I'm finally back on reddit (for now) though. I'll ping you on the discord so I can get added back as mod.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/22 08:44 PM
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