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Can't speak for all women but I want a man who likes to spend time with me, who is patient and affectionate, doesn't make me feel bad or unwanted, and likes to have sex a few times per week, and takes care of me, and is smart and funny and interesting as a bonus, but most of all loves me and is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 05:23 PM
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They don't know men like you guys do.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:50 PM
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This doesn't make sense at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:40 AM
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Holy shit how much time does that all take
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 07:48 PM
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True. But from a practical standpoint no one cares hehe
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:21 PM
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You're totally right - people like you make me think there's no reason to make excuses. I'm just very tired all the time...not mentally but bodily. It feels like my whole body is aching a lot of the time and I'm sore even from walking for too long. Some days are worse than others though. When I did actually work out it was great. I pushed myself and I couldn't do nearly as much as my boyfriend, I'd get worn out after about 30 mins, but at least I could feel good about myself that day. Its always…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 04:30 AM
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Well to a small percentage of women, yes...
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 04:22 AM
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This one dude implemented fizz buzz in ruby using ONLY procs. It was incredible. Useless, but incredible. Link: http://codon.com/programming-with-nothing FizzBuzz is a joke.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 04:20 AM
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I am 5 foot tall which makes 110 lbs a good healthy weight. I also have crohns disease which makes it hard to maintain weight...it goes up and down quite frequently. If it goes above 115 I start making changes in my diet so that it stays in that good range. I want my stomach to be flatter and I'd he really happy if I looked more athletic. I want to push myself to get there but a lot of factors in my life is making it difficult. It is a priority of mine to figure out how to incorporate working ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 04:10 AM
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That's not what I meant... There is like people who look great but you don't have to push yourself beyond what you are capable of to achieve a body image which only people who put a ton of effort into it achieve. A lot of responses here said that looks were important but not the most important thing. Cultivating your personality also is important for example. Everyone is going to have flaws. Its at what point do we let ourselves be OK with these flaws. Just to give some perspective I weigh 110 l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 03:47 AM
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Over it :)
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:38 PM
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Thanks yeah I agree it makes perfect sense
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:38 PM
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Thanks for the response
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:37 PM
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If you like writing so much, please invest in some paragraph breaks Yeah I usually do. When I write on mobile my quality of writing goes down significantly
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:36 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:36 PM
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Umm OK, I mean I don't want to find that guy I just would hope that I can fufill my future husbands sexual desires. Umm if he thinks about other women IDC as long as he is getting what he needs from me right
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:35 PM
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PS if I wanted validation I'd be circle jerking I purposely go to places where people think differently because there are people who won't bullshit me, people who will want to refute what I say, people who aren't looking to have their view changed. Maybe I should find a different place. I like it here, because sometimes I hate what I see, but other times I realize the hate is seated in some emotional misunderstanding how others think. Its interesting.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:34 PM
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It doesn't make them any less sure of their own convictions. We all need to deal with people who have stuff like that, some women hamster irrationally, some men try to use unfounded "facts" to "rationally" back up their irrational beliefs. Still it doesn't mean we won't ever encounter someone being irrational. The interesting thing is are they open to logic or just set in their own ways? Good for you for having your own mind, not following herd mentality, being skeptical. That's the signs of a t…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:29 PM
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Thanks so much for answering. Its good to know happily married older men aren't gonna want to fuck every young girl in the office. So yay for you. And hopefully some day yay for my future husband. I want to keep him happy and a good side effect to that is what you said above. Thanks for answering
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:25 PM
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Well I don't know that honestly. I feel if we ate both blackout drunk than its OK but I can't tell since my judgment isn't there. All I was saying is that men should hesitate before initiating every time, let an interested woman come to you if you are sober and she is drunk. If you are drunk then you won't have any control over what you do so at that point it doesn't matter, but there's always sober people who can watch drunk people and make sure they don't so something stupid like fuck a high/d…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:15 PM
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Seems like common sense, haha. Simple and easy to understand. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:08 PM
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Actually you're wrong I enjoy TALKING, due to psychological issues, and I find that it helps ease my anxiety when I talk or focus on something, usually I just smoke MJ but I need a drug test so I've been very antsy. I obsess over writing things and if I don't find a topic to harp on I will write lengthy emails, I usually just don't send these emails but just over analyzing things is something I do, obsessing and talking about things, etc. I go read something on RP and it strikes me and I want to…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:06 PM
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Alright yeah so this means that not all men think the same way, some will have thoughts, some will not. Its not black and white. Not all men at work think about me that way. But some men might and that's OK too. I fully accept that. Thanks for sharing your view. Its good to know people are different and see things differently and not to be shocked or appalled at perspectives I never considered, but yours is the one I expect so it just sort of reinforces my initial assumption that not all men wan…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:24 AM
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I have but men don't openly say this and as I said I don't have male friends so if it wasn't for the internet I wouldn't have any idea its the case. I wanna be comfortable with reality and not expect men to think the way I think. Well ya after this thread I've seen a lot of different opinions and its interesting that some of you say things no person I know would say to me in real life. It's all taboo.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:18 AM
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How is it different with your friends? ..I suppose that ain't so bad, its kind of flattering in some sense, so there's a silver lining. As long as you don't act in the urges what happens in your head is your right to think about and it shouldn't bother me that men will think about it. Its something I want to wrap my brain around because if a guy were to cross the line and tell me he thinks these things I'd want to handle it maturely and rationally and not use some knee jerk reaction that omg thi…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:16 AM
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Yeah but I read on RP that men shouldn't trust women with other men because by default that man will try to fuck her. IMO its fine for women to talk to men so long as the men isn't trying to fuck her if she's taken, right. So if he tries to fuck her she says GTFO, tells her SO and avoids contact with him. This is much more reasonable than a baseline "all men want to fuck you always" then the next question for a man to ask is that if he was escalating would she respond or tell him to leave? Or ig…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 07:07 AM
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We don't really have an HR but I'm sure if one of my coworkers did try to touch me or make sexual suggestions I would tell him to stop before I told the higher ups because it would put them in deep shit and I don't want that. Unless they are crossing the line multiple times I think I can handle one or two slip ups before I'd get annoyed and tell them to can it or else I'll have to escalate
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:50 AM
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I ain't bragging. My stomach isn't flat but I dress well enough to hide it, my butt is average and most men are assmen anyway. I'm not remarkable. I'm not an 8 or 9 or 10 just a 7 which is attractive enough to be fuckable for most people. Based upon personal preferences that may vary, I've been told I'm a 10 by some people but by RP standards I'm probably a 7. In what world is a 7 bragging. I'm not sure what 7 means to everyone so I tries to describe the factors that contribute to the score so y…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:47 AM
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Yea well maybe but they prob don't think about it often or actively it might have happened in their brain once but I think were all too busy or prioritize other things, life and stuff. Yeah I am not so much bothered by it now it makes sense to me. Just because they thought about it once doesn't mean its like a big deal, so long as they're not trying to act on it, we got more important things to do
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:37 AM
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Thanks that's reassuring :)
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:35 AM
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K cool thanks for the response. There is one that is as you said but I don't really think much of it honestly. I know he would never try anything. Ugh its kind of gross to think about that but hey its human nature I'm not gonna lie I've had dreams where I see my coworkers doing something sexual and I wake up freaked out at my own brain for going there while sleeping but wtf I can't control those thoughts. Men are probably the same way they just do it during the day time as well, and women too, j…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:34 AM
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I guess my confusion comes from the assertion that so long as a woman has a vagina men will want to fuck her, I mean that's just not true, we are not all animals who are just looking to fuck every woman, and every hot chick that comes by...does this mean men and woman can be friends, man I don't get it because I don't really have friends and in my field I won't make long term best friends but I'll make short term work friends because I'm just a personable and friendly person. I just would be rea…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:24 AM
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Ah OK thanks for answering. I am an oddity because I work in a primarily male field, I am actually the only woman in my office. But I am also a 7/10. So I know most guys out there would fuck a 7 since its above average right, I'm not fat I have nice skin, large breasts dress well cute face smile and eyes and long hair which I keep well, I come in with some light make up on because I embrace my femininity. So I know objectively by RP standards I'm in the I'd hit that range. I'm also early 20s and…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:18 AM
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That makes some sense but what kind of opportunities typically arise between coworkers because I want to avoid that at all costs
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:08 AM
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I mean....some people have serious medical problems and then you're going to give them herpes on top of that? So your immune system is good woop de do..not everyone's is. Find a girl wish a shitty immune systems and a host of other unpreventable genetic issues, fuck her and then give her herpes on top of that just to make her life even that more depressing. As a person with crohns disease I have enough problems. There's still a chance you will pass this shit onto someone else and unlike pregnanc…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:32 AM
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You raise some very good points. Logically I would think women get more drunk more quickly due to a number of factors. Also men have more physical strength but there certainly are situations where men are the ones who are doing things unconsciously (waking up next to a woman he doesn't remember or something) I think its creepy for someone who is sober or not too drunk to try to take someone who is very obviously drunk and incoherent home regardless since the drunk blacked out person doesn't even…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 01:45 AM
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Read my other posts, I totally agree with you but I'm specifically talking about young teenagers. Some women think its men's fault but I don't think it is but I also think people don't realize the dangers of drinking too much. IDC what people do as adults by then they should know better. I'm talking about young women. Its also typical that even though both parties are drunk, one can be significantly more drunk. While one is drunk and aware, one can be drunk and blacked out. Have you ever blacked…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:40 PM
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I am talking from personal experiences while being drunk and 16-17. At that point I had the mental capacity of a horny child. I know better now. Women as a whole aren't children and can look back at shit and realize things were fucked up. Some of those women try to blame men. I don't think its mans fault tbh, but I do think that men should be educated and aware of the effects of alcohol and if they see a woman is blasted not initiate with her and find someone sober and conscious. And women shoul…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:28 PM
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I mean its creepy for any guy to go up to a girl who is blasted and try to fuck her. I've been black out drunk before. I would never say I was raped, and it was totally my fault that I got that drunk, still doesn't make it morally right for men to take advantage of that state of mind. I don't care how attractive you are. I find men who see a drunk girl and think oh this gonna be easy since she's already stumbling and slurring her words. This has happened to me on multiple occasions. Drink too mu…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:17 PM
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I agree with you. I know women perspectives aren't welcomed here but instead of having sex pushed onto women constantly, which makes women struggle with the conflict between their sexual urges (their body says yes) and their personal beliefs (e.g. not having sex on the first date) men in college have "taken advantage" at the decreased judgment in inhibition of a drunk girl, as she follows her impulses to not shoot down the "creep" who is forcefully pushing her closer to him, leading her to his r…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:19 PM
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This is sensible, however I have met a few RPers who do believe they love unconditionally, but there will always be deluded people especially the ones who are just starting to swallow the pill and don't quite get it yet. What you're saying, in my personal experience, is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 11:59 AM
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I know one. They're both applying to medical school and unsure what the future has in store. Dating for 5 years now. There are also some personality differences that they're unsure they can work out. So yeah I know one. Not every young couple thinks this. My last relationship I wanted to last a long time but we both were not sure. Obviously it did not. You can find a lot of happy young couples who are content with the present but ambivalent about the future. I'm also not delusional like a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 05:23 AM
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Maybe these guys are actually dating down then but the majority of people in the world aren't very attractive so most relationships take place between two people who are average looking or slightly above average looking. Very hot men can probably find a pretty hot girl that's also chill so unless they are attracted to the woman they are with its doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 04:41 AM
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For now yes. I also believe it will last a long time. So does he, does that make us crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 04:32 AM
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Yeah what I meant was all attractive guys aren't on the same league as the hottest girls. Plus is subjective. A guy you percieve to be a 10 could be a 8 or 7 depending on the girl, same thing goes for women, so men you think are dating down might just be men dating the same league as them but you just think the guy is better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 03:58 AM
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Hmm true. Hot girls can also not be bitches but they might not be the hottest girls, still doesn't mean the guy is dating down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 03:07 AM
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Hm, well I typically see happy relationships where both partners are in a similar league so to speak. I've seen ugly men date ugly women, hot men date hot women, etc. My cousin who is not particularly the most attractive fellow is dating a really hot girl right now. Its not black and white situation like that, e.g. men will always date down. In fact women also tend to date down. And I don't have a source but it seems like appearances matter just as much to men as women. There's no argument. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 01:23 AM
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They don't need to if you're being redpill. See this is what I meant. You don't NEED to be red pill for women to not fuck you over. Not all women are programmed to only be a good person if there's a man keeping them in line. Men who are BP or not consciously RP can still have fulfilling relationships....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 01:11 AM
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Loving unconditionally. Loving someone for who they are, not how they make you feel. This is the kind of love TRP claims women are incapable of. Where as men naturally are inclined to love this way....I never understood this argument at all. Most RP men just agree and repeat it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 10:04 PM
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Here's an anecdote: I'm happy. My bf is happy. He rejects most of RP. I embrace some aspects of RP, e.g. the ones that tell women to be respectful and kind and submissive. I have issues with submitting naturally but I try to do it because its good to let him lead when he wants, but I also have as much say and sometimes even the final say in things. There are very few conflicts in our relationship. We want the same things in life. The shit RP says is wrong with women and how men need to act in or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 05:00 PM
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I'm sorry but its not a paraphrase. Its often touted in RP rhetoric and I'm sure its even on the sidebar. "Women can't love like a man can love" "women don't love you they love the way you make her feel" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 04:55 PM
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I brought it up with my friends about how I did not want to sleep with anyone until I'm in a relationship and they told me, verbatim, that I will never find a guy if I don't sleep with them first, and that I'd have to have sex with a guy before he'd consider a relationship with me. Don't listen to your friends. They are BP and riding the carousel. Both of my LTRs ended up with us having sex after commitment. Some men just don't want to spin plates...those are the ones you want. Look for men who …
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 06:13 PM
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I think the point she is trying to make is what's the point of guesswork when you can just communicate what you want from your SO, and feel comfortable asking what they want. When it comes down to it, communication needs to be built upon a foundation of honesty. I realize my SO prefers quality time and I prefer acts of service, which is opposite of your assumptions. Even though we both were able to determine this implicitly through our actions and desires, one day we had a conversation that ceme…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 06:07 PM
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Well yeah that's sort of the point of relationships in an evolutionary context. Human race wouldn't be able to survive without a mother who bears and takes care of children while the husband acquires resources and does the grunt work. And there's nothing wrong with this. Its the nature of our species to have to rely on another person for survival. Humans by themselves are weak and vulnerable but by working in teams, and yes a marriage is a team, they can do great things.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:03 PM
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Haha okay. Yea I'm not a unicorn but I do want to improve myself. I try, really do, to be a better person but there's still a long road ahead of me. One day I might be there. But as long as I'm happy and he's happy that's what matters. Thanks for your input and I wish you the best in your life travels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 10:58 PM
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Some feminists don't hate men. A lot do!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 09:39 PM
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This is definitely not true for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 09:18 PM
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Oh sorry when you have big boobs you can squeeze them against a guys dick as he thrusts. Turns him on for some reason :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 08:10 PM
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I don't know what he prefers I guess I'll ask him. I prefer fucking like an animal but you can still love the person your pinning down and it makes it better, I feel like I can have more rough sex with him because he loves me and its not demeaning. We don't have slow boring sex and I don't like slow boring sex. It just makes it better when I'm getting fucked in the boobs or getting a dick slapped on my face that the man doing it loves me and doesn't think I'm a disposable slut :D and it makes me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 07:15 PM
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He does both, depends what were in the mood for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 07:06 PM
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I didn't keep count really. I try counting but its unpleasant to think about. Its less than 15 but more than 10. 2 of those were LTRs and 4 were short relationships. So I had 4-9 ONS or FWB. Most of that was at the age of 16 and 17 and I was really stupid. After reading RP I'm ashamed of that and wish I didn't put out as easily, knowing my sex is an asset and I should guard it. Before I thought sex was something people did for fun and it would make guys happy and I had no issue doing it but now …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:52 PM
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Thankfully yes so there is some redeeming quality there. Not only do I like cooking I'm also good at it. Italian blood
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:40 PM
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He doesn't lose his temper. He loses his patience if someone doesn't listen. I'm stubborn so he will lost his patience with me faster than with an employee who isn't stubborn. But a stubborn employee will get the same treatment as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:38 PM
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He's 4 inches taller than me lol. Hopefully I won't get bored
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:37 PM
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I really hate it. I have ADHD and it manifests in how I can't see/deal with lots of stuff and organizing stuff and keeping things tidy. Its awful. My bf has inspired me to be better. He will kick start a cleaning effort and I'll clean just because he is cleaning so it becomes something we do together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:36 PM
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Yeah that's cool. I should be that way :o I'm a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:25 PM
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I don't see why you would think that. I'm also attractive to a lot of other people. If I wanted to I could sleep with many men. I keep my hypergamy in check by reminding myself they're just sexual urges. I made another post about my looks. I am hit on at bars almost instantly. Get complimented by strangers on the street all the time. I meet people then my friends tell me later how attractive they found me. I don't care honestly! The attention is cool and all but doesn't compare to the love my bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:25 PM
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I mean just look at feminists and TRP. Seems like a lot of gender hate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:20 PM
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Serious question, who wants to clean? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:10 PM
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He's lost his patience with me at times and then I need to re evaluate things and bring it back up. But never loses his temper with anyone. He loses his patience if people don't listen to him after he has explained something more than once. I don't think I'm treated any different in terms of work. I really would notice if I was getting special treatment but I'm not. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:03 PM
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The truth is most relationships consist of two working people and work isn't really something you do just for someone else. Its something you do to survive. Men aren't supposed to compliment or indulge their women's desires according to some TRP statements. They can't or she might see him as weak and take advantage of him. There's more than just chores which definitely should be a shared responsibility :) but fixing things isn't a daily task. Cleaning and cooking is something that has to happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:59 PM
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Ah, I wear dresses almost every day. They're awesome. I'm all for em. Easier to put on too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:55 PM
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Interesting thoughts. They sound reasonable. But sometimes shorts/pants are nice too. Especially if you think people should be bike riding ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:52 PM
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Instead of constantly being pitted against each other they acknowledge they need the other gender and an all male or all female civilization would just collapse. They work together and treat each other as people despite any differences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:50 PM
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Both are genuinely happy and can last the long haul. However that's achieved is irrelevant. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:48 PM
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well there's the 2/3 rule for starters which is a less exaggerated version I'd what I said. Men should give less to women because they need to display they are high SMV so just by being that they're already above her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:46 PM
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Actually I see my mentor give the exact same treatment to the interns (what I was before I got hired full time) its the nature of the field, its called code reviews ;) you think the lead Dev wants to maintain bad code? Course not. Which is why he makes sure we don't write it and if anyone does write bad code he tells us to rewrite it. That's just how it is, its how mentorship works. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:53 PM
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Hmm OK. Well I've been told when I need to improve and I do, constructive criticism is always welcome :) Edit: even though I'm good I'm still inexperienced and learning how to do things better all the time from my experienced male coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:28 PM
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I also am very lucky to have him! Don't forget that, it was the whole point of my post. But thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:27 PM
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Thanks, yeah I hope so. RP has taught me a bunch even if neither of us are. Awareness is really great and has actually made our relationship even better since I can use my knowledge to not take advantage of his beta provider qualities :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:22 PM
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Thanks for your perspective and I haven't thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:19 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Very insightful and you're right. Its the betas that get screwed over but there's nothing wrong or bad about them. Its the people who screw em over who are wrong and bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:18 PM
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I know you're right but occasionally there will be men who don't let my looks influence how they perceive my work. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:17 PM
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Software dev
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:13 PM
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OK sure. He doesn't do everything for me without question. But he does do things for me selflessly. That's what I was trying to say. He's a selfless person who puts me first for some reason. I work as a software developer in an entirely male office. I don't think using my sexuality is appropriate in the slightest. Besides, I've got enough intelligence I don't need to flaunt my body and batt my eyelashes. I dress well and stuff because I take pride in how I look, but I got where I am because I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 03:44 PM
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We are just good at different things. Its more balanced than equal. Except he is a better person than me so whereas I need to work on selflessness it comes naturally to him. I try to give back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:55 PM
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Well of course that's right. I retract the statement. I could be with anyone who put up with me. :) I am not arrogant, I don't understand why when an RP man says he is sexy and attractive its confidence but a woman who says she is attractive is arrogant. I'm not publicly open about my looks. I actually think I don't look as attractive as I do and try to improve. On the internet we only have words though so if I don't stick up for my looks everyone here is gonna think I'm ugly which I'm not :) A …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:44 PM
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I'm the one who likes to expirment and wouldn't mind more kinky stuff. Maybe when we have our own place we can be more adventurous :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:33 PM
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I get that. Thanks a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:26 PM
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OK thanks! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:26 PM
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Oh uh yeah well I love him and he has no income as he hasn't graduated yet and I make 90k/yr starting salary. Won't be marrying anyone for their money. there are other provider traits I need and he has em
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:22 PM
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Actually society and you with your post tell men to be pussies that are not attractive. (as long as both partners prioritise one anothers needs over their own every relationship can work, the issue is where you draw the line) Also Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:20 PM
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I think you're right. He is conditioned by society but he's also very sexy and handsome so it works. I'm a bit of an outlier on the other hand. I grew up unattractive and turned attractive suddenly when I hit 17 and started looking mature. So I never got conditioned like a typical attractive woman but now I'm good looking and could be with anyone I wanted. And I want him. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:19 PM
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This is a great post. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:13 PM
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I think my chronic disease also makes me need someone who is willing to do things for me when I ask. He also reminds me to take my medication every night. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:11 PM
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Thanks! RP men is way more reasonable than a lot of BPers make them out to be. This is a perfect answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:05 PM
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I'm not an amazing gf but he thinks I am. I wanna jump his bones and cop all kinds of feels all the time. And if he wants sex or bj or anything I'll give it to him. Sexual attraction is very important in a healthy relationship isn't it? I just feel like a lot of RP tells men not to be like the way I described my bf. No one tells men not to be sexually attractive though. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:02 PM
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Sex is something we need to work on. I wanna get a sex chair so we can do crazy positions but other than missionary, cowgirl and doggie style there's not much else which actually feels good and not awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:59 PM
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He does get it, I try not to refuse him ever, only if all his roommates are in the living room because I can be loud. If he is initiating you bet I'm gonna take him up on it since I initiate a lot too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:58 PM
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So when you make an hyperbolic joke about him being my servent its OK but I make the same statement in the opposite direction and its bad. Lighten up. Sure there are people who believe that on RP. Not everyone but certainly there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:56 PM
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Thanks! I try to shift focus on him. Its why I read RP, but RP doesn't actually describe our relationship 70% of the time, so I can't say we have a RP relationship or that either of us are RP. But they have GREAT tips on how women should be less selfish and treat their men better. I want it to last and so does he.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:53 PM
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When I said we are partners I implied that I also give equally to the relationship. I do try to serve him too as I said. He is just a natural giver whereas I need to work on it, and I do! I think the thing you're trying to say is that RP men prefer their women to give and serve them more, and RP men don't give their women anything besides the privilege of being with him because he is so alpha!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:50 PM
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He predicts when I'm gonna be a bitch and holds me and comforts me until I calm down. Then I apologize for being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:45 PM
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OP's man is just a very will behaved good guy. OP is dumb enough for her man to fool around on her, it all depends on exactly what he is getting out of it, because of course OP as a woman only told us her point of view. Can you elaborate a bit more on this, I'm guess I'm too dumb to understand what you mean by he is fooling around on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:44 PM
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Thank you! And I'm sure there are a load of women who aren't and I understand RP gives advice based on them, but yeah I suppose I'm an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:43 PM
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I'm pretty sure he has a penis that I like to play with and sit on and suck on and ...well...dammit I wish we weren't at his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:41 PM
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It would undermine my point that I am still attracted to him despite the BP qualities RP says would make me go running for a true alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:39 PM
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Of course. But they wouldn't be attracted to a man who flat out refused to decide some things and insist on her making the choice right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:38 PM
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Of course I'm sexually attracted to him. I wouldn't be with him if I wasn't. I've been down that route. It doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:37 PM
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He of course has some alpha traits. I don't think he is alpha like RP says men should be. RP would tell him to stop doing a lot of what he does. But of course he exhibits alpha traits too!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:36 PM
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What he thinks my perspective is? On what? I don't ask him what he thinks I think. I just think he knows what I tell him I think since people can't read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:34 PM
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That's funny lol. I want to serve him more he's just way better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:32 PM
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I'm very messy by default and I'll ask him for help with cleaning up when it gets bad lol. He doesn't mind. I cook for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:32 PM
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This is a wonderful answer. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:31 PM
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I don't show respect for him sometimes but I do and try to be more respectful. I try to curb my selfishness and appreciate him more and respect his feelings and wants and I don't belittle him or anything. Any tips on how to respect him better? I've read a lot about it here and I have a good idea of how theoretically I should show respect but I want to keep trying to be better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:30 PM
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Some things about him that are BP is that he treats me with respect, love, and kindness and as an equa so do your friends, are you having sex with them? Of course! Hot sex. He doesn't like to make decisions and asks me often what to do. He cleans and does things for me when I ask. He comforts me and generally gives back to me much more than I him. Poor guy. He is really happy. I try to give to him he just finds ways to beat me. Although he's not really romantic and doesn't dote on me, I have a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:25 PM
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Best explanation I've seen. Why then does RP advocate for men to be alphas and makes betas out to be pussies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:11 PM
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Me too, according to RP I would but anyway he's not spineless, more like selfless. He doesn't let me walk all over him and I don't WANT to walk all over him. But I can't see a reason why I'd leave him for being who he is. I like him now and he would make a great husband and father IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:10 PM
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I think so. Which works out well for us. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:07 PM
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I have a couple of questions which are relevant to analyzing the situation. How old are you? 22. Are you on the pill(hormonal birth control)? No but I want to get the nuva ring so sex feels better for him How much sex do you have with him? A few times a week when not on the rag, when I am I'll give him a bj or two. My libidos higher than his usually but our frequency will go up when we move in together. I moved back home after graduation. I used to have a single and we would do it at least once …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 01:06 PM
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Sure but they do abide by their mam, anything he says is final. If he wants something from her she does it. My relationship isn't like that. We compromise and I tell him what to do sometimes. He tells me what to do sometimes too but its not a one sided thing. Actually more often than not he wants me to make the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:47 PM
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I agree with you and so do some other RPers but as a whole there are many who believe the beta traits my boyfriend exibits will eventually make me unnatracted to him and branch swing to a more alpha male. Which I disagree with :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:44 PM
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I replied. If its not good enough let me know. There's a way this can be settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:40 PM
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Once I left the awkward stage of HS and lost some weight I got lots of attention. It was strange at first since I went to an all girls HS and wasn't used to attention from men of all kinds. My bf is very attractive as well. I think my rating is about a 7. If I really wanted to I can be an 8 if I worked out. I also have really nice boobs, hair, lips and eyes. I weigh around 110 lbs. I have a natural tan and dark long brown curly hair. I'm not everyone's type, due to my height and coloring (some m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:31 PM
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Yeah I don't know where in my post I said my man wasn't attractive. He is very much so, from the get go I was attracted to his looks and he mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:17 PM
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You brought up some good points but there are some issues with what you're saying. I agree society is hypersexualized but I do believe women take plenty of precautions to not get raped and it still happens anyway, sort of demonizing men to be the predominant cause of rape. But I also believe NOT ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS. So in the same vein, not all women will manipulate, lie, cheat, and take advantage of men. The thing with pay is interesting but I think everyone gets paid mostly what they deserve r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 02:20 PM
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I'm already in one so I couldn't care less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 12:06 AM
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In the end it really doesn't matter to me someone's sexual partners or preferences. I don't know why I even have an opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 11:12 PM
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Or the door/key analogy or the cock carousel. I'd rather not have a man who just left the pussy parade the same way a man might not want a chick who just hopped off the cock carousel. Its just rediculous to delude men into thinking there won't be a single woman who finds 40+ partners revolting. The same way RP men have this view on women I have a similar view on men. And a lot of other women feel the same way about men just don't publicly shame men for being sluts the same way women are shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:17 PM
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I say this because often advice in TRP is along the lines of "spin as many plates as possible unless you want an LTR then look for a virgin but keep spinning plates because it increases your SMV" Doesn't that seem a little hypocritical to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:13 PM
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Just because you say your strategy is amoral doesn't mean I haven't read countless things from TRP which state otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 09:11 PM
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Great tips. I believe you're right and I wish I could always control my selfishness/emotional outbursts. I need to see my man as a human and be empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 06:18 PM
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I think the poster is trying to say your observations will be biased so its certainly possible you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:26 PM
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Oh yeah the whole 20% 80% thing. Sure it DOES suck for men, but I don't think it justifies encouraging people to have meaningless sex. For men and women it can be damaging and also a strain on men who have more trouble doing it. Meaning I think it does more bad than good to sleep with lots of people (or exclusively try to). We should all show a little restraint IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:25 PM
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100% agreed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 04:52 PM
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Thanks! I got tired of the same old drivel from TRPers and BPers arguing with eachother with neither compromising. Compromise is a very interesting road, IMO, as both of these will never be 100% right or wrong, so its interesting to see what people who fall in the middle think is right/wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 04:05 PM
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If you read things outside of TRP you might see some evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 03:59 PM
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I enjoy reading RPW but I read there not post much since I have many BP thoughts and dont want to add "noise"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 03:58 PM
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Seems like we have very similar views, even word for word on some of them although you made some pints I did not, e.g. the one about women with high partner counts being able to make great wives!! I dont know that much about people to know whether or not its true but its good to know someone out there thinks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 03:53 PM
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Are you high or something? I was kidding when I said "I was confused". I was making fun of you for saying something, then saying the opposite of that thing. I am not blindly marching to my doom, wtf, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 03:51 PM
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Which means men sleep around as well and are also able to get high partner counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 04:06 AM
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Good advice. Rolling your eyes is a reasonable reaction if your instinct was to yell though would you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 11:28 PM
1

Huh funny, I always saw guys as the ones who'd fuck anything that walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 11:27 PM
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There fore they are not "RP"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 11:25 PM
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I would be wary of dating someone with 20+ partners. Its not about equality. Its just not being stupid and expecting someone to change... TRP doesn't focus on or care about the the last two things I mentioned and often will just brush it away and find something about women to complain about in response. Basically both genders are prone to being shitty people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 10:27 PM
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The source was the article I read that you clearly did not (linked in the comment from higher up this thread). You have no logical argument. "Because society thinks so!" Doesn't mean something is true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 10:13 PM
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Thanks for your views. You seem level headed normal and well adjusted haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 09:47 PM
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I mean that's true women have more power in sexual relationships, but that doesn't mean they don't think a man with many partners is a red flag the same way men think women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 09:20 PM
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Never become a unit? Everything else makes perfect sense and I strive to do those things and be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 09:17 PM
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You are confusing me. At first you say women don't respect men, then you say red pill women respect men. So obviously women are capable of respecting men we are just not taught by society to do so when we should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 09:15 PM
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Great points!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 09:04 PM
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And men are damaged to women looking for husband material. I think it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 09:03 PM
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I mean what we got now doesn't work. Who knows what will...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 08:35 PM
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That's why I'm a fan of the philosopher king/benevolent dictator kind of thing. Politics right now is fucked, obviously people can't be trusted to do a republic democracy right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 07:17 PM
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What could women do to respect their men more? Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:40 PM
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He is 5'4, but I actually like that. Were like the cute small couple (I'm 4'11)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:23 PM
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Yeah it seems like you and I share similar views. The thing which bugs me the most about trp is the claim that women are not as smart as men. I know I'm somewhat freakishly smarter than others and it annoys me when the internet can't accept that there are smart ass women out there. That's why I want to use my intelligence to make lots of money, since it's actually a rare asset and I could contribute a lot to society. I am very proficient at whatever I do and my work ethic is very good. I just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:21 PM
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That's not gonna change his "size" if you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:12 PM
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Purple pill actually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:05 PM
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I'm small so he is proportionate to me and our relationship is great but he is not "big" he's "just right". Its not dissimilar to a bigger guy dating an above average sized woman and fantasizing about a hot little chick. Ya know? But wouldn't jeopardize a happy relationship for some fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:02 PM
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Also during sex say something you like about her looks (you have great tits, I love your ass, youre hot). This will turn her on and make her more giving during sex. (Trust me). Women who are self conscious may be shy during sex so if you male her feel attractive she could open up more.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 05:58 PM
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Good question. I'm not sure if I'm sopilistic by nature or by nurture but sometimes I see it. And I know it happens when I don't realize it (only to later). Obviously I disagree with this behavior and try to overcome it by reminding myself to be open minded and put myself in anothers shoes. You honestly can't see something from another persons side if you don't agree with them in some shape or form. I do get the desire from time to time to have a sex with (often dreamt up) bigger men. So I guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 05:50 PM
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You missed my point. And if you read the linked article you may understand. Who really cares how society portrays women and men and their sexual partners? Even though women are treated worse for having many partners in society and media and people are vocal about it, the reality is that men are also perceived negatively (not positively) by individuals, and there isn't a huge difference. The double standard only exists on television and in movies and is NOT a realistic portrayal of how people act…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 01:47 PM
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Are women judged more harshly in society/by peers for having a high partner count? Probably. That doesn't mean a man sleeping with a bunch of women isn't also perceived negatively by potential partners. I don't think a man sleeping around is an accomplishment or something to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 01:25 AM
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Female perspective. She said she knows she's not a comic book character because comic book characters are usually drawn with tiny waists and large breasts. She is not insinuating you're a nerd, seems like she's being a bit nerdy, anyway. You made her feel self conscious about her looks. She wants validation that she's attractive. You don't need to compliment her directly like a beta but make it clear that you wouldn't be interested in her if you did not find her attractive. That simple
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:28 PM
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In my experience some men prefer a "don't ask don't tell" policy. My bf specifically said he had no interest in knowing how many people I slept with or who they were. I tried the honest route by letting him know I had a history but he didn't want to hear it. If I made an allusion to a previous relationship he would just ignore me. I realized its because he doesn't care about that and just cares that I am with him now. I stopped focusing on and talking about the past and looked towards the future…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 12:22 PM
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I found though since I'm short I can still get away with a lot of their dresses
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 12:15 PM
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My go to is forever 21. Although a bit on the "sexy" side at times with the open backs and the short dresses, you can find a lot of nice girly flattering things. I like dresses that have flowers on them personally. Also dresses need to come in the waist area. It needs to eventuate the shaplyness of a woman's body. I typically opt for dresses a few inches above the knee and cover my cleavage. Those dresses you linked make these women look rectangular whereas I look for ones that will make more of…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 12:11 PM
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Graduate when you're 21-22 and spend about 10 years paying off loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:35 AM
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I don't think you answered his question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:33 AM
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That's quite an apt analogy. Interesting how fulfilling one desire for people may ruin your opportunities in other arenas. For men who are too friendly to women, they get friend zoned. Women on the other hand, will get slut zoned if she gives a guy what she thinks he wants (sex). This means that women need to be taught to not attract men with sex, and men need to be taught not to attract women with affection. I forgot the term for this, but its as if your value is so scarce and rare you can't wa…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 11:01 PM
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But what about modern society which sort of puts so much emphasis on sex, and how women especially think they need to put out for men to like them. Sex sells. Women are taught from young ages that sex will get them more attention, which may incorrectly translate to affection for these girls. I think its quite possible that girls with several partners (not a lot, just more than a few) got that way not because they wanted to fuck a lot of guys, but because they thought fucking guys would get them …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 11:09 PM
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I started reading the red pill and I made it a goal to not try to change my coworkers just because I am the only woman at this programming shop. Its hard because at first some would tell me they can't talk about the same stuff around me. I presume its because of fear of sexual assault allegations or hostile work environment or something. But the guys I work with aren't dicks. I'll be OK with dick jokes and witty banter and teasing each other constantly. I join in too. But I'm not trying to act l…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:36 PM
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Sounds fine to me....there's no way that would turn a girl off if you're into all those other things and are attractive. Perks to being a good catch is that you can get a good catch who will let you be yourself (more)..
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:53 PM
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You are right. I think there is something else about being a woman that puts extra pressure on me to perform really well lest others think I got where I am not because of my brain but because of my boobs.... But I understand EVERYONE needs to prove their worth. Being a Dev isnt something people should take lightly. Do it right or don't do it at all.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:41 PM
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I definitely don't take it personally. I have proven my worth and such. I also recognize that the combination of being a woman AND being good at what I do, means I can easily get any job I want. I will have a very successful career because I am driven, smart, and also in the minority. Its exciting so I am happy about it. I am pretty lucky.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 05:39 PM
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True. I don't think I'm a victim at all. I do prefer the perks it is nice. But I still hope it was because I earned it. Accomplishments mean a lot to me.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 05:35 PM
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I am not trying to negate it, really. Do you know how offensive it is when people assume you are a bad developer or that you only got where you are because of your gender? The flip side to most women gliding through the system because they can is that it reduces the credibility of all women. I have to prove myself because other devs will think like you do. Sure some women don't have to prove themselves to interviewers and managers. But I want to be respected by my colleagues. People won't respec…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:21 PM
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I know I don't speak for all female developers but I am pretty good at what I do. I might not be the best, but I work hard and generally do well. Does my gender give me some sort of edge? Perhaps, but at the same time I read stories about cs women taking advantage of those perks and my experience is nothing like that. Did I get help in classes? Sure, at the beginning when I had never programmed before I asked for help. But by the time I graduated two weeks ago, I have become a pretty good develo…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:03 PM
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TRP will tell you not to express emotions. That is wrong. They don't want a man to express weakness. Weakness is unattractive, weakness is not productive. However, being emotionally honest and open with your girlfriend builds trust and makes you closer. A lot of the stuff on TRP is good, but remember you will find men here also saying that their woman is a child, that she is their possession, that her only purpose is to please him, etc. Don't believe everything you read here and use your judgmen…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:50 PM
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I thought so too. I suppose that's why it'd a challenge lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 11:41 PM
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I think the rules in both the male and female RP subreddits is "Self Improvement" and "Awareness/Acceptance of Reality". For us, we need to take care of ourselves. It sounds like you're already up to a good start. You look good, and take care of yourself. Normally, eating better, working out, taking care of one's hair and skin, dressing appropriately, and putting on makeup even in casual situations are advice I see here. Never forget, that anyone at any time can be looking at you. A high value m…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 05:00 AM
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Nothing. I probably should do something. My skin isn't flawless. Oops edit: popped over to /r/skincareaddiction and their beginners guide is sooo awesome and simple, just perfect really. Can RPW have a beginners guide as well?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 04:40 AM
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Then he should of shut it down. Told her she couldn't take to the FWB anymore and had to ignore them and that he thought it was disgusting that she would even respond. So what she did wasn't right. He is supposed to show her what's right.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:46 AM
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Really? I mean if it mattered that much to you, why didn't you ask her four years ago? You're breaking up with your girlfriend over the past. There's really nothing wrong with a few FWB, sure it might not mean she is perfect but you're just an idiot if you think somehow you got a unicorn and just because she's not a perfect goddess you thought she was, means you can find someone who is a unicorn. Think about it. If this is the only reason you have for breaking up with her it means she did someth…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:43 AM
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Since when does reality equate to being able to read people's minds? If it was so easy they wouldn't have to discuss it. The fact that they do says there is more dimensions to reality than these patterns. Society has a significant influence over how people behave and then there is also the fact that chaos is the natural state of things. They discuss the levels of RP theory. How to calibrate, philosophy, amongst the general core beliefs, that are hard to disagree with if your mind isn't shut.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:31 AM
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Roles will vary with individuals but typically the male has the role of provider and the woman has the role of supporter. As to what he provides and how she supports is subjective. In one case the man will bring home the money (providing wealth), or maybe he does a lot of home improvement (providing shelter). Basically the man needs to bring something to the table that the woman cannot do alone as easily. And then in turn the woman's role would be to support her mans endeavors and make sure the …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:51 AM
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The engineer one made me laugh (didn't read the others) but it doesn't seem very red pill to me. Just from that one section it was pedestalling women just based on what career they went into. Which is silly, yes engineering women are few and far in between, but that doesn't mean they are the holy grail for what obviously is some beta chump.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 12:43 AM
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I think you and OP are saying the same thing except from different perspectives, both of you try to place the blame on the other gender than seek to find an internal reason as to why you decide not to put out. To me, not putting out is a symptom of selfishness on a woman's part, especially if she enjoys having sex with the man she is denying. I say this from the perspective of a woman so don't be so quick to hate me :p. The reason I believe this is because when I don't put out its because I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:13 PM
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Thank you. I really do appreciate it. I'm a pretty messy and disorganized person but being in this new home makes me want to try hard to keep things clean and neat. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 01:54 AM
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Fuck we are similar
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 08:13 AM
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Your age: 22 Your height: 5' Your weight: 115lbs Your race/ethnicity (more specific is better): Italian American descent. Tans well but still light skinned. Dark brown curly hair and almost black eyes. Your salary: 90k Your occupation: developer Your education level: bachelors of engineering Your college major: computer engineering His age: 22 His height: 5'5 His weight: 135 His race/ethnicity (more specific is better): white mutt. Sort of a polack. Blond straight hair blue eyes. His salary: 20/…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 08:06 AM
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Wow so much informative! thank you
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 06:55 AM
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Thanks for the advice, but my mother wouldn't be able to tolerate that. unfortunately. I could try it when I move on my own, but until then I guess I'll just do without feet. I'm sure I can still get a good understanding of how to make a healthy soup without going full-tempest mode.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 06:21 AM
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So is putting chicken in water and cooking it an alternative to the bullion cube? I also would like to make sure there is adequate sodium in the broth as I also have a sodium deficiency (and as summer comes back I don't want another trip to the hospital bc my sodium levels are dangerously low) Can't I just keep the meat in there? I really enjoy meat so I could take the chicken and just shred it back into the soup. I guess its not really a "broth" fast but more of a "soup" diet, to balance out th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 06:15 AM
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True, but if my soups consist mostly of protein and vegetables as opposed to carbs it's good. Another added benefit of soup is that it is high in sodium (which I actually have a deficiency of), and you can add stuff like ginger and tumeric into it as tempest pointed out.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 05:32 AM
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That's exactly what I was looking for! Thanks. One last question... My mom wouldn't be comfortable with getting feet, nor could I try right now to convince her too. Is there a "less healthy" but still healthy version of the recipe that is easy for someone with no experience at all with saving bones and making broth with them? Something simple I could try with my mom, but still has good effects... What I envision our soup making process would be like is that we use a fresh but on the bone meat (b…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 05:30 AM
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Wow such good advice!! Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 08:11 PM
1

Ugh I wouldn't have a soup I don't like! Sounds awful. Thanks for your perspee
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 05:08 PM
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Thanks for all of the links! You're so helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 05:01 PM
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One or two days sounds good! I still can clean out my system but not do it for too long. Thanks for the whole 30 tip! Sounds hard to forgo dairy and sugar (unfortunately it doesn't help but I'm addicted to caffeine so I do drink coffee almost daily. I actually have withdrawal if I don't drink coffee but I'm too weak willed to give it up) The reason I was drawn to broth fast was because it sounds so easy! I don't need to give up foods and flavors I love, and it would replace my unhealthy lunch di…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:49 PM
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Thanks for the tips! Low carb is the hard part for me, which is why I thought soup would be a good option for lunch
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:42 PM
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Broth has bioavailable forms of trace minerals, lots of calcium, hydrolyzed proteins, and of course collagen and gelatin, among other things. You'll get the benefits by drinking or including in soup. But fasting with it? Not sure that's necessary. Or are you trying to shift to a GAPS diet or something like that, and are using the opportunity to reset your body's metabolic engines? Well that sounds like a great option. Honestly I never heard about broth fasts until I heard someone here mention it…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:42 PM
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Liquid diets are a very common route for people with my disease as your intestines don't need to work as hard to break down the food! I've never tried it before but I'm seeing my GI on Tuesday and will ask. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:37 PM
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To me a monogamous LTR is a dry run for marriage. I wouldn't be in a LTR with someone if I didn't want to marry them someday. So it is meaningful to me! Of course my SO is made aware of how I feel and my intentions so cheating on me whether or not we are married is still a breach of trust.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:34 AM
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America, if you're a pretty college aged girl, it's a no-brainer that you'll get a better life from marrying a frat guy with a well-off (not even rich) dad than you ever will utilizing your degree. Idk, making a lot of money using a degree I worked hard for, by doing a job I love, and being married to a man who I love, seems like a better option than pissing your way through school just to meet a man and crush him. Eck...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:37 PM
1

But even jokes have some truth to them. Even if the delivery is clearly a joke, the message may not be...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:49 AM
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Its not that..and meant like younger than 15. Like, I can just imagine a situation where a 13 or 12 year old boy reads this, then gets the idea that holding your girlfriends hand or listening to her on the phone is "unmanly" and whatnot. At that age...that's a lot of the relationship. And its not unmanly to old your girlfriends hand or talk on the phone. Its part of a relationship... Typically a young one. I'm 22...not old...I just wouldn't want young boys to think its stupid that girls enjoy ho…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:10 PM
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Thanks for your perspective! I agree 11 is dumb for women to want, but 14 is something that would happen with me and my SO in the early days. (Except, he enjoyed it) He could listen to me talk for awhile. It's a good thing, you know, to think the girl you're dating is interesting and not vapid/stupid.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 12:11 AM
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Ah, ok. I guess I always really thought it was a real way of thinking for those types of guys. Being super macho is a turn off for me, but sure, it can be funny, i get that. When I read it, of course, I don't feel like its funny, but that doesn't mean its not funny. I had an ex who would be really abrasive/offensive on purpose, and he thought it was hilarious. Other friends of his thought so, too. I obviously did not. Who am I to say what he thought was funny was not? Just because I did not enjo…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:49 PM
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OK well, then maybe I'm just a stick in the mud who doesn't know how to take a joke.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 07:48 PM
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I try to keep in mind young boys (boys or are 15 or younger) might read this and take it the wrong way. I understand its meant to be humorous but to the naive mind of a young teen, he might take it too seriously. Also it seems like the girl who wrote the original thing was like 14 or something. Teens are easily influenced by what they see on the internet. Just trying to find a middle ground between the rediculousness of both articles that might be actually useful, e.g. "ways to make your girl fe…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 03:11 PM
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Ok looks like you're not understanding anything out of his article. Whatever, I feel great today, i'm going to explain patiently : This is HUMOR. See I knew it was humor just didn't find it super funny. But yes I do understand the article wasn't meant to be taken seriously, but it just seemed like the author went overboard on focusing on how macho manly he was. This is a place for men to discuss sexual theory, so I read this article not from the standpoint that I expected to be entertained but r…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 02:58 PM
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Yes, you would get to 10. The thing is that the scale from 1-10 is distributed because there are far more average looking people (a 5) than there are extremely ugly (1) or extremely beautiful (10). There are more 9s than there are 10s, there are more 8s than 9s, there are more 7s than 8s, etc. The probability of finding a 10 is not the same as the probability of finding a 5, thus the bell curve. It could be linear, but that means you'll have to lower your standards for a 10, and count more peopl…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 10:41 PM
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Its actually a distribution that's more like a bell curve
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:00 AM
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.... According to what you said... If she is a 7, 30% of women are hotter if she is an 8, 20% of women are hotter If she is a 9, 10% of women are hotter... Which means s 10% of women are tens. Right?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:40 AM
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I attempted to show my gratitude to the poster of the image by explaining how the image helped me objectively rate myself and give me concrete tips on how to improve. Everyone says the scale is subjective but this scale seems pretty objective to me, which means women can absolutely raise their number if they are aware of the scale and what contributes to the number, follow me?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:33 PM
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I don't think that's how the scale works. That would be saying 10% of women are 10s.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 01:57 PM
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I have a professional whitening kit. I have a cute smile but my teeth got stained a bit this year. They are far nicer when they are bright and white so I know I can fix that. I also have somewhat spacy teeth and I hate it so I might try to see if I can get that fixed. Other than that there are plenty of small ways I can improve Hygiene isn't black and white. I never smell bad, but I don't shower every day (I don't sweat or have BO and my hair doesn't get greasy) that means I typically have no sc…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 01:46 PM
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Oop! I didn't notice this. Anyway I was planning on saying this. Should I resubmit as a text post? This is more geared towards young women who havent hit the wall and could improve their looks. According to this I am a HB7 but I could get myself to at least a HB8 if I toned up, improved my hygene, whitened and fixed some small gaps in my teeth, applied make up daily and did hair daily. If I dressed right and acted right on top of that I could be a 9. I've got the potential to improve I just need…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 05:35 AM
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Wow thanks for this. According to this I am a HB7 but I could get myself to at least a HB8 if I toned up, improved my hygene, whitened and fixed some small gaps in my teeth, applied make up daily and did hair daily. If I dressed right and acted right on top of that I could be a 9. I've got the potential to improve I just need to push myself. Edit: not sure why I got down voted but I see a lot of complaints about women who don't put any effort into their looks and are OK with being a slob or gett…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 05:19 AM
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I think a good skill would be to come up with a method by which to differentiate high quality women from low quality women. I dislike the idea that RP says AWALT and that there are no unicorns and tells men how to easily scrape from the bottom of the barrel by just making themselves good enough. The next step in your development as an alpha could be to find a woman who matches or comes close to your value, not perceived value but actual value, and a method by which to be able to identify those w…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:30 PM
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Thing is, having an LTR is a huge sacrifice, especially for those who have never really been in an LTR before. You're giving up all this shit you love to do - your free time, lie-ins, money, gym time, time with the lads etc. all for the hope of getting laid from your girlfriend. A good girlfriend wouldn't take any of that away from you. And hopefully in return you get way more than sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 01:46 PM
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Oh wow. Just think in a few more years she will be her own functional person. She already sounds so engaged and attentive and these are the years of her life where she does need a lot of human interaction so I understand.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:26 AM
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You need to understand she is coming from a place of extreme emotional instability. Do not entertain that.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:30 AM
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Thanks btw. I think you know what you want which is half the battle. Find someone who shares your ideals, your values, your vision. Don't settle for less. Even if she is a needle in a haystack, one you find her it would be awfully apparent she is "different" and therefore right for you, and you, clearly, are also different, and will stick out to her. I wish you the best and believe you will find it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:17 AM
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Chicken and stars from the microwave was one of my favorite meal growing up :) Also, she is probably not too young to start playing computer games. If you want to feel like you are being a good parent while also leaving her to her own devices, purchase some good computer games for her to learn from. I had been playing computer games since I was 4 or so, stuff like JumpStart Reading, JumpStart Math, JumpStart Pre-K, K, 1st grade, etc. I was always going ahead of the curve. Back in the day there w…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:08 AM
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I try not to make my gender a part of the discussion unless it's really relevant. Most of the time it isn't so its not surprising you would not realize I'm a woman. I love that my SO and I share similar views about our future and hobies and passions as we are both developers. Shit, we spent the majority of our day and night working on our first non-academic development project for a relative who needs a functioning system. We have our own technological strengths, working on different subsystems,…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:59 AM
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all i know is that it would need to be highly visible. It wont be successful if its only seen by a few people. It cant be a niche corner of the internet. So the implementation route will need to rely on integration into existing social media platforms.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:53 AM
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Yeah, i guess if I expect to get anything done, for the progress to be dreadully slow and unfruitful haha Youre a great dad - wow
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:49 AM
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You know its funny due to the discussion I've had today I've come up with this great idea for an app to promote general goodness through social media and herd mentality. Basically make it cool to be a good selfless person or work on self improvement. Using a reward and accountability system, inspire and challenge people to rise to new levels of being. So look out in the next few years, you might see it come to light =)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:29 AM
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My role model was Da Vinci, Newton and Lao Tzu, so I was even more weird and different than peers Instant gratification also is destructive. I'm still trying to work against my desire for things to be instant. I feel like the "theres no cure, deal with it" attitude is what drives RP's negative rhetoric and cynicism. Unfortunately, but I like to think of myself as the cure by being good...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 05:54 AM
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Can you elaborate. I'm only 22 but I am a developer. I can see myself quitting when I have a kid to start my own company full time (I would like to already have a company on the side with my SO by then, while we are both working full time at other jobs, using side projects to grow more as developers and make some cool stuff) anyway I digress. I can see my own company either being consulting or freelancing with some product development. Can you explain how your day goes and how it makes it hard t…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 04:59 AM
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Thanks for sharing your perspective. I agree with you. Honestly, why is it so hard for men to find good women? How is it that so many good men end up with awful women? I mean I knew shitty people existed before I found TRP but I never realized it was this widespread issue. There also seems to be a lot of divorcees on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 04:46 AM
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I talk about rape pretty nonchalantly, if I were a rape victim I probably would want to avoid people talking about something so personal in such a nonchalant manner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 04:13 AM
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Thanks for your response. I'm sorry about what happened to you....I hope that doesn't happen to me/us. I just...don't understand it...I have changed drastically many times in my life but always for the better. If I keep changing for the better it would mean I would stay with my SO not desert him...
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 04:12 AM
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Good questions. Marriage is serious...not to be taken lightly
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 04:08 AM
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I wish she were a better person too. Thank you for sharing and I apologize for what happened to you as a result of what happened between your mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 02:16 AM
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haha, thats a good one!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 01:26 AM
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Thats an interesting and unique perspective. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 01:25 AM
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Yeah, I guess I just get the impression that a woman being bad is more acceptable by society than a man being bad because society likes to shelter and protect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 09:54 PM
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I used rape as an example because it's what comes to mine when I think of a common injustice women face at the hands of men. I've stated multiple times that rape and divorce rape are not comparible on levels of trauma or anything, just that its a gender specific issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 09:49 PM
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I should thanks!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 09:47 PM
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I'm a woman :/ I know many good men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 09:46 PM
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what the actual fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 09:04 PM
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ick....thus the reason to never want to get divorced! society needs to get its priorities straight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:59 PM
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I meant that society holds men accountable for their actions, honestly, I do too. The abuser is in the wrong, the victim, although could avoid the abuse through some other action, should not be shamed for the action of the abuser. The abuser should be shamed. On the flipside, if the women is the abuser, it's also not appropriate to shame a man for being the victim. Regardless of gender, someone who is abusing or taking advantage of another should be shamed. It is not enough to tell the victim to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:57 PM
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Yay for being open minded!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:50 PM
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Thanks for response! It explains the idea behind it enough.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 08:49 PM
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I was preparing my comment of sympathy, but you cannot compare violence and rape to divorce-rapes. Do you know how difficult it is to trust another man once you've experienced this kind of violence? No but I see a lot of men on RP have huge trust issues with women after being financially or emotionally abused. I think violence is a more women specific issue due to the fact men are physically stronger and can take advantage of women. I think its horrible and the trauma faces by a victim of rape c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:47 PM
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I am still not sure what you are asking. I am reading this as....women, if you don't agree with everything TRP says about women by default you think they are perfect. I think nobody is perfect. I don't think that and I guess I came off too harsh. Im saying if you can't agree with some aspects of TRP that claim women have certain flaws then you think women are perfect. I also agree no one is perfect! When did "divorce rape" become such a popular word? When you get divorced you have to compare ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:30 PM
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Thank you for your response. I feel like I agree with almost every statement you made. I honestly have no evidence my self! Just ancedotal evidence from TRP. I don't think TRP is a hate group, but I do think that they could cause more harm than good if it became widespread. I think outside of RP its very easy to recognize its flaws. But I do think there is good that comes out of it, and from these sub's we can explore issues we face as humans and try to overcome them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:25 PM
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It really depends on what the AWALT premise is talking about. Someone complaining that women aren't attracted to them is a very different kettle of fish than an abuse survivor. Absolutely. I guess RP theory is a huge spectrum which encompasses many different issues ranging from small and miniscule to valid concerns which are not addressed by society. I do agree the men complaining about women not liking them or being childish and then saying "women are incapable of love" or "women are children" …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:19 PM
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Or why don't they realize there are good and bad people out there? And they're attracting the bad ones? It's not coincidental. I understand your argument. My counter argument is that when a woman is harmed by a man, it doesn't matter if she put herself in the situation that allowed harm to come by her. It doesn't matter if she is dating an abusive asshole. It doesn't matter if she walked home alone at night at 3 am and got assaulted. See what she did doesn't matter because she is the victim...an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/14 08:01 PM
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Thanks for your response. I guess just by reading the material on TRP, RPW, it seems as if the consensus is that men should make the decision making. It has negative implications on both men (who do not want to make decisions) and women (who are being told that they are incapable of making decisions). But what's actually happening is that users of RP and RPW take RP theory and simplify it to the point where they are making these generalizing, sweeping statements about a gender. I agree with you …
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:33 PM
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Because the diamond/wedding/clothing industry thrives off their ridiculous desires. Never thought about it that way. That makes sense. Unfortunately I cant think of a way to combat it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 06:24 PM
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I think the biggest defensive mechanism we have is when we see something that threatens the image we built up in our head as being perfect goddesses, we naturally rage and claim its BS and its wrong and pat ourselves on the head for being who we are and fuck what you have to say because your wrong. Instead of doing the smart thing and reevaluating yourself and changing yourself. Everytime I feel the "rage" build up inside of me when I read something "offensive" I've learned to reevaluate it and …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:52 PM
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Dear god I hope to never ever become like that. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:43 PM
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I strongly believe that most women lack the fundamental ability to look past the gaud of their fantasy weddings and honeymoons and the influx of praise and attention they receive from their peers at their announcements and ceremonies and this lack of foresight leads to a declining marriage (read: not haaaapy anymore). Sorry, but blaming this selfish and repulsive behavior on a woman's inherent nature will not fix the problem at hand. I agree with you, 100%, that the obsession with weddings, ring…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:39 PM
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It seems like you focused on different things in your answers. I still found both perspectives valuable and felt they contributed to the discussion even though they are not mutually exclusive. The point you both are trying to make seems to be different: Him: RP doesn't say women are unable to make decisions. Its unattractive for a woman to be weak and stupid. Men will let capable women male decisions from time to time. You: It is in the nature of a woman to challenge their man. Sometimes he will…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:10 PM
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Being TRP doesn't mean you want a submissive dumb ass bitch of a wife who is weak and idiotic and can never make a decision on her own. Haha, yeah, I never looked at it that way. I think that being smart is part of what makes me an attractive partner. I don't want to toot my own horn, I'm not of average intelligence either, so to me it seems if I am capable of problem solving on an every day basis (career as a developer, STEM degree) I should be able to make decisions, too. If a company can trus…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 04:54 PM
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Wowww what a bitch. Sorry but its pretty selfish that she tried to take the last bit of money away from you while you were struggling.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:02 PM
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Thus, the start of "idk/idc where to go, you pick." This is us like every day. Thanks!
/r/askTRP06/05/14 02:49 PM
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I assume you're a female? This is why a man needs to make decisions. Because you need perspectives to be able to decide on your question. You want to know what other people think, so you can latch onto that thought. A male does not need this. A male goes against popular opinion if he truly knows his decision is correct, and he will stick with it. I don't need perspectives per se, but I am fairly open minded and like to hear what other people think. In the end how I act on the answers here is ult…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:21 AM
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My favorite thing in sex is when I'm on top and my SO flips me over to the bottom while still inside of me. No warning just...oh I guess were doing this now. Its so sexy...just like he knows what he wants and doesn't ask for permission. I already gave him consent to put his dick inside me. Its up to him how he uses it. OP needs to remember that for this plate.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:00 AM
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It would make the most sense for child support to be a percentage of your annual income. And there to be a grace period of several months or a year where if you are unable to pay CS due to issues with income and you can prove you are struggling you are given relief. Support. Wtf is wrong with this country...
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:55 AM
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An LTR requires a mix of alpha and beta. How much you use depends on how she acts. If you're too alpha, she will get insecure and might preemptively dump you if she's worried you're cheating. Either that, or your such a dick to her that it turns her off. Too beta means she will realize she has a greater value than you, start to wonder if she can find a higher value male. So right now you're afraid you're being beta. Its OK to be beta as long as you can tell she views you as high value. Then she …
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:52 AM
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Of course text her you dummy. She likes you! Get some confidence in yourself. Girls rarely go out of their way to give their numbers to strangers they met a week ago. I don't have specific advice on what to say. I'm sure there's other reading here that can help. Just trying to offer some encouragement!
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:44 AM
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I have a serious question. How is it that if you have no income you are expected to continue to pay child support? I thought child support was based on your income. I hope everything gets better.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:12 AM
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How I align with them: I like to dress feminine I am rather sensitive I am very caring and empathetic I can cook well How I am different: I want a career I have a passion for STEM I am disorganized and bad at cleaning I can be argumentative and stubborn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/14 04:54 AM
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When he makes a suggestion, recommendation or tip...listen to him. When he isn't verbally telling you what to do, listen to his breathing. NSFW Do what you know makes him feel good. For example my SO told me early on in the relationship he likes it when I use suction during BJs. Now its not the easiest thing to do and I wasn't accustomed to it but as soon as I started doing that, he started wanted more BJs and it makes him really happy. Also, experiment. So he told me at the beginning he wasn't …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 04:44 AM
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