rrlzsrnc Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	2 schools of thought on attracting	Fundamentals	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	01/11/24 01:17 AM
11	takes so much out of you	Inner Game	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	08/11/24 05:00 PM
2	investment as the reason	Fundamentals	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	01/11/24 02:54 PM
2	what's best area of focus?	Fundamentals	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:30 PM
1	linguistic clarifications	Fundamentals	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	03/11/24 12:29 AM
0	women are profoundly important in a man's life and have very much to offer		rrlzsrnc	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/24 03:26 PM
0	understanding women	Comprehensive	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	10/11/24 02:12 AM
0	women cannot criticize you	Inner Game	rrlzsrnc	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:14 PM

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12	I don’t approach anymore & it’s gotten me laid more times than i can count.. results may vary. where do you live? I approach- i get flat response. i do my own thing- i get a better life but i get a flat response. I have to say minnesota sucks in general. i'm not from here but others complain too. my net worth has gone up but dating sucks. I don't like making excuses. i just have to say i haven't gotten the same results as you. there must be some other variables that play into this. Also I'm 6'3 make over 6 fig got rental properties too in addition to day job. also i'm no…	/r/seduction	05/06/25 08:57 PM
2	women cannot criticize you Thanks for your detailed thought out reply. I see in retrospect how my words could be misconstrued. I didn't say I want to police their speech. Heck no as if that's even possible. And I was also thinking they an criticize you if you hurt them. If you're not coming through on them. If they depend on you and you screw them. Otherwise why would they? It's not a feminine thing to do. I guess it's kind of like bullying I'm thinking of in a way or ego-validation fishing. Granted I don't experience tha…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:16 PM
1	Do different men peak at different ages? that's a smart way to live if you want to get laid but i only scrape low six figs. my job is easy, nobody is watching me, work from home. if i were more ambitious i could change and apply elsewhere, but there is a track here if i wait. they don't fire much and eventually promote. i am ambitious. I'm just doing a lot of reading and studying here (everything from math and tech). I have about 30 tech books, mostly thick ones from packt or another good publisher. So I'm growing, and also doing some …	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:07 PM
1	what's best area of focus? yeah i think so. It seems natural to get down when you're rejected. I had the idea that it's not rejection that hurts but one's dejection in response.. so that begs the question, what causes a person to get dejected? Well if they were publicly rejected in front of everybody, only a fool would smile it off if they put their heart out, right? They set themselves up wrong in that case but the cats out of the bag anyways. But still what creates the dejection? Still it's no fun to keep getting reject…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 09:03 PM
1	what's best area of focus? i used to go to the gym. my recovery sucks. my muscles are weak for days, i'm more likely to get a migraine. It started once I started doing starting strength (full body compound). so I decided to mind-max, career max. That's more my thing. I eat mostly carnivore and i'm over 6ft. All that 6-6-6 stuff might help and be good but it is alone not sufficient. I can attest to that. it takes more. it takes a mindset and an attitude and a vibe. A good theoretical question is 'how does one install a giv…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 08:58 PM
1	what's best area of focus? yeah so vibe. cause you have to be careful with dating advice. i've found people have to be very careful. it's almost always contextual and always open to interpretation- and misinterpretation, so the former me would be like "ok make her comfortable" and then would proceed to be tame, sexually suppressed, etc etc in order to make her feel comfortable. Which is obviously wrong. So for me the idea of vibe resonates. I'm a victim of bad dating advice or misunderstood dating advice-- because there i…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 08:54 PM
1	what's best area of focus? I will always want that. Who doesn't want that? It's way more fun that way	/r/seduction	29/10/24 02:08 PM
30	Girl contacted me through insta, fastest way to hit it? Don't worry about losing her. Obvious you want to win but my point, based on years of mistakes, is to not try to guarantee success. Be quick and direct and authentic and put the ball in her court unambiguously and then if she plays tennis back with you it's on This is importantly not just some game of being direct or being alpha direct because you don't even really have to be direct per se. Just don't try to work her. Don't necessarily show all your cards and kill the mystery but kinda show them…	/r/seduction	28/10/24 11:07 PM
0	women cannot criticize you no i'm saying women aren't in the business of criticizing men. They don't get value from that so if they do, it's coming from a place of woundedness. They are 'over the line' so to speak and you shouldn't take anything personally. instead you should have sympathy for them and ask them if they're ok. That's all I'm saying. If a guy critizes a guy he can get a payoff, he can get his social status raised (rap battles) or maybe criticism is necessary for the sake of the team. Women get value from nu…	/r/seduction	28/10/24 08:00 PM
0	women cannot criticize you what meds? I'm not on medication. What are you even talking about? Confidence and intelligence are not jointly distributed	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:56 PM
1	what's best area of focus? i want a woman to chase me, drag me into the bed. I just noticed focusing on vibing solves all my problems as much as anything can. it gets me out of my head and she does the work or makes an effort, solves logistics. I think men get the idea that they have to smooth the way.. but not only is that more work and more effort and sometimes cringe but it can also make you appear needy or eager. If it works that when you focus on vibing and vibe successfully over enough time, then switches get flippe…	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:55 PM
1	How to deal with a maybe I got a woman's number. She put her name in my phone with three exclamation points. and she's been keen to date ever since. I'm waiting still for the shoe to drop. This is not normal for me but it should be. I hate the maybe types. To me maybe is no. TO me sure is practically know, unless I know she won't flake. Women are supposed to be excited. I don't know what wires them up to be attracted to one type versus another. These are deeply individual things that I haven't cracked yet. I don't know …	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:28 PM
1	Authenticity when dating yeah women are liars and they say it's because they're trying to be nice but bottom line they are liars, generally speaking, in the vast majority of cases. They are afraid of speaking plainly so they leave you to figure it out. Yes women are afraid of hurting men's feelings, so they instead send him down bad paths but I don't blame them. That just feeds into their narrative. It's enough to just say what they are. Liars. Not in a hateful way but they mostly deflect and lie. They are the unreliabl…	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:24 PM
7	Double Texting to set up 2nd date she loves hurting men and making them confused. most women want to see men scramble. they have evil intentions and practice witchcraft.	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:21 PM
1	Do different men peak at different ages? how did you get in FAANG? What's your salary, what's your degree in? I have a low 6 figure in tech but I don't want a higher salary (= more responsibility). I want my own business. I'm hoping people peak at different ages. Thinking out loud, there's personal peaking (could peak at 60 fwiw), there's peak attractiveness for women - and your peak might not correspond to the peak age. i.e. you could peak at 50 but it's too old for 20sth year olds. Time sucks. People should have infinite time	/r/seduction	28/10/24 07:09 PM
1	The real dilemma for men is erotic validation vs work based validation I see things completely differently. I love work- all types. I didn't get to start working until later in life because I was pushed to school and sports - and not team sports which I would have loved, and not the type of school that I liked. I love work, all types. I get intrinsic gratification from it- from mental work like I do now as an engineer, and like physical work I have done in the past. I never felt like a machine. Some times I felt like I was underpaid, not according to the market, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 06:38 PM