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If it’s toxic, it stops being masculine. It also ceases to be feminine. It’s just toxic behavior, common to all toxic people. Masculinity requires a high degree of mastery of life. Toxic behavior is not masterful, therefor not masculine. Femininity requires a high degree of nurturing and connection. Toxic behavior is not nurturing, therefore not feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:52 PM
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First, accept your looks are what they are. Second, ask yourself, are you taking care of yourself and your looks to the best of your ability? This will help with #1 too.
/r/seduction04/01/21 02:28 AM
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It was a private mastermind outside Nashville.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/19 02:15 AM
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If you don’t see what is terribly wrong with the logic behind that sentence then you have no business talking about statistics.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 08:57 PM
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Do you understand what “cherry picking” is? He took your exact examples and refuted them. That’s not cherry picking in any sense of the phrase.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 08:21 PM
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What’s the name of the logical fallacy where a guy throws out some fancy scientific or mathematical terms to make the information seem more valid? This is your fallacy. Sorry. To say “there’s a high chance that...” or “there’s a high probability that...” without stating what studies were conducted, what value defines “high”, what the sample size was, how the samples were selected from one or more populations, how the data were processed, and how biases were addressed, indicates you’re the one wh…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 08:15 PM
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It says you date and marry trannies. Wtf?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 02:29 PM
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This was originally a satirical joke when it first came out. Do guys actually believe it?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 02:26 PM
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This is a case where the Red Pill took something reasonably true, the idea that the two sexes have some biological programming towards attraction, and bastardized it into complete BS. And this is why RP shit is so confusing, that is, it’s somewhat right but also so very wrong. Yes, women tend to be better at emotional stuff, and men better at physical manipulation and “making shit happen”. I wish I had links, but there are studies that identified these trend in toddlers. For example one study co…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 01:49 PM
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Why are you trying to cope with a woman’s innate irrationality by countering it with reason? Women fall back on emotional tendencies, whereas men fall back on logic (most of the time. ) You do seem to have your own emotional tendencies. You need to approach your arguments from her emotional perspective, not by forcing logic onto them.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/19 04:46 PM
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The link says June 4th.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/19 06:35 PM
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Click-baity like The Cheat Codes for Dating Relationships and Sex 3.0 ?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/19 12:00 PM
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My first thought is to suggest therapy. My second thought is to remind you that there are some 7 billion people on earth, and each was conceived through sex. See that person in line in front of you? He or she came about because somebody ejaculated semen inside a woman. The lesson is that sex is pervasive and normal. Sex is normal and everywhere. You need to figure out how to get accustomed to that fact.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/19 03:18 AM
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What part did you think was gender essentialistic?
/r/ExRedPill20/05/19 10:17 PM
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True, especially if you substitute almost anything for “woman”.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/19 10:16 PM
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I got to meet him at a retreat. He’s the real deal, not some phony proselytizing BS like other manosphere bloggers. And he is a licensed therapist. All I can suggest is you read his stuff and see if it resonates with you. Now, he won’t sugar coat things, and he expects you to take responsibility. Some of the stuff he writes, like NMMNG, is not comfortable reading, but well worth it.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/19 05:44 PM
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The problem isn’t you or RedPill bs. The problem is that you’re like probably 80% of guys: you’ve never learned social and conversation skills. I always talk about the three A’s. Attention, Acceptance and Approval. Those are the basis of conversation. You should be able to look them up but they’re pretty self-explanatory. Pay deliberate attention, accept what the other person says without criticism, and express approval, even if it’s just “hey you’re pretty cool.” I think the fastest way to lear…
/r/ExRedPill19/05/19 12:56 AM
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To reiterate what others are saying, online dating is 100% looks, period. You’re not failing there. I suspect you’re failing at the 3 A’s on the actual date. Attention, Acceptance, and Approval. Everybody wants to be listened to, so are you listening to the girl? Are you attentive? Are you acknowledging their opinions and being non-judgmental (acceptance) or are you trying to contradict them and push your own positions? Are you being open to them and acknowledging the positive things they talk a…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 11:26 PM
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Wait a minute...isn’t there another factor at work here? Don’t we all “know” the basic rule that prime women will ditch a guy and trade up to a better guy as soon as possible? That means while this vapid and immature PUA is going for the younger, vapid women, those same women are planning to ditch him as he gets older and move up to a better man. Which makes them smarter than him.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/19 01:49 PM
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Distinction noted.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/19 05:58 PM
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Blue Pill guys don’t hate themselves, they just don’t know any better and have been programmed to believe being masculine is not valued anymore. Red Pill guys think the act of improving themselves, especially in the gym, make them ultimate manly men desired by all women. Both are delusional, which is why I say the Red Pill just transports a guy to a different matrix.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/19 05:17 AM
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Here’s a free download describing it better than I can: https://www.drglover.com/shop/action-resources/pet-promo-7-14.html It basically involves keeping her interested and continually anticipating surprising positive results. “Where are we going for dinner?” “It’s a surprise. “. Stuff like that.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/19 03:10 AM
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She’s looking for emotional tension. Dynamic emotional interaction around emotions. The trouble is that you’re both caught up in negative emotional tension because that’s easy to create. Then you’re trying to please her and turn off ALL the tension. Keep this up and youre in deep trouble. You need to develop positive emotional tension instead. Find things she likes, find ways to surprise her, but tease her along. Keep her guessing about good things that might happen ( and eventually do. ) Create…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/19 02:35 AM
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Just to get this straight, the Red Pill doesn’t own this stuff, it stole it from other places. Anything good in the Red Pill is not original to Red Pill. One-itis was around long before Red Pill. Making yourself better for yourself was around long before Red Pill. The Red Pill only contributed the misogynistic bs, confirmation bias, and selection bias bs. This is all important stuff, but not Red Pill. Do not bother to go back to Red Pill and try again. Other than that, it’s correct. You were all…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 10:25 AM
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If you’re that worried, double up with both a condom and contraceptive foam/jelly. You can even add in the rhythm method and not fuck her when she’s ovulating.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 03:26 AM
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As RedPill goes, I don’t think this is so bad. The guy doesn’t express any feelings, but that’s not unusual for a lot of guys. He does say she brings value to his life, but he doesn’t explain how. And the fact that life goes on until you die is true. Nothing to see here.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/19 04:34 PM
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The deleted quote basically said that all your bad relationships have one thing in common: you!
/r/ExRedPill18/04/19 02:09 AM
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If “Relationships, friends, family” all take a back seat, then you’re much less likely to have a positive impact on humanity, more likely negative. The world works on relationships; don’t wait until you’re 50 to understand that.
/r/RedPillBooks13/04/19 01:01 AM
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Don’t they usually gloat when banning somebody?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/19 09:38 PM
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Oh yeah, I forgot the second part. Sadly, you being “boring” is probably the main factor. What that means is you’re failing to engage the girl emotionally and intellectually and, dare I say, physically. (I got flamed for that last time I said it. ) what that means is you need to give the girl the three “A”s; attention, approval, and acceptance, plus some natural non-sexual human touch such as a high five, a pat to her hand, or guiding her with a hand to her shoulder or back. If you do it natural…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/19 01:31 AM
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That statement was what triggered me to post about the friend zone. It’s a matter of perspective. Women can’t see the friend zone from their perspective because it’s a normal occurrence for them to have all sorts of friends. Men can see it because they have a different perspective of frustration due to the covert contract. I’m assuming the other poster was a woman. The original Ladder Theory on a long defunct website had a section on women claiming that’s not how it works and how they’re differe…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/19 01:15 AM
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The friend zone is a very real thing. It has nothing whatsoever to do with TRP. Women tend to deny it because nobody wants to admit to the quirks of their own psychology. If you want a very humorous and satirical look at it, go to Ladder Theory Note that the site is part of the “Stupidness Network”, so its meant to be funny / satirical, but satire is always based in truth. So here’s the real (not funny) deal... The friend zone comes about when a woman finds a guy pleasurable to have around, like…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/19 10:01 PM
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Young people would be a lot better off learning the 6 Harsh rules that make you a better person. (long read) The world doesn’t care about you, only what you can do for it. You better bring something of value. An “alpha” always brings value to the world, something TRP doesn’t understand in their self centered alpha fantasy.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/19 12:58 AM
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That quote has been around for a long time before Peterson became popular. In fact, it’s just a variant of the Buddhist concept of karma. And it is so very true.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 08:51 PM
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Women have given birth to every single person in history. What more do they want?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 03:22 AM
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Have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover? He explains how guys will hang around because of “covert contracts”. That is, the unspoken agreement if you’re nice to these girls they’ll have sex with you. Obviously it doesn’t work this way. NMMNG is on the TRP reading list, but the book is still a mandatory reading for every guy IMO.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/19 04:26 PM
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Facebook or the online group? I’ve talked about the PET class in the online group.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/19 04:20 PM
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Ok, I can work with that. PET is not a push pull tease. It’s not about a “tease” so much as pleasurable anticipation. And there’s no change in direction. You set anticipation, let that build, and then follow through. For a very simple example: Her: Where are we going for date night? Him: I’ve found a new restaurant I think you’ll really like. Her: What is it? Him: You’ll see. Her: Does it have Chicken Marsala? Him: I’m sure you’ll be happy with the menu. Just wait. And then you darn well better …
/r/ExRedPill29/03/19 01:02 AM
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Pick Up Artistry is a broad category of 100s or 1000s of different techniques to pick up girls. PET is a single technique for keeping a relationship fresh, What do you want compared? Sure, PET looks like something a PUA might agree with, but I don’t know of a specific PUA technique to compare with PET.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/19 01:25 AM
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Your question make no sense. It’s like you’re comparing apples and stop signs because they’re both colored red.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 08:26 PM
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Read it again: PUA is close only on SOME things. Plus PUA is not TRP, so even then PUA was not terrible. As for PET, it might look like one technique from the PUA toolbox, but it’s for relationships, not one night stands. PET won’t work at all for a ONS. Edited for clarity.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 08:00 PM
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PUA for adults in positive relationships, although PUA is an obsolete term nowadays. Nonetheless, it seems to work.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 05:25 PM
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Let’s face it, the PUA community often got pretty darn close to being right on some things. They just never emphasized positivity in their approaches; they were mostly self-absorbed and addressing “pick up” rather than relationships. Is it PUA stuff? Maybe a little like it, but fortunately PUA is passé nowadays. Decent old time PUAs that are still around pivoted into more holistic approaches years ago. The term PUA nowadays is an anachronism.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 05:24 PM
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Read up on Positive Emotional Tension, or PET, at www.drglover.com. He explains it pretty well in his free articles but sadly he saves the best for his paid course. Women need emotional tension in their lives. The trick is to do it with positivity. TRP creates nothing but negative tension. In simplified terms, keep them guessing and looking for positive surprises. Don’t tell them where you’re taking them for dinner, let them anticipate it and wonder about it for a while. Don’t just give them flo…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 03:30 AM
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Which explains why this works for you. She’s getting the best of both worlds; a dominant sex partner who also can make emotional connections, as per The Integration Elixir Again, something TRP just can’t understand.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 08:13 PM
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If the two of you are sharing emotions now, that’s a good thing. Now would be a good time to take charge, like a man, 😉 and up your sex game.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 12:14 PM
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Dr Robert Glover is incredibly smart about women. Especially his PET course. It’s not expensive but he has some free PET material you can read. DrGlover.com
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 01:31 AM
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The Bible was written from the POV of the culture and society of the time. You would expect nothing less than having a patriarchal view, since men pretty much ran things back then. The view doesn’t hold nowadays, and nobody has written a new Bible. So a philosophy in which men are superior and women subservient seems like a natural approach for fundamental Christians. Sad but true.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 03:33 AM
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Good catch. I don’t know how to read their minds anymore than they can read women’s minds. Mind reading is an epidemic nowadays. Everybody seems to think they know what everyone else is thinking.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/19 02:13 AM
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Funny how red pill idiots think THEY know what’s going on in ALL women’s heads. All their arguments are based on logical fallacies, false dichotomies, projection and confirmation bias. They don’t even know what’s going on in their own heads.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 11:23 PM
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You’ve pretty much proven right here that you have no sense of social skills, so I’m out.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/19 05:50 PM
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I really don’t care what you look like. If you are truthfully getting a 100 dates per year, you’re doing better than 98% of the guys out there, regardless of looks. Period. Ok, maybe just 95%. Happier now? Unless you’re hiring a hooker, you need to go on a date before having sex. Generally at least 8 hours worth of dates with one girl before sex, so about 4 dates. You can get a date pretty easily, you just can’t move beyond that. Since you claim to be autistic, I’m guessing you have social skill…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/19 03:39 AM
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If you are getting 100 dates a year, you are operating at the 98% level, no matter what you look like. You have sufficient looks to operate at that level. You just haven’t made the jump to the social skills needed to transition from date to sex. If you’re meeting nothing but psychopaths, you’re probably a lot better off not getting laid. They’ll destroy your life. If you’re truly autistic, is there anything you’re doing about it? Are there meds? I don’t know anything on this subject.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/19 06:33 PM
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At least the ones you meet are. Why do you meet so many? They are not that common. Do you understand what a psychopath actually is?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/19 06:28 PM
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That could be a problem.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/19 12:15 PM
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Looks will get you the dates and you’re doing damn well. So no bullshit there. Like somebody else said, looks will get you a date, but it takes something else to get laid. What are you missing? That’s not BS; that’s just something you don’t want to hear.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/19 02:48 AM
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I’m glad you enjoyed it.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 02:58 AM
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I don’t think you’re giving them anything nearly like attention, acceptance and approval, aka The 3 A’s. If you think you are, either you’re wrong or you’re coming across as needy or creepy. I suspect you’re treating the women pretty poorly because you expect them to treat you poorly. We’d really need to know how a typical date goes, in detail, including the conversation, to do any diagnosis. Remember, all your bad relationships / dates have one thing in common: you! I suggest you just stop dati…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 02:25 AM
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If he’s getting 100 dates a year, he’s working well within his looks range. He’s doing better at getting dates than 98% of the guys out there. It’s very obvious looks have nothing to do with it. Yet he decides to call himself ugliestman1, so he has some serious self-respect issues.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 02:14 AM
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You really are dating the wrong girls, but not in the manner most people think. You will tend to be attracted to the same type of woman again and again. For one, your mind tends to remember the reward of getting a date, so your mind looks for the same characteristics in a woman every time. Secondly, your mind tends to ignore the bad, non-rewarding part of the relationship, so it won’t stop you from asking out the same type of woman. This leads to “selection bias”, meaning you think all women are…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/19 01:14 PM
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Agreed. There are guys who never learned social skills and just have no clue how to act around people in general, yet alone with women. They need to be taught. I wouldn’t be surprised if his psych hasn’t even figured this out yet, since we seldom see something simple like a lack of a teachable skill. Instead we look for psychological trauma. In the OPs case, I think the lack of teachable social skills might very well be the cause of the frustration and psychological problems, not the other way a…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 11:28 AM
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Quitting the scene seems like the most logical thing to do right now. With your attitude towards the world, and yourself, you should not be trying to date at all until you get that sorted out.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 11:13 AM
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I’d look for some worthwhile online sources to start out. I always recommend Science of People by Vanessa van Edwards and The Art of Charm podcast. ( I get no compensation from these. ) I’m sure there are other non-manosphere sources out there. Personally I had good luck with AoC. They set me straight. AoC started as a kinder, gentler, more sane RSD but pivoted many years ago into general social skills and networking. They even coach women now.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/19 08:44 PM
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Zen and stoicism have significant overlaps.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/19 05:24 PM
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It’s wrong because it starts with an unproven premise. As soon as he says women can’t love men, he’s off base. He first has to prove his premise and he can’t. Next, he uses more unproven premises to derive more false ideas. Women are evolved to get something out of men? How do you prove this? You can’t. The unprovable premises just flow like a load of garbage down the Hudson River. It’s so wrong, but has a nice flow to it, so people who WANT to believe it will believe it. People with an ounce of…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/19 01:26 AM
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There’s a very old saying, “All your bad relationships have one thing in common. You!” I think that’s one of those facts that’s taken for granted, which is why it isn’t mentioned much. OTOH, TRP does tell a guy to work on himself. They just tell him to do it for the wrong reason.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/19 01:17 AM
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It’s called confirmation bias. They only accept info that confirms their beliefs and the deny anything that refutes the beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/19 11:16 AM
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I always point this out because it helped me: https://theartofcharm.com/?s=Toolbox Look for episode 656, and others flagged as “toolbox”.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/19 08:18 PM
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“Never put a woman on a pedestal” You could have learned that at 100’s of other sites, if not 1000’s. And you wouldn’t have had to deal with the misogynistic BS in RP. This isn’t even original to RP. All the decent concepts in RP came from other sources. RP added the misogynistic BS. And that BS is supported and encouraged by the “vanguard” and the endorsed contributors. I’ve seen them do it. A lot of desperate guys are brainwashed by the RP and don’t even realize it. They put RP dogma on a pede…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 05:17 PM
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Good analysis.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 08:58 PM
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I don’t want to be too simplistic about your situation, but I’ll mention this: if an internet cult can program you one way (in what? a year or two?) then you can be programmed some other way in about the same amount of time. Maybe less since youre amenable to retraining. The anxiety and depression you feel is natural. Anxiety and depression are feelings that many, many, people avoid at all costs. Including what you’re going through. Yet, as feelings, they are meant to be felt and reflected upon.…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/19 08:46 PM
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Stoicism is one of the most misunderstood philosophies nowadays. As much as I’ve heard about it, I’m only now actively studying it and realizing it’s not what it sounds like. In fact, I realize I’ve used stoic principles under pressure in the past and didn’t even know it. And believe me, I had to use it to move forward. I was really disturbed to hear the American Psychological Association declare stoicism as bad male behavior. It shows the APA doesn’t have a clue what they’re talking about.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/19 11:01 PM
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They’re definitely not exclusive. I agree with that. But are you a masculist? A male can’t be a legitimate feminist until he is first a masculist. A guy can’t fight for somebody else until he understands what it means to fight for himself.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/19 10:16 PM
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You think the case is that way (spoken like a feminist, BTW) but do you have evidence? The answer is simple. Guys need to start acting like intelligent and integrated men (The Masculinity Revelation) and stop acting like whiny entitled children. Well, at least it’s simple to state. Harder to overcome the societal and feminist hatred of masculinity.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/19 05:03 PM
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But that’s ok. Now that you realize it, you can be more aware of your thoughts next time.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/19 02:27 AM
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Read more closely. He said the article was pathetic, not you.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 11:33 PM
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Being an awkward and inexperienced teenager, or even college student, does not make you a sexual abuser. Having poor EQ does not send you down the path to being a rapist. IMO this is just feminist nonsense stated from a male’s POV. Sorry.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 11:31 PM
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Yep, but I don’t go around asking people to prove me wrong.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/19 06:57 PM
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So I was right! You can’t prove your own position. Your so-called logic is not provable, just another foolish belief.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/19 11:28 AM
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Dr. Robert Glover, who is on the TRP reading list BTW, explains what’s actually going on much better than any phony TRP explanation. I suggest you read your own TRP reading list. In fact, his next book is all about what’s really going on. It’s about his concept of Positive Emotional Tension. (Take his short course and learn all about it, I dare you. ). I just wish his publisher would get the book out already.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 08:51 PM
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Prove you’re right. Oh wait, you can’t.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 08:45 PM
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I’m pretty sure Pitbull doesn’t have any problems with being bald. 😀
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 12:24 PM
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Interesting. What do you consider the mistakes and approximations? I didn’t seem anything that was more of an approximation than anything TRP espouses.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 12:22 PM
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Are you saying that alpha male just means “more attractive”? Then why bother? Just say women go for more attractive men. A guy doesn’t need to be “alpha”, he needs plastic surgery. Or just admit that hypergamy is BS because woman behave in all different ways, and inconsistently at that.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 03:28 PM
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It’s odd that, in my experience, women will sometimes do stupid stuff like going for a lesser quality man. Given a choice between a highly paid, attractive professional and an unemployed slacker in a terrible bar band, why would a women go for the slacker? I’ve seen it happen. The slacker must have had some alpha quality, right? Sure, yep. Stupid stuff like this happens all the time. Hypergamy is true, except when it’s not. It’s a lot gentler on a guy’s ego to say he was dumped for an alpha male…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 05:33 AM
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Yep, I agree. If a guy’s relationship is so shallow he has to worry about this, then I feel sorry for him. He has a pretty poor relationship anyway. That’s not an issue in a strong relationship.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 03:19 AM
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I’m not terribly worried since the concept of a human alpha male has been discredited. It’s a childish fear, like fearing a ghost or monster under the bed. http://rheteric.com/2015/11/17/the-fallacy-of-the-alpha-male/
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 03:15 AM
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Here’s a quote from a Senior Endorsed member of TRP: “You don’t get a free pass to be a useless waste of skin and oxygen because you have a vagina and tits. Yet that is exactly what your ilk want. Fuck that, we call it how it really is, if you can’t handle it, fuck off.” Apparently this guy has been hanging around TRP long enough that he got to be senior endorsed and his posts are “1) colorful, 2) insightful, 3) informative, 4) worth reading and 5) carries serious wisdom.” In other words, hating…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 02:55 AM
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You and a million other people. Don’t get too upset. I know where you’re coming from. For many years I was lost in self-help land because I had a deeply held belief that there was something wrong with me that needed fixing. I was always looking for a way to fix myself. Then one day I had a revelation: maybe I wasn’t broken. Maybe there was nothing to fix. I was so blinded by my need to be fixed that I never took time to live my life well. So my life was not satisfying me, which completed the cir…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/19 04:08 PM
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That sounds like it’s straight out of the movie “The Tao of Steve”.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/18 05:50 AM
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I consider it “confirmation bias”, meaning they only see evidence that supports their views.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/18 05:48 AM
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Since when has society given sympathy for women in sexual situations? Since when are men treated more harshly? If anything, women are harshly ostracized as “whores” when they violate sexual norms, and men are complimented for being studs. Furthermore, TRP ignores that fact that women need to be security seeking. When carrying and raising a child, the woman needs to be in a safe and secure environment since she can’t always provide for herself. A woman who only sleeps around, trying to find the b…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/18 06:40 AM
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I would be upset if anybody killed themselves. What kind of question is that?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/18 07:51 AM
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What are the requirements to “be Red Pill”? I never sent in any dues or filled out a membership form. I did get into the ideas and concepts. I was on the Reddit for a while (they threw me off one time because I chastised a Senior Endorsed contributor over his misogynistic rant) and I was reading some of the BS from the Rationalizing Male. Did that make me Redpill? How about the hatred of women and feeling of entitlement? Did that make me RedPill? I readily saw through their BS and dropped it bec…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/18 04:48 AM
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I’m glad you liked it. Feel free to share it with your friends. It’s tough being a blogger nowadays.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/18 11:25 AM
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Have you ever actually put yourself out there? Has any women seen the real you? Until you try that as an experiment, you’ll never know for sure if women will accept you as is. BTW, since I’m of a technical background, I’ll point out you need to try at least 30 times before you have a sufficient number of tries to make a determination. So get out there and try. Be authentic!
/r/ExRedPill20/12/18 03:46 AM
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Chances are good that she won’t know what you’re talking about, so don’t bother. If you feel it necessary, just say it was a brief period in your life when you were fed up with women.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/18 06:42 PM
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What feeling are you fighting? The feeling that phony Red Pill alpha males boot out the betas and disrespect, even rape the women? Like the previous response pointed out, I don’t think you understand the clip at all.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/18 02:03 AM
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This post pretty much explains why Rollo is NOT credible, yet the poster doesn’t realize it. The math does not make sense. There are two huge flaws in the data, and in the praxeology. 1) filtering bias - only people who have trouble with women subscribe to manosphere ideology; That means the data is filtered from the get go. The men who have zero troubles with women are not even counted. In the manosphere probably 99.9% of guys have woman troubles. That’s why they go there. Sounds pretty convinc…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/18 03:52 PM
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I didn’t have a singular instance. I was disturbed by the fact that every time I read the threads on the reddit for longer than about 10 minutes I left feeling dirty, like I was swimming in human filth. I knew something was wrong. The clincher was when I met a woman I actually liked and respected. I dropped the whole TRP bit when I realized I found somebody who was different than described by TRP.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/18 04:56 AM
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It’s funny how the title says instant confidence, but in the video he says anybody that promises you overnight confidence is lying. I like his attitude though. And he’s not wrong about confidence being a product of continually trying and learning from mistakes.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/18 06:22 PM
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This definitely gives new meaning to “red” pill.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/18 03:21 AM
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You missed the context of the “very little thinking”. It refers to Red Pill guy’s trying so hard to plan and strategize their dating of women. They don’t “think” about what they’re doing IMO. They follow somebody else’s rules and approach much like any PUA. The other guys are here because they DO think and found problems with the BS. Good for them. In fact, I had a revelation the other day that all of the Red Pill is confirmation bias. They have a negative world view and only see studies, behavi…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/18 01:14 AM
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Well, I’ll propose there’s very little thinking involved. OK, a lot of planning and strategizing, sure, but very little real thinking. TRP guys just accept what theories they’re told (they’re ridiculed or voted down if they question it) and never analyze it enough to see the fallacies in it.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/18 11:59 PM
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The change in women’s preference based on menstrual cycle, birth control, etc is simply an assertion that women are controlled by biology. The effects of biology on behavior has been well researched, and even the examples provided by other responses demonstrate that biology, or just physiology, can and does affect behavior. If you follow this logic to the next step you’ll discover that male behavior is also controlled by biology and physiology. So why bother? Red Pill / Blue Pill should not matt…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/18 02:54 AM
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So get her out of your head. Imagine her face and then zoom that picture of her out into a distant black background until she disappears. Then from that black distance immediately zoom in a picture of something else that makes you happy, like puppies, and make the background bright and enjoyable. (Yes, these mind hacks do work.) If you hear her voice in your head, change the voice to sound like some annoying witch. You can choose how to remember her, so choose a negative way. Just DO NOT go so f…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/18 08:13 PM
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It seems like you really have not moved on from this girl. She still has a lot of real estate in your head. I’ll believe you are over her when you’re having sex with a new girl. An important lesson you will need to learn is that a guy doesn’t meet girls for the sake of friendship. A guy dates a girl for the purpose of eventually having sex. It sometimes takes a while before you get there, and sometimes you never get there. (Sometimes it takes only a couple hours.). If you’re looking for friendsh…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/18 01:25 AM
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I guess I'm just hoping that someone will tell me that I really should've taken it slow or that I was being unreasonable by asking her to be there with me as a friend in my time of need Sorry I didn't see this before. It seems your questions are not being answered. I interpret that what you really want is: 1 validation that you were in the right and just needed to go slower 2 validation that it's all her fault. I'm pretty sure you are not looking for dating advice, you want validation. I know yo…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/18 09:37 PM
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I agree. I think it can go deeper than that, but I guess young guys typically aren’t ready for the deeper introspection.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/18 05:01 AM
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This is better advice than before but it is sorely lacking. “Be yourself” means essentially nothing when a guy tries to do it. How do you “be yourself”? It’s easy to understand not faking it, but there’s more to authenticity than not faking. It’s a matter of removing the masks we hide our real personalities behind. The OP hid an awful lot. He had expectations he never shared, He hid his feelings. Then when he didn’t get what he wanted, he victim puked. He was hiding all this. If he had to hide a…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/18 02:22 AM
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Ok, it’s good to know your world view is not toxic, it’s just misguided....like a million other guys your age! You, and a million other guys (like me) ran through a very common scenario for all us. That is because you suffer from Nice Guy Syndrome. Yes, that’s a thing. I recommend you get Dr. Robert Glover’s book Mo More Mr. Nice Guy which explains everything. It’s a must read for young guys. For you specifically, here’s the tl;dr on what you did wrong: 1) you made your happiness dependent on so…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 11:48 PM
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Can you clear up a few things for us first? I guess the first might be, how old are you? The second would be, what do you think the difference is between a relationship and a friendship? Third, what do you think it means to be vulnerable and to show your emotions? I think you might have some confusion over what was going on. Clarifying what you’re talking about might set that straight. Finally, as we ask all the time at the No More Mr. Nice Guy forums, what did you want to happen? Yep, this is s…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 09:49 PM
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True, it can be complex. But failing to read it doesn’t make you single. There are probably other social skills issues you need to address.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/18 08:48 PM
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Body language does provide subconscious messages. There’s no doubt about that for both genders. Does it prove hypergamy? That part is a load of excrement. The supposedly rational male is a perfect example of what I’ve written about all things Red Pill; an occasional nugget of wisdom buried in a huge pile of manure.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/18 04:24 PM
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Their reading list has a few gold nuggets. Read Dr. Glovers book, No More Mr. Nice Guy. I’ll agree with the basic hygiene and self care too. Lifting weights is also good. It might not have made the reading list, but The Way of the Warrior is also an important read.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/18 02:35 AM
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Have you heard of RhetEric’s law? Given an erroneous, pre-existing belief, that belief can be made more persuasive and given more credence when it is formalized and given an impressive name and called a “law”. The rule remains bullshit nonetheless. Briffaults Law is an example of RhetEric’s Law. :-)
/r/ExRedPill13/10/18 06:50 PM
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Scientific studies, huh? Remember when science used leeches to suck bad blood out of sick patients? Dark ages, right? Or how science used to say that sickness was caused by bad smells? Girls used to sell flowers on the street to counter act the bad smells. Of course, that was about 150 years ago. It took a while, but newer science proved them wrong. Science ain’t perfect. Remember how the whole alpha male theory came about? Even that has been changed lately. And there’s no such thing as a human …
/r/ExRedPill15/09/18 03:37 PM
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They probably don’t like my link. It’s a lot easier to point people to my detailed writings than rewrite everything.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/18 02:18 AM
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I struggled with this for a long time. How do I not be a pussy? Here’s the path I took: First, I invested in myself and took a social skills course for men out in Los Angeles. It really made me push my boundaries. Then I started to be more social and work on myself more. Then I found some men’s masterminds, where men get together and be social and share their questions with each other. ( And have fun too.) At the first mastermind, Dr. Robert Glover joined us. One of the questions to him was “wha…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/18 06:50 PM
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Oversimplistic? Maybe, but sometimes that’s all that needed. What I offered up is a “reframe”, which often has significant effects. OTOH, depression and PTSD are very different issues from a guy realizing he was duped, even if he behaved poorly while duped. Depression often has physical causes, and PTSD is a result of trauma that keeps replaying in ones mind. Very different things, requiring different approaches.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/18 08:10 PM
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Are you trying to “leave” the Red Pill? If so, consider this. You don’t live in a RP controlled cult dormitory. There are no RP thugs trying to keep you in line. There are no mandatory RP meetings. (There are no meetings at all.). You don’t pay RP dues. There’s no membership list with your name on it. You were never a member. There’s nothing to leave. So relax. All you really need is to admit that you fell for some stupid ideas and believed some stupid stuff. Everybody does that at some time in …
/r/ExRedPill24/08/18 03:48 PM
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Let’s look at this logically. Women date up supposedly because they want a superior mate, right? It sort of makes sense. Then why wouldn’t men do the same? Men would only date superior attractive women who would generate superior offspring. Here’s the problem. In order for TRP to believe women are into hypergamy (bullshit, BTW) then men would have to date downward to these inferior women. That makes no sense in the real world. TRP only says men date downward to be consistent with their BS hyperg…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/18 09:23 PM
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The two rules for men: Don’t be a dick. Don’t be an asshole. If you have those covered, you’re 80% there. I forget who said this. Some comedian. I’ll add rule 3: don’t be a door mat.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/18 04:46 PM
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A simple rule of thumb is to assume everything RP is pure crap. Then start your learning process over. If you find the same info you found at RP but at a legitimate source, then you can assume the info is true and valid. For example, the book “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr. Robert Glover, is recommended by TRP. Ignore that recommendation. Instead you’ll discover the same book is recommended by many other sources. Once you see it’s recommended by non RP sources, you can assume it’s a good recommend…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/18 04:44 PM
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PUA 1.0 started as a way for men to learn dating skills and attract women. The idea that attraction was a learnable skill was a new idea. PUA 2.0 took the basics and tried to be more analytical with them and turn PUA into a science of interaction, but still learnable. 2.0 is where it started to be big business. Up to this point, it was still all about picking up girls, mainly for sex, since the PUAs didn’t address relationships. Somewhere in the 2.0 timeframe, guys realized they could use these …
/r/ExRedPill15/08/18 03:15 PM
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There are tons of involuntary celibates out there, but i suspect there are very few who identify with incel “culture”. It’s only a “culture” because there are a few places online for them to group together and commiserate.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/18 01:10 PM
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If you have any better suggestions, let me know. Or add a comment on the post.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/18 01:30 AM
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Finding good examples was pretty challenging. I went with those two because they were connectors, not doers.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/18 04:53 PM
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As for ying/yang, I’ll offer this article up , which explains a view of it. I don’t know if anybody is interested in my ramblings or not.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 10:45 PM
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Funny, but that sounds something like hypergamy but for all aspects of your life. Always be trading up, right? Unless you’re a woman, in which case TRP will criticize and disparage you.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/18 02:09 AM
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I guess “Laddish” doesn’t translate very well for me. I think in the US we would call it macho behavior, or machismo.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/18 11:33 AM
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Being childish is not automatically vile; childishness is just ill informed and immature. But yes, a lot of TRP stuff is pretty vile. Sadly, a lot of it comes “endorsed” members. The little red flag next to their name is reallly a warning flag IMO. You might like Napoleon Hills lesser known work “Outwitting the Devil”. You might also like Steven Pressfields “The War Of Art”. It’s not about just art, but how forces act against you in life. Pressfield calls it “resistance”, Hill calls it “The Devi…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/18 10:11 PM
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There are a couple things going on in this question. I’m wondering, what do you think makes a guy look cool? Why are you not looking cool? When did you use to look cool? What’s with the lab in her garage? I’m too old for that reference.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 10:58 PM
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Just listen to the Art Of Charm podcast. It beats just about everything out there and will improve you better than anything else.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 04:41 PM
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No pill sounds good to me. A “pill” is just a false reality, no matter how you look at it; red or blue or another color.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/18 03:44 PM
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Do you feel safe driving a car? There are a ton of car accidents all the time, yet people still drive. A lot depends on the skill of the driver. Same for a relationship. If you want it to last, work on your relationship skills. Even if it doesn’t, working those skills will help you long into the future. This is less like exredpill and more like relationship advice now.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/18 03:42 PM
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At 20, do you want your relationship to be longer term?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/18 12:44 PM
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Sure, people get bored. Just remember, that applies to guys too. Cheating goes both ways.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/18 08:19 PM
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That’s pretty RP. I guess the trick is to make your turn last a long time. To do that, you’ll need mutual respect with the other person. You’ll also need to be growing in the same direction. You’ll need to share values and ambitions. The more compatible you are the less chance the other person can find a better match. Of course, respect and compatibility are not really RP concepts.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/18 05:14 PM
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There’s nothing misogynistic in my points. There’s nothing about hypergamy or other BS. In fact, I tell the OP to think about the girl’s needs and maybe walk away for her good. That’s not Red Pill at all. No RP’er would ever give this advice. The point is I’ve been around long enough to distinguish between good practices for men and RP crap. I’ve said this before; TRP contains nuggets of wisdom, but they’re buried in manure. The same nuggets can be mined elsewhere without the manure. That’s what…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/18 05:46 PM
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Dude, if you can make it work, I’m all for it. Seriously. Generally what we tell guys is “It’s called a breakup because it’s broken.” In this case, the relationship might not be broken, but you definitely do seem to be broken. The thoughts you’ve expressed that you have trouble with definitely are detrimental to a good relationship. We’re excited to see you’re working on that. But what happens in the meantime? How does the relationship progress? How long is it going to take? Meanwhile she knows …
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 11:03 PM
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I told you you wouldn’t like it. I didn’t like it when people told me either. Go back and read your complaint about my post. It reeks of desperation. You desperately want it to work. That’s desperation. You go crazy when someone suggests it can’t be fixed. That’s desperation. Then your third paragraph says you’re in a bad place. Later you said you try to be “logical” with her and you’re pretty stoic. Girls are not into logic, but are into connections and emotions. You can’t provide either right …
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 07:15 PM
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Your relationship is going to fail, and might already have. Sorry for the brutal truth, man, but I think you should know up front. Now, here’s why: 1) You seem to be far too attached to this girl. You have “oneitis” and not an abundance mindset. (That’s NOT a red pill thing, btw) She’s able to sense your desperation whether you realize it or not. 2) You’re in a bad place right now. You can’t handle a relationship properly at the moment. Even explaining to her won’t help. She knows you’re in a ba…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 05:02 PM
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One of the things I tell guys is that the RedPill contains nuggets of wisdom but they are buried within a pile of manure. If a guy is inexperienced, he won’t be able to distinguish wisdom from the crap. He’s better off getting the same wisdom elsewhere.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/18 01:43 AM
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Both sociopaths and psychopaths don’t give a damn about their behavior. They don’t feel guilt. You do, so that rules out you being a sociopath. Point in your favor. I suggest you absolutely stop reading feminist material. Most of that is designed to shame men. You already seem to be shamed enough. I have to wonder though...shaming is defined as criticizing someone’s behavior in a traumatic way such that the shame becomes attached to the person’s self, not to his behavior. You seem to understand …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/18 01:20 AM
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The red pill is just another false reality. Like the blue pill but with different rules.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/18 01:54 AM
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It depends on how well the person uses his intelligence rather than his “lizard brain. “
/r/ExRedPill08/07/18 11:26 PM
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“Slaves” to our biology? That’s a gross oversimplification. We have biological drives driven by the limbic system, but we also have a large prefrontal cortex that enables us to operate beyond our primitive programming. We’re only slaves to biology if we act without intelligence.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/18 09:18 PM
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Try this: The Art of Charm Podcast If that doesn’t work: The Art of Charm website / podcasts Note that the current episode is “The Art Of Breaking the Ice”
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 10:48 PM
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IMO there’s no such thing as rape culture, just as there is no such thing as murder culture, mugging culture, etc. This is aberrant criminal behavior and you can’t build a culture around aberrant behavior. That makes a lot of RedPill stuff aberrant behavior.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 05:14 PM
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It’s not biological “determinism” but there certainly are biological “tendencies”. The point is that us humans are supposed to be smart enough and emotionally mature enough to not let their biology drive their behavior.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 05:08 PM
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Listen to the new Art of Charm podcast. Great source of social skill instructions, especially since it’s been retooled.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 05:01 PM
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True. It’s even harder when you get older and are still inexperienced.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 04:59 PM
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Men show up there after they’ve been severely wronged by a woman. Then they bond with other guys who have also been wronged. Since they share the same problem, there’s nobody there to explain a solution to them. As a result they never learn and instead build their own fake universe hating women. RedPill / BluePill is a false dichotomy; neither explain reality.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 04:58 PM
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Here’s my view on the appeal: “One of the first things you’ll notice in /r/TheRedPill is that the guys there all share a common issue: at some point in their lives they have all been wronged by one or more women. Not insulted, or passed by, but truly wronged. There are guys who have a had a woman sleep around, cheat on them, steal their stuff and basically screw them in the brains until they couldn’t think straight. I’ve been there, about 4 times. These guys are angry and confused. /r/TheRedPill…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/18 07:28 PM
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