rsi6969 Archive

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–	Women who take the initiative and approach men are much less successful than people often claim You’re mostly describing a world where men said yes to you, you realize that? Correct? You also are describing approaching men and being met with what exactly? Uncertainty, lukewarm reaction, mixed up signals, no returns and opportunism, which is basically what men experience in many cases for years on end, along with hardly any yes’s (so the above point). I am no longer dating and i am married so seeing posts like this is mostly just a hobby and fascination at this point so I say this with resp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 05:54 PM
1	The dieing off Clubs and Bars, makes dating even worse for the average Man. It killed a playing Field where you could do good by just putting in the work. In general "Approaching" in any form has lost its value, which leads us to a more "winner takes all" Market. It’s ‘dying’ please don’t torpedo your entire argument about analyzing technicalities like an NBA coach when I venture to say no NBA coach would spell dying wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 02:37 AM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. I mean more knowledge in my estimation is never truly a bad thing, but as an older person runaway feelings of superiority through intelligence, politics, association, disassociation or a host of factors can often lead to a bad end — the Jurassic park axiom ‘you thought so much about how you could you didn’t think about whether you should’ That being said I respectfully disagree on biology, in reference to my earlier point. Pure biological choices would select against disease and sickness first a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 01:01 AM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. I um, agree with you, did reread it and agree it is the first gatekeeper a heavily flawed one at that. I guess my phrasing of ‘cannot’ was in error, so apologies for that. It was more meant to say, it cannot and should not be the only decider, heck it kinda should not be the first gatekeeper in a vast majority of ways, but it sadly is. It is also why I made other points about choice and why those underline why it is in many ways inherently flawed and unfair, also so uneven it strains credulity. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 12:12 AM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. It cannot be the only decider - since it absolutely will not last and is hardly a fixed truth. The entire history of humanity has validated that. For both men and women (many on this sub that is now force fed to me even though I am entirely too old and not dating lol) thinking ‘only attraction decides’ is almost adolescent in it’s positioning. Sorry if that sounds condescending I mean those words in their most literal form. And certainly don’t come at people with biology if that were a true filt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:02 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. Having only attraction decide things can be immature and incomplete - many people reject not the person but the story they tell themselves about the person, or in some ways worse l, the story they have been told about a person -	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 01:53 PM
2	Is Western society today equally comfortable with parents giving both sexes specific lessons on how to treat their opposite-sex partners right (not to be confused with simply teaching respect for others in general)? If not, why not? Is it justified to give these lessons to one sex but not the other? I mean there will always be differences but I think for boys the first hard lesson that parents never say which I have observed over a now long lol life is first that attraction is just not some reward for being good, it’s all about how you make someone feel. This is why I often saw jerks, heck even sexists and ugh racists having success. Now I could be wrong but if I had a son, which I don’t. that’s the first thing - that and desire is a choice so taking anyone feels kinda hit. Also that attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 05:10 PM
1	Is Western society today equally comfortable with parents giving both sexes specific lessons on how to treat their opposite-sex partners right (not to be confused with simply teaching respect for others in general)? If not, why not? Is it justified to give these lessons to one sex but not the other? Ok this is going to suck but hey it’s what I have heard and experienced - (full disclosure also my daughter as a baby constantly and consistently slept til 10 am on the regular) — if you come to my home and stab me in frustration I won’t press charges lol - I’ve had some insight on boys as one that well .. didn’t have the best upbringing.. but only if you want	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:26 AM
-1	Is Western society today equally comfortable with parents giving both sexes specific lessons on how to treat their opposite-sex partners right (not to be confused with simply teaching respect for others in general)? If not, why not? Is it justified to give these lessons to one sex but not the other? I’ve been there man - but maybe not the same degree since, well, girl —	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 11:29 PM
1	Is Western society today equally comfortable with parents giving both sexes specific lessons on how to treat their opposite-sex partners right (not to be confused with simply teaching respect for others in general)? If not, why not? Is it justified to give these lessons to one sex but not the other? She’s 10 - how is life with a Threenager?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 11:20 PM
3	Is Western society today equally comfortable with parents giving both sexes specific lessons on how to treat their opposite-sex partners right (not to be confused with simply teaching respect for others in general)? If not, why not? Is it justified to give these lessons to one sex but not the other? As a parent I believe no parent is having honest conversations with their kids about attraction and relationships- I hope to break this pattern -	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 08:32 PM
4	Women judge men for promiscuity! As a man It would be hypocritical to not judge men for promiscuity. They are inviting inability to connect, stds, and an overall sense of entitlement. While many men on these subs seem to think boys/men would laud their male friends for having a lot of hookups I have a friend who teaches high school now who has pretty much said that if one dude slept with everyone in school they would more likely be ostracized by their friends, partly out of jealousy but mostly out of weirdness over the notion. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 01:01 AM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man I mean I always supported YALA more than YOLO but that is background related - so you assert that frak the consequences has lead to selfishness. I actually agree and see a need for grand self reflection. So what is the central crux of the supposed unfairness around body count? And what is a solution or admission that could help bridge the gap? Thoughts please? I am curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 07:29 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man I also can honestly say I have known some men who have reduced their ‘number’ so your grandmother’s axiom applies	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 07:22 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Ok frankly totally agree with your grandmother (which likely betrays my age, face palm) another point one that seems to rarely ever get said. I can safely say among my friends growing up, a man who slept around like —a lot— was not exactly viewed kindly, not out of jealousy (though admittedly there was some) but also out of well let’s say ‘something’s outta whack’ I think this held for certain women also who did similar things. Nobody I knew ever cheered on the men and denigrated the women - may…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 07:19 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Ok first I may be totally wrong but I feel like from people posting all over body count is not as big an issue if both partners had equal levels of unique experience - the actual number less important than say each mirroring levels of exp? Wrong thought?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 06:45 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Ok let’s debate - I am old and proof that algorithms are often completely wrong - I have questions and thoughts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 05:55 PM
0	How likely/unlikely is it to find love as a man? Please for the love of everything you are 16 - get off this content and live life, read books, watch movies, hang out, build yourself up be a person set goals, go after them fail and try again. Honestly so what if you think you are below average looks wise or whatever else, so what! Frak this 80-20, 90-10 bs stop reading it - yes instead read Marx, read Capt Cook’s logs, read Miguel Alcubierre, watch frak’n Aliens for the character development, watch La Haine and realize who cares it’s in French…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 03:19 AM
2	Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much. I have to admit that I agree with this. This endless debate seems pointless - I feel like if people men and women freely admitted exceptions are made then agreement should be reached. As an older man from a different generation who has essentially no skin in this game I feel like people are arguing semantic points and false logic plays. This feels like ‘the more people waiting on the train platform the sooner it will come’ — ‘i want it to come faster let’s get more people on the platform.’ Doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 10:08 PM
1	Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much. Elaborate- I care only passingly in a sense about this topic but found your comment the only interesting one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 07:52 PM
4	I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sex This is a very insightful take - whether people agree or not - I am curious to hear more	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 05:11 PM
2	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. I think each generation had it tough in their own way - I will give you a pass since you are young but slightly older Gen X male here saw and heard some really rough stuff — grew up near the hottest hot spots for crack, heroin, GRID now thankfully and politely known as AIDS & teachers literally tried to scare us off sex saying it could kill us. Sadly I know for some people it actually did - my wife lost one of her dearest uncles, she was maybe barely 8. I heard the phrase ‘just one lay away from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 01:21 AM
–	Advice for Young Men with Potential to Achieve I mean neither Cromwell or Hamilton were ever going to draft a governmental constitution- which ironically tracks with young men (or heck even Older men) today - but let’s not get it twisted men who wanted to shoot it out or kowtow to a mad (and yes let’s be real HVIII was mad - & also fat after the horse ax) man were never going to give us direction. Fancy plays or history books both assert that…. The topic is ‘Young men with potential to achieve’ — I’ll take it further ‘Young women with potent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 05:40 AM
–	Advice for Young Men with Potential to Achieve Just getting started - what would you like to take on next - Pericles?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 05:28 AM
–	Advice for Young Men with Potential to Achieve Also Cromwell was incompetent at best and a fool at worst to be in HVIII court and not read the room -	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 05:24 AM
–	Advice for Young Men with Potential to Achieve Alexander Hamilton was (and let’s be frank) a frak’n arrogant asshole. A play does not absolve him and Burr from being such 1990s douchebags to the point that they were Manhattan jerks who were so snobby (a phenomenon to this day) that they said ‘we hate each other but why make a mess of a nice Manhattan street with blood … let’s shoot it out in Jersey …and then lay it all out in Weehawken … in frak’n Weehawken a place dare I say none of you have ever heard of. Anyone foolish enough to think Ham…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 05:21 AM
–	Current dating landscape sucks for young women Assuming this is real cue the screams ‘but she’s getting something!! Most of us get nothing!’ - am I correct in this assumption?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 11:18 AM
1	Good genetics, otherwise IVF This is eugenics - I don’t think anyone should be comfortable with this notion. Genetics are quite actually way more than the skin deep decisions men and women often use for selecting a mate. The 6’3 gorgeous man who has the right hair and physique could have history of cancer going back generations. The supermodel woman with athletic excellence could have a high risk for heart disease also going back generations despite the fact she does not have it. The women proposing this would also need to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 05:38 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Older male here - Why are men not radicalized by other men from different generations who had it easier, I am talking mid men who had experiences in their late teens-20s met someone and then went on with life. Frankly to a degree that’s me. Would their success not be as triggering as women talking about their ‘so-called’ success on these forums. There are plenty of married/coupled straight men talking their experiences on numerous forums. Don’t even get me started about gay men, their extreme su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 02:42 PM
1	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant This is most likely true - so in agreement they themselves are culpable also	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:37 AM
2	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant Honestly it’s a bit crap for his friends to not really try to help him have some experiences and rub constant sex in his face - kinda a d$&k move imo - & yes hooking up is celebrated, but hooking up with cheaters, you can call me old school or just old but not really cool. Also you run afoul of one psycho husband and well let’s say a hospital could be in your future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:09 AM
10	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant I mean I have met plenty of decent people with garbage friends and vice versa. It’s life, he may not even be friends with them anymore, or maybe he is, but he appears to have been damaged. I don’t want anyone to be hateful, overly envious and falling down a rabbit hole of blanket judgments and frankly don’t agree with his perspective. But I can kinda get it - what if the friends are actually great to him and have been in the past. They also could treat him poorly which only makes things worse. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 07:28 PM
22	Cheating and casual sex is way more common than you realise, if you deny it then you’re simply just naive or wilfully ignorant He struggles mentally and while maybe has self esteem or confidence issues he has done the introspection as to what the root may be and is calling out bad behavior while trying to avoid further damage…. buuuutttt….. he’s at fault for crap people behaving like crap? Or having crappy friends? If many were in his shoes ya damn right some would at least think ‘hey I want to have those experiences, might be nice?’	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:02 PM
1	Their has to be a Reason in the first place Not trying to be a grammar/english/usage jerk really not - but honestly want to know why you keep using. ‘Their’ for ‘There’ - “there is no longer a reason” - “there was a very good reason” - you have amazingly astute views on capitalism, communism, history and circumstances whether people agree or not. So how do you not get ‘their’ (possessive ownership or possessive feeling often not tangible but also often tangible if attached to a thing like ‘their car’)vs ‘there’ (a place, a thought a notio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 08:52 PM