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| 3 | Being feminine in a crisisI hate to give the obvious answer, but move on and you will be fine. Dump. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/23 02:45 AM |
| 8 | My (28F) Bf (29M) is prioritizing video games over me and not communicating effectivelyIn mine it was Pong | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/23 02:54 AM |
| 24 | My observations with guys who pull womenI heard just getting a fancy keychain of a pricey car works, the golddiggers see that and swarm - at least in 80s and 90s movies | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Modern Western Women Are a Historical AbominationLeast reddit post ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:18 PM |
| 6 | help me get outta friendzoneHonestly, move on and find a diff gf or dates - it sounds like it may be a cultural issue and those are hard to break. If it isn't cultural, she may come around eventually, but in the meantime don't make yourself miserable pining over her. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Started reading the book “The Game” my Neil StraussGreat book, may be a little dated at this point | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeI think when you actually talk/listen & connect with people, of any variety, you'll end up with more dates/getting laid more/finding partner, etc But there is a numbers game -- if you keep casting your line, you will catch a fish eventually (and get better at fishing) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineChicks dig Momoa it's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?A woman will make one guy wait weeks, months, never - but then randomly will bang a guy she just met in a bar - they can compartmentalize v well - better to be the latter guy in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | US Women's equal pay claim dismissed by courtThe equal pay thing is the biggest fallacy, but it sounds good, so nobody digs into it - feelings > nuance & facts | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/05/20 09:49 PM |
| 7 | First Ever GirlfriendThis is gonna be hard: But take like 3 steps back and chill and try not to sweat her - don't act needy, always initiating contact, passive aggressive etc - let her come to you a bit, or just have her know that you have your own confidence and fun with or without her - She just wants to have fun with you at this point and sounds young/immature as well, you might run her off or she may flake/ghost - and don't get obsessed/angry/bitter when/if this doesn't work out - plenty more fish in the sea and… | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Making a confidence playlist, need suggestionsDepending on what kind of music you like: Wild Ones by Flo Rida Mack The Knife by Bobby Darin GNR Muse Radiohead Eminem Florida Georgia Line Garth Brooks NWA Ice Cube Dre Snoop ACDC Ozzy Metallica Soundgarden Audioslave Alice in Chains Sinatra Linkin Park 21 Pilots Kendrick Lamar Marilyn Manson The Doors The Rolling Stones Just a few that came to mind | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Does The Red Pill mean saying goodbye to emotional sex?Your situation is very different than your question. In your case, avoiding clinginess one-itis type stuff is a major concern w sex and a relationship in general. If you can turn off your brain and just let your inner animal urges out when fooling around with a consenting woman, that should work well. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Linda Sarsour just swallowed the bait together with the full fishing stickSame with the million anti-Trump posts that get upvoted on non-political subs | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/03/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | GUYS! I have my first date tommorow, any tips?If you are digging her, try to subtly mimic her body language - if she touches your arm, touch hers back a bit later - same with leg, etc | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | This whole 5 min Ryan Gosling scene from Crazy Stupid Love (even if you don't look like him)I just re-watched it again -- couple other good things -- when he says "you're adorable", it causes her to say "no i'm sexy, i'm r-rated sexy" when she says, "tell me your move", that whole part -- that's something similar to what girls will say when they sense you are experienced, a 'ladies man' or even an aspiring one -- just rang true to me -- they don't even mind if they are being brought through somewhat of a routine (i don't mean like a 20 line rote routine), because like you said they are… | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 05:10 AM |
| 2 | This whole 5 min Ryan Gosling scene from Crazy Stupid Love (even if you don't look like him)lots of good stuff in it, until he wusses out towards the end for a normal romantic comedy finish with a screwball comedy twist | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 04:53 AM |
| 1 | This whole 5 min Ryan Gosling scene from Crazy Stupid Love (even if you don't look like him)I get what you're saying, but in terms of how to close the deal, particularly if you get a woman back to your house or she is already sort of interested but nervous/wavering, i think it's got some good scenarios and dialogue - obviously not all are applicable to everyone or every situation, it's actually simpler than this usually He makes/gets her a drink, puts on a good vibe record -- then projects cool, confidence, not talking too much, self amused, amused by her, not obsessed with or nervous … | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 04:50 AM |
| 1 | This whole 5 min Ryan Gosling scene from Crazy Stupid Love (even if you don't look like him)The part ive done is have a go to record for the record player - it was a few years ago but purple rain by prince, every time slow dance then makeout | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Conversing with women -Reality vs. NovelsThe movie where Ryan Gosling teaches Steve Carrell about women - and other flicks - come to mind more than novels | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Number of women posting around here latelyok was just venting a bit -- won't be doing that any more there any time soon | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Number of women posting around here latelynot objectionable, just they were being upvoted because girl and some of the advice given & taken in some of these is not correct in my view -- the answer to most women's questions on seducing or how to meet a guy is "rub your tits on him and see how it goes" -- also like i said, some of this is actually hurting noobs in terms of putting them into unhelpful patterns of online interactions and mindset with women, not pushing forward their game but actually impinging it -- i'm also not saying ther… | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Number of women posting around here latelyyes girls game in many diff ways - saying in general that the kind of game taught here does not really apply to women - the literal answer to most woman's questions about how to pick up a guy is "rub your tits on him and see where it goes" | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 12:56 PM |
| 2 | I read the sidebar and starting out nowGo through stuff in the sidebar and scan some top rated posts recently and from all time - also tons of videos and material on the internet for beginners - it all really depends on what your issue and situation is and what you're looking to get out of it As far as acronyms and terms beyond the sidebar , look em up on goog or ask specifically here Too tired to define game, sets and other stuff, someone else can do it - it is a game of life and a game of gain | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 06:03 AM |
| 1 | there needs to be major discussion on hair loss on this subIf balding at a young age, shave it all down. Bald guys can get laid a ton, not a major hurdle unless you make it one. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 05:20 AM |
| -2 | Number of women posting around here latelyI have no disagreement except for the last part. I feel like an alumni fraternity brother who has come back for a visit and to him the current brothers aren't living up to the heritage that was set in the past. So he raises a bit of awkward hell then leaves again, but hopefully the game of the current brothers gets lifted by exposure to the history and legacy and passion/aggression displayed. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 04:56 AM |
| -2 | Number of women posting around here latelyI agree there are aspects of self confidence, social dynamics, inner game and all that that can help many people of all types. But the sub is called Seduction, not Self Help. And the whole genre was created because lonely guys needed ways to meet and date women (not because women needed help). Just irks me seeing some of the upvoted posts and comments. And guys going into nice guy mode when a grill is around - many of these guys actually should be trying anon reddit game on these women posters -… | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 04:31 AM |
| -2 | Number of women posting around here latelyJust noticing about 5 of the top voted posts this week were by women - basically upvoted because grill. And some of what goes on with those dynamics is actually gonna hurt the game and development of some nabs, not help them. It's not my sub though. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Every time I meet a girl I start imagining my entire life with herSeems more here lately - but it's not for them basically, unless they understand and appreciate game and this kind of social dynamics in a non judgemental way | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Tinder now has a $9.99 prescription per month. Will you be subscribing?done | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How to pickup women at dance?beyond what advice you get here, i would say check out /r/seduction | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Tinder now has a $9.99 prescription per month. Will you be subscribing?What kind of pills do I get with my prescription | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Next level game -- marry a super rich womanwell, like you said, having your shit together -- that normally will include physically and mentally fit and making yourself look good in a unique style that works for you but in general, as guys, we can rely on personality/charisma/game/achievement/confidence to garner attraction -- easier than women can -- which is nice for us -- bald/fat/old guys get laid all the time | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Next level game -- marry a super rich womani'm definitely not saying this is for everyone, or isn't a crass/cynical way of looking at life -- just one viewpoint and perspective -- and not saying money brings happiness or contentment with yourself | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Next level game -- marry a super rich womanpoint of it is (particularly in the case of the politicians i mentioned) -- some guys have a game so tight that they can spot and successfully marry a woman that will basically set up the rest of their life where they can do whatever they want (they don't have to stay married to them, for example, or be faithful) -- whether it's a conscious decision or not, who knows... -- and these guys didn't have to rely on looks, like a young woman going after a rich guy would | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Wish my boyfriend was more understanding about the differences between men and women (sometimes I feel like he treats me like a dude)sword fight? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/15 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Word Association Game - which list does "sexy" belong under?liers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | TBP post breaks down 6 archetypes of TRP common posters (in a funny way):people write huge mega posts FR and other stuff on TRP and every other sub reddit all the time ... this is reddit after all, we like to analyze shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 09:48 PM |
| 1 | TBP post breaks down 6 archetypes of TRP common posters (in a funny way):im reddish purple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | TBP post breaks down 6 archetypes of TRP common posters (in a funny way):a couple that come to mind are: Beta Strong : "i'm a hetero guy who likes women, but i find TRP tactics reprehensible and manipulative" -edit "i don't get laid much" Pedo Police: "i'm gonna obsessively cite every example of a guy saying he finds a 17 year old woman's body attractive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | TBP post breaks down 6 archetypes of TRP common posters (in a funny way):tried to post the no commenting version of the link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill, what's one BP thing you've done recently. Blue Pill, what's one RP thing you've done?I was thinking: Valentine's Day is coming, I will text this plate "Happy Valentine's Day" -- and I will do it, just watch me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Fat-shaming RPers, what do you make of this?All of Reddit likes to shame/mock fat people, so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone used PIMP by RSD Julian?yes -- all the RSD guys have some good stuff -- just maybe avoid his very aggressive stuff if you're a beginner | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Tips for the ACTUAL DATE itself10 is a good one -- also if they dress sexier than normal, order shots, things like that are indications that you're in if you don't fuck it up horribly ... | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 02:48 PM |
| 1 | College Girls Aren't Impossible, You Just Suck: A PrimerAs an aside, one of the nice things in a college town is that there are a lot of women fresh out of college, say 22 to 26ish -- and many of them are bored of the same kind of immature guys they remember from college or young guys who haven't done anything with life yet -- so an older guy who is a bit wiser/more confident and offers something different, can stand out and date these girls pretty easily. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Lying about N count. Looking for Purple pill adviceMost all women lie about their # count -- or they just subsconsciously delete several/many -- I prefer not to ask or know, personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/15 06:12 PM |
| 18 | She summed it up pretty wellSeeing a Patrice post warms my heart. RIP | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 03:24 PM |
| 5 | She summed it up pretty wellThere are fat ugly studs, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Girls, If You're Physically Unavailable I'm Emotionally UnavailableGood video and great post/video title | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 02:31 PM |
| 3 | How do you explain the existence of patriarchy if the sexes have equal natural willpower?White male oppression obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/14 10:04 PM |
| 3 | red pillers understanding of women restricted to the quality/type of women they have access toI just don't think your logic leap from this study to saying RP guys only have access/experience to low quality women is a justified one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/14 08:10 PM |
| 2 | red pillers understanding of women restricted to the quality/type of women they have access toThis does not say anything about 'lower quality women' ... that is leaping to a conclusion from this, which isn't stated in the quotes. It says most/all women felt these feelings, and those who slept around more may have felt them more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/14 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What got you into Game, how long have you been doing it, and how good would you consider yourself?I got into it maybe 6 or 7 years ago from reading stuff on the internet and David D'Angelo stuff -- it's helped me out a lot in various ways -- come here to brush up on stuff, especially when I'm not in a relationship or starting to go out more after a hermit time or a time when i focus more on work -- and sometimes try to help people here. I'm def not an expert in terms of sober cold approach day game type stuff (also still need work on going 'up in class', say from a girl you consider a 7/8 to… | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 07:24 PM |
| 1 | If a girl told you that you were ugly, would you agree and amplify?'I'm so ugly, I'm sexy. Sexy Ugly.' | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I am a 25 year old male who has been with about 100 girls. AMA about seductionPlus he isn't counting times where you might be in a relationship and being or trying to be faithful ... | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.This is the most women I've ever seen respond to a post on here -- wish we had that more often, good to see. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 07:04 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Slaying LMR, F-close on college cutie, cold-approachGood story, it's realistic and you overcame a lot. Maybe put a TLDR on long ones like this. This is why keeping the number is important and it can be worth texting it every now & again sporadically -- talking about if there was a connection the first time around, and if it's no skin off your back (meaning don't get obsessed or butt hurt if the girl ignores you -- if she ignores or flakes a few times, then it's got to become a next sooner or later). It's like a low priced stock (actually a $0 one… | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 03:21 PM |
| 29 | [FR] Xmas party F-closeI like the honesty/reality of this story ... "she puked, brushed her teeth, then we had sex" | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How is this funny?This is not a MRA thing -- this joke is still funny if you switch it around guy with girl ... I agree with the general absurd sentiment of it. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Straight male working at nail salon. Tips?the things that popped in my mind relate to kino, due to you having easy access to it and a reason for it basically - it sounds like your situation there is set up for success, and you say the old ladies like you and want to fix you up -- this stuff should build your confidence -- and if they want to fix you up, let them! -- and actually, if you flirt with the older ladies, the younger ones will notice and like that -- and it's good practice, too, actually one idea is to read palms and make up s… | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Straight male working at nail salon. Tips?Some straight hairdressers were/are legendary pussy hounds, going back to the 70s and whatnot ... that Warren Beatty movie Shampoo -- guys who do that kind of work with a rock star and sexy aura. I assume the nail biz can be the same way -- don't they open up and gab a lot there? -- and you have may physical contact with feet and hands, which are sensory areas -- so right there are two things that work in your favor. I suppose the key is letting them know you are straight and interested -- but d… | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Recent furor over Rolling Stone's "Jackie" story... what do you all make of this?Among the problems is 'Reporters' who go in with an agenda, not to actually find facts and report a news story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/14 04:04 PM |
| 7 | What is the most impressive seduction you have seen with your own eyes/know about? Did you learn anything from it?25% to 50% of this may be true | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 04:01 PM |
| 2 | No clubbing, not internet, place to meet woman ...Tampon aisle at CVS? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | No clubbing, not internet, place to meet woman ...Planned Parenthood? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Strange spontaneous f-close on busty college girlBasically sounds like your confidence fed into her life-sucking vacuum enough that it triggered her to want you, without even much chit-chat whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Someone asked what are some questions women wish they could ask on a first dateI just went through the Poker analogy one, that is very interesting -- nothing is 100%, but if i had to pick, I prob fall into Loose Passive & Alpha Eager the most among those groups. When I used to play poker a lot, I analyzed my general style as "loose before the flop, tight after". | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Someone asked what are some questions women wish they could ask on a first datenice articles on your site, easy to read and nice font/layout etc | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Someone asked what are some questions women wish they could ask on a first date"how do you feel about abortion" shudder edit -- like Ali G says "I is a big supporter of abortion. I have caused at least 5 in my home town of Staines alone." | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Stopped talking to girl, she contacted me. How do I figure out what she wants?i like that response - cut to the chase | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Vehiclesi'm pretty sure that's why Jeeps are slightly overpriced both new and used -- their performance is considered pretty meh from what i know, but they still do generally give that impression of 'bad-ass' | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Vehiclesthat's kind of what I was thinking -- unless you really enjoy cars/vehicles, they are actually a horrible investment -- a lot of the millionaires and billionaires out there drive pretty plain cars compared to what they can afford -- if you enjoy cars and want to place a priority on it, that's fine ... whatever certain style or type appeals to you and your lifestyle | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to ask ""naughty"" pics to a FB contact?Then prob can't hurt to ask her to post more pics of her heels -- private pics might be a diff story though. Say something like I said above, or maybe add something about being a big fan -- but don't write her a novel or explain the sexual shit you like about the heels ... i highly doubt she would denounce you publicly unless you went super creepy in your requests to her or basically cyber stalk her or pester her a lot (even then she prob would just block you). | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How to ask ""naughty"" pics to a FB contact?I've gotten sexy pics from women many many times just by asking -- but those are from a girl I know in real life or have hooked up with or taking the pics myself in the moment. Or at least have a flirting connection with, where I know she is into me. Not a random FB hot girl that I friended and have absolutely no connection with. I suppose it won't hurt to ask or try (maybe start with "yo, post some more heel pics, those are great" -- then if that works, move up to having her send you a private … | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with constantly dating down...Alaska? I don't knew what to say about your conundrum (if you don't want to move your location), except for that different places clearly have different ratios of men/women and attractiveness -- in general, my rule of thumb in USA is below the Mason Dixon line roughly (horizontal, across the country), the women are hotter below that ... | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Help me conduct a field experiment?I would say instead of here, go to your Univ psychology department if you are trying to get together an experiment like that where it requires serious action, time and participation (guy hitting a girl and vice-versa). | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Haven't seen any RSD videos; are they worth the time?I think a lot of them are excellent, for what they are. Owen/Tyler is really the foundation of it all and the "deepest thinker" I would say -- the other guys have their own approaches and techniques and style, depends on what you are looking for and what style you like. This is an interesting vid where Owen/RSDTyler did a guest spot on Elliott Hulse's youtube channel -- I never saw this Elliott guy before, but he comes across pretty "alpha" and is very into working out, physicality, etc: https:/… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone give a female some ideas about what qualities are attractive and unattractive to men in a broad scope?these can vary and too much of an extreme in these can be too much (or too little) -- for example some of these can be reversed positive/negative in moderate/small amounts in certain situations and circumstances, but in general: --Attractive: Cheerful/Positive Sexiness Ambitious Intelligent Nurturing Logical Funny Sensual Supportive Present in the moment --Not Attractive: Needy Dominating Superficial Insecure Volatile (in terms of too many emotional swings and/or volatile to the point of nearly … | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Tinder pickup linesI gotta try both of those now "you look like trouble" and "#". I just tried the song quotes and mild negs from the OP post, mild negs working better so far, in terms of garnering a quick response. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Tinder pickup linesThe post is about Tinder -- Tinder is only pics and a text line to the girl ... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Why are you on /r/seduction?Well for both of you, it's better to gain experience with a variety of women and a variety of situations. That way you will choose the right woman that you want, rather than just stumbling into the first thing that comes along who basically chooses you ... | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Moral Dilemma: Should we steal girls from beta's?My take (others may differ): You haven't done anything to the guy -- she is choosing to want you. The world itself is kind of a shark tank in general -- like I heard someone say the other day "there are sheep and there are wolves". This doesn't mean fuck people over or do evil shit to friends, family etc. But it does mean you can look out for yourself first. The major risk I evaluate in situations like this is -- is the guy the type that will come kick my ass or stab/shoot me ... not his feeling… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 11:25 PM |
| 6 | She's not that kind of girl.LMR - Last Minute Resistance - can come in a variety of forms. Her saying "she's not that type of girl" -- means she actually has been that type of girl before (she actually is that type of girl, but she is worried about what you think of her, or she is trying to pin you down, and/or is giving a bit of a shit test) -- hell, she was 90% of the way there with you. Hard to say if you could have closed the full deal that night, but you prob could have -- you might have shown a bit too much neediness… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Escape from the Friend Zone exists?yes, she is hinting that she likes you ... | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 10:20 PM |
| 3 | How do high value guys respond to flakes?The RSD guys in general seem to put a flake into a lower priority rotation for their texts, they still might try once or twice more or try to engage her, than that's basically it. No anger or confronting about it in general. It's a low investment for them to dash out another text or two. You can try to text something that will get a flake to respond due to an emotional reaction due to what you said (without coming across angry/desperate). Absurdity or sarcasm done right can do that. But when you… | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Nice Guy SyndromeIt's not toning it down - it's turning it up. Turn up your inner caveman. Don't repress your natural urges, show them to the girls early on. They won't hate you for it, in fact they may respect you more than just acting 'nice & polite' all the time. Try leaning in and growling something in a deeper type voice into a girl's ear that you are interested in -- you don't have to be literal about your intentions, women are good at reading between the lines. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 08:49 PM |
| 3 | I'm about to lay all the cards down and I need some advice before I do itWhyyyy have you not made a move yet ... should be in 3 hours or 3 dates, not 3 weeks ... | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 08:31 PM |
| 2 | After hearing the "outrage" over RSD Julien Blanc, all I could think about is how he is probably loving this.His brand name recognition shot up 10,000% in the past few days -- he is gonna love this, once the shitstorm blows over. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Whoa, Julien of RSD forced out of Australia. lolhis regular, non "in field" videos, actual have a lot of quality info and he is very charismatic in his delivery -- i was watching a few of them since yesterday when I found out about this whole kerfuffle | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Whoa, Julien of RSD forced out of Australia. lolpeople are freaking because the vid clips of his physically aggressive approaches are shocking to those who've never been exposed to it -- also some of his social media and other soundbites seem shocking and a bit "rapey" when taken out of context | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Question for BP: What is your opinion of RSD Julien? Would most women you know be receptive to a man like him in a nightclub? Has the Australian government's treatment of him been fair?The Australian thing has gotten ridic -- they revoked his visa now? PC SJW police run amok ... http://www.theage.com.au/national/pickup-artist-julien-blanc-forced-out-of-australia-after-scott-morrison-cancels-visa-20141107-11iuxf.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/14 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Whoa, Julien of RSD forced out of Australia. lolThat's hilarious that Australia took it this far -- the SJW police really got their dander up on this one ... | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't RedPill/PUA technique work as well in Social Democrat countries?I would wager that in Scandinavia, women are more attracted to natural alphas than guys who aren't ... just like everywhere else in the world. As far as what PUA techniques work in different regions of the world, I'm not sure on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/14 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Either pills-bodies to what extent do you relate to these criteria for sociopathy?me: (nothing is 100% yes or no on these in reality in my case though) yes yes sometimes sometimes sometimes yes no yes if i had to speculate on a 'true alpha': -- again, these aren't 100% yes or no in my view, but if i had to pick: yes yes no yes yes yes yes yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Both pills: has RSD Julien gone too far or is this the PC cops running amok?It almost seems like this is some kind of viral marketing campaign to boost this guy's profile. Or I guess he just got picked out by the SJW crowd because of the aggressive nature of his tactics. From that vid, his approach looks like mostly v aggressive on mostly drunk women in bars -- i can only imagine the backfire some clueless guys (or guys way out of their league or depth) would have trying that ... and there is the potential to cross some lines in several ways that are a potentially a bit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/14 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Dictating pace, but having trouble filling gaps.that's along the lines of what i was gonna say ... why is he worrying about convo gaps and whatnot ... he said he doesn't want a LDR -- just try to fool around with her and close the deal, sounds like she is (or was) open to that | /r/askTRP | 06/11/14 08:01 PM |
| 3 | For Red Pillers on the PPD: What do you think of the concept of emotional intelligence?Social Intelligence is what differentiates someone who is charming vs someone with Asperger's , so yes it is important. Doesn't necessarily mean kissing ass or crying at the drop of a hat or whatever negative things people are putting on it. Being able to read people and whatnot is important. Think about Alpha leaders, some are extremely good at it, others don't need to -- but it isn't a non-factor or necessarily a negative. (Maybe I'm differentiating by using Social Intelligence IQ rather than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/14 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Red Pillers, what are some concepts from TRP that you reject?I don't like a lot of the anger and don't agree with some of the generalizations about women, divorce, false rape accusations, slut shaming, etc. That's why I don't claim to be a card-carrying redpiller, as far as the sub goes. I'm personally more into the parts of it that are self-improvement, dating/seduction/relationship discussion, being a man in the modern PC world, discussion of male/female roles, discussion of what it means to be an alpha male, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:40 PM |
| 1 | We Are Not Your Mirror ImageOn the counterargument about ALL or NONE, I've posted to TRP, TBP, here, AskTRP, Seduction, etc -- Last time I commented in TBP (not in a confrontational way whatsoever, I was basically agreeing with them), I got downvoted, mocked, criticized because someone either knew or looked at my profile and proclaimed I was a "Redpiller" ... and basically I had no redeeming qualities because of that and there are no valid points to anything on that sub or similar ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do some girls just add guys on facebook insted of giving numbers? Plus how was my approachi think you're on the right track already in general, in this case you didn't have much time like you said -- but you approached a girl, etc -- keep at that in the case of this girl, i wouldn't bring it up again about number or date , until you have built a rapport with her and she shows more signs of interest (which may not happen) | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Looking for advice on how to be less intimidating to women.what he says about the gentle "protector" vibe sounds like a good way to go in your case -- and alpha fun/leader, not alpha bully/jerk/scary if a buff big guy is cool, laid back and down to earth (and not easy to anger) -- people in general will be drawn to them, not just women -- maybe work on body language and tone of voice to come across more chill and less threatening | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Rookie Seeking Advicei'd like to help, but this in general might be better for someone younger than me to answer as far as the friendzone thing, try to let out a bit of your inner caveman so to speak, don't be afraid to let a woman know early on that you are attracted to her | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 04:01 PM |
| 0 | How I was seducedGarth Brooks That Summer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOjNanRoYeY | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Do some girls just add guys on facebook insted of giving numbers? Plus how was my approachYeah, especially now that Facebook isn't as "cool" as it used to be, this would seem to be kind of a neutral way to do that. But I wouldn't call it an outright "no". | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Wonderful hook to get them thinking after they've rebuffed your approachI agree with the sentiments you express, but that particular line seems a bit too flowery or whatever | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Potential with a coworker, need adviseAs a general rule, I would prefer not to let a new woman sleep over without action happening. Talk about blue balls. She's sort of friend zoning you . Or cuddle zone so to speak. Or it's on the verge of that happening. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I got given the maybe.The way you worded it in your post, a lot of women would be shy to say "YES!" or might even get turned off ... in this example, being clear/direct with your words was not the way to go. At least not in that manner. Just as an example, you take her to a quiet spot. Sit close together. Touch her / kino (softly touching the back of her head/hair is one example) / look into her eyes , "I'm really attracted to you right now" type of thing -- that is clear/direct, but not so ... blunt or whatever. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How can I show a younger lady (19) that I am not really looking for a relationship but would be down for other things? I want to avoid womanizing.what about simple direct clear "Just got out of a long relationship, I'm not looking for anything serious right now, just to have fun." or leave out the first part of that | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Well I haven't really done an approach in a year or more of 'lurking'..The experience you have working Retail & with women should help you with this | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 01:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Singles meetup, learned how to use IOIsIn general, Social Proof is a big thing that can really ease the whole process -- example being a bar where you are known and liked, then you bring or meet an outsider (woman) there. Plus you are more comfortable there and at ease/confident. As far as escalating -- the transition from a couple smooches to making out/groping and sometimes beyond is a pretty simple and natural one. Agree that it's easier at night. Sidenote -- that feeling of when it's obvious 2 or more women are fighting for your … | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 01:48 PM |
| 1 | I am comfortable with myself, but I do not think I have the conversational abilities to breakthrough.(Advice, Long Post)Keep at it, you're starting conversations with women, which is a good thing. I think you might be overanalyzing too much while you're actually in the convo -- if you can 'be in the moment' a bit more and let your personality show through more (and also express/convey a bit more direct interest in them) it would help. Also sounds like you might be coming across a bit desperate, remember this is just a chat with a person (in this case a girl), not life or death. Also, you can often say whatever's … | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Rookie Seeking AdviceHow long until the braces come off | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 01:27 PM |
| 2 | To all my gamers" "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" Wayne Gretzky"- Michael Scott | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 01:24 PM |
| 1 | taking pussy off the pedestalWho are you trying to convince? Me or yourself? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 08:39 PM |
| 0 | What do you think the success rate is for guys who play the subconscious Beta passive long game?Just as a general thing, not as specific as I stated in the post: You've never known a guy who was friends with a girl for a long time, then it 'turned' into love and marriage? You probably do. I was kind of zeroing in on a subset within that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/14 04:52 PM |
| 1 | taking pussy off the pedestali'm not an offficial representative of TRP and don't agree with everything posted on the sub -- sometimes I enjoy trying to help other guys or give advice on AskTRP or Seduction or when people ask questions about what they should do or need help -- i'm fairly experienced in life (i've done a lot of things and am older than most people on Reddit), so I feel like i can give my 2 cents -- they can take it or not or take it with a grain of salt, it's just an anonymous person asking and answering on … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | taking pussy off the pedestalSo what's your point -- that all the lackluster loser males have no hope and should just walk off a cliff, they won't be passing on their genes and pro-creating anyway? This stuff is designed to help men improve themselves and within that increase their success in finding and choosing a woman or women -- not just taking the first one who comes along who picks you. A lot of the people who post on TRP stress things like health and career and improving yourself first, above anything to do with wome… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 01:19 PM |
| 1 | taking pussy off the pedestalI think I explained what I meant fairly clearly in the 2nd and 3rd sentences. I'm not ascribing power in a physical way as you attributed it to, that's reading into what I didn't say - it's more of a power over yourself and your life and your interactions. And absolutely nothing about either side forcing the other do anything. I'm not blaming women, I'm relating this phrase to guys who have trouble dating women and in relationships. In a bigger picture, it involves many modern men who have been … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 12:57 PM |
| 5 | GF cheated on me, what would you do?Re-evaluation complete. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 01:35 AM |
| 2 | taking pussy off the pedestalIt means you are giving her all the power ... You basically need to have the attitude of you like that and want that, but it won't ruin your life if you don't get it (which it won't). No skin off your back, keep it rolling. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Advices for introvert men?(not specifically about introversion, but:) that first story he told on that vid ... i've been there, i'm sure many of us have -- someone outside comes in and Alphas a whole group that you previously were in control of -- i've also been the other way, being the Alpha attention center of a situation the 3rd option that he chose -- i've done the same thing at times -- but sometimes I feel like that active listening thing he demonstrated can come across as desperate/forced or a version of the penis… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with flaking'Even the most pussy drenched player deals with flaking.' that's a great line | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with flakingi think you're on to something about not being single thing -- it's a definite possibility | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Need a little help.You had the willpower to consciously break up with your girlfriend, rather than wallowing in or passively accepting a bad relationship. That in itself should give you some confidence. It's a cliche, but age is nothing but a number (especially for guys). You have plenty of time for many new adventures in many different aspects of your life. If you are worried about the women thing, there are tons of women in their 20s who date guys in their 30s & 40s, just as an example. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Girl friendzoned me. May have a chance to fuck her now, but is it worth it/a bad idea?along the lines of the 'high road or low road' comment already posted, i would say: On one hand you could fuck her and it may get her out of your system -- On the other, you could end with her now as a gf or whatever ... but is she worth doing this over, remember how she treated your before -- and be careful of falling back into your past patterns -- she wants you now that you are "fixed" (she could be conscious or subconsciously doing this, doesn't really matter) -- The main thing is that you a… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the success rate is for guys who play the subconscious Beta passive long game?a lot of people don't know any better -- also society conditions a lot to be sweet & nice and polite, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Paper on PUAwasn't making a big point, other than guys who appeal to those bullet point groups (not the study groups you post above) have a large population of women they can appeal to -- so among the bullet points of Slutty women, Short-Term Dating women, Sexist women, Traditional women, and Alpha-preferring women -- is a large group to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 03:44 PM |
| 5 | How many of you are not just going out with girls, but with hot ones? The head turners. The ones that give you "that feeling" in your gut just by looking at.I've had luck with a few but in general I know what you mean - climbing extra ladders above your comfort zone of the social/looks/value scale can just plain be difficult sometimes. It is not impossible however. Some of that may be self-inflicted though if you treat them differently or are intimidated, when otherwise with other women you are confident. | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Paper on PUAi guesstimated that based on life experience, i didn't look at the study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Paper on PUAWomen, way more than men, are into/believe things like Astrology Horoscopes Fortune Tellers Psychics, etc etc etc. As far as PUA being con artist ... I would prefer to say it is more like a salesman who knows how to cold call, read his prospective sale and close the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Paper on PUAWhat % of the women in the survey fell under those bullet points? 75% or more? The TLDR and bullet points seem pretty clear to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm everything a red pill man would want, but I'd never be with a red pill man. Here's why...The Red Pill subreddit specifically may turn you off for various reasons that you mentioned. But that doesn't mean the guy you are with or end up with or guys that you attracted to are passive Beta types, either. You say you are somewhat introverted and sounds like a short sexual history -- also a long term relationship person -- Did you ever have a wild phase? If so, what kind of guys did you sleep with then? Have you ever been single for an extended period of time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Need some adviceI agree with the other comments that it very likely won't work. In general you can't rationalize or pester a woman into wanting you, particularly in this type of situation where the boat may have already sailed. That being said, if you truly don't care what she thinks and aren't into her (which isn't certain to me) - blowing her off the next time she contacts you by mentioning that you have a date with another chick could possibly very small chance work. But leave it at that, don't get into an e… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Buddy is dating a so-called LesbianSounds like the definition of a dramatic flake -- if he wants to give it another try on a non-drinking date or whatever, all power to him. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Help me get startedKeep your school game tight and focused on degree, but also have fun. A lot of people away from home mess up in college with all the freedom and flunk out for various reasons. Health, exercise, being active, lose weight, eat better. Work on social skills, building a group of friends, and meeting/flirting/dating women -- NOT a serious relationship with the first woman who comes along. The bullying thing -- I would say just stand up for yourself now if you feel dis-respected. But it doesn't/should… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you make girl want to do sexual things for you? (Send you naughty pics, be slutty, do kinky things, etc.)I find it normally pretty easy to get a sexy/topless/ass/nude pic from most chicks pretty early on, i just ask. I tell them i'm into pics, which i am, and want one from them. Or take them myself when I'm with them. Some won't do it or only a tame one, but many do. Some will send you pics unprompted when they know you like them. Same basic thing with sex, being slutty, mild kinky etc. Tell them what you want. That's not usually a problem for me personally. Speaking more of in the early stages of … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Help me get these plates spinningIf you want to add the 2nd girl (Mary), then you can prioritize her in now. The other girl (Kate) sounds like she is wanting it to be more regular -- if you put her off it should be ok (because she is into you and you've slept with her), but you do risk her freaking out on you or being passive aggressive or something. Just know that going in and accept the consequences. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Career AdviceI know there are jobs that pay well in places with oil / natural gas industry like North Dakota, parts of Texas, etc -- if you are willing to pack up and move. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 02:26 AM |
| 1 | First time I've said this to a girl.You did well in my view. Sounds like you elicited emotions from her and were chill - her bf could be in trouble. Even if not, it's no sweat off your back. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Frame failed, but she texted me back after 5 days! What now?this is a train wreck ... but enjoy it while it lasts i guess -- and no more long lecturing texts to her | /r/askTRP | 10/09/14 02:18 AM |
| 1 | What makes you think that someone is confident?think of someone who you consider very confident maybe Dwayne The Rock Johnson for example (a big cartoonish aggressive example) how does he speak and present himself in general and in his wrestling days -- or someone like Ryan Gosling in Crazy Stupid Love (before he got lovestruck) Gosling in that movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWJd1jaYaeU Rock in WWE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZBW2JQAnCM | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Pre-date tinder girl says she wants me to buy her dinner/drinksI wouldn't necessarily ascribe all the negative money-grubbing and feminist aspects to this interaction that others are and immediately write her off -- seems like she is an analytical type (which actually could be a warning sign depending on your personality) and that may have just been a throwaway line complaining about other jerks on Tinder... also get a vibe that she is looking for a boyfriend or relationship, rather than a hookup, but hard to be sure on that (just something to keep in mind)… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Escape VelocityI say if someone has 3 (or perhaps 2) divorces, they shouldn't be allowed to get married again. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to be more dominant during sex?Obviously being on top or from behind are more dominant positions by definition ... also stuff like: http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/129b_love_tip.html | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | The Power in Free Sh*tI do a free unasked for "I Will Guess Your Weight" booth | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 07:38 PM |
| 4 | How this guy "got out of the friendzone"puppy love cringe vid -- i can't watch this | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 07:36 PM |
| 3 | How do I come back from this?it's all good -- sounds like this is gonna be a passionate intifada fling with her - just know what you're getting yourself into the voicemail not to call her ever again part is classic | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Hung out with my 'girlfriend' again tonight.PLEASE for the love of God put a TLDR summary on super long posts like this. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How do I come back from this?he's already about 2/2 on that -- he should try a "cunt" for good measure - then she would leave him an epic hour long voicemail, only to come over a few days later and screw his brains out | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Caught In A TrapThis 'one' pretty clearly isn't the one, based on what you said in your post. You fell too hard and too fast , and sometimes women flake out when something gets too serious too fast or for a variety of other reasons. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 07:12 PM |
| 3 | How often do you fuck up miserably?(this may not be TRP dogma, but) I mess up all the time -- but the key is not to beat yourself up over it. It's no big deal really, if you don't let it become one. If you want it to change in the future, try to remember and avoid doing it -- if you don't really want it to change, you can end up in a vicious cycle of self-loathing. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What's going on with me?I think I like your response better than mine. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 05:47 PM |
| 3 | What's going on with me?Please put a TLDR on long posts like this ... That being said, sounds like your life is much healthier, but among other things you haven't yet found your niche for getting laid in that new lifestyle yet. As far as the attraction dropping, that sounds like a phase that will pass over time as you get adjusted to your new lifestyle - if it doesn't, it could be deeper mental and/or physiological issues that you need to look into. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Caught In A TrapSounds like you need to find a balance between what you think of and how you interact with the Stripper type girls (not much) and the Girlfriend type girls (too much) -- somewhere in the middle of that would probably work much better for you -- [edit -- for you, probably leaning to the first attitude is much better for the time being, you get too attached too quickly] Also maybe consider that you don't have to be in a relationship at all times-- can you be single and not miserable? Many people c… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 05:35 PM |
| 5 | How do I come back from this?maybe try to avoid the ""You gonna invite me bitch?"" part next time | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Do I move on or cancel and try again later?There are a lot of posts like this. Probably shouldn't contact her again unless she contacts you first. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 05:26 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Direct Day Game - SNL - Detailed account of crushing LMRalmost a Penthouse Forum entry | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to pick up Women.thank you for your service | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Met with some resistance from girl I'm trying to make a plate?sidenote: It's funny how many women (guys do it too, but more often women) rationalize/forget/lie to themselves about random hookups like this later on. One reason why women's true number is often so much higher than they claim. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/14 02:41 PM |
| 1 | any advice for an introverted fellow that completely sucks at and hates small talk???excellent write-up | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 08:17 AM |
| 1 | any advice for an introverted fellow that completely sucks at and hates small talk???it doesn't have to be small talk -- but it helps if it is interesting or funny or thought-provoking or emotion-provoking talk -- but also body language and other actions can take away even some of the need to talk -- and maybe try to get the other person to open up and you listen to them, you don't have to talk as much that way at first | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 08:14 AM |
| 5 | Unwanted roommates/parents for both parties. Where to.....do it?You are going to get laid from this most likely. Never know about later flakes, but sounds like she is super into you. Like the guy below said, find a place -- could be a friend's place or whatever. Be careful of letting your living situation turn into a mental cock block on yourself or a last minute deal breaker -- it can be done -- my younger brother is a 'natural' and he banged his hot gf all the time and after her other women on a crappy futon in our mom's small house, while my mom was 2 roo… | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Shit test: workIt's funny, but probably wouldn't work. Like he said below, give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 08:00 AM |
| 3 | How effective is persistence?I think having that persistence and a form of confidence where you don't mind being rejected will pay off a lot -- probably not with this girl, but with other women. But don't let this one distract you from moving on to other women. | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Getting with chics at college bars(i'm realizing i'm too old for most of these questions i'm attempting to help with ...) for me personally, having some bars or places to go where I'm known and feel comfortable has helped in that way, especially if you are going solo -- establishes social proofing, makes you more confident, etc -- also can be good to find 1, 2 or 3 friends that are good wingmen, if your intention is to meet/pick up girls -- if you just want to have fun, find friends for that, they might be different than the peo… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up at a Frat Partyyou are getting bashed in the comments, way too much in my view just try to vibe it out better next time - slow down your escalation if needed - be aware of kino, expressions of interest, body language, stuff like that -- it's not always like in the movies where every guy just grabs the girl out of the blue and kisses them and they love it | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 07:15 AM |
| 3 | very successful with average/below average women (4/10 or 5/10). success non-existent with women that would be considered objectively "cute" or "attractive"I would say you are probably much more confident with the women that you consider below you looks-wise or average and project a could-give-a-fuck attitude with them -- while with the ones that you consider hotter than you, you may project an intimidated or in awe attitude. Also, if you fall into a comfort zone pattern of just going after the easier girls to get (which I myself have done many times), then you will default to targeting the more average women that you have had success with in the p… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Does not knowing any girls make me a loser?become a celibate monk then or a lone samurai do what you want to do, it's your life it's your timetable, not theirs - depends on what your priorities and interests are at a given time however, if you want to feel the soft touch of a woman, you probably will have to make it happen somehow | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Help controlling my thoughtstime heals wounds, this shall pass | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Got a girl's phone number, what now?she isn't showing you much respect by not responding timely to your texts you bringing it up to her is not a good idea though -- does she ever initiate contact with you? if not she may not be interested, may be distracted, may be dating someone, etc why not just ask her out in real life if you see her regularly ... | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 06:45 AM |
| 15 | Girl broke up with her boyfriend because of me. I'm not going to commit to her. Feel like an assholeDon't feel guilty about this -- she doesn't. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 06:35 AM |
| 3 | WitI think a lot of guys & girls are just using pat lines such as this for Tinder, that they find on the internet -- if /r/Tinder is any indication. You have to decide if you want to get laid from Tinder or just flirt or find a date or find a gf or what you want from it. As far as responses ... "I lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me tonight" "Yes, but you won't get much sleep." "I lost my teddy bear, will you sleep with me tonight" "Snuggling will cost you extra." "I lost my teddy bear, will… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/14 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Everyone who swallows TRP always says this.Patrice's game was tight - his off the cuff observations and comedy were brilliant - he refused to play other people's games/politics and lived life on his own terms - but he apparently didn't take care of himself and we lost him way too soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Everyone who swallows TRP always says this.rom coms and sitcoms with henpecked husbands/boyfriends or bad boys who 'change' are so annoying that way | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | r/TheBluePill bans me for being subscribed to r/TheRedPill and for not believing in all their bullshitI've commented in Red Pill, Purple Pill and Blue Pill and haven't had a problem so far ... got a little negativity from BluePill about saying learning about seduction/pua years ago helped my life for the better, but that's about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 06:15 PM |
| 26 | Everyone who swallows TRP always says this.I would tell myself don't be so picky in High School & College, flirt with and sleep with a large variety of women. Don't get so hung up on a certain girl or an unrequited crush. Stand up for yourself. Don't fear rejection. Work out more when you're young and the body takes to it easier, and you have a better metabolism. For others (not me, I was able to juggle both), don't go so hung up or hooked on partying (or being laid back cool or even too much of a jock) that you miss or ruin the chance t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/14 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Friendzone Meme - Personally I agree with both sides of the statement.diff between a friend and the friend zone -- the thing is -- you can let a woman know that you are interested in her physically and are a sexually confident male, but then still end up being friends with her -- the key is to put that out there early on, so you aren't automatically 'friend zoned' in her mind | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [26M] This is a bit embarrassing, but can you guys teach me to hit on/be flirtatious with women?It sounds like you have it all ready for you on a silver platter -- Just need to be more assertive and direct in general -- let a woman know early on that you are a sexually confident male and interested in her, keeps you out of the friend zone -- don't worry about rejection, have to miss a few swings to hit the ball -- sounds like you were a bit too ingrained with being polite and not offending people Also maybe try to work on quickly assessing social situations and interactions and body langua… | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Musicians of seddit. How do you approach game?the only advice my Dad ever gave me about women was "i learned to play guitar" and yet i still didn't - had to learn my own ways | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 07:08 PM |
| 6 | No half measures. (How to avoid the friend zone)No half steppin https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2l2O-JOXG_I | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain this from a RP point-of-view?What people say about things like attractiveness and what they do can be completely different things. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "you're so random?"'You're So Raven' | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 06:56 PM |
| 8 | When has seduction advice not worked for you?not from this sub -- but all that stuff about memorizing patterns and routines and whatnot is pretty asinine | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 03:11 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Told my date to GTFO cause she was being a prude. Ended up fucking right thereBeing willing to walk away from various situations (but not in an angry manner, like you mentioned) is very effective and increases your own personal power. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Dennis from Always Sunny - The DENNIS System sounds familiar ...really? they seem like stelllar upstanding citizens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Dennis from Always Sunny - The DENNIS System sounds familiar ...yes -- also the book companion helps -- Dennis Reynolds, An Erotic Life http://cdn.follw.it/episodeimages/originals/7866/402396.jpg http://img2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20111124054715/itsalwayssunny/images/9/96/Dennis'_sex_experience.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Dennis from Always Sunny - The DENNIS System sounds familiar ...funny tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 02:12 AM |
| 1 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.AJ Lee & CM Punk marriage ETA < 3 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 10:00 PM |
| 0 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.in my experience: the cities north of the Mason Dixon line roughly, (or let's say a horizontal line across the country) -- up there the men are better looking than the women - below that the women are better looking than the men -- as a big generalization so the South, Florida, Southern Calif, Ariz, etc compared to Boston Chicago, etc -- the ratio is way better for guys in the first region, in my opinion edit: i live in Kentucky, i think the line starts just above here at the border to Ohio/Indi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.yes -- any woman will admit to you that she can go out and get laid at a bar any night she wants basically -- even ugly/large ones they kind of grow up knowing this or learn it at a certain age, so they have a diff perspective than men do on this matter but men have it easier in other ways, such as we're not judged as much by our hair/body/etc -- a good confident charismatic personality can take someone far -- or if they are a success at work, etc -- can help a guy more than a woman in general i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 07:01 PM |
| 0 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.ok i went back and read your post -- you're saying that the these Beta husbands couldn't do the same thing that their Beta wives did -- that may be true -- life isn't always fair i'm no proponent of monogamous marriage in general, if it works for some/few people, that's fine -- and who knows what arrangement some people have in their relationship that may work for them (or not) as a self-respecting guy i personally wouldn't put up with it the comment about Soldiers in the foxhole, every women st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.what's the firewall that prevents men from doing this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:47 PM |
| 5 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.the situation with this woman, her husband and the good looking guy? passive guys get cuckolded all the time but i wouldn't attribute her behavior to ALL women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:43 PM |
| -2 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.but if we were stranded on a desert island, it wouldn't surprise me at all if a few of the males dominated the available female population, leaving some of the males with no women it wouldn't all depend on how capable they were and physical strength, but that would def play a part in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:35 PM |
| 5 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.i haven't watched that show in a while, but people have to try to ensure they won't get voted off the show, so they form various factions in various ways i wasn't really addressing it from a Red Pill / Blue Pill thing as much as saying that the show is really like mice in a maze or a bubble and manipulated by puppet master tv producers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:32 PM |
| 12 | I think the TV show Big Brother showcases hypergamy/AFBB, female entitlement and beta supplicating behavior very well. I don't see how any BPer can explain this behavior away.if life was like we were all trapped on a desert island that was manipulated by TV producers, this would be more applicable -- also there is a game show / voting faction thing to that show that makes certain behaviors become in people's self-interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:25 PM |
| 6 | What do RPers think of this comic?"I am not personally attracted to this type of woman" vs "this is what a good woman is, and this is what a bad woman is." that's a good way of putting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/14 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Proof that A/S/L works , what goes around comes aroundthis is supposed to be somewhat humorous ... but it did actually get her to open up | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Men are shamed for showing preference in much younger females and displaying any aversion to fat women, single mothers, and women that have slept with multiple partners. But when can a woman be shamed for her sexual preferences?why is this comment downvoted? because he used "butthurt" in the first sentence? instinctual negative reaction to trigger words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/14 03:51 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with sex tourism?this sounds like the beginning to a Seinfeld bit: What IS the deal with sex tourism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/14 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How long before sex with the same person gets boring?most people also watch and enjoy 2.5 Men, which i don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/14 03:43 AM |
| 2 | How long before sex with the same person gets boring?i sometimes wonder if it would have worked out if i had married my first love / first real sex partner -- probably not -- but i definitely look back fonder on those simpler days and relationships, i was so naive and young but had a less cynical view of things - i'm so much more jaded now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Are people meant to be together monogamously for life? Should polygamy and bigamy be legal? Should prostitution be legalized? Is marriage obsolete?fuck the lawyers, rewrite laws and make them simpler and clearer a man should be able to have 3 wives if he can afford and handle it -- and a woman should be able to have 3 husbands in the same manner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 07:22 PM |
| 1 | How does RP explain the BP attraction?"MRA - Men's Rights activist" i had to look that up yes - all the Al Bundy "No Ma'am" stuff isn't a crusade I care about all that much personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How does RP explain the BP attraction?TRP caters to the average man trying to hook up with the average woman. This is what it primarily should be, in my view -- for guys who have trouble meeting women, getting dates, closing the deal, etc. And maybe some stuff about how to be a better man/person. But they'e added a giant mess of philosophy, bro ism, and politics into it that I don't necessarily agree with. And a lot of anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 01:09 PM |
| 1 | How does RP explain the BP attraction?He won't make decisions, sounds like she dominates every aspect of the relationship. She is kind of the queen and he is her serf. There are power struggles or power definitions within every relationship, just sounds like most all of them are on her side of the equation in this case. But maybe it works for them, who knows - i'm skeptical of long-term happiness in almost any 1-1 relationship -- i know so few 'happy' long-term ones. Sex with the same person gets boring after a while ... everything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Question for BPers: Is it ok to not want to commit to a woman with a lot of sexual partners?It's better not to know the number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 06:07 AM |
| 1 | What is something you just don't understand about the opposite sex?this is what i was gonna say, what's up the shoes & purses obsession a lot of women have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Movie discussion of the week - American Beautythis movie was considered rather subversive in its themes and material when it came out, so maybe they felt they needed to have some 'positive' redemption for the Kevin Spacey character -- i don't find the ending of the movie memorable at all -- there's so many other parts and scenes that impacted me more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Movie discussion of the week - American Beautyit is rare, but you do see more and more tv shows and movies lately with troubled, almost unlikeable/unsympathetic lead characters - kind of began with The Sopranos Ghost World is a movie that comes to mind where the main character really is just not a good person whatsoever and has no redemption at the end -- love that flick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 05:30 AM |
| 1 | How does RP explain the BP attraction?i wonder if you will get tired of his spinelessness and submissive nature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/14 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Movie discussion of the week - American Beautyhttp://gfycat.com/MistyPartialKouprey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What is something you just don't understand about the opposite sex?yeah ... some women are like a goddam space heater down there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | What is something you just don't understand about the opposite sex?what does having a clit feel like? (assuming you have one) ... or let's say an engorged one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | All right BPers, what are men better at than women?the elite level of sports is a pretty clear example of the physical difference between the genders -- some of that is dissipating over time throughout human history, it's a fact that men created most all of the great science, industry, architecture, art, music, books, math etc - but also the terrible things such as war, genocides, etc - basically most everything whether you want to say that is because men repressed women, is a point for debate it's also been said that men created (or felt the ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What is something you just don't understand about the opposite sex?having a boner feels fantastic - blood flow, power -- also often the sense of needing/wanting it released it can stir inner caveman like emotions/urges -- which is why (i imagine) some people have trouble controlling it and commit violent acts the old saying of "my little head was doing the thinking" is there for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pillers: Why do you hate single mothers so much? And why do you praise single fathers then?first, i've dated 2 single moms, and i had/have huge respect for them as people, both had incredible energy and juggled many things including successful careers -- my only issue with single moms is that society today glorifies them, while rips apart asshole deadbeat dads ... but for every Deadbeat Dad, there is a woman who spread her legs for him & kept the baby -- takes 2 to tango, literally -- in most all cases, women choose who they are having sex with ... and they can choose whether to use b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Would only women do this?yes, most everyone would want to take a ride in a fancy car like that the first woman in the vid who leaves her boyfriend at the side of the road and goes off with the guy with the nice car (if that video is real), that isn't cool in the least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | I've learned girls can take some shit and love it, but is there a line or am I reverting back to old ways?if someone isn't getting angry at you, you're ok ... if she is enjoying the teasing, why do you feel the need to tone it down -- do you sense that you are being too mean/cruel? | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Always wanting to prove how cool I am (In my dreams)are you trying to date in the Indian community or out of it? | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | When to put myself out there?can you give a more specific example? | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 01:52 AM |
| 2 | I choked last night, what do I do?i like everything you said but "i remember Julien once" | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Anyone know good spots in Nashville?very touristy when I was there, not necc in a good way but a lot of cuties out and about | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls that you've known for years that you've never talked to?well ... i've been out of hs for so long now, you may be right | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | So I had a crappy day, and I think it's because I keep opening with compliments. Can I get some input? [FR included]i compliment women on clothes, hair, makeup etc when i notice it -- because it's genuine -- but guess what, that generally doesn't work as a pickup thing (at least for me) -- it doesn't seem to trigger the desire thing in them that other things can -- but there is something to be said in general for being real | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 04:14 PM |
| 0 | How to talk to girls that you've known for years that you've never talked to?small party makes it a bit tougher, more anxiety possible in confined areas with limited people but confidence and single out 1 or 2 you want to talk to "why didn't we ever talk in high school?" "weren't you the president of [some geeky club] in high school?" "i wanted to ask you to [some awful concert] in high school, but i was too shy back then" | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 04:11 PM |
| -3 | [FR] K-Close with an Irish teacher.TLDR version? | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 04:06 PM |
| 1 | 5'1 shy guy in high school. Got anything?If you've been rejected, then you are least trying and in the ballgame somewhat, which is a big step ... so work on not being friend zoned I guess, let them know you are interested early on, instead of springing it on them like a surprise. | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 04:06 PM |
| -10 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?I got nothing clever here ... other than move on ... or maybe 'don't bother' "With what?" probably wouldn't work | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Getting bad body language, nothing clever to say & Alien Eyesnot that she was presenting herself as available to him, but he brought nothing to the convo and ended up creeping her out | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting bad body language, nothing clever to say & Alien Eyesno - the chick in the middle is on my fb, she posts a lot of stuff | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 06:55 PM |
| -1 | Daygaming older women?Put more spacing in your paragraphs. [enter] | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Aubrey O'Day friend zone wisdom, from today:It's actually very bitchy, just thought it was worth passing along. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Has Seduction Changed Your View Of Women?well said | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 08:08 PM |
| 2 | My recent discovery that opened a new world of self confidence.In that way female friends are good, but what a lot of these guys fall into is pining for that girl who has friend-zoned them -- and being paralyzed, meanwhile she is banging some random bad boy. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 03:43 PM |
| 1 | My recent discovery that opened a new world of self confidence.On to the next one... But try not to say it in a dickish way, as someone said earlier. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 03:42 PM |
| 8 | My recent discovery that opened a new world of self confidence.Miley quotes work with the chicks nowadays better than Watts or Cook. :D | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number, but we didn't really talk, asking what's up feels weak. Anything else to say though?gorgeous? now i'm jealous pm me a pic of her if you don't mind | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number, but we didn't really talk, asking what's up feels weak. Anything else to say though?yah you pushed it a bit too fast, she was prob drunk and doesn't remember that well all good though after she said hhahaha, then it was time to try "you need to bring your medical records when we meet up" -- but hindsight is 20/20 | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number, but we didn't really talk, asking what's up feels weak. Anything else to say though?good news so all 3 of those were actually received and sent? i'm a bit confused [edit say "make sure to bring all your medical records with you when we meet up"] also don't say lol much anymore unless ironically, the kids today think it's a bit "lame" | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her number, but we didn't really talk, asking what's up feels weak. Anything else to say though?cool, let me know how it goes i bet you get a "hahaha what?" ... assuming she remembers you | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl gave me her number, but we didn't really talk, asking what's up feels weak. Anything else to say though?she went out of her way to give you her #, that's a good sign -- maybe her friend was cockblocking and she knew it, who knows what the situation but then again maybe she won't be interested after a few days, college girls can be flaky i think all you can do is reach out and text/call her if she hasn't to you -- "hi, it's the doctor from the halloween party ... your test results are in" | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 04:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] met a girl at a university buffetthe 'dinner. next week' thing with a college girl seems a bit ... too serious for me - a lot of them aren't in that mindset might have been better to be like: we're having a party this night or im meeting some friends at a bar this night, etc | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 03:42 AM |
| -1 | This /r/askwomen thread might be of some interest...i just put my 2 cents in right to the top rated comment -- im sure the hate will come in soon -- fun to rile up ppl sometimes | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Keeping you're distanceyour | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How should I finish this conversation?"something nice" ugg "i do taxidermy on sunday afternoons, wanna help me stuff an armadillo? - it's a cute one" | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What to do about getting ill?sorry that came out harsh ... my bad reword #1 to "find a chick with sinus allergies" | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Question about timing.maybe her period started suddenly :D | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:30 AM |
| 0 | When girls talk to you about her problems, how would you respond?say "i charge $75 / hour for therapy ... or you can take it out in trade" | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:28 AM |
| 0 | The best way to cut off a oneitis / best friend?that's a tough one -- she is still kind of using you tho and getting the best of both worlds for her ... not you also time and distance heals all if you decide to cut it off | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:23 AM |
| -1 | How do I cope with social phobia?practice on your relatives, friends, and chubby girls and women you don't care about at all | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:20 AM |
| 0 | What to do about getting ill?find a chick with AIDS or learn to rap this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KRYwYnC5cg | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:19 AM |
| 0 | I Have a Party In 2 Hours Please Help me.def go - don't worry if you are inexperienced, most of them are too plus women are more insecure than guys usually about themselves | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How to be friends but stay outside the friend zone?i think the best way to stay out of the friend zone is to clearly let a woman know early on that you are a sexually confident male (even if you aren't all the time) and that you find her attractive | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:15 AM |
| -1 | Halloween costume advice/supporting gamethey say what ppl dress up as on halloween is what a part of them wishes to be ... so don't dress as a chick | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have some tips for online dating, or how you can be more successful with itonine dating is harder than it used to be in my view -- cute women get flooded with 100s from married guys and everyone else -- match worked for me in the past for both quick hookups and finding a couple gfs | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Solo game in Los Angeles-25 years oldSanta Monica / Venice Beach | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:10 AM |
| 1 | just realized somethingespecially average males (especially more average white guys) | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 12:49 AM |
| 1 | My "verbal-game" is pretty solid, but I feel pretty hopeless every time I get to a dancefloor...well i would say, if it fizzles (maybe they just wanted to dance and have fun), just move on and dance w another chick near you (or even by yourself), especially if they can see you (even in a funny way) ... or bail and move back to the bar or to the patio or somewhere good to chill -- if you see them again at the club, see if there is any interest or if they are just into themselves that night -- sorry thats not pickup by the book advice im giving you, just my take | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Birthday K-Close and the Importance of Good Energythis is all success to me -- very good natural bar flirting quoted below, don't worry about if it leads to just making out or an immediate fuck -- also notice how your buddy (wingman) greased all the wheels with the pole dancing and starting the convo -- and didn't try to dominate alpha male you -- good friend to have Her: "Are you gonna buy me a shot?" Me: "Buy you a shot? It's my birthday, where's my shot?" After she bought me a shot... Me: "Thanks, that was sweet of you. Don't go thinking tha… | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:46 PM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionPlay to your strengths and Go where you are comfortable is great advice -- we all have something or another that gives an edge | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Help! Oktoberfest game advice needed!"Achtung fraulein, the leafs are beautiful this time of year, no?" | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:40 PM |
| 2 | My "verbal-game" is pretty solid, but I feel pretty hopeless every time I get to a dancefloor...I bet that you look good on the dancefloor ! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pK7egZaT3hs | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:38 PM |
| 3 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.I get up when I want except on Wednesdays when I get rudely awakened by the dustmen (Parklife) I put my trousers on, have a cup of tea and I think about leaving the house (Parklife) | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:37 PM |
| 2 | To the guys in high school or college: get this handledmissing out? well ... sometimes you have to play the cards life gives you, money-wise etc -- but living at home is not a generic all-purpose excuse for not getting chicks -- my b (who was a natural, im not), lived at home with my m for a few years while working as a chef and had a little futon and had a banging girlfriend and other chicks over there -- meanwhile there's been times that i've had my own house that i own and i make it so messy or cluttered that i don't even wanna bring a chick back… | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Good movies for learning about and laughing about 'game'.good article, thanks for posting link -- there's a lot of things going on in that flick and a lot of takeaways depending on your perspective (all under the guise of some typical rom com stuff, some good looking people and funny family stuff), that's why i found this movie so interesting and it works on many different levels -- of course there are some extremely unrealistic and simplistic things in it (i dont wanna give too many spoilers), such as a NJ bar pickup stud ("8 or better for 139 strait… | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | To the guys in high school or college: get this handledexactly - and engineering types (if you have some marketing/sales/entrepeneur traits to go with it) can often become very rich -- the prob some engineer types have is that they dont have those ppl skills, sense of humor etc -- but when they do its like a lethal combination | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:56 AM |
| 3 | To the guys in high school or college: get this handledim just saying ... if someone wants to hang with you they will make time -- it goes both ways ... if a chick is 'too busy' to see me, i move on - but just you working a lot isn't something a chick would normally use as a rejection - unless you can't go out even 1 or 2 times a week at night or on the weekend | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome the difficulties of doing kino in countries with a cold climate?Frost Man, able to turn a single woman frigid at a single touch! just kidding around, m8 | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:21 AM |
| -1 | If you could give 5 tips to anyway about seduction and inner game what would be the 5 highest ones on the listlearn to play guitar and be in a band or be a club dj have a lot of drugs, esp coke and x be really good looking be really rich have a great personality on the level of Bill Murry in his prime | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:18 AM |
| 11 | To the guys in high school or college: get this handledI partied my ass off in college and after (and before), but didn't get laid a lot -- then was career oriented in most of 20s -- then in my 30s i focused on meeting dating and banging more women and was successful -- i def had that unmet need from when i was younger -- most people do get most of it out their system in college (and for the lucky, some in high school and before) -- so yes agreed, in college is really the easiest time by far for random hookups and learning to relate to women as far … | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:14 AM |
| 1 | The same exact advice get's posted here every fucking day, and it rarely goes in depth.this sounds like it might be the best specific direct advice for you: hire a hooker | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Critique my 'first' openerprob what you said in the group joking around first was better than that shit about "im too cool for skool" thing - honestly doesn't sound super promising to me at this point, could just be a friendly young girl, you won't know until later -- i think you're reading too much into it all most likely, but i don't mean to put you down for making an effort. | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 01:03 AM |
| 1 | First approach from a high anxiety, introverted and shy dudedoes this eco fest have beer? if so i would be going to get a beer and asking her to accompany ... also maybe would try to get her to quieter place to talk IF there was a connection ... since a green fest, maybe smoke some "reefer" with her if you're into that | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:57 AM |
| 0 | First approach from a high anxiety, introverted and shy dudestop using pickup acronyms, they annoy me a bit and here is something i might have said when she said she had an umbrella but didn't open it yet -- "oh yeah ... no wonder your hair looks like a wet rat" (but i often would quickly say, "just joshin with ya" or something if that came out harsh, sometimes what i say comes out wrong or is taken the wrong way) -- that wet rat line would either get a good laugh or a good look or be a complete flop, that's the chance you take -- that's natural negging … | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:52 AM |
| 5 | The Difference between Me and Yougood stuff, that's basically what some call 'inner-game' -- if you feel good about yourself and are enjoying life, people (and chicks) will want to be around you and be attracted to you if you don't feel that good about yourself at a given time ... well, i've certainly been there ... drinking might help :D ... also if you remember something like "i have a big cock" or something relevant to you, you can get a short-term boost ... or just chill and try to have fun and not worry about it until you … | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I have become the ultimate number collector... but that's it! I need pointers from the experts to go beyond.If you get the # and nothing else -- then take that step completely out of things. Maybe try to have immediate physical contact or make immed plans to meet up later that night or another night. (edit - like someone said below, be more direct in general, both face to face and via text) | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How long should I wait after getting a # off online game?Arrange a real life meet up (in a safe time/place if she needs that) ASAP ... that is even more important than getting the # - this weeds out the wafflers and fakes, etc. Then you can see if you two have chemistry and a good time. I find it best to pick a place to meet where I already have been many times and feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:36 AM |
| 4 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.The 'long distance' part was that she is in the Canada Niagara Falls area and the 'needy' part was he called her 10 times a day, not text, actual phone call. just kidding, m8 :D | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:28 AM |
| 3 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.tis better to have tried and failed than never to have tried at all | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:26 AM |
| 8 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Girls who are boys Who like boys to be girls Who do boys like they´re girls Who do girls like they´re boys Always should be someone you really love | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:26 AM |
| 2 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.chix dig weird al | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:25 AM |
| 14 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective."So, how well do you know the Dewey Decimal System?" | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Guys who play the "long game" and succeed - are they uber white knights or patient heroes?good points, this is getting a bit into When Harry Met Sally, but personally, the way i am nowadays, i would have hit on a female friend sooner rather than later to let my intentions be known and avoid being friend-zoned -- i would say realistically currently that most all of my female friends are exes or those i have hit on in one way or another at one time or another | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 09:13 PM |
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