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I don’t feel it’s “taken up”, I enjoy my time with my husband but I don’t really ever have time for just myself which gets overwhelming sometimes if that makes sense lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 11:11 PM
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We both just assume we’re going to be having sex every night and as soon as the kids go to bed we get to it lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 09:18 PM
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He sometimes helps me get them ready for bed and plays with them here and there. I’ve told him that I’m not happy with how little he does with the kids and he starts to make more of an effort but then it goes back to the way it was.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 04:00 PM
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Thank you for this. I’m definitely in the exhausted with a deep sense of failure camp right now and need to find a way to get that passion back 🙂.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:38 PM
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Hahaha trust me I know 😂. He has a handful of times, but he lets them watch TV all day and doesn’t have any housework to do at the same time lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:36 PM
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Thank you so much for your encouragement and advice! 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 01:21 PM
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Thank you, this is great advice! I’m going to try to stop putting so much pressure on myself for homeschooling and focus more on the house.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 01:20 PM
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I will look into Mother’s Day Out, thank you! I will definitely have to work on having my kids be a little bit more independent, right now they won’t even stay in the next room they HAVE to be right next to me 😅.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:42 PM
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Thank you! I’ve had similar conversations with my husband but he doesn’t really understand, he thinks being at home = tons of free time 😂. I will try to get it through to him because you’re right, this isn’t sustainable.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:41 PM
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Thank you! I’ve been thinking about this. The other moms in our homeschool co-op seem to be doing so much with their kids the same age as mine so I always feel that I’m not doing enough with them. We also have family that isn’t thrilled that we’re homeschooling so I feel pressure to make sure they’re learning so that no one can come back at us and say “see! They’re behind”. Deep down I know these thoughts and motivations are stupid but I find it hard to get past them sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:39 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind words! Wow 5 kids, congratulations! The guilt is definitely there but a huge aspect of it is that my husband is not happy with how I’m managing the household and it’s causing tension. I hope we can get to the same place you and your wife are in.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:34 PM
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Wow that sounds amazing, what a blessing! Unfortunately my husband is veryyyy big on food and very particular so the sexual attention doesn’t make up for quick dinners 😂. Thank you so much for your encouraging words ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:30 PM
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Thank you so much! Your words are very encouraging and definitely struck a cord with me as I’ve been feeling very worthless lately and like I’m not cut out to be a mom, homemaker or wife. I’m going to look into the resources you listed for the more loose routines, I think that would suit our family a little better. Thank you so so much for all of your advice! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:24 AM
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I usually wake up around 6 which is when my kids usually also get up, sometimes I have time to make my coffee before they get up. I can’t imagine waking up any earlier as I always feel exhausted as is but I might have to try if I want some time for just me lol. The co-op is parent run so I assist with the teaching in a few of the classes. I do the Bible study with the other moms upstairs while the kids do theirs downstairs. It’s great for me but obviously not a time where I can do any homemaking…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:18 AM
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When the kids go to bed, but that time is for my husband and I to connect so it feels like I never have any time that’s just “mine” if that makes any sense.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:14 AM
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They’re 4 and 2. Our co-op and Bible study have classes for 3 and under. My son (4) is able to help with easy chores and my daughter (2) tries her hardest 😅. They do play independently for small amounts of time but I usually use that time for some sort of chore that I can do a lot easier without them right there. I know I should probably use those moments to do something for myself but housework just seems to pile up so quickly I’m not even sure if it’s worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:13 AM
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Thank you! My kids are so attached to me that they literally just follow me around the house. I’m going to have to find something out of the house that I find relaxing/fun 😅
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:08 AM
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I’m a stay at home mom and I wouldn’t have it any other way, HOWEVER I think you need to make sure that you’re with the right man to do this otherwise you could end up in a very difficult situation should things go south between you two.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 12:00 AM
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Love Mrs. Midwest!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 08:04 PM
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I know she’s controversial but I like her too lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 08:04 PM
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“I’m just thirsty to be seen and heard as a person” That hit me so hard, I’m also a stay at home mom, and you have perfectly put into words what I’m feeling and made me realize that I also get incredibly frustrated when my partner doesn’t give me “enough” attention and that’s why. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 02:48 PM
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As someone else said, “the wall” is about fertility and beauty. Both decline the older a woman gets and the older the woman the more likely it is that that her N count is higher. Men are attracted to youth and fertility and most prefer women with a low N count. This is just the way it is, and being angry about it doesn’t help anyone. Does that mean if you’re 32 that you’ve “hit the wall” and will never find a traditional relationship? No - but your dating pool will be smaller as you’ll have to c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 12:12 PM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 11:48 AM
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I wouldn’t worry. He sounds like he’s genuinely into you for you and not to just be another “notch in his belt”. Clearly it has been easy for him to get with women previously so if that’s all he wanted I don’t think he would put in all the effort to date you just to get in your pants and leave lol. You seem to be very into him so as long there isn’t any red flags (which it doesn’t sound like there is)I would try not to fixate on the fact that he was a “hoe” and enjoy your relationship with him ❤…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 05:35 PM
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I know everyone has differing opinions on whether or not friends of the opposite sex is okay or not but for me personally, I wouldn’t be comfortable with it and it sounds like you’re not really comfortable with it either. I don’t think the age gap is a problem BUT the fact that he’s 36 and posting about his hook ups on social media is a big red flag in my opinion. Who does that? 😂 For those reasons, I would suggest maybe not pursuing this man because it likely will be a waste of time. Or you cou…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 05:26 PM
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I’m sorry you’re going through this! This is tough because your ideal timelines are VERY different. You want to be married in the next 2-4 years and start having kids in the next 5 and marriage and kids are not even on his radar - 10 years for marriage and longer for kids is a BIG difference from your ideal timeline. All of that aside, it sounds like you’re wanting someone that WANTS marriage and kids when you do and is EXCITED about it as opposed to someone who will just settle for those things…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 04:08 PM
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All the other “social justice” stuff aside, their clothes have been found to have really high levels of lead in them. One of the articles of clothing was a toddlers jacket that contained over 20 times the safe amount of lead. Just a heads up for anyone that would be concerned about that!
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 02:21 AM
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53 books a year! That’s incredible, I need to up my reading game.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 12:13 PM
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Like others have said I was also staunchly feminist. I never had a problem attracting men but I believed that I was entitled to commitment and adoration from them. I put walls up, was never vulnerable and always needed the upper hand in a relationship. I ended up dating betas in my teens and early 20s that would pretty much let me walk all over them. When I was 25 I met my now fiancé who was the first “alpha” I ever dated and my usual behaviour was not cutting it for him. I got pregnant just aft…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/23 03:02 AM
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I agree with another commenter that said if it’s not a hell yes then it’s a no. I can’t say what you’re experience would be but I’ll share mine: Even though I don’t have a lot of free time for myself or for my partner, my kids are my world and there’s no amount of time or fun that I would trade them for. I love them with every ounce of my being and all the “cons” are absolutely worth it for me. The first 1-2 years are hard but then it’s so much easier to get free time after that! At that age the…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/23 02:23 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 06:12 PM
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The fact that you’ve always been unsure about committing to your fiancé AND you broke things off with another man because you were afraid of things getting serious makes it seem that you have some sort of commitment issue that you really need to get to the bottom of. I also had two children with my fiancé before getting married and we also went through years of a rocky relationship. When I finally stopped blaming him for everything and really took a look at myself, my own issues and took respons…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 06:10 PM
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