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Seems familiar, she is borderline. Run. Lets say you marry her and one day she decides that you are no longer feeling her fantasy? Run.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:15 AM
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Post it here please.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:35 AM
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you are her plate. been in this situation with a girl who was depressed. She was batshit crazy. Most likely you want her more than forsex. My advice: fuck her while you can, dont get attached and move on
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:55 PM
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Yes, it is legal. She is no longer my student.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 12:19 PM
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This is the best comment in the thread. Dont ever do kegels. Do reverse kegels. Once I realized that I could last like 20 mins. And the girl was really impressed. I cannot explain but once you relax the muscles the sensation of bursting disappears. Anyhow, I tried to improve that and started also doing kegels, and situation got worse. I dont know how I did the relaxation part anymore, it is not something that I cant control.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:44 AM
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I would advise to never date a mentally unstable girl. You don't need that drama into your life. Of course, you will date such a girl because sex with her is amazing crazy. Anyhow, don't get to close to her because you will get burnt. I know this from a friend ;)
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:01 AM
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I think acting nice at first is learned from childhood when I had to behave to get something, then the guild I don't know I feel that I mislead them. How should I act?
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:18 PM
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I got your point. For letting them open emotionally and then me starting to become cold.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 03:58 PM
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I admire you if you are able to run. The sex is amazing and that keeps you coming back.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:48 PM
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you are not far from the truth. unfortunately.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:21 PM
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The real reason is that I would really wanted to be warned about dating borderline people when first met this girl. The bad thing is that you don't see it coming. First months are like heaven, and then without a warning you are thrown to hell. I don't have any fantasies of her coming back, I just want her to suffer and be rejected as she did to me.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:59 PM
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Honestly I would want her to respect me more, not the doing tinder and more sex as in the first days. Also, in theory i know i should move on. In practice is really hard though.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:13 PM
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Any advice on how to break the insecurity? Most likely having more options.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:00 PM
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Dude, go out have a walk, go to a club, have a nice beer. Try to enjoy the fireworks, maybe socialize with someone. Then get home and go to sleep.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 08:29 PM
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4 months ago
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:34 AM
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Dude, my heart hurts when writing this BUT IT'S OVER! I've been (still am?) in your situation. It is a bad idea to ever spent one second of your life thinking about her. Anyhow, since I know what you want to hear: there might be a chance to fuck her in the future, I dont advise you to do this because it will drain all energy, but here it is. Ghost her. Ar school act normal. Then go to gym and game other girls. Then on a cold november night you will ask her to hangout and you will fuck her. This …
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:46 PM
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Trying this, but always feel guilty if I don't tell them. Your advice is good, will try harder to follow it.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 01:09 PM
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I'm also asking myself this. Can't explain. I know the theory that I shouldn't talk to her anymore but couldn't do it more than 3 days. Am I better than that? I hope yes!
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:18 PM
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I really think that for a woman which has her shit together you shouldn't apply any games. Everything should come natural and if not ..next!
/r/askTRP02/04/17 09:32 AM
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You are right, still have some insecurities. I fucked her 3 weeks ago. thanks for your answers, will try to deal with my insecurities better.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:57 PM
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I was late to a meeting with some friends, and her way of smiling made me think she was waintinf for someone and it was not appropriate for me to stay around. So, I didnt give a fuck on talking to her and left.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:57 AM
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I understand what you are going through, happened to me. Let me tell you this: all this feeling will pass and you will laugh on how stupid you acted. I know that you can't yet internalize that she doesn't exist anymore. And I know that somewhere back in your heart you you want her back. Happened to me to. Maximum what you can get is to plate her. I was in your situation last summer: worst 3 months of my life. After that I started to get detached and dated other girls. In the winter I met her aga…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:13 AM
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This is a common situation.Just try not to care. Be polite and say hi if she says hi. Ignore her and her friends and keep minding your bussines and enjoy the drinks and food.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 07:42 AM
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Your lack of empathy is stunning. Thanks for posting this, it made me better understand how women are illogical. What would you do you were in his place? What would you do if your boyfriend flirts with a girl? Take this questions to have a taste of how empathy looks like. If you are a troll gou are a very smart one. Other than that wht don't you describe the whole situation and don't feed us small details here and there.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:17 PM
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Can you give screenshots?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:59 PM
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Yes, you fucked up and you should be ashamed. If someone trust you and you give him reasons to think otherwise you will never get the trust back. So move on and dont fuck it up next time. I've met a girl with similar story as you and she did fucked it up several times. AWALT :))
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:47 PM
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I also strugled with PE for as much as I can remember. What helped me was learning to be relaxed and not care much about how long I last. Magically when i stopped caring I last longer. Also I would recommend you cutting porn and masturbation. Even if you masturbate try to not cum too quickly and train yourself to be in control.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:28 PM
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She refused oral, but in our other fucks she rarely give that to me, and when it did it was lousy. I will take care to change this.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:49 AM
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dump her, after you fuck her in all her holes.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:00 PM
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I really like your reply. I think this is exactly what I want but I was miscomunicating. Thanks!
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:48 PM
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start dreading and consider yourself having more options.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:01 PM
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daily texting: hi, how are you and trying to get into girls pants but only receiving monosylable answers: k, good, you? always available for getting out when girl has no option daily liking and stalking girls social media Why do you want to know this?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:59 PM
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It seems i'm too stupid to send a PM so i will ask you here. Do you think is there a connection between childhood events and this kind of fantasy. This girl was raised by a single mom and she has a mostly absent father.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:07 AM
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Thanks! I have to admit that this fantsy sounded really sick at first.But then i convinced myself thats just a game and if she wants it why not. She told me she masturbates on artistic rape scenes :). Anyhow, thanks again for sharing. I will definitely know how to handle this in the future.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:08 PM
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we used to fuck regulary a while ago. Then I wanted a relationship, she wanted fwb so we didnt see each other for a period. Then she said she wanted to be just friends but i escalated and pushed for sex. She seems that she doesnt get wet for my D anymore, so i will hard next her.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 10:02 PM
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Man, move on. She disrespected you.You dont own her a thing.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:36 PM
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I am impressed by your message. Thanks a lot!
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:35 PM
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Maybe I failed but reading all these comments, I think it was better that I didnt push this further.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:35 PM
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Yup tried on that and it was great. Now it seems I cannot go more than 2-3 days.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:58 AM
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Will go no contact. She will initiate light contact in few days, i will keep frame then. Anyhow the best advice would be to next her.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 06:01 PM
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I know is kinda dumb. Last week she invited me out and I wasnt in town and she asked me but where i am, so i thought returning her the question wouldnt sound like guarding.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 05:36 PM
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been there. done that. it will pass :). Go through her, acknowledge your feelings, take it as an experience and move on. meanwhile fuck other girls and make sure not to repeat the same mistakes.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 10:03 PM
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I always hear these advice. Dont go back with ex. This might be true, but everyone does this error. I will try to go no contact on her.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:40 PM
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Not sure if its exactly the root of all suffering but I am pretty sure that attachament from the wrong person is toxic. Also, neediness is a result of too much attachement which i figured it out is not sexy at all.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:52 PM
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How did you break up? How did you made her to come back? Just fuck her and dont give her too much of your time.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:38 AM
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I know, so will fight to never contact her. Eventually this will get easier in time.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:27 PM
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You are a piece of shit. She deserves to know who you are so she can move on with someone who respects her.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:23 PM
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You know the answer: NO. I'm in the same situation as you. I crave to contact her and invite her out. But I hope I will keep my thoughts straight go out doing sports and forget about her. I still want to fuck her one more time but this only proves my lack of options and my very low SMV. What you can do is to go out, do sports, find interesting things to do and eventually you will get over your ex. What I noticed in my life is that girls reach out to me out of nowhere when I least expect it. It;s…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 04:54 PM
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A: "You know the answer, why asking?"
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:53 PM
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Why would you shield yourself from the truth? If his wife is cheating on him, he should take every step possible to try to prove it. Are you just reading what I've adviced him? I told him to check her online activity and to get evidence without her noticing that. Confronting her about the t-shirt is a bad thing, because she will lie him in the face and will turn this against him. I'm pretty sure she's cheating or at least planning to cheat.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:23 PM
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How do you fuck for an hour? Just curios? Is PIV for an hour, or this includes prelude etc? I have PE and can no go longer than 1-2 minutes.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:34 PM
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Why do you think I treat everyone the same? Everyone is free to do what they feel good for them. I only pointed out that I dont think abundent masurbation is normal.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:29 PM
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Dont go nuclear on this. Go improve yourself, eat healthy, keep yourself options open with other girls. Being married and having a kid puts you in a delicate situation. If you think you are mentally prepared for this check her online activity without her noticing and play it cool. If she already cheated on you i am afraid your marriage is over.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:04 PM
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Its healthy if you can control it. Not sure its healthy to always think about sex and jerk off 5-7 times a day like me. Trying to stop and regain control over my body
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:01 PM
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Screwed around 10 girls. I always told them what i feel. I got hurt sometimes because oneitis but thats most likely my fault i crossed the bounaries. I tried never to hurt a woman, because I really think we can have a good time without the need of pain. If you ask me if a woman got hurt in a relationship with me the answer is YES but that was because of her crossing the boundaries, not my problem or fault.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:52 PM
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Why do you want to hurt a woman? You openly make your intentions known and if she gets hurt is her problem. Do you ever think that she apologize when she disrespects you or branch swings?
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:11 PM
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Having daddy issues your lack of clicking is normal. The fact you realized this solves half of your problem. Try to find a reliable blue pillar with potential. Open up to him and eventually you will click. Then use your seduction force to make him an alpha.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 11:24 AM
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She doesnt see you as LTR. Happened to me. Keep your options open, date other girls. If she comes back to you enjoy fucking her, act as you have a life.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 11:19 AM
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Its very easy. JUST ASK THEM OUT. Have some practice with all kind of girls, dont be afraid of rejection. I talk with girls of your age and all tell me that they are frustrated because boys of your age dont have the gut to invite them out.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 06:05 PM
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Lets hangout.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 06:59 AM
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I know the temptation is big and you will think that you will regret saying no. But trust me saying no is the best thing to do in order to increase your self esteem and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:21 AM
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Apply dread, go out with other women. She is not LTR material. Fuck her good, dont get oneitis, in max 3 months she will fuck other guys.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:54 AM
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dont bring it up. in few days set another date and fuck her. dont enter her frame.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:27 PM
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Don't do that bro. She isn't worth it. Go for a walk, talk to someone. I had this thoughts long ago but I figured out that she's not worth it. Guess what? Now she's nothing for me, I don't even find her attractive or worth talking to ther. >:D<
/r/askTRP13/08/16 07:05 PM
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forget about the girls for 3 months. work on self improvement. go to the gym, run, swim, stop fapping.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:25 PM
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I understand is hard for you not to think on fucking her, but you must realize that you are wasting lots of your time chasing her. Just next her, date other girls. If she wants to fuck she will let you know. TRP theory is very simple, but the exact problem is putting it in practice.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:02 PM
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take a 1 month break from this. You had this goal for a long time and you can still have it, but allow you 1 month to have another goal and see what happens.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 09:02 AM
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stop masturnation for 3 months, it works. see r/nofap
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:46 AM
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This is very simple. What will you do if you find out she cheated on you?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:06 AM
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Yes for 90 days and it was the hardest thing Ive done. My sense gone through the roof, my confidence was unbelivable, I had an unusual attractivity to the girls. Unfortunatly relapsed and now I cant get more than a week. BUT I WILL BE BACK.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:21 PM
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Funny, I can cum in 10 seconds, I have PE. Dont know how o fix it :(. My best advice dont worry try to enjoy the moment.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 01:32 PM
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The latter, she enjoys partying :). Also she told me that she doesnt usually likes alcohol but the feeling she gets after drinking. Anyhow, I will stop caring about her she definitely has some issues and I dont want to deal with them
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:14 AM
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Yes. She said she cannot relax without the alcohol :(. I said wtf? And she asked me not to be judgemental about her. It is too bad because i really like her :(
/r/askTRP03/05/16 07:41 AM
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That's my plan. Will try to also fuck her somehow. "The talk" was surprisingly different from these kind of talks with other girls where I literally begged girls to go back with our sex :).This time I really didn't care :). Anyway, thanks for reply!
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:43 PM
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0 x 2/3 = 0. This is interesting, no more Mr. Nice Guy 0.666
/r/askTRP03/04/16 12:57 PM
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I guess you are right with girls. Anyhow I've noticed they are appreciated at work
/r/askTRP02/04/16 08:18 PM
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What is 2/3rds rule?
/r/askTRP02/04/16 08:16 PM
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thanks a lot for your answer. what should I do now to regain the frame? Anyhow, I do really think that she has some deep mental problems. :))
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:42 AM
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What do you mean by that? :) Should I want less from here or should I go out with other girls? :D
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:33 AM
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The question is do you like your job? If yes stay with it. You can tell girls that you are janitor, they wouldn't care if you are fun and make them feel good.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 08:59 AM
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Stop fapping for a while and you will notice the difference.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:16 AM
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Please tell me what i'm ignoring! You are most likely true.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 10:44 PM
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I think I'm alpha material with not giving a fuck issues. And that's because I care about people. Let's hope this girl will realize soon enough before she can be hurt. Thanks a lot mate!
/r/askTRP24/03/16 09:17 PM
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How does an alpha male acts in regards with money?
/r/askTRP24/03/16 09:09 PM
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What does it means spend on her? We usually go to very expensive restaurants 3-4 times per week but every other time she insists to pay everything. Does this matter? I don't think money are involved in this.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 08:57 PM
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Hah :)). I understand. Because I want to make her my LTR I will wait for a little bit before going beta fuck. Once I will go beta fuck I will not care that much about her. I do have another girl who I could easily fuck, but I don't want this to be my purpose in life. It is super easy to fuck someone who you don't care about, it's infinitely harder to keep someone you like beside you. Later edit: beta fuck is not good! :))
/r/askTRP24/03/16 08:46 PM
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You are right, I should probably do this. But I care about her and I think I like her. I'm annoyed about her misdoings in the past. I'm thinking that she could do the same in the future. And also because I want this to last forever. But again, you are right and I'll try to enjoy the moment without getting to much worries. If only I could knew how not to care. I think once I do not care about something, I will never be able to care about her back. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP24/03/16 08:37 PM
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