rydogs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
61	Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned?	Field Report	rydogs	/r/seduction	16/05/24 06:13 AM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out?	Inner Game	rydogs	/r/seduction	21/04/24 12:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned? Ha okay my bad, change in tone got me. You did give a lot of direct advice that I can try, sorry I’m an idiot	/r/seduction	16/05/24 07:26 AM
2	Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned? Lol chill man just tell me what you would do in the situation, actions/words wise. There’s not a lot to read between the lines “stop being a pussy” besides just being a dick. Plenty of scared dudes on this sub, it’d be nice to share how you show women you’re a real man with a real dick arghh	/r/seduction	16/05/24 07:19 AM
3	Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned? Lol hey I’m open to all advice but give me something besides whip my big ole balls out and show her what’s what…	/r/seduction	16/05/24 07:11 AM
2	Need advice. Regret and being bold I have so many more regrets about not trying or sharing my feelings than getting rejected. Actually, listen to this Garfunkel and Oates song, it’s funny and kind of sad but does a great job explaining this kind of thing: https://youtu.be/m_JI5cqakIU?si=AROf5R7uizsg35PI	/r/seduction	16/05/24 06:50 AM
3	Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned? This is honestly my favorite option, think I’ve just been ghosted after too many random dating app first dates that I’m shell shocked into thinking bad date/rejection = gone forever. But you’re right there should be a space where she says no not interested in a relationship but we can still be friends.	/r/seduction	16/05/24 06:46 AM
6	Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned? That’s a really good point, I’d completely be down for just having a friend close by to do things with. Like almost equally okay with that outcome, but here I am in the seduction subreddit so obviously there’s a preferred direction…Honestly I think at the end of the day it’s just me being scared that if we go on a date and it doesn’t go well, I lose this cool social opportunity that randomly came up. I guess I should just “read the room” and go from there. Thanks for the advice!	/r/seduction	16/05/24 06:40 AM
5	First time dating in the US, but a second date never happens. What am I doing wrong? Ha you’re getting the hugs already though! Going for the kiss at the end of the date is totally normal, if they don’t want to kiss you they won’t lol I swear I clicked on the thread bc I also have trouble with second dates, but the kissing at the end part stood out bc that’s something I was super insecure about and now kind of just go for.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 01:21 PM
5	First time dating in the US, but a second date never happens. What am I doing wrong? Go for the kiss when you say goodbye. I often have the same problem as you but as for just kissing/making out on the first date I think just go for it.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 12:15 PM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? Just did a quick google and it seems this could really help, thanks!	/r/seduction	22/04/24 03:16 AM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? I feel like if they agreed to something this direct it would be easier lol but it always feels like this game of push and pull (like some others said, making an excuse like seeing a pet or watch a movie when the girl obviously knows what you’re doing) If I had confidence to be this direct I do think it would help	/r/seduction	21/04/24 09:04 PM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? Hah my cat has helped a few times but even then we usually end up making out, and either she’ll leave or we’ll literally sleep together if she lives far lol this is usually accompanied by the classic “I don’t do this on first dates/when I just met someone.” Maybe my cute cat just steals the show..	/r/seduction	21/04/24 09:02 PM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? This comes across so wise lol what do you mean by passing her tests though?	/r/seduction	21/04/24 09:00 PM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? This one I actually really like. I think I get in my head and rush things sometimes, which could obviously be a huge turn off. I’d love to not have to feel like the “initiator.”	/r/seduction	21/04/24 08:59 PM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? Ha I do have a cat and I’ve definitely used that before, once they’re up here I usually can make a move but most of the girls don’t want to go past 2nd/3rd base lol honestly I’m just jealous of my friends male and female who go on dates where it seems just assumed that sex is implied after like 2-3 (sometimes 1) date.	/r/seduction	21/04/24 08:57 PM
1	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out? Yea the 1-2 times I actually did this I have ended up bringing them up to the apt (or just to my car). But after that is where I lose them, so I’ve always thought maybe it’s just a sexual thing where I can’t or am not good enough to proceed from a make out, like I can’t turn them on enough for them to keep going. It gets to maybe like “hand stuff” a few times but gd I’m 30 can’t believe I even wrote that lol	/r/seduction	21/04/24 08:54 PM