How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out?

OnMyWay4545 · 2024-04-21T12:08:05+00:00

Invite her over or to a place close to your apt

mabden · 2024-04-22T02:25:51+00:00

Check out the DeCarlo Escalation Ladder.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-21T16:26:43+00:00

Stop giving too much away too easily. Kiss them on the lips a bit then pull back. Later on, you may make out with tongue, but again pull back. Leave them wanting more. Don't push for sex, they will initiate it eventually. Just make them feel comfortable with you.

Quitmyjobss · 2024-04-21T19:47:13+00:00

Comfort gets you laid. Isolate her and escalate. Pass her shit tests and assure her.

DaygameCode · 2024-04-21T13:57:09+00:00

Solution is simple:

Invite her to see your pet at your place. Don’t have a pet? Adopt a pet.

Alternatively: Invite her to have dinner at your place. Tell her about how savoury, and exquisite your food is.

unswunghero · 2024-04-21T15:26:27+00:00

"Hey do you like wine?".."Yes why".."I've got a bottle at my place we could go back instead of staying here."

"Do you want to get out of here? Let's go back to my place."

unswunghero · 2024-04-21T22:19:06+00:00

I'm getting a feeling it's a combination of you not being direct enough and you not being competent enough physically.

You'll get more sex by directly asking a girl who doesn't even know your name to go home with you than you will waiting for a woman to initiate sex. Not that they never will imitate sex but they're more likely to follow a man who is direct than initiate sex.

But when a girl goes back to your place with the intention of fucking, there is always a 50% chance you won't have sex. That happens when you so not turn her on properly (do not know what your doing, seem inexperienced) and/or try to rush this. If you are making out, follow her style. Then to escalate physically, you start with her face and head, touching very lightly, hold her chin, trace her jawline, fingers in her hair. Again touching very lightly. Notice what you do with your hands that makes her kiss more passionately. Move to her neck, trace her collar bone, arms, upper back (continue touching her face and head) -- repeat the same process. Now start applying more pressure, squeezing a little more on her jaw or back or back of her head, lightly putting your whole hand on her throat. Keep constant vigilance of what makes her breath heavier, kiss more passionately, do it more. Move to her legs and lower back. At this point you should move your hand to her upper chest and see how she responds, and if positively then you can go for the boobs. Now you have to be verbally direct again, "let's go to the bedroom, take this off, take that off, take these off" with a couple minutes between clothing pieces.

Dandys3107 · 2024-04-22T10:06:46+00:00

You need to keep increasing intimacy and comfort, both in mental and physical dimension. Show your attractive sexual features and traits, find some private place where you can escalate further.

Title	How to Escalate Things Beyond a Make-Out?
Author	rydogs
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	April 21, 2024 12:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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