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| 16 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had? | Outer Game | rzerx | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 09:50 PM |
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| 20 | How are you navigating the insanely flaky nature of the dating scene right now?Girls showing high interest then disappearing, You ain't the only one dude. As I mentioned in a couple of posts, I know a friend who's good with females, one of those alpha mofos who makes a girl feel secure. Was hanging out with him and he interacted with a girl. Interaction went butter smooth, connected with her on a deep level. After this he never heard from the bitch again. No calls, text, nothing. True story. This is why I tell guys OVER AND OVER AGAIN NOT TO GO OUT WITH AMERICAN GIRLS. I c… | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells me goodmorning or goodnight everyday should I be saying it back when I’m not taking her seriously?Good. As long as you know that you understand. You're right, women are weird. My friend who met a women connected with her big time was one of the best interactions I've witnessed when we all hung out one night. What happened afterwards? She didn't respond to his text and he never ears from her again. So yeah dealing with women no matter how good or poor your game, is no guarantee you'll get her. That said, always have the mindset that you don't need any girl to ever make you happy. It's a sad r… | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Fuck the number. Dude you got to focus on the convo the way it's feeling for both of you before you ask for the number. The goal is not the number, the goal is to have a highly connecting convo. The number is just a consequence of how deep that convo went. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Need some quality wingsDamn.. I thought you meant chicken wings | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Warm up drillsYou're always ready to game no matter what you're doing or where you're at | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 03:11 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I am a loser - Have a good foundation but no gamesGiven your elite upbringing you're highway not street. You're textbook not cliff notes. You got to get "dirty" by thinking "street." Not saying you have to be a street thug or criminal. What I'm saying is, if you want to get good with girls you got to be a bit edgey, more mysterious, less direct, less goody two shoes. Hope this helps | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Confidence & Self EsteemJust approaching random girls without thinking about it | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How can I start day 1 if I'm an introvert?You need to fall before you can walk. Failure is a good teacher cuz it teaches you what you're doing right and wrong. When you're rejected enough times you'll get less and less ejection and that signals that you're making progress. Progress builds confidence making you more confident | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Handling The Psychology of RejectionYou got delete your stupid ego which is holding you back. Fear of rejection is directly connected to ego which in game prevents you from success cuz you're protecting it from rejection. Once you're at the point where rejection means nothing like it rolls off your sleeve you will talk to any female no matter who she is | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this?Everyone knows everyone in small towns whereas in big towns people are more mysterious | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:28 AM |
| 30 | What's the game plan in a night club?The game plan is to get pussy | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Unexpected escalation winsNot really. Usually if a girl is interested she'll let you know indirectly and subtley. You'll know from those cues | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:24 AM |
| 57 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?Good question. The mindset for success is you are the best out there, you got the biggest dick and you are the man women want. You got to think in terms of the best as in best in whatever makes you you as in sports, your job, hobby, etc. Women will notice this cuz they'll feel secure that you're secure with yourself as a man who doesn't waste time, works hard, is passionate and who has a world. They want someone who has a world, not someone who's part of the world. That's how they get intrigued … | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Does location matter for cold approach?It does matter. I game in NYC and can tell you I find it easier gaming in front of the mall downtown than a place like the village where you'd expect easier game which isn't the case. Have a few friends who have good results gaming in coney island but a few other friends report 0 results there. So location is important given the kind of people, demographics, neighborhood, language and culture. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Tip for newbies - go the online route firstCrazy faxx | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 09:53 PM |
| 6 | Tip for newbies - go the online route firstYou don't get it. Meeting girls from sitting behind a computer doesn't grow balls. Be a real man by going out in public and approaching girls face to face. That's how you really get good with game as it has always been for centuries | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Moving forward after the first interactionI'd say looks like she's interested. But there are some females who will ask for your IG mid convo and never will respond. They ask for it 1st not cuz of interest but to get it out of the way. Doesn't happen a lot but it can happen | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 11:02 AM |
| 33 | Tip for newbies - go the online route firstHell the fuck no! I never went online for pussy cuz all my game was done on the sidewalk. That online shit is really fuckin lame cuz the best and only way to build confidence and inner game is directly approaching females, not being a keyboard warrior. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 10:57 AM |
| 0 | Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what?Seriously at school? Don't game at your school. Also you got to stand out in your personality, be less boyish and a bit more manly, let girls see you take charge. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 10:53 AM |
| 2 | If a girl tells me goodmorning or goodnight everyday should I be saying it back when I’m not taking her seriously?You got to delete that fear, it's pussy. Work on your confidence in any way you can. Remember, confidence is language women understand. Fear is gibberish to them | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | If a girl tells me goodmorning or goodnight everyday should I be saying it back when I’m not taking her seriously?Nice guys finish last | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 07:39 AM |
| 2 | If a girl tells me goodmorning or goodnight everyday should I be saying it back when I’m not taking her seriously?Tf ?? | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 07:39 AM |
| 3 | If a girl tells me goodmorning or goodnight everyday should I be saying it back when I’m not taking her seriously?Just say how you feel. Don't try to 2nd guess people and just do you | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a reviewYou are being a troll when you've never lived in Mexico as I have, then agree with me in one comment then disagree in another which violates sub rules as it signals troll behavior. Everyone knows euros and even Canadians are called gringos but you'd never know. Go to another forum and troll there, we don't need it here | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:35 PM |
| -1 | Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a reviewDude if you're gonna go back and forth, agree and disagree, we don't need that shit here. Don't troll | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a reviewExactly, gringo now has expanded beyond American borders. It's even used to describe Canadian tourists. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:24 PM |
| -1 | Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a reviewGringo has expanded into European not American only | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 07:47 PM |
| 0 | I suck at attractingLooks will only take you so far amigo. They help don't get me wrong, but they won't do all the gaming for you under any real with any female if that's all you got to offer them. That's where all that verbal game has to come in cuz females are more impressed with what you say than how you look. Looks won't pay the rent. Females want a man who can provide and protect. Ever notice that there are ugly ass mofos out there who get Fina ass women? That's cuz they offer something far more valuable than … | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | personality?This is a weird ass post. Since when do females post desperation on a seduction sub made exclusively for men? Wtf? | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 02:52 PM |
| -5 | Getting a fwb through cold approach?What you're doing is fuckboy shit by misleading females. I think you feel bad about yourself in manipulating girls and this is your way to vent it out so you don't feel guilty about your unethical motives | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a reviewSome things about your "trips" to latam don't seem right. Are you sure you actually went there? You said women in Mexico were "gringo crazy" which living there myself for a time is not true. The women there don't fall head over heels for any gringo, especially American gringos. They mostly like their own kind. Then you said "a lot" of Argentines are of European extraction when in fact the grand majority are European and many regions are all European, not "a lot" of them. So I don't know what you… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 02:45 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop being a pu**y?Inner game problem. Work on your cobudence | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Is jealous really that effective on women?Same thing happens to men. It goes both ways | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why self improvement won't solve your dating problemsYou don't understand how self-improvement helps guys attract girls. Self-improvement whether it's getting fitter, losing weight, buying nice clothes, getting a good hairstyle, buying stylish shoes all makes you stand out from the rest of the crowd which elevates your game. A woman is going to be attracted to a Brad Pitt looking mofo with cool hair, nice threads and a six pack not a Jack Black bum who's chubby with wirey hair, has stains on his $2 shirt and wears clogs. Huge difference. Women not… | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Going to try and do some approaches and see if i can get numbersYou clearly don't know game. And you typing a long laundry list of issues in your life. You don't get girls and you talk too much like a girl. It's fuckin creepy. Yo relax. You doing too much | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Going to try and do some approaches and see if i can get numbersYou sought advice before. You doing too extra trying to qualify yourself to a stranger on reddit like you're proving something which is approval seeking shit making you look worse. Like I said you're not getting results with women being desperate and they sense your desperation cuz instead you're not having fun with them as they back off. They feel pressured cuz they know you want their pussy and nothing else. Real playas hang back and relax to let chicks come to them. I don't click links on red… | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Going to try and do some approaches and see if i can get numbersAnd that's why you're on this sub striking out with girls and seeking advice. Women sense your desperation and shoo away from you. It happens cuz you approach girls with the mindset of wanting a gf or wanting sex instead of having fun and giving them a chance to enjoy your company without pressure. But go ahead and type long novels of paragraphs on the sub if that makes you feel better. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 06:39 PM |
| 8 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?The hell are you talking about | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Why do some girls don't see men serious? Not dating wise (Descr)Exactly | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy?You're too focused on women and not on the concert which women there will notice like you'll stick out like a sore thumb. Just focus on having fun at the concert with the afterthought of talking to a few. That way youre not under pressure and neither will the girls be | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Going to try and do some approaches and see if i can get numbersJust have fun with the mindset of not getting girls. Getting girls is just an outcome not the goal, if that makes sense | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Why do some girls don't see men serious? Not dating wise (Descr)It's how they see you and place you in their social strata. What you do is you build value for yourself but don't seek their approval. If you do seek approval you're not building your value, you're building theirs. Build your value without any attachments to them and keep it moving. Eventually they will take notice and will bump you up in perceived value. But again if you want that to happen you don't build up for them, do it for you exclusively. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:05 PM |
| 0 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?Downvoting this shit | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:58 PM |
| 6 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?You don't need a boner when approaching any girl | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym?Don't do anything. Let her reject them. I you intervene like some macho man you're gonna look try hard and stupid in your gf's eyes | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:56 PM |
| 3 | What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym?Faxx | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | This is all you need.You don't know ways to get pussy but are defending an outdated tactic only newbies use since women see right through it as it's been done to them for many years when experienced guys never use it instead they use far better tactics to exude faster escalation that leads better into sex. Palm reading is such an old trick that's been used by so many guys for more than 20 years that women get so frustrated when guys pull it on them they get turned off by it at which point you lose them before you ge… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | This is all you need.It doesn't matter any way you do it its still creepy since many women have been catching on to it with so many guys doing it on them for many yeara. I know friends who got called out on by women who said they had their palm read several times before. They never saw the women again afterwards. This palm reading is sn old hat trick that many guy's have been using on women for the past 20 years. It's not new at all. It's completely outdated and is creepy | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Losing confidence after a bad night outIt's tough brova, I ain't gonna lie, not matter how good anyone is approaching women. What's fucked up about game is you can have the best night out, approach the baddest bitch, take her out same day you meet her to a club or bar, connect with her deeply and when you text her days later you find she doesn't reply at all. That's game life. At the sane time don't let any bitch derail you from yourself, real talk. Your purpose in life is not a woman. Your purpose in life is to make yourself happy a… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | What questions can I ask girls when approaching?Concentrate more on inner game, worry less on openers and ice breakers since it's not what you say it's how you say it when if you feel good the woman you talk to will feel good also. Focusing on openers distracts you from the underlying problem of confidence. I learned that when you have crazy confidence, outer game just flows out on key and naturally to the point where you don't need openers. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:16 AM |
| 0 | What do you guys do when you feel hopeless and giving up?Faxx | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to completely cut off online dating ?Never settle for what's not working and try other options cuz if you stick with an area that's not givung you results it's not worth pursuing anymore. Cold approaches to me work cuz I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not online and I don't have to worry about being catfished either. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:08 AM |
| 2 | This is all you need.Palm reading is creepy now cuz so many guys are using it on women and they're catching on to it | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:03 AM |
| 1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.It’s not your life, it’s his? Exactly! It's his life not mine or yours. Dayumm | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:15 PM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.Smfh 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Ignorance is bliss 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.Yes you did say he was an asshole ya fuckin idiot. Ans you made it seem the meeting went bad. Your assumptions aren't assumptions there facts. You're a fuckin weirdo | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Smh @ ignorance 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.You the one upset talking about my friend is an asshole when you don't know who tf he is. Interaction between him and her was good, I was there you weren't. Since you know him, tell us his name then. You never had to reject any fine girls cuz you never went out with any. And it shows | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.What tf you talking about?. I do know cuz I see it all the time downtown. My friend is no asshole, he made this girl feel good had cool convo, I was there you weren't. You don't understand cuz you weren't there and you don't know my friend. Fuck wrong wit you | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)It's happened before and it's been happening with colleges tightening security on campus. Go complain at the colleges | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:18 PM |
| -1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.You have to understand, a lot of times dudes do go out but they unfortunately return home empty handed despite the planned tactics, openers and strategies cuz females ain't biting which makes it even more tough to understand why they're failing. When they get home they're displeased, dissatisfied and disappointed in having no results to the extent that they go online on this sub to find out what the fuck theyre doing wrong. In some cases it's them with like theyr inner game confidence issues or … | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 4 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.You you didn't | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaJust leave | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)You gotta be careful doing that especially if you don't go to that college specifically because campuses have watch patrol made up of students and paid security. Last thing you want is to be scoped out as a creep on campus. Lots of campuses are vigilant nowadays given past issues with psychos over the years. If it weren't for that I'd say go do it. | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had?I know. It's the type of strange mystical shit I wish someone would explain how it works | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?Cool !! | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had?Sounds like an interesting story. But why did she cut tings off if things were going very well while you 2 were having a great interaction? | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had?Hahahahaaaaa | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had?So I resolved to go out with the intent to just relax and have fun and not focus on women at all. The second I let go of the outcome and all the neediness that is associated with it, it’s like all the women in the world wanted me. That's it. That's how it works. It's strange cuz similarly it happens when you're looking for a job no one wants to hire you. The minute you land a job though everyone starts calling you for a job interview. Strange shit | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had?Faxx lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What Was the Best Pickup You Ever Had?Lmaooooooooo | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Long game at the clubDepends | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Books like the gameAgain? | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?You can pump the energy up by doing affirmations which helps big time. Also try doing the mirror technique where you stand in front of a mirror and say affirmations to yourself. That has helped a lot of people | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Books like the gameYeah definitely tell that to your left palm | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How important openers are?Openers are old school tactics that in some cases they work in others they don't it really depends on the situation, girl and how you vibing deep down which helps. When you use them you got to make sure they are intriguing and definitely don't use old recycled shit cuz they've already been used on women over and over for years like the who cheats more opener. Definitely don't use that in the field. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:40 PM |
| 8 | Do women sometimes purposely bend over to grab someone's attention?Hell yeah they know what they doing. In many cases they do it for attention cuz attention is power since it drives them to feel good about themselves at least sexually. It's a power thing to them. Attention = power | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Books like the gameWomen already know the old school stuff cuz its been used too mant times on them. It's outdated | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Why are so many guys putting looks on piedestal?Your CPU isn't computing. You got the blue screen of death | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Books like the gameOk dude | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Books like the gameRead the OP.. Smh | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | talking to a girl she tells me she's not sure if she should go on a date with another guySounds like she was testing you to see your reaction, so that being the case the best thing you should do do is not care what she does. You should've told her that she should do whatever she wants and go with the other guy. But make sure you don't get upset about it as you say this, be very chill about it like shrugging it off as nothing. That way she would think about you even more and not go with the other guy. Reverse psychology works. Once you let go of any emotional attachments with a girl … | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:23 AM |
| -1 | Books like the gameThat book is old like 20 years. It's outdated. There are far more updated tactics out there. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:09 AM |
| 18 | Are girls turned off if you don’t escalate to sex on first date?It depends on the woman since every woman is different with a set of different expectations about the person she's with on a date which in most cases doesn't necessarily lead to sex but an exploration. That girl you made out with pulled back from you when you tried to kiss her a 2nd time cuz her bitch shield warned her not to make herself look too available, cheap and a hoe. That was her warning light to stop you and her to take advantage of the situation too early. Girls will do that. They're h… | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome approach anxiety?Actually you'd be very surprised | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Advise about breaking the touch barrierThe problem with palm reading is so many guys are doing it that girls catch on to this game to the point where women feel played as this ends up going nowhere. When I was downtown I saw a dude pull this trick on a girl who kept rolling her eyes up when he wasn't looking which signaled she knew this gamey tactic had been used on her one too many times. The result was she left. You got to be original you can't be using old tricks like palm reading to get you the pussy cuz they've been used on fema… | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome approach anxiety?Even level 9 is hard even for guys who are really good | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself.Faxx | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself"Damn.. that's deep bro. I'm gonna steel that one from you. Good saying brova. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself"Yo what you said is true crazy faxx playa cuz many times dudes don't realize that rejection lives in the mind only if they let it affect them which its not supposed to if they're strong enough not to let it evolve as a fear response to dictate the direction of their lives. I know dudes who brush rejection off like air and quickly go on to the next chick. Those dudes have inner game cuz nothing even rejection from any bitch won't let them affect them or their life. Cool response you gave | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:26 PM |
| 0 | "Just be yourself"Keep harassing and trolling Travis. More power for me | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself"Dude you getting mad and you trolling and I don't give a fuck what you say. Fuck what you got to say. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:00 PM |
| -1 | "Just be yourself"You don't put on an act cuz you dot know how to. That's why you get 0 pussy. You come home from females rejecting you and come on this sub to troll people who know how to bag females. No girl talks to nice little gentlemen girls like you cuz no woman likes nice guys. I bet you got no job and mommy pays for your cell, rent and pornhub. Learn to be a real man instead of a troll | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself"I wouldn't say it's fake cuz you takin on a new person and crystallizing it to fit into your person. If that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 09:24 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself"if you can believe something so strongly that you basically hardwire it into your psyche like that, can't you do the same Yeah true dat. That's why if that technique doesn't work for you it ain't for you. Lots of times I see dudes shaking when they approach girls and they just mess it up.. Lol. You got to relax and chill. It's not hard going up to females to just say 'hi how you doing this evening' in a relaxed, manly manner. In many cases you do that they'll open you. Lol. If you can't project … | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:59 PM |
| -1 | "Just be yourself"Yo fuck outta here with your hate. You must be some nerd who neva leaves mommy's house to bag bitches cuz he's too afraid to approach like a real dude with testicles. Livin in the burbs with mom and dad. You don't know how to put on an act and have females come to you or have long convos with them to make them feel good cuz you on the sub every day posting how to bag girls cuz you don't know how to. You be a gentleman pussy all you want waiting on girls to call you, holding little doors for them… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | MILF/Cougar bar in NYC?You welcomes | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 05:23 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself"Don't know about you but in my experience once you feel an internal empowerment by acting differently it comes across naturally and women feel and are attracted to that. The trick to it is to feel that that new persona is you, the new you. But you got to feel it, you can't put on an act | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it more beneficial to be serious?You can be light hearted, in a good mood and masculine all at the time. Women are sexually attracted to the masculine side of things. They feel a connection with the light hearted side. That's how I see it | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:54 PM |
| 5 | "Just be yourself"just feel something is not authentic, and that puts them off on a sub conscious level. Yeah that very true. But in my experience you can actually pull off being someone you're not by really believing you're that other person. If you believe and internalize that then they'll believe it too. That's helped me big time in getting pussy. And it works cuz it empowers you and whatever empowers you internally so that women will feel that empowerment too. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 5 | "Just be yourself"What almost no one says is "improve yourself and then showcase the better version of yourself". That's faxx and I agree. I said somewhere on this thread that you almost have to be an actor to get what you want. If improving means to be that actor and it works to get you pussy as it does in many cases then do it. It's crazy that in many cases we have to be someone we're not in order to get something out of others. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:38 PM |
| 0 | "Just be yourself"The "be yourself' advice has left men damaged and alone. Just like the line that "you can be anything you want in life" bullshit. Like if you believe these hippy lies you're gonna be disappointed. To succeed with bitches nowadays you have to almost be someone else. You got to take on a different persona and act somewhat differently. You got to be an actor, you got to put on an act. This is why you can't be yourself. And I blame bitches for this cuz they make us put on layers of disguise. I know … | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself"Faxx. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How much of dating is really a choice?A movie quote proves destiny exists. Ok forest lol | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:10 AM |
| 0 | MILF/Cougar bar in NYC?I seen lots of cougars in bars in Greenwich village. I don't know exactly the name of the bars they hang out at but go look in east village. I've seen some fine ass foxes in their 50s and a few in their 60s that look better than many 30 year olds. Crazy but true on the real. Edit: I remember the Red Lion in the village has several cougars. Also check out some comedy clubs in the area. A lot of them flock to those too | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | MILF/Cougar bar in NYC?Actually he is finding God by finding a woman to fulfill the divine order to be "fruitful and multiply." You're in the wrong reddit, brova in christ. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:00 AM |
| 4 | How much of dating is really a choice?Dude there's no destiny if that's what you're implying in asking. There's attraction that I believe exist in the universe which I'm not getting into but I'll quickly say it refers to mutual influences. Anyway you have free will to get to know anyone you want. If they like you back there's connection. If not then move on | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 11:57 PM |
| 7 | How much of dating is really a choice?Good point | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?You serious?? She didn't respect him to let him know she wasn't coming. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 11:54 PM |
| 15 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?It doesn't matter if you come across butt hurt or not cuz she's not interested. The bitch didn't text to let you that she couldn't come knowing the date and time of this date. She doesn't care about you enough to have the courtesy to do that. These kids nds of bitches are indecisive in life and come up with excuses all the time. Just ignore her to show yourself you're a man of value and respect. Fuck this bitch and move on. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 11:53 PM |
| 0 | How to seduce men who are on the autistic spectrum?Wtf?? I'm outta here | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice :girl asked me to stay away from herDude you don't want the law knocking on your door with an arrest for harassment. Unfortunately we live in a society where women get away with anything including getting your ass behind bars. It's a fucked society not without consequences. Forget this bitch and focus on others. I promise you on my life you'll find 1000s of women 300% finer than this idiot. You don't need a rap sheet following the rest of your life unnecessarily. Trust me this stupid bitch ain't worth your time | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:01 AM |
| 6 | Seeking advice :girl asked me to stay away from herIt doesn't matter. He should stay away from her | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else ever get stares while on a date?Seen that once and nothing dramatic happened. It's not something that happens on the regular. So when a sista comes around with a white dude it's nothing cuz they don't feel threatened | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:44 PM |
| 3 | I've come to the conclusion some guys go out solely for the purpose of cockblocking.Truth be told that's what happens in clubs in Turkey. As soon as European guys start talking or dancing with Turkish women the Turkish goons will come out of nowhere and cockblock them. Happens in all the clubs there | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?What I mean is, your attitude should be about having fun. Show yourself a good time, don't do it for a woman's sake. With this, girls will feel no pressure when you snap a convo with them cuz they'll feel you don't have a got-to-have-a-gf agenda. They sense desperation a mile away. Be carefree, laid back, chill and have fun. That's the best formula inner game wise to get a girl. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I don't click links on here. But anyway you're overthinking things again. There's no need to prove yourself. You got to stop at some point in overanalyzing girls and situations. If you want to be successful with women you got to chill and relax then they'll come to you easily that way. When I'm just laid back without a care in the world, girls approach me and I don't need to game them. And it's not hard either. It's easier than people think. The key is to just be laid back and relax. That way wo… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Dude dude dude dude... You're overthinking shit too much. That's how guys lose women. Stop thinking about this too much. It's not a philosophy discourse. I think you plan things out in your head right before you approach girls then lose them when they sense your nervousness. That's not how this game works. If you overthink, plan out, walk on eggshells, you will lose the girl guaranteed. Again you're overthinking shit to death instead of rolling with yourself. Be your own best friend and have fun… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Is not as easy as it looks because if the girl does not have too much energy Nah if you make it hard it will be hard. Don't know why you focusing on a female when you should be focused on yourself. I gamed women who were low energy and women who were high spirited. You putting too much emphasis on the girl and not enough on yoself. Forget that and focus on you having fun. Once you do, girls will latch on to you. This is debatable because you don't approach someone for your own fun Wrong thinking… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Yes sir it is | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 05:17 AM |
| 30 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I go to the center of my city. When I see a chick who qualifies physically I approach her to do my thing. I approach a bit aggressively but relaxed and chill to get their attention. Sometimes females are too stubborn to realize your presence. Don't come off as girlyish or soft. Present yourself in a strong and chill frame. Be that exciting dude she's never met before. If you want 6s and 7s use a soft approach. If you want 9s go for the approach I outlined. I used to do dept stores but that's les… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:03 AM |
| 1 | People who are good at cold or warm approach, how did you get better?Just keep approaching and be smooth as butter. If a girl rejects you at first play it off to see her reaction. Never be dictated by a woman's initial reaction. You can turn a no to a yes more often than you think | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37Also never allow age enslave you. Always hold your frame. Don't let negativity dictate shit. If you see a woman younger than you just approach her. You'd be surprised by how women like older guys | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37Women don't care about age as long as you make them feel like women. I've seen women in they're 30s reject younger guys and go for guys in their 50s | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Big faxx | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Hmmm i Love to seduce a Girl, especially i let her Drink tons of Vodka :PThis wrong. Call the cops | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Why don't I get horny around other people?You overthinking too much bro. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Faxx | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:49 AM |
| 82 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I never do online dating shit. I stick to the streets and game bitches right then and there. It's better that way cuz you dont have to deal with fake pics and catfishing. Females nowadays post fakeness to benefit themselves at your expense. Online is wasteful. Just go out and approach is the best way | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:48 AM |
| 11 | Anyone else ever get stares while on a date?I get stares every time I bring a white girl into my hood. The stares I get from the sistahs are murderous | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Am I being too nice?Why are w8 ppl are evil is something I can never understand | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:38 AM |
| -1 | Am I being too nice?Nah never put a number on it for the simple fact that every woman and every situation is different which requires different interactions | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Am I being too nice?Flirting does help in later stages. I say flirt but only when you're confident that doing so will get u closer to the prize | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 06:35 PM |
| 9 | Am I being too nice?Never be the nice guy. That frame never works which is a turns off. You got to work up to being a bit more aggressive in your desire for women. Women want to feel like you're no pussy and can handle pressure. The mindset is to not care about what the fuck she thinks, not just about you but about anything. If you care a bit too much about what she thinks your next move is, you're thinking way too much and way too ahead. Just let go and be a free spirit not caring about what she thinks and not car… | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Women seem into it then suddenly notcan’t really even blame women though. In most cases, you only get played because you made yourself playable. That goes for both women and life generally. In general I agree that one does play himself only if he ignores the signs of women playing games. But always remember that women are always the ones who decide to be with you or not. It's not up to us. Knowing this, women have that upper hand. In today's world unfortunately woman too often play us to fulfill their selfish benefit to ego stroke… | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Women seem into it then suddenly notYou know, if a woman really wanted to see you she would see you and not put up any excuse. I'd have more respect for a woman if she just simply said 'no' to my face than to play childish hide-and-seek games. This is why lots of guys turn on women. It's fucked up when you do all you can to look your best to please a woman only to have her ruin your plans with her with her bullshit. Experience is the best teacher. Learn to avoid these idiots and move on to the next one. Life tip: NEVER depend on a… | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Women seem into it then suddenly notJust annoyed that someone acts super interested then don’t follow up. That's their hook, that's how they reel you in. But you know better now. Look at it this way. This is her miserable life which will never add any value to her. You got a life and you want to share it with someone special. She'll end up lonely pursuing someone she'll never have while you'll end up with someone who fulfills you. It's win win for you amigo. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:53 PM |
| 14 | Women seem into it then suddenly notForget that bitch. She's a serial dater who goes around dating then ghosting guys to hype themselves up. That's her only flex in life and she gets off on it. Bitches like that turn out alone, depressed and mental. Personally I know many girls who do this. Not to go Dr. Phil on you, but they use guys to put themselves on a pedestal cuz they're fuckin insecure. Once they achieve this they no longer need you for anything else. Then they dump you only to go on to the next victim and on and on and on… | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:35 PM |
| 8 | Women seem into it then suddenly notBy serial daters it's well understood you mean hos | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | im looking for a datingcoatchHypnosis is controversial. Some say it works other's say it doesn't | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | im looking for a datingcoatchDoesn't work | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Practice Bantering with a Chatbot Girl that Could Lose InterestWrong. I said shouldn't you be getting one. Note difference. Now who's dumb. 800-BOSLEYHAIR | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Any bald men here wear hair systems? And did it improve dating?Can't get any females ^ | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Any bald men here wear hair systems? And did it improve dating?W8 ppl are weird ppl.. Smh | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:11 PM |
| -2 | Any bald men here wear hair systems? And did it improve dating?But we're you able to get fine women? | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Not having luck with British girls in Greece, advice?Why even mess with Brits considering how they look? Just hit on eastern Europeans and you'll be fine | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Practice Bantering with a Chatbot Girl that Could Lose InterestLike you have an option | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Practice Bantering with a Chatbot Girl that Could Lose InterestShouldn't u be getting a hair transplant? | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 03:33 PM |
| -1 | Practice Bantering with a Chatbot Girl that Could Lose InterestNo u not stop lying | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?Sex on the 1st date is more rare than you think. Don't aim for that, just aim to have fun. If you aim for sex on the 1st date it will likely backfire in that it'll creep out the female and you'll end up losing this her for good. Seen it a million times. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:34 PM |
| 0 | How to show interest in a guy?Yo wtf question is that?? Wtf ? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to break through playing hard to get.Lol yeah ok dude 👌 | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:35 PM |
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