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sADbOy4lYfE1990/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 09:16 PM
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And the days and days of texts I poured my heart into were ignored. Fell on deaf ears. I still have them all. Worthless and I regret rendering myself so pathetic to her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 07:35 AM
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In a world where morality meant something this would be the case bub. Just don’t underestimate what she’s willing to do to avoid her actions causing missing out on the kids lives. Cuz I promise ex wives get dirty, unrecognizable even, once you’re gone. They say they would never keep the kids from you. They will. Ahhh she’d never speak ill about me I’m their dad…. She will. Just don’t let ur guard down. These are your kids at stake here man. It’s been almost two years I’ve been divorced now, and …
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 07:32 AM
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Not sure if the judge will care why your marriage is ending. She won’t play nice and be fair with you man. I get it though, maybe you’re situation is different. I pray for you buddy. This is happening so often, and it’s sick. She will be awarded custodial parent. And you’ll be getting teased watching your kids grow with only a taste of it. Playing the long game to be that cool old dad to the early 20’s children who finally realized how important you were but it’s beyond the years when a child’s …
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 07:04 AM
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Was feeling the same. Just don’t feel now. I picked drugs back up as a means for survival. I don’t regret it. And I still cry. But I didn’t turn my 9mm into a paintbrush so I did something right
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 07:10 PM
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Indiana you don’t pay alimony ?? Just child support
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 09:43 PM
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And no. No one cares. Not really anyway. Lonely pain just consuming what’s left of who you are. My identity was being a father too. I’m still a father but my identity is in question. Idk who I am or if I even want to be anything but a father. A father isn’t a baby sitter on weekends and a weekly check.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 10:02 PM
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Made me cry not gonna lie. The truth behind knowing the pain isn’t going away. I love being a father too. It was my main motivation in life. It kept me busy and kept my head on straight. Rarely finding myself in a negative headspace and even then easily recovered from. Being a father kept me going too. But I don’t have my babies around to father anymore. I FaceTime them the one time a day their mother says I’m allowed. But they are 6 and 2. They don’t wanna be on the phone right now. And I do no…
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 09:59 PM
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I appreciate your response sir. Yes I’ve exhausted what little coverage I have on professional therapy. And with multiple therapist because I haven’t been able to respond to any therapist even when I was a child. The therapist either suggests to try another colleague or I end up seeing through a therapists’ and can tell that they aren’t hearing me and are going through the motions over and over with their paycheck in mind. Which I don’t blame them, the purpose of their occupation is to bring hom…
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 09:51 PM
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Can someone point me to a Reddit group that can help me cope with the time I’ve already lost and the implied time I’m going to miss with my children? It’s been a little over a year of only seeing them 6 times a month or so now and it’s only gotten worse. The understood disconnect that is happening between my kids and i is earth shattering. It doesn’t get any better and each day it consumes a little bit more of me. This thread is the closest I’ve found. I’m tired of feeling like this and coping i…
/r/MensRights03/03/22 08:28 PM
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