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4	RPers, what if your wife/so/partner was better at something than you?	Question For Redpill	sadsystem	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/14 05:54 AM

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5	Patriarchy vs Matriarchy Well obviously CEOs are a small percentage of the overall population. But these are the people with power. __-archies are about who has power. A patriarchy means those with power are mostly men. That's what it is. In a patriarchy, women see men as more powerful, because culture tells them that's true. In a patriarchy, men are pressured to gain power. That's why violence rates are so high among men, and why over half of all assault victims are men attacked by other men. Who is in power? Who holds…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/14 08:14 PM
3	Patriarchy vs Matriarchy I don't disagree with you. But guess who has the money, and has the power to use that money? Men. The last survey I saw done a few years ago showed that white male producers (those are the ones with money) make up 80-90% of the media ownership. That's why most females shown on the screen don't have speaking roles on TV shows (they're in the background used as props,) and why there are very few female minorities in leading, speaking roles. Women actresses for decades have been paid significantly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/14 03:47 AM
4	Patriarchy vs Matriarchy Women own less than 20% of the media industry as producers, and less than 30% of public office. Politics and the entertainment industry are run by patriarchies. Even though women may have more opportunities in entertainment, their roles are still defined by mostly male producers. And who says women are only interested in lingerie and beauty products?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/14 06:38 PM
4	Patriarchy vs Matriarchy But the rich are predominantly men, and women hold less than 30% of public office. It's a world still ruled mostly by men, and centered around men even as they try to win female votes, support, and buy-in. It's a system that still functions, albeit poorly, but it's still a system run mostly by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/14 06:37 PM
1	My GF fell in love with me as a 'bad boy'.. and obviously wants me to go 'good' now.. What values did she fall in love with to begin with, and do you still believe in those values? How can you maintain those values that you'd like to keep while "going good"? And, maybe just warn her: "Hey, going good is going to take some time and practice. It's not going to be a smooth transition at first, but we're working on it."	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/14 06:52 AM
2	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? But, generally, they're still better than most male tennis players. This is a pointless argument to entertain any further because the general average stands, the exceptions are outstanding and we live in a rational society. And in conclusion, brute strength may be the only category where the difference between men and women cannot, on average, be overcome. Everything else is adaptable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:45 PM
2	What are your thoughts on dread game? Yeah, and that means the party with the most options doesn't know what he actually wants. A person isn't a set of concrete dollar offerings. Do you think Elon Musk, Beta turned Alpha male if there ever was one, goes around shuffling his ass between several mediocre business options? No, he goes after what he wants and makes it work. Nothing I wrote contradicts what you said. But I'm making a value judgement against it. Just because I disagree doesn't mean I don't get it. I just look down on it, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:40 PM
2	RPers, what if your wife/so/partner was better at something than you? I agree with you. If I wasn't so content with being a non-"piller," I would possibly trust you to be a reasonable person to discuss RP with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:43 AM
2	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? Gotcha. With a nod towards the importance of "on average."	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:17 AM
1	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? Well, saying that would also be unethical. What I'm saying is that it's unethical to say that a man should be this way, and that a woman should be another way. Which is not what you personally are expressing in your words, but is a general attitude that perpetuates sexism against both sexes and what the general gist of what my essay, which you responded to, is about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:15 AM
0	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? Also, be careful of your language. Women will always be worse than men at sports. Women are not always worse than men at sports. Maybe as a "trend" based on average brute strength, but sports champions are made from perseverance, skill, and natural talent--not gender. e.g. Serena Williams.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:08 AM
1	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? I can accept these facts, but it's unethical to prescribe those averages to an entire population. There are trends, but these should not be seen as structured roles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 06:06 AM
3	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? tldr; Once you're aware of who you are as an individual, whether you're female or male, you can then make decisions of how you want to adapt your personality to your environment. The saddest relationships are ones where people marry each other before knowing what they truly want for themselves and their partners, because then at least one person in the partnership is forcing themselves to be something different. I'll start off by explaining (1) why I think we're transitioning away from a society…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 05:49 AM
1	All right RPers, what are women better at than men? There's no gender bias. Women and men have flaws. Individuals have strengths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 05:18 AM
1	I'm a man living with a woman who "friend-zoned" me, I love it because we're best friends. I'm smart enough not to generalize and carry on in life as a negative nancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 03:51 AM
1	I'm a man living with a woman who "friend-zoned" me, I love it because we're best friends. Is he sniffing her underwear when she's not home or something? This isn't an observation. This is, again, you negatively projecting. Your response seems to come from a fear-based perspective, instead of reading the OP with an open mind. Your responses are overwhelming cynical, not wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 03:09 AM
2	How would you feel if a woman approached you? I know you have a thing for us, but blues and purples need love to. d'aw :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 03:03 AM
2	How would you feel if a woman approached you? Yeah, and she's oozing value. Textbook Purple Pill--what they offer each other is clear cut. Complementary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 03:02 AM
2	What are your thoughts on dread game? I think dread game can definitely be emotional abuse if one partner is overwhelmingly dependent on another. Human fear is all about survival. If, as many RPers want, a woman is dependent on the RP man to fund their lifestyle together, while she maintains house, cooks, and provides value to the relationship but in a non-monetary way--the risk of her partner who she has invested in leaving threatens her entire livelihood. The RP dynamic requires the female partner to be submissive. RPers are basic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:54 AM
1	What are your thoughts on dread game? Dread game isn't just about sex though. It's emotional manipulation, even in committed relationships. I like a man who knows what he wants. A man playing dread game doesn't express that he knows what he wants. If he's saying he's looking around, I'm looking around too until I find someone who I know I'm 100% into and he's 100% into. Dread game seems like it's just used by men who are not self-aware enough to know what they want, and unsure of how to properly communicate needs and problem solve t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:40 AM
1	I'm a man living with a woman who "friend-zoned" me, I love it because we're best friends. Again, you're not being reasonable. Your responses reek of pain and cynicism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:36 AM
1	RPers, what if your wife/so/partner was better at something than you? RP male here asking for hot pics of fitness girls. A call back to their truly "beta orbiting instagram follower" insides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:34 AM
1	RPers, what if your wife/so/partner was better at something than you? Yeah, this is ideal. It looks similar to the relationships I've had anyway. I am definitely a Purple Piller (aka balanced human being.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:32 AM
1	I'm a man living with a woman who "friend-zoned" me, I love it because we're best friends. Again, negative, paranoid thinking won't get you anywhere. If they both enjoy each other's company, they're getting something out of it. OP is getting experience and some pleasant socialization. Think like the Sims. It doesn't mean she's using him. You're being emotionally reactive, hence the hyperbole of him making the female roommate and any of her lovers breakfast. That's not an observation. That's you projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:25 AM
1	RPers, what if your wife/so/partner was better at something than you? I agree with this which is why "masculine" is in "quotes" "" "" "". I'm pretty sure we're hitting a post-gender society, as Foucault would have it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/14 02:24 AM
2	The Purple pill I disagree. The men I've met who sleep around a lot often seem too emotionally damaged or immature for me to consider, even if I'm otherwise attracted to them sexually. Depending on how they talk about sex, it could signal to me difficulty being emotionally open, that they're disrespectful, or STDs. It's a red flag for me that I have to weigh along with all their other personality traits. "Alpha" men who have bed lots of women = lack of emotional discipline, imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/14 06:38 AM
2	RPers, what if your wife/so/partner was better at something than you? D'aw, they should accept one of their nice followers! Whenever they feel ready.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/14 06:34 AM
1	This is what a moderate, sane version of RP would look like There are no credible arguments for denying women the right to vote. Are you sure you're not being solipsist here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/14 05:32 AM
0	I'm a man living with a woman who "friend-zoned" me, I love it because we're best friends. Where does he say any of that? This is the type of negative, paranoid thinking that turns women off from wanting to be in a relationship with certain Red Pillers, and why RPers have failed in the past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/14 05:22 AM
1	Who, precisely, are the "bad" feminists? No, I didn't. Both genders are raped. Men are more often the raped and the rapist when including prison numbers, but women are more often the sexual assault victim in society outside of prison. These are facts. Your personal experiences are not societal. My response was fair. Your thoughtless reply honestly didn't deserve a response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/14 07:06 AM
1	Who, precisely, are the "bad" feminists? Awesome! Agreed. Most rape victims are men and the majority of rape in America happens in prison... to men. That's not exactly true. The number of sexual assault victims each year outside of the prison system is 213,000. 9/10 are women and girls. According to the NY Review of Books on the Department of Justice Reports, there a little over 110,000 victims from sexual assault occurring in prison. This number may be underreported, but it has also been adjusted--so it's probably a fair number. This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/14 10:11 AM