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Aw, thank you! Sometimes I over analyze things and my feelings. I’m with a really good man and we love each other. I think it’s unrealistic of me to expect the butterflies to last forever. I have done keto on and off for four years and recently lost 10 lbs on the diet. It’s my preferred way of eating, and now that I think of it, I felt a lot more centred and stable when I cut out sugar and carbs. I’m trying to get back on the wagon. Re: weight training, do you have any easy-to-learn, but effecti…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 07:09 PM
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Thank you for your comment. Amazing insight. Yes, I do love him, and I’m scared of a life without him. I know that if we break up, another girl will snatch him up and that will be the end of us forever. He is excited to marry and start a family with me. When I was considering a job in a very hodunk town in a very hodunk part of the country, he said he would apply to the university in that town if I were to take the job. This is big, because he is a city boy at heart and would never willingly mov…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 06:09 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:54 PM
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He has undergraduate loan debt. 40k. I didn’t pay a cent out of pocket for graduate school as my funding package was very generous. Most of the other schools I applied to offered at least half of the cost of study in the form of scholarships. We are not in the US and tuition is much cheaper. We are in the same field of study and I imagine he will be offered similar funding packages. But yeah, his 40k debt from undergrad is worrisome. I am working on losing weight. I recently lost ten pounds, but…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:49 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to reply. I was most definitely looking for advice. I do not want to break up with him, but I’m worried because this is my first ever relationship and have nothing to compare it to, and I’m unsure of whether the diehard feelings are supposed to fall by the wayside with time. I needed to hear someone tell me to tough it out and work on the relationship and myself, so thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:45 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to respond. I regret ever taking hormonal birth control. Luckily the severe depression has gone away, but it’s been 1.5 years since I’ve been off hormonal BC entirely and I still don’t feel 100% like the old me. I’ve tried some holistic methods, but I’m wary of going to the doctor because I do not want to be prescribed medication for depression.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:34 PM
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Thank you both for your posts. To clarify, the first three months of our relationship were together in the same city. Then the summer was over and I had to go back to school and we embarked on one year of long distance. During that time, he flew out to see me twice and I flight out to see him once. The second year we were in the same area (he was only about an hour’s drive away), as I moved to attend a grad school closer to him. He came over and stayed with me almost every weekend. I made the de…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:26 PM
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First of all, apologies for taking two months to reply! This is not my main Reddit account. He’s hesitant about spending a lot of money on one particular item, even if he likes it, which is why it’s a nice treat :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 07:56 AM
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I get my bf stuff he likes, but won't buy for himself: e.g. watches and sweaters and jackets from JCrew
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 10:11 PM
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no one.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 10:02 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it. My boyfriend is vastly different on the phone when he's in public/around other people compared to when he's alone. When there's people around, he's formal and sounds distant. When it's just him, he's lovey-dovey and back to his regular self. I understand though... he can't say "love you too, baby cakes" in front of his friends, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 08:12 AM
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Thank you, tempintheeastbay, for posting this article. I am the same way, but only I am a total slob privately throughout the week. Come Friday, I hurriedly clean before my boyfriend stays with me for the weekend. I am cleaner than I was a few years ago, though... boy, I hoarded crap like crazy. Then I had to move across the country for school and could only bring a few boxes. Donated and threw away everything and it felt amazing! I love the smell of Pine-Sol and the feeling of a nice, clean hou…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 05:22 AM
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My local library only has her first novel, Eating The Cheshire Cat, so I placed a hold on that. I also requested American Housewife to be ordered. I love her writing style.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 05:16 AM
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I agree! Multi-year dating makes sense when you're young and college-aged because life is kind of transient, e.g. travelling, or a year-long study abroad, or interning for the summer in a new city. Plus there's moving away for grad school or your first "real" job post-graduation, so temporary LDRs are pretty common. Those in their late 20s and early 30s have generally settled in their city of choice and have permanent, stable employment. It's amazing what a) being permanently in the same city an…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 04:39 AM
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I don't think my boyfriend even knows what "red pill" means, save for the Matrix or something. I've been on the RP subreddit before and I probably wouldn't date 99% of the guys on there. Way too much vitriol for my taste and you can only read the words 'cum dumpster' so many times. Anyways, I sought out for a strong, masculine man who encourages me to be my best and cares for me... and got one :) Our relationship is pretty traditional as well.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 04:21 AM
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health and fitness do Jillian Michaels four times a week... the workouts, I mean! ;) lose seven pounds (5 doesn't sound ambitious enough and 10 is downright scary) professional work on my thesis for at least two hours every day... grad school is a pain begin researching for employment beginning in September boyfriend and food category (the best category in my opinion...) bake a homemade chocolate cake completely from scratch for my boyfriend just because make cinnamon bun pancakes for our cheat …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 06:36 AM
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I was in a LDR for one year with my boyfriend, so I totally understand what you're going through! The long distance part of our relationship ended when I moved across the country for graduate school, just an hour's drive from where he lives. But he flew & visited me a few times during that one year. Does he have any favourite foods? My boyfriend enjoys chocolate cake for dessert, so I made it completely from scratch, even the buttercream frosting for the first night he arrived. He loved it. I th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 05:10 AM
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Eh, not a fan of this article tbh. While I positively abhor the overt left-wing, feminist culture that has managed to sweep my college campus by storm, I still don't regret going. It was facing these kinds of people (and these kinds of young women) that helped solidify the many (RP) positions I hold today. I studied economics. I took a women in the economy seminar with a pretty renowned economist and learned a lot of neat things. For example, educated (and wealthy) men in North America today OVE…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/16 05:45 AM
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I'm in university and it's pretty commonplace for girls my age to initiate a "are we exclusive?" conversation before outright saying the terms 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' which signal a relationship. We think it's less likely to scare the guy off. The latter conversation just seems much more serious. My understanding of "exclusive" is pretty much identical to that of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship -- no dating/seeing/having sex with anybody else.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/16 04:57 AM
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I'm so incredibly blessed that my boyfriend is flying 2,700 miles to be with me for Christmas break. I'm just so giddy thinking about it. We're going to be in an LDR until April 2016 unfortunately, so these week-long visits mean the world to me. But I digress. I got him an Invictus watch, the one that looks like the Rolex Submariner. He loves watches, although he only has a few. I hope he really likes it and wears it often. I plan on buying all the ingredients for his favourite foods a few days …
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 07:23 PM
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The tampon tax is similarly related to the Pink Tax. Now, I'm an economics fiend. Studied it in university. Everything's an economic story, even the price of a Dove beauty bar vs. Dial. The simple reason why women's personal products (razors, deodorants, etc) are a little more expensive than men's products is because women are willing to pay more for these gender-specific items than men are. If they weren't, they would buy men's products instead and manufacturers would respond by lowering the pr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 09:05 AM
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RPW helped me cultivate a softer, vulnerable side. Prior to this sub, I thought being a modern woman entailed the embodiment of a "I'm a strong, independent woman who don't need no man" kind of persona. I realized that was a crudely masculine way to act and it was getting me no where. I was also overly argumentative, believing I was always right, and not very flexible. Luckily I had a lot of other feminine traits, like my love of cooking and baking, and I was generally a nice and sociable person…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 08:23 AM
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Yeah, I'm 5'1" and I can eat 1,000 calories a day if I want to lose weight, according to my doctor. But it would be very different if I were, say, 6 feet tall. Keto is pretty easy to explain though: if asked, I just say I'm not eating sugar or carb-heavy foods and people seem to understand that. I just don't mention that I stay within the 1000-1100 calorie range because then people will say that's """"dangerously anorexic"""" lol please. I'm not a 280 lb football player. I'm a petite half-Asian …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 07:29 PM
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Haven't done this before, but here are my goals for next week: finish my statement of interest for graduate school applications and continue searching for a full-time job starting in January start my keto diet again get coffee with an old friend make a homemade Christmas present for my boyfriend
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 09:04 PM
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My boyfriend and I text everyday because we're in a (temporary) long-distance relationship. I'll be moving out to where he lives in only five months time. We've been long-distance for three months now and I've encountered no problems with our communications. It's been pretty perfect. We text or FB message funny/interesting things we see a few times a day and talk over the phone at night a few times a week. I am so thankful for technological innovations like the cell phone because this temporary …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 06:09 AM
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I've never heard of a turducken before! So cool. Also, your menu looks fantastic overall. Yum.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 06:41 PM
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lol. yeah, this article is upsetting because it's incredibly misleading and sorely judgmental and comes from a place of malice. but at the end of the day, I'm in the happiest relationship of my entire life because I found myself a good man and because I espouse RPW values. I have a man who loves me deeply and treats me so, so, so well. she can say whatever she wants- it doesn't change anything.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 09:34 PM
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I've been with my boyfriend for about five months and we've never actually fought. On the rare occasions that I get very moody and difficult, he is so incredibly patient with me. He never freezes me out or acts untoward. He's never once made it into a fight. After I come to my senses and apologize (process takes maybe an hour--we've never gone to sleep mad at one another), he accepts it wholeheartedly and we make love and move on. I also respect all the decisions he's made, even if I personally …
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 09:11 PM
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Some red flags for me: Lacks ambition, doesn't work hard, and doesn't have any future goals he's aspiring to achieve- I can't be with someone like this because I simply will not respect him. A leader of the home should have those traits. Has female best friends that he hangs out with one-on-one. Spends recklessly outside of his budget.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 08:24 PM
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I'll be making these this week. Thanks for posting- they sound delicious! I love anything gingerbready. Have you tried Speculoos, those little cookies they give out on airplane rides? (Trader Joes grinds them up and makes their cookie butter out of them, too).
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 08:14 PM
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Aw, thanks, Sugarrush. :) I was a little worried about that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 08:08 PM
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Just bought my man this watch. It's a homage to the Rolex Submariner, but for literally 1/50th of the price. I'm a 22-year-old broke graduate student and can't really afford the real McCoy, but I spent a few hours searching reviews and videos on Amazon, Youtube, and various watch connoisseur blogs, and it's an extremely solid and attractive choice from what I can see. My boyfriend currently wears a leather-strap Fossil everyday and I know he would definitely enjoy a new watch, so I hope he likes…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 09:47 AM
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Hm, I wouldn't. I've never asked my boyfriend about his sexual past or old ex-girlfriends. He's 24 and has had eight sexual partners before me, but I only know this because we were playing a drinking game the first week we had met (it was a language retreat for university students). I never would have asked him. The vast majority of those 8 partners were meaningless flings and one night stands, he said. Once, at the very beginning of our friendship (but we both knew something was between us), he…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 08:31 AM
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It's one of my favourites when I'm doing a keto/low-carb diet. Glad you enjoyed it:)
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 06:33 AM
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Thank you kindly. I really like it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 10:38 PM
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Hello TempestTcup, my musk oil arrived today and I was wondering what's the best way to apply it. On the neck, the wrist, or both? I've never had a musk oil before and I don't want to apply it too liberally.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 08:51 PM
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Spaghetti carbonara. I've made Nigella's version before and it is to die for. You can use thick-cut bacon as a substitute for pancetta, but make sure to use real parmigiano-reggiano and grate it yourself - not the stuff that comes in Kraft cans. It's pricier, but you can find moderately priced chunks at Costco. It's a crowd-pleaser. Most people enjoy it. Getting hungry just thinking about it. Oven-baked ribs with sides of creamy mashed potatoes, green beans, and some good old baked beans from a …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 08:21 AM
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I'm in a cross-continental LDR myself and the end date is about ten months from now. I was in his hometown for the whole summer, which is where we met, and we fell very deeply for one another. I technically had my own place, and stayed there some nights, but I lived at his for most of it. It was the best three months of my life. I just got home about a month ago, and I'm still in school for another year and plan on moving to where he is once I've graduated. The move is inevitable in any case - e…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 08:52 AM
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Sauteed spinach with bacon. Fry bacon until done and cut into small pieces. Don't throw out the bacon grease - just throw heaps of spinach into the pan and cook for a few minutes, then re-add bacon. A delicious side dish. Another great side dish would be sliced mushrooms sauteed in lots and lots of salted butter. I love fried chicken thighs in olive or coconut oil - no flour added, just a salt and pepper rub. Takes about 35 minutes. Recipe here Chicken breasts baked with a topping of tomato sauc…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 06:51 AM
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Mmmm. That's one thing I definitely miss now that I'm on keto again: gnocchi with an alfredo cream sauce.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 06:43 AM
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You can't turn someone ambitious, no matter how hard you try to. He's a lazy guy who, at 25, is already talking about leaving the workplace to stay home with your future kids. Money isn't everything, but don't you want to be able to save for your children's education? Or hell, even just new school clothes for them in September? You can lead a simple life void of vacations and other luxuries, but what about saving for retirement and other rainy-day funds? This things will be more important to you…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 06:34 AM
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Agreed. I definitely plan on working when I'm married (and possibly scaling down to part-time when I have children), but I'd like my future husband to attain the higher salary. It's not even all about the money, either. It's about ambition and passion and wanting to make a better life for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 06:10 AM
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I enjoy cooking and recently bought myself a food processor, so I'm excited to make fresh salsas and minced garlic at the drop of a hat. I want to buy Julia Child's Mastering the Art of French Cooking, but am holding off until I'm more experienced in the kitchen. On that note, I've been wanting to grow my own herbs but haven't gotten around to it. I think I'll go to the market today to pick up some supplies. I enjoy doing typically mundane household chores, too - especially laundry. Reading is c…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 11:02 PM
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Me three! It's a strangely satisfying activity.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 10:49 PM
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Wonderful! Going to print a few of these out and stick 'em on my fridge. Thanks for posting.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 08:12 PM
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Thanks for mentioning this oil! I've been looking for a musky, sexy scent to wear around my boyfriend. Just ordered it off Amazon.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 08:39 AM
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I'm a bit of a fragrance fiend- my favourites include Wild Bluebell by Jo Malone, Giulietta by Tocca, and Butterfly by Hanae Mori. If I had to recommend one to purchase though, I'd say the Hanoe Mori. It is to. die. for. Musky, but not heavy - floral, but not sickly sweet. Next time you're in Sephora, try a sample :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 10:43 PM
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I echo everyone's recommendation for the Kitchenaid stand mixer, but I'd also recommend a nice everyday purse. I have a black leather Kate Spade that I've been using daily for the past thirteen months and it still looks great. I paid around $200 for it at Nordstrom Rack. For things like purses, I tend to lean towards quality over quantity.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 03:55 AM
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Microwave your cauliflower - don't boil it! Boiling it tends to make it very watery.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 10:44 PM
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Definitely would be interested. Just started eating keto again and would like to track my progress in a public forum. Also there are a few other goals I'd like to accomplish as well. Great idea. Edit: Sunday works well for me, too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/15 05:28 AM
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What country are you from, babydonut?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:07 AM
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If the woman worked while married, alimony is very little, if at all. But in the event that she stopped working in order to be a stay-at-home wife and mother, then she will be compensated if the marriage contract is broken.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 10:09 PM
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I feel for you, SunkissedDame. What a horrid position to be in. If, like you said, his "greatest concern is getting married and his wife suddenly leaving him and taking all of his money" then an iron-clad pre-nuptial should subdue those worries. Tell him you don't want a joint bank account. There are a lot of things you can do to ensure you're not in this for the money - just ask any divorce or family lawyer. But anything worth having in life has a risk. Everything has a cost. To expect otherwis…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 10:02 AM
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I first heard of Covenant marriage because that's what Jill Duggar did! Maybe Jessa too. My taste in awful reality television is showing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 09:26 AM
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Oh God...the comments. Why are so many of them up in arms over recommendations like "don't tell your girlfriends every last detail about a guy you're seeing" and "always put effort into looking good". Such horrible advice. /s
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:27 AM
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My bet is Singapore or Hong Kong. Cute girls and schools with good reputations in the West.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:12 AM
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I wouldn't wear them. Perhaps I'm a bit confused over the ambiguity of the word 'dress-code' in this context because I'm imagining a piece of paper he's drawn up of things I'm not allowed to wear, like no skirts that end two-inches before the knee and things like that. Whenever I heard 'dress-code' it hearkens me back to my Catholic school girl days. I just don't think I could be with someone who told me I wasn't allowed to wear tank tops or shirts without sleeves. Or someone who picked out ever…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 11:18 PM
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If I was a dating a guy and he gave me a dress code, I would no longer be dating him. I'm all for wearing his favourite dress or piece of lingerie, and even just wearing colours and things that I know he likes, but a prescribed list of things that I'm "allowed" to wear? No way. I like a man who dominates and can lead me, but I'm still a women with free agency. I'm still an individual. Of course, if I'm wearing something that he thinks is too revealing, I'll take it off. I try not to wear reveali…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 10:55 PM
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Great link. Thanks for posting, lvioletsnow! I'm still a virgin (despite many an opportunity - I'm waiting for the right man) and recently turned 22. I spent a few moments pondering how sad it was that I have yet to experience what most girls go through at 16-17. Those stats reaffirm some of the more logistical reasons why I'm waiting. Greater levels of happiness, lower levels of depression, even lower levels of poverty. It's a sacrifice now--I was in a relationship with a guy who looked like an…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 08:01 AM
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Pointless debates and little fights about things don't matter--like weather and the likelihood of working out--is toxic to a relationship. I'm all for a girl sticking up for herself and her opinion, but only when the situation is serious and warrants it. But we're not perfect and you made a mistake. The important thing is that you realized it and you can work on not making that same mistake in the future. I would continue trying to make it up to him, though. Make his favourite food for dinner. D…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 09:57 PM
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First off, I'd just like to say how sorry I am that this happened to you, OP. The feeling is heartbreaking. I know. But I would dump him. You're not married, you don't have kids with him...it should be a clean break.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 09:39 PM
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Agreed completely. The guys I've been with in the past loved the raunchier jokes I would make. It is completely dependent on the man.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:15 AM
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If you're nervous about cooking bison, don't do it just yet. If he's eating paleo, there are plenty of other meats you can cook for him. A big good ol' steak and a salad with homemade dressing (balsamic vinegar, olive oil, salt and pepper), roma tomatoes, cucumbers, and some walnuts would be a great dinner. If he's eating paleo, then he's abstaining from dairy, so just being thoughtful to avoid cream-based dressing (like caesar or ranch). http://greatist.com/eat/paleo-dessert-recipes here's a we…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:11 AM
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Oral sex for me is still a great act of sensuality and meaning - I would abstain from even that until we established we were exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:06 AM
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I've talked to a few close guy friends on their views on girls swearing, and they've agreed that using the words 'fudge!' or 'rats!' is a lot more of a turn-off than the f-word could ever be. Basically don't swear like a sailor, but don't talk like a Molly Mormon is what they told me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 11:34 PM
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I do the same thing. I'm an RA at a freshman residence and I've learned the names of the cashiers and housekeeping staff and regularly make conversation with them. It's just a nice gesture in this sea of self-absorbed college students. I always notice when others make the same effort.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 11:30 PM
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What he's doing is blatantly disrespectful. RP relationships are a two-way street: you should always strive to be the best and supportive SO you can be for him, but if he's treating you like he is now...well, honey, I'm afraid this isn't a good sign. I'd recommend having a calm and non-accusatory conversation about how you feel uncomfortable that he's going on a long vacation alone with another girl. This is not even about jealously, per se. It's just not something one does when they're in a com…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 08:25 PM
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He's still desperate for her. You seem like a sweet girl who's willing to make concessions for the guy you love--clearly, because you're consciously willing to look like some random girl he loved once upon a time just to make him happy--so you aren't a selfish SO. You have self-esteem issues that are clouding your judgement and preventing you from making the right choice. If he's been dating you for two years and he's still talking about that girl the way he is, he is not going to change. Is thi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 10:10 AM
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My parents had a backyard wedding with the fruit trees in bloom and decorations they put up themselves, then they had a small reception for their friends and family at a restaurant. The largest expense was $1,000 for a top-shelf open bar. Married nearly twenty-five years.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 09:25 AM
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I learned in my economics class on sex and love that young men today are, on average, expressing more of a willingness to marry than young women are. It really is the optimal time for us to find our best match.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 09:17 AM
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My parents have one joint account which both salaries flow into. My father has a few separate accounts for investment purposes, but other than that, everything is transparent. It makes sense to me. It's not my father's money or my mother's money - it's their money. All large purchases are discussed beforehand and everything has worked out well. I'd like to have one joint account for both logical and emotional reasons - it makes sense because it's simplistic: all bills are paid from one account a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 08:45 AM
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Sexual chemistry is incredibly important. I'm waiting until I'm married, but I have enough experience to know what constitutes burning sexual attraction and what is simply "meh". I couldn't live with the latter for the rest of my life. There are some things couples can definitely work towards, like better financial footing in buying a house, gaining assets, etc., but I don't think it's realistic to think that a couple can work towards better sexual chemistry. It's either there or it isn't. I hee…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:47 PM
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Oooh, my beauty routine. I enjoy Lauren Conrad's look and have read her books entitled "Style" and "Beauty" - even if you're experienced in the world of beauty, Lauren's got some great tips. I wear my hair wavy most days. I loosely curl my hair with a conical curling wand, but I don't use hairspray. I always get compliments. Make-up wise, I use quite a few products but I wear them minimally. I begin with Lancome Visionnaire Correcteur as a moisturizer, then apply Lancome Teint Miracle foundation…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 03:49 AM
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If you're okay with used or consignment clothing, I suggest hitting up your local Goodwills, Value Villages, hospital/hospice charity shops, as well as independent local consignment stores. You can find some real gems.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 02:28 AM
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Same here. I'm a generous person and I enjoy taking my friends out for coffee or dinner. I'm lucky in that a lot of my friends extend the same courtesy to me. When it comes to romantic relationships, I don't mind paying some of the time. But I do think the onus is on him, though.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:28 AM
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I'm personally a virgin (waiting until marriage), but I think the number of sex partners deemed appropriate depends on her relationship history. If she's had two sexual partners at 26 because she's been in two LTRs that haven't worked out, then she's still going to be a great mate. It's not ideal, but like another RPW said, life happens. I personally think any number above five is really high, but that's just me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:22 AM
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Yeah, four-year universities can be overwhelming and party-heavy, especially in your first year when it seems like that's all people are doing. I'm getting my CPA. The program I'm in has good ties with the Big Four accounting firms, so hopefully a job with KPMG in a year crosses fingers
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 12:48 AM
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Very smart - having your own place makes eating keto 100x times more doable. I still live in a freshman dorm (as an RA) and I'm struggling. I'm studying econ/poli sci and graduating this semester. Heading to business school this September. How about you?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:35 PM
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Last semester was the first one of my senior year, haha, but we're like the same person regardless. Are you living in a freshman dorm? Usually they have dining halls and no full-service kitchens, so it makes eating keto that. much. harder. Dining halls are so carb heavy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:24 PM
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He's probably not going to take you back. You both treated each other terribly because you two aren't right for each other - toxic relationships aren't romantic, they're harmful. You shouldn't be fighting for this, or for him. Work on yourself for awhile. Focus on treating your friends and family better as practice on how you'll be able to act in a relationship again. Unless you're a raging bitch to everyone you know, you may not even have an anger management problem - he may have just brought o…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:19 PM
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I first attempted it last summer and lost ten pounds. Then, I gained it all back during my first semester and started again this January. I'm steadily losing with a tummy full of eggs and bacon everyday - crazy, right? How about you? Edit: I just looked at your recent posts and see that you are also a libertarian...RPW, keto, and a libertarian? What are the everloving odds?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:04 PM
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Unrelated to Valentine's Day, but I'm also RPW and on keto! We must be soul sisters or something.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 07:44 AM
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http://www.target.com/p/women-s-button-up-satin-sleep-shirt-gilligan-o-malley/-/A-15840362#item-guestreviews-link only $20, shows some leg, and has a "I'm wearing my boyfriend's button-down" appeal.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 11:17 PM
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I bet you're a fantastic girlfriend. I do. You are going to make a guy very happy one day. But I believe RPW is a spectrum - on one side, you have the girls who embody everything feminine in this world; they are very sweet and don't talk back or out of turn, they cook, they clean, they watch their manners and their language. Textbook RPW. But on the other side, there are girls who still adhere to RPW values (not as strictly and not as well) and are a little rougher around the edges. I fit into t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 11:05 PM
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I'm exactly the same. I am pretty fiery but not an unpleasant person to be around (quite the opposite) - this being said, I'm not sure if I can tone myself down completely to be the most docile and agreeable of little lambs. I am working on myself to tone down my more aggressive features, but I need an alpha male to check me when I'm being unreasonable.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 10:49 PM
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Personally, I wouldn't bother going. It's just radical third-wave feminists who talk about how gender is social construct and therefore doesn't exist and blah blah blah and I just end up infuriated. Laci Green recently came to my college campus to speak and I didn't think twice about it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 08:34 PM
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Using Tinder to find a long-term relationship is like using a fork to drink soup: nonsensical and disappointing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 08:21 PM
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I definitely agree with you. Luckily girls like that are birds of a feather that flock together, so they're easy to avoid. Oh, I forgot to mention that if your university offers fitness classes at the athletic centre (like Zumba, pilates, or similar), that's also a good way to meet other girls (with the added benefit of staying in shape).
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 08:16 PM
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Can I just say how thankful I am to have found this subreddit? You girls are great. I'm not ready to get into a serious relationship right now, but I'm picking up tips here and there and trying to improve myself for when the time comes.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 07:53 PM
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I'm in my senior year of university and I have plenty of girlfriends - many acquaintances and about ten close girls I regularly hang out with, I'd say. Some are fairly promiscuous, but most are not. I would suggest getting a job on campus where lots of other college girls work. I'm an RA and I've met some of my closest friends through this. Meeting people in class is very difficult once you get older. In first year, everyone was wide-eyed and bushy-tailed and just yearning to meet real friends s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 07:46 PM
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Women have been the majority at university campuses since 1991, roughly, so the last male-dominated university class graduated in 1990. Since then, there has been a steady decline of men attending university compared to women. Sure, at that time, plenty of college-aged women in 1991 had access to men who graduated a decade before them - but today? Hell no. Most 22-year-old girls aren't interested in a 47-year-old man who graduated in 1990.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 08:03 PM
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In the statistics used by Pew Social Trends collected to discern the differences between the educated and non-educated, 'educated' does equal attending college or university. Of course, someone can be extremely intelligent without having to go to school. But that's not relevant to the economic argument I'm making here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 08:12 PM
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If a girl consents to doing that kind of work, good for her. I don't think the law should stop her.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 01:45 AM
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OP - I hear what you're saying loud and clear. It is really disheartening to read a lot of the stuff on there about how women are nothing but "cum dumpsters" and things like that - especially since we're the girls who are trying to improve ourselves to be better girlfriends and ultimately wives - but I just try to avoid that subreddit altogether. They don't speak for all RP men or all men in general. Hopefully that's just a phase. All in all, we're not trying to please men like that. They're try…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 01:43 AM
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Whenever a recession hits, the first ones to their lose jobs are always men working a trade that's a little more vulnerable to boom and bust. That's because the industries likely to come to a screeching halt are construction-based and heavily male-oriented. My father worked for a welding company during the 2008 recession - if it wasn't for his 30-year seniority, he would've been laid off, just like half the company. Trades a good alternative for a man who doesn't want to go to university, but it…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:49 PM
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I definitely get what you're saying, but the pay gap between the educated and non-educated has grown. While attending university doesn't guarantee a high income right away, over time it will pay off. Pew Trends: - from 1965 to 2013, the real wage for a typical high school graduate fell by 10%. - a young college-educated worker typically makes $45,500 a year compared to $28,000 for someone with a high school education. That's a gap of $17,500 - a gap that will inevitably grow as the college-educa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:43 PM
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yeah, and that 'middle ground' is getting to know a girl intimately, not by touching her, before you try and fuck her, but thanks for proving that some Red Pill men on this godforsaken website don't deserve a RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 10:39 AM
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I'm from Vancouver and Seattle is remarkably similar in most respects. Expect: a lot of environmentalists and left-wingers (they have a very high city-imposed minimum wage); a high acceptance of gay culture; good coffee! they love their coffee as much as we do up North; TO LOVE THE SEATTLE SEAHAWKS! no, really, they're doing great and it's about time a team from the Pacific Northwest starting kicking some serious ass. we're often neglected compared to the powerhouses of the East and Washingtonia…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 10:05 AM
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lmao perhaps if you forced me to live in the wild for six years, my biological instinct will kick in to prefer facial hair on a rough and hardy man who will protect me from the elements. that's probably the only way you'll get me to change my preference.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 09:54 AM
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Liking facial hair has nothing to do with being a "real" woman or an RPW - some girls like the aesthetic, some don't. It's just a personal preference in attraction, that's all.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 08:48 AM
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It's official: I'm hopping back onto the Keto bandwagon. Did it over the summer and dropped 10 lbs pretty easily - after a semester back at uni, I gained all of it back and probably more so. It's sooooooo hard to do Keto at school because the dining hall is a carbohydrate nightmare, but this post has changed my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/14 07:25 AM
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I thought that was so endearing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:48 AM
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What an enchanting read. I'm 21 and just purchased it for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:47 AM
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I don't think she understands the significance of divorce. It's a big deal - a really big deal - one that will undoubtedly affect her children for the absolute worst in the future. And she has the audacity to compare it to a juice cleanse.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 10:34 PM
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I think you're under the impression that all women have some innate desire to have sex with multitudes of men, either just for fun or to weigh her options. While that's the case for a lot of women, it's not the case for all - and definitely not for me. When I meet the one I'm supposed to be with, both emotionally and sexually, I will never stray. Like Paul Newman once said, why go out for hamburger when I can have steak at home?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 10:16 PM
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Thanks. It's so nice hearing that I'm not alone in all of this.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 10:03 PM
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Thanks for your honest opinion - I'll definitely take it to heart.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 08:58 PM
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Thanks for your comment - I agree that I need to date older guys, but how do I meet them? It's so easy to meet guys in university and the outside dating scene is something I am completely unfamiliar with.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 08:51 PM
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Well, I did have a boyfriend, so that's probably a reason why people think I've had sex. I also went through a very sad and lonely phase where I kept bringing home guys I had just met, and while we never did anything but make-out, talk, and watch movies, very rarely do I ever correct my friends' assumptions of went on. I usually go after guys that are charming, popular, and good-looking, and after reading things on the Red Pill, I guess they're the ones who want to sleep around at this point in …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 08:31 PM
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Are you in the US? I'm at a Canadian university and my engineering friends have mentioned that the ring is generally only a thing in Canada.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 10:38 AM
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Thanks! Just ordered it on Amazon. Hoping it will be in my dorm when I arrive back from Christmas break.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 10:21 AM
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I'm 21 and graduating from university this year and she is spot on. Most guys my age aren't looking for a relationship. I get that. But a girl gets lonely, you know? I went through a phase recently where I brought home a random guy every month for a semester, and while we never did anything but make-out, I always felt terrible about myself afterwards. I've come to the realization that if a guy who barely knows me is trying to sleep with me, then he probably doesn't want to seriously date me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 08:55 AM
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