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| 2 | am I coming on too strong? please tell me if I amI think the best you can do is abort mission and go look for other fish in the sea | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Texting game questionThis my friends. THIS. You hit the spot. Why do we even care about this? From my experience with "texting" it should be only used to give short "bursts" (no pun intended) of attraction. I would text a photo of something funny every 2 or 3 days or so just so she indirectly knows I'm thinking about her. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | am I coming on too strong? please tell me if I amI wouldn't say she really meant anything by saying, its okay, thank you so much. The one thing I learned is that whenever you make a bold move like that, she is going to tell all her friends. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 08:25 AM |
| 1 | am I coming on too strong? please tell me if I amIdk man I'd say telling a girl shes cute is coming on too strong and apologizing for your actions was also a pretty bold move. I think you blew your chances. | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Difficulty meeting girl, should I ask her mom?Well in a way I can see this working out. This totally depends on how much her mother knows you. You can try out this strategy: Make sure her mother gets a positive vibe from you. That you're emotionally stable and ambitious. After a certain amount of time you'll notice it yourself that she"ll mention the fact that she has a daughter. Try to react as calm as possible to this. Tell her that you're not actively looking for someone but that it wouldn't hurt. But there is a catch. I would only recom… | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 09:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] mini-fr, second time I cold approachHaha good to hear your trying to get better at your day game! Remember that with day game you can tone the cockiness a notch. Just my small advice. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...Sounds pretty good! I meant the fat friend that's with your "target". The will get physical, never underestimate their physical strength...haha | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 01:12 PM |
| 2 | So TIL that if your noticeably and successfully gaming a lot of the attractive girls at the party, you may piss off a lot of testosterone enhanced guys.Look I didn't mean it in a sarcastic way but sometimes you just need to take chances like getting your ass beaten. Don't get me wrong I'm not pro violence but we have a saying in Korea, "only the men with balls get the hot girls" | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Anything you guys know of which gives a guaranteed or extremely high non-flake possibility?Haha exactomundo my friend! I noticed from my experience that in 3 days you're still "fresh" in her memory. Don't forget that we're not the only fish in the sea | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Question about texting game.In my opinion, if you weren't mind blowing when she first met you, the chances are pretty high that she won't text back or give you crappy answers. (Such as haha, yes,no, good) so always try to remember that she needs to feel like she just spoke to a rock star. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Country of origin (Or residence) flairAs an Asian myself I can confirm this story. With Asian women its important that you know her friend or someone from her family. That pretty much the only way you'll be able to close numbers. And they tend to prefer other Asian males. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Why did you join seddit?Hi I'm sakemaki! I'm pretty much new not only to sexist but also reddit. I went through a really bad break up and when I found out she cheated on my several times I was pretty much destroyed. So I decided to try anything to pick up women. First I tried the mystery method but found it not working out for me. I noticed that the field is totally different from the field. So with a help with a friend came up with my own game. Sorry for the long story but I just wanna help out my fellow men ;) | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Ultimate Openers: Interesting and/or funny, with a slightly patronizing edge- qualifying interrupts to get the convo going...I never understood "openers". Openers tend to only work in theory. In the field you have 10000000 variables. The fat friend, cockblocker etc. I always say that the best way is to just practice in the field. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Anything you guys know of which gives a guaranteed or extremely high non-flake possibility?The dreaded "week later" dates. These are hard to pull off. What try to do is set up a date in 3 days of meeting her. This tends to lower the flakiness. A lot of things can happen in a week on a emotional level. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:35 AM |
| -4 | So TIL that if your noticeably and successfully gaming a lot of the attractive girls at the party, you may piss off a lot of testosterone enhanced guys.True. It's a fact indeed. But hey must mean you're doing something right ;) | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:23 AM |
| 1 | I want to pick up girls, from town. No alcohol no parties.There is no such thing as stupid questions ;) I totally understand where your coming from. I'd say the best way is to just go "outside". Birthday parties, libraries etc. you should never underestimate the power of daygame! | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:21 AM |
| 5 | What are some things that make you feel confident before you go out?It's hard to say, I usually start off with a few vodka red bulls and tends to help me get through the night. And because of the sugar rush you'll ooze positive energy haha one of my friends tends to masturbate before going out and swears by it. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 09:19 AM |
| 0 | Where do you go to practice if you're 19, in NYC and have no friends?Well in that case he can always go somewhere where people just hang out. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I can't finish with chicksThis is how I game and I'm familiar with the mystery method. Tried it and didn't work out for me. So I got "private" lessons from a friend of mine. This is a more old school approach to women. And as you can notice from this convo (not an actual convo btw) I'm asking the "right" questions instead of the boring where do you work and where are you from BS. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Saying no [some FR and text convo]You know that's all in theory right? Theory does not always comply to the field. But its good to hear you already had plans. If I were you I would have told her that you have plans with another girl. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Not really shure how my attempts went. What does reddit think?Well sounds like you had a good time yourself too! Kudos! Now we learned that next time we need to close numbers ;) | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Saying no [some FR and text convo]Sometimes you can say no and sometimes you can't. In this situation I would have said yes!!! Dude this girl just asks you out for drinks and you just blew your chances with her. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 03:58 PM |
| 1 | (Had no help at r/askseddit) Help with internet girl.Girls tend to do this very often, she doesn't want to hurt feelings. Sorry to tell you man but it isn't gonna go anywhere with this girl. Best is to just move on | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 03:52 PM |
| 9 | Oneitis or something else?Its time to move on man. Sorry to tell you but that ship left 2 years ago. The best thing you can do is to accept the fact and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea ;) | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Not really shure how my attempts went. What does reddit think?Next time its better to just "play" the hockey game. And after the hockey game you can shake hands and tell her that you had a great time and why dont we hang out soon and play another game? | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to ask "would you like to go out again?" at the close of a date, or through text/call a day or more after?Hmm its hard to say. At the end of the date I never ask a girl if we are ever meeting again. Its better to close the date with, It was nice meeting you, I had a great time. So yeah I'll keep in touch. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How should I get her away from the party?haha yeah movies always work! 40% of the time it works everytime | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:16 AM |
| 2 | An epiphanySorry to hear you had a bad night. This is one of the reasons I am against this whole mystery method. If you lack self confidence your game will always be shattered by some random HB. Its always better to ooze self confidence and positive energy then to throw a new "negs". Hang in there man, Friday is only 6 days away! | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:14 AM |
| 2 | FB initate attempt. HB9! Tell me what I did wrong.The thing with facebook is , is that if you never ever met this girl in real life, the chances of you getting her is close to 0%. No matter how good your game is. Women see facebook as a social "website" and not a "dating" site. But I'd say respect initiation! Thats something even I wouldnt do | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Where do you go to practice if you're 19, in NYC and have no friends?I kinda understand where he's coming from. I recently moved to a new area and no matter how much of a "bad ass" you are, making new friends is pretty hard. I'd say hit the bars, talk to some strangers and make some friends. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Do you call girls out on their bull?I never understood this whole calling her out stuff. Just let her go man. Too many women in the world to get hung up by one. If she stood you up, tell her its cool and go for the next one. This is why its always better "invest" in more then 1 girl. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 09:59 AM |
| 2 | I can't finish with chicksA great rule for closing: -Really listen and remember everything she says. Especially her hobbies and passion Later on ask her out on a activity(date) that has something to do with her hobbies or passion example: You: So what do you like to do in your free time? And please dont tell me shopping haha Her: Well i like traveling You: Wow cool! which countries have you been to? Her: Almost every country in Asia You: Really? I love Asia! Thats really interesting. Hey I got a great idea! Lets hang out… | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 09:57 AM |
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