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| 3 | I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoeverthats right. I'm latino and fairly good looking, it took me a long time to realize that my normal genuine approaches weren't really bad, it was that other people were expecting me to be one thing when I wasn't, their attitude changed and I didn't know how to react. You gotta learn to steer the convo into the direction you feel most comfortable to shine through in an unforced way. | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoevermy dude, sounds like you have some serious self-esteem issues to work on, bordering on self resentment about being black. I'm sure that your hesitation and self doubt is what is fucking up your game, not your personal way of being. Learn to love yourself the way you want someone else to love your style and your new found confidence will shine through. Here's an example of a possible interaction to help you learn how to deal with the potential racial confusion you think you are suffering from: Gi… | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I tried picking up a BEAUTIFUL girl while filming everything.god you are weird and creepy from your short post history. | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I tried picking up a BEAUTIFUL girl while filming everything.jesus thats creepy as fuck | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | I tried picking up a BEAUTIFUL girl while filming everything.how are you filming this? | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What to say to a woman who feels like shit after a one night stand?It happens. It is rarer these days but still happens. I suggest you just tell her that you had a great time and should hang out again soon and leave it at that. Make sure she knows that you'll be super discreet and that the night will stay between the two of you. | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Picking up "taken" womenit’s absolutely NOT healthy to crush hard on every girl when they show interest in you. You are setting yourself up for failure. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Picking up "taken" womenthat’s what you should say in your post. I suspect you have the same problem with single women too. I really don’t know how to help with that. If you rewrite your post to emphasize that part... you might get better advice | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Approaching at least one girl every day until I get rejected / number close / insta date Day 1good on you. Also, if you make platonic friends with the women at work, they might introduce you to their off work friends. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Picking up "taken" womenYou saying that an attached woman is being aggressive with you and somehow you cant help her achieve her goal? whats the problem? Just invite her somewhere safe make sure her phone is not being tracked. close the deal and don’t dwell on forming anything lasting. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Picking up "taken" womenok, re-word and repost. lol there are many other similar posts like “how do I deal with a woman saying she has a Bf” you can go read those. Long story short, most advise to just let it go. In the long run that is probably good advice for most people. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Wow women actually look at the bio, atleast on bumbleyeah you should. Also what everyone said to you about being a dick is true. Most women will filter you out for showing that kind of attitude. Thats why your hits went down. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Picking up "taken" womeni’m not trying to shit on you but your OP is clear that you want to specifically close on attached women are are trying to improve that specifically. That’s immoral. Like I said, if she was the one pushing.. that is slightly less morally problematic because she is gonna end up doing something with someone anyways, might as well be you. But if you are actively pushing your own agenda onto an attached person... that is fucked up and will end badly 90% of the time and can have serious life altering… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Picking up "taken" womenyeah no. you got issues man | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Wow women actually look at the bio, atleast on bumbleThis is hilarious because I did the exact opposite. Like the OP, I realized that women are fucking terrible ‘openers’. The difference between me and OP is that I decided to write into my profile: “Just say Hi” Matches AND messages both increased by decent number. In other words, I took it upon myself to restore the balance that bumble tries to negate by giving myself the initiative again. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | one of the worst dates I've hadI’ve been there brother, now you have a good war story for the next time. Why even dwell on it? There are a lot of fucked up people out there. It should have zero bearing on who you are. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Picking up "taken" womenjust don’t do it. You should see a psychologist because frankly, any guy who actively seeks to fuck up someones relationship has some serious issues you gotta deal with. that being said, I have in the past been put in situations where an attached woman tries to ‘have fun’ with me. Depending on that situation, you might have fun without such a bad hit to your karma. In other words, let the attached woman make the first move... don’t actively push her that way. Also if you are running game on some… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How to Get a Girlfriend according to Cosmolol this list is exactly the opposite of what anyone should do. Everyone should read this just to understand what not to do. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Approaching at least one girl every day until I get rejected / number close / insta date Day 1Don’t shit where you eat my guy. Overly flirting with women at work is a bad idea. Even if it works out in your favor, long term it rarely does. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "I have a boyfriend"if you say so. This approach has never failed to get me an introduction to another friend or sister. The key to success is gaining trust of the person to the point that they actually want you to meet their single friends. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Working up to my first threesomelol weak frame. Dude you do you ok. OP doesn’t need your weird advice. He needs a plan to execute on what he already has going. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Working up to my first threesomedont care, your advice still sucks. Most people don’t dedicate their lives to having orgies and all the production necessary around that shit. Your experience is irrelevant to people living more or less normal lives and not involved with sex work. I’m not saying you’re a prostitute, but a good analogy of what you are doing is like a female prostitute giving advice on how to meet men. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Tells me she's not looking to be dating anyone atm but incessantly texts?she’s trying to friendzone you or add you to her list of guys in the waiting zone. Either way it’s annoying for you. Tell her “look the thing is I’m attracted to you and I really dont want to have a text message relationship, so either we are FWB or you can chill with the texts” | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on going out with a girl who flaked twice? (long)This this ^ also didn’t read whole story. I stopped at “I texted her sister” Whatever else you did... that certainly would have killed any hope of proceeding. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lateIt’s not a fucking club you join my guy... It is a way to carry yourself forward. Learn some skills, use them to achieve your goals. That’s it. The sharper your skills the more success you have with ANYTHING life. Can you learn a language at 50 years old? Can you learn to paint at 80? Yes and Yes A guy of any age can charm a woman of any age. 18yo can charm a grandmother of 70. A man of 50 can seduce a woman of 20. Just practice. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "I have a boyfriend"Her: “I have a boyfriend” Me: “Oh thank you for telling me, I appreciate the honesty... for some reason women often don’t tell me until much later and then I feel crappy about them using me. So.. last question do you have a sister as beautiful and honest as you?” | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Working up to my first threesomeOr just tell your SO to invite the other chick for dinner and drinks together. Tell your SO to dress sexy | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Working up to my first threesomeThis guy sounds like BS and his advice sucks. OP: you are 90% of the way there. Here is your setup. Recreate the situation. Tell your SO you would love to see more pics like that last set. Try to recreate the situation. Buy her a few sets of lingerie, (make sure some will fit the friend too). Tell her you are going out for a while and to invjte her over (tell her you are gonna catch a football game or something like that which will give her plenty of hours to execute.) When they do it again... y… | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How would wanted to be approached?truer words were never spoken. I’ve said it a million times, never ask a woman advice on picking up other women, they will fuck you up for life. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 02:15 PM |
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