Girls , how would you wanted to be approached, let's say in a shopping mall? Just by "Hey, i was wondering , do you know a cozy to place to drink something/ a cozy bar?" and she'll either say yes/no , then i would say "oh i didn't told you my name yet, Hi i'm X, nice to meet you" and then say something like "well, would you like to grab a drink with me sometimes? " i really have no clue. Any help?