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She might want it, and later decide she's upset about something or has some other agenda or need that can be fulfilled by claiming that she didn't. There are many permutations and layers. Basically this right of women to choose lasts indefinitely beyond the actual occurrence.
/r/MensRights30/03/13 10:18 PM
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Granted there are those outspoken. What I'm referring to is volunteers to assist men and take up real litigation to start helping men currently in the jaws of unfair legal systems.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 07:51 PM
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there are tens of thousands of volunteer attorneys and other people working on behalf of women, yet none do so for men. It seems like a no brainer for an attorney to prove gender discrimination and take this shit to the supreme court, but it appears men's rights attorneys want high fees, and since men have all their money taken by the system they can't pay. Time for men's rights lawyers to step up to the plate or shut the fuck up.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 06:26 PM
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My thoughts exactly. I don't want it to be an exclusive club. It needs to reach a broad audience. Accidental pun.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 10:24 PM
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The brotherhood is weak compared to the sisterhood.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 09:59 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to reach a larger audience?
/r/MensRights25/03/13 09:56 PM
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It doesn't require education. Money, time, and effort. Or any of the above. There are tens of thousands of volunteer pro bono lawyers for women. None for men. There are hundreds of thousands of volunteers to help women in crisis. Few for men. Corporations give millions to women's crisis, support, shelter, and legal assistance funds. None for men. It takes people to organize this on a volunteer basis, marketing people to volunteer time to get corporations to assist with funding. Volunteer lawyers…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 09:22 PM
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Granted, but that's not much help to OP, or anyone else for that matter who's in the throws of a soul crushing legal battle. I'm in the same boat as him, but what am I supposed to do? Single handedly launch a massive 50 state campaign to overturn all of the laws, vote out all the male hating judges and prosecutors and open thousands of centers to help men? No. I'm buried up to my eyebrows in legal fees, overwhelmed with the time commitment required to represent myself pro-se most of the time, an…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 09:00 PM
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that's what this sub is about, but OP isn't going to make that happen through legal battle with his ex no matter how much he spends. Neither is anybody else doing the same thing. Laws are made and changed by elected officials, not legal counsel and judges.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 08:39 PM
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That is correct. However a superior court cannot over rule a judge where that judge has discretion, even if they disagree with the judgment, and even if 99 out of 100 judges would have ruled differently. I've just been through a year of magisterial ruling, county and district court appeal/review and reconsideration trials, state court of appeals, and supreme court ruling. All pro se. In each the superior court can only rule on whether or not the lower court exercised discretion within constraint…
/r/MensRights25/03/13 08:29 PM
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It's not appeal able since its within judges discretion.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 09:55 AM
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You don't get to choose and you can't ask for a new one.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 02:00 AM
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That will rarely effect biased judges who have the freedom to do as they wish
/r/MensRights25/03/13 01:58 AM
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Www.dviforwomen.org. Says they help men. Annual report says no men helped.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 01:43 AM
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Good lawyers can't do much. Family court is judges discretion. Laws are only suggestions.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 01:31 AM
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Perfect timing. I purchase thousands of pcs/servers a year and am finalizing build specs next week for the next five year cycle.
/r/MensRights15/03/13 03:12 AM
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U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that while men and women are employed in almost equal numbers, men make up 92% of all work related deaths. http://www.bls.gov/iif/oshwc/cfoi/cfch0010.pdf
/r/MensRights14/03/13 04:12 AM
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This was the victory speech accepting the laurels for victory in the war on men.
/r/MensRights14/03/13 03:54 AM
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One would think.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 11:42 PM
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Yes. Seems the supreme court would be helpful in these situations. That's expensive and you need the right champion with the right case to take it there.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 11:29 PM
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You can't get past the intake at the women's shelters and organizations whereby you get one of these free VAWA lawyers. I tried. They wouldn't accept my application and so no lawyer was able to even see it.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 11:10 PM
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Lawyers will represent whomever pays them. Except my ex. She gets a free VAWA lawyer and therefore only represents women, but he's a fucking moron.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 11:04 PM
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More pity
/r/MensRights13/03/13 05:50 AM
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No. We need to get judges to stop representing women.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 05:34 AM
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Family court judges/magistrate have wide discretion.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 06:22 PM
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That's about it. Some stuff written in the final orders about she lies a lot and was proven so and not a good testifier to the truth.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 06:03 PM
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My wife did the same, in written statements and in testimony where she reversed her statements several times in both directions. No penalty whatsover.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 05:12 PM
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Victim blaming?
/r/MensRights07/03/13 05:10 PM
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Mortality rates are coming closer together, ergo, more equal.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 09:30 PM
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don't give them your money
/r/MensRights06/03/13 08:58 PM
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Missed that. In my experience with CPS, once they are on your side, they can be a powerful ally.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 07:45 PM
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That's a lot of avoiding real mortality numbers.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 09:00 AM
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You won. Whoever reported you is now suspect in thier eyes, Nd you are a good guy in their eyes. Don't fuck that up, because whoever reported you may try that shit again. Don't get lawyerly on them unless you have to as a last resort.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 08:41 AM
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It's not a fair fight, but any man or woman who would forsake their children for money is not worth the air they breathe.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 07:38 AM
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That's one way. My ex was diagnosed with BPD, and with them you fight everything, every time, with everything you have. It helps she does a good job on herslef when given rope too, but I learned to defend every single accusation with video/audio proof and then throw twice as much back at her. When she threatened to call the police I called them myself and had her arrested. When she called CPS I gave them *your marriage counselor's number and showed them her arrest report. etc, etc, etc.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 11:48 PM
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Long story. I've spent well over 100,000 over the last three years. Burned through savings, applied for and maxed every credit card and a personal loan from the bank. Haven't yet paid back a dime, just the minimum. I did recieve full custody, and she can only visit them in a supervised setting.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 10:32 PM
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Yes, but you'd still get stoned for pointing it out.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 10:07 PM
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I've said this before and I'll say it again...ad nauseum: Father's need to fight harder with every fiber of their being despite the odds, and not give up just because they likely won't win. Likely they'll get more than they did by folding. Nothing is more important than success of your own children, and they need you there, in spite of what what others believe. Fight, and fight some more, and keep fighting until the bitter end. And it will likely be bitter, for now. I've done it. I'm doing it no…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 08:52 PM
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Yes. Yes it is. I've done it. I am doing it now and it consumes me. I would never sleep in peace if I did not. It is the greatest thing I have ever done, and the greatest challenge I've ever faced. Like the challenges of Hercules, every man must find his own strength, and through them, himself. My battle is for my children, and it's led down a path to truth. My ex thought I was weak, a quitter that would crumble before the onslaught of lawyers, government workers, and police. CPS thought I would…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 08:14 PM
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"Feelings are real"
/r/MensRights05/03/13 07:18 PM
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I've got my hands full throwing all available resources fighting the family courts full time here in this country on behalf of myself and my children, and I don't have the time or emotional energy to spend on promoting feminist agendas in other countries or anything else.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 07:16 PM
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I've said this before and I'll say it again...ad nauseum: Father's need to fight harder with every fiber of their being despite the odds, and not give up just because they likely won't win. Likely they'll get more than they did by folding. Nothing is more important than success of your own children, and they need you there, in spite of what what others believe. Fight, and fight some more, and keep fighting until the bitter end. And it will likely be bitter, for now.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 06:38 PM
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point me to one who opposed the sexist bias in the law.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:48 PM
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The worst part is i don't think that suggesting gender neutrality would be political suicide at all. I think they just believe that men are more violent and aggressive and that the bill is a good thing except for the part about LGBT and Native Americans. Bush vetoed almost everything unrelated to bombing the shit out of brown people, but managed to sign this one into law.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 06:39 PM
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Duh. You have to make victim self-declaration free and easy, that's how you boost your numbers and get your government dollars.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 01:28 PM
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Couldn't care less
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:16 AM
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All those who sing the glory of the GOP on this sub as the savior of the MRM, here's your political red pill.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 01:59 AM
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You mean the bill bailey who posted the Jody arias story currently on the front page? http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/19kbez/jodi_arias_will_likely_get_off_in_2011_the/
/r/MensRights03/03/13 02:01 PM
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Whaaa?
/r/MensRights03/03/13 01:55 PM
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Dude. I felt the emotional release down to my marrow. Thank you, I can finally sleep in peace now. I'm giving you the up vote I took from OP.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 03:54 AM
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In the spirit of your post, have a down vote!
/r/MensRights03/03/13 02:53 AM
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This sub is getting more users who cross post to other subs. It drags them in. I've personally witnessed several over the last few weeks follow me over from daddit and parenting come over and troll or fake mra concern post.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 02:51 AM
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It's accurate and succinct, and you created your history through expression of your beliefs, not me. You like words more than me. Labor someone else with them.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 10:56 PM
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It's called inference and/or correlation. Both are standard intellectual methods of deduction, inquiry, and debate. Next?
/r/MensRights02/03/13 10:44 PM
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Your post history shows you are an unabashed feminist, and your reaction to this post is expected and inline with all of your other posts and comments. By agreeing with OP, you establish OPs opinion as also a feminist view on this subreddit. In other words, this sub is definitelty headed in the right direction.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 10:38 PM
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And how much of that man's earnings does the government hand over in divorce settlements and through taxation and the VAWA and other female giveaways?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 10:08 PM
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Over the course of their lifetime, a person who works less in a lower paying job will earn roughly $1 million less than a person who works more in a higher paying job - simply because they work less in a lower paying job.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 10:07 PM
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What's the general reaction to it?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 08:50 PM
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That's what most "news" media distrubute these days as journalism. As you said, this is not that unusual. It doesn't seem any shittier than most of the "news" stories posted to /news, /worldnews, and most certainly /politics.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 07:19 PM
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I don't disagree with your assessment. But aren't most stories one sided? The weird part about this story that caught my attention was not that it was one-sided, it was that is was one-sided from the viewpoint of the accused. Usually the story comes from the police who want a conviction and the alleged victim.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 06:52 PM
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Nope. There's some idiot teachers out there for sure. More than I'd like. The more opportunities for learning the merrier though IMHO. Parents, friends, neighbors, teachers, other students, with parent overseeing and guiding and helping the children understand the differences and.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 06:43 PM
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While it's best to keep your children at home where they don't interact with other people, not everybody knows everything and can pass on the breadth of human experience all by themselves. /s
/r/MensRights28/02/13 06:04 PM
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This is awsome. It opens a huge can of worms.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 05:34 PM
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we put them in a bad position Define "we".
/r/MensRights27/02/13 04:27 PM
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Most of the psychologists diagnosed her with Borderline Personality Disorder. It's a lifelong disorder and they are good at hiding their true nature, and very good and getting into relationships and making people feel loved and safe. When their needs change or they perceive a threat, they can become the most evil and intractable people, alternating between poor victim and aggressive stalker/batterer. Domestic Violence laws and Family Court laws are taylor made for them. Most men who enter into r…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 04:16 PM
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I'm not saying I don't keep the bunker stocked.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:56 PM
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I felt the same way until my then adorable hard working wife flipped quit her job, refused to go back to work, took up a boyfriend, when confronted filed a false report on me for domestic violence and ran away with the children to a battered womens shelter and I wasn't allowed to even talk to them. We married after working together and dating for years. Cohabitated as a trial. The insanity came out of the blue, and fully supported by the system. The odds aren't bad for you, but the cost of losin…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:33 PM
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when you are risking your life savings and future earnings, your home, your freedom, and most of all your own children, 70% odds seems like horrific odds.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:28 PM
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for now
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:23 PM
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http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:15 PM
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We'll get it done, or raise our sons and daughters to finish it for us.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:05 PM
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I don't see the humor
/r/MensRights27/02/13 03:21 AM
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And sometimes you win the lottery.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 08:52 PM
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Narcissism
/r/MensRights20/02/13 01:32 AM
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I like this. I comment a lot as well externally, but won't use facebook or google for the same reasons...privacy. I'll check it out, thanks.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 11:41 PM
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details?
/r/MensRights19/02/13 09:16 PM
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The argument seems to be that you shouldn't express contrary opinion to a sexist opinion based on falsified information published in a mass media distribution by a government supported institution. SRS...go figure.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 03:48 PM
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Yes. The only one.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 03:49 AM
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I'm a feminist, but instead of thinking men are the problem (I don't know how many feminists really do anymore), You would be banned or flamed for posting this on a feminist sub.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:55 PM
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Women only, so sorry.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:52 PM
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Doesn't seem that subtle to me
/r/MensRights18/02/13 06:38 PM
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Paper under the door
/r/MensRights18/02/13 05:33 AM
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Janitor?
/r/MensRights18/02/13 05:32 AM
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Borderline. The mother of all hell.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 04:46 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights18/02/13 04:16 AM
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Called cps explained her diagnosis, history and arrest for violence
/r/MensRights18/02/13 03:32 AM
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Called police re domestic violence she was arrested
/r/MensRights18/02/13 03:31 AM
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Video and audio recordings. Got Marriage counselor and complained of the violence. She got diagnosed with bpd.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 03:29 AM
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That's a hard choice. I opted to risk it all for my children. I won sole custody and she owes me child support. I pay alimony for a bit but a moved assets to revocable trust in someone else's name prior to marriage. Only marital assets were debt.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 01:14 AM
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Married three years. Paid during the two year divorce period and one year past. Mine was longer than usual. They usually do half the length of marriage until ten years of marriage, then it's lifetime. The judge told me "it's not fair to you and you have right to be upset, but I can't put a mother out on the street". Totaly worth it.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 08:20 PM
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they might could use a little PR?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 07:10 PM
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Clumsy. That's my calling card.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 07:07 PM
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Lets start right there. Every college has women's studies, but there are no Men's studies. Every major city has at least one or dozens of Womens Heath Centers. I've never heard of a Men's Health Center. Family law give women presumptive custody, child support and alimony. Why does a man have to pay a woman because he used to be married to her? It all stems from the feminist propoganda and initiatives, and it won't stop until that changes. The big on that is currently on Washington's plate is the…
/r/MensRights17/02/13 07:00 PM
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The problem are policies like family law, VAWA, the incessant political diatribe about the "war on women". The posters, the protestest, etc. This morning on the news I heard about a bomb in Iraq and they only mentioned how many women and children were killed. The rape accusation culture and the man shaming. I haven't heard one single feminist organization come out against any of that. Edit: Can you point to a feminist/women's organization that supports equal rights publicly and politically?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:40 PM
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r/parenting blames it on men's rampant sexual desires and unavoidable biology.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:30 PM
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Feminism. Make it go away.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:27 PM
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Let me guess... they can get out of it by getting pregnant, whereas the father can't.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 04:31 PM
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We've done that. We've told them. Now what?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:10 PM
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Agree but not relevant
/r/MensRights17/02/13 01:23 PM
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Right there with you
/r/MensRights17/02/13 12:48 PM
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But I've had that bottled up for so long
/r/MensRights17/02/13 12:47 PM
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Nope.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 12:42 PM
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Either way, it's creepy and his suspicion is warranted.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 10:56 AM
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You posted because your instincts are trying to tell you something.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 10:49 AM
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Some of them by experience.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 10:48 AM
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Yes. Yes it do.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 10:01 AM
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I think he's accustomed to creating a controversy. UOT?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:32 AM
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Do not try to understand the mind of a narcisist or BPD.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:13 AM
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I expect a lot of karma will be sacrificed that day
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:10 AM
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been to /r/politics lately?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:08 AM
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Why can't we all just get along?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 01:46 AM
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Outstanding!
/r/MensRights17/02/13 12:34 AM
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And yet somehow the feminists in the government think anonymity for the accused is harmful to the accuser. How so?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 12:02 AM
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Well that's the plan. It doesn't necessarily start out that way though. I actually just pulled that from the sidebard over there ------------->
/r/MensRights16/02/13 11:19 PM
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Well, that was depressing.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 11:02 PM
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Is there any evidence of actual progress in family court or with the domestic violence industry?
/r/MensRights16/02/13 10:55 PM
16

Depends on the state and her circumstances, but it's hard enough to get shared custody for married fathers. I got lucky. I married mine after some shifting of assets to a revocable family trust. Still cost me a fortune but was able to demonstrate after some time (and diligent documentation) that she was unfit. I now have full custody. I pay her alimony, but that's soon to end. Good luck.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 10:32 PM
11

Married fathers have some few rights regarding custody. Unmarried, none. Think about it.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 10:23 PM
3

I wish this would happen more often. The movement is slowly gaining momentum, but at some point there needs to be a spark to light it up big time.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 09:46 PM
1

Advocacy isn't just about what is popular
/r/MensRights16/02/13 09:19 PM
17

Post an update. I like to see how things work out.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 08:02 PM
30

Tell you mother in no uncertain terms how you feel about it.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 07:17 PM
4

Who the fuck cares if they are offended. They should be ashamed.
/r/MensRights16/02/13 01:03 PM
2

You are wrong. We are being deligitimized (attempted) and labeled as a hate group because we are men who want equal rights and don't want to be deligitimized and considered bad for being men.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 09:37 PM
3

Get out.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 08:39 PM
21

You misspelled he and his.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 02:22 AM
0

Gets you downvoted into oblivion, yet I do enjoy the polite banter in r/politics or r/parenting any time a mens rights issue comes up. /s
/r/MensRights14/02/13 10:22 PM
19

And getting away with it
/r/MensRights14/02/13 10:18 PM
0

Sweet Justice
/r/MensRights14/02/13 10:07 PM
0

Some interesting comments about the same on /r/parenting but the majority over there seem to think that it's ok that boys are marked down for behavior because a lot of CEOs are men and therefore boys are fine with the mistreatment. Also they need it because they whip their dicks out all the time. http://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/18irn8/boys_will_be_boys_schools_need_to_understand_that/
/r/MensRights14/02/13 10:02 PM
-1

That's what I'm saying. You haven't been jailed on false accusation, had your own children ripped away from you, had your house taken from you, your life savings, your future earnings, your fucking retirement and then made to feel like a piece of shit that deserved it. Shut the fuck up about being nice or reasonable. This shit pisses me off. If you don't like it go fuck a goat.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:24 PM
5

You video tape your wife?
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:17 PM
-1

Damned straight. Men raised by women and steeped in feminist society have lost thier backbone but dont know the difference. Say it like it is and bedamned how anyone feels about it. Unfortunately the feminized men tend to chase away the the others willing to fight like a dude.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:01 PM
1

"Women have a lot of rights now, maybe not as much as men"
/r/MensRights14/02/13 09:29 AM
1

I liked "anger is a gift".
/r/MensRights14/02/13 03:09 AM
3

Hugs. We should hug them. And kneel before them so they feel unthreatened. We don't want them feeling bad or we might make them mad.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 02:35 AM
1

Well said.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 02:33 AM
2

They are here, but you have to sift through some shit. Remember that many were raised by their mothers and grew up in a feminist school environment. They don't know how to deal with men's men, and vice versa. Sadly most will likely not find their real power...bravery and action.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 02:10 AM
1

I guess I don't understand the question. I think I should enforce it because I want them to have good teeth.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 08:37 PM
1

I prefer they have straight teeth. I can enforce that. I will. I'm Dad. They can resent me later...with good teeth.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 06:24 PM
1

Yep. I had four molars pulled for the teeth. One without novacaine because the dentist thought it would help the healing. He was wrong. I didn't want to but my parents made me. I'm glad they did. It wasn't for function but for asthetics...the number one reason people get braces as children or adults. If my children have crooked teeth, they will get braces. They will not have a choice.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:30 PM
3

I agree. Right now though I'm heading out for a pile of smoked meats with some guys. We'll talk about chicks and beer and sports most likely. Also work and family life and politics a little. Possibly religion and the weather and tell a pope joke.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:19 PM
1

They pull teeth, move them around. I stand corrected on tattoos. Ear piercing for infants?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:15 PM
1

Didn't you get the MRM memo? You're supposed to hate your cock.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:13 PM
-2

Some people are obsessed with other peoples cocks. Eryemil is one. You can't reason with that shit.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:10 PM
1

You aren't lockstepping correctly on every single issue. Why do you hate men?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:07 PM
-1

Incessant and obssessive infatuation with cocks. Unsubscribe.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:47 PM
-5

Yes you did.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:47 PM
-6

Nope. I'm commenting in reponse to the post. This man has nothing to feel bad about. Apparently people around here want him to feel bad. Your opinions mean nothing to me.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:18 PM
-3

No no no. I will not fuck off. I'm sorry you don't like your cock and other peoples cocks, but your assumption that I should care about your cock or anyone elses cocks and what they look like are beyond me. Does all this cock talk make you wet?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:09 PM
-1

They get novacaine.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:07 PM
3

It's awful wordy. I did like the part where it's not all about diaper changes. I concern my fatherly thoughts with the long term impact of my decisions and behaviors in regards to my children.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:06 PM
2

I identify as both a man and a father. Also a son, a brother, an uncle, a cousin, a friend. I didn't know I had to choose only one.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:54 PM
-1

I have no opinion on what other fathers choose for their sons regarding circumcision. I've seen childbirth too and that's bloody. I'm a pediatric nurse. Blood doesn't concern me. Ear piercing is technically mutilation, braces are technically mutilation, haircuts for fucks sake are technically mutilation. I have no opinion on what parents do for their children in any of these circumstances including female or male circumcision.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:46 PM
-3

That's what I'm thinking. Perhaps this is all about jealousy over the streamlined cocks because we enjoy longer sex sessions and aren't feeling adequately shamed.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:19 PM
1

I like this. It works two ways.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:09 PM
-1

So is a tattoo. And braces.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:09 PM
-2

I see. My refusal to hate my penis means I'm not a man. Thank you for defining me.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:06 PM
-3

Actually, your slightly reduced sensitivity probably increased your stamina and resulted in longer sex sessions. I had braces and had no choice. I do not consider myself mutilated. I am circumcised and do not consider myself mutilated. Times are changing, but fuck any suggestion that anyone has anything to do with my cock. It's awesome. Chicks dig it. Looks nice. Feels good. It is streamlined and fantastic. It's mine. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and around here every one feels obligat…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:56 PM
-2

You ain't the only one, but hands off this one's mine.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:50 PM
-1

See you are still talking about my cock so clearly you are fascinated by it. Does it make you wet just thinking about my cock?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:43 PM
-2

Please stop talking about my penis. It's creepy.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:29 PM
-2

I do want or need you sympathy. I like it. Clearly you care about my feeling. You are angry I'm. Good with my cock.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 12:58 PM
1

And this is where policy originates.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:20 AM
2

Creepy for reading your history? That's a new low for any sub. What could be in your real account? Unsubscribe.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:03 AM
1

Go back to srs.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:59 AM
2

You dont
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:52 AM
-2

Let me guess. The accusation of rape came about the time of a divorce filing and custody battle and she got custody.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:31 AM
8

Over sensitive. I don't use them, but don't care.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:53 AM
1

And he gave his feelings
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:37 AM
2

Interesting. I identify as a dad and a man. Kickass.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:10 AM
0

I guess mr would prefer I'm repulsed or ashamed of my cock. I don't understand their fascination with my cock, or why they seem to have an opinion on my cock. It's a good one mind you, but it's mine and only mine.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:04 AM
0

Fuck em'. Mine's done me proud.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 01:49 AM
2

Senate activity here. http://thomas.loc.gov/cgi-bin/bdquery/D?d113:1:./temp/~bssmkdt:: Still blows me away nobody on capital hill seems to be arguing that it's sexist.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:04 PM
5

http://www.saveservices.org/ It's all right there.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 09:55 PM
1

Good for you.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 08:56 PM
1

Face to face helps you understand people a little better and facilitates communication. I interviewed several this way. I talked to them first for about 5 minutes though to get a sense of their experience. Make sure they've got experience with Child protective services cases that go to full trial, and appeals court experience. Most attorneys haven't had the trial experience, only hearings. Some don't present well. You also want someone who tells you that you can win. I went through several that …
/r/MensRights12/02/13 08:36 PM
2

lawyers help with making sure that paperwork is done properly and on time. Legal cases can lose based on a day late, wrong form filled out, etc.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 07:55 PM
17

I upvoted him for good behavior.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 02:49 PM
0

VAWA
/r/MensRights11/02/13 10:52 AM
40

Of course Lisa Fiori feels the actual test scores aren't accurate and the teacher's subjective scores are.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 10:12 AM
23

My ex is on her 8th lawyer in 2 years. Didn't pay any of the others after I paid the first $5,000 per court order. She declared bankruptcy and fucked over all her prior lawyers. Now she's got a free one through dviforwomen.org. Thank you VAWA!
/r/MensRights08/02/13 10:19 PM
1

If they gave money to men it would mean less money for women. Why do you hate women?
/r/MensRights08/02/13 03:40 PM
1

Why should a man have to fight four years to see his own daughter?
/r/MensRights08/02/13 03:35 PM
-1

Well if shitty justifications is what you want - it's because your momma's a whore and your daddy has no teeth. Now take a bath and beg for sex, freakshow. Now if you want reasonable answers, read the comments becasue that's been asked and answered.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 08:33 PM
4

"the school’s public relations team said Durham isn’t actively pursuing male candidates"
/r/MensRights07/02/13 07:55 PM
1

The headline seems to attempt to justify and starts with how they fought. I'm guessing he has some understanding of what his sister was like.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 07:28 PM
4

lack of eveidence doesn't seem to matter much of the time in these kinds of cases. Women are presumed victims unless proven otherwise. And then still they are victims.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 07:16 PM
2

she'll sue
/r/MensRights07/02/13 07:12 PM
7

Penalized for being accused.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 07:08 PM
2

google
/r/MensRights07/02/13 05:28 PM
19

Comments from the feminists on the /r/worldnews post are precious
/r/MensRights07/02/13 04:26 PM
3

It's at the top of /r/worldnews right now
/r/MensRights07/02/13 04:20 PM
16

It's not that unusual. I'm in the same boat. I have 100% custody, physical and legal. Mother hasn't seen children once in over a year. I pay her half of my take home salary in support. Judge used the same excuse "I know it's unfair to you and you have a right to be upset, mother should look for work, but she hasn't and I can't rightfully put her out on the street". In the meantime I can't afford shoes or daycare and I borrow money from family for food.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 04:01 PM
2

The greatest evil.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 03:55 PM
2

Because you feel it
/r/MensRights07/02/13 03:09 PM
2

It was probably the fathers fault because he argued with her. Also he left the fight (abandoned her in her hour of need).
/r/MensRights07/02/13 03:06 PM
6

"I just want everybody to know that she was not a bad person"
/r/MensRights07/02/13 03:02 PM
1

yes they are, sorry too much crap on my plate this morning
/r/MensRights07/02/13 02:30 PM
0

That's the motion to proceed
/r/MensRights07/02/13 02:26 PM
3

Call your senators now. http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm
/r/MensRights07/02/13 02:01 PM
0

Ditto
/r/MensRights07/02/13 05:02 AM
3

Nurse here. I was exposed to outright sexist bullshit. And sex. I gave as good as I got and was never afraid to swing back. Saw a shirtless dude in poster in the lounge so plastered the walls with center folds. I wasn't always well received.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 04:51 AM
2

I've been through it a couple times. Multiple officers, attorneys, CPS workers all stated they get so many false allegations that they defaul to liar first off.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 07:41 PM
0

There are some great references cited on this paper
/r/MensRights06/02/13 07:37 PM
1

My original comment highlights the implications of false accusations. If you want to be believed, stop lying. Not sure why that's hard for you. Then again I've read some of your historical comments where you frequently argue that exact same thing, so it appears you are arguing for argument's sake without any real stance, and I ain't got time for that shit. Unsubscribe.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:58 PM
1

No. I believe innocent until proven guilty. I also believe usually innocent when it comes to DV. I believe most DV accusations are false. Statistics back this up. Not sure what you are still rambling about.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:48 PM
-1

You are defending a 70% false report rate as acceptable to protect the 30% of actual victims, and then blame me for being doubtful on whether or not claims are true. Why are you here?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:42 PM
2

It's hard so don't do it
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:27 PM
10

Free for them. You and I pay for it.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:21 PM
6

In about 70% of cases, the allegation is deemed to be unnecessary or false.10,11.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:20 PM
0

In about 70% of cases, the allegation is deemed to be unnecessary or false.10,11. Edit: Removed rant about DrDerpberg's writing style
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:10 PM
4

The wolf ate the boy alright, but the villagers stopped listening.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:55 PM
-1

Read my post, I said no such thing. Are you an idiot?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:53 PM
-1

Do you mean the statistics collected by the women's shelters? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Boy_Who_Cried_Wolf. You should stop confusing rhetoric for reality.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:50 PM
1

Thank you for doing something.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:33 PM
3

That's why I like posts with contact information.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:55 PM
-4

It's at the point if I hear any story of a woman claiming abuse I figure she's a liar. I'm sure it happens, but I think the false reports dwarf the abuse.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:51 PM
2

The tender years doctrine - women get custody, child support, alimony. Lots of money there folks, billions.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:48 PM
3

http://www.linkedin.com/pub/jessica-vickery-mph-ches/31/367/b67
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:25 PM
5

I hate it when people say "don't waste your breath arguing because you can't change their minds". Who the hell are you going to argue with then? How will people know that there's another viewpoint ou there? How will people find the truth?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:06 PM
1

spend some time in /new and use the downvote. Best way to make them go away.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 03:57 PM
4

Feminism does not have gender equality in mind. Far from it.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 03:47 PM
25

Yep. We'll get nowhere by staying silent. That's how we got here...complicity.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 03:41 PM
17

Not even close. Feminists are also professors and polititians and newscasters and are all over the freakin place. Their views have become the policy discourse default from which we must dig outselves out of.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 03:32 PM
1

Even this isn't consent. She needs to say that in a comfortable and safe environment free from alcohol or persuasion. I take this as meaning she needs to fax her consent while being videotaped taking a drug and alcohol test, at the women's shelter. Once the test results come back you can proceed with caution as there's no way to know for sure.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 10:08 PM
5

Nay. They should be incarcerated immediately for forcing you into this. Can they prove they didn't?
/r/MensRights05/02/13 10:02 PM
1

Excellent powers of deduction
/r/MensRights05/02/13 07:16 PM
3

Important is a scale not a bulian. This is on it somewhere.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 06:45 PM
2

They should stop
/r/MensRights05/02/13 06:44 PM
7

Did you send them an email?
/r/MensRights05/02/13 06:28 PM
2

something like that
/r/MensRights05/02/13 06:05 PM
1

English language is descriptive not prescriptive.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:19 PM
2

Discussions do lend themselves towards reason more than most political subs.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 03:39 PM
4

Yep. Feminism is where BPDers and Narcisists come together.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 03:30 PM
3

There will never be enough glory or sympathy to appease a narcisist
/r/MensRights05/02/13 03:29 PM
8

The narcisist is never fulfilled. There is never enough sympathy, pity or glory.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 03:27 PM
15

Make a poster of your own. Copy it. Post liberally with the others. Start controversy. Get media attention. Like Judo.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 02:48 PM
6

Strike three for me. Never realized how priviledged I am.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 02:33 PM
24

That's the point here. Straight women's privildedge is compensated for by their victim status in regards to men. The people who make this crap have one enemy...white, male, straight.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 02:33 PM
1

I can see both points. Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. Not worthy of critisism however imho.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 02:26 PM
1

girls, as a rule, comport themselves far better than boys. Better, or differently?
/r/MensRights04/02/13 08:42 PM
5

I think you accidentally a logic
/r/MensRights04/02/13 07:27 PM
23

I'm trying to imaging what would happen had genders been reversed. Can't do it.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 06:16 PM
1

Nope. All cops are wife beaters. Don't you real?
/r/MensRights02/02/13 02:46 PM
1

Cut some slack. People are angry. So many men have been stripped of everything they've worked for their entire lives and made to feeel guilty for causing it to happen. Men have been pushed into a corner and you are starting to see an upwelling of that anger on a large scale. Don't quiet it. It is the fuel for the movement.
/r/MensRights02/02/13 02:44 PM
3

Upvote for your mastery of feminist dogma.
/r/MensRights02/02/13 02:39 PM
1

sqeaky wheel gets the grease in the courtroom?
/r/MensRights01/02/13 09:18 PM
11

White hetero male. They try to portray MRA as racists as well as misgynist and homophobic. I haven't seen any of that, but then what are a few facts in the face of "help me I'm a tiny helpless girl"?
/r/MensRights01/02/13 09:16 PM
11

"Although these were paedophile acts…it was a one-off…they were [also] acts of drunkenness, selfishness and childishness’". That's the reason the judge gave for letting her off.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 08:59 PM
30

You are the problem
/r/MensRights01/02/13 08:59 PM
0

It is still out there. It is still relevant. This is the first time I've seen it. It bothers me. I'm glad this was posted. So did at least 131 other people.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 05:54 PM
1

Notice it's written by Emma Barnett, Women's Editor. I wonder if they have a Men's Editor. Or would that be sexist?
/r/MensRights01/02/13 05:51 PM
12

I posted this on the comments..."Gentlemen, you don't have to marry the first vagina you meet."
/r/MensRights01/02/13 05:39 PM
1

It's bearing down hard on slot number 2
/r/MensRights01/02/13 04:53 PM
1

Check your state laws yourself on recording. i asked my attorneys and they told me it wasnt legal. then i read the law which said you can record any telephone conversation as its electronic and presumed recordable. anything in my home i can record. Also i can record 1 other person at any time and place without consent, even if told not to. No penalties for breaking these rules unless i also successfully use that recording to do harm tp another. even the judge wasnt aware of this until i pointed …
/r/MensRights01/02/13 02:55 AM
3

I just wrapped mine up last week. Won full custody. Always be reasonable and logical. Keep an email or other journal and document everything. Get a small digital recorder and record all conversations with her and anyone else involved with the case.
/r/MensRights01/02/13 02:34 AM
1

No but I have a right to have you arrested and jailed where you may be raped. Or is it rape if a lesbian inmate forces you to perform oral sex on her. I can't keep up with the ever broadening definitions of rape that seem to discount the fact that men can and are raped at the same frequency as women.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 10:22 PM
2

Also knows as feminists.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 08:58 PM
17

Ditto
/r/MensRights31/01/13 11:35 AM
2

Genius
/r/MensRights31/01/13 03:43 AM
5

I spent my entire savings and maxed all debt options and won full custody after then wife falsely accused me. Judge determined she lied. No penalty for her, but ordered me to pay her psych bills and alimony. Edit: worth every penny
/r/MensRights30/01/13 09:24 PM
12

Are you kidding? You can't get a settlement even if false accusations result in your arrest, incarceration, loss of your children job and home. It might discourage the real victims from reporting it.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 05:21 PM
2

sign my ex up for all three!
/r/MensRights30/01/13 05:05 PM
1

Well crap.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:22 PM
9

If the follow-up narrative was directed towards the original Lulu app highlighting the wrongness of it, it could turn out to be a good way to get media attention on the inherent sexism of one being acceptable and the other not.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 02:34 PM
30

That's an outstanding story. I wish to see more like it spread around the country.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 02:27 PM
14

In the interests of equal rights you can make your own app and see what happens.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 02:19 PM
2

Hahhahhahahaha
/r/MensRights30/01/13 10:28 AM
1

Good good
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:54 AM
2

Yep. I've gleefully watched my karma wiped out several times
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:31 AM
2

Have an upvote
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:28 AM
2

You are asking for it
/r/MensRights30/01/13 03:26 AM
1

My bad. I thought they took on cases of particular interest with a national/public twist.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 09:45 PM
10

These are the droids you are looking for... http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/
/r/MensRights29/01/13 05:36 PM
0

http://www.iwf.org/blog/2790251/Demagoguery-and-Duplicity-Cloud-VAWA-Reauthorization-Debate
/r/MensRights29/01/13 05:19 PM
4

I stopped at the title which clearly states that the author is biased against men and the content rubish.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 04:12 PM
2

Though legislation and policy seems to continue in the wrong direction, I'm sensing public opinion shifting.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 04:00 PM
2

Write them a letter let them know they are supported.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 03:58 PM
2

Men's rights group allowed to set up club on campus.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 03:57 PM
0

Moron.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 03:56 PM
5

Your criticizing his activism is less than helpful. It is destructive. Turn your energies towards doing something constructive rather than trying to discourage people from doing.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 11:06 AM
12

Note how to make it more palatable they show how the new wife is upset that her husband has to pay his old wife. Women scrabbling over his earnings. It wouldn't be copacetic to put it in print if it were just the man who was upset.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 10:06 PM
7

noodles it sounds like
/r/MensRights28/01/13 09:39 PM
13

"Although abuse of men, abuse of middle-aged women and abuse and neglect of elderly and vulnerable (physically or mentally dysfunctional) adults can have equally devastating consequences as IPV among younger women, there is currently not enough evidence about how primary care clinicians can effectively screen and intervene," the task force said Monday. Apparently they don't know how to ask men the same questions. Edit: Seems like they could just ask "Has your wife or girlfriend ever hit or other…
/r/MensRights28/01/13 09:07 PM
1

unless others are listening.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 08:09 PM
2

I am divorced after three years of marriage. I have sole custody of both of our children. I pay her alimony of half of my salary. Per court order I do not get any child support from the mother. She has a degree and is able to work, and in fact has been working but refused to turn over her financial information. The judge stated that while this was unfair and I have a right to be frustrated, he "could not put a woman out on the street". When I pressed for financial information that the law states…
/r/MensRights28/01/13 07:56 PM
5

Bring it on. Men's rights can use the press.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 07:35 PM
2

‘The feminist movement won’t be hostile to the film as feminism is more rational now.’
/r/MensRights28/01/13 06:18 PM
0

More opportunities and modes of expression for women = oppression WTF?
/r/MensRights28/01/13 05:15 PM
2

I have a couple very close friends that I can pour my soul out to. One I met 30 years ago my freshman year in college, and the other I met about 20 years ago. Both live over 1500 miles away and don't know each other. I have one good friend here close to home but his guard is up a little more. I'm fortunate to also have a brother and father who know and understand me and are able to talk about whatever is bothering us. They are my foundation and I'd be lost without them.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 05:10 PM
3

Not only that, but they mock and deride male friendships. Guys having to ask for permission for guys night out etc.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 05:07 PM
6

Let's show these guys our support!
/r/MensRights28/01/13 02:18 PM
14

Con artists are marketing specialists
/r/MensRights28/01/13 02:10 PM
3

Defend your reputation. The old saying "sticks and stones..." is wrong. Words can hurt, and your reputation and credibility defines you to the world around you. It impacts your social life, your work, your financial future, and your self identity. Defend it as it were all you have. It is your most important asset.
/r/MensRights27/01/13 04:08 PM
2

Don't.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 08:11 AM
0

To be fair, pediatricians have long recommended it for health reasons. Also, most fathers are afraid that a "different" looking penis could lead to teasing. The vast majority of men in this country are circumcised. Your father's decision was well supported.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 08:10 AM
1

Well there is that
/r/MensRights26/01/13 04:37 AM
1

She tried to take something that is not hers from the rightful owner. She is a thief.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 08:43 PM
1

http://www.change.org/petitions/hope-for-victims-support-the-partner-violence-reduction-act
/r/MensRights25/01/13 08:37 PM
1

Craigslist post?
/r/MensRights25/01/13 08:29 PM
1

The article clearly says that SHE threw the first anger punch; because she didn't like the way he boxed. If anyone is guilty of assault it was her, who admitted that she was not just boxing but intending to harm through violence. Why hasn't she been arrested?
/r/MensRights25/01/13 08:16 PM
7

Call them. NOW!
/r/MensRights23/01/13 01:28 PM
33

Like a clinic on Borderline Personality Disorder.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 02:02 AM
0

She's starving for attention, and misandry is the least likely to cause any significant notice of cognitive disturbance.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 09:32 PM
1

Not sure where to begin with this one
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:52 PM
2

Those bastards.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 06:03 PM
1

I called. Men aren't allowed in the DV shelters. Also, no pro-bono lawyers were available, women only. Also no funds for assistance. They told me I was not allowed to go inside the place to talk to anyone. It was a safe place for women and children. They indicated I was a threat to them by doing so.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 04:03 PM
3

There would be the phone vendor records. Cell phone display memory. And if it were me a phone recording possibly. There's also testimony. What I'm saying is that her word that she was abused is her word only, and was offset by his. In the absense of other evidence, I suspect she lied to the court about the abuse because she wanted him dead to gain custody and his wealth.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 03:54 PM
6

They laid it all bare this time. Too delicate to prosecute. Womanhood is as good as a declaration of insanity. A get out of jail free card.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 03:29 PM
13

Women. Too delicate to prosecute.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 03:15 PM
6

Evidence of the absence of evidence. Now you you sound like a family court judge.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 03:13 PM
2

Here's a thought. Accused's identity is private until trial. And only if the alleged "victim" is also public.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 02:32 PM
1

Hey don't shoot the messenger. I just copypasted the only comment I saw on the link at the time.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 12:13 PM
27

Something like this will also have a serious effect on the falsely accused.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 03:03 AM
-4

9gagger • an hour ago − I am sure all those involved in the hoax were redditors. These people have no shame.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 01:55 AM
2

If you wanted something done you should have called the police. This is sexual assault. The bar was complicit and should have been sued for not doing anything to stop it.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 10:28 PM
1

Complicit in the crime and guilty of murder.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 09:30 PM
9

The DOJ is rampant with feminist dogma. But then there are myriad of feminist organizations who provide them with ahem...data, stats, and free training materials and conferences. Google "domestic violence" and you get page after page of feminist propoganda websites, usually disguised as factual and unbiased information, whos sole purpose is to "inform" those who make law, enforce law, and interpret the law. There's a handful of men's rights groups trying to combat this, but another angle would b…
/r/MensRights21/01/13 09:22 PM
14

Obviously the cop should be jailed for taking advantage of you.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:57 PM
7

Also, men aren't allowed. This might skew the numbers.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:55 PM
-1

To be fair there are two kinds of men. Rapers/batterers, and feminist males. Feminist males don't have all the dirt and such.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:44 PM
8

There is only intent to deceive here.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 05:45 PM
5

Call them Toll-Free: 888.778.7091 or Email them here: http://www.ccadv.org/index.php/about-ccadv/contact-us Call for presenters at the upcoming conference: http://s403414781.onlinehome.us/wordpress/call-for-presenters/
/r/MensRights21/01/13 05:38 PM
7

There is power in money. There is money in power.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 05:28 PM
11

Feminism is a handy weapon. A potent and effective weapon.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 03:29 PM
16

msn.com - it's like watered down people magazine
/r/MensRights21/01/13 03:13 PM
-7

MRA's complain when a woman marries a mature adult and thereby oppress and control her parts - this is why she needs feminism.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 03:03 PM
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Some comment gold at the bottom
/r/MensRights21/01/13 02:57 PM
1

Welcome aboard, brother. Not that I'm gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 02:52 PM
32

So many rapes...
/r/MensRights21/01/13 02:49 PM
7

I reposted as such in r/politics. I'm curious to see how people react to that angle. http://www.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/16zmvc/women_protest_for_right_to_work_news_hour_videos/
/r/MensRights21/01/13 02:44 PM
4

Because equal rights
/r/MensRights21/01/13 01:26 PM
3

22 now
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:08 AM
3

Best of luck. Fight hard.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:01 AM
1

Kudos for doing something
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:57 AM
0

Yet look at the effort you've put into complaining about it and defending apathy. I understand, not every opportunity is worth it. My point is...it can be. It is growing. You may not be the first to speak up, and he may have Ben thinking it already, and have some input.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:52 AM
-1

And ... voice heard. That's critical.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:42 AM
0

Make your voice heard when presented with sexism or go home and whine about it. Managers attitude shouldn't factor.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:32 AM
0

Yes.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:24 AM
4

Defeated so easily? Manager on busy day means more likely to concede to get you away. You never know, the manager may be looking for excuse to take it down. No wonder they do it, there's no penalty...none.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:21 AM
57

His pre -rapist days
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:17 AM
15

Mean looking? You mean masculine ? /s
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:12 AM
1

Next time try the manager
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:10 AM
3

It's abysmal,that if a man wants to procreate, the penalties are so severe.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 04:42 AM
11

The scary pat is, it doesn't require a babysitter. A wife can do the same thing.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:45 PM
1

4
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:31 PM
-1

The more time my wife spends with these women, the more outrageous becomes her lies and attacks.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:19 PM
3

Yes.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 09:23 AM
1

TIL Maxim = Rapist
/r/MensRights20/01/13 09:12 AM
7

This is wonderful news. They may claim they are hiding from our murderous rampages, but it's nothing more than shame.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 12:33 PM
10

And...a Ken doll? WTF?
/r/MensRights19/01/13 12:28 PM
1

People are angry, let them talk.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 12:19 PM
1

Pretend confidence. It becomes real with practice.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 04:14 AM
2

Yes. Lots of good resources to help deal with it.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 10:11 PM
1

on toast
/r/MensRights18/01/13 10:10 PM
1

The other alternative is to hire men, and we all know they are rapists and pedophiles and batterers.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 10:10 PM
2

You have to reverse the genders
/r/MensRights18/01/13 09:45 PM
3

wink, wink.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 09:44 PM
6

Pardon, but I'm not hear to appease SRS or feminists. This is a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 09:43 PM
1

They would have mentioned it if someone important like a woman had died.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 09:09 PM
3

And again, it's referred to as "sex". Not rape, child molestation, etc.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 08:05 PM
7

Looks like he sued and won! http://www.trinidadexpress.com/news/State_pays__64_000__for_false_rape_case-132214608.html
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:52 PM
1

My ex is BPD/Narcisistic. This nails it. If you are preparing for a divorce, gather yourself. It's wicked.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 03:30 PM
3

My ex is BPD/Narcisistic. This nails it. If you are preparing for a divorce, gather yourself. It's wicked.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 03:29 PM
8

The Human Rights Watch report focuses solely on Washington, but in many cities across the US, the police record an alarming proportion of reported rapes as “unfounded” cases, meaning they decide the crime did not happen and the report was false or baseless. Maybe if they prosecute false claims aggresively, they wouldn't dismiss the real criminal cases.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 10:10 PM
0

It's new for upstart men to assert themselves. They feel threatened. They should. We will have equal treatment and not soon enough.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:11 PM
7

Alimony agrees.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 03:14 PM
1

Well if men can't read, their labor does not provide women with as many shiny things.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 10:10 PM
3

http://www.saveservices.org/wp-content/uploads/Partner-Violence-Reduction-Act1.pdf Sign the petition
/r/MensRights16/01/13 08:39 PM
1

http://www.saveservices.org/wp-content/uploads/Partner-Violence-Reduction-Act1.pdf Sign the petition
/r/MensRights16/01/13 08:39 PM
2

This looks like blatant sexism supported by tax payer funds.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:58 PM
4

aaaand....it's gone
/r/MensRights16/01/13 04:11 PM
5

My understanding is that the historic VAWA that has been in place for years is dead since it was not re-issued. However, the bill to re-issue and expand it is recirculating on the hill. S.A.V.E is an excellent source of info on this and is hosting a petition to circulate a different and gender neutral version. http://www.saveservices.org/
/r/MensRights16/01/13 03:32 PM
2

I have a son who is three years old. Your story gives me strength to continue to fight for him. Thank you for sharing.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 03:27 PM
0

If someone wants to be a victim, you can't argue them out of it.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 07:33 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 06:59 PM
3

I also recommend preparing with video/audio recording device and setting off triggers. Judges love irrefutable proof of false accusations and verbal abuse.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 06:55 PM
2

You can find your Senators' contact information here: http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm or call 1-202-224-3121
/r/MensRights15/01/13 06:05 PM
2

There are some great articles here.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 05:26 PM
7

I was able to make a connection with a case worker by expressing my concern about their mothers relationship with them. I kept pointing out her lies. I found that by being reasonable but firm with the ex was a huge trigger for her. I showed CPS the emails and phone recordings. CPS did not like being lied to. One by one I was able to win them over. Case is over now, but I still send them pictures of the kids. I insisted on psych evals for us plus parent-child interactionals. She was diagnosed wit…
/r/MensRights15/01/13 04:47 PM
7

I kept my attorney out of the CPS interactions as much as possible. It puts them on the defensive. I found that I was well regarded by them and through reason and demonstrating concern for my children while always supporting their relationship with a "healthy" mother with the end goal being 50/50, I wanted her to get the help she needed to be a positive influence on their lives. I made sure to appeal to their motherly/sisterly instincts, and always tried to not be defensive. I stated I had room …
/r/MensRights15/01/13 04:41 PM
9

I sent letters to the CASA, CPS, and the County Attorneys. I always made sure though that I presented facts, not opinions, and continued to point out her "bizarre" behavior and how it presented a "danger" to the children. I had child psychologists who had met with me and the children back me up on it. I won full custody, she only has supervised visitation. Primarily due to the behaviours I had to highlight for them...undermining a child's relationship with a primary attachment figure has serious…
/r/MensRights15/01/13 04:36 PM
18

This. Several judges, many county attorneys, a dozen case workers, a half dozen psychologists, 8 different attorneys for my ex. Every time someone new comes along they start with "well it's a he said she said, but I've found the truth is usually half way in between". As I explained to a therapist once, I understand indidiual perspectives can vary. But if I look out the window and see a sunny day, and she looks out the window and describes the battle for middle earth complete with hobbits and orc…
/r/MensRights15/01/13 03:31 PM
11

My story is almost identical. She's on her 8th attorney, this one is pro-bono through battered womens shelter and aggressive and litiginous. Never give up on your son. He deserves everything from you. I've got a 5 year old girl and a 3 year old boy. It's exhausting being in constant battle mode with their mother, the court system, and bill collectors. Near daily litigation with answering briefs, allegations, etc. There are times when I feel I can't go any more, but my love for my children give m…
/r/MensRights15/01/13 03:27 PM
1

She was likely a victim of the contract.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 09:55 PM
2

They are one in the same. Family court strips men of their dignity, their freedom, their money, their jobs, their families. Nothing is left.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 09:52 PM
43

"to maintain our campus as a safe space free from oppression and discrimination". So in order to create an environment free from oppression they want to stop people from attending a speech about rights. I don't even...
/r/MensRights14/01/13 08:54 PM
2

I've rec'd resumes for tech support positions with women's pictures and marital status single. Never seen anything like it for men.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 08:42 PM
1

Do you know anybody that has some web skills to get a decent site up? Then just put up some posters, leaflets, or call the campus rag to get someone to write a story.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 08:40 PM
2

Marriage counselling before divorce. Pick a male therapist with PsyD neuropsychologist. Sounds like possible mental illness - narcisism. Paid off huge for me in court. Everything said in marriage counselling can be subpoena'd.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 02:34 PM
2

It shows how many women helpded. It shows how many children helped. No men helped, despite reveiving grant money that requires no descrimination. I applied for assistance and my calls and emails were never returned.
/r/MensRights13/01/13 07:53 PM
1

Yep Going my own way, but keeping a stable home for my kids. It's the home yje kids have lived in their whole life. Family, friends, all around here.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 01:09 PM
2

Like this one? http://www.dviforwomen.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/2010-Annual-Report-final-.pdf
/r/MensRights12/01/13 01:03 PM
3

I think men's right are more popular than is given credit
/r/MensRights12/01/13 01:01 PM
28

The question I always have when reading these articles. What can we do to change it?
/r/MensRights12/01/13 02:59 AM
1

No such thing.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 10:20 PM
1

Half my salary since separation 2 and a half years ago, plus pay her attorney fees, pscyh bills, health and car insurance, vehicle mainenance, and visitation fees. I'll have paid alimony for longer than we were married.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 09:44 PM
1

Child support guidelines and calculations are state specific. google it and you sould find something from the courthouse.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:49 PM
1

I'll be watching this one closely. Please update as you hear more. Any contacts for prosecutors in the area?
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:45 PM
2

I've had eight judges thus far,evenly split between men and women. For the most part the male judges seem to have this slant. The women judges put the hammer down in no uncertain terms, and did not buy into it. When she tried to say "I'm a stay at home mother" after not having the kids for a year and a half, the judge said "I'm a mother too, and yet here I am listening to your tired excuses". She ruled in my favor financially, but they appealed to another judge and one week later is was reversed…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 07:37 PM
0

I agree completely. Fortunately I work well with women of all ages. I have a background as a pediatric nurse, and I voluntarily studied women's studies in school. I danced ballet. As the female judge told me, "you have a hell of a story to tell, and I find you highly credible. This will play well in your favor at trial. I encourage you to proceed with any means at your disposal". They generally like me and trust me. Many of the caseworkers in my own battle with child protective services compared…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 06:56 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 06:50 PM
3

The day after our wedding a switch went off and she exploded in rage over my dog on the bed (dog I had for years before meeting her, in my condo on my bed from before marriage). Throwing things, broke a window, rage lasted for days. Never got better. No indication she was like this. We dated for a couple years. Sweet, kind, hardworking, generous. Her family commiserated with me, but ended their communication with me some time ago because they felt torn. I understood completely. Children have not…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:56 PM
2

Her taking them to a womans shelter unnecessarily and badmouthing me was the child abuse. This undermines the childrens trust in a primary attachment figure, ergo psychological abuse.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:52 PM
4

If history is any indicator, stick with ladies with large nostrils.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:12 PM
0

Got any good ideas? I'm really looking for anything I can do, for anyone, anywhere, from the comfort of my own keyboard in regards to mens rights. I peruse the sidebar on a regular basis there, it just seems like the opportinities for action are few and far between.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:11 PM
3

Good one there chief. Pro tip from a pediatric nurse...never give a child red anything (raspberries/juice/coolaide) if ill. Scares the bejesus out of medical staff if you take them in and they puke.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:08 PM
1

hahaha. My older brother used to floss his nose with spaghetti.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:59 PM
4

Done, declined. Same reasons given. Poor mother is to be pitied, not penalized.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:55 PM
3

I eat ants and dandelions WITH my kids. We made soup with a "magic soup stone" from the front garden last summer too.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:53 PM
4

She has never admitted lying. Even when caught redhanded via audio/video tape, she claims that I altered them. She presented her own audio/video tape and claimed it showed something it didn't with all to see. e.g. there was a tape she procured from the police station video camera which she claimed showed me being aggressive and violent and pushing her and our daughter. She played the tape and it showed a quick, calm, orderly exchange and I never came within 3 feet of her nor did I speak to her e…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:07 PM
4

I look for opportunities to call police. Different court, different judge. And many cops are sympathetic.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 11:03 AM
5

It's been awhile, but initially I felt some of that.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:30 AM
7

My mother is not violent. She's a tiny old Italian grandmother. Ex is nuts. Neither one wants any where near her. Too many false allegations.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 02:47 AM
10

Laws. Also judges and lawyers attend free ceu seminars on dv child custody issues offered by feminist volunteer organizations. We have a long way to go.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 02:45 AM
5

Parents didn't work out. She made accusations she was in fear for her life due to my 73 yo mothers violent behavior and tried to leave with my daughter. Also their hatred of her is profound at this point.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 01:38 AM
6

That's the plan. She's requested friends she met at the shelter to supervise. My impression of the women from shelter is not very flattering. I go with professionals only as its my call.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 01:30 AM
5

It's over in 3 months. It will have lasted longer than our marriage.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 12:28 AM
20

The alimony was based on my status as a sole parent. I've been the sole legal and physical custody since the first hearing 2 and a half years ago. The judge stated that while it wasn't fair to me, and it was out of the ordinary and could understand why I would be frustrating, he could not with good concience put a mother out on the street. He aknowledged she was fit to work, had worked during marriage, and was activily refusing full time work, she was indeed not working and cessation of support …
/r/MensRights11/01/13 12:27 AM
11

thank you. Unfortunately, it seems my ex's traits aren't that absurd...Borderline, Narcicistic, and Histrionic diagnosed, but common enough behaviors within these walls.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 12:19 AM
5

Thanks. I'm concerned about the car/boat thing. At least things are locked down for now.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 12:16 AM
5

That's good to know. I'm still in shock over having to pay so much to her (half my take home pay). It's absurd.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:43 PM
2

Many if not most have been taught to be angry but the world they live in, from their teachers, their peers, the media, the polititians, and mostly from the domestic violence/rape industry. Not from actual experienced trauma, but from referred trauma. They suffer the injustices of the past and other people without regard for the history or experience of the targets they claim oppress them.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:41 PM
9

Thank you. I get the impression things are bad all over.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:37 PM
14

I blocked passports long ago, but I realize that only narrows her options. I've been researching miniscule gps trackers for them, but most are too big to go unnoticed. In the meantime she's not allowed near them except in a secure visitation center. I am nervous for if/when that is lifted.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:17 PM
15

Bearing down hard on 50 here, so I got a chuckle out of being called "son" on reddit where I double the average. Thanks, it feels good.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:12 PM
11

Took my two little monkeys out to a nice restaraunt and some downtown attractions. They don't know about all the crap that's going on, but they sure were happy I took the day off work to celebrate with them.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 10:56 PM
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Here's the absurdity...I pay her alimony and she does not owe me child support. Per court orders. We were married less than three years.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 10:04 PM
15

stalker
/r/MensRights10/01/13 09:53 PM
1

I do use an email account I set up specifically for activism as my real ones have my name in them.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 03:28 PM
2

yeah, they are mostly into national campaigns etc. I sign the petitions but I'm thinking more along the lines of grassroots.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:23 PM
1

I'm not execting it. It can be rewarding though. I've had several positive responses from national brands and journalists when i've pointed out bias and male bashing.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:14 PM
9

I've spent 150,000 on my own case after wife accused me of DV. she got help from the DV clubs, and gradually added things like verbal and emotional violence, then topped it off with child molestation (innapropriately tickling 2 year old daughter on the back, reading her bedtime stories because daddy shouldn't be in her bedroom, etc). Still fighting, and she added mutliple rapes to the allegations just last week (divorced for 2.5 years). I'm thinking the legal defense fund it not viable, but perh…
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:09 PM
1

It just seems like weve got some great momentum going, and isn't in time we start going outside our own MR sphere and take it to the streets. That's how a movement starts.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:46 PM
2

I do spend time giving people reasons to do it, and links for contact/petitions. I'm not suggesting the swedes bombard the french ministry with letters, but certainly if I see unfairness in Utah I can write their congressmen/women and the white house, and the news and television stations. I write the national media too on local stories in the hopes someone there will pick it up as an interesting story.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:45 PM
3

Not just poster campaigns. Any why do you have to live in the same area? When unfariness and misandry are pointed out, It would be nice to see some contact information posted for their local media or national media and or elected officials for us to contact. Even small, local stories can make a difference.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:33 PM
3

I always wonder what we can do in these situations. Other than just complaining.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:24 PM
2

Call your local newspaper and television station. Better yet, rally the troupes. I'll be happy to send letters to the school, tv, newspaper if you can provide some links and details.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:23 PM
0

Scary
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:22 PM
5

Nice try troll
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:21 PM
1

It's not women on men, men on men. It's feminism on men. Men and women are feminists. Also feminists lobby for the men and women in power to enact the laws out of pity.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:18 PM
2

Sometimes standing up for yourself and your rights is at the expense of others, namely those who would take yours away.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:00 PM
18

Who said women? Men can be feminists too.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:10 PM
-2

Feminism has earned the bashing.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:55 PM
18

Why can't we express our anger?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:12 PM
4

It's early and aerik hasn't woken /againstmensrights up yet.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:44 PM
6

That's not fatherhood. It's spermdonorhood. Fatherhood implies something positive in a man's relationship with his children.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:42 PM
8

It can't.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:25 PM
2

It should be
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:09 PM
37

And destroy the lives of others
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:49 AM
16

So your saying its ok if a woman gives away a mans child without his consent if they aren't married?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:49 AM
3

No.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 04:02 AM
0

Care to send him a quick note?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:55 AM
49

Husbands and fathers and those considering...are you scared yet?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:20 AM
1

That's what /mensrights is all about. You can go back to your regular /againstmensrights account now.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:54 AM
1

"perhaps because the child's father will teach his child to fear and distrust women". What the holy fuck are you talking about?
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:47 AM
1

Did that. She refused. And I disagree with your statement regarding very few. My brother's ex tried the same exact thing. My father's first wife did it. My cousins did it. My brother in-law's first wife did it. My own sister tried that shit. In fact, almost all of the divorce cases I've been personally privy too this has happened. My lawywer who is a woman says that about half of her clients try it and she has to turn down a lot of business because of the crazy shit the women pull. She never get…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:40 AM
1

He said that while it wasn't fair, and he was sorry and understood my frustration, he couldn't put a woman out on the street to live in her car. He gave her a year to get her shit together in which time he hoped she would get mental help so she could get custody of the children before that year was up.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:31 AM
1

No. I have a poor legal system.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:23 AM
1

They did give me full legal and physical custody of the children and I kept the house and car. Financially screwed otherwise.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:11 AM
8

Apparently this is at the top of the hot list on /againstmensrights. Explains the bouncing numbers. They sure don't like people reading up on this one.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:07 AM
5

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=jean+harris+feminist
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:44 AM
3

Wanna know what's cute? A feminist asking for evidence. You don't need that to send someone to prison, but you need it now.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:35 AM
5

http://www.cnn.com/2012/12/29/us/connecticut-jean-harris-obit/index.html?iref=allsearch
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:22 AM
1

excellent. Thank you.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 01:01 AM
1

Email Scott Shields, Chief Executive Officer [email protected].
/r/MensRights09/01/13 12:49 AM
0

Email Scott Shields, Chief Executive Officer [email protected].
/r/MensRights09/01/13 12:49 AM
0

Email Scott Shields, Chief Executive Officer [email protected].
/r/MensRights09/01/13 12:49 AM
5

http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ http://www.fathersandfamilies.org/2011/01/10/misguided-dv-groups-back-discredited-battered-mothers-custody-conference/ http://batteredmotherscustody.blogspot.com/ http://womensenews.org/story/domestic-violence/100505/battered-women-take-custody-battles-white-house
/r/MensRights08/01/13 10:19 PM
1

I do, but from a very young age - toddler on. My ex was diagonsed with both. Her behaviours seem common to what I read about on this sub. Seems like spoiled brat with no regard for anyone else, rampant use of hysterics, crying, denying an responibility, lying, accusations, selfishness. I don't think you are born with those.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 09:56 PM
1

Looks like an advertisement to never get married
/r/MensRights08/01/13 09:52 PM
3

and men who hate themselves
/r/MensRights08/01/13 09:51 PM
0

I've written them. If anyone else does and gets a response I'd be interested in seeing it.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 06:49 PM
0

The section title is misleading and indicates only women are victims. End of story. It's clearly a mistake, but I doubt it's unintentional. This stuff is everywhere, when and where do you draw the line on just laying down and taking it?
/r/MensRights08/01/13 06:40 PM
1

From an FAQ on domestic violence at the Karlis FAMILY Center. Email Scott Shields, Chief Executive Officer [email protected]. Let him know that this only perpetuates the myth of female only victimization, and suppresses the recognition of at least half of all domestic violence victims.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 06:23 PM
12

Yep. Woman = good, man = bad.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 06:12 PM
9

Yes it is. Where have you been?
/r/MensRights08/01/13 05:11 PM
2

I think it's great there have only ever been 10 rapes. Seems like I hear about it more than that though.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 05:01 PM
8

I just wanted to give him a hug
/r/MensRights08/01/13 04:54 PM
10

Nuts how they could feel justified on this one.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 04:52 PM
8

There's a whole industry for women who lose custody due to abusing their children called "battered mothers". Battered Mothers Custody Conference, Battered Mothers Testimony Conference, etc. Maralee MClean is an example who travels around giving lectures etc. on women who lose custody because of violence should somehow have custody, and they support any means to gaining physical control of the children and blocking any access to their father.. This is truly where the crazy come together.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 04:51 PM
6

"We have a long way to go, and the idea that things are OK, that people aren't thinking about it because they feel like their lives are OK, is also a part of the problem."
/r/MensRights08/01/13 04:43 PM
7

News now because she died, and the killing happened years ago, but WTF?
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:56 PM
6

I mouse click wicked hard
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:37 PM
0

Haven't you heard? Everything is our fault. No research or statistics or logic required.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:23 PM
2

It's really created a generation of personality disordered women...BPD and NPD.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:19 PM
0

Generally they have a formula and you pay a percentage based on incomes and number of overnights with each parent. Google child support calculation for your state, or check with the courthouse website. If you have any regularly scheduled days off during the week though you can just take the kids during that time. She should also have to prove day care is needed for her to work/school. She can't just put them in there to go to the spa. You'll want documentation from her on all of the above.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:18 PM
8

What exactly is the point of the downvote brigade in /mensrights? I understand they want to shout down reason in /politics etc. but they can't actually believe the impact opinions here.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:13 PM
8

Holy cow, they sure don't like this one. Must mean it's a good one. I'm giving it two upvotes!
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:10 PM
-1

I always like the appeal to emotions when discussing feminisms. People who are susceptible to feminist propoganda generally are unable to process reason and logic, and therefore the emotional angle becomes the most effective tool.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 02:51 PM
1

Great post
/r/MensRights08/01/13 05:49 AM
4

I have full custody. I pay her.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 05:01 AM
1

Yive been on the receiving end too.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 04:40 AM
-1

That is a beautiful thing to see. I don't think it's over the top, our expectations of media have been low for too long.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:35 AM
1

The worst part is that it's often reported in the sense of"if only fathers would take an interest in their children", when often it's the mother using the system to destroy the father/child relationship. Makes me feel ragey.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:12 AM
1

What's the cutoff date for posting to reddit?
/r/MensRights08/01/13 03:04 AM
4

This is not true. Prenups are not legally binding documents. I had one and the judge dismissed without a second thought. Not worth the paper it's printed on. As far as chord support, the woman can stay home and not work. Basically she's set for life, or at least 18 years.
/r/MensRights08/01/13 02:21 AM
2

I got heated up.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 09:39 PM
2

All of the above.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 08:31 PM
0

and immediately downvoted within seconds when reposted to r/politics... http://www.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/164whg/a_17yearold_village_boy_has_been_gang_raped_by_10/
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:55 PM
1

That too.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:45 PM
9

I imagine pressures are different but equal. I've got a young daughter too (5 y/o) and I try to treat them equally, though they express themselves and react quite differently. I don't know if it's due to gender or not, but I internalize it as just two different people with two different sets of emotional responses. They both get equal hugs and kisses, and equal rewards/punishment with the same sets of boundaries. Neither one should feel priveledged or special in any regard above the other.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:41 PM
15

This. I want my young son (3 years old) to know how to be strong and how to become strong, but I also make sure he gets plenty of hugs and kisses and compassion when he needs hugs and kisses compassion, liberally. Even just randomly. When he cries I tell him I understand, and lead him toward reconciling his sadness and anger and to manage his frustrations and his emotions.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:34 PM
1

Good job there. I get riled up pretty easily and it only serves to rile them up too. Ah well, I don't expect to convince the already convinced, but I still like it and hope it reaches someone.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:28 PM
3

I don't doubt it. She reminds me of the first judge I had who awarded me the house and ordered my then wife to turn the kids over to me within the hour or be arrested. My point is that even though she may rule at times with reason, she feels comfortable talking about spousal abuse regarding her husband because society says it's okay.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:25 PM
2

Also, I don't have the chops to win any argument in /politics but daddy didn't raise no quitter
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:16 PM
1

I'm nowhere ahead, just stirring the pot.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 07:13 PM
2

What I don't understand is why men's groups, clubs, organizations continue to fold on the issue. They need to fight with everything they have. Boys and men need a safe space too.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 06:49 PM
1

Wat. Sounds about like the internet these days.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 06:46 PM
6

Not necessarily. I've appealed to women's emotion in my own case regarding my children and been very successful. Appealing to emotion to men only works for women.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 06:20 PM
3

Appealing to emotion works. I'm just suggesting that we use reason, truth, AND emotion when it's appropriate.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:54 PM
2

love it!
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:44 PM
3

My mother says this on a regular basis "what is wrong with women today?"
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:28 PM
0

Hard to say. I've occasionally ventured forth with various usernames to the fem subs to rile some feathers and recharge my batteries. Banned immediatly of course.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:21 PM
0

and a recent frequent poster to /politics and /mensrights
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:14 PM
1

It's a combination womens shelter, child visitation center. Since she's the perpetrator of violence and I'm the parent with custody they kinda have to let me in at least for the interview portion. I'm sure I'll be carefully monitored. I've requested audio/video surveillance at all times with access to records, regardless of witness presence.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:12 PM
1

I've been wondering the same thing. I have a meeting next week with a women's shelter where I'll be taking my kids to visit with their mother in a supervised setting. I plan to sneak in this question with the director.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:03 PM
3

Feelings are real to them. Don't try to change it, use it.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:59 PM
12

We can indeed use victimhood. We need to see the value in it. Women like it, men hate it, so when dealing with women it's appropriate to use it. For example, my wife falsely reported me for DV/Child abuse. When the CPS workers came to question me, I appealed to them for help in saving my children. I explained to them how my wife was a bully, how she hit, screamed and threatened to falsely report me. These women from CPS, the woman judge and woman magistrate, the woman county attorneys, psycholog…
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:58 PM
1

How does that happen?
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:52 PM
3

I did the same, with a couple of girlfriends. With my ex-wife I called the police. Best decision of my life. Self respect restored, and the police, believe it were very understanding. On another occasion she called the police and she was arrested when she retracted her lie about me punching her in the face (no marks whatsoever) and they asked about a scratch mark on my face. Led to me getting full custody.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:50 PM
7

Makes sense. To much risk, no benefit whatsoever.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:47 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:40 PM
10

Make no mistake. Feminists have been wildly successful. I hear a lot about how we don't want to be like them, and while I agree that we should always reject their dishonesty, there are strategic and tactical activities which can be turned against them.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:35 PM
12

AD nauseum. I still believe it's important to continue to post and argue/reason with them in non-MRA subs. Not to convince the rabid fems, but to have the argument aired publicly.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 04:32 PM
1

That would be best. It would be best if there was no descrimination against men anywhere. It's not likely though any time soon. They are going to push something through and fast. As such I think it behooves us to make sure our voices are heard in the new iteration. Better half measures than no measures.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 03:48 PM
1

Yes. Yes they should.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 03:44 PM
8

And it's politically correct as well. Just watch any sitcom where the wife wacks her husband on a regular basis. Where judge judy jokes about whacking her husband. It's funny apparently.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 03:42 PM
21

Why aren't these door greeter/rapists not in jail? Now tell me the rape culture based patriarchy don't real.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 03:01 PM
5

She feels entitled because the world around her tells her she is due to her gender. She is a woman. Stop providing anything not specifically court ordered. That being said, here's a few things you can do: Check self help resources at your local county court website. Check with the local bar association for pro-bono lawyers. Check with the local courthouse for self help seminars and on-call free legal assistance Appeal the decision. GET EDUCATED! You will be fighting an unjust system until your c…
/r/MensRights07/01/13 02:46 PM
7

Outstanding. I'm seeing a lot more good news here lately.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 02:42 PM
6

Males more likely to be arrested
/r/MensRights07/01/13 02:28 PM
1

And tell House Speaker John Boehner: Do Not Agree to Vote on S.1925 Even though the 112th Congress adjourned without reauthorizing the Violence Against Women Act, VAWA is still very much in the picture. John Boehner As you may remember, last year the Senate passed their reauthorization of VAWA, S 1925. Not satisfied with the Senate's bill, the House passed their own version. Then we had a standstill. There were reports that they were trying to come to a last minute agreement, but it didn't happe…
/r/MensRights07/01/13 02:18 PM
3

Who in gods name ever thought it went away?
/r/MensRights07/01/13 01:02 PM
3

Specific gender neutral markups here: http://www.saveservices.org/wp-content/uploads/Partner-Violence-Reduction-Act1.pdf
/r/MensRights07/01/13 12:43 PM
3

You forget one thing...the feminists have been wildly successful.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 03:18 AM
27

People always feel comfortable bashing men, but the room has gone silent on several occasions when I call that into question or respond with a back atcha woman based humor. Speak up when you hear sexism, e.g. men are such pigs, messy, smelly, stupid. Women make better polititian, parents, are nicer, smarter, work harder, less whiney. The biggest challenge today is that even as vocal as I am I have to carefully weigh my audience when I defend against blatant misandry at the workplace where it is …
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:10 PM
13

Men are THE primary victims of rape. Every raped woman has a father, a brother, a male acquaintance. To be honest this works better if you imagine it in Hillary Clinton's voice.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 03:56 AM
5

Also, they don't use math.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 03:45 AM
1

It is.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 03:00 AM
-3

They are. It is. You aren't listening.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:54 AM
-4

And your point is?
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:45 AM
-4

Men die everyday, younger and more brutally than women. That's happening here in your own back yard sister.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:28 AM
1

do you support right to life here in the us for the same reason?
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:21 AM
1

The post is a link the actual text of the bill with edits.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:18 AM
1

I'll be on the lookout for anything confirming this or otherwise
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:16 AM
1

DV shelters are still run and staffed by feminists fed from the teat of the DVI and swollen with feminist dogma. But to be sure, hopefully those without bias will hopefully be free to excersize fairness in arrests and shelter.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:10 AM
6

This is the feminist objective...the greatest transfer of money in modern history from men to women, through tax supported initiatives, divorce/alimony/child support rulings, and the massive domestic violence industry (DVI).
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:03 AM
1

That's how I read it, but I imagine there's a stockpile to buffer. Hope not though.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 02:00 AM
1

Alpha males are getting their winnings absconded with. More alpha please.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:55 AM
3

My problem is with the deceit done by these women.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:52 AM
1

did that and biden. Just getting it some attention would be nice. a few minds at a time, a word here and a word there. The big thing is the money going to the fem orgs. That's killing us. I can't compete with my ex wifes free lawyer from her shelter friends.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:34 AM
1

There's a link right there on the pdf as soon as it opens. That takes you to the sign the petition. I've been writing everyone I can think of letters. I wish I had a list of all congressmen addresses in one list I can BCC the same letter to.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:24 AM
3

And to stimulate their emotions. Does that make me bad? Wait, don't care.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:20 AM
1

Thanks. I debated whether to link to the actual petition or the changes. Seeing as this is /MR I figured people would like the proposed changes and find their way to the petition.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:18 AM
6

No
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:13 AM
2

for mixing booze?
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:08 AM
4

Expected. I find myself engaging with feminists to reinforce and energize my activism.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 01:06 AM
1

Have a bill not renewed in congress is like being raped if you think about it.
/r/MensRights06/01/13 12:00 AM
4

Can you imagine the shrieking outrage if the men came out and blamed estrogen?
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:59 PM
1

Sounds like emotional terrorism.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:51 PM
3

I find it energizing.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:50 PM
0

My ex wife was diagnosed with PPD. After being diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Followed by Narcisistic, histrionic. PPD was an excuse to make it more palatable to the judges and child protective services to make sure she's never alone with the children. They excused her violence towards me, and her routine perjury without consequence. She's just a mean, lying, vindictive bitch. It started the day we got married. Nothings changed several years down the road with her behavior.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:41 PM
0

post partum depression = excuse for evil
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:24 PM
2

She should have been locked the fuck up.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:19 PM
4

And there you have it ladies and gentlemen. The woman who killed her child is once again the victim of the state. See my prediction below.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:18 PM
2

No, I wrote that she was convicted of domestic violence and child abuse. I have sole custody, she hasn't seen them in a year (only lives 20 minutes away and I'm willing to pay the visitation center fees) but nevertheless I pay half salary in support to her. I suffered her physical, emotional, and verbal abuse, and now I get shafted by the system. I am righteously angry.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:33 PM
0

Makes sense to me. My wife tried that. I bought the house, the car, and everything in it. My own preferences prevailed. I told her when she got a job and contributed she could buy her own stuff. She told me to go sleep on the couch and I laughed. I told her it was my bed in my house and ill sleep where I damned well please. Clearly marriage was not for me. Good on you.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 07:48 PM
2

Wow.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 03:57 PM
2

Are there slave markets at your school?
/r/MensRights05/01/13 03:50 PM
2

Dunno
/r/MensRights05/01/13 02:31 PM
14

They will somehow turn it into the fathers fault, and blame society as well. We failed her.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 02:06 PM
1

Prostitute
/r/MensRights05/01/13 01:45 PM
4

It boggles the mind. Interesting research paper here on maternal infanticide and female domestic violence http://cdm16324.contentdm.oclc.org/utils/getfile/collection/p15170coll2/id/1456/filename/1457.pdf
/r/MensRights05/01/13 01:30 PM
4

Escort service
/r/MensRights05/01/13 11:47 AM
4

Yeah I can't run it anymore either
/r/MensRights05/01/13 09:01 AM
3

Now I'm confused. You seem to be arguing with your other comment.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:26 AM
2

Sounds way better than mine.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:23 AM
3

Emails to public officials and media outlets. Confront sexism when you see it.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:22 AM
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Down vote?
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:19 AM
1

Or forced him out and is squeezing every dime out of him
/r/MensRights05/01/13 07:59 AM
2

If you are assaulted, call the police.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 07:49 AM
2

I get it, but poorly worded. They complain not enough women in engineering, but no complaints about not enough women in garbage collection, etc.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 07:46 AM
1

Most of the cops I've come across as a result of my ex were supportive of me, and understood the problems men face in divorce. They offered advice and thier testimony should I need it. A couple told me there were many on the force who've been jammed by the divorce/DV industry too.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 06:07 AM
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so do nothing but complain about nothing being done
/r/MensRights05/01/13 01:17 AM
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banned
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:52 PM
3

Here is the authors contact information: http://www.statesman.com/staff/ken-herman/
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:37 PM
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This account still has posting rights but they got some hair trigger downvotes in there. I'm expecting the ban note any second now.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 08:24 PM
4

Sometimes that discourages actions
/r/MensRights04/01/13 07:36 PM
12

Why discourage real activism?
/r/MensRights04/01/13 07:27 PM
5

Keep working!
/r/MensRights04/01/13 07:26 PM
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They probably determined that he seduced her. Women are powerless after all when it comes to suffering any sort of consequence for their actions.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 06:52 PM
4

Or that it wasn't expensive or lavish enough.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 06:46 PM
3

and you should.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 06:43 PM
3

Judges have wide discretion. Alimony and child support guidelines are just that...guidelines. No legal justification required. Only recourse is appeals court, but then I'd have to show that the judge used discretion without authority. Revised Statutes give the judge requisite discretion to do what he did, even if 99/100 other judges might give a different ruling.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 06:24 PM
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If you have joint accounts, joint assets, joint debts, get to work buddy. I started prepearing a couple years early and boy did it pay off. Get your wife to work no matter what. No joint accounts. No joint assets. No joint credit cards or loan documents. Made sure to take my kids to dr appts and for gods sake sign every piece of paper relating to the children...school registration, dr. appts, etc.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 06:05 PM
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write you congressmen. Write the whitehouse. Write your local news channels and national media outlets. They don't read this subreddit, but they need to know. Feminists have had an excellent outreach program and tell everyone they know. They protest, they write letters, they call. MRAs haven't done that in force yet. When we do, watch out. I wrote two letters today.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 05:48 PM
2

good stuff. Unfortunately rather close to how many behave.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 04:20 PM
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Thirded.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 04:10 PM
5

Thank you.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 04:10 PM
1

says the people who stabbed him
/r/MensRights04/01/13 03:07 PM
2

Too open to interpretation e.g. Women need more because women are abused more
/r/MensRights04/01/13 01:57 AM
2

Man attacked and stabbed by group of women is arrested for being a man who was stabbed.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 01:24 AM
1

I disagree. Assault is against the law. Prosecute accrodingly. No special redress for wives and girlfriends.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 01:19 AM
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Same amount of money, same number of beds, same level of services.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 01:18 AM
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That's my impression as well. People don't become bullies overnight.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:58 PM
3

well said
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:49 PM
3

Yes. While she was capable of working, she refused, stating "I am a stay at home mother". The judge aknowledged her ability and refusal to work, apologized to me for the unfairness, and awarded her support.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:21 PM
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No. Removal of references to gender and funding for women only centers and services and removal of anything that suggests men should be arrested based solely on the words of a woman. I'd also like some kind of penalties for false reporting.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:15 PM
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Look another moron trying to shut down another MRA for fuck knows why!
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:54 PM
3

Yes, and the reasons they give have nothing to do with supporting men's rights. Do you have any sources otherwise?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:52 PM
3

Remove references to gender altogether.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:50 PM
1

I checked it out. Good stuff there man... "GOD DAMNIT! I'LL MARRY MYSELF AND BEAT MYSELF IF I HAVE TO! WE NEED MORE FUNDS TO BUY FOOD AND COMBAT THE SEVERE ANOREXIA PROBLEM IN THIS COUNTRY! 190 MILLION WOMEN DIE EACH MINUTE FROM STARVATION! I LOVE YOU! STOP YELLING AT ME! I'M CALLING THE POLICE YOU SON OF A BITCH!"
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:00 PM
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Yup yup. Where's your blog?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:52 PM
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I usually go the reasoned, reasonable, and righteously angry route without the nastiness. I make sure they understand that they are victimizing me and an entire gender. However, nasty is good too.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:50 PM
0

Actionable items. Like!
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:47 PM
3

Naturally.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:45 PM
7

Well I'm gonna write Biden, Obama, and my congressmen anyway. I can't in good concious just sit and wait for the outcome. I might throw in some celebrity pundits. I like getting word to the liberal media that men have issues that need heard.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:42 PM
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I read it left to right. Makes sense to me. The publicized reasons for this not passing is LGBT/Immigrant issues within the bill. Women are claiming this is a gender neutral law, yet also characterise blocking it as continuing the "war on women". It's succinct enough I'm having trouble restating it without quoting it.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:34 PM
1

You nailed it.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:20 PM
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I see from your comment history you speak from experience; In school production of the Wizard of Oz, punched out Glenda the Good Witch (I was a munchkin), with both of us in full costume.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:18 PM
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What can we do to help make sure the next iteration is gender neutral? There will be a next iteration, and it will be soon. The domestic violence industry is too rich and too powerful.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 04:47 PM
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I was thinking that the class struggle was hijacked by the narcissistic feminists. The rich are bellyaching about maybe having to pay their fair share, meanwhile men are being divested of their children, their life savings, their retirements, thier freedom, their place in society, their education, and their dignity.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 04:32 PM
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How does one go about gettng involved in "real-world" activism?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 03:21 PM
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It's the gateway to activism. Also, take a break and come back with another account. That's what I do. In the meantime I write letters, make phone calls, spread the word, and I want the online community to know that I am passionate about the issues and my anger is righteous.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 03:10 PM
6

So you quit?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 03:04 PM
12

There is a huge financial incentive for women to file for divorce. More so if she claims abuse or even just feeling threatened.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 02:58 PM
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The 10 year mark is the golden gate to financial freedom for women. I wonder if the spousal/child abuse reporting rate spikes after 10 years of marriage.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 02:52 PM
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Some people just can't pay what the courts demand. I was married for 3 years and divorced last year. Due to ex's mental illness, conviction for domestic violence, and child services having determined her guilty of child abuse, I have full legal and physical custody of my children. Mother lives twenty minutes away and hasn't bothered to see them in a year. I am ordered to pay her half of my take home salary. This is more than is left over after mortgage, insurance, car payment, utilities. It leav…
/r/MensRights03/01/13 02:34 PM
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Because it's all about the children... From their advice page on custody; (b) Filing for divorce near the 10-year social security spousal entitlement date. If you're married for ten years, and you're the lesser-earning spouse, especially a stay-home spouse, this could mean a lot of retirement money in the future. Don't file for divorce in year 8 or 9 without making this calculation. (c) Not trading in the old car for a new one, not putting braces on the kid's teeth, or not obtaining that electiv…
/r/MensRights03/01/13 02:15 PM
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Nobody said parental alienation doesn't work.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 01:49 PM
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Page not found
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:09 AM
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Why anyone believes women about this crap anymore is beyond me.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:44 AM
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Good god. What's your relationship with her like now?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:01 AM
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Likely she referring to ex husband and children's father as sperm donor.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 01:56 AM
4

Equal rights are a liberal cause. We won this round, but Conservatives didn't do this for men's rights.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 01:45 AM
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Yep. A tangential victory for MRM.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 01:26 AM
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God bless. I do the same on occasion, but it seems like I just get drowned out. Same for other MSNBC sites. I feel it's important though to let other people know there are those of us who will not remain silent in spite of overwhelming rhetoric.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 09:25 PM
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Woohoooooo!
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:59 PM
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I've looked but can't find any of the "real reasons". Nobody seems to want to go on record talking about the sexism in the bill.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:46 PM
1

So joking about beating your spouse is ok for women? Try flipping it the other way...tv personality saying the same thing. It goes towards normalizing the idea, which propogates the acceptance of the action.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:32 PM
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Thanks. I now feel like I've been raped by your words. Is that rape?
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:20 PM
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People seem to disregard this stuff as "just marketing". Well the american people have been marketed to for so long that caretaker=woman. It needs to stop. I am a loving, caring, giving parent, and I do ALL of the earning, shopping and spending on my family. I am a single father whos children have been effectively abandoned by their mother.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 08:17 PM
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Anger is the great motivator, and it's why feminism has been so succesful.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 07:26 PM
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Then you are in the wrong place. Check out the good men project, that's for people like you.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 07:25 PM
0

You reek of estrogen.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 07:23 PM
1

Thank you, I'm with you, and keep fighting this shit please.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 07:22 PM
1

Mandatory fines for lying. That one's gonna hit women right in the pocket book. They'll have to fork over some of their ex-husband's money.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 07:13 PM
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I will not be silenced. I will stand my ground. I will not back down.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 05:55 PM
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Thank you. I do try, and I appreciate your vote of confidence and your support.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 05:51 PM
2

I know about it. I care. Your argument is invalid.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 05:32 PM
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Downvoted, and per your request my input...Fuck you.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 05:28 PM
2

I assume they are included in all men's rights issues, and have an interest in the movement, but no one voice speaks for the MRM. I can answer that I am for everyone having equal rights and equal treatment under the law, with equal consequence and reward systems. I support gay men having the same rights as women and straight men and welome them to the MRM with open arms.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 04:04 PM
2

He raped her.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 10:19 AM
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Sorry, do NOT regret, ever. In fact I vividly recall pacing in the court house just before filing and speaking to the judge. Every man meets his hercules challenge. I met mine well and I fought..hard.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 06:37 PM
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Playing nice didn't work. Egalitarian males have been stripped of their children, their families, their dignity. Appeasment fails. War time is for fighting. Some of us are at war with feminism. I am one. I have been fighint my ex, the courts, and the gender biased domestic violence industry. I am fighting for my family, and by God I will fight with everything I have. To hell with the politically correct so called MRAs who keep trying to shut people up around here and tell them how to behave. We …
/r/MensRights31/12/12 02:09 PM
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Playing nice didn't work. Egalitarian males have been stripped of their children, their families, their dignity. Appeasment fails. War time is for fighting. Some of us are at war with feminism. I am one. I have been fighint my ex, the courts, and the gender biased domestic violence industry. I am fighting for my family, and by God I will fight with everything I have. To hell with the politically correct so called MRAs who keep trying to shut people up around here and tell them how to behave. We …
/r/MensRights31/12/12 02:09 PM
1

I went through four years of that. I can say this...the divorce was wildly expensive, and trying to come to an agreement with someone who feels that entitled is no easy task. My wife was eventualy diagnosed with narcisistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder after I requested psych evals (she opened the door by claiming drug abuse and domestic violence on me, so I reciprocated with the same). It's been going on since August 2010. I won full custody in Feb, 2012. Financial a…
/r/MensRights31/12/12 02:02 PM
0

Hahahahahaha
/r/MensRights29/12/12 08:29 PM
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You reek of estrogen.
/r/MensRights29/12/12 02:33 AM
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That attitude will exclude the most likely act, and leave this movement to the pontificators, and it sounds just like what schools are doing to boys these days...sit down, raise your hand, be nice, be like boys only softer and quieter.
/r/MensRights29/12/12 02:18 AM
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I disagree. I verbalized my feelings and beliefs accurately. Your suggestion that this is retarded is moronic and exclusive. Fuck you and your pussy political correctness.
/r/MensRights29/12/12 02:04 AM
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I have known few examples of women under 60 who are decent, considerate, and honest. This headline represents what I think a fair number of women are like - entitled, vindictive and aggressive bullies. I guess this means I am not welcome by "the entire men's rights movement".
/r/MensRights28/12/12 03:21 PM
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Thank you for speaking for "the entire men's rights movement".
/r/MensRights28/12/12 11:49 AM
1

Too many srs and I missed the sarcasm
/r/MensRights28/12/12 11:25 AM
0

More what than any other crime? More unfortunate? People held more accountable than for any other crime?
/r/MensRights27/12/12 07:44 PM
0

From what I read, it's just too hard for them to do their job.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:46 PM
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The battered women's project won't listen. We need to contact whomever is paying for this drivel with government funds. Also the USDOJ.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:12 PM
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So who do we contact to protest this type of language being supported by government funds?
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:09 PM
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I believe that violence is often the best response to violence. Sometimes prophylactic even.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:01 PM
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Yes, well I'm not sure where you are going with this but while I generally agree with you, I've sacrificed everything for my children, I owe them everything, and I'm not sacrificing them for anything or anybody for any reason. If you suggest that as a father, giving up my children to an insane and dangerous mother or the foster child system is excersizing moral fortitude, then clearly we are on opposite sides of that this is all about. Period.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 02:18 PM
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Tried talking it out. Tried marriage counselling. I cleaned, cooked, took care of me and the kids. If her shit was in the way either moved it to storage, garage, or and after awhile just threw her shit in the trash. Repaired any of my stuff that she broke (windows, holes in the wall, dented cars, etc). Blocked her access to all of my accounts. Divorced her.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 09:19 PM
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My ex-wife quit her job, did no laundry, cooking or cleaning, refused to drive anywhere if I was also going, did not do the grocery shopping or handle any bills. She claimed she was a "stay at home mom" and was focused on teaching and raising and didn't have time for chores.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 08:31 PM
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They need someone to pay for all the stuff they want. You don't expect them to work do you?
/r/MensRights26/12/12 08:03 PM
3

He should quit his job and become a stay at home husband.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 07:59 PM
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For many this isn't a viable option. You you can and you do, god bless. If I don't pay my ex I go to jail. I have full legal and physical custody, and right now I'm not going to risk it. Men need to lobby hard, to protest, to write letters and speak out, to make sure our voices are heard. We need to educate judges and lawmakers. We need to influence the pscyhology departements at colleges and universities to present a balanced persepective. etc.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 07:30 PM
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If her goal is to harrass you, the courts are designed to facilitate her efforts. Move and get a different judge. Also, appeal.
/r/MensRights25/12/12 03:19 AM
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Sorry kids the government grinch says daddy's are bad
/r/MensRights24/12/12 07:32 PM
3

fuck chivalry
/r/MensRights23/12/12 05:49 PM
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And by that time they've lost their children, their home, their life savings, their retirement, possibly their freedom and thier dignity. This paradigm shift does not happen on their 18th birthday or any time soon if it's entrenched. Teach your sons and you daughters differently. I teach my son and daughter equal responsibility, accountability, and consequences, and there are reprimands for "boys are ichy, girls are better" talk and vice versa.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 05:47 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 01:19 AM
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Judges routinely rule whatever they want in family court. You have the option of appealing, but DR judges and magistrates have wide discretion regardless.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 08:30 PM
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